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But that 60 percent needs the 40 percent to be terrible to make themselves look better. So they can say "well at least I hit the wall instead" or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:30 PM
1

That's not the argument I was making. I was saying women are catching onto predatory behavior and it's going to effect business.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:26 PM
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It's effecting the economy too. Roofies have gotten so bad in Boston, many women (including myself) have written off some bars and some skip going out in general. We even have a group on Facebook talking about dangerous bars(men) we've encountered out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:28 PM
2

You could say that about furries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:38 PM
2

For me it's because he doesn't want an online presence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:37 PM
1

Happy Valentine's Day moon!
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/23 04:14 PM
3

I guess. But I also don't think housewives should be slaves either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:24 AM
5

I guarantee if I'm paying half the bills no one's telling me what to do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:05 AM
6

As a fellow queer I love your flair. It's funny watching the straights choose to have so many rules
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:03 AM
6

Dead 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:57 AM
3

Not if I'm making half the income
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:57 AM
1

Imagine trying to intellectualize being a deadbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:56 AM
1

Then why did you have a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:46 AM
2

Agree. Blaming society is so lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:45 AM
2

I don't care if they put a lock on the door. Nothing would keep me from my kid. If a dad is going to go "of well society is bad" then he doesn't have the balls to be a parent anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:44 AM
40

So many men want a housewife with no house.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:52 PM
1

I mean my boss introduced himself to me as well and we have a completely platonic relationship. Knowing someone's name isn't foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:35 AM
2

I would find another then. Finding a church that supports my family planning is huge for us. We don't want a bunch of old people. We want community our kids can grow in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:34 AM
10

Yeah I grew up in the church. Huge party phase once I went to college. Literally textbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:41 AM
0

I guess? This isn't the Middle East
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:40 AM
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Birth rates should go lower. We don't have finite resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:12 AM
2

Look to the church!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:05 AM
5

If you're on tik tok there was like a whole Mormon swinger cabal but one couple took it too far and then they all got divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:12 AM
1

They do. I asked my husband out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:58 AM
1

The pick dick in my nightstand is pretty nice and it doesn't talk back
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:59 AM
2

That sounds nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:57 AM
4

I'm married, but honestly I've always enjoyed my own company and being alone. Old age with kitties sounds nice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:47 AM
7

A classic is when you reject them and get hit with the "you're ugly anyway"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:20 AM
-1

Men are scary. Stalkers are a real threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:15 AM
1

I pull much more now than I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:28 PM
1

I am more attractive than I was in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:07 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:29 PM
2

Who is they. Go on. Say it with your chest.
/r/AntiFeminists12/02/23 05:12 PM
1

You're sexualizing minors, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:09 PM
1

Jb?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:26 PM
2

My teenage years were very unstable. My senior portrait is jarring. I look much younger now as much of that stress is gone and I've gotten some good therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:13 PM
2

I think it depends on region. I'm in Boston (I'm bi so I do look at women sexually) and it's the boss babes, can afford equinox and cosmetic procedures that catch my eyes. You need a good job to pay for these things so these women are typically older. But I guess if you're in middle America where women typically do start popping out kids early and eating casseroles the younger category is more appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:11 PM
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Seek God.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:07 PM
1

And that's attractive to you? 🚨
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:02 PM
5

Yeah it's why all of the "popular" girls age like milk. Looking 25 in high school gets 21 year olds to buy you beer for prom but it sneaks up on uou
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:56 PM
1

If she's 36 she's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:49 PM
2

My skin is better at 26 due than my early 20s due to removing hormonal birth control, quitting binge drinking etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:45 PM
6

Yup. The beer and "tough guys don't wear sunscreen" kicks in for (white) men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:44 PM
1

"Had to pull up on her mama to see what she's made of."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:38 PM
2

There's huge benefits to cold showers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:38 PM
2

Yup I'm being told "you'll missing someone running to hug you at the end of the day?" Do men not want that? Do they think they don't deserve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:24 PM
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I agree. If I asked my friend group their "type" it rages from blue collar big guys to nerdy looking guys. It's a diverse scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:18 PM
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That's funny because I'm a woman and I feel the most happy when I'm making money. But then I'm told I'll die alone with my cats (which sounds nice)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:07 PM
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I agree there's nothing wrong with wanting a virgin. It does feel a little middle eastern though when it becomes someone's number one priority. If someone otherwise checks all of the boxes, but has had a boyfriend or two before I don't see an issue. Speaking personally, I'm a born again Christian, so I see the value in virginity but unfortunately I don't get that luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:06 PM
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Not really. Gym rat dad is scared of mom and needs an outlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:51 PM
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Generics play a huge part in your body. I'm pretty fit, eat well, but I have ibs so my stomach is very rarely at a 180 angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:23 PM
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Genetics play a huge part in your body. I'm pretty fit, eat well, but I have ibs so my stomach is very rarely at a 180 angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:23 PM
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Boring, ornery, people don't make it too far up the corporate ladder. You do need some sort of charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:24 PM
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I've found most "trad men" to be just larping online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:22 PM
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I don't really have role models. Maybe princess Diana for how she treated people, but I'm honestly more fascinated with her story than any character of hers. So that's my thing. Are men so lost that they flounder without authority? My success as a woman is based off of few people. My mother stayed at home so it's not like i got career advice there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:13 AM
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I felt the same way about men. Then I realized I was 💅
/r/MensRights09/02/23 05:31 AM
-2

Are you bothered by loud noises and fluorescent lighting as well? Just a hunch...
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/23 05:27 AM
0

As they should
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:15 PM
3

And are those girls with us in the room right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:14 PM
4

I think it's interesting how almost every woman knows a woman that has been harassed/assaulted by men conveniently don't know any rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:11 PM
0

Exactly. Just wish they had the stones to say it with their chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:04 PM
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I majored in history and government. But I roll my eyes so hard when politics are needlessly brought into conversation. It's the ability to talk about the serious, while not taking life that way. Tdlr: women can be multi faceted too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:34 AM
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The in budget is the biggest part. I'm from the south, and conservative men still have conservatives wives who stay pretty and take care of kids all day. Thing is, someone has to pay for that and many men can't cut it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:28 AM
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As a woman I will say that other women can be really boring. But, it's because We're socialized to not have hobbies outside of being pretty. Nothing is more annoying than going to a new friend's house and all she wants to do is get ready, drink, gossip, and talk about guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:40 AM
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Thank you. Men pull nuggets of trauma out of no where to excuse bad behavior. It's a meme at this point that they blame the dead grandma when they're caught cheating or whatever. During our engagement speech, my future mother and law thanked me for "being so good for him and being a positive influence. Yeah, he's become a better man since meeting me. But we grew together, I don't like that I had any part of his maturing honestly. Because that's work on my end and raising him to be a decent perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:37 AM
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I think we're the same but you guys think your anger is from a place of rationality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:32 AM
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When will we be freed from the shackles of this damn survey
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:35 PM
2

The first sentence hits the nail on the head. I tell people being pretty is the least interesting thing about me. It really throws people threw a loop as in the big year 2023 some still think it's the best complement you can give a woman. It's true though; and being naturally pretty means I have far less to prove. I married my husband because he's funny and he loves me. Not cause he's a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:13 PM
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Harvard men 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:07 PM
2

I actually agree with this. I remember reading a poster on here talking about how he's slept with over 100 women and makes 100k. Yet he was absolutely miserable and was still so angry and aggressive. Women are starting to catch on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:58 PM
1

Or she's just not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:11 PM
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And as cliche as it is, looks fade.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:57 PM
0

This is most relationships I see. Women usually date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:56 PM
0

Also dead bedrooms have so much more to do with health, libido, etc that attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:55 PM
2

No one's saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:54 PM
0

There's plenty of traditional women in my community
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:11 PM
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Neither is my husband lol. He's cultural catholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:27 PM
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Conservative (Christian) marriages still exist. I know because I'm in one. And they happen every day. If you can't cut it, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:04 AM
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Please get help.
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/23 09:29 PM
1

Yeah lol. And I'd rather be alone than settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:16 PM
1

I think this is black and white thinking. I'm saying that no one's entitled to a hot meal waiting on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:34 PM
2

you women don't actually want a nice guy
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/23 04:09 AM
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Everyone should know how to cook. I'm equally disappointed in the women living off of Trader Joe's meals and take out as I am entitled men living in the 1950s still
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:40 AM
2

Law and order SVU Holden's Manifesto has the exact same language
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/23 03:36 AM
3

Their post history reads like a manifesto
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/23 12:57 AM
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The frequency of posts is alarming.
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/23 05:12 PM
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Not every man is looking for a woman to cook and clean for him. It's 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:33 PM
2

Why do you need a random stranger to validate that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:16 AM
1

Okay! Doesn't really line up with my lifestyle but that's fine!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:47 PM
1

...which is a by product of chattel slavery which falls under the umbrella of white supremacy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:56 PM
1

This is so racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:51 PM
2

I'm sorry if that's your experience. Dating apps give the ability to make a laundry list. Think of it like a job posting on indeed; you're only supposed to meet like 75 percent of the requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:48 PM
1

Is this based off a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:07 PM
0

I'm a very anti immigration person. America is for Americans. That includes your green card wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:06 PM
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They love to blame women for the "height discrimination" but they're always the ones bringing it up...like I don't care about height. Many women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:05 PM
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You should see my DMs. I've only been posting here a week and the violent nature/how unstable these men are is concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:04 PM
5

Me when I don't think critically
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:52 PM
2

Some of the comments give me the vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:43 PM
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Lots of black and white thinking on this sub. Some conflate "fit and attractive" with "good." It's terrible subjective too. Fat men used to be seen as more attractive as they were the ones with the wealth (and therefore the food). Maybe as we enter a recession we will see a resurgence of the dad bod. Good thing I'm already married lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:19 PM
3

Feminization of Asian men through white supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:14 PM
1

Sex is like any sort of dopamine releaser. If you dependent on a bunch of it, I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:57 PM
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Thank you for your honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:55 PM
1

Right like that's someone son
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:53 PM
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I haven't seen this acknowledged on here. Thanks That's so interesting because I got told I probably have low sexual value (which is hilarious because I know im attractive) because I said that I've only ever dated dad bod types. Im naturally thin so I don't really go to the gym except for spin classes so a gym bro isn't really matching up with my lifestyle. I love to cook and drink wine so it's actually pretty mismatched for me to date a fit guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:52 PM
1

*their I guess we're not that oblivious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:48 PM
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Exactly. Fat feminist women are allowed to exist. It's not their fault you can't get laid. They just want to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:46 PM
4

That sounds like it's mutually beneficial for all consenting adults involved. I hope the other men on this page have your level of self awareness one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:44 PM
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They see women and children the same way. Only as extensions of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:38 PM
0

Where I live 100k provides a middle class lifestyle. Some Men can't keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:28 PM
0

Right. Only recently is body positivity a thing. We are raised from birth to understand what attractiveness is. For a while it was the only currency we had.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:22 PM
4

Why couldn't you do that in the west? What made you suddenly more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:08 PM
1

Right I'd argue that if it keeps them from shooting up an elementary school or whatever let's import these women. Society wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:00 PM
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✨ therapy ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:49 PM
4

Thank you for at least paying for their time. I respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:46 PM
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I don't mind it at all. Seriously. I'm glad these ladies are taking one for the team. It's just, I guess annoying is the word, that puts the blame back onto women. "I had to go do this because American women are so entitled." Plenty of American men are still get laid, in relationships, and even choose to get married. Traditional/conservative/whatever women still exist in western society. It's your fault you couldn't find one. Some personal responsibility would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:43 PM
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Shouldn't we all fall over backwards for the guy who gets overstimulated at subway
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/23 03:32 AM
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I mean this with love and light, but the frequency you post here isn't healthy for anyone. If you're angry; there's much healthier outlets.
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/23 01:52 AM
1

Exactly. It shows me that someone is sheltered/not well traveled if they are bothered by these things.
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/23 01:02 AM
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Even in my office we (26f) naturally gravitate towards planning the office parties and buying cards for people having babies, taking notes etc. femininity is still shining through traditionally masculine places
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/23 12:57 AM
1

The irony of men wanting traditional women but all they do is make podcasts and sell things online. Remember when they used to build things?
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/23 12:54 AM
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I'm Appalachian so our vernacular is very similar to AAVE. Just because people talk differently, doesn' mean they aren't intelligent. Im college educated and work in tech consulting and I proudly wear my accent and dialects to client sites.
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/23 12:52 AM
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Because that's an over simplification and a stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:52 PM
2

Why am I a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:41 PM
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I'm married and love my husband dearly. I'm also extremely close with my father and have two business mentors that are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:59 PM
3

Essentially. I picked a pill that I think (?) represents feminism but if you use this as gospel I assume there's at least one parental relationship regardless of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:13 PM
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What all are men doing for me exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:23 PM
2

I'm referencing guys who blame living in their moms basement to not getting laid. Your projecting your idea of wealth and success into something I did not say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:20 PM
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Exactly. None of the men in my life have this entitled attitude. They do right because it's the right thing to do. I get up and go to work everyday to support myself and my future goals and ambition. If that includes a partner; great! But I attribute my success to my own instinct work ethic. I'm not a dog; I don't need treats wagged in front of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:53 PM
1

I am conservative so 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:16 PM
1

I've seen men explain that the rise of men just staying at home, not buying/building houses is because they need to be motivated by the ability to get laid/be in a relationship and since that's harder they just 'choose' not to do anything with their lives. It's honestly so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:15 PM
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I mean decency is decency. It goes back to your parents. I don't feel the need to make fun of people as i had a two parent household filled with mutually love and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:43 AM
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That's great multiple streams of income is important. My husband is a business owner and sometimes makes what I make in a week. In the winter, I'm the breadwinner. But since you know first hand that women can be high earners, do you not find your OF comment a little hurtful?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:50 AM
1

Because the Madonna whore complex can explain most things on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:52 AM
3

But only a mother would?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:50 AM
1

So what do you do for a living? Let's play a game where you tell us and then us ladies can comment whether we think our jobs make more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:50 AM
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So the average relationship will never be comfortable to what his mother has done for him? How Freudian.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:47 AM
1

Okay. Sorry your mom sucks and you had a bad childhood. Not anyone else's problem. Especially women on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:45 AM
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Because it negates his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:43 AM
1

I have a better help referral link. You'd get a discount.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:35 AM
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*Reckless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:22 AM
2

If I receive feedback at work from a peer I try to incorporate it. I don't tell my co worker to go work somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:19 AM
1

Yes those women just disappeared into thin air
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:18 AM
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*you're
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:07 AM
2

Yeah I'm not following either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:06 AM
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Being ignored sounds nice. And I'll be paid out with my prenup 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:05 AM
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The way my husband speaks about women he doesn't find attractive is misogynistic and terrible (and plenty of arguments have been had). It's like they don't even recognize the cruelty; especially if the woman used to be attractive. I can only imagine what his single, on the scene friends say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:57 AM
0

Agreed. It's just apart of my morning routine. Maybe it's because I'm a woman, but I've never understood why men get so up and arms about not having sex. If I can figure out which buttons to press, why can't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:38 AM
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I'm married :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:37 AM
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Did she get pregnant by herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:37 AM
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If you don't want to be a father, wrap it up or abstain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:32 AM
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*women. If they're in college, they're adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:57 PM
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That's so sad. Mothers (grandmothers, aunts) are such martyrs for their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:41 PM
21

Right. I'd trade it in a heartbeat. Literally all I want in life is to be left alone while in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:32 PM
15

Do you not think rape has played a role in that historically? Have you ever heard the phrase "rape and pillage?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:32 PM
5

Hi! Survivor myself. Glad you're here. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:31 PM
1

Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:30 PM
18

Pros: opened doors for you Cons: literal rape
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:29 PM
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They forget where they come from. A woman risked her life for 9 months for them to be here. Edit: no one cares about your mommy issues. If this upsets you, please reach out to a professional. These responses are Freudian.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:26 PM
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I literally could just masterbate the rest of my life. Meanwhile people write angry manifestos on here about how they can't get laid. It's sad and undisciplined.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:24 PM
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If she's pretty she's going to gather attention so I guess I'm not understanding or men actually just want to date ugly girls
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:16 PM
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Oh I don't lol. But I feel bad for other women the few times I've been like "what the fuck" the guys look confused. Crazy how men watch porn since they're like 12 and still can't figure things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:14 PM
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Right?! I'm 26 and I don't doubt that I could get along with someone in their 40s. But it's not the guys who are like "I go for 26 year olds". It's men who look for women they have a genuine connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:10 PM
3

That's middle class in my city.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:09 PM
7

Plus a guy my own age, acts like my age. If a guy that's +10 years older than me is acting my age, it's an ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:59 PM
1

With what money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:08 PM
11

I'd rather be rude than dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:54 PM
5

Yup. I made this mistake. Making polite conversation on a plane. Mentioned my undergrad and that I was heading home for Christmas. With that little of information, he managed to find my Facebook and message me multiple times that he couldn't forget our time together. That's the last time I make small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:50 PM
7

Maybe we just don't want to be sexualized while buying fucking lettuce
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:05 PM
9

Me take the littlest things as an invitation. I've only been participating in this sub for a few days and I've already received like 5 dms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:01 PM
2

Candidly I don't think about men that much to change my face muscles. If it happens naturally, so be it. But this is also uniquely American/western. A smile/pleasant face isn't something anyone is entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:00 PM
16

They sure do. They rub the Labia for 5 minutes and ask you if you've came.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:52 PM
1

Then why are there like 10 posts a day about men having to go to Asia to find one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:34 AM
1

It is. Why would I want 100 percent of housework?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:32 AM
1

Women having kids is overall a bad idea. If I didn't have generational wealth I wouldn't think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:30 AM
1

It's interesting I'm told the trades are a far superior option to college and that I'll die penniless with my liberal arts degree but it's always blue collar men complaining about money. Someone's lying here...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:29 AM
2

I moved from finance to tech consulting for better quality of life (ironically we are trying for kids.) hours are brutal. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:21 AM
4

She had a ton of friends and hobbies. But answering "what's for dinner" for the rest of your life would send anyone into existential crisis if they think hard enough about it. It's why housewives used to be pumped full of drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:20 AM
0

Okay, next time my toddler falls out of bed I'll tell them to not bother me in my off hours
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:36 PM
1

The caged bird sings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:36 PM
1

Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:10 PM
0

Love is a bourgeois emotion. It's a silly thing to yearn for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:56 PM
1

I'll let Ms. Beauvoir know
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:50 PM
1

This is pink pussy hat feminism if I've ever seen it. Plenty of feminist authors describe the phenomenon she's talking about. "Yay women we are the best!" Is also a product of the patriarchy because it ignores the generational self hatred which is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:33 PM
0

Because your " worship"is conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:30 PM
3

Men have been taking land and resource since the dawn of time. I have that urge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:28 PM
3

Yup. I am someone's wife, someone's daughter. The perception of me is through my relationship to other men. I found this out when I got engaged. People treat you better. All anyone wants to talk about is this wedding. No one actually cares about anything I've done up until this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:27 PM
3

50k is poverty wages where I live.
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/23 07:53 PM
3

My dad and my husband are my rocks. My relationship with my father is truly how I know something super natural exists. It is deep and unconditional. Same with my husband, but it's so deep with my dad. That being said, when I critique men and their missteps within society, it's coming from a place of expecting more, and knowing they can do and be better. Not from bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:44 PM
12

I feel the same way. I wish I was born a man not because I'm trans or something but because being a woman is just being taken from. I want to be taken seriously as a contributor; a maker. I want to take, not be taken from.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:25 PM
1

I see...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:16 PM
1

I agree. I think he's really leaning into the click bait stuff with like Elon or whatever (which is fine, we all need to make money). I wish it was just a tad bit more anti establishment and less right wing. Let Ian talk more.
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/23 06:40 PM
4

I agree. Diet and exercise are a huge factor. I get more complements at 26 than I did at 20 because I take better care of myself.
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/23 06:03 PM
2

It was a good piece. Hard to take Tim's bits about women seriously though.
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/23 05:40 PM
1

Can you go into more agreeable?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:12 PM
0

Can you verbalize why you prefer a specific subset of women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:54 PM
8

Why aren't women allowed? The rule is no feminism; not no women.
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/23 01:58 PM
-1

Parenting is a 24/7 job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:55 PM
1

Those people are typically very wealthy, even wealthier than Americans of that class. They don't want the west's leftovers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:47 PM
3

I really don't care if men find that gross. But yes that's so true. They want a return to traditionalism while being obsessed with sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:09 AM
10

John works 9-5 while Mary works 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:07 AM
24

Employers don't want to hire someone with a 6 month gap let alone 5 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:05 AM
17

It's not even just about the money. My mom was so bored staying at home. It's repetitive and isolating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:04 AM
7

I think there's better role models than someone who tells women he loves raping them. I'll buy them 12 principles of life myself just tell me where to send it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:54 AM
5

Women enjoy casual sex. I don't know why being "ran through" is an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:53 AM
4

We are. The majority of my consulting firm is women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:50 AM
6

Exactly. I don't doubt that there's less and less economic advancement for low skill/uneducated men with manufacturing going overseas. But literally AT would call them broke so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:43 AM
3

We are supposed to be grateful for anyone rubbing our left labia I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:42 AM
7

I definitely see the appeal of AT. Does it have to do with entitlement? of course. But you can't really blame them when society tells them they'll get a pretty wife one day if they do XYZ. Women are excelling in the classroom and the boardroom and the need for men is lessening. Hell, even I out earn my husband. Therefore women can be more selective with partners and whether it's from looks or personality men get left behind. It has to be frustrating to not be able to find a mate. It must be incr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:39 AM
1

Just saw a great tik tok about this. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRsQTKBv/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:20 AM
1

I admire any woman who can keep another school shooting from happening. My hat goes off to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:19 AM
1

No one's stopping you babe. There's plenty of 3rd world women looking for a meal ticket. Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:54 AM
1

I'm married.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:00 AM
1

Right. Definitely feel sorry for these women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:08 PM
1

It's definitely a self fulfilling prophecy. These men give us the creeps; so I'm happy to have another woman taking one for the team so they can leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:31 PM
2

Agree. I've never met one of these couples where I thought it was a happy and mutually beneficial relationship. My ex-uncle is incredibly abusive to his SEA wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:25 PM
3

For real like that's someone's son lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:19 PM
3

Fine by me. Happy there's women who can take one for the team. Lord knows I didn't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:12 PM
2

Multiple things can be true at once. Women are coerced into cooking and cleaning for greasy losers due to the economic depressions in their own country. I respect their hustle and tenacity because as a western women we've rejected these men completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:56 PM
2

On the contrary. They see a lonely sucker in a 1st world country and all they have to do is cook and clean for a chance for a new life. I respect the hustle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:53 PM
3

I don't doubt it. And I'll never judge a woman for getting fed. Dealing with these men is a necessary evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:46 PM
1

Hunger and political instability can be quite persuasive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:42 PM
16

Men publicly state that they want these women because they're, "submissive." What could go wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:32 PM
2

Because it's coercion. Rich women from counties with stable governments arentlooking for greasy husbands online. Men who can get women organically don't need to import them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:28 PM
1

I think using one instance as an excuse for men not to build community is pretty weak minded honestly
/r/MensRights30/01/23 05:51 PM
0

Where are these female protesters? For example, my husband is on a softball league for men in the community. It's a great way to build each others self esteem. No ones picketing it.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 05:35 PM
10

Totally understand. I just wanted to offer a different perspective. It's hard not to fall into a broken society. Being a wife and a mother (fingers crossed) makes life worth living.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:32 AM
10

Maybe. It's just frustrating to see high value men value virginity above all else. I get the principle, because I'm the first person to say that sleeping around causes issues (especially from a place of trauma), but you could be writing off women who could use and want a good husband who would in turn be good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:15 AM
13

Of course not. I'd recommend therapy i didn't have access to. But I'm a pretty good wife and soon to be mother. My past is really a non issue. My advice is for the women who didn't have the luxury of virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:08 AM
4

I did that for my husband. But he's a provider which many men arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:52 AM
3

Maybe for you. The men I know come by it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:50 AM
0

Seems insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:49 AM
13

It's such a double standard. I was promiscuous because of a SA. It was me working through trauma. My husband loves me for me, so I hope other girls don't worry about finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:48 AM
1

I just know my resume is competitive I've never worried about who else is in the job market. If I lose a spot I blame my own incompetence not the workforce 🤷‍♀️
/r/AntiFeminists30/01/23 01:02 AM
2

What would you like feminists to take responsibility for?
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 07:51 PM
1

Being an attractive woman isn't cheap. I know my husband never minds paying for healthy food and my highlights.
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 07:47 PM
1

If you look at high paying industries like medicine, law, and finance it's still men who are in those high paying spots. Of course it's not all men; just the successful ones. If you lose your spot to a woman in a career isn't that on you? After all, are we more emotional and feeble minded? And you lose your job to us? "Women are less intelligent, don't have rational, and are more emotional but they're also threatening our job security."
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 07:41 PM
4

Most people date within their perceived attractiveness. I know I'm more "attractive" than my husband, but I've actually never been into the "pretty boys." None of my friends really went for more attractive partners either so I'm not sure where you've seen this phenomenon. Do you work out? Have nice teeth? Do you have acne? What does your wardrobe look like? There's a big difference between being ugly and unattractive.
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 07:36 PM
3

Southern women are though! We're raised right.
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 06:52 PM
-2

But if your resume is competitive then you wouldn't have to worry. High paying jobs still exist and (for now) they're still held by men.
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 06:46 PM
3

And it does. We're just not choosing you. My husband and I are trying for kids as are many other couples. Just because you aren't experiencing it doesn't mean it's not happening.
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 06:36 PM
5

When you make decisions all day it's nice to come home and have someone make some for you 😇
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 06:27 PM
6

Plenty of dudes still get laid everyday and most women would consider themselves feminists or at least sympathetic to the movement. I don't think blaming it is applicable here.
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 06:27 PM
-2

It reads "pretty girls won't have sex with and that makes me sad" to me too so if I'm misreading it please let me know.
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 06:26 PM
-2

I hope you can support a household on one income then.
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 06:24 PM
-3

Agree. Cities are filled with career minded, high achieving women.
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 05:56 PM
2

I mean you sound delightful it couldn't be your personality
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 05:27 PM
2

I love him dearly. That's why I want to protect his business
/r/MensRights28/01/23 02:43 AM
1

Be solution oriented here.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 12:01 AM
1

Men need to be leading the conversation on men's mental health. Recently there was a post on the main page about should men cry or not. So many still fall into the idea of "shove your feelings down."
/r/MensRights28/01/23 12:00 AM
5

I believe in connection. I don't doubt that a 50 year old can kind companionship in a woman in their 20s. I'm 26, and so is my husband, but I'm an "old soul" and think if I had to do it again (and hopefully I don't) I would definitely raise the age I was with substantially. Not for financial reasons (although a plus) but I love exploring and experiencing life and many people in their 20s just want to go to the same bars every weekend. My only, disagreement, per say, is that a 25 year old woman c…
/r/MensRights27/01/23 11:33 PM
1

I just finished my prenup. My fiancé's business is protected and everything we came into the marriage with we leave with. In fact, if we receive money in the marriage, that money (legally) belongs to whomever it is given to ( inheritance etc). We even have a 5k indefinitely clause. It's a good deal.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 11:26 PM
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