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Thanks for the help. And yes...more detail. She respects me on everything else. She isn't late anymore mostly when we go places together. The problem today is that she is helping a friend. I told her she needed to leave at 4pm sharp to get home on time and to be stern about it. She said no problem. She is very passive and didn't. She has a hard time saying no to people. She is still there trying to help her finish up. Texting me every five minutes that they are almost done or that the computer f…
/r/askMRP28/04/18 10:21 PM
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I have that when we are going somewhere together....works perfectly. Left her behind a few times. I am willing to enforce the boundary that she did not respect my time....but how? That's what I'm scratching my head over.
/r/askMRP28/04/18 10:03 PM
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We have one. Obviously not last minute...I tried her. Just don't depend on the wife to be on time anymore and set it up in advance? Should I say anything to the wife when she gets back? Punishment for crossing the boundary.
/r/askMRP28/04/18 10:01 PM
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Well written...his SMV must have been an 11 at the time to her. Complicated issue. Was he doomed all along or is there a measurable change in the dynamic?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 02:01 AM
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I knew the minute I posted that somebody would sling my balls up over that one. I don't think of it is a contract but maybe a bonus. Shitty thinking though still. Thank you.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 08:53 PM
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Yeah...it's close. She's never been as sensitive to her cycle timing as a lot of women I have been with, except during shark week obviously. It's really hard to plan babysitters, but I'll take a look at the calendar for next month. But what do I do tonight now that I moved heaven and Earth to get the baby sitter in the 1st place.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 08:44 PM
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But now what?
/r/askMRP19/01/18 08:35 PM
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Good thought...makes sense with the timing.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 08:27 PM
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I finished the sidebar, including SGM. Dropped 30lbs. Lift 3-5 days/week. Nice biceps, visible 6-pack...not huge but more like an underwear model. I am leading in the bedroom. Anything in SGM doesn't seem to do much for her. I can get it whenever I want...that's not the problem. I think I voluntarily choose that frequency because it's just basic starfish and kind of boring. She eyerolls and winces whenever I try something new. I push through but she just flops. She never gets into it/kinky about…
/r/askMRP11/10/17 12:35 AM
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I totally get that....I made one little comment about a purple shirt she had like 6 years ago and she hasn't worn it since. She knows I don't judge. Good idea though.
/r/askMRP05/05/17 10:09 PM
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Check Check My game is great. I can catch and release with ease. Constantly flirting and getting responses. Wife sees this and is relatively unaffected. The biggest thing I have learned on here and the sidebar is that "you can't negotiate desire."
/r/askMRP05/05/17 01:57 AM
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Hmmmmm...if I'm being honest, I don't really care what she wants. Rather, I feel as though I have little power because I can't create desire. I want to dominate and have power in this area, because that makes me whole. If any of that makes sense....
/r/askMRP05/05/17 01:35 AM
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I don't want her to act like anything. I want her to act like she genuinely wants to. I am missing that sexual power...that trigger...that makes her want to be a slut.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 08:52 PM
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Fucking awesome....thanks!
/r/askMRP04/05/17 06:12 PM
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Cut weight over last year with a healthy diet....lost 15 pounds....started really packing on muscle last few months. 6'1" 185. Not a bodybuilder by any stretch....but you'd say underwear model.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 05:38 PM
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I can't seem to trigger what makes her tick sexually so to speak.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 05:30 PM
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Not a dom bone in her body. We always have good sex...not great. Multiple orgasms. She seems unaffected from being driven "wild" sexually.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 05:29 PM
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Good point! Stay in frame.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 05:24 PM
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That may be a really good fucking point! Cure?
/r/askMRP04/05/17 05:07 PM
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Her actions. For the most part, pretty starfish with any kind of dominance.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 04:58 PM
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Swallowed the pill June 2016. Gone to dread level 8...I also get flirted with constantly in front of her. She has amazing self-confidence and is amused by it. More dread you think? Backlash? Sidebar and MAP are run.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 04:35 PM
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I have....seems to be fairly impervious.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 04:21 PM
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You have to ask yourself that question, in the context of everything in your marriage, your family and your happiness if it's worth it.
/r/askMRP23/03/17 03:38 PM
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It's the point of it brother. No, you aren't playing and it's not a card. It's a simple fucking choice. Grow the fuck up or get out. You and your kids deserve better than a 5yo wife/mother/girl that steals shit. She'll see that and maybe wake up. If she grows up and steps up, it will be because you're not bluffing. If she doesn't, you have to follow through. If she doesn't, it was never going to work out. Being nice, waiting and patient will only get you shit on brother.
/r/askMRP23/03/17 03:35 PM
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Going to try and rewrite your fantasy script. In this scene, you have already lined up your ducks with a good attorney and are prepared for the worst. The part of you will be played by Chuck Norris. You: Where did my pictures go? Her: Blah blah blah hate your family... You: Hahaha obviously not true. Stop acting like a 5 year old. Her: Blah blah blah I'm not telling. You: Eyes squint. Cue tumbleweed I don't have time for this shit. I'll be back in 2 hours. If they are not on my desk then, it's d…
/r/askMRP23/03/17 02:22 PM
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Good read! Kind of opposite but good info nonetheless.
/r/askMRP23/03/17 12:12 AM
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I'm not at all passive. Just calm and collected about it. No need to bark all the fucking time to assert myself. She respects my leadership completely....but it's a fine line between leading and controlling. If I said "come on, we have shit to do" she would get up to come along and then start DEER-ing her list out at me for 2 hours about everything she did and has to do. That is a good point that she knows what needs to be done. I need to realize that. Hmmmmm....I think you actually just helped …
/r/askMRP22/03/17 09:52 PM
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That is very true.
/r/askMRP22/03/17 09:24 PM
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Covert contracts? True. Not passive-aggressive, however, I hate that shit. Just asking her. Good thoughts to consider. Thanks!
/r/askMRP22/03/17 09:24 PM
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Rereading my spew and yea, it does seem like that.
/r/askMRP22/03/17 08:26 PM
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Yeah...very fucking true.
/r/askMRP22/03/17 08:25 PM
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That is good advice. Thanks man!
/r/askMRP22/03/17 08:01 PM
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I don't try nor want to control her. That's the point of it. If I wanted to be a controlling cunt I would tell her to fuck off her business and help more taking care of the house and kids. I would demean her and tell her she doesn't make shit compared to me. I don't because I'm mostly not a cunt and I want her to kick ass at life too. I just feel like she hides in her work with her hamsters.
/r/askMRP22/03/17 08:00 PM
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You will never ever know that for sure though and they are brilliant about lying about it and trying to coddle you to make you feel superior to past lovers. Just the way it is. It's a good goal and is important, but not realistic and/or verifiable. If she passes your other tests, just focus on being an awesome alpha. Leave this issue alone. Trust me.
/r/askMRP20/03/17 07:31 PM
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I can take a crack at this from personal experience, although it may not be what you want to hear. If you are doing the sidebar, keeping your frame, maintaining your appearance...ie..."owning your shit" to be attractive....it shouldn't fucking matter. Why does it really matter? The reason you can't get over it? You are thinking with a BETA mindset. You feel insecure about your place in line. "Am I the biggest....Am I the best." None of that fucking matters and you'll never get the truth anyway, …
/r/askMRP20/03/17 03:11 PM
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Nice link, very familiar. Thank you.
/r/askMRP17/03/17 02:17 PM
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Great fucking advice! Thanks!
/r/askMRP17/03/17 05:00 AM
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Add on to ride home convo...first thing...she didn't really understand why we left abruptly. I said he was kinda nuts/trying to pick a fight....then the rest.
/r/askMRP17/03/17 04:49 AM
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That's a great idea...I get it.
/r/askMRP17/03/17 04:45 AM
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Good point. I was quiet on the ride home. She asked what happened. I bitched a little. Inside I was seeing red and kinda felt like a cunt. Few sentences. "What a douchebag...what's wrong with him?" She agreed and could tell ever so slightly he got under my skin. I left it like that and regret saying anything at all. Hadn't said anything else since. However, got a new haircut yesterday and she asked if it was because C was busting my balls about my hair. Laughed and said something like "I don't t…
/r/askMRP17/03/17 04:43 AM
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It was odd. I might be dense but missing what AM is....?
/r/askMRP17/03/17 03:59 AM
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Good point. It's hard to see it myself from the outside.
/r/askMRP17/03/17 03:45 AM
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Good analysis, very true. He was kind of a POG...rear guy. Any PTSD or post-aggression on his part was imagined. S and I were in the field often over there while C was back on base with an Admin job. Still, something felt cunty and unsatisfying afterward. What would Chuck Norris do?
/r/askMRP17/03/17 03:43 AM
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That's the true shit. Dude needs counseling or something. Thanks!
/r/askMRP17/03/17 03:22 AM
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