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| 1 | I ended a date early on principle and am regretting it. Do I still have a chance?You say principle, I say you got your feelings bruised. If it was principle, you would have left after dinner, and you wouldn't be on here questioning your choice. Nothing wrong with dating more than one person at a time, but bringing them up on a date like that is weird. But if you're looking for casual fun I'd say go for it, you got literally nothing to lose. | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Male nursesDr. Dick reporting for duty! | /r/seduction | 10/10/25 09:47 AM |
| 0 | How do I reconcile the fact that I’m a virgin (30M) in this modern dating environment?If you're that worried about it; find a sex worker in your area, book a couple of sessions and tell her you're a virgin and want to change that with a girlfriend experience. Let her ease you into your first time(s), taking the performance aspect out of it, and lets you gain some confidence and experience. | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Why self improvement won't solve your dating problemsAbsolutely! I fell victim to the everlasting wheel of self-improvement cause I had to be "good enough to date" before I started actually trying to talk to women. Sure, being reasonably fit, having goals, having a stable income, being well-read, and generally being put together helps. Though it counts for naught if you don't have a social life and know how to speak to people. | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Over 40 years - what are your experiences with sex in hostels?Online dating. Tinder, hinge etc | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 10:33 PM |
| 5 | I want to bring a board game to make my coffee dates better. What are some good games?Or you can go down her chute and then climb the ladders. Play it smart! | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:28 AM |
| 14 | Do you worry that a girl you approach might be too young?If by coincidence a girl under 18 looks mature they usually say "I'm x age" and I bid them a good day. If you get as far as them being interested just say you were going for a drink later and ask them if they want to join you. If it's a coin flip if they could be younger or older just talk to them anyway. Having a lighthearted conversation with a stranger isn't a bad thing even if they would turn out to be underage. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 12:01 AM |
| 10 | Went out alone to the club for the first time - got beaten by social anxietyIt doesn't matter if you can do more or better. As long as you're doing something it is a good thing. Just don't do what I did for years and get hammered at the bar to get the nerve to meet girls. That can quickly turn into alcoholism. Just set 2-3 drinks as your max and do your best! | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | NON-VIRGINS OF REDDIT: Do you think losing your virginity is something special?Yes and no. It's special in the way it's your first time and it can for some people define how you approach and deal with sex in the future. But it's not special because it's some magic seal of approval you lose or give away that one time. Think of it like this: You have already had sex and "lost" your virginity. With that in mind, do you want to have sex with this person? If the answer is yes, do it. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Does causal sex leave you feeling a bit empty?That's why you should try to have some repeat customers or a fwb. The sex is way more satisfying because you know each other better. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 12:46 PM |
| 5 | Looks, money or social status?Depends. If we are going to pretend that these are the only qualities you need to get women we need to define exactly the extent of them. Social status is kind of a throwaway term that holds more complexity. Are you well liked or well known and why? Are we talking among people you know or are you Ryan Reynolds? Are you well liked for your skills, money or personality? The kind you have really matters and is in all its forms hard to get. Looks will take you far, but that is for the most part a ge… | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Women over 40 in the gymThat is a slim chance, even in America. We're here for a good time, not a long time | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Women over 40 in the gymYou can keep to that honor code if you like, but it's optional, just like most things in life. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Women over 40 in the gymThink of it this way. Single moms and married women for that matter might not be looking for anything serious either. Doesn't hurt to bark up the tree. If she wants commitment or has a complicated situation you can back off. However, if she's into it just take her out for drinks or take her home. Moms and older women usually take the direct approach since they don't have the time for bs. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 06:58 PM |
| 10 | Why is everything a man does considered creepy?Most of the time is how you approach, mindset and attitude included. If you're nervous and very focused on the result (sex or a date), you are going to be so in your head about it that the woman can smell your bs from across the parking garage. Also being focused on not being creepy is ironically gonna make you come off as creepy. Just relax and have fun. Humor and a playful attitude will take you far. Edit: One thing that will help you seem genuine is approaching and talking to strange guys as … | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:19 AM |
| -1 | Anybody get told to "be good to her or else"?The only response is: "You know, I was going to furiously slam her in the face with the cupboard door every day for not ironing my shirts properly, but you've convinced me not to" | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Why men have to suffer so much of rejection? Even the attractive men sometimes could find it hard to get matches?Yeah, because you're on tinder for one of 2 things and both have a some expectations riding on them for both parties. That's why you can simoultaneously feel more at ease irl and slip past her guard more. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Why men have to suffer so much of rejection? Even the attractive men sometimes could find it hard to get matches?I do want to point out that dating apps are ironically a worse option for dating for most guys. You have a way higher chance at getting hookups and dates by sliding in the DMs or meeting people through friends and activities. On tinder it's so easy to dismiss people at face value. It isn't everywhere else. On instagram, tiktok, snapchat or irl you have the opportunity to showcase yourself more and If you got some positives going for you she is way more likely to interact with you. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingYou need personality and the guts to go for it. You don't need anything else to get with women. I will say that you need some or all of the other things to get with certain women, but it's ignorant to say that you need all of them to sling some dick. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 07:07 PM |
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