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| 2 | Attraction to older women (30+) is more unusual than attraction to legal teensI think the CCP runs the American government so Americans don’t have kids. They think their Chinese Han race or whatever it’s called is superior. And yes they’re super racist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:47 PM |
| 1 | The solution is not women lowering lower their standards - it's males stepping their game upI think that when guys are young (around high school graduation) they have many of these qualities (except the job/independent because school). But they’re usually ostracized from relationships, and the girls date the bad boys. So you’re asking these now grown men to go back to a formula that didn’t work, and made them lonely in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Testosterone Level Decreasing in Men, Increasing in WomenOnce read a Dr Axe article, starter comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.In my experience, young women get the upper hand when it comes to white collar opportunities and jobs. The graduate assistants were pretty & thin, one with fake tits. In the workplace, both of my early employers hired very attractive female interns. The colleagues in my dept was heavily female. Most of the bosses are basically paying them for eye candy and a chance at banging/enticing male clients. It’s pretty gross and those women are unappealing tbh. Women want some CEO/management type but the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:45 AM |
| 0 | You get the woman you deserve by what you do or don’t do.“They aren’t the provider” yeah, a lot of men are rejected from jobs so the company can check the equality box. “They don’t protect women from anything” wdym? You’re protected everyday from foreign invasions by military, flooding by ditch diggers, everyday life by strangers,dads and S/O. Women want to go out in society so it’s impossible to protect 24/7 there you’re a Kardashian. It sounds like the men you choose to date don’t meet all the top tier requirements, but they’re attractive enough to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners?Regarding your ex’s, does it depend on their image staying the same? Let’s say one was a long haired surfer type, would you be attracted if he stayed that way, or it wouldn’t matter if he cleaned up his image and dressed in a button up with short hair bc he now has a 9-5 office job? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Is Social Media Culture Destroying Realistic Expectations?I’ll say that 10 years ago, I was one of the very few people in college that was in a relationship. And I was dating someone that didn’t go to school. College relationships were rare, and my friends not in college were more sexually active, dating, and more likely to end up in committed relationships/marriage. It’s more common to see college graduates marry in their 30s or forever single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 05:29 PM |
| 0 | Is Social Media Culture Destroying Realistic Expectations?This is like icing on their cake but not a mold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Is Social Media Culture Destroying Realistic Expectations?What is the mold of what women want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Being a traditional women does not benefit womenNot my problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Being a traditional women does not benefit womenThe trad women and the men they married early are the most successful couples I know. “Modern” women are the reason why so many guys turn into fuckboys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Lauren Sanchez , Jeff Bezos new wife, shows that looks at the most important thing in maintaining a long term relationship with a man.MacKenzie is fine, and Lauren is unappealing with her gold digger history combined with the Joker smile. I think Looks like a lifestyle match since Jeff and Lauren enjoy attention and indulging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:58 AM |
| 11 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceNot sure if the 20s, 30s women are out there competing for a good partner but trying to outdo each other on hippie trends, attention, social media. Nonetheless there’s more incentive for women to go out for more attention and the material world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:04 PM |
| 0 | Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance?Guys at the bar/parties- probably 80% Guys doing errands during the day-probably 25% I would say it has more to do with outfit/revealing clothing or social settings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.Haha. Modern women wanna be able to sail a yacht under the the bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 09:16 PM |
| 5 | What are “boundaries” to you?If hot guy sets boundaries then it’s hot and dominant. When average guy sets the same boundaries it’s controlling, misogynistic, and unbearable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 04:17 AM |
| – | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneCan confirm they want fuckboy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 01:58 AM |
| 12 | CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can makeWomen are spoon-fed great opportunities and jobs. Especially if they’re attractive. That’s why it’s common to see Reddit women saying they make more than hubby, or they can’t find a man with a prestigious or premier job. As a man you have to be exceptional professionally or right place/right time. Then be exceptional and outgoing in the dating expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 01:51 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can makeI do know married men that are happy, healthy, and wealthy. Most of them married young because they found a good woman in high school. I was on the same track except mine was a chronic liar and a weed junkie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 01:38 AM |
| 1 | What women like vs what men think they likePerhaps it’s all the professional lighting, image consultants and photography. If he took an everyday picture with an iphone, he’d look average maybe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 01:10 AM |
| 0 | Modern men offer nothing to relationshipsToxic women are the reason behind a lot of your problems with men. For average and below men, it’s like playing a rigged game most of your life but if you keep trying you’ll eventually “win” a modern woman that’ll eventually divorce rape, make you raise other men’s kids, and do both roles because cosmopolitan and hot girl summer magazine said so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | What causes people to do a complete 180?Sounds like no sexual tension created, dragging out dates, you’re talking too much, following the typical advancing stages where there’s no spontaneity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Men want a woman who is as into him as possible, women want a man who ticks as many checkboxes as possibleI’ll take woman B at this stage. Boujee life and have me time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Guys who try and have sex quickly with women (first date), is it because you already ruled them out as gf material?Sugar arrangements can probably lead to a hookup within 30 minutes. But if the guy is looking for a relationship, and tries to hookup in 30 minutes, he’s considered a scumbag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 04:34 PM |
| 8 | The continued rise of sugar datingSo wives that cheat should lose everything they hold dear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 03:58 AM |
| 2 | The continued rise of sugar datingYou’re ok with men cheating on their wives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Women say look out for signals to approach, what are the signals?She’s probably just as confused if she likes you. That’s like someone telling you the sky is blue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 04:12 AM |
| 1 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)Debt free and living rent free in your little beta incel mind🤯 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 11:04 PM |
| 1 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)You must have ran out of goats to bang. It’s pathetic that you’re following me. No debt even though I could’ve paid it of years ago. Love my haters ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 07:25 PM |
| 1 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)Looks like you’re from Nepal so you probably don’t do anything but bathe in a piss stream with your lil virgin brown clit you claim is a dick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)I feel so sorry for you and your broke husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 02:20 PM |
| 0 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)Of course you can’t read, you broke and uneducated loser lmaaaooooo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)Now you’re trying to stretch it to 30 minutes lol. 30 minutes is what I’d call a quickie. Enjoy your wimp, shrimp dick cuckold husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 07:57 PM |
| 0 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)Your sissy husband doesn’t know what a tight pussy is. He’d enjoy all the 18-20yo’s I’ve had for about 10 seconds and simp for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 05:10 PM |
| -1 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)10 minutes 🤣🤣. You married a lil bitch lmaoooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)Is that the best you’ve got? How long does your husband last in your blobfish hole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 04:48 PM |
| -1 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)I’ve fucked longer than most people’s day shifts. Could’ve easily beaten the world record. I see your salty because you’re average though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Women more likely to cheat..It’s a generational regression. A brainwashing. Why is there pop culture media pushing this stupid narrative? Whoever is behind it has made a serious effort to push it successfully so far. I talked to a younger woman, in her 20s with 3 kids, that moved from a developing country. She has the same opinion as the older generations, and they simply think you’re retarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 04:11 PM |
| 10 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)99% chance OP is “not like the other girls” There’s a lot of self entitlement today. Our parents generation was nothing but her definition of average guys. Even rich guys I know today are boring af. Doesn’t take a special skill to drive a Lambo any different than a Honda Civic or swipe a credit card. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Women more likely to cheat..That’s exactly what it’s saying. Congrats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Women more likely to cheat..Your problem is that you didn’t comprehend the first message. I don’t even know how you arrived at this conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Women more likely to cheat..You’re overestimating the number of people in relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 11:39 PM |
| 0 | Women more likely to cheat..majority noun ma·jor·i·ty mə-ˈjȯr-ə-tē -ˈjär- plural majorities 1 a : a number or percentage equaling more than half of a total a majority of voters a two-thirds majority b : the excess of a majority over the remainder of the total : MARGIN won by a majority of 10 votes c : the greater quantity or share the majority of the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 11:33 PM |
| 0 | Women more likely to cheat..Absolutely not They are rare. Most women that know them will wait for their chance, even stalk them. The guys have a rotation of options. Obviously most of the women are in a pipe dream so they’ll eventually they’ll settle for less or stay single. One of the issues with dating seems to be the Chads and Stacys don’t marry each other early. When they did in the past, everyone else finds a bonding mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Women more likely to cheat..The top guys have infinite options. Average guys are not desirable. But if they get into a relationship, there might be more women throwing themselves at them. Probably for jealousy or spite. Women can cheat anytime. If you’re an average Joe you likely have been cheated on, assuming you even had a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 10:20 PM |
| 0 | Women more likely to cheat..Lol. I thought there were only a handful of desirable males around, which is why we have to fight for their attention and commitment. Correct. Guys in relationships are more desirable to single females. Either to steal the guy away or bang him to spite the girl. How can the "majority" of relationships these women are in be with a desirable male? So many guys complaining about how they can’t even land one date. So many women sitting on the sidelines until Mr check all the boxes has arrived and do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 05:54 PM |
| -1 | Women more likely to cheat..There’s fewer 18-29 people in relationships. Common sense says that majority of these relationships would be with a desirable male. Single females likely throwing themselves at the desirable men in these relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Men are 10x more obsessed with penis size than womenSomeone activated the penis bot detector in one of their comments 😆🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | True wealth is mostly invisible, so how does "getting money" improve your chances if it can't be seen?It doesn’t take a lifetime. Maybe 6 months you’ll see a new you. When you start working on one thing, you’ll pick up on other things. So it’s a snowball effect. Start working on these things: making eye contact and holding it, maintaining your frame (calm, collected, no person can disturb your aura or make you fidget), thinking of yourself as a 10 (because everyone has their own opinion and we don’t care about anyone’s opinion). Forget the logical stuff. It’s more of thinking outside the box whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | True wealth is mostly invisible, so how does "getting money" improve your chances if it can't be seen?I’m sorry you feel that way about yourself man. Early 20s was difficult for me as well. I’ll tell you that much of my success I have now was through mindset, developing charisma, learning about life and people, etc. It’s the basics and THEN if you have style, nice car, gym body it’s icing on top of the cake. That’s why it’s difficult to tell guys how to improve because they want a quick simple answer like new shoes and cologne. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | A new show on NBC allows contestant couples to date younger partners for a Hall Pass trial period to see if they are staying or leaving the marriage https://nypost.com/2022/12/15/peacocks-new-reality-dating-love-for-the-ages-premieres/You’re talking about being poly with someone’s future wife. Well, not mine. I vomit when I see engagement rings now and I really wanted to get married when I was younger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Male kinks and depravityNot even talking about porn as a network, there’s a lot of women that engage in posting nude photos of themselves, all kinds of kinks these authors couldn’t imagine, and the easy route to real life kinks if they wanted, much more than 1on1, like joining couples or gangbang. My first girlfriend knew way more about kinks at a young age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Do men or women feel more pressure to “keep up with the Joneses” when it comes to dating and marriage?Women I’ve dated, my sister, family members, friends in social circles, ex gfs when I find out they’re dating someone else One time I tagged a girl I was dating and sleeping with, and she removed her tag immediately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Do men or women feel more pressure to “keep up with the Joneses” when it comes to dating and marriage?Facebook and Instagram. Don’t know anyone with onlyfans nor have I joined one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 01:40 PM |
| 0 | Do men or women feel more pressure to “keep up with the Joneses” when it comes to dating and marriage?You said that guys will keep women of certain characteristics a secret. I have seen one guy do that. Women will keep their boyfriends secret from their social media. I see it all the time, for years. My girlfriends, friends, friends of friends, family. It’s a response to your comment. I can agree with it because I’ve seen it ONE time lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 05:01 AM |
| 0 | Do men or women feel more pressure to “keep up with the Joneses” when it comes to dating and marriage?Women do NOT post their loved one or any guy they have any romantic attachment. Some do, many don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Do men or women feel more pressure to “keep up with the Joneses” when it comes to dating and marriage?It’s not about what the Instagram shows | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Do men or women feel more pressure to “keep up with the Joneses” when it comes to dating and marriage?Did you not read his comment? Stop pressuring/shaming people to date. He’s a strong and independent man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Do men or women feel more pressure to “keep up with the Joneses” when it comes to dating and marriage?If I had a dollar for every woman that, on social media, did not post any picture or reference to their boyfriend, I’d be a multi millionaire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 02:51 AM |
| 21 | Do men or women feel more pressure to “keep up with the Joneses” when it comes to dating and marriage?Women by a light year. Their Instagram is a centrifugal melting pot of gloating, showing off, jealousy and anger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How shaken up would relationships be when decline in males born gets critical?It’s only going to get worse. The estrogenic compounds exposed to male babies supposedly makes them have un or underdeveloped genitals. You only need to inhibit one male hormone for someone genetically XY male to be raised female and look identical to an XX female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Most of the sex people are having is bad for the girl. I think most women know this and expect it to be bad lolI can lay the pipe but in the back of my mind I despise that sex exists. It’s a lot of pressure to constantly come up with new things, deliver what she wants every time, get better and never regress, sexual tension, stay physically attractive. Why? I only wanted to get married at an early age and have great sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 01:07 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.You likely already tasted their ginas and bhole on his lips 😨😨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:55 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.Childless women go to Hell. It’s unfortunate that women like you mislead the others. Many are already unattractive and they think a desirable guy is just around the corner. I’m 32 and have 18-22s wanting me. Near zero chance I date my own age. They had their chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:51 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.Society thanks you🙌 for not procreating. This feminist and materialistic culture pushed by media is really working to extinct the worthless filth. Thanks mainstream media ❤️ we owe ya big time!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:33 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.Who’s going to take care of you when you’re old, wrinkled, and your husband is dead? And who’s going to inherit your estate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | The logical reason men want younger women for relationships...That’s not a relationship or dating. We’re talking about an overwhelming preference (and ease) to date older until about 30. Then it’s time for same age dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | aspiration seems very high among women in my area. Is this a new norm in big cities?Of course there’s obese female lawyers and like any obese female in a profession, there is not an easy way in the door because they are an eye sore. Doesn’t explain when I worked, the other division was 100% female with a female boss. My original plan was to be a lawyer. “And he said, “Woe to you lawyers also! For you load people with burdens hard to bear, and you yourselves do not touch the burdens with one of your fingers.” Finance and accounting double major, and no I don’t slave or answer to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 06:00 AM |
| 3 | aspiration seems very high among women in my area. Is this a new norm in big cities?Yes, women are way more likely to hire another woman. Thanks for adding that and a rare circumstance of qualifications. It’s a fallacy to think that all these attractive women were the most qualified, and that their attractiveness or horndog bosses didn’t make exceptions. It’s not a coincidence there’s quite a few attractive women with access to prestigious jobs. It’s not a coincidence of hard work, but privilege. Ask the qualified, obese women too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 08:49 PM |
| 3 | The logical reason men want younger women for relationships...It makes me sad tbh. As a guy, I wanted to get married early and only be with one woman for life. I had girlfriends at that age, but it was a nonstop battle, I guess because they had many options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | The logical reason men want younger women for relationships...As a man, you’re chosen to date younger. When I was in high school, I discovered the girl I wanted to date, either 16 or 17, was dating a 28yo. When the girls get close to 30 themselves, the dating cycle hurts them, just like it hurt the guys in their late teens/early 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 08:02 PM |
| 2 | aspiration seems very high among women in my area. Is this a new norm in big cities?Yep, getting the jobs because the bosses want to look at T&A. And these women wonder why it’s hard to find men of similar “achievements.” DC is an amazing area, but the women weren’t as attractive as Chicago or LA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | aspiration seems very high among women in my area. Is this a new norm in big cities?Either you’re super qualified or attractive. I’m going to do a social experiment where I’ll create a fake LinkedIn profile with a pretty woman about my age and her name on my resume. I would put my life on the fact they’ll be blowing up my phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Job status/money doesn’t matter anymoreKind of off topic, but a question since you have a white collar job. I have an accounting and finance double major. Applied for a job I really wanted and had the experience. Preinterview with a guy went well. He told me the controller and assistant would review applicants. I instantly knew I wouldn’t get the second interview when he referred to controller as “she” Now hear me out. I’ve worked with large groups of women at 2 jobs. They bond with each other and like to talk about female things or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Random Variety vs Stable VarietyI prefer the stable option. I engaged in the variety option for the purpose of finding a new stable gf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner?Its kinda funny because I know one woman that was married to both types. Type 2 usually gets the ladies as he’d have the live life, spend big & flashy, has that show off charisma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner?I think the point is cash loaded man with a low status, low paying job vs man in debt with a high status, high paying job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 12:08 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner?I can see what OP was trying to portray but poorly presented so it’s not going to accomplish or prove anything. Any gold digger is smart enough to go number 1 and divorce shortly after or at least entitle a payday upon divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | "Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't likeYou sound like an angry man-Karen. I shall call you Maren | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | "Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't likeYou cannot teach unattractive men. They think in extremes of nice guy and abusive ahole. Then get angry because they can’t balance or push/pull. So I just give up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 04:02 AM |
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