ScuzeRude Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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20	15 phrases that reveal your insecurity and turn women off You’re right about them all being a turn-off and you’re wrong about all of the reasons why. Women don’t care about your posturing. All of the reasons you offer here still put men at the center of every interaction, as if men can control the way a woman feels about him, and if he just does “X” he should expect “Y” result. Human beings—which, surprisingly, women are—don’t work like that. The actual reason why these phrases all turn women off is because they are deeply manipulative statements meant…	/r/seduction	18/01/25 06:41 PM
1	Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house? It’s a testament to how unattractive women find it when men expect sex. When they say “we’re not having sex,” and you’re cool with it and there’s no pressure, it’s sexy. 😂	/r/seduction	31/05/24 01:11 PM
0	Advice on age gap Honestly, you do you. If what gets your dick hard is reinforcing PUA psychobabble to yourself, nothing I say is gonna change that. I’d argue that your viewpoints—which aren’t even actually yours—have practically nothing to do with firsthand, real life experience and everything to do with attempting to build a sense of power for yourself by structuring your worldview in a limiting-but-riskless way: the more options you get encouraged to write off preemptively, the more that guy who’s selling you …	/r/seduction	08/09/22 06:51 PM
0	Advice on age gap You can’t become good at anything without failing at it first. I find wisdom, nuance, subtlety, grace, poise and confidence to be so attractive. It is also my experience that older women are more mature, know what they’re looking for, and therefore are actually far more selective than younger women. Which is completely fair— you’re supposed to sleep around when you’re young. But the picture you’re trying so hard to paint is really just revealing that you don’t have enough experience to weigh in …	/r/seduction	08/09/22 05:02 PM
3	Advice on age gap Lol at “less baggage.” Have you ever met a 22-year-old girl? They’re in the prime of their baggage/drama/meltdown/stick-your-dick-in-crazy period of life. It’s actually not fun. Emotional maturity is sexy.	/r/seduction	08/09/22 01:53 AM
30	Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house. Thank God other people are seeing this. I’m amazed by how fucking creepy and out-of-touch this sub can be sometimes. OP, I can definitely see why you’re not getting anywhere with women. You probably need to self-reflect rather than throw temper tantrums in the mirror. This poor girl.	/r/seduction	05/09/22 05:00 PM
8	Anyone else have a sex bucket list? Lol. Found the porn addict.	/r/seduction	05/09/22 04:50 AM
12	How to politely tell girls that you don't want to stay in touch? This seems weird to me. You can’t “ghost” a person who isn’t actually an established part of your life. Usually, when people travel, I think it’s normal to allow things to just not go anywhere with every person you meet. How in the world could that be sustainable? Don’t respond, don’t respond in an enthusiastic way, or don’t respond in a timely way. It’s not necessary or welcome to spell it out. It’s already understood, even if it doesn’t seem like it. My .02	/r/seduction	14/08/22 08:43 PM
1	Should I break up with my girlfriend? She might not be feeling sex with you because freeloading isn’t attractive. Even if there’s other things you help pay for, there’s just something about a man who doesn’t pay his own rent that’s so ick.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 02:13 PM
1	Girl the whole night was saying how she wasn’t going to have sex with me So many fallacies, so much of you exemplifying exactly what you say you’re “not”, so many attempts to patronize, so many weak character assassinations, so many assumptions and words put into my mouth. Speaking of which, isn’t it funny how I never did that to you? I didn’t have to. Anywhoo, I have nothing else to say. I’m sad that you can’t hear a person say a thing without you making all about you and how you’re “not wrong.” I’m making a healthy observation. It was only a small fraction of the t…	/r/seduction	18/07/22 01:56 PM
-1	Girl the whole night was saying how she wasn’t going to have sex with me First of all, I’m not your sweetie. Second of all, while I realize that I am responding only to one small portion of something that you wrote, I am literally quoting you word-for-word in my response, so you can’t use the line “that’s not anything close to what I wrote” and expect me to take you seriously. Not only is it “close” to what you wrote, it is exactly what you wrote. Thirdly, I never said a thing about forced sex. Simply that— and I fully stand by this, so I’m comfortable repeating it f…	/r/seduction	18/07/22 01:09 PM
0	Girl the whole night was saying how she wasn’t going to have sex with me The whole “women like to weaponize ‘that time of the month’” line of thinking is grosser than any period sex will ever be. You can not be down with having sex for a million different reasons—especially if your body is going through an uncomfortable hormonal shift—and not be trying to manipulate someone in the process. Believe it or not, people can be making whole decisions that are not at all based on you because you’re not at the center of everything. Turning down sex isn’t “weaponizing” and th…	/r/seduction	18/07/22 12:42 PM
-1	Girl the whole night was saying how she wasn’t going to have sex with me Saying “no” isn’t a weapon.	/r/seduction	18/07/22 12:32 PM
-1	Girl with holding sex? See. This is why seduction subs are kinda trash. No one here can answer the question of why she isn’t ready for sex—only she can. And instead of being curious about it, asking her questions, showing investment in her well-being regardless of the outcome to you, you’re out here “pushing” her for sex and assuming she’s “withholding” (newsflash: she can’t withhold something that isn’t yours in the first place!). My advice would be to grow up and start learning how to actually talk to women like, y’…	/r/seduction	04/01/22 03:29 PM
1	Need somebody to tell me to not text this girl who has left me on read multiple times… Just a reminder: it isn’t “bad behavior” to not be interested in taking things further with you.	/r/seduction	29/11/21 02:13 PM
2	Does teasing or pulling the leg of a girl in a friendly/fun way somehow gets her to like you? You have to actually be friendly to tease in a friendly way. If you have one ounce of a chip on your shoulder or meanness, just don’t do this.	/r/seduction	15/01/21 08:50 PM
5	A big misconception a lot of guys have about their looks Better game: admit to her that you’ve never seen the movie, let her tell you what she loves about it, and ask her to watch it with you.	/r/seduction	03/01/21 07:56 PM
0	Importance of giving space and having patience No one here is unaware of the concept of negging. Move along, my child.	/r/seduction	18/11/20 12:20 AM
2	Importance of giving space and having patience Wow. Imagine having the audacity to correct and mansplain to a woman why her spot-on observations about two different approaches in a seduction forum is wrong. It makes me shudder. Not in a good way.	/r/seduction	17/11/20 09:35 PM
-11	NEW - What About All That Emotional Labor? No, it’s not. It’s direct speech for the time you spend listening to a man go on and on about his feelings, frustrations, and facts of life, while when you say anything about yourself beyond what he is immediately interested in (i.e. sex), at best he tunes you out and at worst you are labeled a “nag” who engages in “perpetual shit tests and lying.” How bout if you truly want an equal partnership you figure out how to engage in one? You each pay half. You each listen to and support one another, e…	/r/MGTOW	13/12/18 02:17 AM
5	What's the deal with Los Angeles women? It’s not hot in LA to play into that trope, or have you not heard of this little thing called “me too?” LA, outside of “the biz” is also a giant suburb; one big outdoor mall. It’s a family town— most people your age have been settled down with kids doing the grind for a decade now. It isn’t like NYC, which is basically an endless adult playground. People’s misconceptions about what LA is come from Hollywood (the concept, not the neighborhood), which is actually just a small fraction of what actu…	/r/MGTOW	02/11/18 03:30 PM
3	What's the deal with Los Angeles women? Since you moved to LA.	/r/MGTOW	02/11/18 02:21 PM
0	What's the deal with Los Angeles women? over 40 years old There’s your problem	/r/MGTOW	02/11/18 04:23 AM
1	She waited 6 years to get back at me MGTOW.	/r/MGTOW	19/09/18 11:58 PM
2	She waited 6 years to get back at me This is the biggest forehead slapper of them all.	/r/MGTOW	19/09/18 11:56 PM