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| 2 | I feel like most of the relationship burden is on menAs a woman, I very much agree, OP. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/23 11:55 PM |
| 8 | Purple pill debate sub has been bannedSame here. I finally blocked that sub it was really fucking with my mental health. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/23 04:50 AM |
| 5 | RP dudes going to the gym for all the wrong reasonsI actually very much agree with this. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/23 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What toxic masculinity is and what it is notYeah, as a woman, I don't understand this either, lol. I personally love being with a more dominant and assertive man who leads while I'm more of the submissive type. That's just me, tho. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/23 01:34 AM |
| 3 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?I think it's really hot when a guy stares at my thighs or legs. Big turn on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:29 AM |
| 2 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?This is so true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 01:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?Exactly, lol. They're seething because they're jealous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 01:10 AM |
| 2 | What do you love about your partner?I love reading stuff like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 04:24 AM |
| – | CMV If you‘re a Man and the only thing that u value in a Women is sex you’re a weirdo.Yeah, PPD users are a different type of breed, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 03:24 AM |
| 7 | CMV: The take-away shouldn't be that "women think 80% of men are below average"; it should be that "women suck at rating men systematically".One of the many things that drive me bonkers about this sub is that people refuse to accept that attractiveness is subjective. Like one of my friends, her taste in men is completely different than mine, and I have never found a single guy she's dated attractive and vise versa. I mean, obviously, a large portion of society is gonna find hot guys attractive like duhhhh. The dudes here just get bent about it because they don't get to have the hot girls they want to go after. Also, this subs idea of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Why do you think there is so much anger towards promiscuous women?Lol, they have this unhinged obsession with Chad and think that's what every single woman wants. I have never been attracted to Chad, but according to the pillers, I'm just in denial lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 02:51 AM |
| 1 | What does Purple Pill look like, to you personally?You're my favorite person on this sub, lol. I love reading your comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 12:14 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe entitlement in this sub is unreal, lol. Like sitting here and whining because the woman that is way out of your league doesn't want you. Like waaaahhhh. Cry me a river. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 11:35 PM |
| 11 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.Lol, I've stopped trying to debate with anyone in this sub as their way of debating is attacking and insulting you as a person and not actually debating the topic in question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe the women on amiugly?But it's not like every woman gets showered with positive attention 24/7 like you guys seem to think. I know, right? That's how you can tell these guys don't know anything about women. They also seem to have this notion that even the ugliest women have 100's of dms a day like LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 03:41 AM |
| 5 | Women...ALL WOMEN...hate men who act like pussiesI love you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 01:52 AM |
| 0 | When guys claim their only problem is the lack of sex, we should believe them. Otherwise, they wouldn’t be so obsessive about not getting laid.Lol, redpillers will never figure it out they enjoy being the victim too much. This subs slogan might as well be I refuse to try, but I'm all out of ideas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:47 AM |
| – | What do you expect of men in a long term relationship ?The hottest thing to me is watching a man be so passionate about something he loves and makes me wanna learn and / or do it with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 09:51 PM |
| 4 | There is VAST chasm between the amount effort required to secure a partner that is reasonable for a healthy realtionship, between men and women.Yeah, this sub is full of some of the most bitter and miserable fucks I think I've ever seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Men overly fixated on women's sex lives have other issuesLmfao, this sub is full of men who are the biggest hypocrites and constantly contradict themselves it's hilarious. All they do is whine and play the oppression Olympics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Women are more shallow than men: Men will date women they find neutral in looks; women won't date men they find neutral in looks (unless he has status & money)Is self-improvement and accountability a part of the new RP? Because I never see any of that here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Ultimate truthI can attest to this. Most of the torment and harassment I have received throughout my life has been from other women. I used to be bitter towards my own gender for a long time because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 04:31 PM |
| 2 | PPD is Irrelevant because Collapse is ComingOh man, I remember that day, lol. I was a freshman in high school, and I was pacing around and kept telling my dad we're all gonna die, and he just rolled his eyes. I was so dramatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Calling women “females” is not belittling them or being misogynistic and shows just how sensitive the female hive mind truly is.I'm a little late to this thread, but I agree with all of this. I'm a woman who says female all the time, and I'm seriously so tired of the actual war that starts every time someone says "females" like damn who cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 03:50 AM |
| 14 | Women don’t cheat because they’re ‘emotionally unsatisfied’Especially in this sub where men just play the "woe is me" shtick and blame all their problems and failures on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 01:02 AM |
| 1 | A majority of hurt men and women are a result of not acknowledging red flags.It's awesome that you're going to school to be a therapist. Good for you :) we definitely need more therapists as we seem to never have enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What are some positive things about modern feminism?It's so refreshing to see a nice nuanced, well thought out comment on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 12:51 AM |
| 4 | Question about how body count and status works.The one thing that will never not make me laugh is how redpillers think that by sticking their dick in too many holes, that = high value. Like LMAO. No. I mean, what is it they say about women who do that? Oh yeah! That they're disgusting whores who are low value bottom of the barrel sooo yep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want?So, as a woman who was in a toxic relationship for many years (it was toxic on both sides), I can tell you that when it ended, it really caused me to do a lot of inward self-reflection and get into therapy because I realized I didn't want to be this person anymore. I wanted to be better and do better so that not only could I be better for myself but so that I could be a good partner to someone later on in life. I'm the kind of person who, if I want x, y, and z in a partner, then I need to be tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 12:02 AM |
| 5 | Nonverbal consentNow I'm just confused. Your last comment said that I'm teaching bad behavior, and what you're saying is that I'm saying it's okay for men to rape women when that's not at all, what I said. I don't even know how you came to that conclusion either. Again, I will break it down. In order to have that type of sex in a relationship, lots of factors need to be in place. There needs to be a solid foundation of trust, consent, respect, comfort, compatability And lots and lots of communication. Again, tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 08:53 PM |
| 5 | Nonverbal consentI don't know how you read my comment and somehow twisted it into thinking that I'm teaching men bad behavior when I specifically said that I'm like that, not everyone else? That is what I said women need to be vocal about what they want or do not want or if they are feeling uncomfortable now when it comes to dating There is a lot of conversation involved when it comes to sex. I am very vocal about how I feel, how he feels we have lots of conversations, and lots of communication about boundaries … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 08:23 PM |
| 5 | What exactly is a traumatized woman?Or has lots of facial piercings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 08:09 PM |
| 7 | Nonverbal consentAs a woman, I don't envy you guys at all, and I'm sorry you're in such a tough position. Women really need to be vocal about what they want or if they're uncomfortable. I'm the type that just wants you to take me no matter or where. For example, if I'm making coffee, just take me. If I'm cooking, just take me. If I'm the dressing room in public, just take me. It's such a big turn-on to me. I also have an extremely high sex drive, and I know I'm in the minority for all of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?It all comes down to one thing. Insecurities. They're all super insecure and clearly very controlling. I had some of my closest friends who are men read some of the shit posted by men on here, and they just laughed and actually thought this had to be a shitpost sub lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?Same here! My closest friends are men and I fucking adore them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 07:45 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysI completely agree. I'm a woman who works out pretty religiously in the gym and until I had a guy break it down for me, I had no idea the amount of effort and dedication it took to get so muscular and stay that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 07:37 PM |
| 3 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysYeah, that actually made me laugh out loud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 07:33 PM |
| 3 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysSo I'm a woman who works out pretty religiously, and I had no idea the amount of effort and dedication it took for a man to stay in such a muscular shape. I had a guy break it down for me, and I was like damn it was so much more effort and dedication than I realized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 07:27 PM |
| 3 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysI very much agree with your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 07:21 PM |
| 6 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysWhen I think of a gym bro to me it's much like a frat bro who lives and breathes for his brothers, a gym bro makes their entire personality gym-related, including what they eat, what clothes they wear, and what music they listen to. I'm a woman who works out religiously in the gym, and I avoid gyms that have the gym bro mentality because they're so loud and obnoxious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 07:13 PM |
| 5 | Men are not a monolith, women are not a monolith. What’s the value in engaging in absolutism?They get very defensive and try to tell you that you’re wrong and surely all women/men do indeed- act with a hive mind. They sure do! Especially when I've tried to constantly reiterate that I don't like chad and never have but that I like short chubby men. They literally refuse to believe that and double down because it would mean it goes against their narrative, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:16 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGod forbid they go five min without talking about "chad" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 01:56 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot listening Don't most people in relationships do that already? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 01:47 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, he is. Him and lift and lurk are my fav people in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Men are showing emotional maturity and skill by leaving friendships with women after expressing unrequited sexual interestLmao, the irony of men in this sub getting pissed because they hate when women generalize men, but yet all they do is generalize women and treat them like a monolith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 01:42 AM |
| 6 | The reason why we forgive men more for picking crappy womenYeah, my ex-husband is a covert narcassist(diagnosed), which means his tactics are completely different and a lot more subtle than your typical overt narcassist. It took me years to pick up on it and realize what was going on even tho in my gut, i always knew something wasn't right. Some people are really talented at hiding their true intentions. On the flip side of all of that tho is since I've gone to therapy, now I have learned how to set boundaries, I've grown a nice shiny spine and have lea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Men that are called trash by women are actually attractive enough to get women to give them casual sex in the hopes of a relationship in the future.That dude says the same regurgitated shit in every single one of his comments to the point where when I see his username, I already know what he's gonna say. The irony of him saying women don't take accountability when he blames women for all his problems and projects constantly. He loves living in constant victimization mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 05:14 AM |
| – | The bullshit gaslighting condescending style blue pillers adopt here functions to make this place more of a redpill indoctrination camp than a redpill only sub would beLots of people have dogpiled on me recently for my blunt, rude style of argument. Yep, same here, lol. Hell, I get attacked just for trying to bring nuance into what is usually a complex situation. Lots of fragile egos in here they get triggered over dumb shit. The drama that ensues over dumbass shit is great entertainment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:56 AM |
| – | The bullshit gaslighting condescending style blue pillers adopt here functions to make this place more of a redpill indoctrination camp than a redpill only sub would beYessssss I so agree! I get so irritated with the constant victimization in this sub. Like, just own your shit and stop blaming the opposite gender for your failures and shortcomings in life. Take responsibility and do better. Guess it's easier tho to be a victim instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:50 AM |
| – | The bullshit gaslighting condescending style blue pillers adopt here functions to make this place more of a redpill indoctrination camp than a redpill only sub would beI very much agree with this. There's absolutely no nuance here, only black and white thinking. I don't know why we can't say or agree that both men and women can be shit. It's always either "men bad" or "women bad." It's really hard to engage in good faith when most people refuse to do so in this sub. I'm 100 percent guilty of engaging in bad faith when I could have chosen not to engage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Very fucking equalLmao the fact that they whine and bitch about something they've never been through will never fail to make me laugh. It's so pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 12:18 AM |
| 2 | PPD women be like:One thing that stands out about this sub is people here don’t know how to use words very well. Completely agree. The word gaslighting is a great example of that. I see it thrown around here all the time, and they clearly don't know what it means and always use it wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:04 PM |
| – | If you're struggling to get matches on OLD, or you can't get a date, you are BELOW AVERAGEThe cope in the comments is so strong, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Majority of women can get dates while majority of men can'tYou guys realllllllly need new material. This shit gets old it's the same three posts that get posted all day every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 10:36 PM |
| – | Most of the dating bitterness people have towards the opposite gender is a selection bias.This is so true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 10:21 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey crave us more than anything, but can’t stand us. They crave a hole, not the person with the hole, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 04:03 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI am lmao. I also hit the gym 7 days a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 03:19 PM |
| -1 | How many relationships are initiated by women in modern dating?Yep! I've pursued 4/5 of my boyfriends. They weren't what society considers attractive tho my type is chubby men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Are attractive woman generally extroverted?I'm a very attractive woman, and I am extremely introverted. The only form of social media I have is reddit. So while a lot of attractive women might be extroverted, there is definitely some that are not. I struggle with talking to people, making friends, and forcing myself to go to the gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Do men like plus size women?Lol, I immediately thought of him too when I read this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:07 AM |
| 6 | Do men like plus size women?I'm a very fit woman, but chubby men are my absolute weakness. I couldn't tell you why, but I find them so attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:06 AM |
| 6 | How many relationships are initiated by women in modern dating?Yes, same!! I keep saying this over and over and they won't fuckin hear it. My ex cheated on me and left, but I'm the one that filed the paperwork, so technically, I'm a part of that statistic, but he's the one that left sooo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:36 AM |
| 17 | CMV: “Men and women are different” is just an excuse to rationalize hypocrisy.This is not a dating sub lmao. It's a debate sub well it's supposed to be anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Need to recognise men and women view same thing differentlyYour last paragraph is so spot on, and I keep trying to bring this up in this sub, but they won't have it. They treat men and women as one big monolith when that's not how people in real life are at all. Both men and women have struggles in life they might not be the same, but we all struggle nonetheless. Like you said, there's no nuance or grey areas it's all either black or white. This is supposed to be a debate sub, but it's turned into a constant gender war of who has it worse, and it's noth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:38 AM |
| – | Do you actually believe "love" exists? And other questions on how women view dating.Lmao, I had the same reaction . Like, what is he even saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:30 AM |
| 1 | When women have bad relationships they are told to “pick better” but when men are, we assign blame to womenThere's a lot of abusers and wanna be abusers in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 01:54 AM |
| 4 | Can women be creepy?Wow, that is crazy. I'm a woman, but I have a restraining order against a woman I used to know she used to stalk me and harass me relentlessly. She put me through so much mental torture. She escalated from like 0-100 after rejecting her advances it was crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 03:34 AM |
| 9 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.I completely agree with all of this. Yet at the same time they sit here and bitch that women won't have sex with them. There's just so much hypocrisy and contradictions in their logic. I've only ever had sex with one person and any man who had this kind of thinking I wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 02:23 AM |
| 0 | What would happen if men were as picky as women?Lmao, that's literally how it is in the real world. But because all the men in this sub have no standards, they seem to think all the men in the real world don't either when that couldn't be further from the truth. My BFF is a good example of this he is the pickiest mofo I've ever met, but he's a good dude, so he deserves to be picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:09 AM |
| 4 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversYour first paragraph is so spot on because I did the same thing. I wanted to learn how to please another man and how to be good in bed. It's an instant turn-off for me if a guy is super insecure about himself and sex because then the sex ends up being awful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Everyone should respect other people’s lived experiencesLike usual, they think their truth is the only truth, and everyone else's is a lie, apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:29 AM |
| 9 | Everyone should respect other people’s lived experiencesYep, I actually just made a comment earlier saying that I've tried to tell the men on this sub that I'm not into "chad," and I'm only attracted to short men. But per usual, I'm just a big fat liar and have no idea what I'm talking about sooo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:24 AM |
| -1 | Everyone should respect other people’s lived experiencesYep, exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:22 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgreed. I have an extremely high sex drive. There's just no way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 08:03 PM |
| 5 | Being a woman was not easierI understand your first paragraph, but I disagree with your last, as there are plenty of controlling men, as I would know because I used to be with one, but there are also just as many controlling women. What I'm saying is that this sub has a bad habit of dismissing anything that doesn't align with their worldview or narrative. For example, I'm extremely attracted to short men, always have been, always will be, and I've never been attracted to Chad; that's just not my type, but I get told I'm a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 08:01 PM |
| 10 | Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to menThis post is pushing the narrative that the most important thing in a partner is looks, and the rest is irrelevant. This right here is exactly why the men in this sub are single or keep getting into toxic relationships. Everything to them is based on a transaction and a shallow point of view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:25 PM |
| -1 | Like Attracts Like. If you feel like you're getting the short end of the stick in your dating/relationships, you should stop going for that stick!This sub has the weirdest obsession with things like height, marriage, divorce, and shit like that, and it's always the people shouting shit(usually incorrect information)that doesn't even affect them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:18 PM |
| 8 | Being a woman was not easierIt really bothers me that this sub is basically just both genders trying to one up each other and playing the who has it worse card. I don't understand why we can't just agree that both men and women have it bad just in different ways. There's never any nuance or gray areas. Everything has to be black or white here. Men and women are not one big monolith like this sub wants to believe. We are all different with different experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionLol, that is basically every single post in this sub. People don't seem to realize everyone has different experiences that men and women are not all one big monolith. Guess people in this sub didn't get the memo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:11 PM |
| – | Which gender feels they settled down more? Is it mean or womenThis sub always makes me feel like I'm going batshit. They constanrlt contradict themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:59 AM |
| 3 | "Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are.Agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Self Improvement Discussion ThreadYeah, same, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Women are valued for what they doI know I'm late to this thread, but as a woman, I completely agree with this. I stopped wearing makeup about 5 years ago, eating healthy and working out, and the difference it's made on my skin is incredible. I love seeing women's natural beauty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Some girls are really open to be attracted to all types of guys, others are really judgmentalLol, what it really comes down to is that they're mad that attractive women aren't choosing and going after the men in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 04:55 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The best way to set yourself apart is to be from a different culturethey're not even remotely attractive to the overwhelming majority of Western women. Exactly. I have a good friend who's Indian and I've watched just how much he struggles with women. Idk why people make these weird claims that are not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 04:48 PM |
| 3 | What is hypergamy?I completely agree with this and feel the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't men hypergamous?Red pillers have a really bad habit of constantly contradicting themselves. A really good example I see a lot is men saying women are whores and sluts because they sleep around too much, but in the very same breath whine and complain they're being denied sex because women aren't sleeping around as much anymore. The RP definition seems to change on a daily basis, depending on the narrative being spewed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?Exactly. Only fans is a good example of this because there's a big misconception that they make a lot of money when in reality the average girl only makes about $180 a month, and only the top 5 percent of women on there make pretty good money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Fashion and Models with morbid obesityCompletely agree. I see so many people say they just don't have time, but that's BS because I'm a single mom to three kids, work full time, and go to school on top of that, so if I can find the time to stay fit and in shape, so can they. I get so annoyed when I see people make so many excuses to stay obese, or they go even further into denial and try to deny that being overweight is unhealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Men on this sub greatly exaggerate women's hypergamy.Exactly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 03:22 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Many acts that would get a man labled as "Toxic" are tolerated when women do it.I swear bs like this is all that gets posted to this sub now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 03:14 AM |
| 3 | For the first time, a major Red Pill content creator has admitted that the popular RP claim of a third of young men not having sex while women are relatively unaffected isn't true, citing modern data showing less than 20% of men being sexually inactive and more young women sexually inactive than menExactly lol the hypocrisy and constant contradictions are too much. The constant whining and victimizing themselves makes me wanna pull my hair out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadReddit is notorious for calling someone an incel or a misogynist simply because they don't like their opinion, lol. Those terms have lost all meaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 08:31 PM |
| 45 | What is your opinion of incels?I see people on reddit constantly call people an incel, misogynist, narcassist, etc... simply because they don't like or agree with someone's opinion. It happens so much that those words have basically lost all meaning. Tbh, I don't even think I knew what incel actually really meant until I saw your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 03:14 PM |
| 6 | Why do men get redpilled?Yeah, so many red pillers think it's only their looks that explain why they're not getting women, not their toxic mindset and ideology they believe in, plus being extremely insecure with no self-esteem on top of that. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/23 02:58 PM |
| 2 | What is your standards for a long term relationship?This made me laugh out loud, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Q4W : Are you attracted to him because of his confidence, or is it that he happens to be confident because he’s good lookingLol, im laughing so hard at this. You can tell in this sub the men that have never had any real experience with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooI thought the rules were that you couldn't rate past a 7 or some bs? It's stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 02:07 AM |
| 8 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooYeah, these people are just making a bunch of excuses. I'm a mom to three kiddos, and I'm in the best shape I've ever been in. I work extremely hard to stay fit, and in shape, the problem is that most people are lazy and lack any motivation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 01:56 AM |
| 12 | Women will always have the upper hand & are generally not all that concerned with meeting men for the simple fact that they aren’t as horny. They refuse to acknowledge this because it trivializes their perceived value & power over men by diminishing it to a very basic evolutionary certainty.Lmao, it's been 4 hours, and he refuses to answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 10:18 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is very true. There's a lot of contradiction that goes on in here, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 10:14 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLmao, same. Reddit is like Crack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Women love one night stands as much as men doThat's what I can't stand about this sub. People take the anecdotal experience they've had and use that to push some narrative, thinking that their experience is everyone else's experience and won't hear any differently even if someone has had the complete opposite experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Women love one night stands as much as men doAs a woman, I completely agree with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 10:00 PM |
| 6 | Women love one night stands as much as men doLol, not according to this sub. Apparently, all men and women are just one big hivemind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill problems solved my femenistsThat is so spot on. You especially see that a lot in redpill and purplepilldebate. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/23 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richI'm starting to think PPD is full of absolute robots incapable of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richI doubt it because everything is a transaction to RP men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Have we discussed socioeconomic pressures as to why there are so many single young men?I have so much respect for nurses. I'm not a nurse or work as many hours as you guys, but i do work 14-16 hours in a factory, and im always completely dead and exhausted when I leave, so I agree with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 03:17 PM |
| 2 | WHAT IS SOMETHING THE OPPOSITE SEX USUALLY HATES ABOUT THEIR BODIES THAT YOU ACTUALLY LOVE? Discussion ThreadIs it really that rare for women to like small pensis?? I'm the same and like them small too. Big ones are so uncomfortable, and they hurt.(atleast for me anyway) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 03:05 PM |
| 12 | WHAT IS SOMETHING THE OPPOSITE SEX USUALLY HATES ABOUT THEIR BODIES THAT YOU ACTUALLY LOVE? Discussion ThreadI loveeeeee body hair on men. The more, the better. Honestly, I like my man to look like a wolf, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 05:51 PM |
| 6 | WHAT IS SOMETHING THE OPPOSITE SEX USUALLY HATES ABOUT THEIR BODIES THAT YOU ACTUALLY LOVE? Discussion ThreadThat's funny because I'm the complete opposite. I loveeee big long, thick beards. It's my kryptonite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 05:46 PM |
| – | Debates without numbers are pretty pointlessExactly. There are very few people on this sub who actually argue in good faith. I can say that as a woman myself, i have argued in bad faith because i was irritated when I could have just chosen not to engage. Most people here, whether that's a man or woman, are dead set in the way they think and don't want their minds changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Women generally want men desired by other womenI'm the exact same way. I've always been into chubby guys with big thick beards my entire life. I've tried to say this to the guys in this sub multiple times, but according to RP, us women are all just one big hivemind that only want "chad" lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 04:21 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe thing is, a lot of the problems the people have that post in that sub would be solved by simply communicating with each other. It's honestly baffling to me how many couples don't communicate at all about simple things but have no problem running to the internet to bitch about it to garner sympathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 10:31 PM |
| 2 | I think the red pill is morally wrong in almost every aspect.Using manipulation tactics and mind games is tho that's now what redpill has become. It used to be about self-improvement and accountability now its the complete opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Personality can't compensate for looksExactly. I keep trying to tell the pillers in this sub that healthy people don't date people solely based on mind games and how attractive they are. I've had a lot of extremely attractive men hit on me and turned them down because I do not like arrogance and asshole behavior, but they can't comprehend that not all women are the same. The red pill ideology is based on mind games and manipulation that only works on unhealthy people with mental health issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beExperience actually dating women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:59 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat kind of doggo?? I want a dog so bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Legal commitment is way overrated by womenIt's the people in this sub who have clearly had no life experience whatsoever that spout the most bs. Like how embarrassing to spout shit you know nothing about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 12:57 AM |
| – | What is your standard wait time for a response? How does response/wait time effect how you view the person?Exactly, I don't understand the point of this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beLol, and it's always the men that spout this shit that have no actual experience with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 11:40 PM |
| 8 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?Nope, not me. I'm a very attractive woman, and I've had some pretty fine looking men hit on me but have rejected them because they were extremely arrogant and self-absorbed. Attractive men seem to take rejection the worst because they're used to getting their way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 02:55 PM |
| 10 | Does widespread monogamy require economic coercion to work?Isn't coercion part of redpills philosophy now? Isn't manipulation and mind games their whole shtick? Which is weird cause I thought originally RP was about accountability and self-improvement, and now it's the complete opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approachingYeah, exactly. I've approached 6/7 of my previous boyfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 02:11 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, that's very true, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 06:47 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's exactly how I look at it, too. I kinda thought most people did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 06:46 PM |
| 10 | Bodyfat Percentage Is The Single Most Important Controllable Factor That Determines Your AttractivenessIt's crazy to me because I've always had the opposite when it comes to being natural. For some reason, I get a lot more attention when I go completely natural, like no makeup at all and throwing my hair up in a bun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't need a "hoe phase" for the 80/20 argument to holdLol, I love your comments they always make me laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:21 PM |
| 4 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.This is actually true in my case anyway. I actually have ptsd from the horrendous shit the girls in high school put me through. Women can be extremely cruel and vindictive, especially when it comes to jealousy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Both genders are really bad at gauging what “average” looks like when it comes to discussions about looks and ratingsI'm a woman, and I very much agree, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:58 AM |
| 3 | AI Girlfriends are just pure exploitation.Lmao, the delusion is so sad. We both know they're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 06:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLmao misogyny, incel, narcissist, gaslighting and etc. all get thrown around wayyyy too much, and no one ever uses it in the right context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 04:54 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol, it's definitely the other way around. Men will play the long con just to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Men over hype how hard guys try to get relationships/sexAs a woman, I completely agree with this. Insta is basically like Tinder. It's toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:18 PM |
| 2 | A question for young men on what you value when it comes to dating apps / dating in general.Agreed. I'm a woman and have always had a crush on Shia. I think he's very attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:01 PM |
| 7 | ICK Discussion ThreadAs a woman, I agree with this. I hate the club and party scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Women don't appreciate male breadwinnersExactly. They want everything handed to them on a silver platter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 10:11 PM |
| 0 | The endless self-improovement treadmill, and the futility of it allBut I agree the same should go for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 10:01 PM |
| 1 | The endless self-improovement treadmill, and the futility of it allI mean, I'm a woman, and I hit the gym 7 days a week. I'm extremely fit it would not be fair for me to want a fit man and me not be fit myself. That would make me a hypocrite, and that would be unfair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 10:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMeatballs are the best!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:49 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's mainly only the people who can't get relationships or sex themselves I've noticed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:47 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have a weird one. I absolutely loveeee when we get in the car and he puts his arm around my seat when he backs up. I love forearms. That really gets me going | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:37 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLmao same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:33 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYour comments are always so random I love them. They always make me laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:32 PM |
| 3 | What is a low value man?This is exactly how I feel about the whole rp ideology. It's very hypocritical, and they constantly contradict themselves. Also, redpill seems to change constantly so it can fit whatever narrative they're spewing. Like you said, they lump all women together, like they're some kind of hivemind that all think and feel the same way. I tried to say that I'm not attracted to "chad," and I never have been, but they doubled down and said that I was lying because "all women like chad" so apparently some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Ladies what is your opinion of husbands, boyfriends, brothers, dads, friends or any of the guys in your life worried about you visiting a male gynecologist?So I know this is just my experience, but for me, I've started to prefer male gynecologists. My past experience with one's that were women they were very dismissive of my pain(which makes no sense)and were too forceful with the spec. I've had great experiences with the ones who were male because they took my pain very seriously and were extremely gentle with the spec on top of being very professional. So I prefer men over women now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 05:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's what I think, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 04:15 PM |
| 1 | ICK Discussion ThreadI'm a woman too, my bad. I thought you were talking about women's nails. But I agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 08:25 PM |
| 1 | ICK Discussion ThreadI'm curious about the ugly shoes thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 07:32 PM |
| 1 | ICK Discussion ThreadWhen you say long fingernails, do you mean like the fake nails or just long nails in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 07:28 PM |
| 2 | How has dating changed substantially in the last ten years?Lol, this is so spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | ICK Discussion ThreadAs a woman, I really don't understand the astrology thing. A lot of them base their whole life and personality around pseudoscience. It's weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 05:11 PM |
| -1 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?The constant fear mongering in this sub is wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:43 PM |
| 5 | Why I’m done with red pillRed pillers think their idea of a "high value man" is extremely twisted it always makes me laugh. To them, it's someone who is extremely narcissistic and abusive(Andrew tate is a good example), like that's not high value, that's extremely low value. Their entire line of thinking is irrational and illogical, yet they think its all because of their looks and not how they think. Not only that, but they absolutely despise women. Delusional. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/23 02:52 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI grew up in foster care. I'll take stripper all day every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How many men have you told that "looks don't matter?"Looks absolutely matter, and anyone who says otherwise is straight up lying or in denial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 02:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV : “Looks don’t matter” is not a common theme in culture. It’s the opposite.Sometimes, I think the people in this sub are aliens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?By getting off the internet and going into the real world. Duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:25 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadExactly. It might start as a debate but then turns into a circlejerk of angry people just lashing out and projecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 03:05 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can't stand the dudes that flip off the camera or take a pic of them holding their junk like bro come on now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 02:57 PM |
| 6 | What is sexualization if sexualization is based on claimed intentions?Totally agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 02:08 AM |
| – | CMV A lot of "bad dating advice" actually comes from not listening to what was actually saidAndddddd, this is why they will always remain single and never get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 01:25 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDefinitely not the people in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:25 PM |
| 2 | What are you going to do when your partner ages?This actually made me laugh out loud, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 08:06 PM |
| 34 | Women objectify themselves.Well, according to the men in this sub, women are all one big hive-mind that act the same way and want the same things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, how often do you get hit on in public?Constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 01:26 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAbsolutely not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 04:16 PM |
| 21 | CMV : For a woman to want to commit most of her mortal life to a man and grant him exclusive access, he SHOULD be pretty impressive, not just a guy who existsThat's exactly what I'm sayin. Relationships in this sub are treated like nothing more than a business transaction. I used to think a lot of people in here were teenagers, so it would make more sense, but there's surprisingly a lot of middle-aged people in here. It's weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 04:15 PM |
| – | Women, how much did your relationship with your father affect that with men?You know, as a woman before I came to this sub I never realized just how much power women had over men along with other things it really made me open my eyes to how much bs men will put up with to try and make things work. My story is virtually the same as the commenter above. My dad is such a good dude but fell for my mother, who was very abusive and extremely narcissistic. As per your last paragraph It seems so crazy to watch someone miss or ignore so many red flags, but when you grow up in no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 03:53 PM |
| 10 | Onlyfans should be illegal. Onlyfans is leveraging your sexuality to take advantage/gain financial benefits from another party, NC is leveraging your physicality to...you can fill in the restHe keeps avoiding everyone's question for why it should be illegal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 04:40 AM |
| – | The reason why many men don’t see objectification as an issue/don’t understand it is cause they view the world, themselves, and each other from that lensExactly, lol. This sub is nothing more than a gender war of who has it worse alllll day long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 12:06 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol says the one who does nothing but blame women for all their problems and does the whole "woe is me" spiel all day. The hypocrisy, lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 09:06 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIts so funny watching how triggered these men get over the dumbest ass shit lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 09:04 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLmfao, the men in this sub are literally trippin' over a birth control pill like jfc 😂 how sad, man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 09:02 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's the shitty thing about antidepressants is they work so well, but damn it completely destroyed my sex drive like it does most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 08:04 PM |
| 14 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?Your first paragraph is exactly what I've dealt with, and I'm dealing with it even more now in the workplace. I went from being an ugly duckling in high school to working really hard to be in amazing shape and look good. So, I have middle-aged women in the workplace harassing me and gossiping. My entire life has consisted of nothing but bullying harassment and abuse from women, and I'll be honest. It's straight up hard not to have absolute hatred for my own gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 02:06 PM |
| 8 | Most guys who wish they could get into the casual sex lifestyle, couldn't handle that lifestyleIt's insane to me how much people in this sub make relationships so transactional like man that's not how it's supposed to be. I would never be in a relationship like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 07:30 PM |
| – | 50 shades and me too?I tried to watch 365 days, and I just kept laughing the whole way through. I couldn't take it seriously. I just kept thinking wtf is this shit. I couldn't believe how many people actually liked it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 02:49 PM |
| – | Who is your celeb crush?Lol, what is with the hate for Timothy chalamet?? Like, I don't understand why he is so controversial. But margot robbie is seriously my woman crush she is soooo sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 02:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Approaching women" is dumb and a waste of time.What's worse is they genuinely believe their own delusions. Pretty sad, honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Q4everyone: Is your type into you?Im a very attractive woman myself, and that's exactly my type as well. It's so funny tho seeing the men in this sub try to tell me otherwise, tho because according to this, sub women only like Chad, no exceptions. Like, bro, I'm not into Chad and never have been. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Taylor Siwft's "You Belong with me" is simply complaints men have about women but since it is gender flipped it is respected and celebrated instead of mockedSometimes, I wonder if the people in this sub are real, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 10:35 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing wrong with todays dating worldThis comment is so spot on. Completely agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 02:11 AM |
| 1 | How much of a deal breaker is a small dick?This is so true. There's a lot of angry people in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Question for women: Have you ever felt toxic?Sameeeeeeeeeee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Is the "you can have it all" narrative actually doing women more harm than good?Absolutely not. My dad raised 2 girls on his own and did a badass job at it. I became much healthier when my dad got custody of us. I know soooo many good dads out there. People are just projecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 08:50 PM |
| 10 | Have you ever tried look at dating from opposite sex's perspective, by making a fake account?That's interesting because as I bi woman myself, I've had the same experience. The women I have matched with ended up being incredibly toxic, wishy washy, bitchy, and were just straight up awful to me. Plus trying to make plans with them ended with me wanting to pull my hair out where as with guys, I've had nothing but great experiences, were very respectful and plans were so easy to make with them. That's just been my experience, tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 07:02 PM |
| 11 | If women don't go for the same top % of men, how did "Are We Dating the Same Guy" become a national thing?Yes! We literally have a Facebook page detected to shitting on our town 😂 it's crazy how much drama those pages stir up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 06:39 PM |
| 18 | Should sex toys be permitted in a relationshipLmao, this dude projects his insecurities constantly all over different threads in this sub. He made a comment about how it's okay for him to cheat and do this and that but yet thinks his girl using a dildo is cheating. Like, bro is riddled with issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 02:39 AM |
| – | Question 4 Women: Why do you own sex toys if you have a partner?I bought my ex one i used to masterbate to him having sex with it. That's a huge turn-on for me, but everyone's different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 04:41 PM |
| – | Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive?Huh?? I'm a woman, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:16 PM |
| 3 | I feel like standards of female beauty are higher, due to men's binary attraction to highly feminine faces.As a woman, I will definitely agree with this. I've seen my fair share of very attractive men with below average women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Self Improvement Thread Discussion ThreadI completely agree with this. So many people don't wanna take accountability and responsibility for their own life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:09 PM |
| – | Crazy ex-girlfriends (or boyfriends) aren't crazy. They're abusive. Calling them crazy downplays the seriousness of their actions.I’ve had a fair share of relationships, and most of them have been controlling/ abusive. The difference between he times I attracted an abusive person vs the times I attracted a non-abusive person were the mindsets I was in, and also the chances I kept giving these people and falling into the abuse cycle. The longer you are in an abusive relationship, the harder it is to leave because the abuse cycle becomes more intense. So the trick is to bail as soon as you see any signs of abuse and control.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:01 PM |
| 2 | When do you consider a man or a woman 'succesful' in dating/relationships?I completely agree with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 04:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's so funny how this sub is constantly contradicting itself. All they do is whine and bitch about how selfish and crazy women are, but we all know they would jump into bed with the most selfish and psychotic woman the first chance they get (as long as she's super duper hot). Like, bro, don't bitch and whine if you're going to surround yourself with women like this. That's on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Pretty girls can only be acquired by monkey branching"Welcome to reality." Lol, I don't think anyone in this sub knows what reality is considering they're too busy living in their delusions instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: if a husband cheats, does that mean he doesn't love his wife?Seems most people in this sub have no idea what love even is or means because some of these responses, man... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: if a husband cheats, does that mean he doesn't love his wife?I love all the people in this thread outing themselves right now. The mental gymnastics to justify their shitty behavior is hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: if a husband cheats, does that mean he doesn't love his wife?The mental gymnastics people in this sub will use to justify their shitty actions always makes me laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:19 AM |
| – | CMV As a Traditional Man, it is okay to not wanna date "hoes" but its not okay to call them out as a Person and make them feel bad. They aren't a bad Person.I've been saying the same thing over and over, but they will never admit it because that would require self reflection. It's easier to blame the opposite gender and society for all your problems instead of taking accountability and growing as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 03:59 AM |
| – | CMV As a Traditional Man, it is okay to not wanna date "hoes" but its not okay to call them out as a Person and make them feel bad. They aren't a bad Person.Lol, and they actually wonder why they're single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 03:54 AM |
| 7 | Just pay attention to herYeah, most of the problems you see in the relationship subs and AITA could literally be solved by just talking to their partner and communicating, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 02:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”Your first paragraph is literally what's wrong with the people in this sub. If you're toxic, immature, take zero accountability, mentally unstable, etc., you're literally going to attract the same kind of people. Healthy and mentally stable people don't want unhealthy and mentally unstable people. I mean, that's common sense, but yet no one here seems to have that or want to grow and change as a person to have a healthy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 02:23 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe hypocrisy, lol. Men in this sub constantly say, "It's your fault for going after the same kind of man" yet they bitch because they keep going after the same type of woman. Knock knock hypocrisy at the door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 03:56 PM |
| – | Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know?They'd rather stay in their delusional fantasies instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 02:03 AM |
| – | Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know?"Some use it to belittle the opposite sex or prop themselves up higher than they actually are." This is really the only thing I see happen in this sub anymore. People project their insecurities and shortcomings so much on the opposite sex in here, and shit gets out of hand fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 01:52 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYour comments always make me laugh, lol. I love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 04:39 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI had an ex BFF like this. She would constantly neglect her husband's needs, but the minute she wanted hers met if he said no or didn't want to, she would come unglued. She was the most toxic person I've ever met, which is why we aren't friends anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 12:44 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAs a woman going through a divorce with kids, I completely agree. If both parents share 50/50 and are both supporting their kids, you're right that making the dad pay child support on top of that is completely fucked and not fair at all. The court system needs a complete overhaul and reform. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 09:39 PM |
| 23 | Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive?That's how I am too. My wardrobe consists of leggings, sweats and oversized t shirts. As long as you're comfortable who gives a shit what others think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 05:41 PM |
| 2 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymoreCompletely agree. This sub has just become a sub where each gender bashes, projects, and likes to generalize the other for their problems and failures in life. The "woe is me" mentality is really annoying, like taking accountability for yourself. I agree that purplish possum and lift and lurk are definitely good ones and make good arguments for both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 04:25 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill will become mainstream because the gender divide has become impossible to ignoreBut they keep convincing themselves that it's only their looks. Well, yeah, maybe, but being riddled with a shit ton of problems and then doing the whole "woe is me" thing not to improve themselves is annoying as fuck and is definitely not helping them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 03:29 PM |
| -2 | The Red Pill will become mainstream because the gender divide has become impossible to ignore"You’ll find red pilled men saying this shit yet they will never ever ever provide any semblance of proof. Men who are getting pussy aren’t spending a shit ton of time on the internet in forums with dudes who don’t get pussy." Lmao exactly. I've been saying the same thing. Most of these red pillers have never been in a relationship or had sex, so they tell themselves and try to convince others of all sorts of delusions to cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 03:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV Women's standards aren't high enough and men are overestimating their valueAs a woman, I completely agree with this. I dated abusers all throughout high school and then married one. I grew up with a very abusive mother, so I thought that was the norm. My therapist told me the reason people go after the same type of shitty men and women is because they go after what they see in themselves. So if you have a toxic mindset, are immature, have low self-esteem, and think you're worthless, you will go after people who see you the same way and who themselves are the same way. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I think most men don't truly understand what being attractive is, and can be just as entitled delusional as the women they complain about.I've only ever dated men who were between 4"9-5"8. I prefer shorter men I think they're so much more attractive. I know not many women think that but that's what I like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 10:32 PM |
| 9 | Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks Discussion Thread"You guys know you don’t have to settle for women who aren’t into you, right?" You would think so, right? But it's clear the men in this sub have never been in a relationship, or they keep going after the same type of woman. I had to learn the hard way that the reason I kept going after the same type of man was because you go after people that you see in yourself. So, if you have a toxic mindset, you think you're worthless and have low self-esteem. You're also going to go after people who see yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 06:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV Im going to fully put it out there and say for people below thirty you DONT see many average couples out in the real world any more"You motherfuckers do not go outside" Exactly lol. The shit that gets posted to this sub every day always makes me laugh because I'm like, "Nah, man, that's not how the real world is. So many people actually believe their delusions while they're in their basement when it's clear they've never left it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 10:47 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is so spot on, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 09:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is so spot on. The mental gymnastics people do to try and discredit the article is hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship.Lmao, it's pretty obvious that not only have most men in this sub never been with a woman but clearly never left their mothers basement either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Ladies - What percentage of the bills would you expect your man to pay if you lived together?As a woman, AITA is the biggest man hating sub I've ever seen. I've called out their bs so many times I ended up getting banned from there, lol. Such a toxic fuckin sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 06:43 PM |
| 4 | TRP is not based on science, it's based on what intuitively sounds trueAs a woman, I completely agree with this, lol. Started with my mother and went from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 08:22 PM |
| 5 | At what point does being caring and courteous become a turnoff to the average woman?I'm not the person you asked, but as a woman myself, I will always pay for my meal, but a lot of times, I offer to cover both of ours. Takes off pressure from both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 02:45 PM |
| 19 | CMV : women genuinely want attention and affection from their man, and attention and affection genuinely causes attraction towards that man to dropLol, that's basically every single post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Sexy-Havers Only Discussion ThreadThat's exactly what I do, but I end up moving too much he has to hold my legs in place, lol. The clit is so weird because even though it has 8000 nerve endings, the little spot under the hood is usually the only way I can get off, but it has to be just right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: “Insecurity” and “Trust” are words increasingly being used to gaslight menI'm tired of seeing the word narcassist and gaslighting on here, lol. I've never seen anyone use it in the right context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 02:36 PM |
| 10 | Do you think women value humor in a mate more than men do? Why or why not?As a bi woman, I see the "make me laugh" thing all the time, especially on Tinder profiles. It comes off as "it's your job to entertain me." That would be an instant left swipe for me, so I totally agree with what you're saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:50 PM |
| 10 | Asking your partner to wear less revealing clothes: controlling or boundaries?"I would dump someone who made that request. I don't do jealous bullshit in relationships, and I don't tolerate it either." Yes, exactly! I tolerated and allowed that shit for 10 years. Never. The. Fuck. Again. It seems like most people in this sub have no actual idea or concept of what a healthy relationship is or looks like. Jealousy and insecurities have no place in a healthy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Asking your partner to wear less revealing clothes: controlling or boundaries?I absolutely love your flair, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:16 PM |
| 3 | We hear enough about red flags on this sub, what are some of your dating green flags?As a woman completely agree! My mom was an abusive narcassistic POS. My dad stepped up to the plate as both parents and gave everything he had to us. My dad is legit My hero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How different would historical gender dynamics and modern dating be if the size/strength difference between males and females were reversed, but everything else had remained the same?I always look forward to your comments. You always have such great insight on things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:03 PM |
| 5 | This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issuesExactly. I said the same thing in another comment. This isn't even a debate sub anymore; it's just both genders refusing to take accountability for anything in their lives and blaming the other for all their problems and failures thus far. It's just people projecting and spewing hatred at each other. The "woe is me" and constant victim complex is so annoying. Also, if you try to bring nuance into it and say both genders have it bad just in different ways, then one gender has to whine and say tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 07:58 PM |
| 1 | This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issuesThe problem is that this isn't even a debate sub anymore; it's just both genders constantly attacking and projecting onto each other and blaming them for their problems and failures in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 07:54 PM |
| 2 | This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issuesThe problem is that this isn't even a debate sub anymore; it's just both genders constantly attacking and projecting onto each other and blaming them for their problems and failures in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Differences between man-woman, woman-woman or man-man friendships?"I find it super weird and disrespectful when I’m dating someone and they talk about all the details of our sex life with their girlfriends." I find this to be super bizarre. Does this happen a lot? As a woman, I have never ever done that. I know I wouldn't like the person I'm dating doing that, so if I didn't want them doing that and I kept doing that, that would make me a hypocrite, no? But I definitely agree it's messed up to talk to your friends about issues instead of the actual person you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 02:24 PM |
| 16 | Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women?It depends if you're asking what the men in this sub think or what men in IRL think. They're vastly different, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Being a Chad may not have a lot to do with looks, but with feeling like a winnerI love your username, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Where Is an appropriate place for young man to approach a woman he likes in 2023?That's what I'm sayin! You can be the hottest guy on the planet to me, but if the vibe is off or there's no connection, then yeah, it's a no from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you all have these PurplePillDebate conversations and not get depressed/triggered? Genuine question (New Here)Lol, you can tell by the way people comment that they've never left their mothers basement or been in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 10:06 PM |
| 4 | How do you think women respond to "pick-mes", and why do you think that is?Yeah, I got called a pick me on reddit yesterday because I agreed with a man's opinion instead of a woman's lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 07:30 PM |
| -1 | Saying one gender is more valuable than another is illogical, since the other gender establishes the priceExactly, lol. Accountability between both genders in this sub is non-existent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | From my observation, the standard of beauty for men is a lot higher than the standard of beauty for women.Lmao, why do y'all constantly have to make every little thing a competition in this sub. God forbid both genders both have it bad in different ways or worse...agree! It's just one gender trying to say they have it worse than the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Women still need men, maybe more than ever, but not in the same wayHow many more times is this gonna keep getting posted with either "but men need women more" or "but women need men more" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 10:13 PM |
| 3 | How do you think beauty filters on social media will affect dating in the future?Same! I take the worst photos and am not photogenic in the least, but I look 100 times better in person. So I agree with your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 08:11 PM |
| 11 | I believe that women have it easier than men in many waysThis sub is such a good source of entertainment. All the posts consist of either men or women saying they have it worse than the other. "Woe is me" victim complex up in here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 03:42 PM |
| 12 | CMV: Dumping awkward or unattractive guys into the Alaskan wilderness in late winter might make them more attractive.Lol, this sub makes me feel like I'm taking crazy pills. The amount of delusions and wild ass shit people say in here is crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:31 AM |
| 0 | We don’t talk enough about the “Settle Down” woman enoughI always look forward to your comments in this sub! You always have such fantastic insight into the questions asked here( I hope that's not weird to say) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 12:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: pushing RP theories like the wall encourages immature women with very little life experience to make rushed decisions about who’s genes to pass onThat's great. I'm just saying I wouldn't recommend it. I know there are people who get married young and are happy, but the majority of the time, it doesn't work out well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 10:17 PM |
| 3 | What are some good standards men could have for women they date?"is able to accept some level of disagreement, doesn't feel entitled to decide whether your emotions are wrong or right, apologizes when wrong." This is big for me. Both genders(especially in this sub) are constantly blaming the other gender for their actions, past, and current failures in life. A lot of people seem to be allergic to any kind of accountability, which drives me up the wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 06:36 PM |
| 3 | CMV: pushing RP theories like the wall encourages immature women with very little life experience to make rushed decisions about who’s genes to pass onAbsolutely not. I got married at 18, and I'm now 29, getting divorced. I definitely do not recommend getting married that young. Ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 06:30 PM |
| -1 | Why Are You Single?Mmmm definitely want some sour cream and onion Pringles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 02:34 AM |
| 6 | Female women, how would you feel if you learned that your boyfriend/husband used to do things for his ex that he never does to you?"Like I'm not gonna be mad, my boyfriend took his ex to Applebee's." Idk why, but that really made me laugh, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 02:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Its hypocrisy to hate on Andrew Tate and his Mindset, and then proceed to date a guy with a "Tate mindset""But ultimately, the greatest irony of this post is the mention of gaslighting…. while that is literally what you’re currently doing. " Lmao, this sub constantly contradicts itself. It's actually hilarious, like the hypocrisy between both genders is off the charts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 02:52 AM |
| 0 | CMV : Its hypocrisy to hate on Andrew Tate and his Mindset, and then proceed to date a guy with a "Tate mindset"Lol, this sub(along with most others)is either black or white, no in between no nuance or gray area, nothing, lmao. This sub is such a great source of entertainment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 01:26 AM |
| 1 | How do you all have these PurplePillDebate conversations and not get depressed/triggered? Genuine question (New Here)"Play your victim gymnastics." That's all this sub does all day long, lol. Both genders in this sub constantly blame the other gender for their problems and failures in life. The constant victim mentality in here becomes annoying real quick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 07:57 PM |
| 3 | What does the average experience of an average man in the dating world look like?It's crazy how a large portion of this sub takes a bad experience they had and, therefore, generalizes the entire population because of it. Like I've had many bad experiences but I've never thought well because I've had bad experiences they must all be bad! Idk a lot of people here are just super angry and bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 02:33 AM |
| 1 | If women are the ones who control the dating market, wouldn’t it make sense for men to lower their standards instead?I completely agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:07 PM |
| 1 | If you consider the need for a paternity test to be mandatory for raising a child, you probably shouldn’t be dating in the first placeIt's absolutely mind-blowing how bitter people are in this sub. They do nothing but project, blame their insecurities and shortcomings onto the other gender. No wonder they're single, lol. A lot of people in this sub need some serious therapy and need to self-reflect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 01:20 AM |
| 5 | Conception should be based on consentAs a woman, I completely agree. This is the biggest double standard that has always pissed me off. If women get the right to choose between having or aborting the baby, then men also get to choose whether they wanna be a dad or not. Simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 03:44 AM |
| 12 | Women say look out for signals to approach, what are the signals?I'm fairly new to this sub, but as a woman(I'm also neurodivergent), I completely agree with everything you said. It feels like you guys can't win no matter what you do or don't do. I've read a lot of posts from this sub, and it's all just rage bait. I especially feel for men who are on the spectrum because a lot of times, you guys get absolutely no help or support and have to suffer in silence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 07:47 PM |
| 2 | On The Tinder SwindlerI couldn’t even finish the documentary because I got so frustrated and annoyed. The first girl got on a plane after 5 seconds of meeting him. Its so clear why those women were targeted. They were sheltered, gullible and naive. They ignored all red flags which there were MANY. Everyone wants to argue this but it’s the truth. He targets women who he knows will fall easily to his trap. Which they did.. they were so caught up in what they thought was an exciting lifestyle they ignored all red flags.… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Study shows woman are more likely to be abusive and and violent while men seeking help likely to be accused of abuse is being wrought in denialism.Sorry I’m late to the post! As a woman myself I agree wholeheartedly, All the woman in my family are abusive and controlling. I actually just got kicked out of a group where people vent about their abuse for sticking up for all the men in the group. I’m sick and tired of watching women kicking men down for trying to speak up about abuse they suffered at the hands of a woman. Women can insult, shit talk and complain about men. But insulting woman is “sexist” I’m really sorry and feel for all the … | /r/MensRights | 17/08/21 06:42 PM |
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