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I wasn’t trolling that’s my genuine belief. I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:44 PM
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A - Literally everyone cares when a woman gets harmed. And it’s only the redpillers that care when a man does. B - Women have significantly more options, so it’s a warranted red flag for a woman to be old and lonely. Only exception being if she had a long relationship that ended. C - I don’t know what to say to this, so I’m going to research it. D - This contradicts itself. Women have been proven to have lower self esteem on average, which is the main symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:43 PM
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It’s literally the opposite but okay lol. Generally it’s based on benevolence. That men owe women everything. Men are subservient trash that need to do everything the woman wants. Feminism is almost identical to what women think the redpill is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:29 PM
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Okay, explain to me why the fuck you think it’s okay to only be nice to someone cause you want something from them. Go right ahead. I mean really?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:19 PM
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I think you’re just looking for reasons to complain and be passive aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:33 PM
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I didn’t say I expected anything for free. I also didn’t say I prioritize youth and fertility. I also didn’t say kindness is a one way street. I think you have the wrong idea of what redpill is. I also think you believe that all redpillers follow the ideology 100% to its roots. If someone is redpill/bluepill, that doesn’t mean they abide by it 100%, it only means that’s where the majority or the fundamentals of their beliefs come from. I’m probably 70% redpill, 20% blue, and 10% black.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:13 PM
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Did women generally seem to treat you better when you got rid of your victim complex? Are you saying that your perspective can cause subconsciously rooted behavior that may attract negative interactions? Or are you saying that perspective can lead to subconscious confirmation bias? I’d just like someone who has at least a few similar interests and at least a semi-similar plan for the future. Someone who loves me for who I am and not for how I make their life easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:04 PM
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Women have to struggle a lot for some mistakes? I just audibly laughed at that. What about birth control? What about getting tubes tied, what about just not fucking a dude unless he uses a condom? What about child support? Literally what mistake can women make that doesn’t have a safety net attached to it? I’d literally pay you if you could name one, but I think that’s against the rules. Women don’t have to pay for their mistakes, this is why they have been jumping into more traditionally mascul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:47 PM
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I’m more so referring to people under the age of 30. Women under the age of 30 have the maturity of a 4 year old boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:43 AM
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What women say on the internet is the complete opposite of what happens in real life. This wouldn’t even be a such a big topic of discussion if it wasn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:31 AM
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“No u”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:26 AM
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How can it be an immature perspective if the source of the perspective is real world experience? Based on your views, I would be amazed if women didn’t walk all over you. This kind of behavior is what women think of as “human carpet energy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:24 AM
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Not to mention that being a kind gentleman makes most women drier than the Sahara desert. They won’t admit that though because that would mean they have to take accountability for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:16 AM
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I wouldn’t give a shit if my daughter wants a tall guy. In fact I would encourage her to date a tall one. I wouldn’t want my daughter dating some 5’7” pipsqueak. If you’re short, you’re prey. I do not want my daughter dating an easy target that gets picked up by the collar and says “please put me down sir”. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:43 AM
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Decades worth of studies conducted by people much more educated than us would disagree OP. Men and women are distinctly different. I could write an entire book on the differences. Also “women are more logical” I audibly laughed at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:11 AM
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And you are validating the poor judgement of people. Also, if you could get the SJW woke mob pitchfork out of your rear end you would acknowledge that I blamed men for having poor judgement too. Besides, OPs post was about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:05 AM
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If equality was introduced across the board we would fail as a species in mere weeks. The women would crumble and get traumatized. Modern women want privileges without responsibility or accountability. This isn’t entirely their fault however, we are under a huge cultural shift and historically speaking they haven’t as any many privileges or responsibilities so it makes sense they would have a hard time grasping the relationship between the two. This is why platonic female friends want the benefi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:00 AM
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Be a big girl/boy and pick your partners better. This isn’t just “WAH-MAN BAD”, but they definitely have horrible judgement when it comes to partners. Maybe hold them accountable every once in a while and we won’t have so many issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:27 AM
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I actually lol’d at that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:08 AM
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Poor judgment on her end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:07 AM
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Not gay but it’s beta. It’s going to be one sided no matter the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:06 AM
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I can smell the sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:26 PM
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Ya. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:24 PM
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The first and last paragraph I agree with mostly. However I think it’s odd for someone to think women are capable of “real” love in 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:57 PM
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Poor health, and poor morals. The bar is so low, and yet they complain when we don’t want them past age 30 as if it’s not a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:33 PM
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I wish you and your daughter the best even though I think that advice is odd, but it’s your choice not mine. Personally I would just teach my hypothetical daughter to go after men who have good priorities regardless of age. That 23 year old guy who just got his degree, has perfect hygiene and grooming, great morals and values, good physical and mental health, and a long list of interests is high value. Doesn’t matter the age. I would also tell her that “game” can make a walking turd appear to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:16 PM
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Love is for beta males. Women don’t feel real “love”. They “love” as a survival mechanism to get security. They also only feel empathy as a survival mechanism. Only a sad, desperate and/or naive beta male would want to partake in something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:03 PM
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Redpillers get way more respect in real life than this subreddit and the internet in general wants you to believe. As long as you don’t explicitly say you’re redpilled, people typically admire and/or obsess over you. It’s fulfilling because it released me from the brainwashing I (and most men) received growing up. It made me realize that women do not like kind guys. It also made me realize that they are not the more empathetic and kind gender. It made me realize that emotional connections with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:24 PM
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Red pill is unfulfilling? Hmm, maybe I should try the blue pill way so that every women on earth tells me im “too nice” which actually just means she thinks I’m a bitch. Good idea, and while im bluepilled I’ll be sure to learn how to negate the insurmountable disrespect I receive from every woman on earth. And while I’m at it, I’ll be sure to thank the girl that gets with me for using me as her beta bux backup plan after treating all the good men like absolute dogshit for the first 30 years of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:02 PM
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It’s completely normal. Women don’t date men who are equal to them. Anyone that says otherwise does not go out enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:58 PM
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Thank you for validating my concrete and objective take, that women have 0 empathy or compassion for anyone they don’t find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:04 PM
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DO NOT. I repeat DO NOT, befriend women platonically. Or go ahead. But if you do here’s what’s going to happen. About 1/3rd women are going to assume you’re gay. About 2/3rd of women are going to treat you like a beta male simpy boy. They will give you false advice, thereby exacerbating the brainwashing they’ve already done to men. They will use your friendship as an excuse for free food and activities. They will expect the benefits and privileges of being your girlfriend but will not even remot…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:12 PM
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Taking away abortion isn’t taking away a personal freedom. It’s enforcing accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:29 PM
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Who voluntarily had sex and did not take precautions? A ghost?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:28 PM
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“Or society votes on it” “Bruh, this is really just authoritarianism” Do you… know what authoritarianism is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:25 PM
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If you’re physically attractive and not getting laid even with extended social interaction, it’s because you’re nice to them and therefore they don’t respect you. Women only have sex with men they respect. Women do not respect men that respect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:21 PM
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This post is comical. Women are more into casual sexy by a mile. Men typical exaggerate their body count to be higher and women typically say it’s lower than what it is, and somehow the general consensus is that the average lifetime sexual partners is around the same among both genders. That’s a good one, bro. The moment men realize being nice is a turn off is the moment when men will have the higher ground in the sexual marketplace. It’s that simple, it’s not “mEn wAnT mOrE cAsUaL sEx”. This gl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:03 AM
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Most women I interact with, ya. I’ve had a couple decent relationships with very intelligent and mature women, and not once did they want me to treat them as “equal”. It doesn’t make a difference on what kind of woman it is, the women that actually appreciate kind and respectful behavior from men are a needle in a haystack; I’ve met maybe women who fit that type my entire life and when you find them you have to compete with entire male population for her because those types of women are priceles…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:10 AM
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Factually wrong. Add this to list of women that use the internet to gaslight the entire male population into thinking their objective real world experiences over the course of decades didn’t actually happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:03 AM
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I’ve never met a woman who wasn’t into it unless she was physically attractive. Are you from Europe by chance? I know Europeans aren’t as promiscuous both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:27 PM
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This would imply that most women have low self esteem and/or are traumatized and I find that hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:21 PM
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What actually plays out in real life would completely contradict your opinion. Women don’t respect men that respect women. Source: A guy that has women flocking to him who use to not be desirable whatsoever. A guy who was bluepilled and was resented by most women who turned redpilled and started getting respected by most of them And don’t say “those girls have mental health problems” cause it’s most of them that respond positively to redpillers. Women love redpillers. Women hate guys who say the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:26 PM
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No. Not even close. Almost every women on earth could find a worthwhile husband before the age of 25. Their promiscuity is a choice not a circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:14 PM
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Factually wrong. Women love redpill guys, they just don’t like it when the guy says he’s redpilled. Women say one thing but do the other, are you new to life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:13 PM
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I know a “chameleon” but at a lower level. The guy I’m talking about literally acts like Andrew Tate in every way shape or form but then shits on redpillers constantly. Polygamous, but doesn’t let his wife do the same. Says he would never date an older woman, tries to be an entrepreneur, although fails epically. He is constantly working out, stoic as hell. Etc. But ya know, he says Andrew Tate is awful. The ladies eat him up. From what I’ve witnessed and experience, women don’t dislike redpiller…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:56 AM
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“Seems to have given some men some feeling of validation in trying to shame women for the crime of aging” Shaming? Having a preference isn’t the same as shaming. Seems like a failed attempt at a guilt trip. I thought everyone was entitled to their own preferences and you’re not obligated to like anyone? Or does that only apply to women? Men can have whatever preferences they want, especially HVM. Most HVM don’t want to go through the blood sweat and tears it takes to be better than everyone else…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:47 AM
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Okay well you just used a strawman argument to feign accountability in number 2 and also flat out lied in number 3 so this discussion is over. Birth control exists, use it. Women don’t respect men that don’t protect them, regardless of how much they know each other. I’m not reading the rest. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:12 AM
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Physical labor jobs (what most men have outside of desk jobs and fast food) involve a loooot of bleeding and physical pain in general. I don’t know the average “bleeds per month” though lol. You also don’t have anyone telling you to have unprotected sex. You take the risk. No one goes into the military voluntarily thinking “if I get hurt it’s someone else’s fault”, it’s the same thing. You also don’t get your genitals mutilated right after your born, men do. I wasn’t victimizing myself, I’m simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:26 AM
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First sentence is false. Unless we’re talking about unattractive women. High morals = zero pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:02 AM
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And all 3 have shit life’s and are never respected by anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:00 AM
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Literally nothing. Men don’t respect you. Women don’t respect you. Women don’t want to fuck you. You snap on someone one time and all the sudden “you were faking the whole time” You will be stepped on at every job you have by your boss. Every man who starts about as a “good” guy or “nice” guy ends up turning into a cauldron of resentment and hatred later on when he realizes that being nice just attracts the opposite energy towards him. If you’re a nice guy, have fun with your shit life that no o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:57 AM
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The comments here are proof that if everyone here magically swapped genders, reality would hit 99% of them harder than a semi barreling at them at 100mph.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:51 AM
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You underestimate how much men bleed from other factors. We don’t have bodily autonomy either. Men get objectified too all the time. Changing your tire isn’t a man thing, it’s an adult thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:46 AM
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Wow, the women here are literally oblivious to what it’s like being a man. If I was a woman the advantages would be ——- I wouldn’t have to take a career seriously I would have an endless stream of supporters It would be comically easy to find a relationship or get laid I would feel more secure in the event of a divorce It would be nice to have the legal/judicial system generally catered to me Girls night at the bars (free drinks lol) The disadvantages would be ———- Being weaker and shorter would…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:43 AM
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I didn’t say they should give it up easy. What I’m saying is they’re using you as a backup plan in case they can’t find someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:15 AM
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That’s… not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:50 AM
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No, I don’t like them. I don’t hate them or wish them ill though. They are generally just fake overall. All of their “kindness” that they rarely show to begin with is just a survival instinct. This is why female friendships don’t last nearly as long as male friendships, the women don’t see the other women as much of a threat so they’re less hesitant to take off their mask. Their entire basis for love is also based on survival instinct too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:05 AM
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Ya they are keeping you around hoping to make you desperate enough to be easy backup plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:41 AM
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Sex and resources. Resources more than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:25 PM
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Factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:37 AM
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It’s an attempt at emotional manipulation to test someone’s reaction. Example 1: You’re talking to a girl for awhile and she plays interested, then she goes to talk to some other guy for 5 minutes to see if you get jealous Example 2: A woman says something blatantly disrespectful and passive aggressive. She wants to see if you can calmly put her in her place or if you’ll react emotionally to it. It’s objectively narcissistic. Narcissists always shit test their victims so they know how to gasligh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:17 PM
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“There are ugly men who gain respect and are loved by women - many of them”. Lol, no. Not in America, I’m going to assume you’re from Europe. I’ve recently noticed a trend in the vast difference between how European men and women interact and value each other, at least on this subreddit. “You talk as if those people are inherently worse” I wasn’t talking like that. When you can show me one American fat or skinny guy who is respected (celebrities don’t count) I’ll believe you. Same thing for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:22 AM
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The first 2 things are common knowledge/sense really. Yes a woman bases her interest off other women’s interest in you. This has been studied and proven to be true for most women. When an adult woman turns down a man romantically or sexually because of his lack of experience, it’s not actually because of the lack of experience. It’s because it signals to her that no other woman wants him. No I’m not black pilled, I’m a redpill muffin with blue pill frosting and blackpill sprinkles. I don’t think…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:19 AM
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I don’t care what anyone says. I’ve seen the red pill claims play out in real time freakishly more often than blue or black pill No man or woman respects you if you’re skinny or fat. The exceptions being other skinny and fat people. No woman respects you if you have an ugly face. The only exception being ugly women. No man nor woman respects you if you don’t make at least like $40,000/yr-ish minimum. The exceptions being your economic equals If you don’t have game, women don’t respect you. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:06 AM
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Still using strawmans. I don’t give a flying fuck about who wants who. But for women to sit here having the audacity to say shit like “well maybe you should just improve yourself” AT THE SAME TIME is objectively narcissistic. “I have to put in 1/10th of the work to find a viable partner, also, you should put more work into yourself” How is this not narcissistic, entitled, and hypocritical? And how is narcissism, entitlement, and hypocrisy not a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:51 AM
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The simple fact of the matter is that women put in 1/10th of the work into improving themselves and have a higher success rate than the men who are constantly progressing. That’s what I was implying. It’s not simple as “ya it’s cause of bodily autonomy” nobody is arguing against bodily autonomy, but I’m sick of women preaching “wElL iF yOu WoUlD jUsT wOrK oN yOuRsElf yOu WoUlDnT hAvE aNy TrOubLe” when the guy they’re telling that to, almost certainly puts more work into himself than she puts int…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:22 AM
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Literally half the people on this sub just reply to truthful statements with strawman arguments. You know exactly what I’m implying, but instead of addressing the point you decided to go with the face value of what I said so you could virtue signal. You’re not “making alphas”, what you are doing is enabling narcissistic women and enabling simpy beta males.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:39 AM
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No it isn’t literally what I said. I said most men would disagree. The general consensus of men does not ALWAYS decide objectivity. HOWEVER in this particular context it literally does. How so? Because disgust is an emotion, and if the overwhelming majority of men feel disgust when their partner has nude pictures online, then it’s objective fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:55 PM
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No, nice strawman argument though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:36 PM
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Most men would disagree. If you really need the ego boost of knowing a bunch of weirdos are getting hard-ons from your pictures online that’s genuinely pathetic. Especially while in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:47 PM
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If she doesn’t delete them, get rid of her. She is not worth your time. There’s no woman on the face of this earth with a good heart or high self-esteem that wouldn’t delete them. Seriously think about it. “My tits being on the internet are more important than the man I’m potentially marrying”. That’s literally what it is, objectively. Drop her if she says no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:45 PM
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He’s not insecure. Quite the opposite. He has enough self-respect to not want to be with a woman who flaunts her body on the internet. Flaunting your naked body for the entire world to see is objectively disgusting, and don’t try to say “you just don’t respect woman’s bodily autonomy”, because it’s the same thing if a guy does it. Be upset if you want but the only “men” that would stay with her if she said no are betas who get walked on by narcissistic women. Get with a woman who posts her hobbi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:39 PM
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2nd one. I’m not providing for someone who doesn’t make my life easier. I can just “cheat” if I want affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:29 PM
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What did I… just… huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:28 PM
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Explains it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:19 AM
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Dating apps - bad Parties - bad What do you mean by social settings? Like just a group of friends hanging out at someone’s house? Going to the mall? The most genuinely kind and mature guys I know go to the book stores and arcade at my local mall frequently. If you’re a reader or like games, try those places. Any social setting that isn’t completely hobby-oriented is a horrible place to find good dudes. I’m a dude, trust me. P.S - if he does bench presses at the gym he’s probably a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:06 AM
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Uh actually no I’d be the first woman in history to get with a guy who isn’t a bum or a shitstain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:48 AM
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Just sounds like you hate men and think every guy that approaches you wants to hurt you. Unless you only went to the bar to meet people, the bar is a cesspool of rapey dudes, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:47 AM
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“Most women aren’t into casual sex” what world do you live in where the majority of women don’t prefer casual sex and being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:07 AM
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I’d have a fiancée almost immediately actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:03 AM
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No. You don’t have to “weed” through them, woman constantly say all the time that they can usually tell who the bad ones are very quickly, through numerous indicators. Are you seriously going to tell me the gender with FAR superior social intuition has a hard time “weeding out” the ones they don’t want? There’s little to no excuse. A woman past 30 who is somehow still single is worth about the same as a 30 year old man living with his parents. The only ones that have an excuse are divorcees.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:27 AM
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They deserve to be shamed yes. There’s absolutely no justifiable reason that men should have it 10x harder being successful romantically/sexually even though men have 10x lower standards. There’s not a single woman past the age of 30 that is worth a second of a decent man’s time. Women have it 10x easier than men in the dating market, infinitely more options, and she still failed to find her lifelong partner? Red flag. There has to be someone severely wrong with a woman to be single at 30. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:10 PM
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We don’t like commitment because women are incapable of a real commitment to a man. There’s no point in it if it’s not mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:59 PM
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99% of the ones who are even remotely close to physically attractive are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:56 PM
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“Maybe if men stopped hating women and treating us like crap” Welcome to the life of a man. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:46 PM
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Do you expect anything different? There’s a reason why men have a 10x harder time succeeding romantically/sexually even though their standards are 10x lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:19 PM
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I agree with the first 2 things, but most women definitely lie about their history and date dudes they don’t like for free meals. You might not, but that doesn’t mean the other 99% don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:22 AM
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Well if you are a pile of shit and you think you aren’t, it should be common sense that it’s a problem. If you aren’t a pile of shit and know you’re not, then it’s not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:16 PM
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Literally not once was that implied or stated that’s it’s up to the woman. Also, I am a dude. Are you upset because you just came to the realization your confidence hasn’t been earned? Or did you just use this as a “yay I can indirectly say women bad” moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:11 PM
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Again, you’re looking at the extreme end of it. Dread game for most is passive. You work hard in all areas so that she acknowledges on her own that you are worth keeping. Deliberating instilling jealousy is on the extreme end and is something most don’t do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:11 PM
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Well it’s true, if you feel like you can control the guy you lose respect for him. Seems like you think dread game is synonymous with abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:59 PM
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Well most content creators are on the extreme side of whatever ideology they follow. So I think this leads people to believe that all redpillers are like Bannedrew Tate which is far from the truth. Dread game is necessary though I have to say. Women naturally try to weed out the weak ones, to the point they even test their current BF/Husband. If a woman thinks she’s you’re only option, she’ll leave you. Women will cover that up and say “no that’s true”, because they don’t want to come off as pol…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:50 PM
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We generally don’t consider it nagging if it’s something basic or reasonable. There’s a fine line between “can you show me where X is?” …Or ….”can we add such and such to the grocery list?” And “OH MY GOD YOU LEFT THE TOILET SEAT UP ONE SINGLE TIME OH MY GOD WHAT THE HELL IS YOUR PROBLEM ALSO WHY DID YOU MOVE THE KETCHUP TO THE BOTTOM SHELF”. Believe it or not we can differentiate a modest and respectful request and a psychotic overreaction to something mundane. I think you’re taking the very ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:27 AM
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Red pill guy here. My ideal wife is someone who wants to get drunk and make cookies at 3am butt naked in the kitchen for no other reason than “why not” But other than that, smart, kind, good sense of humor, goofy, not to overly sensitive, artistic is a cool trait to have, likes dogs, plays video games, likes nerdy movies, likes nature. Most red pill guys aren’t thinking “SHE HAS TO BE PUT ON A LEASH AND SHE CANNOT SPEAK UNLESS GIVEN PERMISSION, BRING ME COFFEE SERVANT!” like a lot of people seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:54 AM
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No, it isn’t. I don’t know a single manosphere guy that says “fuck bro, I just absolutely hate it when my wife needs help with something. Fuck man….” Not a single one. Doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:47 AM
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No it isn’t. What the fuck? You have a horrible idea of a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:31 PM
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Putting up with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:24 PM
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What the actual fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:10 PM
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I don’t know if you saw my other comments but I agree with the last thing you said. There’s no way either of them are mentally healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:06 PM
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Just curious, how old are these 2 people?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:01 PM
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That does not… what? Dude how is causing someone to be volatile on purpose tending and befriending?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:01 PM
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If she fears him, why is she repeatedly exhibiting the very behavior that causes the man to “act out”? That doesn’t make any sense, at all. “When I do X, he does Y and it scares me, I’m gonna keep doing X” What?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:57 PM
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That’s a generalized statement and presumptuous take. How do you know this guys definition of nagging? The woman is the childish one. Don’t sit here reigniting the very cycle you started to begin with and then blame the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:55 PM
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This isn’t abusive. She’s literally the root of the behavior. Why would she continue “nagging and bossing”, if she felt unsafe? Why would she do it if it doesn’t give her the response she wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:53 PM
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This isn’t abusive. She’s literally the root of the behavior. Why would she continue “nagging and bossing”, if she felt unsafe? Why would she do it if it doesn’t give her the response she wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:53 PM
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If she doesn’t like it, why is she punishing him by being naggy and bossy when he isn’t be dramatic? If she’s scared, how does she have the guts to be naggy and bossy to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:49 PM
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He isn’t screwing with her. If she doesn’t like drama why is she rewarding it? And why is she punishing him when he doesn’t act dramatic? It’s her own fault. This isn’t abuse, this is childish and dysfunctional at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:44 PM
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He’s not an idiot, he just has low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:31 PM
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Holy shit? I don’t see abuse here. All I see is a childish woman and a man with low self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:30 PM
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I’m selfish man every single one I find I’m keeping them secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:29 PM
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No, that would get old and annoying. I’d rather find an actual adult that likes peace instead of an oversized child that craves an endless stream of redundant BS
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:20 PM
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Who is the abuser? Woman does X, man does Y, and woman rewards man with Z. It seems like the woman is just immature and likes drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:18 PM
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Right but why is it that typically speaking if 2 people exactly the same or very similar, but one is nice and the other is a dick, the dick will be chosen more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:24 PM
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So the solution to all widespread conflicting beliefs online is just “cause it’s an echo chamber”, I don’t believe that. This is more multifaceted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:05 PM
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That would make sense to happen sometimes but its primarily assholes getting all the action in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:05 PM
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Did I say women claim to not care about looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:52 PM
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If this wasn’t a common phenomenon I wouldn’t have gotten so many upvotes on the original comment you replied to. This may not apply to you but it applies to 99.99%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:48 PM
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Can you further explain what you mean by false attribution?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:45 PM
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In the US, women almost exclusively date and have sex with guys with a lower moral compass late into their 20s. This is a fact, most guys will agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:13 PM
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You’re from the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:57 PM
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The only correct comment on this post so far. Just wait for the “that only happens in highschool” replies from people that don’t want to admit this still applies to women in their late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:27 AM
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What did she say?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:29 AM
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Is it your flair? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:00 AM
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No as in you’re illiterate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:11 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:01 AM
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Good job Sherlock. Obviously it CAN. The problem is when people are confident for LACKING self awareness. You wouldn’t have so many confident bums who can’t even take care of themselves otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:42 AM
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Oh gotcha, I get it now. Have fun being mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:05 AM
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Have fun being mad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:03 AM
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Dude I’m not going to talk some who can’t even spell confident just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:57 AM
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This mentality is why there’s so many dudes who are in their 20s and 30s with 0 adult skills
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:49 AM
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Ya the problem isn’t really the confidence. The source of the confidence of the individual is what determines if it’s good or bad. Confidence with competence - the best people ever Confidence with incompetence - the worst people ever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:40 AM
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Oh look, another person who lacks critical thinking skills thinking I’m blaming women for their preferences, when I’m literally blaming men. Confident doesn’t an ‘a’ in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:38 AM
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Don’t assume my gender next time, brooo. Joking lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:44 PM
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I am a guy. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:58 PM
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Because when you have most men in a society being oversized children that can barely function when alone, giving off confidence (which is an indicator of accomplishment, high value, and maturity) it creates a cycle of women thinking all men are immature pieces of shit. It sets a standard of “okay if the 25yr old dude who doesn’t clean his room has confidence, imagine the other ones” In order for a healthy dating market to take place, dudes should learn to look in the mirror and reassess if their…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:33 PM
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Women wouldn’t make as many complaints as they do if most men’s confidence was earned. The problem isn’t confidence. The source of the confidence being a lack of self awareness is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:10 PM
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Don’t sit here throwing a fit like a 5 year old insulting me and then say “dial down the hostility buddy”. When I wasn’t even being hostile. That’s literally a textbook example of gaslighting, btw. I find it highly amusing the guy making failed attempts at gaslighting on Reddit is confused why having unearned confidence is problematic to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:45 PM
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That was a really good way to explain it. This does sound like the Dunning-Kruger effect actually, it’s just being narrowed into a specific context.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:30 PM
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I have a negative view on unearned confidence. Collect yourself so you can stop throwing false accusations around like candy. “What if I just happened to like myself and want to approach a girl because I deserve a woman like her?” What if? That depends, are you a walking trash can or a functioning adult? Are you going to show a form of confidence that is misleading, and have her end up being your mommy the whole relationship? If you’re a functioning adult I can’t see any issue. But if you’re lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:27 PM
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Because it has a negative effect on everyone else when you don’t. You should earn confidence by becoming a remarkable person. Not “earn” confidence by lacking the ability to look in the mirror and see you’re an oversized child. Unearned confidence is dangerously similar to arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:19 PM
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People are so quick to take everything so black and white. I’m not saying women shouldn’t like confident men. The issue is that most confident men haven’t earned it, which creates a false perception of what good men are actually like. I’m blaming the men for the paradox.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:06 PM
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Self consciousness is the awareness of your mind, body, and environment. Self-Awareness is the recognition and deeper understanding of your self consciousness. They are hand in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:04 PM
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Do your own research. I’m not gonna discuss with someone who resorts to passive aggression.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:00 PM
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You are literally spazzing out from your own misinterpretation of the post. YOU are the one acting insecure. Chillax, pussy slayer. The point of the post was that dudes who have an unearned sense of self confidence are causing women to have resentment towards men en masse based off a false perception of them. Edit: I don’t have a negative view on self confidence, I said it’s a paradox.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:56 PM
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You’re literally missing the entire point. The fact that it’s correlative and causative only further solidifies my point. Also, you’re ignoring the other part of what I said. Look up clinical studies on the correlation between high self awareness and low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:53 PM
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I agree that humility is a sign of confidence but I think a lot of people don’t necessarily base it on that entirely, nor do they need to witness it to assume someone is confident. Not to mention, a lot of guys are poor at expressing humility, so it just comes off as awkward or self deprecating in an unhumorous way. There are studies confirming the correlation between high self awareness and low self esteem amongst average individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:51 PM
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No but there’s a correlative and causative pattern between those 2 things and insecurity. Going both directions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:46 PM
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Ya, as messed up as it sounds I think the overwhelming majority of “adults” still have the maturity of teenagers late into their 20s, and I think there’s a billion factors playing into that beyond accountability. Men not taking women’s advice is not because they don’t “respect them”. It’s because as harsh as this may be, most advice women give men just push them in the opposite direction. I don’t know a single man on the planet that said “wow! That advice that woman told me worked!”. Most guys a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:45 PM
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This is not true. If you look at clinical studies by licensed professionals, you will see that in people with depression, anxiety, and/or a general sense of low self esteem, there is a common trend of hyper self- awareness. In fact, this is the MAIN problem in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:41 PM
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See this is why I asked, because it is not the same. This brings me to the point of liability. With male-to-male friendships, there’s no liability. Let’s say some guys walk up to us looking for trouble, we have faith in each other to take care of business if necessary. Now with a male-to-female friendship, I think her safety is my responsibility, and why would I risk my own safety and potentially my life for someone who wouldn’t do the same for me in a million years, when this person is offering…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:38 PM
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Insecurity cannot exist without self awareness though. It’s impossible to to be insecure about something you’re not even aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:33 PM
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Dunning-Kruger isn’t a good way to summarize this. It’s a multifaceted issue. A better summary would be “maybe i should get pots and pans and learn how to wash my ass before taking on the role of Prince Charming”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:20 PM
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I think you would be amazed at the amount of women that put confident and well-intentioned in the same category in the heat of the moment. Although I agree that well-adjusted women don’t fall into this trap, the bigger problem is that they HAVE to go through it. I don’t think they should have to go through it at all, I think these dudes should just have the self-awareness to say “hmm, I don’t even have pots and pans, maybe I shouldn’t date. Maybe I’m a child…”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:17 PM
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Agreed. It feeds into the same problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:08 PM
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It’s not a fear of being used. It’s more of a “why should I even bother if she’s most likely going to try? Why would I waste my time”. The men that DO try to befriend woman for sex is a low % in my experience, and the only reason some of those guys do that is because like I said: the majority of women don’t offer anything beneficial in a friendship so that’s the only thing the men want In your opinion, what does a man have to gain from befriending a woman platonically (assuming neither have ulte…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:01 PM
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The men that don’t care are the ones getting the most action. There would be no need to make the complaint if that wasn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:57 PM
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And someone that category of men are the ones getting chosen constantly. Otherwise there would be no need to complain, would there?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:32 PM
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If we didn’t treat them differently than male friends? That’s your solution? Why not tell women not to try to use guys in the first place instead of projecting the blame onto guys in the first place? And maybe then they would feel more inclined to even start a friendship to begin with. It’s a very small % of men that fall into that trap and enable it. Otherwise it wouldn’t be MOST men avoiding these friendships completely, and this topic wouldn’t even be relevant. The fact you just used the acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:12 PM
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Literally everything in the bottom paragraph, which is the main question being asked by OP. You would never be this passive aggressive to another man out in public, grow up please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:07 PM
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YOU as a man are very presumptuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:00 PM
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You didn’t read the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:23 PM
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Hey fellow men. While you’re reading these comments, just remember if you get drafted into war, THESE are the women that you’re dying for. The ones that don’t appreciate you. No but seriously? What do we contribute? If someone tries breaking into your house who shows up when you call 911? Usually a man. If you’re trapped in a burning building who is going to carry you out? Usually a man. If a war starts who gets drafted and inevitably gets either slaughtered or mentally destroyed from PTSD? A ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:15 PM
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If men actually benefited from a platonic friendship with women more than 10% of the time they would feel more inclined to have those friendships, regardless of equality. It’s literally just that simple. Most guys wouldn’t mind a platonic friendship with a woman or several women, but the risk and liability isn’t worth it. If anything at all, men are the ones getting the shit end of the stick, so the fact you’re saying “change your attitude towards women” and preaching “inequality” is absolutely …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:56 PM
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From what I’ve seen the more female friends a guy has, the less pussy he gets, and the more he loses respect from other men and himself. Why would/should we take on the risks and liabilities of befriending women platonically?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:28 PM
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Well generally speaking 90% of the time one of these four things occur - The woman wants the privileges of being their boyfriend without reciprocating the same energy One of them (usually the guy) forms an attraction from familiarity that slowly destroys the friendship in the background. The woman uses the naive guy for free “dates” He gets labeled a simp by other women (and sometimes men) Platonically befriending a woman is a risk for us. It’s not about seeing them as an equal/unequal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:18 PM
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Until then I’ll assume he’s innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:29 PM
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The people in the comments don’t know the difference between being charged and being convicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:25 PM
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Where’s the guilty verdict?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:24 PM
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Mississippi to Florida. Orlando Florida to be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:06 AM
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No it isn’t a manic episode. I am genuinely amazed by how different women here are compared to where I use to live. I’m just landed in Orlando.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:05 AM
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My theory is that women are held to a substantially lower level of accountability and responsibility which causes men to have more unnecessary burdens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:52 PM
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“Mock the dumb ass whining” kinda like what you’re doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:49 PM
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IMO from a theoretical stance, the easier it is one for gender, the harder it is for the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:37 PM
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Well from scrolling through the posts on this subreddit, and the comments, I’d say OP is wrong that this sub is overrun by redpillers. Let’s hypothetically say there was a poll done for this sub that concluded it’s predominantly inhabited by redpillers. Would that be a problem? If yes, why would that be a problem? If the point of this sub was meant to have open discussion about gender issues, wouldn’t it make sense that eventually one side would become more prominent than the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:34 PM
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What’s the problem with opinions on a subreddit meant for open discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:06 PM
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This isn’t a bitter opinion, many people agree and have strong reasons to have that opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:57 PM
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Most of my views are redpilled. Almost every time I express my views on this sub there’s at least one person to disagree, so I’m not sure why you think this sub is being dominated by redpillers. Maybe we’re just engaging on totally different posts. I find it strange you mentioned body shaming above everything else. I don’t see body shaming that often from men OR women on this sub. I think it would be interesting if the mods did a poll to see the ratio of blue/red pill for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:54 PM
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“So many guys blind swipe on dating apps” Ya some do, but not enough to make a 3x difference. I only know a few guys that do this. So what if there’s a lot of “lights off” talk? The overwhelming majority of guys would rather get laid and have a woman tell her friends “ya he wasn’t that good”, over the woman dismissing him completely and then talking shit anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:42 PM
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There was an experiment done by PlayingWithFire Alex. They made 2 fake dating app profiles, one with a woman that weighed 400lbs, and a male model. The woman got 3 times as many likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:33 PM
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I’m not sure what automod means?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:37 PM
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I get what you’re saying but flexibility does not equate to difficulty. Things a man needs in his 20s to be even considered an option by at least an average woman: Good looks (good haircut, good body, well-groomed), good stable career, his own place, charisma, social maturity, emotional maturity, no detectable mental illnesses. Things a woman in her 20s needs to even be considered an option by an average man: Good hygiene and good manners. And somehow the average man and average woman are equall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:58 AM
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Well in the real world it’s much harder to lie about what you find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:48 AM
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Well being a respectful guy has never got me anything, despite being physically attractive and having a lot of money. On the other hand, asserting dominance and putting other dudes down by making them anxious or scared works almost every time, this has worked on a variety of women in public ranging from ages 18 to early 30s. Women don’t care about you treat other people, they care about how you treat them at a personal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:47 AM
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See, another example. Women don’t care if a man have morals, as long as hes not a pussy and his lack of morals won’t jeopardize her OWN safety, they’ll fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:33 AM
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The real world
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:31 AM
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No. Most women’s definition of an average woman is what most men view as a low value woman. Most women date a tier up, LVW date average men, average women date HVM. If this wasn’t true, you wouldn’t see most women strictly going after the absolute best. (Most women are average).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:34 PM
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Okay, and the married guy is capable of not fulfilling the father role for the pregnant womans child, and leaving that woman to raise the kid on her own, or put her in a situation where she has to get an abortion and potentially suffer from medical complications, and even if she planned to have the kid and put them up for adoption she would still have to deal with the pregnancy without a man to take care of her during that time, and I don’t know from experience but I can make an educated guess t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:29 PM
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You’re adding context that doesn’t exist in the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:19 PM
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“What’s worse, a man committing a horrible act, or a woman committing a horrible act?” The context doesn’t matter. Cheating is cheating. Equally trash behavior either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:53 PM
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Are you implying that the internet isn’t a projection of real life? People are more comfortable being themselves on the internet, so the truth is more prominent. Literally every successful PUA learned their skills online, while billy the simp gets brainwashed by his own mother about how women want a guy who isn’t cocky and has manners, and then proceeds to shoot his genes into his socks. Meanwhile the internet scouring PUA who doesn’t care about anyone but himself is sitting here having women cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:04 AM
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A life of materialism and hedonism. The mere thought of having an actual emotional connection makes me want to throw up. When you don’t receive any compassion whatsoever your entire life up to a certain point, you either just don’t care or it’s actually repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:05 PM
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In my personal experience and from what witnessed personally it’s literally quite the opposite. TRP is basically a lifestyle for traumatized dudes to live a life they don’t dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:07 AM
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Well I’ve personally never seen a women display empathy without an ulterior motive and I won’t just change my mind because the general consensus is otherwise, I have to see it first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:52 PM
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I’m not going to sit here and list them off, just google “Misandry Podcast” and “feminist podcast, you’ll find quite a bit, some with the word “misandry” in the actual name. The most popular of these feminist and misandrist podcast promote cheating on men, promote stealing from them, promote forming platonic friendships with men for the purpose of using them, push the idea that men are meant to be slaves so women can live lazy and greedy lives, etc. I’ll only name the most famous misandrist, wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:48 PM
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There’s plenty of women like Andrew Tate. Also, women say “not all women xyz” ALL of the time. Also I can assure you that most women do not treat lonely men with any decency at all outside of this subreddit. In the real world they are outright malevolent most of the time. As a side note, I don’t like BannedDrew Tate either, he enables and encourages the very things he swears up and down that he’s against.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:06 PM
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So basically they actually are similar to incels, in the sense that they feel entitled to being with high quality people while also being completely undesirable. Weird how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:52 PM
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I didn’t change my wording. You literally implied all men engage in incel behavior with your original comment by insinuating that all lonely men demand things. You’ve been contradicting yourself this entire time by saying not all lonely men are incels and then insinuating that all lonely men demand things from women. Which ironically, is number 2 here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:51 PM
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Men use empathy as a safety mechanism against potential threats, as well as using it alongside their protective instinct towards women/children. Women use empathy to get what they want from men and to nurture and support children. It’s very rare I see men and women display empathy outside of these reasons. It’s not this black and white but this is generally the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:46 PM
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Getting rich out of nowhere and gaining 20lbs of muscle, like that’s literally all that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:09 PM
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It’s only good for people that don’t want to form emotional connections or those incapable of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:51 PM
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It’s not that good, I wouldn’t recommend this lifestyle to anyone that’s healthy, but if your brain is irreversibly destroyed beyond what therapy can fix, then go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:49 PM
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I’m from the US. From when I was 19-22, 8 different girls that originally liked me and considered the possibility of dating me laughed in my face and ghosted me upon me telling them about my virginity. The only reason I have girls not thinking I’m a worthless pile of trash now is because when I turned 23 I got rich out of nowhere. And they don’t even actually like me for real reasons obviously. But that’s better than them thinking I’m a monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:43 PM
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If you’re a virgin guy past the age of 19 and word gets out somehow, your life is basically hell until you find someone, and 99% of women that age or higher won’t even bother giving them a chance. So basically as a guy if you’re still a virgin past 19 your life is deduced to inevitable loneliness unless you can get rich enough that it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:30 PM
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“Other men seem to tease them for it”. No, it’s most women. Men were usually the ones to defend me on the subject whereas women harassed me and treated me like a dog turd for years about it. Literally any women that found out I was a virgin in the past made it her objective to make me feel bad about myself. It isn’t a guy thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:45 AM
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Not all redpill people are conservative. Tate and sneako, the biggest redpill names, are both poly. I’m actually a centrist politically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:24 PM
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No. RPW are rare. I’ve had many real RPW attracted to me, it just wasn’t mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:11 PM
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I’m in a poly relationship with 3 women and they live with me. I want 5 cause that’s the most I can handle financially
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:05 PM
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Mostly BPW, it’s very rare that I find a RPW who isn’t just a closeted “pick me”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:04 PM
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I have not. Nor have I seen any women outside of the internet treat any man like a human being unless she was interested sexually or romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:59 PM
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No it isn’t, I’m not using them. If I’m paying for literally everything you want and need, AND it’s my responsibility to potentially die in the event I need to protect you, I expect either housework or affection in return. If they agree to those terms for a partnership and don’t like it, then it’s their own fault. Plus, I’m not stopping them from leaving nor am I forcing them into anything. There’s nothing immoral about my lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:57 PM
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Well personally, when I was blue pulled women found me repulsive. I’m redpilled now and I have them coming TO me. I don’t even have to try now. And no, we do not want to see them miserable, we just don’t think it’s our fault if that ends up being an involuntary side effect of our goals, they can leave or get over it. It’s not like women have empathy for men in any regard, and as long as we aren’t intentionally hurting them it shouldn’t matter anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:47 PM
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Even when men don’t attack/shame/etc women with their venting on the topic, they are still consistently bombarded with insults and snarky comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:30 PM
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Well I’m not being hateful, and never condoned it. So I still don’t get what you’re upset about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:01 PM
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They are. I have never in my life seen a woman give 2 shits about what’s going on in a man’s head, whether it’s what his hobbies/interests are, his emotional state, or what he’s currently thinking. They literally just want you to look presentable and provide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:59 PM
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Because they literally don’t? Why do think women get with assholes all the time? They care about 2 things - Looks, because they don’t want to wake up to an oversized frog looking monstrosity every day for the next 30+ years Security (financial, physical, and emotional), which is self explanatory. When I was a well mannered guy, with an average appearance and made average money, they treated me like a turd, not just romantically/sexually, but platonically too. Now I’m bitter, rude, don’t care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:59 PM
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Odd how you completely ignore the part of my comment that decimates your entire claim. We have to shape laws/policy/societal norms around woman, think about that for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:32 PM
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Well, women are still half the population, and we have to shape the world around you so that you can even have a live worth living, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:24 PM
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I’ll agree that the problems MEN face are USUALLY men’s fault. But to sit here and say that most problems IN GENERAL are men’s fault, gtfo, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:15 PM
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Bold claim. But okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:13 PM
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Well, we have to solve our problems AND yours. So ya it can get kind of tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:07 PM
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You have to be outright delusional to think women care about personality. Unless you’re hurting her, she doesn’t give two shits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:05 PM
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As someone that got treated like dogshit by literally all women most of my life, then suddenly got many options, OP is right. I don’t give a shit about monogamy, let alone having an emotional connection at all. I don’t believe love is “real” for a woman in the same way guys think it is, given the reasons I started having options to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:02 PM
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Men face the same issue as OP but 100x worse, and we have every right to complain as long as we aren’t hurting anyone or threatening to do so in the process. I’m sorry if that hurts your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:38 PM
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And most incels aren’t open about it. So that number is skewed as all hell. You know why they aren’t open about it? Because male virgins past the age of 19-20 are bullied to the point of wanting to shoot themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:28 PM
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I put parenthesis for a reason after that statement. Women are intrinsically hypergamous by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:23 PM
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It’s not common. They get banned almost instantly every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:20 PM
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You left out the divorce rate, which gives a lot of insight. This does not show the average age that people marry comparatively (men vs women) which also is relevant. This doesn’t outline the objective fact that men are forced to get in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t deserve him (most women are hypergamous, look it up). What you are saying means very little.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:18 PM
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That’s comical, source that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:09 PM
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Okay, statistics are important depending on context, nobody on PPD makes threats of violence, and in no one is encouraging it or justifying it. And no women don’t post about it multiple times a day, and that’s because this is rare for women to experience. Outside of this sub, the greater majority of women will deliberate harass and engage in malevolent behavior towards lonely guys, you want a source? Ask any lonely guy. Lonely guys get made fun of and demonized relentlessly, lonely women get sym…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:07 PM
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Ya it is. Those are usually the ones women treat like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:58 AM
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I just commented about this. My friend self deleted himself because he was harassed for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:56 AM
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While I do agree with OP, I have zero sympathy for the emotional pain they might be facing. I had a friend who was a sophomore in college at the time (20 years old), he was cool, generally well liked, polite, outgoing, liked video games, enjoyed calisthenics, animal lover, etc. So basically a random average guy. He went to his first college party, got into a game of truth or dare, and was asked his body count, he said he was a virgin. He then got made fun of my the entire group so badly that he …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:36 AM
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