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To me it seems you are implying attractive and caring about your appearance = shallow = bad. Almost everyone cares about appearance. There is nothing even wrong with caring so. Being shallow about looks is barely even a negative quality. It doesn't mean you don't care about everything else, it just means that looks are something you care about. You can be shallow on appearance and deep about other things.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/21 12:57 PM
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Pretty insightful post, I'll keep this in mind. Sounds like something Yoda would say lol.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 05:15 PM
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How would someone knowingly only go after shallow women?
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 04:42 PM
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Ya this accurately describes what I believe. I think the goal for most men should be to look great naked, have a sick job, decent social circle, and lots of options and experiences. But I don't believe in toxic masculinity, putting women down, and just overall being a judgemental assholem
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 04:34 PM
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Old, horrible skin, assymetries, muscle diseases, etc etc etc. Absolutely tons of people that are generally ugly with not a lot to make them good looking... However most people are average looking with average genetics that can become fairly good looking with effort tho.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 03:31 AM
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Agree, but ideally you shouldn't be settling and ideally you should always internally know that if this girl isn't it, no biggie. I believe people who have lots of options and an abundance mentality have higher quality relationships, and people who are inexperienced and easily attach and get scared of messing things up have lower quality relationships.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 01:09 AM
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Ya, you're right it isn't. I mean you can get all the dating and approach advice you need from psychology and sales.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/21 11:37 PM
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Do you think women generally speaking prefer to lead rather than follow? Do you think attractive is completely subjective even though something like 90+ percent of people agree on attractive and unattractive physical features? Do you think treating a woman you like a lot as a soulmate is a smart approach to relationships? I believe you have to treat every human being you come across as an individual instead of assuming things about them. However, keeping statistics and things like that in mind w…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/21 11:36 PM
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Ya, I got into the "manosphere" and even though it was a mixed bag even then overall I think it was very helpful for my development as a man. But nowadays it is just either a pity party or toxic masculinity through and through. At the end of the day all you have to know is the top 20% of men get 80% of women. Breaking into the top 20% = be fit, be good looking, be socially fluid, earn wealth, earn status, learn some basic seduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:59 PM
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I mean pretty much any male with normal test levels falls under that category. Sadly that is not most men lmao1
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:48 PM
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Eh, I do think it's true that it's less about women having wildly different tastes and preferences and more to do with the much greater emphasis placed on other things like career, personality, physical ability, soft skills, hobbies, intelligence, etc. Basically men mostly care about looks and if the girl is like "not a bitch." Women usually care about looks, but also care heavily about everything else. However if a guy has certain qualities but not necessarily traditionally attractive girls mig…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 01:22 AM
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Close but now you have to add in that the women they actually want would be completely revolted by their philosophy. The only women who might not be are...those that just want to fuck lmao. I could only really see TRP people being compatible with like super diehard Trump Women or just girls in rural communities. But vast majority of attractive urban and suburban women would just be repelled.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 01:17 AM
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Not at all a lack of desire for dominant women, just a lack of dominant women 😅 Really wish there were more of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 12:56 AM
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So fear of being raped and fear of being treated like a rapist are both about equal in importance ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 01:11 PM
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Women are not a monolith, that is what is objectionable. You should always treat people as individuals, not as women or men. In the same way you dont treat others different for their race even if there are trends there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 01:09 PM
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The problem is the 5% is a huge amount of people and it is completely unjust to just assume all women are X because you've met a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 01:08 PM
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Explain, that can be interpreted a lot of ways idk what you're referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:12 AM
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I dispute this. I think most self identifying "bad boys" are really bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:55 AM
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If it is a choice between the systemic oppression of women or less "promiscuity" the choice is easy for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:52 AM
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If 95% of women are low quality date 100 girls and 5 are high quality. Or just go where girls are disproportionately high quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:33 AM
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You're right it is not enough, the product You're selling has to be good too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:22 AM
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Lmao, you're spot on about that. I mean look, a few years ago when I was really cringe and inexperienced I ate it up. I've since realized the folly of my ways and just how toxic that community is. I think the only thing that the Red Pill pushes that you wouldn't necessarily get as mainstream advice everywhere else is the heavy emphasis on lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 02:18 AM
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More successful with low quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 02:14 AM
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You get it man, spot on. Be fucking obi wan kenobi. Being an actual stand up guy and leader gets you better quality friends and women anyway. What is your community?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 02:13 AM
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Sales is trial by fire, which is exactly what men need. Builds character by throwing you through the ringer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 02:02 AM
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Just focus on getting your money, fucking women, and putting yourself first every day. That's all you need to do as a man. I don't think that this is a bad mindset to have at all. If this was all red pill did I would even support it. Unfortunately it comes with many more strings attached than that as u/LittyKitsune pointed out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 02:01 AM
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I don't have to, they already exist. r/seduction r/sales
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 01:57 AM
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I think most coaches are probably shit and a waste of money, but that is regardless of industry. A great coach can completely turn your life around, but they often cost a ton of money. Hitting on tons of women is by far the best thing you can do if you have problems getting women. It is basic exposure therapy and practicing a skill. Turning life around is a bit subjective I would say but I'll take your word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 01:55 AM
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This is so much better than my post, wtf. Fuck you lmao. Seriously though, this is exactly what I am getting at. Everything is about "being alpha bro" to the point where it is more about that than actually enjoying your life and getting what you want. To the point where "live and let live" is some beta male concept that is destroy western civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 01:50 AM
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I mean no matter what people will object to it for all kinds of reasons. I think the distinction between Pick Up and The Red Pill is that there is no value judgement in Pick Up. Pick up is just...flirting with girls and making them want you. Is it toxic to portray yourself in a favorable light and use knowledge of psychology get someone to sleep with you? Don't we all do this on some level? Is it really "tricking someone" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 01:07 AM
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You're right, there is some minority of sick bastards where this truly isn't the case. Most people however will realize just how empty and harrowing their lack of morality ends up feeling, unfortunately a majority never realizes how to fix that, but activists need to push society and others to be more enlightened in that way. I used to be much more cynical like you, but it comes around I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 01:04 AM
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I think the Red Pill selling this "only way to be a man" just makes people who don't fit neatly into their boxes more unhappy than they were to begin with. Morality is necessary for us all to live happy lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 01:00 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/lgxksf/how_does_the_red_pill_handle_sexually_submissive/ To me this was pretty eye opening
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 12:59 AM
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It doesn't need to be. You want to know the easiest way to cure the problem these men have? A sales job and just doing pick up and reading that kind of thing. The Red Pill is basically a toxic masculinity form of pick up with reactionary conservatism shoved down your throat minus the religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 12:58 AM
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I meant what did u end up saying
/r/askTRP10/02/21 10:35 PM
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ez subscribe to my onlyfans to help out
/r/askTRP10/02/21 10:34 PM
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which one
/r/askTRP10/02/21 10:33 PM
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It's all subjective a little bit and depends on how you were answering before. But the lame pussy footing with the winky face would turn a lot of girls off imo. Being direct is so underdone nowadays cus people are scared to do it so I think doing it sets you apart. Being direct after establishing rapport and stuff tho right, not like you just met this girl 5s ago and your opening line is "want to fuck." THAT would be awkward and thirsty Also gotta hit them with the period.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 10:32 PM
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lame response the right answer here is "So I can fuck you."
/r/askTRP10/02/21 10:29 PM
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Well, I certainly agree that this is the vast majority of women. Most studies conclude this. Do you personally believe that dominant women in bed straight up don't exist?
/r/askTRP10/02/21 07:01 PM
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ye
/r/askTRP10/02/21 06:41 PM
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haha that sounds like way more fun than just having a girl asking me what to do all the time actually.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 06:38 PM
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Ya, well aware of that tid bit. When I get to that they seem to always wind up being super submissive so it's just bad luck on my part I guess. The most dominant they get is spanking or something like that. I guess you just have to play numbers until you strike a match.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 05:05 PM
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Conditioning of what? Most men are "dominant" in bed and are chumps lmao Leading someone to take control seems very counter intuitive. I don't really care or desire a girl to be dominant in their life, I could take care of all of that, I just want that in the bedroom.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 04:49 PM
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It makes sense, I agree with you and I'm guilty of the same thing I guess. I don't really like random hookups much at all, but I do like friends with benefits types of situations and I like having a few girls like that, but my standards for a genuine relationship are ridiculously high because I think the risk reward ratio is so ridiculously skewed towards the former. However, I would not say I treat women like a piece of meat at all. I do like having some type of connection and "relationship" I …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 04:26 PM
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It's not shocking at all and this how the real world is and what the red pill says. It's blue pill that says shit like "just be yourself" or "what's on the inside is all that counts." I also never complained, I think this is logical and the way the world should work that's how you breed strong healthy humans. If anyone and everyone could mate the human race would be a shit show. Arguably it already is because women are not selective enough if anything especially in traits like intelligence and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:59 PM
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What Red Pilled people are like and what Red Pill philosophy is are not the same thing imo. I can't stand most Red Pill people either to be perfectly honest with you. But I think it is pretty disingenuous to say that a lot of what the Red Pill preaches isn't common sense. Feminism is complex. I believe/agree with feminism in so far as I believe men and women should have equal rights legally. I disagree with feminism in so far as men and women are not the same. There are plain and simple biologic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:37 AM
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Well it depends on the person. I'm kind of simple. I like sex a lot, I think it is one of the most important parts of a relationship. I won't really work through a dry spell with my GF unless she is in the middle of some crazy shit and normally she is like a bunny and will prob return to that soon. But if there are no extenuating circumstances and the sex starts dropping off...not working through it. If we disagree on a core value that is very important to me, like she doesn't hit the gym and do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 02:43 AM
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Can you explain what is this narrative? The Narrative (lie): Go to college even if it means you go into debt, a good relationship is all about compromise and working through things, always be honest and hardworking and you will get promoted and make more money, looks don't matter, cheaters never win. The Red Pill (truth): College might help or it might cripple you with debt. Liberal arts degrees are pretty worthless while hard sciences tend to pay their worth. You should probably lie and exagger…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 09:52 PM
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Blue Pill = Comforting lie, mainstream approach to dating, overly romantic, and too... accepting. Red Pill = Not lying to yourself, researching the way the world actually works instead of just going with mainstream thought, and living life on your own terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 09:44 PM
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I agree, the gist of Red Pill is 100% right but some people take this shit way too seriously...which is ironically a pretty beta thing to do lmao.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 04:28 PM
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The thing is that there is no fucking risk in approaching women haha. The only risk is it being awkward if she is part of your daily life and you have to see her all the time, but the entire point of approach random girls is for this to not happen. In reality, she is shorter than you, weaker than you, and probably a little bit scared of you and the worst that can happen is she says no.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 03:55 PM
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People use tryhard as an insult - that always aggravated me. I feel that so much, pisses me off. It's like, do you take pride in not trying or something??? People who use this saying are always the biggest fucking losers. But that being said there are instances where I kind of get it. Like trying to hard in a social scenario in terms of laughing at every joke and always trying to seem "on." But I think that is a different sort of trying too hard.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 03:49 PM
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I wish I could actually upvote this more. How do you get all those cool pictures though. Do you get your buddies to do it for you? I'm not as social as I should be and I feel this is the main thing holding me back these days as I'm just working on my physique and career atm. I do ok on dating apps but I feel like if I had pictures more like yours I'd be doing wayyy better as they show your SMV outside of just your looks.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 03:03 PM
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I 100000000% agree with this. Dating apps should NOT be the primary way guys pull in any fucking decade. All it will do is warp your perception of reality. But this is actually amazing for guys who actually hit on girls in "real life" because it is so uncommon now with dating apps. Really the only possible benefit of dating apps is if you wanted a girl who checked very specific boxes and there was a dating app that helped with that. But they all fucking suck for this shit.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 03:00 PM
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Ya, because it's...not true lol. Either exaggerating or lying.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 02:57 PM
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? That's fucking nothing lol. In nyc with good photos and good physique. This guy is prob full of shit tbh or he is delusional about his appearance and status. Prob full of shit tho. If you have good pictures and a good physique in NYC on tinder you can easily clear 100 girls a week. Now how many will actually talk to you...and how many will actually meet you...lol. The hard part as a guy on tinder is not the matches, it's getting girls to respond. I bet half of the girls literally never even se…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 02:54 PM
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Hypergamy is not about income, though that could be a factor, hypergamy is leaving a man for someone better. Leaving for a hotter man, leaving for a more social man, leaving for a more dominant man, leaving for a less insecure man, etc. I agree that hypergamy is way overplayed in this sub. But hypergamy is very real and happens frequently... I think it just depends on the woman and the man more than it does women ALWAYS wanting to trade in their SO. Some women are more prone to be hypergamous th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 01:08 PM
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The main problem with dating your own age is once you start hitting middle aged you have no idea how your partner is going to change and react at that age or how you will. Maybe you keep your sex drive and hers evaporates. This is where a younger woman could be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 02:00 AM
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Idk anyone who says 45 is the peak. 45 is more the start of the big decline. Late 20s early 30s is the peak, with small drop offs until a big drop off. There's definitely a shit ton of 18-20yo girls that would love to be with a late 20s guy, so I disagree 8-10 is too much. 8-10 is only too much when you start pushing late 40s, 50s, 60s, etc. I see a bunch of 30yo guys with 20yo women, 40yo guys with 30yo women, etc. At the very least it is much more common than the other way around. --------- Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 08:40 PM
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Ya, hit the gym and make more than 70k and you are better than 7/10 men. Oh, and shower. Now you're better than 8/10 men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 08:34 PM
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Nah, suzie is an amazing option the other 2 are meh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:31 PM
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I mean it's always a taste thing. For me personally I've always found that younger girls were always more into me than girls a few years older or girls my own age and facial hair, dressing fancy, and muscle tissue played a massive role in increasing the women I get yet all those things also all made me look older. Imo/experience women prefer someone a bit older than someone their own age and almost never prefer someone younger. And I actually believe this is strongest the younger a girl is. So 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:06 PM
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What if the guy in his 40s - 50s is mature, amazing in bed, dominant, still attractive/fullhead of hair/muscular etc. Granted you could get similar things from guys in their late 20s 30s but still. I feel like the main issue with older guys isn't that they're all ugly or whatever, but that in 10 years or so they probably will be looking old and crusty. So a guy who is still amazing in his 50s is fine but 99% chance he won't be in his 60s. But I feel like a guy in his 40s could very easily date w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:23 PM
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I thought you were a slacker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:20 PM
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I bet you ask women where he looks more attractive and a very large portion say the second photo. He looks like a boy in the first, and his hair is too long. Even the way he dresses is too boyish. He looks like a man in the second, distinguished in his age. So between these two photos the second has more sex appeal imo. Now that being said I'm not an idiot, he was way hotter somewhere between these two photos. Like in troy and fight club was peak sex appeal. In Mr. Mrs. Smith and Inglorious Bast…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:14 PM
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??? Brad Pitt did not lose it lmao. Compared to himself when he was younger, obviously. He is still more physically attractive than probably 90% of men in the "ideal" age range. He'd absolutely be able to get younger girls regardless of celeb status.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:53 PM
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This is not even remotely always the case lmao. See: Brad Pitt, leo, any 40+ fitness influencer, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:25 PM
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The odds of getting caught doing an illegal substance are very low. In most cases the consequences provided you aren't poor and black are also laughably minimal. The odds of getting caught dealing are low even lmao, but there are ofc a lot more variables there. Also a ton of drugs with essentially the same effects are not illegal or can be wrangled up with a prescription. The blue pilled mindset is having a value judgement on something by the sheer fact that it is illegal. Following all the rule…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:21 PM
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Exactlyyyy dude. You're the only rational person on this entire sub lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:17 PM
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Also keep in mind I'm not saying Suzie is the ideal mate, she isn't, but imo she is by far the most tempting of the 3 listed. In real life the goal is a classy woman like Stephanie - the religion + being freaky in the sheets. Not ridiculously easy going like Suzie, but the same sex drive and just fun to be with. But all else equal honestly sex is like 80% of a relationship to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:14 PM
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Then don't be 7 out of 10 men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:44 PM
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Really fun thread, should be more stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:43 PM
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Being childish and strange is a valid choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:42 PM
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Blue pilled thought personified.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:41 PM
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What, do you think Suzie is going to obligate you to not finish uni and to not make money? Suzie doesn't give a fuck. You can do whatever you want and still have Suzie, she's super low maintenance AND the sex is good AND she's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:41 PM
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Ya, then for sure you just go with suzie. I was just saying what would be ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:38 PM
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You don't get fulfillment from women, lmao. That's the most blue pilled thing I've ever heard. You get fulfillment from yourself, your successes, your hobbies and interests. Is money and education all there is to life? I know rich college educated people that are dumb as bricks and shallow as fuck. I know rich college dropouts that are the opposite, I know poor hs dropouts that are the opposite. They literally have no bearing on how quality a person is. THAT mindset is what is really immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:37 PM
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Why the fuck do you need a girl with money and education, are you a woman? You can do those things. Sex is by far one of the most important parts of a relationship to me. I don't want an average woman haha probably the last thing I want. The average woman is boring and unattractive. But you should still respect them. Respect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:27 PM
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Ya exactly lmao. I don't come here to get intellectually stimulated ahahaha it's just fun/funny. Just the fact that suzie will talk about these topics would be entertaining to me idc how well structured or logical her arguments are. Yet at the same time if you have any experience on this rock at all you know sometimes the dumbest weirdest creatures can have some of the most interesting and thought provoking ideas at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:24 PM
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Why do you care about your partner smoking weed lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:20 PM
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Ahh come on man that's not a unicorn, tons of girls like that. The real unicorn is the girl who is sexuality depraved in every single pleasurable way, but is still intelligent, AND monogamous, AND attractive. This is the ideal woman and she is a 1 in 10000 woman. His woman is like a 1 in 10 woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:19 PM
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This is actually an amazing question tbh. Just feels so weird how many people choose Bethany lmao. Bethany is clearly more of a friend than a romantic partner. Stephanie will actually add value to you as an individual by bringing you into the upper class and pushing you to succeed more. Suzie is just fun and easy. ...Ideally you can negotiate a truce with Stephanie where you are married and share all the responsibilities and advantages of that marriage in public and with family and with each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:14 PM
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?!?!?? hahahaha. She is the best sex you've ever had and comes with 0 strings attatched she is the opposite of dead weight, she pays her weight 10x over. The only dead weight is Bethany.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:07 PM
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I don't give a fuck about how smart a girl is, I just want the conversation to be meaningful and fun. I also want awesome sex. I also don't want the girl I'm seeing to be busy all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:03 PM
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Suzie Suzie Suzie Suzie Suzie Edit: Well I guess it depends tbh. Theoretically given these choices, I would spend the rest of my life with Stephanie for all the social perks that come with that but fuck Suzie on the side 100% Bethany is uggo and seems like she would be more of a drain than an asset. We'd be friends tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:01 PM
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The female equivalent is all of those things put together. 99% of men will not want a piece of that. just look up manly women images in a search bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:15 PM
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I disagree, or rather I think it depends on what version of submissiveness a man is. Dom women definitely exist in a decent number but they are absolutely a minority. Ya you'll have a hard time finding a girl that thinks it is sexy to make fun of your dick or something but you shouldn't have too hard a time finding a girl that wants to wrestle dom you or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:12 PM
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Female equivalent is short hair, bulging muscles, and baggy clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:09 PM
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Depends on the gender norm. Some gender norms are retarded and I violate them consistently. Guys can't like/wear pink? ...retarded. Guys shouldn't like rom coms? Retarded. Guys shouldn't boost or care about their appearance? Retarded. "Girly" drinks? Retarded. Very occasionally I receive some minor form of backlash in the form of a comment or something, and I handle it like a man would, laughter and dismissal. I don't think men are punished for things like this. Other gender norms I wouldn't cro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:02 PM
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Quality face matters but it doesn't have the same impact that a good physique will. Having a good face makes girls like you, it makes them smile at you, it makes them easier to approach. Having a crazy physique makes girls eye fuck you, flirt more aggressively, and basically molest you. I've always had a good face and had okayish success with girls when I was young, when I got jacked though it was night and day. Above all else you want girls to see you as a man. Not a pretty boy. This goes for h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 01:35 AM
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It's subjective in the sense that it isn't. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/speaking-of-science/wp/2017/12/12/women-rate-the-strongest-men-as-the-most-attractive-study-finds/ Getting jacked is the #1 thing objectively speaking that will dramatically increase your success with women. Dressing better is probably #2 idk if there are that many studies, but this is just where the anecdote is too much to ignore. Wearing baggy clothes make you look like a toddler. Socks with nike slides make you lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 11:21 PM
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There is a difference between understanding that the person your dating has friends of the opposite sex, and being ok with your gf going out to bars alone and with random guys hitting on her. It is ridiculously unreasonable to tell your SO to get rid of all of their male/female friends. It is ridiculously unreasonable to be at your SO's throat every time they interact with another male. It is not unreasonable to tell your SO to pull the plug with this "work wife/husband" crap. It's not unreasona…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 08:27 PM
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Vast Majority of Both Men and Women are serial monogamists and that will never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 08:01 PM
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No, lol. If this is what you mean by poly 99% of everyone is poly monogamy is impossible better chance winning the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 08:01 PM
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There are 450,000 creators on OF. Not all of those are women. Some are men. Some women have multiple accounts. Some are studio accounts. Some are scam accounts. Some are older women. Some are bots. There are something like 32million women between the age of 18 and 30 in the US. OF accounts are all over the world. Even if all of those creators are women between the age of 18 and 30 (no way in hell) the number is statistically insignificant in one country... now compared to the world? lmao Instagr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:58 PM
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It's a combination of people getting dumber and lazier while at the same time the competition being opened up. So many guys now are on their phones all day and can't read a book or write out full paragraphs. So many guys are just jerking it several hours a day. So many guys are not even making an effort to move out of their parents house. Meanwhile, social media has made it so your competition isn't the people in your neighborhood. It's everyone about 30mins to an hour drive away. Which at any g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:46 PM
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The kind of guys that are fat or skinny. The kind of guys that wear baggy cargo shorts. The kind of guys that wear tube socks with nike slides. The kind of guys that don't have a clean room. The kind of guys that don't shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:37 PM
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No, men have a problem getting with a girl. Women have a problem finding the right guy. Both valid problems. Most women are not expecting some prince charming 1 in a million guy to sweep them off their feet like in a fairy tale. They want a guy who is good looking, dominant, and well off who is still kind and compatible. So more like 20% of men... Probably half of all guys don't even make an effort, so it is really not that hard to break into that 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:35 PM
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This is so ridiculous. First of all, only fans and twitch streamers are such a tiny percentage of women they are not worth considering at all in terms of large scale societal impact. Women and men by and large are both serial monogamists, and I would not consider someone who sleeps with someone once and never again because it was too awkward or unsatisfying or whatever not someone who is polyamorous. The only thing that has changed in the last 10 years really is social media in general changing …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:31 PM
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100000% agree. That's why I only give advice to people who ask for it, and even then it can often be rejected. At the end of the day there are 2 kinds of people. People who actually want to improve and people who want to feel good. The latter are the losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:50 PM
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You're painting wrong bro, not photorealistic enuf. Picasso is a fucking idiot. You don't need any fitness to have the best sex. You need to not be a literal fucking noodle. But you keep believing you are part of the special 1% that has great sex that a significant portion of women are not just bored by.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:04 PM
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Uhh I don't see anything wrong with this I have this kind of situation with a girl rn. We're very compatible and we like each other a lot. But basically she is 10years older than me and we both know it isn't serious and it won't work out long term. We actually help each other on dates and at bars and with advice and stuff like that, it's really cool. Basically with her the situation is I don't want to be 40 with a 50yo wife. I want to be 40 with a 30yo wife, and she wants a husband, like, NOW. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:59 PM
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Ya but it's not really something you should put that much emphasis on when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:53 PM
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What is is saying is that "any woman is capable of acting like that at any time given the right impetus" This is also ridiculous, though. Because this applies to any human behavior. All humans are capable of murderous rage at any time, given the right impetus. Yet, 99.9% of people never go into murderous rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:59 PM
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Idk I feel like it is much stronger than prefer lol. I get gay/bi guys all the time try to say shit to me like "well you just haven't tried it yet" "it would be different with someone like me" etc etc. Pile of crap. I don't think sexuality is at all a matter of taste, at least not for me, some people are hardwired to be a certain way. I literally cannot watch straight men in porn. The sight of a penis that isn't mine is jarring as fuck and kills any sex drive I have. I get angry even lmao. When …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:51 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2iQu-rEJBpI you think these guys have problems with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:45 PM
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Because giving up means you're not a man anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:43 PM
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Get good at gymnastics or weightlifting show it off and talk to girls that are your height or shorter. I'm not gonna bs it by saying height doesn't matter, ofc it does, but it also depends on what you mean by short. If you're not under 5' tho no right to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:38 PM
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I clean and jerked 365lb the other day lol. I definitely agree that being fit and muscular is something every man should be. I just flat out disagree that it makes you better at sex lmao. The real benefit of being fit and jacked, is you can use this to find a girl who pleases you...not so you can use it to find a girl to please. Ideally you find a girl that doesn't want something so regularly that you don't like. You find a girl that likes what you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:31 PM
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If I'm fucking a girl who likes to be fucked the same way 30minutes straight with nothing else...I'm nexting that girl instantly. The entire point of this whole thing for men is to get what they want, not just to nut inside of a girl lmao. I want a girl whose hair I can yank. Who I can choke, slap, wrestle, bite, throw around etc. Not a girl I have to have stationary robot sex with for 30 mins lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:34 AM
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Ya, this is not what a man does. A man does what he wants. If you want to text her right away, text her. If you want to compliment her, compliment her. If you care about her, tell her you do. But the kicker is you have to do all of those things in a high value way. You should be doing those things because you just feel like it, not because you want her to like you. Not because you're so hung up on her and she's the only girl you want right now because you've been on one date or she swiped right …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:29 AM
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Well ya, that's what you do when you consume any information. I mean just think about things logically for a second. I'm guessing you know a decent amount of girls that are with guys who are for all intents and purposes, very far from the ideal red pill man lmao. I'm sure you know guys who are with girls wayyy out of their league. However, for most people that is rare and not something that just happens to you. With TRP you can make it happen for you. But there is absolutely retarded advice on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:19 AM
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As cliché as it sounds it is what you get out of it. Two people can read the same book and come out with completely different views on it. I took the "red pill" but I'm not an idiot who takes everything posted as fact. For example "all women are like that" is the biggest bullshit because absolutes like that are pretty much always wrong and human behavior is super fucking weird. Meanwhile, some moron reading RP advice will look at that and then see all women as just super hypergamy whores who wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:13 AM
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What advice are you getting? The advice I see is get jacked, have an abundance mentality, and don't let things get to you because it literally does not matter. What advice are you getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:00 AM
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I sort of agree, but at the same time people do go through phases and can definitely get it out of their system. From the time I was 16 to the time I was 18, I was melancholic and depressed. I got that out of my system. From the time I was 19 to the time I was 20, I was terrified of women and at the same time ridiculously horny to the point I wanted to have sex like 3 times a day and it didn't matter who the girl was. Now I have standards, and have sex a bit less frequently. The main problem wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 07:05 PM
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The more experience a girl has the more she expects. Some experience is fine, you're a man, man the fuck up and be one. However, there comes a point where the girl is just too deluded. She thinks she deserves a rockstar, all star athlete, actor, president and billionaire all in one...because she has fucked people of approximate value. The problem with a girl like the one you describe is that you can't really satisfy her, so you could never be happy with her. Odds are she's just using you because…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 07:01 PM
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Why would you even want to do that? Most women I've met prefer sex to last 5-10 minutes and a lot more dynamic than just thrusting in the same position... Also, that's probably way more coordination and ability to not get bored than it is physical strength and stamina lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 04:56 PM
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If by fit you mean a normal male that can touch their toes, do a pushup, and run across the block then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 04:42 PM
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Hmm, ya I guess it wouldn't work out then. This sounds absolutely horrible, and logically I think what you are doing is more than fine and a fantasy or sex act is just that and doesn't mean anything. But something really rubs me the wrong way about a girl enjoying another guy after I've been with them. I don't really care about anything that happened before because I don't think women are spoiled by sex or anything dumb like that, but internally I feel like once a girl has me she shouldn't have …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 04:03 PM
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I've had 3 relationships. 1 was good, 1 was ok, 1 was bad and all of them were short (less than 6 months) 1 The bad relationship was my first one. I was young and stupid and weak and didn't know what the hell I was doing. I was kind of a lost puppy lmao. I was 15 and she was 18. It started at a club convention extracurricular. Essentially, I had no frame, no game, none of that I was just attractive and we had some fun. But she treated me pretty badly. We had sex occasionally but she cheated on m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 03:56 PM
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Ohh, ok lol. I thought you were more turned off by the idea of a motel instead of his place or an upscale hotel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 03:29 PM
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...the severity of it ofc. What seperates someone who likes a beer from an alcoholic? Also certain actions obviously cross the line, like hitting the girl or demanding to know where she is all the time. Mate guarding is more like cockblocking a guy who is hitting on your gf, obvious displays of affection in public, giving a guy a look if you notice him checking out your girl. Violence is only warranted if someone tries to feel up your girl. Then you basically murder them. Mate guarding is excess…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:48 PM
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No, this is where dating and relationships have different rules. You SHOULD have an abundance mentality that is very obvious when you date at early stages. However, once the relationship gets serious that mentality is a massive turn off to a confident woman and will make her leave. Most girls want a guy that is protective, just not a guy who is protective from the start cus that comes off as desperate and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:44 PM
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just feeling good inside your own meatsuit makes you so much hornier! This is the only thing imo. The idea that you need to be fit to have sex is crazy to me lmao. It is the least physically demanding "excercise" lol. Even the kinkiest freakiest session is not a real workout. Wtf are you doing, clapping pushups while giving a blow job? Trying to perform oral while running a marathon? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:41 PM
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Fat people get 100% way too much shit. People who were never fat don't know what it is like to be fat. Fuck 99% of people are either too skinny or too fat honestly and just like to pick on people who are even worse than they are. That being said, if you got to a healthy weight your sex drive would most likely become even stronger than it is right now. Also big disagree about men and women finding fat people to be attractive...there is a big difference between fatter and fat. A bulky strong bear …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:38 PM
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I don't think it is a breeding ground either, but I think there is intersection between the manosphere and right-wing politics. Maybe not all TRP are conservatives, but they pretty much aren't liberals lol. I'm kind of torn tbh. In a lot of ways I am redpilled but some issues I'm left-wing on some I am conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:30 PM
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What lmao. Depends on what you think trp is lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:27 PM
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I agree with all of that these are all very understandable reasons to reject guys, not that you need a reason ofc. I'd say I have a bit of a bad habit to at least try to move onto sex talk later on in the date after building rapport but tbh I just get really bored and annoyed when it takes more than like 2 dates to fuck and I feel like I just would not be compatible with girls that don't enjoy sex talk. Idk how reasonable or unreasonable that is to most girls. For me it has been 50/50 idk maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:23 PM
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I've had this come up at some points and here is my thinking that I haven't actually said yet because I guessed what the answer would be. But basically, what would you think if a guy tried to compromise on a fantasy like this? Like he would have a threesome with another dude if you had a threesome with another girl? Me personally the sight of butt naked guys is pretty gross to me but I'd do it for a girl I liked if she did the reverse for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:20 PM
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Who isn't selfish tho lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:16 PM
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“Wanna go to a motel” Ok ok, so I have roomates. Most girls weren't opposed to this but I say hotel instead of motel and it winds up being a cute lil bread in breakfast thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:06 PM
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How do you know they are flirting with someone else just to get to you vs flirting with her cause she's hot lmao. Also if anything RP can be used to weed out girls with that attitude tbh because insecurity in women is a very bad thing and can lead to cheating and other problems in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:03 PM
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There is no average guy. There are average attributes. But if you were to take the average of every attribute and put it on one guy...that guy is probably a very unique creature lmao. But I get what you mean so I'll play along and say what I think the life of an average dude is imo in the social circles I run in. ---------------------- College He's anywhere from 5'7 to 6ft tall. He loves talking about and analyzing sports and drinking with his buds. He went to college, got ok grades, maybe a deg…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 03:08 AM
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It's not easy to be and stay a good looking, strong, athletic, successful, high status high value male...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 11:21 PM
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"Just develop social skills and confidence": it's not easy to develop the social skills, confidence and resourcefulness to regularly get casual sex. The bar is high. It's hard and takes years of dedication. So here's my problem....Do you for some reason believe this shouldn't be the case???!?!? That women should just settle for anyone and everyone? High quality people have more options....DUH That is like 99% of the point. Besides, this is good in a lot of ways. For one, once you actually make i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:51 PM
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Unaware of that fact that most women want a guy that is attractive, dominant, and masculine. Unaware of the fact that 9/10 guys are not really like that at all, and she probably settled for you. If someone comes along that has all those traits and really takes a liking to her, she'll probably cheat. And before there are objection, ya what is attractive/dominant/masculine is a little bit subjective. Some girls prefer a suave guy, some a brutish one, some a guy really bulky, some a guy who is more…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:41 PM
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This is not true. These are all extreme interpretations of what "the red pill" is actually about. What the Red Pill is actually about at its core, is that women by and large desire attractive, strong, masculine, wealthy, dominant men. Being more of these qualities matters more than being emotionally open, committed, caring, etc. NOT that those things literally don't matter. But put simply, why the hell should a woman care about those things if you don't have the sheer presence and force of will …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:16 PM
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Ofc they do, they're just not attracted to the same aged women remotely as much at that point anymore is my point. My point is that I don't think most 40yo guys are just thinking about 20yo girls all the time and would much rather prefer a 20yo to a 40yo. However, 60yo men are definitely think wayyy more about 40yo girls than 60yo girls. At the end of the day people DO want to be young, not old. Middle aged is pretty young and there's a lot of pluses that come with being that age in our society.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:48 AM
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What men have sex with and what they want to have sex with are not the same thing lol. If you just start googling random celebs over 60 and start looking at their wives a very solid portion have 10-20 year difference...and it is almost always the guy that is older lol. It's common sense really, maturity is a thing ya but people fully understand that older you get past middle age the worse you look. Also sex gets way worse during menopause and generally is never the same as before it. I'm not say…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:34 AM
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Sort of but there is still a wall. 40yo still get attracted to 40yo, but once you start getting to around 60yo...very few men at 60 still think 60yo women are attractive. That's around the age especially for wealthy and famous men that the big age gaps start.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:12 AM
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Maybe 8/10. I'd say my worst attributes are my height, hand size, and voice. I'm 5'8, have a bit of a higher pitched voice, and my wrist size is a lil girly lmao. My hands are the same size as most girls I date. My best attributes are my face, hair, eyes, and physique. I get complimented on my eyes and hair specifically a lot. Girls don't compliment my muscles but they feel them or make comments about how I look strong. And apparently my skin, but that was really only 1 group of asian girls that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 10:52 PM
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Female strangers = Maybe a few times a month Male strangers = Maybe a few times a week Female friends = Never (maybe when we first met?) Male friends = Maybe after a pump? Women you're sleeping with/dating. = Basically every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 09:19 PM
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Get a nose job, get super jacked, buy a well fitting suit, learn to be seductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 08:32 PM
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