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It was still only 1 girl you had success with though. The more girls you meet, the more likely you are to find someone who appreciates you for who you are. You feel empty because you found someone and they left. The more that may happen though, the less you can attribute that to who YOU are.
/r/seduction27/09/17 03:02 AM
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My comment is merely meant to ask what OP means. OP is just starting to go on dates/get flaked on, but he states it like it is something he has already moved past. It's like saying, "I missed the first ever 3 point shot I took. It doesn't bother me anymore when I miss 3 point shots." I am not trying to put him down, merely point out that he may be ahead of himself.
/r/seduction13/09/17 03:50 AM
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First date since January, but you have conquered not caring about flakes?
/r/seduction12/09/17 05:36 PM
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Yes, but you can: Go out and test it out. Continue to use the subreddit. Repeat.
/r/seduction13/08/17 10:40 PM
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Left feet is just lack of practice
/r/seduction21/07/17 05:24 AM
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I think a lot of new guys think they have to try to pull off insane cockiness, 100% confidence. It's really not the best idea, it's better to be a comfortable, normal human being that is not trying to impress anyone, but also not constantly trying to be witty or lightly insult people. My advice is to try to talk to some girls like you would try to talk to your best guy friends, relaxed and comfortable. Speak your actual mind, not what you think some arrogant asshole who "gets" chicks all the tim…
/r/seduction27/03/16 03:06 PM
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Like approaching girls, your brain does not want to take cold showers, but you do it anyway. It builds willpower that allows you to do things when your brain normally says, "Don't do that, it will hurt."
/r/seduction27/02/16 01:43 PM
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You can always start on warm, and just go 2 minutes at the end. It's still an exercise of willpower that is good.
/r/seduction27/02/16 01:42 PM
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Practice makes...near perfect. Take cold showers, workout, try not masturbating. You need to build up confidence and willpower. That sounds like my first 10 approaches. Things are kinda better now. I still fail sometimes, but I don't care.
/r/seduction25/02/16 01:11 AM
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What we are saying is that you have already attempted, and she has now denied you. You can still ask her out a couple more times, "Hey I'm going to a concert tomorrow night, you should come." Don't continue to talk to her though, just try and arrange a date.
/r/seduction20/02/16 10:56 PM
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It's like no matter what sort of mental prep I do for myself, I always, ALWAYS end up tripping all over myself and saying the cringiest things. No mental prep. You must wing it. i.e. Hey, how are you? I like your dress. This rain is ridiculous. Are you from here? I had a pretty good day. Where do you work? Do you come out to this bar often? You are worrying about having nothing to say. You don't have to impress this girl man. You just have to ask questions and be social and listen to what they h…
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:38 AM
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Like dude, she is playing you! Like a fiddle! She hasn't met up for 3 or 4 dates... Most people after 2 flakes would be able to realize the other person is not serious and it is time to move on.
/r/seduction30/01/16 03:45 PM
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Why can't you go to there place?? Why can't they go home with you? You don't have your own bedroom? Can't you ask your roommate to leave for one night. Please explain more.
/r/seduction30/01/16 07:00 AM
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It's not about status, it's about self-worth.
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:25 AM
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Well I'm a low value guy who will continue being low value. I won't be impressing anyone. What's with your attitude?
/r/seduction18/01/16 02:56 AM
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Am only expert on 2, best of luck.
/r/seduction05/01/16 02:16 AM
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I am not being rude when I say this, I am telling the truth but I am much hotter than her, prettier than her, funnier than her, and smarter than her and maybe that doesn't matter. I just don't think I would say this about a good friend or they would say this about me. This is not very friendly, regardless of the truth of it. Everyone has there strength and weaknesses. Most guys who have read this are already able to guess your general attitude from the way your wrote this. Not trying to be mean,…
/r/seduction31/10/15 05:42 PM
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Probably just wait a few days before the hangout to confirm it. Don't need to really text unless she is doing it.
/r/seduction31/10/15 05:37 PM
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Even when you stop, it is still difficult. Though I think it is excellent motivation. Like when you go home and you didn't try to talk to any girls that day, it's like you just think, "SHIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTT."
/r/seduction21/10/15 03:59 AM
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I've been trying to figure out a good way to re-energize myself. This will be great.
/r/seduction21/10/15 03:53 AM
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Xbox One is a good idea
/r/seduction06/10/15 02:18 PM
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The longer she is in your head before you talk to her, the more pressure builds up. Try to avoid waiting so long, and it can be less jarring. Good job m8.
/r/seduction06/10/15 02:15 PM
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You can also make plans for the future and then the number is more expected because that is how you will hang out again.
/r/seduction12/09/15 09:35 PM
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Take her on an instant date. Go get coffee or something right then.
/r/seduction12/09/15 01:42 PM
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I'm on day 32, I think it makes life simpler and I feel more confident. It gives me a lot of drive to go out and talk to girls. If I don't do that, I will get no pleasure that night. Lot of motivation right there. I am typically not that motivated.
/r/seduction12/09/15 01:29 AM
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They were like all laughing at me though and I just didn't know how to handle them. Didn't help that the girl wasn't much for conversation. This is my 7th date with no K-close and I'm about to give up.
/r/seduction03/09/15 02:46 AM
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So what I was wondering is, should I have tried to go for the kiss? It didn't seem like there was a good opportunity, thanks for your advice in advance.
/r/seduction03/09/15 01:57 AM
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Thanks for clearing that up.
/r/seduction02/09/15 10:25 PM
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Happy Birthday! I think I would kinda be interested in being an accountability partner, as I have not been very accountable lately!
/r/seduction26/08/15 05:06 PM
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Thanks man, I'm starting to see the fun in it all.
/r/seduction23/08/15 09:07 PM
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Thank you :) We get better together!
/r/seduction23/08/15 09:07 PM
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Ridiculous can be positive! I haven't been able to do much kino so it does sound like you are doing pretty well.
/r/seduction23/08/15 12:55 AM
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Yea you can really psyche yourself out when you have been thinking about one girl for a few weeks. This is why it is helpful to approach a variety of girls you have just seen, so you don't get so in your head about it. Some will still not go well, but others will be fine and you might be surprised.
/r/seduction23/08/15 12:43 AM
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It's difficult to keep up with friends in different states, let alone different countries. So try to talk to them...but realize these types of relationships are not very long lasting.
/r/seduction22/08/15 07:19 PM
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Ask yourself if you wanna hang out with a girl that is that unreliable. That should be your answer. For me, at two cancellations I would rather start trying with a new girl.
/r/seduction21/08/15 06:22 AM
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You da real mvp OP
/r/seduction20/08/15 12:47 AM
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I have been smiling more and have more of a happy vibe. Also because of my small successes I have felt more confident with who I am. I think the posture thing is very inline with your demeanor. It just looks stronger and confident. I have noticed a few girls doing double takes on me, which is kind of crazy to see lately. My brain is like, "Wait...is she looking back at me...again? Checks behind self expecting to see Brad Pitt and no one is there.
/r/seduction18/08/15 10:10 PM
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Step 2: Have the balls to walk into a dance floor full of women.
/r/seduction16/08/15 09:19 PM
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Sorry, it would be hard to find, I will let you know if I can. Basically though he talks about going out and everyone(guys,girls, old guys, old girls) he sees he compliments or makes random small talk or gives people high fives and it is just to amp you up before you even get to the bar or club. "Cool dog...I like your shirt...Where you girls headed? Nice shoes...Do you know where this location is...Did you see the football game today...how was the concert...etc. etc.. Then you continue it there…
/r/seduction16/08/15 07:40 AM
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I have realized how true this is very recently. One of the videos Julien did stuck with me where he said he goes out and just start talking to everyone. I thought I was just using people for warm-up, but it actually is what makes the night fun. Like, I slept the best I had Friday night in a long time. Just laughed a ton and was very social. Life and conversations are random and interesting. Most guys I've randomly talked to are pretty damn nice and they get you talking and in a social mood. Some…
/r/seduction16/08/15 06:27 AM
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That's boss
/r/seduction16/08/15 06:05 AM
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I feel the same way man. I think this is just going through a period of a change. Assuming we are both inexperienced, even if we have a few good nights, it is easy to revert back to being shy and introverted. I am going to just keep pressing on and hope its easier to be outgoing in the months to come. I had two nights this week where I was really outgoing and talked to a lot of people. However, they were my first nights ever of just cold approaching girls and it was still a bit difficult. The se…
/r/seduction10/08/15 08:01 PM
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Indicator of interest. Hot babe 7. Lol, I had to google it.
/r/seduction10/08/15 07:49 PM
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Pull up bars, ab exercises, and push ups are great exercises if you don't wanna go to the gym. There are also ropes that go over your door frame, you shut the door, and then you can do rows.
/r/seduction03/08/15 06:20 PM
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Girl: "I would like to be alone in the woods with you in a little hut." I feel like she would have mentioned getting a group to go if it was just friendly.
/r/seduction02/08/15 06:08 AM
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