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https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/. More info.
/r/seduction31/10/22 03:11 PM
18

https://ifstudies.org/blog/male-sexlessness-is-rising-but-not-for-the-reasons-incels-claim Here you go.
/r/seduction31/10/22 03:04 PM
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In a study looking at data from 17,744 people in the United States, 15.2% of males and 26.7% of females reported having no sex in the last year, while 8.7% of males and 17.5% of females reported not having had sex for 5 years or more. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5889124/
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:06 PM
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Based on your answers, you're fine. Its healthy to set reasonable boundaries for yourself.
/r/seduction29/10/22 09:33 PM
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A lot of these are pretty sliding scale. "No toxic shit" could mean anything. Does it mean coming from a divorced family? Does it mean that the person was sexually assaulted in their past? No Crazy shit- does that mean no crying ever? " not a thot." Does that mean having previous sexual partners? Put a number down on how many previous sexual partners are acceptable. Healthy/gym- how regularly must she attend the gym? Is once per week/month acceptable? Doing some quick back of the napkin tabulati…
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:48 PM
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How are your social skills? A few quantitative data points we can logic down to some issues you could be facjng. How large is your social circle? How many close friends do you have? How many of them are women? If you don’t have any women friends why is that?
/r/seduction28/10/22 09:39 PM
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Hey that's awesome, Don't take this as a loss! Join some clubs. Meet people, get invited to house parties. Increase your social circle. Try to have a goal of meeting one new person a day. Try to focus on being friendly, remembering names and specifics about different people. The number one way to keep girls around is make sure that when you are on a date make sure they're comfortable and having a good time. When hooking up, you treat them with respect and prioritize their orgasm over yours.
/r/seduction26/10/22 09:41 PM
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Three questions for OP. 1. So wait you weren’t attracted to her but decided to pursue her anyway because you’re not superficial? 2. Also its ONE woman, sample size if one and you’re projecting saying ALL women. Why is that? 3. Why should anyone hook up with someone they aren’t attracted to? That doesn’t sound very fun.
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:01 PM
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I get you dont like data. Please read the article on the causes of celibacy. Small proportion is due to involuntary celibacy.
/r/seduction24/10/22 08:29 PM
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Sure! I can provide you with some data on the causes. The majority cause is people pursuing higher education and getting married later. Married folks have sex more often. There’s a correlation with people who pursue higher education having less sex. The level of highly promiscuous males and females remains about the same over time. Sexless males around 25 years old are around 12% of the population. Only 4.5% of those are INVOLUNTARY. “But the 68% increase from 2002 to 2015 in the incel share of …
/r/seduction24/10/22 08:24 PM
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If you go around insulting everyone no one will want to be with you. Some people are celibate because they choose to focus on other aspects of their life. Others have ugly personalities which repulse all around them.
/r/seduction24/10/22 07:55 PM
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How many friends do you have? What does your social skills look like? How often do you socialize?
/r/seduction24/10/22 05:57 PM
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Also there’s so many men sending unsolicited dick pics or asking for pics of your feet right off the bat on Tinder or other internet sites many women opt not to use that platform for meeting people.
/r/seduction24/10/22 05:17 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/contours-of-the-sex-recession. It’s not so much competition its that more people both men and moreso women are celibate. Unemployed men and women have the least amount of sex. Also unsurprisingly, more religious and more educated people have less sex.
/r/seduction24/10/22 05:00 PM
1

“Still want to work out? Let me know what times you are free next week.”
/r/seduction19/10/22 08:42 PM
1

Absolutely but it’s not white knighting to point out that so many women have had negative experiences being approached by males for sex in public, and that is why THEY tell people not to approach.
/r/seduction17/10/22 08:00 PM
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Yep. Just remind yourself that women who appear closed off and not wanting to talk have probably experienced something similar to above.
/r/seduction17/10/22 07:35 PM
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Awesome!
/r/seduction17/10/22 07:31 PM
2

Males have approached me on the bus and tried to strike up conversation, not taken no for an answer then tried to follow me home.
/r/seduction17/10/22 07:16 PM
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Yeah its when they get off at your bus stop and try to follow you back to your house, or if you move away from them at the gym they follow you around, then wait for you in the parking lot of the gym. Is that forbidden?
/r/seduction17/10/22 07:15 PM
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Sure. Just don’t get offended or call them a bitch when they move away.
/r/seduction17/10/22 07:09 PM
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If she has headphones on, sunglasses, and is reading, that’s the universal “Don’t bother me.” Which should be pretty obvious to 100% of the population.
/r/seduction17/10/22 06:51 PM
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It’s when you’re sitting alone on an otherwise empty bus and a guy decided to sit right next to you. Or you’re on an elliptical at the gym and a man decides to take the elliptical right next to you instead of the 15 other ellipticals that are open. They try to start a conversation with you but you’re absolutely not interested in whatever this guy is saying. If you speak up now suddenly you’re the bitch. Its not white kniting. Its that they’re not entitled to your time or attention.
/r/seduction17/10/22 06:05 PM
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Oh im 40 so I haven’t seen that.
/r/seduction17/10/22 12:54 PM
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Meet girls in your classes at school. Problem solved.
/r/seduction17/10/22 01:37 AM
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Smile and wink. Or bite your lip, smile and wink.
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:36 PM
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Just keep saying "That's what she said."
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:34 PM
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I think a lot of women want a date, not necessarily a paid date, but somewhere in public where you can meet the person and determine that they are not crazy or a serial killer and you won't end up raped or dismembered and your body placed inside a deep freezer. I don't think its transactional, like if you say ahead of time lets go dutch or meet in a coffee shop that should be fine. Edit- If a woman gets “nothing” out of dating or hooking up with you, you’re not doing it right. She should get wha…
/r/seduction14/10/22 12:51 AM
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Do they smile at you when you smile? Do they make eye contact or look down/ away? How close are you to them when talking? Do they step back away from you?
/r/seduction10/10/22 05:28 PM
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Its dangerous for women to say no. Easier to give a number than to get assaulted.
/r/seduction06/10/22 12:14 PM
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I've definitely avoided promiscuous, stupid, fat, and old men.
/r/seduction05/10/22 01:24 AM
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Guess you can go to bars and clubs.
/r/seduction30/09/22 12:49 PM
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Yeah most cities above 50,000 people in the US have arcades.
/r/seduction30/09/22 03:53 AM
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Is this satire? Are you asking for evidence that women are human and poop, fart and pee? You should change your plans for friends and make friends with ugly girls too.
/r/seduction30/09/22 02:45 AM
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Is that because you base women's worth (worthy of your time and attention) only based on how they look?
/r/seduction30/09/22 02:44 AM
1

What concrete steps have you taken to work on your general social skills?
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:56 PM
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Arcade
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:30 PM
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What makes women incomprehensible to you?
/r/seduction28/09/22 01:04 AM
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Do you think this way about older women or women you don’t feel attraction to? Do you have friendships with women you aren’t attracted to? Do you strike up conversations with those around you regardless of their sex?
/r/seduction28/09/22 12:59 AM
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From the movie high fidelity- a great great movie “you gotta punch your weight. There’s heavyweights, middleweights and lightweights”.
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:50 PM
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Well i have about half of my friends who are women. We go biking, get lunch, talk about work, our lives. Sometimes we go on roadtrips on the weekends. I have college buddies i play D&D with. Some friends who i have made in my neighborhood - we meet up at farmers markets, go for hikes or to different restaurants around town.
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:38 PM
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Can you elaborate? You don’t understand half the population even for platonic relationships?
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:16 PM
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Why do you think you only have male friends?
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:16 PM
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Are you friends with about 50% women and men?
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:03 PM
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Nobody wants to sleep with an ugly person. Maybe some people would look past a beer gut, lazy eye, third nipple, unibrow, and brown or missing teeth but not most people.
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:16 PM
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That’s illogical. You can still be in the same “league “ with someone but that does not mean they will 1. Be attracted to you. 2. Be available to date anyone
/r/seduction25/09/22 04:01 PM
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Usually its guys who have a low emotional intelligence that struggle with women.
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:47 PM
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I mean everyone is attracted to people who are in shape. Aren’t men attracted to confident women?
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:30 AM
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What is ‘tending to his grazes’ mean? Is that not cooking? Ah so you say soldiers are what women are attracted to because they fight wars.
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:06 AM
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Women fantasize about cooking for men? How do men create security? Security from what exactly?
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:41 AM
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You want to be costa rica?
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:39 AM
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I think that’s what men want as well. Security.
/r/seduction22/09/22 10:46 PM
0

What’s high value?
/r/seduction22/09/22 10:45 PM
1

Remember social skills are a SKILL, one that can be improved with practice. Practice this in the mirror- seriously practice it at least ten times before heading out so you have more confidence. If you have a plan of knowing what you are going to say that will help you. If you see a guy staring at you, and he's cute, smile and bite your lip. Hold eye contact for about 4-5 seconds, tilt your head slightly. If he does walk over say "You have beautiful eyes. What's your name?" Have some questions re…
/r/seduction18/09/22 01:43 PM
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Only talking about themselves. If they never ask or listen to the woman they’re unlikely to connect with them. Be cognizant that you should only be talking about 50% of the time.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:58 AM
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Work on your social skills. Like any other skill, one needs to practice to improve. Ask trusted friends for feedback. Practice body language and speaking, and holding conversations.
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:53 AM
1

18 year olds are definitely in high school. Why would someone, a 24 year old who has graduated from college (or is at the age others are graduating) want to seduce someone in high school (18) or who had just graduated high school (19)? Also your second argument is not my argument. That’s not what I’m saying. If you only want to seduce people with a PhD that’s fine.
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:54 PM
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You graduate college. Suddenly you want to seduce someone that’s still in high school. Cool.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:35 PM
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He’s 24.
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:08 PM
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Yeah they’re deciding that they’re not interested.
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:07 PM
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Maybe they seem nervous because they, the teenagers, realize you are older than them and don’t want to be approached by an older man. Maybe focus on people who have graduated out of high school or your own age.
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:05 PM
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Have you talked with men before? What did you say? Why have you a avoided speaking with 50% of the population for 20 years?
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:21 PM
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You have to be nice and physically attractive.
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:05 PM
13

They're TAing your undergraduate coursework. Ask them about their thesis.
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:39 AM
5

Where would you want to be approached for sex by a gay man? If you went to the gym and every time you did big beefy gay men stared at you while you were working out then asked for your phone number it would get old fast.
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:53 PM
2

Oh sweetie i have more than three friends lol. You’re confused. I thought of all my friends and thought of what their hobbies are. They don’t all like those things. For example: Friend1- cycling Friend 2- running, cycling Friend 3- computer games, dnd, drawing crochet, boating Friend 4- bow hunting, fishing Friend 5- mtn biking, dnd, hiking. Friend 6- knitting
/r/seduction22/07/22 11:11 AM
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I work in a more outdoor oriented field.
/r/seduction22/07/22 11:08 AM
12

She listed several hobbies.
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:45 AM
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Here’s some hobbies of ladies I hang out with: Mountain biking, cycling, hiking, surfing, Computer games, knitting, D&D, long distance running, bow hunting, bouldering.
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:43 AM
1

Why did you avoid speaking with the women and only speak with the men?
/r/seduction20/07/22 12:00 AM
1

My grandma told me to play the field.
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:36 PM
1

Could be bad breath, or something else. how often do you smile? How often do you smile with your eyes? Smile with eyes and mouth, flash raise your eyebrows and tilt head to side.
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:09 AM
2

Higher income doesn’t equal better. The article you cite says women that have more education than their spouses now. This shows that men want someone “better” and more educated than them. Men just want to flex to their friends that they bagged a smart chick. https://www.deseret.com/2017/11/9/20635987/men-are-marrying-up-by-wedding-women-with-more-education-than-they-have?_amp=true
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:36 PM
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Nope attractive men are muscular, have high facial symmetry, and a good personality. Income is only important after physical beauty and good personality traits have been satisfied. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1474704919852918 https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF01544603
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:34 PM
1

Yeah women want attractive men too. Especially confident women. They’re not going to settle for someone they’re not attracted to.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:40 AM
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Sounds like men are pretty shallow in your opinion. The most successful men just want strippers?
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:30 AM
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Why would a confident woman want someone who was “better” than them? It would just make them feel inferior in the long run, which is what confident women don’t want. Confident women like being confident and they can’t do that if they feel like they are worse than their partner.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:26 AM
0

Yeah men want someone who is better than them. High value women who is financially secure. More on point. More whatever.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:21 AM
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Yeah most men want someone who is “better” than them. Sounds like BS right? Because it is, as is the above statement.
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:42 AM
3

Confident men who have similar ethics and viewpoints as them.
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:39 AM
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I definitely wouldn’t brag about that. That’s like bragging you’re dating a twitch streamer.
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:22 AM
3

College. Meetup.com to find those with similar interests.
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:52 AM
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Respond by saying “I say ugly things to take your self esteem down a peg so you don’t see all of my flaws.”
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:26 PM
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