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You did everything perfect. In my experience, women ask for Snapchat when they are unsure about you. This is usually because you don't have enough photos or maybe there is one bad photo they are concerned about. Since you ride motorcycles, I'd bet you have photos with a helmet on which doesn't let her see your face. If I am completely wrong about that I apologize, but that's just been from my experience.
/r/seduction17/03/17 11:31 PM
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The beauty of tinder is you don't need a social circle to be social with it although it does help to have other people in yours photos. If you want I can review your profile and send you my mine.
/r/seduction08/02/17 02:22 AM
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For me it was changing my hairstyle. My entire life I had gone with the bowl cut/Bieber look because it was low maintenance and I was comfortable with it. The idea of styling my hair never even came to mind. One day I realized I had no clue what I looked like with it up and just started playing with it. It really began to sink in that I could look/be whoever I wanted if I put the effort in. Similarly I remember saying to myself that I shouldn't try this/branch out on that because "I want someone…
/r/seduction05/02/17 04:09 PM
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It's definitely a way to see who you are in a situation that is relatively low pressure for her and high pressure for you. If it's your thing go for it, but don't be afraid to straight up say that you would rather spend the first time meeting with her 1on1. If she's serious about it she will be ok with it.
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:29 AM
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Just recently found a new App called Bumble. Has a surprisingly large user base if you live in a city, I live in San Diego. Has a lot of the features that tinder should have/took away such as re-dos etc. The catch is that the women have to be the ones to message first. It's pretty fun and definitely switches it up from tinder. That being said I think you will find a mix of women, some who want to hook up and others that are looking for a potential relationship.
/r/seduction08/09/15 05:43 PM
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One hundred percent this. My tinder convos rarely last more than 10 messages. Another thing I've noticed is it is best to set up a date either the day of messaging or within a day or two, any longer than that and the feeling fades and it just gets weird. That being said, I would only message a girl when you're willing to meet up. For instance if you cant meet during the week, don't message a girl on sunday night. Granted, none of these rules are set in stone, just what I have found to be success…
/r/seduction06/07/15 10:25 PM
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Yeah you will. Girls don't go out alone and just having someone with you will improve your chances. The better looking he is it brings up your own "group average"
/r/seduction14/06/15 04:51 AM
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If you can make eye contact and get a smile it can work, but usually headphones mean they don't want to talk.
/r/seduction10/10/14 06:16 PM
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I read this in a indian accent and it was hilarious
/r/seduction11/12/13 07:49 AM
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You know its gonna come off a little weird that you're just now building the courage as I'm assuming the semester/quarter is finishing up which she will pick up on, but doesn't completely rule you out. I've done this with a few girls and success varies. Your best bet next time is to slowly build rapport throughout the weeks. If you're at all like me, I always seem to wait til the class is nearly finished because I'm afraid of how awkward class will be if you are rejected.
/r/seduction18/11/13 09:35 PM
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I think I'm pretty similar to you. Self-confidence has always been my issue and I've founded that a large part is due to me being an extremely observant introvert. I find that I notice things that most people don't, and because of this can get extremely self-conscious when I'm not at my best.
/r/seduction10/06/13 02:20 AM
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I wish someone had told me #4 ages ago. I thought staying the same was a way of "staying true to myself" when it was just an excuse to not grow socially.
/r/seduction13/05/13 06:54 PM
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Talking to the girl I was interested in, after two months of chickening out.
/r/seduction02/05/13 09:49 PM
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I absolutely agree! This is one of the few seduction tips I was actually able to figure out myself. I noticed I felt a lot better when a girl would say my name whether it be in a text or convo.
/r/seduction29/04/13 06:47 PM
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my fedora
/r/seduction10/04/13 03:02 PM
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While I agree with your approach, it can be extremely difficult for someone to go from being an extremely anxious, introverted person to having a complete DGAF attitude. This approach is more of a stepping stone to get someone to finally approach someone. I'm not saying you should see someone and start bashing their lifestyle, but rather put yourself on a level playing field.
/r/seduction24/02/13 08:53 PM
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As someone who is just recently getting over my anxiety I found the easiest way to get over that feeling that everyone is judging you, is to judge them. I know this may sound screwed up, but it works. I don't mean to judge a book by its cover, but my problem was that I would always see someone who I was interested in, but didn't think it was possible they would be interested in me for whatever reason. By noticing another person's flaws it humanized them and took them off that pedestal that a lot…
/r/seduction24/02/13 07:23 PM
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I definitely do NOT recommend smoking weed unless you're a somewhat regular user. It may work for some, but the vast majority of people tend to bottle up.
/r/seduction24/02/13 07:20 PM
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I feel your fucking pain man. I have the same situation at my university.
/r/seduction21/02/13 09:06 PM
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me thoughts exactly!
/r/seduction15/02/13 03:16 AM
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