Searchtheanswer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	How important is it for the man you want to marry to have a stable job?	DISCUSSION	Searchtheanswer	/r/RedPillWomen	24/01/24 02:47 AM
9	The problem with these men	Discussion	Searchtheanswer	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 11:14 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Should I move back in with parents or continue living with my “boyfriend” in a different country? When you moved there to study you already had a plan. You also lived alone for a while and were managing financially. Don’t become dependent on him financially. Also… the age gap come on	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/24 11:07 PM
3	”women expire after 25” no bro ur just into minors. That saying is literally what certain men try to push to get women to settle down and not be so picky with who they choose. Men/society try to tell women that after 30 they no longer have value so that they don’t continue to live their lives and instead choose to settle and serve men. And no, not all men think like that. If that’s the case, then I guess their mom’s rotten for being 50 something. Just ignore posts like that or men who say things like that. No reaction is the best reaction. These …	/r/RedPillWomen	17/06/24 07:54 PM
1	Men only have importance to women as providers. So you’re saying that men use women and see them as just sex objects?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 05:59 PM
–	Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than women lol with all that money you’re apparently investing on yourself, you should’ve invested in therapy	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 12:39 PM
2	Guy breaks up with me after 3 months because he “can’t do monogamy” This is going to be harsh because you’re 25 sounding like an 18 year old. You don’t know what to do? He broke up with you and the relationship is over. Even if he didn’t break up with you he’s already shown all the flags saying he’s not looking for a monogamous relationship. Also you’re 25 going after some 40 year old for whatever reason. You sound desperate.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/24 11:14 PM
1	Does a mans social status attract women? A guy being a social media influencer and posting thousands of pictures of himself is a turn off	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 04:23 PM
2	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women Fear is your own personal anxiety and feelings. That is something YOU need to work on. You can approach whoever you want once you have the right mindset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 03:31 AM
1	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations Do you suggest they date someone they’re not attracted to then and never have sex with them because they don’t find them attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 07:05 PM
-1	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations So you want an attractive woman to give someone she finds unattractive a chance? Why would she do that? Would an attractive guy give an unattractive woman a chance? All these men crying about women not finding them attractive need some reality check. Go find someone within your league.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 05:33 PM
1	Is there really an epidemic of women divorcing nice guys for no reason ? Lol this is the most ridiculous thing I’ve read. Because women have nothing better to do than marry someone and divorce them because they’re nice? Not because he doesn’t help with household work, not because he doesn’t help with child rearing, not because he is cheating, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/24 11:45 PM
–	The problem with these men You settled for a fat one but you want an attractive woman to settle for you? If you had to “settle” for someone who you don’t find attractive, chances are you aren’t either. Again, looks aren’t the only thing that makes someone attractive. You might not be fat, but all your other traits might be making you ugly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 11:44 PM
–	The problem with these men You don’t have to be rich, but on average you can’t be poor to the point where she’s having to take care of you or you can’t even take care of yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 11:42 PM
–	The problem with these men One thing I’ll add is that vulnerable women will choose assholes because they’re in a vulnerable position or she is also an asshole and attracted an asshole. But I still stand on that sometimes (maybe not as common), there aren’t red flags early on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 11:41 PM
–	The problem with these men There’s a lot of information out there on how to improve yourself. There’s different areas to work on, physical, mental, emotional, intellectual, etc. Your comment is focusing heavily on looks, so even if you are “ugly” you can atleast workout and make your physical body look better, you can dress better (doesn’t even have to be expensive), you can work on your hygiene, use cologne, get a haircut that suits your face, etc. Also, let’s say there are some being who are unattractive or ugly. Then w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 11:39 PM
1	At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out? There isnt a 50/50 ratio so your entire point doesn’t make sense Even if there was a 50/50 ratio you are acting like all of them are going to be the perfect match for each other which also makes no sense. You do realize that there’s more things than just looks that are needed in a relationship? Also makes no sense. How small of a city do you live in that the same people are in relationships with one another	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 03:57 PM
7	Woman really don't like most men sexually This seems like a sad attempt to justify when women don’t find less attractive men attractive. Lesbian porn is more appealing to women because it focuses on pleasuring women Women are more likely to follow other women because they are getting something out of that. It might through supporting each other through comments/likes, sharing fashion tips, makeup tips,etc. Also, most women are not going to be openly drooling over men on social media. There’s a reason it’s a huge ick when men are followi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 01:38 AM
–	Because of high inflation in the U.S, is that the reason as to why women (not all) in the U.S are running towards high earning men and leaving low earners at a rapid rate? Women are starting to become high income earners and these women want men who are also high income earners. There are too many men who have a low income (50k or less), living paycheck to paycheck, have no savings, and are financially irresponsible. Everything is more expensive and for women who want children, they need a man who can provide because women are the ones who need to take maternity leave, they need to take time off when children are sick, their careers take a hit due to children in g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 06:14 AM
2	women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where? The majority of couples I’ve seen in public have been more attractive women with men who aren’t that attractive. But this is based on appearance alone. There are other things that can worth dating someone long term or marrying someone you’re not that attracted to (e.g. someone who truly cares for you, respects you, is financially stable, is emotionally intelligent, etc.). Women are more willing to let go of the idea that they have to be attracted or have crazy chemistry with a man if he has cert…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 04:49 AM
4	Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being nice How about you stop reading into all this and approach whoever you want to approach in a respectful way. People who never take a chance will end up with nothing. Atleast take a chance and see how things go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 07:14 PM
2	Boyfriend only wants me to wear skirts/dresses majority of the time So he wants you to do all these things and still pay for things? What is he offering then? He hasn’t even married you yet. He’s clearly toxic and controlling and it’ll only get worse.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/24 07:10 PM
–	Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles? Who says it’s stressful and full of hassles for the married man? Most of the time it’s actually women who are experiencing the stress which is why, single women are happier/healthier than married women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 10:36 PM
0	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? Stop listening to the online narrative that women don’t want men to approach in public. They might speak for some women but not all. Do you really think every woman has a dating app? No. They would prefer to meet people in person so go shoot your shot. Go to the bar, the park, recreational activities/clubs, etc. If you’re genuinely not a creep and approach someone in a kind way then the worst case scenario is that they say they’re not interested	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 05:42 PM
–	Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get bored There is nothing special about being kind. That’s the bare minimum. The thing about guys who think they’re a “kind guy” is that they think it’s the only trait they need. And in exchange for their “kindness” they think they deserve something always. Kindness won’t make up for a lack of personality, lack of physical attraction, lack of financial security, lack of sharing interest, lack of everything else needed in a relationship. So yes this type of kind is repelling and so are assholes. And ironi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 02:24 AM
6	How important is it for the man you want to marry to have a stable job? Would dating them from when you were both young make a difference? For example, if you started dating while in school would you choose to end the relationship over this once you both got older or wait for them to become stable?	/r/RedPillWomen	24/01/24 03:32 AM
5	Do most women really dislike being approached in general? I personally would prefer if men continued to ask women out on dates in person. As long as it’s not at work and as long as you approach women in a place they can walk away, I don’t see the big deal. Before online dating, men would have to approach women anywhere. It’s a bit strange to me when women say they wouldn’t go on a date with a stranger. The thing is meeting someone at a bar or club doesn’t change that they are a stranger. In both situations, you could talk, get to know each other better…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 02:35 AM
23	Do most women really dislike being approached in general? As a woman this is a bit strange to me in my opinion. Physical attraction in the first step in how most people meet (whether in person on online). Then people get to know each other. How else is someone going to get to know you in person?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 02:32 AM