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| 1 | How to cure validation-addictionNothing has been erroneously redefined, it's just a broad term that includes many variables and fluctuates between different levels of degree. Fundamentally it's simply a pattern. The first comment (shorter one) was crafted without a tool - see the message not the messenger (ad hominem fallacy) | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How to cure validation-addictionAddiction is often imagined as a dramatic collapse — the ICU, the broken home, the devastated body. But if we strip away the stigma and intensity, addiction at its core is simply a patterned dependence on something external to regulate an inner state. By that measure, constantly seeking and depending on external validation fits the definition well. Validation itself is not harmful; in fact, humans are wired for social feedback. The danger arises when validation becomes the primary compass for id… | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 01:26 PM |
| 1 | How to cure validation-addictionConstantly seeking and depending on external validation can be considered a mental addiction. Ultimately it's just a neutral self limiting pattern-loop, like any kind of addiction. Just because it doesn't put you in the ICU or is not as intense as other types and forms of addiction, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. A word can have many meanings - words are merely pointers. Anything in excess usually leads to misalignment, even recurring thoughts and emotions (physical sensations). Internal validat… | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 12:39 PM |
| 0 | Create a Lifestyle That Naturally Attracts Love & Sex PartnersSee the message not the messenger! It's true and actually works not mumbojumbo. Open your perspective | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 08:31 PM |
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