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I know this isn't quite exactly what you were asking, but "virgin" is a pretty common insult. Regardless if others know if you're a virgin or not, hearing it used in a negative connotation doesn't do any favors for your self-image.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 12:21 AM
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Do you really think all girls prefer those loud charismatic guys? I'd assume most do, and for the ones that don't, the competition for them is so tight that it's really not a valid option. I also do work out regularly, and I disagree with the whole "just hit the gym" notion that gets thrown at any man who has issues with confidence or other social aspects of his life. It's not an automatic fix like a lot of people make it out to be.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 07:36 PM
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And the absence of relationships indicates undesirability.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 06:22 PM
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Got stood up.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 05:56 PM
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Sure thing, did you want us just to type it out here or tell it a different way?
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 11:17 AM
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Yeah, I read that post. But how much do you wanna bet that in just minutes after her post she was flooded with messages comforting her? I have a really hard time relating to her post when autistic women are viewed as quirky and cute and autistic men are viewed as gross manchildren.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 02:08 PM
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Keep seeking companionship someone will eventually come your way. The problem is my quirks are unattractive and push people away. Nobody's gonna wanna deal with someone like me when she could just find someone more normal.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/22 07:23 PM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/ExRedPill15/09/22 02:19 AM
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What site? I've tried online dating for a little over a year and I've only had one match that didn't immediately unmatch so far.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 09:38 PM
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Where is this belief system of superior coming ? Would you date other autistic woman? Do you see them inferior? I would date an autistic woman. I don't hate them- I'm far from hating them. I was under the impression that if an autistic woman has quirks, she's seen as cute and unique by men. And if an autistic man has quirks, he's seen as an extremely unattractive weirdo. I definitely don't hate autistic women, but I really don't think the dating world is the same between autistic men and women.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 05:02 PM
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I don't mean to pry or anything, but how did you meet her? Only if you're comfortable sharing, of course.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 02:57 AM
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So how does that equate with being happy with average women? You're saying it's because even average women are out of reach for them? Nothing you've said has made sense to me. So what are men supposed to be then, douchebag pickup artists? Because your post and comments definitely give off the impression that average men are insufficient.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 09:43 PM
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Explain to me how using "spending hours on a computer" and "never going out to socialize" can be interpreted in a positive way. No wonder those men try to "prove" themselves by going after "hot" women. Because those of us who ARE perfectly attracted to average woman are seen as nerdy losers.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 03:16 AM
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Alot of men bemoaned about nice guys finish last, are usually men who try to date outside their league. And these girls obviously usually want to date someone as attractive. There are alot of nice girls out there, who want to date, and when i try to set them up with the "nice guys", i met with multiple excuses, "im not attracted to her...", "i have standards"..... I notice guys who are more accepting of regular girls, are like hardcore gamers. Guys who will spent hours gaming, and dont really so…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 02:46 AM
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I not going to lie to like the others on here, you probably will not find a women no matter what you do but that is ok yo can still have a pretty enjoyable life. Sounds about right. Guess I better live the best single life I can.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/22 01:30 AM
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Women love the type of guy you are. Is this meant to be sarcastic? I honestly can't tell, but it would make a lot more sense if it was.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/22 04:24 AM
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Honestly I don't even know if I can call myself average. I feel so inferior to basically every single one of my peers and their experiences that it doesn't feel right to refer to myself as "average". Right now I have no reason to believe I'd be a suitable pick for anyone.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 03:18 PM
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You're inventing a game for yourself to lose. These standards you're setting, being extroverted, being allistic, being the life of the party, being... not geeky? I get what you're saying, but I wouldn't say I invented these standards. I'm pretty sure we've all heard insults along the line of "virgin", "you don't get invited to parties", etc. etc. Right now I'm thoroughly convinced people will not like me for who I am because of my mediocrity, and I don't see how adopting different standards will…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 03:09 PM
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What do I call myself instead, then?
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 10:33 AM
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Why are you assuming that some women won’t like you just the way you are? Mostly because I don't see anything inherently valuable in myself or anything a woman would really want. You take care of yourself and aren’t an arrogant dickhead. I've heard a lot of people describe that as "the bare minimum". I've also heard people usually don't go for the bare minimum. Most guys fit those characteristics and have more going for them than I do. A woman picking me over them doesn't make sense to me.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 02:54 AM
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