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https://books.google.com/advanced_book_search I've been looking through here for a while, you can set the publishing date, and any key words, I can not find anything that sounds remotely similar besides "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" which was published in 2003, and "Love, Marriage, and the Baby Carriage" published in 2011. I'm sorry but I hope that tool can help.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 02:29 AM
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I have a friend who makes decent money doing apple support from home, and you don't need experience to start. She has 6 kids, and likes it because you basically get to choose when you work, like Uber.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 12:25 AM
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I would look into coherence therapy. It's a really intense reliable form of therapy that can help you pinpoint where those issues come from, and resolve them. There are specific methods needed to even access the part of the brain that stores emotionally learned experiences in order to fix any negative defense mechanism built off of those experiences. Depression is one of those deeply imbedded issues it can "unlock access" to and fix. It's amazing. I can explain in better detail if you'd like, bu…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 07:26 PM
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Find out why you're rejecting your femininity! Seriously I was very, very tomboyish until I was 19-20. I realized it was because I didn't want to turn out like my mom. My dad raised me with healthy morals and principals, my mom was a wild animal. She would yell at me about copying her if I asked how she did her makeup or clothing a certain way, she told me stories about how immoral she was all her life (Without getting into it, I experienced a lot of pain growing up with my mom that made me reje…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 05:13 AM
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This is honestly one of my biggest pet peeves. People are addicted to flattery. They don't care if that person fixes their problem, or improves themselves, they do it to feel good about themselves and make everyone like them. "You're perfect the way you are" is such a disingenuous platitude, it's how you know someone's not your friend. (Fun fact, Dante considered flattery so evil that it puts you in the 8th layer of hell where you're plunged into feces. Which is super fitting imo.)
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/22 04:08 AM
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They have a bot that automatically bans people for following subreddits. r/TrueOffMyChest is the (more) conservative version of offmychest, and they don't ban for stupid reasons like that.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/22 07:36 PM
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Ohh Pakistan is beautiful. It sounds reasonable to ask him if you could do this instead, especially if you can actually find a better place to convince them with. It would be less likely to hurt any feelings if you could lead with nicer homes than feeling smothered. If being right under their house is too much, but living a house or 2 away is fine, and you could find some available places to show him, that might work for both of you. Also talk to him about feeling out of the loop. You're his wif…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 11:12 PM
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I hate the demoralization in "the dating scene".. Sleeping with your boyfriend is seen as acceptable, but where's the line? It's like you can just date a guy, screw him, break up, date a guy, screw him, break up x300 and it's like there's just no value in sexual relationships anymore. More and more kids are born to unmarried couples, are being raised by single mothers. Self-proclaimed sluts with no self control promoting their impulsive validation problem as empowerment. There still needs to be …
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/21 11:40 PM
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The whole point of marriage is it creates a solid commitment. It's harder to just split up and go your separate ways. If someone isn't ready for the commitment and risk involved with marriage, but they're totally fine with the 10x greater commitment of having kids, they are not ready for having kids. I understand men get screwed over by the system when they have a wife who decides to divorce them and clean them out, and see it as a possible life-ruining scenario for themselves, but how could the…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 05:47 AM
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These kind of "dress jackets" (and this one too) are super flattering imo. Jackets that tighten at the waist, they always look 10x's nicer than the ones that are bulky, gloves are also classy and keep you warm.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/21 06:26 AM
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"Ask yourself, is it better to spend your money on things that would please other people (jewelry, expensive clothes, handbags, tons of shoes, big wedding) or something that will truly add value to your joint life (your house, your car, amenities)? Ask yourself, is it more important to eat at the most expensive restaurant, or to invest money in things that bring you closer, such as vacations or activities that you enjoy?" 100% agree. I heard a psychologist say if you're between the choice of buy…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 01:55 AM
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Since becoming a mom I had to really start managing my appetite and emotional eating way more, especially because I used to be a chubby teen. So these are some things that helped me. Drink coffee in the morning, not energy drinks. It will curb your appetite. After years of energy drinks they don't work half as well as coffee. Pay attention to the times you feel like you usually binge. I started binging every night at 5pm. Try to distract yourself. TV and computers don't work very well because yo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 05:36 PM
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We're both doing great now, no worries! We were both really social and out all the time, and we had each other, so it didn't feel like hard times.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/21 12:22 AM
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Oh, I really wasn't being healthy or exercising or anything. I was staying with my mom, and we were so broke we couldn't afford to eat everyday.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/21 11:18 PM
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I noticed this too. I dropped weight from 170 to 120 in a year, and at the beginning, I was quiet, didn't have many friends, took my lunch breaks alone, never went out, no one really cared to talk to me unless they needed me for a favor or something. Then by the end of the year I was getting invited to parties, hookah bars, birthdays and holiday events, clubs, small get-togethers, I was in a bunch of social circles and people would take their breaks when I did to hang out and chat. I seriously h…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/21 05:55 PM
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I've been married to a close friend from highschool for 7 years, but if it were up to your mom I'd be single too. Those prerequisites are kind of insane. You need a vacation beach house for a husband? No you don't. You need to introduce him to great connections for a happy marriage? No you don't. Being a good wife has nothing to do with having a lot of material things before you can find love. If anything you would be more likely to find a man who loves you for your stuff rather than you! You're…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/21 03:22 PM
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I would have got some evidence and exposed them. People might see this as betraying your friend and getting involved in other people's business, but that is exactly what the friend did and all this does is defend her and the married guy from facing reality and any consequences for their actions. If cheating isn't a big deal, then exposing it isn't a big deal, right? Telling the truth also spares people from going through any more lies and deceit from their unfaithful partners. At least you stopp…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/21 05:33 PM
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Oh okay. I was thinking there could be something unresolved in them, depending on how often you mention your childhood, but I think it would manifest other issues in your life if your view of yourself was dysfunctional. But I get it, I've had friends who were really awful when they were younger, had made a lot of unhealthy decisions, and the ones who were strong enough to own up to it and change their ways are the ones who ended up doing WAY better in life than the ones who didn't. But they also…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 05:38 AM
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Do you have any issues with anxiety or self-hate from this? Do you feel extreme emotions over your childhood events and self-blame?
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 02:19 AM
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Friends with benefits doesn't work. Sex causes feelings regardless of if you intend it to or not, and while you're seeing other people it makes the entire relationship messy. Either cut it off, or take counseling with him. Cheating comes from deeper issues he needs to work on regardless of if you stay together or not. Whether it's confidence issues, insecurity issues, influence from an authority figure making him think it's "normal", he's a treacherous and immature person who needs to work on hi…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/21 08:51 PM
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Tell him if he keeps peeing in public, he's going to end up on a sex offender registry. It's not worth that, he's being too much of a manchild. He needs to take care of his basic hygiene, being "cute and nice and funny" are things you apply to him yourself. In the real world, those things are subjective, but having bad hygiene and pissing in public are not.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/21 01:36 AM
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I had this problem that kind of went away on its own after I confronted her about it. It was his friend he dated in the past and made it 100% clear he was not attracted to her or had any interest in dating her again. Nonetheless she would bring up times she saw him in his underwear, naked, joke about his nipples being hard, etc. So I told her it was inappropriate and made both of us feel uncomfortable. She kept on with the nipple thing when I didn't mention it in the confrontation but I just let…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 10:02 PM
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