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did you show him this subreddit? if you did, don't do that ever again. You don't want your name associated with this sub.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:44 PM
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You can drop little bits of redpill knowledge here and there. for example if he ever mentions in passing that she isn't responding to texts, just say "she probably has a dick in her mouth. The thing is you can only drop these tidbits of RP knowledge when the conversation is already on that topic otherwise it's ineffective. And even then, the person has to be receptive to it. y'all are young as fuck, he'll probably figure it out to some degree eventually. I predict he'll get super invested in thi…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:42 PM
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Honestly I think she's too young to be "alpha widowed". I know there's no real age that a woman has to be for it to happen, but I think it's what you were saying, she's just 'taking a break'. I bet she hasn't even reached the height of her promiscuity yet. She'll probably find dozens of other guys who give her the tingles. She will definitely get bored of him. She might try tinder, or she'll start going out more as her friends start to get fake i.d.'s/turn 21, dudes will be less reluctant to hit…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:11 PM
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did you just break frame in a reddit thread?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:32 AM
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SMV doesn't work for women the same way it does for men. and I'm not concerned with the public's perception of the chicks I'm involved with. it's my scale, if the public thinks she's a 9 but I think she's ugly and too bitchy to involve myself with, then she's a 4.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 02:42 AM
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y'all are looking way too far into this scale system. It's all subjective. If you think a girl is cuter than 80% of chicks, than that makes her an hb8. Of course personality comes into play too, but that's about it as far as I'm concerned. Looks and personality. who gives a fuck about their instagram followers, or 'status' in general? she can have like zero friends as far as i'm concerned, if she's cute and has a nice personality, then I place her high on the scale
/r/askTRP30/04/18 02:23 AM
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Don't talk about it. Personally, I would hard next because I'm sure she's just putting you off in order to find some other dick. She doesn't take your relationship seriously. If you stay with her now she's going to keep pulling this shit.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:39 AM
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You could either put on an activity yourself and invite some people, say a poker night or something, or whenever you're hanging out at another friends place you could see if it's cool if you have someone tag along. If there are some hiking trails near you, you could try to plan a hike when your different friends are free and see if you can get them all together. good luck, if you have any other questions hmu whenever.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 07:48 AM
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Get involved in some activities where you're going to be around people. Join a martial arts gym, in my experience jiu jitsu tends to have the friendliest people, but generally people are pretty friendly in most martial arts. If you show up consistently you'll probably make some friends after a while You could see if theres an olympic lifting coach around that has group classes. Same here, show up consistently and you'll probably make friends. If you aren't already working and you have time for i…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 04:26 AM
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because i knew i could fuck them up if they disrepected me in any way shape or form This isn't what martial arts is about. Reminds me of a quote by a swordsman named Miyamoto MusashiThe, "the ultimate goal of martial arts is not having to use them" If someone is being disrespectful, it's better to let them think they're a hardass than risk someone getting seriously injured. Even if it makes you look like a punk. So what if people think you're a bitch for not choking/knocking out some loudmouth? …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 10:07 AM
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Not every acronym you see in the comments or in posts are in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 12:20 AM
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I wouldn't even engage. I'd probably just say "ok" and go back to talking to the girls. you don't even need to acknowledge his presence. Think about how sad someone's existence has to be to get drunk, eavesdrop on people while they talk to girls, and then try to diss them when they decide not to spend money on a chick they don't even know. You aren't entitled to buy them anything. I don't think your approach was ruined by what he said and I also don't think he successfully managed to pitch the g…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:42 PM
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What would you personally do in that situation?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 11:56 AM
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Just tell her that it's over because that dynamic isn't good for you and mean it. That dynamic really isn't good for you. You can't just dip out on a relationship and keep your partner waiting like that, that's not how relationships work. If you agree to this deal here, you're basically telling her "I'm ok with you cutting our romantic ties whenever you see fit, and I'm ok with you keeping me waiting while I sit around with my thumb up my ass"
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:58 AM
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we speak a lot on the phone which I know is ill-advised definitely, you're giving a little bit and she's wanting more. Make it clear that you're more than happy to spend time talking to her in person, but try to seem a bit busier when she tries to phone you. There's nothing wrong with talking on the phone to check in, but just try not to be talking on the phone all the time. This doesn’t sound like a lot to ask for from her perspective when you consider mainstream social conventions mainstream s…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 02:26 PM
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wasn't your fault. your social skills are already better than hers. It also definitely depends on where you're from. I'm from the south, in my town it's customary to smile and greet strangers if you happen to make eye contact. when I visited the northeast I got a lot of weird looks for doing that. at one point I was like yo these people are dicks, and my friends just told me "yeah it's a lot different up here, people don't usually acknowledge eachother" Maybe that chick is from new york lmao. ei…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:40 AM
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one solution other than suicide is to just learn from this experience. I understand that autism is something that you're going to struggle with your whole life, and that's going to make your journey that much more difficult for you. But you recognize where you went beta, so now you have a chance to keep that from happening again. I want you to understand that we can't always go to our safe place. This goes for someone with autism as well as someone who doesn't have it. If we always go to our saf…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 06:57 AM
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she missed me and was feeling like we were growing apart Crazy how when a woman is the one holding out, telling her this is just going to lower you in her eyes, and she'll just say something like ""oh I'm sorry, we're not growing apart I've just been busy. You have nothing to worry about" without actually giving a shit. That's the point where she starts texting chad.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:21 PM
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now see that's just beta
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:13 PM
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see that's an alpha trait woof woof motherfucker
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:03 PM
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alpha/beta is a spectrum. behaviors are typically either one or the other. the spectrum mostly just describes how strongly you carry yourself. you can certainly be right in the middle but everything you do is going to either come across as alpha or beta to most people. it doesn't matter whether you're a "lone wolf" or if you identify as part of a large social circle, your actions and frame are constantly under scrutiny, by everyone. even your mother.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 01:54 PM
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I wouldn't mind. They're doing their job.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 12:36 AM
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positive energy will rub off on me and I won't be able to sustain my anger. Bro maybe that's what you need. Why on earth would you want to sustain anger? I know TRP preaches to get pissed and harness your anger as a fuel source towards progression, and that's a great way to harness your masculine energy to better yourself. But that doesn't mean you need to make a point of trying to stay angry about a breakup. And allowing her positive vibes to rub off on you isn't really that bad, when TRP talks…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 08:30 AM
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"don't wanna sound like a nofapper"? Why wouldn't you wanna sound like someone who doesnt yank his dick in a bathroom? I'm pretty sure it's a good thing to be a nofapper. You basically just said you want to sound like a fapper
/r/askTRP15/01/18 02:42 AM
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I mean it might be that they don't value having you around anymore, but there have been times where I was part of a group and we didn't invite someone out with us, but we didn't realize that nobody had invited that person until it was too late. And by then we were like "damn how'd we forget to invite so-and-so" But either way, it's all speculation, which is worthless. I would say you should just give it some time and see how you feel about contacting them in the future. If you decide you never w…
/r/askTRP20/12/17 09:15 AM
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Dude I'm just confused about how you moved to another country and you still give a shit about this situation either way. Like I get that you're moving back and will be involved in that group of friends again but at this point I think you should ask yourself why you are even posting about this, because it shouldn't really matter. Even if it was the wrong thing to do and makes you look like a pussy (which it isnt, and doesnt) You shouldn't really care enough about her anymore to be pondering that
/r/askTRP20/12/17 08:43 AM
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Lol you should have taken the money and bought a drink for yourself
/r/askTRP23/11/17 09:07 PM
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I think you should have just gone over since you already had plans. If her parents answered and acted surprised you were there, you could just say "Oh ___ and I had plans, I thought she was going to tell you"
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:39 AM
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I think that some parents want to know who's over That's perfectly reasonable. The shit test was the part where she wasn't actually telling her parents, and was almost being defiant about it. She didn't forget to tell her parents, she just wanted to see how you'd react when you found out she hadn't done it yet. The reason I say her parents shouldn't be a part of the equation in your mind is that it's on her to let them know who's coming, not you.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:28 AM
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Ok so first off, you came across as desperate by reminding her multiple times to let her parents know. Just tell her when you're coming once, there's no need to remind her that you're coming over. If she hasn't told her parents by the time you arrive, that's not your issue. If they end up making you leave, then you can see if she wants to leave with you and go out to eat or mini golf or whatever, and if she doesn't want to leave with you then you next her. The whole thing about her needing to te…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:20 AM
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but I only entertain her because she's the only pussy availible to me at the moment. You're acting like pussy is important. It's not.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 09:39 PM
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So maybe it's the bartender, maybe it's her boyfriends 'best friend'. Or maybe it's some dude on reddit with the handle "LiveAFTSOV"... Don't make the mistake of thinking you 'made' your plates/fwbs get IUDs. They did it because they thought it was a good idea. You're probably not the only dude fucking them.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 12:54 AM
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Lol is everybody just gonna start calling eachother incels now?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 07:35 PM
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He didn't say anything about her being pregnant. She had an IUD. Do you honestly think simply being with an attractive woman means you aren't bluepilled? This guy was probably her source of security, the dude she decided to settle down with after her 20's to make sure everything goes smoothly once she starts to get ugly. Chicks with IUD's are usually fucking the bartender.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 06:44 PM
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Break up with her.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:07 AM
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Everybody here treats it like a salad bar.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 12:50 AM
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You don't have to choose between cardio and lifting Lift 3 days a week. Don't use machines, do barbell movements. Squats, deads, bench, barbell rows, military press. Find someone to teach you some olympic style lifts if you don't already know them. run 1 mile twice a week. try to run the mile in less than 7 minutes. Do one sprint session a week. Warm up properly for the sprints or you might pull a muscle. You can find some good sprint workouts using google. Don't focus on losing 3 lbs a week. If…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 01:08 PM
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This is long, but I hope you read it all anyways. Sometimes I think I should be dead. From the ages 17-21, I was a MASSIVE drinker. It was bad. I'd go through bottles of everclear, vodka, gin, all by myself. I would drink 20 Lone Star beers in a night, often. I had some periods of sobriety scattered throughout,but for the most part, ages 17-21 I was getting black out drunk 2-3 times a week. Therapy/AA was not what ended up working for me. It my have pushed me in the right direction, but I didn't…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 01:12 AM
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I sure as shit would.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:01 AM
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(was I supposed to pretend like I didn't care?) You'll know you're making progress once you legitimately don't care. That's called outcome independence. But I don't mean you don't care as in "oh you don't wanna fuck? alright well then lets just cuddle and watch Friends!" I mean don't care as in, "alright, you don't want to fuck, I understand. but sex is important to me so I don't think we're going to be very compatible." and then onto the next one. Then the ball is in her court, she can either d…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 03:10 AM
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Why were you egging them on? that could have gone seriously bad for you dude. Bad decision making on your part. Also pretty douchey. Making fun of their voices? Calling them gay? C'mon bro. That is definitely not redpill behavior. You were acting anti-social. If I were out at a pool with a friend, and he did the things you said you did, I'd definitely just pack my shit up and leave. Nobody wants to be around that shit, you're too old to be acting like that. You weren't showing dominance through …
/r/askTRP29/10/17 11:54 PM
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You only hear about it if you're really heavy into the manosphere and/or spend a lot of time having your ear talked off by feminists If your only manosphere interaction comes from the TRP subreddit, you probably won't hear this stuff. This same rhetoric has been pushed since way before this massacre happened. "We need to teach our boys not to rape people!" As if they couldn't figure that out themselves. I'm not really into the manosphere outside of this subreddit, I've just stumbled across some …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 07:57 AM
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Trying to kill all the other men int the cave is a good way to get yourself killed by all the other men in that cave
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 02:14 PM
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Make sure to make the threat while eating a banana and making intense eye contact. Also breath heavily the whole time.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:47 AM
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I'd date a chick who goes out alot but I wouldn't be in an exclusive relationship with one. Good food for thought, make sure she knows what kind of lifestyle you live and that you don't think a chick with a "going out and drinking" lifestyle would be a good match for you
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:43 AM
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Well this is all hypothetical, like I said it's not happening to me. But in the scenario I'd imagine I'd be her boyfriend. I'd actually probably just ask her why she's asking for my permission. I'm personally not too worried about this sort of thing, I'm just curious as to what other people's opinion on this is because I disagreed with the post I quoted but it got a lot of upvotes. It seems like everyone in this thread also disagrees with that post
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:41 AM
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How is it different than if she TELLS you though? Same principle, IDGAF, right? It doesn't matter how alpha you are you're going to deal with shit like this anyways, unless you get lucky and find your unicorn. Or if you just don't engage in LTRs, which probably describes a lot of people here. Another thing to think about is that if she does go out and cheat, you'll probably never know she cheated. Unless her girlfriends decide to out her for it which is unlikely. Everything is a shit test.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 08:20 AM
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I'm generally a pretty docile guy. Quiet, easy going, etc... So docile in fact, that it's probably a turn off to a lot of women. But the other day, my manager did something that pissed me off. Without breaking frame, I mentioned that I was pissed off to a female coworker. My entire demeanor had changed. As soon as I got a chance, I called my manager on it. I didn't make a big production out of it, but I spoke my mind and I did it in front of everyone who happened to be around. I didn't care who …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 04:19 AM
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If she's been contacting you MORE, that's obviously a good sign and other than what we've talked about, there isn't much you really needed to do differently. The fact that she kept saying there'd be no relationship even though you never brought it up means she was thinking about it on her own. She might actually want one with you. Although a long distance one isn't a good idea. If she was that drunk, you could have simply said "we'll talk more once you've sobered up" and made her sleep on the co…
/r/askTRP05/10/17 06:23 AM
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How drunk was she? Does your roommate know her too? if so, how well?
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:13 AM
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Got pissed she was talking to another dude his pals and ran off on our group at a party Never get pissed at stuff like this. I tell her it's shitty to go out with a guy on his birthday then just run off to a table with some other guys Don't try to hold her accountable for her actions. It won't work. Simply create distance any time she pulls something like this so she knows that she doesn't get to act that way and still hang around. The only way she can redeem herself is by sucking your dick. Alt…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 11:15 PM
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Texting a little later and told her that I'm glad she had fun and that if she didn't live 400 miles away I'd ask her what she's up to next weekend. Don't do stuff like this. Out of sight, out of mind. Even if you actually ARE thinking about her... She doesn't need to know that. Sending that text accomplished nothing. Texting women is only useful to set up a meetup.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 11:05 PM
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Google reviews are usually pretty good, but they don't seal the deal. You could research the head trainer. Most places offer a free class or a free week or whatever. The trainer will probably ask how much experience you've had in that art. In striking sports, the trainers at a safe gym will usually tell you to train for about 6 months before you start sparring. If they try to just throw you into sparring, it's not a good gym for beginners. ~6 months of going to the gym 2-4 times a week based on …
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 07:26 AM
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If you have the right training partners and coaches you can be sure you won't get fucked up ahead of time. two of my striking gyms place a lot of emphasis on making sure the beginners are well taken care of during sparring by doing the following: firstly, the coaches will usually try to pair the new guy with one of the more experienced guys. The more experienced guys are better at controlling pace and know how to dial back the power. second, if the new guy is getting hit too much to the head, th…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 08:34 PM
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some people like metaphors n shit. Alot of people in this sub anyways.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 03:57 AM
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These people don't realize that TRP isn't a solid thing. It's not us telling eachother how to treat women, it's a set of tools that we can pick and choose from. The biggest red pill philiosophies are the ones that have nothing to do with women, holding frame, staying disciplined, and being honest enough with yourself to know where you need to improve... I discovered TRP when I was trying to understand why women treated me the way they did. Now that I've made progress, I could give two shits abou…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 07:32 AM
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Don't hate him, but don't just throw your hands up and let him have her because you think you can't compete. Also realize that once you all graduate, most likely none of you are going to ever see eachother again, so just have fun. Go and talk to her whenever you can, but don't think about it too much when you can't. Try to get her number, and when you arrange plans try to do it in person. Focus on yourself above all else. Your own self improvement is infinitely more important than getting her. t…
/r/askTRP14/09/17 03:03 AM
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Isn't the entire sidebar basically just a list?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 12:47 AM
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No problem. And when you give a false reason about why you hadn't responded, remember to make it believable but also kind of "extravagant". Think ahead with your lies, about what kind of questions she'd ask if you said you went to he bahamas for example, but also make it brief. Almost like you had fun but don't care enough to talk about it. If you feel bad about making shit up like that, that's good. It means you have morals. But just ask yourself if you think the woman you're talking to would h…
/r/askTRP19/08/17 12:18 AM
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Your first mistake was going to study with her, and actually trying to study. The vast majority of the time when a girl does an activity with a guy, it's because she wants his dick, or she wants to feel him out more to decide whether or not she wants his dick. She gave you an opportunity to game her and you didn't, and as soon as she took note of that she was already onto the next guy. Second mistake was apologizing for it, especially via text. First of all, you did nothing you needed to apologi…
/r/askTRP15/08/17 06:00 AM
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This isn't a victory for men's rights. It's a victory for the father and the daughter who is now guaranteed to have at least one loving parent. I'm positive the father and daughter are going to have a great relationship, I'm happy for them.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 08:08 PM
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I've gone through this cycle before. Just don't go on it. There's no trick or RP method to this, it's as simple as not logging in on any of those websites. And to correct you, social media can be a great tool for increasing your PERCEIVED value. Those people who have thousands of friends, are always posting selfies and getting hundreds of likes, and have a fuckton of "interesting photos" on their account? These people have perceived value. Sure some of them may have real value, but they use soci…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 12:39 PM
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Ok, keep it that way. It does make sense to use a joint account for bills if you're going to be living together, but put that off until you're sure she isn't cheating. And if that's the case then use it only for bills and nothing else. For right now, establish a little distance and just focus on self improvement.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 08:03 AM
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Do you already have a joint checking account?
/r/askTRP15/07/17 06:52 AM
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Same, used to spend all day playing video games. It's kind of sad to me actually, the amount of kids who just shut themselves in their rooms and play video games. My brother is like this and it's just devastating to me because I know the damage that it does. That being said, I do enjoy some xbox live with my old buddies who all live in different cities. Video games bore the hell out of me these days, it's probably because I oversaturated my brain with all that shit when I was younger. But when I…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:13 PM
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No. At 25, there really isn't much you're too old for. You could start a successful acting career if you wanted. You could become a musician. You could become an athlete. Or a journalist. You're still young as fuck, dude. Just apply yourself and you still have time for just about anything.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 01:24 AM
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I don't think there should be an age requirement.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 09:33 AM
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I don't understand why there would even be an age limit. If anything the younger you are the more you might need it, this technological age really fucks with the process of transitioning into a man.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 09:32 AM
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Shit bro, I recently read that and I don't know if I'd call him a boss. "Opening holes in your enemies' reputations and letting them hang in public opinion" seems a bit cowardish to me. It's the type of thing I'd expect from an alcoholic sorority girl. "Get others to do the work for you, but always take the credit" Simply can't respect that. "Learn to keep people dependent on you" Sounds like an inferiority complex to me. "pose as a friend, work as a spy" Coward. I can see how these guidelines c…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 04:24 AM
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I never said anything about "calling dibs"
/r/askTRP08/03/17 08:43 PM
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In that state with nothing better to do I would take about some of my "friends" flaws while they were not present. Drama created by others is much different than drama created by you. If your housemates create the drama, it's pretty simple to just observe and chuckle while you continue to just do you. You don't have to contribute to be amused. I agree that it was a mistake for him to feed into that. The comment you responded to was simpy me saying that it can be amusing to watch other people run…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 05:54 PM
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If you're friends with a guy and he can't close on a chick, I don't think you should swoop down and close for him.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 05:40 PM
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but drama is funny and entertaining lol
/r/askTRP08/03/17 05:21 PM
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Watch how the mother treats the father. That will always be a sure sign of how she will ultimately expect you to respond. This is very accurate. Before I discovered TRP, I had extreme oneitis for this chick. This chick was actually pretty ok to be with for about a year. But her mother would yell at her father for shit like not having the dishes put away by the time she was home n shit like that. Eventually this chick realized I wasn't going to be like her father and always cave for the pussy. Ho…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 01:02 PM
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She might be one in a million in terms of self awareness... But she's still just like every other girl out there. She said it herself.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 08:22 AM
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Have you ever noticed that if you try to get a girls number when she's with her friends, she immediately looks at each of them, trying to figure out what they think about it before making a decision?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 11:26 PM
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Lifting weight will also burn fat.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 05:59 AM
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She's obsessing over why she wasn't chosen for a relationship with commitment and then turns right around says she just wants to hook up and date casually. Talk about hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 06:18 AM
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I find that my more red-pill friends seem to have a harder time just letting loose and having fun. I don't know what it is. But if we're just at a bar hanging out or at a party or something and there are women around, it's almost like they're on a mission or some shit. They start acting competitive and try too hard to be the "AMOG" or whatever. If a lady happens to wander over to our group they get this "let me handle this" type mentality even though they're the only person trying to get laid lo…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 01:18 PM
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Before you decide if you want to compete, start sparring regularly. Of course, that's the closest thing to competing. Sparring regularly will give you a taste of the types of work and work volume that boxing demands, and it'll give you a taste of the kinds of sacrifices you're going to have to make. I don't want to tell you that you shouldn't find boxing fun, but I'm on the fence about the word "fun". Forgive me for getting caught up in semantics but boxing isn't like basketball or football. Tho…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 06:16 AM
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I would just think of any male in a first mate role and know they want to be captain of the ship. If I ever fuck up I'm gonna get thrown out and they're next in line. I think of like this: They're the first mate of my ship and the captain of their own.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 11:22 PM
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If you have a top-tier coach, I'd honestly say maybe try doing it more seriously. If it's something you're passionate about, that is. I personally have never looked at martial arts as fun. When you think about it, if you lose in a match/sparring, it simply means the that your opponent could have probably killed you if it were a real fight.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 06:57 PM
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Tbh you sound pretty blue pill with your post and comments I'm totally new to the whole red pill mentality, that should go without saying man. I've explicitly said that in many of my posts/comments. Who cares anyway? You don't owe her your time and attention just because she's "a kind soul" Anyways, I totally DO care. But maybe I shouldn't... My question is basically what do I say when I know that she's a kind soul? Like do I just respond as though she were a bitch soul, or what? I have a female…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:28 AM
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You're the last one who texted her and she ignored you but you feel bad for not double texting? yes. But I wil say the last text I sent wasn't very important. Sometimes she double texts me, and sometimes I can't respond as quickly as I'd like to. And she always seems concerned about my (and others') well-being. There aren't a lot of chicks like that. but maybe you're right, maybe I shouldn't give a flyin fuck. I just do because she seems like such a kind-hearted person, like I've said before... …
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:06 AM
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I think we need a more updated "Glossary of Redpill terms" I've found so many terms in posts both here and at /r/TheRedPill that I didn't understand. With some, I was able to figure it out myself. But with others, I wasn't. I have no specific examples, but I know I'm not the only one who's experienced this.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:37 AM
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Then put her in your spreadsheet and message her maybe in 90 days AT LEAST and repeat every 90 to 120 days. God damn dude this is exactly what my old oneities did to me. It's funny to think that I was gamed like this by a woman lol I was more redpill before she tried this on me than afterwards, she wasn't my oneities until she hit me up out of the blue months after I'd decided I wasn't sexually attracted. I just sort of felt like if she'd stick around and be interested in how I'm doing months af…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:55 AM
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I mean I enjoy them about as much as I can. I've learned not to treat them how I'd like to because that never seemed to work. And stupid analogies aside, it's about seeing the "red pill" or reality for itself and then deciding a strategy that you feel is optimal given your desires. Agreed there, it's called the red pill for a reason. I don't think most people like the reality of it. I know I don't. But I'm young. As in sometimes bars triple-check my ID because I look like a high schooler type yo…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:48 AM
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I never said it "should" disgust me, but it just does. They're adults man. Maybe it's because I didn't fully swallow the pill until recently, but I just think adults should be their own captains. The fact that they openly and willingly think of someone else as their own captain makes it clear that they have some sort of fantasy that seems a little sick in my mind. I understand that I can benefit from taking advantage of that fantasy, but it's still off-putting to me No woman who willingly calls …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:04 AM
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ok, that makes sense. this might be a blue-pill mindset but; I genuinely feel bad not asking how she's been the past 5 days, I actually care about this chick and haven't had to deal with many shit tests from her. Should I still keep a policy of not asking how she's been? She almost always asks me how I've been and I think she has a kind heart.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 07:18 AM
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I just hadn't texted her because last time we texted I sent the last text and expected her to respond but she didn't so I just decided to wait for her to text me
/r/askTRP16/02/17 07:06 AM
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I think this is a quality you develop extremely well if you train in a martial art or multiple martial arts. Especially if you compete. Just another reason to pick up martial arts. When I don't feel like giving it my all on leg day, I remind myself that I didn't have the power to properly execute my favorite takedown on Chad last time I rolled jiu jitsu. Or if I don't want to finish a run, I remind myself that I gassed out in the last round of sparring at the boxing gym. Just thinking about thos…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 04:29 AM
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If you want to have a thought provoking conversation you have to talk like you have all the answers. It can't be a two-way discussion with a woman. It just won't work. You have to be the "Captain". btw it literally disgusts me how red pill women refer to their SO's as their "captain"
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 04:17 AM
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yeah I've had women enjoy phone calls and then suddenly not like one. sometimes the one they didn't enjoy was the last time I ever talked to them lol. sometimes it wasn't the last one. I've also had women not enjoy the first phone call but then enjoy subsequent ones. I'm just going off how the conversation flowed and the vibe. I really have no way of knowing for sure if they liked a conversation but I just assume they liked it when theres spunk in their voice and they continuously elaborate on t…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:59 AM
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Idk, it's just whenever I enjoy talking to someone I don't really mind being called by them randomly. Whether its one of the bros or some chick who I have chemistry with. Likewise that's why I sometimes feel the urge to call someone. If I'm just cooking food or waiting on food at a restaurant during lunch hour and eating by myself, sometimes I just want a quick chat. I know whenever I get someone who I enjoy spending time with on the phone, it's always an enjoyable converstion. It's not much of …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:05 AM
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lmao @ telemarketer analogy, that's funny but it sort of puts it into perspective I guess
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:59 AM
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Can someone explain when it is or isn't acceptable to just call a girl out of the blue?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 11:45 PM
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You have her up on this pedestal and no woman should be on a pedestal like that. Maybe she really is as cool as you say, a "unicorn" of sorts. But she's really young, and I promise you she'll change sooner or later. She's gonna meet Chad in math class or some shit and his mix of charm and talent are going to give her pussy the tingles. He's gonna live maybe 15 minutes away from her. then she'll meet Brad at the supermarket and it's gonna be the same story. Then she'll meet Joe, etc.... none of t…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 05:22 PM
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Idk man the gym is an interesting thing. I've found myself "moving near" someone who i found mildly attractive, but not worth talking to, so many times it's not even funny. It's happened with the same person more than once, too. but the thing is, I'm never PURPOSELY moving near anybody, if that happens it's just because whatever I'm doing next happens to be really close to them. not saying they aren't checking you out, just something to consider. Also factor in the size of your gym.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 06:58 AM
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Well i need to listen to someone huh?
/r/askTRP10/02/17 03:47 PM
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Thanks, this one comment chain has already helped me loads. I appreciate you man.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 03:41 PM
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I truly believe that I am some sort of buried treasure. Call me narcissistic, but I don't think I'm wrong
/r/askTRP10/02/17 03:35 PM
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well thanks for the feedback man, I'll definitely have to take that into consideration.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 03:33 PM
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so she'd see me as a toy up on a rack for her dog?
/r/askTRP10/02/17 03:27 PM
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Is it a good idea to sometimes approach women just to see if you can get their number even if you don't really plan on following up once you have it? either in a coworker/classmate situation or otherwise
/r/askTRP23/01/17 12:10 AM
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