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| 1 | I am thoroughly confused by the current sexual landscape.https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQQ70jWpt_r-Tviw0Ezov2TycglpGZlI0rX6A&usqp=CAU Google image search reveals all. I can also post the 5 sources that Consensus spat out but that would be diluting the post. The scientific consensus is that the median age of marriage is increasing. Wisdom is useful when it proves to correlate to the truth. The simplest analogy, going back to a time before science, would be "don't eat that berry it will kill you". "Source? Dies". We live in more c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:45 AM |
| 1 | I am thoroughly confused by the current sexual landscape.I'm saying it's true because we're not including women who get married young and are off the market, as they effectively don't exist to single men. We're talking about single women that men are likely to encounter in modern dating (which largely means dating apps). Of course there's always exceptions. If someone says "sex is easy for women" you can show a physically disabled autist to disprove it. The fallacy of scientism is that just because a university refuses to publish a paper on something,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 11:48 PM |
| 2 | I am thoroughly confused by the current sexual landscape.It's self evidently true. Good woman get married young, and stay married. They're off the market and men won't be interacting with them. That just leaves the woman who are 30 and still single. High chance these are the women I'm talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 11:56 AM |
| 5 | I am thoroughly confused by the current sexual landscape.It's funny because women are twice as likely to say they're in a relationship. Which doesn't make sense, how can women be in twice as many relationships as men? Again. The woman is involuntarily part of a harem. She thinks she's dating a guy, but she's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 11:05 PM |
| 38 | I am thoroughly confused by the current sexual landscape.It all aligns when you realise two things. Marriage is dead. We live in the time of the harem. Women spend their 20s being involuntarily part of an attractive man's harem. They wade from harem to harem with maybe a few stable, lower value boyfriends in between. The men who possess these harems are having more sex than has ever been possible. These are the men getting 100+ matches a week on tinder. 50% of the women decide to leave the harem at 30 and find a man on her level to marry and have kids… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 12:07 AM |
| – | Texting a girl: Keep it short and simple or she will run!If you met online and are messaging through tinder, bumble, hinge, insta, Facebook or any other app. The first step is to get her phone number. "You seem cool we should hang out some time". "What's your #?" If she's willing to give you her phone number then she's at least considering you. You say "Hi it's so and so". "How's your night?" "Cool I was thinking we could go to X at 8 on Saturday". If she says no say Sunday. If she says no let her decide. If she says "I don't know when I'll be free" s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 09:04 AM |
| – | Texting a girl: Keep it short and simple or she will run!Same goes. If a girl isn't in a room with you there's really no reason to talk to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 06:48 AM |
| – | Texting a girl: Keep it short and simple or she will run!Simply putting texting is ALWAYS bad game. Every single character you type out to a girl is lowering your attraction. The only goal of texting is to use as few words as possible to meet up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 06:14 AM |
| 0 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMen have never been more sex deprived in modern history. 30% often are totally sexless. The issue isn't men having too much sex. It's women using tinder to sleep with guys magnitudes of order out of their league and accepting they're a pump and dump. Don't preach to men about doing the right thing, preach to the top 0.1% psychopathic men on tinder that are fucking 5 new women a week. When I was on tinder I got with a lot of Asians and Indians because I'm a tall white guy. It's ridiculous to thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 02:32 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhy though? Mens promiscuity isn't a deterrent for women, if anything they'd prefer a man who can prove many women find him attractive compared to a virgin. Having a lot of sex for men is hard. You have to be attractive and confident approaching woman. It's obviously hard, otherwise there wouldn't be a massive and growing community of incels who despite all their efforts can't even have sex once. Of course there will be the typical blue pill bisexual response telling me he's slept with plenty of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 10:49 PM |
| – | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionThe only solution I've ever found to a woman's demands is to rapidly escalate towards thermonuclear destruction. She said the house is too big to clean, I suggested we move into an apartment and rent the house out. "Be serious". "I'm dead serious, if you keep complaining to me about this, we are moving out". It wasn't a bluff. I value my inner peace above all else. I will get divorced, I will cut off my entire family, I will move to another country. You can't give me an ultimatum, I'm static in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 11:16 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt's a pretty easy formula. Is he married to you? No? Don't fuck him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 10:59 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt's a woman's responsibility to stay modest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t the men here do speed dating?Speed dating is for old people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 08:09 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOkay, so if I'm inferring correctly it sounds like he wasn't an attentive father and didn't put the effort in. It sounds like you don't respect him in which case it makes sense you wouldn't care about his advice or wishes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 04:46 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWas there a point where you stopped respecting your father, or did you ever respect your father. A time where you wouldn't wish he would shut up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 11:08 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADDo you think there's anything your father could have done to prevent it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 10:38 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADPersonal preference but I can tolerate single digits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 10:23 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADHigh mileage has tonnes of negative consequences for relationship satisfaction. A girl with high mileage is simply incapable of loving on a level that a low mileage girl can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 01:22 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAll I'm saying is that men prefer it when the women's doing it just as much as you prefer when the man's doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 01:21 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhen you present yourself as sex positive and liberal, women let their guard down. I had a potential interest tell me she was in a bad place and slept with 5 guys in a single week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 01:19 AM |
| 0 | Should paternity tests be mandatory?They are shit at being Christian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:33 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADDo you really think it's hot to have an insecure guy asking you "Is that good? Do you like that? Does this feel better?, How did I do?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Who do so many actual “alpha males” & “players” who clearly get women and demonstrate being “Red Pill aware” get classified as “purple pilled” or “not Red Pilled” by people in Red Pill spaces?A true red pill man doesn't know he's red pilled. Because he doesn't use Reddit and never heard the term. He's never thought about what he's doing. He was raised with blue pilled beliefs like the rest of us, but because women enter his life often he just learns their nature through experience. These are the guys who unironically say "just be confident bro". Even the most attractive male model in the world, Sean O`pry, thinks he's successful because of his personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Fun hypothetical, here are some options you can choose from to fix datingWe become a Christian nation that enforces monogamy, punishment of infidelity and celibacy before marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:10 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThis validation thing only exists for young guys. Older men don't care if you think they're good, they just want to enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:09 PM |
| 16 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADTo be honest i don't even want to justify it. When I hear a girl has a high n count, it's a deep, guttural and immediate feeling of disgust. It's unconcious and sudden, like wandering in the waft of sewage while out on an otherwise pleasant walk. It feels bad for us as well ladies. You meet a girl you have a lot in common in, she presents trad and you get interested. Then you learn the n count and it's completely gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateIf you're not married, you shouldn't expect loyalty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:02 PM |
| 0 | How often do you and your friends discuss/gossip about the sex lives of your social circle?My friends share body counts, it's like a game to get the most. We generally don't share women, and we assume all women that sleep with us when not dating are slappers (not girlfriend material). We just know, you don't date a girl who's slept with any of your friends, or even anyone your friends know, guaranteed slappa. As for girlfriends, when I'm getting to know a girl I act very liberal, sex positive, tell them I really like an experienced girl and make it almost like a game. This has been ef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for you to see people cheating?About half the people I know have cheated or been cheated on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Should paternity tests be mandatory?No. Believe it or not there are still normal Christians in the world who take their vows seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.How many women do you fuck a week? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Blue pillers, How would you summarize your views?Watch your man start moaning while getting fucked in the ass then talk to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 09:21 AM |
| – | Why do red pill men dislike attractive women?The idea is that it's better to have a good woman who is a 7 as opposed to a 10 who's anything less than a good woman. Very attractive women tend to go for drug dealers, celebrities, and receive reality warping attention from men. So it's unlikely a woman like this won't have a massive ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 08:56 AM |
| 5 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.I have no idea how this generation has so many simps, but I'm starting to think that the black pill is real, and 60% of men simply have no real chance of finding a woman. Im a 6'4" white man and find it pretty tough out there, if I was 5'10 I might be in the same boat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Why are people so reluctant to accept serial monogamy?The only thing u worry about is my son. I feel like staying together as a family is the right thing to do for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Blue pillers, How would you summarize your views?The point of dread game is to make her think you have other options and are willing to exercise them if she isn't aligned. Ideally you really DO have other options, and in that case, the dread is natural. Alternatively you can pretend you do, to try and achieve the same effect. I'm not sure if it's really that bad for the woman to feel that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Blue pillers, How would you summarize your views?Well unfortunately being honest with women upsets them, and men lie all the time. "do I look fat in this?" "Do you think my friends attractive?" "Will you ever leave me?" "Would you still love me if I was a worm? 🪱" "Am I the hottest girl you've been with" etc To be frank women's egos cannot emotionally tolerate the truth, and that is often what dread game is. It's simply "I find other women attractive and I'd like to have sex with them". I'd agree that lying, or making up scenarios is unethical… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 08:37 AM |
| – | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurityI actually agree with your last point. Beta men are genetically destined to be reproductive failures and it's not women's prerogative to pass on their bad genes. I also believe that a Chad to one woman can be a beta to another. Or to simplify things. One woman might think you're really attractive and another doesn't. The whole point really only applies to 30 something women who want to get married but can't find a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 08:27 AM |
| 0 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?Why would you care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Blue pillers, How would you summarize your views?I'm seemingly surrounded by feminist women, married. The only ones who don't constantly complain about their husbands are the ones with effiment men. I'd actually concede women would have easier marriages marry feminine men, but there's plenty of studies show women prefer masculine, aggressive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Blue pillers, How would you summarize your views?Those are good examples that are very effective. Not sure its a trick per say. If you saw a guy trying to make a girl jealous in a rom com you wouldn't think twice. That's all that dread game is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Blue pillers, How would you summarize your views?I'm looking for you to say literally anything. A link, a source? You can't come up with a single one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Blue pillers, How would you summarize your views?I don't think they're the exception, they're just gay and are probably okay with going for more masculine and less traditionally attractive women. For many women bisexuality is a total deal breaker and massive ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 08:16 AM |
| 4 | Blue pillers, How would you summarize your views?Your preference of short guys is a statistical outlier. It's possible to say people have different views while also accepting that there is a trend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Blue pillers, How would you summarize your views?It's no binary anymore. Blue pill, red pill, black pill, white pill, pink pill. Blue pill can be the exclusion of the rest but that will give it a specific definition. If you're a 'straight' man and you vote democrat you are 100% guaranteed blue pill. The only exception is a man who married his highschool sweetheart and is just naive because the blue pill dream came true for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Blue pillers, How would you summarize your views?Thanks for the insightful answer. I have a theory that most blue pill men are bisexual. I also think feminine men make very good husbands for the types of women on this site. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Blue pillers, How would you summarize your views?I think "hitting the wall" is the only actual specific detail you gave about the red pill. Can you give an example of a single pickup trick? Can you name a single one of these so called 'conspiracy-theories' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Blue pillers, How would you summarize your views?Do you have a college degree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionYea that's a great idea. It's a little extra for delivery but If you value your time it's a no brainer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Is a reproductive draft on the horizon?Women generally speaking do not contribute surplus revenue to the state. On average they use more tax payer money than they give. So you could let them keep their money while cutting some of the benefits which would result in more money in the mothers hand and less tax overall. (Because you don't have to pay inefficient government orgs). For as hated as Asian and white men are, we pay almost all of the useable tax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:38 PM |
| 1 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?Because I asked her and she said it's what she wants to do. My wife might be the exception though, last night she actually asked me not to do the pots and pans as she finds cleaning them relaxing. (Therapeutic in her words). My wife is ESL and wouldn't be able to hold an office job in my country. She also does haven't any technical skills or career experience. So her realistic options are being a stay at home mom, or going back to work in construction / warehouse or babysitting other people's ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:36 PM |
| 1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionWe're basically agreeing. Yea, she's going to browse, and plan while shopping. All we see is her starring at a jar of spaghetti sauce for 5 minutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:33 PM |
| 1 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurity1) Again, not really that uncommon with women these days. I was part of a hardcore pickup community. Tonnes of woman are into BDSM (they're sub) and a sub will basically do anything. I'd actually argue it's easier to do these things with a woman you just met, she's not going to start calling a coworker or friend 'daddy', but I stranger she just met? She can project whatever she wants onto him. Of course some girls are more reserved, in my experience immigrants didn't do all that nasty stuff. 2) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:25 PM |
| 2 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?Men do not produce breast milk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 10:48 AM |
| 3 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?Nobody here understands distribution curves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 09:28 AM |
| 1 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?Generally speaking, yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 09:27 AM |
| -2 | Is a reproductive draft on the horizon?Doesn't need to be mandated, we just need to support mothers. If you're a mother you're no longer required to pay income tax. Their children will pay surplus tax revenue what the state loses. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 07:53 AM |
| 0 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?I'm obviously generalising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 07:50 AM |
| -3 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?Coding is not a group activity. I'm 100% remote and interact with no men. There's no man standing in your room stopping you from watching a tutorial. Women hate coding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 06:06 AM |
| 5 | Any explanations as to why dating seems to be feast or famine?I have experienced this at times. At one time I was getting 120 matches a week, and others I would get 4-5. Same profile and photos. I've done a fair amount of investigating Tinders algorithms and I wouldn't be surprised if it was just fluctuations in the algorithm. For example if a lot of hot guys happen to join tinder during a certain month, that's going to push you down the rankings, and your 'would have been' matches go to them. Then maybe these hot guys get off, or the find relationships, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 04:49 AM |
| 5 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionI still concede my wife does the majority of chores (some of which seem arbitrary and made up to me) like ironing the babies clothes. Most men know that no action, or series of actions will make women happy. Their happiness is not externally defined but internally, and in some cases women are terminally unhappy. If we were lost out in the woods she'd complain that I didn't stack the fire pit correctly, if we were in a 50 million dollar home with servants she'd complain the designer couch was the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 04:45 AM |
| 9 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionI do, we all do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:57 AM |
| 4 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?95% of programmers are men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:57 AM |
| -1 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?Because that's the scientific consensus within the field of evolutionary biology. Females tend to care for their young more than males. There's exceptions, but humans aren't one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:00 AM |
| 8 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionI find women just aren't that good at chores. Maybe it's because I'm an engineer but I'm always trying to optimise everything. Reducing trips, reducing double handling, not using more bowls/plates than I need to and cleaning up while I'm cooking. If you're finding cleaning and washing really hard, your probably being inefficient and creating more mess than you need to. Edit: I'll just add to this. Grocery shopping. Go in with a plan and don't waste time browsing. Make a plan to route the shop so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 02:53 AM |
| -7 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?She's a woman and more naturally geared to caring. She would hate being a software developer or technical director. I've tried teaching her code and she can't get out of the room fast enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 02:45 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone’s opinion or outlook on certain beliefs changed based on engagement here?I think it has but in unexpected ways. I consider myself extremely right wing, precisely because of how left wing Reddit is. In other words, I see the left wing idiot arguments and opinions and it makes me lean harder right just from hearing it. Similarly, hearing responses from red pill men, has made me less red pill over time. When men switch to red pill they tend to over adjust and go hard line "all women are whores". Only a man who doesn't know any women would think that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 12:18 AM |
| 0 | Why do you think women suffer from postpartum depression?This is my theory, as a red pill man. When I was in university, I worked really really hard, 80 hour weeks to come top of the class. Finally the awards night came and I was handed that certificate indicating as such. I felt "now my life will change, now I'll be happy". Of course, it did nothing. I was a graduate working as a delivery driver in a fast food joint, realising I had sacrificed, friends, parties and opportunities to achieve a meaningless award. It was a big let down that actually trig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 12:08 AM |
| – | Debate : The Bluepill doesn‘t exist anymore since around 5-10 Years.I agree the blue pill is dead, or has evolved into something else. Blue pill was believable 10 years ago because people could look to their grandparents as an example of it actually happening. Women don't act that way anymore. It's not like those blue pill men became red pill though. They morphed into something else. Men who say they're feminists, men who tell themselves they're okay with polyamarous relationships, men who say they don't have a problem with their partner having a hundred bodies.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 12:01 AM |
| 2 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?To be honest I'm not a good sample. I'm a tidy person, I lived in a martial arts dojo for year and it was very military-esque. Not a single water drop could be left in the sink. Since then I've always been tidy, hate mess. My wife is hyper-clean though, maybe trauma induced clean. I've caught her mopping floors at midnight. I just asked her if she feels like she does touch housework and she said no, she likes cleaning. I will concede, there are a lot of men who are slobs, but women should have s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 11:28 PM |
| – | How do we know what's natural to each gender, and what is the cause of society?Most of our evolution was shaped in hunting gathering societies not 1800s England. Women don't hunt because they had to stay home to look after babies. Not only that but men are of course stronger, faster and much more accurate at throwing things. They evolved to do so. Which is why they're better at sports today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 10:33 PM |
| 10 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?Nothing would make me more depressed than being a care giver or home maker (in a majority capacity). Of course I look after our son, clean dishes, do laundry, and take the rubbish out. However I only do about 20-30% compared to my wife. The caveat is that she's full time stay at home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 10:31 PM |
| 2 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurityI've been rimmed on the same day as meeting a girl, it's not super uncommon, especially with submissive women. That being said I agree with your points and my scenarios are cliche. However even if she did things with a previous, unattractive boyfriend, is still just as bad. Most guys wouldn't even want to do it regularly, they just want to know you're willing to do it. Even better if you do something only with him, that you've never done before (maybe a good diversion). You could say you genuine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?I also would hope that. Every atheist I know or have heard up has been a porn addicted pervert. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 08:24 AM |
| 2 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurityBecause your current partner wants to feel like he's the most you've ever loved/desired someone. He wants you to think you picked him because he's the best you found. Not because you settled. If you were willing to give the hot guy in your 20s a rimjob but not your husband, it just shows you're just not that into your husband/partner. The difference with the threesome is that your wife wants to keep you all to herself because she does desire you the most and doesn't want to risk losing you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?When I say red flag I don't mean deal breaker. My wife has tattoos for example, but it would be better if she hadn't. Tattoos are somewhat masculine, which is why woman find them attractive on men, however they're unattractive on women for that same reason. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/b:sers.0000027564.83353.06 Example of study backing up my claim. Tattoos on women are unattractive. As for the body count. Women and men are not the same, especially when it comes to sex. This is true… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 08:20 AM |
| – | CMW: Most women have little to offer a high value man in a long-term relationshipIf you're not planning to have kids, then I would never settle for a single woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Is it wrong for an inexperienced older man to prefer younger women due to them also being inexperienced?If you're older and inexperienced you should prefer whatever you can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Was cold appraching more successful before social media and online dating became common?3 types of interactions. 1) The Shutdown (65%) They all looked shocked/surprised/scared. "I have a boyfriend" "No" Ignore / walk faster 2) The Polite Rejection. (30%) "Oh thank you so much but I have a boyfriend" gives number / Instagram but never replies. Have a conversation, things go well, but she's clearly not interested in anything else. 3) The Slightest Chance. (5%) Looks more excited, big smile. She might be awkward but actually doesn't want to leave / wants to keep the conversation going… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Was cold appraching more successful before social media and online dating became common?I paid $200 for professional photos. I also paid for tinder and boosted regularly. I was told by female friends my profile was top 5%. You literally have to go do a model shoot to even have a chance. Also never smile in your photos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 12:02 AM |
| 6 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?I married a Brazilian woman for this reason. She's very grateful and feels a duty to look after me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 12:00 AM |
| -4 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?The supply of good men is definitely dropping. Maybe even more. Good woman: Family Orientated. (Not Narcissistic, wants kids) High Emotional Stability. (no trauma / mental Illness) No Misandry (Hatred towards men / feminism) Long term planner (Loyal, reliable) Feminine Isn't fooled by psychopaths. Indicators of these traits: No tattoos. Low body count. Believes in God. No debt. Long hair, takes care of appearance. Kind, gentle, warm. Good Man: Financially Successful. (Competent) Socially Success… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Can a person's sexual body parts be complimented in a non-sexual way?Not unless they were really spectacular. It would be like complimenting someone on their elbows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Double standard with “bum partners”?I feel like men prefer peace to conflict in their relationships, and so hold their tongue to not rock the boat. Women don't mind a fight as much and are willing to say what they feel. That being said, I can be pretty harshly honest with my wife. It never makes her feel good, sometimes there's tears, however she will come back a couple days later how she wants to try and change. It's not easy either. A day of the cold shower and pouting face. What could have been a nice day now has storm clouds o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 11:25 AM |
| -1 | Why do feminists and red-pillers make it seem like it's either one extreme or the other when it comes to a woman having a career or a family?It's possible to have both, but not probable. 50% of women over 30 are childless and single. 50% of those will never have a child. 80% of those will bitterly regret it. In other words. 1/5 women will be childless and alone, and hate it. Given the option of sacrificing a career versus a family, the humane, compassionate and wise answer is to focus on your family. This isn't even advice for women. I'm a 6'4" man in tech. I've landed a cushy job so I can focus more on my family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 11:22 AM |
| – | Could a woman who subscribes to Red Pill Ideology see making a Player into a beta orbiter as a challenge?Sounds like you enjoy drama. Nothing but years of regret await you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 11:16 AM |
| 7 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?Ick is ick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 11:10 AM |
| 0 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Our society puts too much emphasis on individualism. Humans literally go insane when left without human contact. We're far more collective than we're lead to believe. A marriage is a union of two souls/spirits/animus into one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Women saying they hate their husband is so common on RedditReddit is massively gynocentric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:38 AM |
| 0 | Is there a double standard when it comes to women and men being single? Does one have it worse than the other?I think it depends on how attractive the man is. Very attractive men with psychopathic traits have a very fun time being single and enjoy it much more than their "victims". However very unattractive men would have a much worse time, as being unattractive and single just means you're totally alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:38 AM |
| 66 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?As the supply of "good women" is dropping, it's only natural men have to lower their standards to what's available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:36 AM |
| 18 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?Those men might just be ugly as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatNot only some men. Most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:31 AM |
| 5 | Do you feel like the sexual revolution benefits men more than women?It benefits dark triad men. Attractive psychopaths are having the time of their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Was cold appraching more successful before social media and online dating became common?I don't know, but I cold approached over 60 women and nothing came from it. I'm not exactly ugly either. 6'4" and about 20 matches a week on tinder. I was told by gurus I should be getting a result every 10 approaches | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:23 AM |
| 3 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurityIn most cases yes. If she was willing to more to give pleasure to her previous partners, and cares less about your sexual satisfaction, it means those other partners where more important to her. However there's some exceptions. For example if your partner doesn't want to have a threesome with you because of jealousy, but she did in her past with others, then that is more okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:21 AM |
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