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| 4 | Women collectively bring up extremely silly arguments to prove that they "have it harder" than men (Spoiler: They do not)They’ve disappeared but you act like they haven’t because otherwise you’d have no crutch to lean on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.There are dozens of you. Dozens!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 04:46 PM |
| 6 | Are Social Media Comparisons Raising the Bar for "Masculinity" Unrealistically?Getting women into the workforce en masse was the first steps in the plan all along. Nothing is “not planned” by the ones in control | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 02:55 PM |
| 68 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.It’s laughable when media or women think that Andrew Tate or MGTOW or Clavicular is radicalizing young men. If a man is not having issues with women he would not be searching the internet for this crap. If he was already happily in a relationship, even if it pops up in his algorithm he wouldn’t give much thought to it. Young men look around and see that women’s words don’t line up with their actions. It’s that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 09:07 PM |
| -3 | Feminism is extremely dangerousAny civilization that starts feminism is simply not gonna be around in 6 generations unless you consider a failed state as “still around”. Not having kids is the biggest first direct consequence of feminism, which will lead to societal collapse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Women do not understand deductive reasoningI think adding the term conventionally attractive makes OP’s argument better. It is better to be a bit taller, have a little more muscles, be more in shape, have your shit together, get a better haircut, etc. Most women react positively to these attributes, but not all. Yet, a man is not trying to attract all women. If they are trying to go from zero women to at least some women, they would do better to become more conventionally attractive than try a niche look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themWomen have an insane knack for dodging accountability and responsibility. It is not a stretch to say that they’re simply never wrong. As we can see, this ain’t working out too well in society and things are getting worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 05:38 AM |
| 11 | Do you ever wonder if the dating situation isnt as dire as the narrative?Have you seen the stats on Gen Z men? Majority single, have not asked a girl out in over a year, has not had sex in over a year, yadda yadda. Also look at how there is a huge political divergence between young men and women. And yall are still surprised how Trump wins. They feel hopeless. A charlatan comes in and offers hope when no one else gives a damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: what is something you think guys overestimate women care about in dating?The average man in the US is borderline obese so it’s gonna take a lot longer than a year to actually look lean and athletic. I guess that’s where my comment comes from. They also suffer from food urges and their brains are fried with food dopamine addiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:37 PM |
| – | Saw an instagram reel and it made me sick in my stomach about womenSo now both people are fully accountable, 100% fair. Though I prefer that both sides can dip Scot-free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:26 PM |
| – | Saw an instagram reel and it made me sick in my stomach about womenBurden of performance. I constantly hear that she’s just a woman, she’s just a girl, she’s not taking it that seriously, it’s not a big deal. If I fuck up best believe I’m getting roasted or punished in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:24 PM |
| – | Saw an instagram reel and it made me sick in my stomach about womenNo they are not, they can choose to have an abortion. Whereas men have zero privilege and say in that woman’s choice. They can dip and be on the hook financially for 18 years, women can dip via abortion and not be liable for anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:23 PM |
| – | Saw an instagram reel and it made me sick in my stomach about womenThe lack of accountability is a massive privilege that women don’t know they have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:16 PM |
| – | Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness.There is no such premise, the premise is simply that there initial filter will exclude men who are otherwise good guys but plain ugly/introverted. There are ugly men that aren’t good guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 05:14 PM |
| 20 | Q4M: what is something you think guys overestimate women care about in dating?Women’s definition of muscular is body builder level of physique though. Which is misleading because women tend to really like an athletic sporty look which actually takes a lot of years and a tight diet to achieve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:13 PM |
| 5 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemWomen have no accountability for the wellbeing of society, just hang it up already lol. Operate in reality instead of hoping for change that is categorically not in their nature to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:08 AM |
| 3 | Are dating events worse than appsit's not their actions that are the problem, it's the instinctual lying about it that is just so hypocritical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 12:08 AM |
| – | Progressives opposed to polygamy despite being vocally supportive of polyamory and silent on polyandry are not being logically consistent.Because they know it’s bad and looks bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Sought after men's behaviour is making it hard for normal women to get an LTRi mean according to reddit, women can easily sus out men with lack of intention or bad intentions so it doesn't matter if these men lie or not right? not trying to be snarky but like come on, this looks absurd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Sought after men's behaviour is making it hard for normal women to get an LTRthere's no way that's true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Sought after men's behaviour is making it hard for normal women to get an LTRReminds me of women saying they hate fuckbois. How are they fucking if women don’t like them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 01:54 PM |
| 5 | Sought after men's behaviour is making it hard for normal women to get an LTRProblem is solved if dental school women stop giving these men free sex but hey that’s just too simple right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 01:48 PM |
| – | The men women choose are the men they later blame everyone else forRealistically nothing can be done about this short of removing women’s rights and reverting back to culture where they stay home and are married off by their families. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 12:46 AM |
| 3 | How Red Pill Alpha guys are worsening the situation for menBecause being beta really hasn’t worked out for maybe two decades now and it’s getting worse year by year (accelerated as Gen Z came of age with social media and online dating). I don’t know why it’s a mystery to some that people eventually wake up when bashing their head into a wall with no results…eventually results in those people looking for alternatives and switching up their approach. Notice I said people, not men, so it’s more easily digestible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 03:01 AM |
| – | Most people's dating advice to men is useless, ESPECIALLY advice given by womenHammer meet nail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 02:26 PM |
| 0 | Is the right to Abortion more about a woman's body autonomy, or simply dodging responsibility?What priority is that exactly? They simply don’t want to have a kid? Ok, what about all the contraception that is readily available? I feel like if you went out of your way to ignore everything, yes you are required to carry that kid to term. Sorry not sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 04:47 AM |
| 1 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyThen say looks matter most lol, it’s that simple. This is actually hugely beneficial to women because so many more men will finally understand the assignment and focus on being in good shape and being well groomed. It’s literally a lose lose scenario by hiding shallow preferences in order to save face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:36 AM |
| 6 | Women Do Not See Men as Victims Especially When It Makes a Woman a PerpetratorMen do things. Things happen to women. Men must improve. Women are perfect as they are and the world must change to validate them and their views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:22 AM |
| – | The hypocrisy and cognitive dissonance a lot of progressive women have make it super easy for red-pillers to slam dunk on them.Humans are very shallow. Problem is women pretend to be the fairer sex and all moral and shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:20 AM |
| 0 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.It’s understood but you also need to understand it was given and granted by these brutish men. No shortage of them these days judging by the growing popularity of the red pill bro charlatans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:32 AM |
| 4 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyJust like we haven’t walked a mile in your shoes, you haven’t walked a mile in ours. You have zero lived experience as a man, please stay in your lane when it comes to these specific issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:11 AM |
| – | Would the semi egalitarian relationship model be something that would appeal to women?Yeah you tell that guy sleeping in his car! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:46 PM |
| 1 | If a spouse sacrifices 18 years of their career to rear children, what is an equitable payout during divorce?A payout equal to the daycare costs at a 24/7 basis for the number of years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:44 PM |
| 7 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.While that is true you can’t have it both ways. Women are wary of men they don’t know yet they don’t make any moves on the men they do know and are interested in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:43 PM |
| -3 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.It’s time to accept there are general differences between the two genders, both good and bad. The inability to recognize that women are at fault, or partially contribute to societal problems, seems to be taboo. Y’all instantly rise to the defence as if women are above any and all criticism. Y’all have been given equal freedoms and rights. That comes with responsibility and accountability. You don’t want a world where men start thinking about taking your rights away, so it’s in your own benefit t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Do you think that conservatism will eventually die out since pretty much all women don't want to have sex with conservative men?Progressive folks come and go (eventually needing another new batch willing to take the mantle). Why? Because they don’t have kids so they fade out over time. Until the boot becomes too oppressive and people have to rise up again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 05:19 AM |
| 13 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyTheir mistake was taking what women say seriously, at face value. Turns out you understand women better when you ignore what they say and observe how they behave. Honestly don’t really speak well about women when it makes more sense to disregard everything coming out of their mouth because it tends to be feel good bullshit to save face and avoid confrontation/stirring the pot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 02:37 AM |
| 12 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.For women, muscular means bodybuilding and steroids. For men it means athletic/lean. Same goes for dad bod. Men think it means overweight with no muscles. For women it’s a muscular dude on a bulk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 11:20 PM |
| 20 | Women contribute a LOT to "nice guy angst".Always remember rules 1 and 2. If you can’t get your foot in the door, nothing else matters. But people go oh I know unattractive men that get married. Yeah, dead bedrooms and high divorce rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:03 PM |
| – | “Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented womenMen only get the bootstraps talk, it is what it is. Honestly, no one gives a fuck about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 06:17 PM |
| – | We need to stop pretending female sexuality is any more complex than it actually isAlways remember rules 1 and 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:23 PM |
| – | Current dating is unfair for men because of woman have rid themselves of the responsibility that comes with the privileges they have, while men still have to still take on the responsibilities of theirsUkraine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 07:19 PM |
| – | The Grim Future of Men and Dating?Bruh that’s so 2010s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:59 AM |
| -1 | The Grim Future of Men and Dating?lol you ever think pregnant cavewomen were building shelter and hunting mammoths | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:58 AM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyHappiness is declining and anti depressant usage is climbing year after year for women. Always remember with the good comes the bad, nothing is free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Why don’t women like passport bros?Yet it remains very unequal when it comes to dating and relationships. It should always have been equal? I’m not trying to be pretentious but we can’t pretend that women don’t need to improve at anything. At this point the ball is in your court to break away from traditional gender norms that benefit you, otherwise you’re having your cake and eating it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Why don’t women like passport bros?The vast majority of men never have a women throw themselves at him, or even ask him out first. I mean there’s a reason why there is a saying that the first time men receive flowers is at their funeral… There is a lot of areas of improvement for women that just seems to be a non starter (women get very defensive) yet how much have men done for women especially in the last 100 years in terms of the equality movement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Why does it seem that women's feelings override any normal relationship boundaries?They do all the things they accuse men of 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 02:16 PM |
| -3 | Our culture promotes consent and mindfulness more than ever in history, yet people fuck less than everOne cannot increase or decrease something without taking or giving to something else. Lower cost to a woman, higher cost to societal cohesion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 02:08 PM |
| – | Women Demand Men To "Be Independent" and "Focus On Themselves" Then Throw Tantrums When Men Do Things They Don't Like On Their Own VolitionWomen break these rules for attractive men. Be that guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itUber = women have little rights, get honor killed, have half the testimony weight as a man, arranged marriages with no say, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itIt’s not better. But it has staying power. Whereas a culture or country without men willing to defend it, is doomed to spiral the drain or get taken over by more brutal neighbours. I’m not for or against, just making an observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itYes but the natural byproduct is that men increasingly don’t give a flying fuck about society now. Typically that doesn’t bode well long term, to have so many people (women included) disengaged with society. I’m not on any side, just stating the trends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itGood, that’s your freedom to do so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itI won’t be around for it so it’s not a big deal, I have no obligations to “society” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itI don’t want to say it but maybe our ancestors knew better… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itYes and your culture and country as you know it now will be extinguished within 100-200 years. It will be replaced by cultures that are uber patriarchal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:51 PM |
| 5 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?Feminism is a buffet of picking benefits that men have and none of the drawbacks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 05:34 PM |
| -1 | If you are a “nice guy”, you cannot just choose to become an “asshole”I don’t know how many times it needs to be said. If being nice is the default behaviour, it is not attractive. This is because the man has no choice but to be nice, because he is weak, meek and not confident in himself. What is attractive is when a man can CHOOSE to be nice, or not. This is what women mean when they like kind and nice men. A strong man who is confident and prioritizes himself, but shows flashes of kindness once in awhile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:52 PM |
| 17 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?Yup. The fact people still try to obfuscate pretty privilege is no longer maddening, but rather just makes society less and less of something young men want to invest in. Cuz it’s complete bullsht. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:46 PM |
| – | Most men have nothing to offer womenWell it’s woman who typically create lists and lists of what they want…not men. Who’s transactional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?It’s actually emotionally unintelligent to expect everyone else to behave like you. Like the audacity to be this wrong and think you’re right 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:58 PM |
| 5 | Society threat profiles men if they approach women, and clowns on them if they end up lonely and "unfuckable"The ironic thing is that we have a chopped man epidemic according to some women (which I sort of agree with), but if women were more forthcoming with their preferences they’d have way more men that they find attractive. Men would be aware that physical appearance is very important and start taking care of themselves a lot more. Thus solving everyone’s dating problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 01:52 PM |
| 56 | Society threat profiles men if they approach women, and clowns on them if they end up lonely and "unfuckable"It all makes sense if you remember rules 1 and 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 02:10 PM |
| 10 | If the advices and path insisted on by the current neoliberal feminist-leaning postmodernist cultural institution wasn't leading "average" men to misery and isolation, they wouldn't bother seeking out any other philosophies or "pills"Guys…it’s time to learn acceptance and move on. A huge percentage of men going forward will be chronically single. It does no good for your mental health to be hung up on it. Hit the gym, cultivate hobbies, focus on your career and finances. Raging online isn’t gonna get you anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 05:47 PM |
| 7 | People have so much woo woo beliefs when it comes to gender.It’s woo woo because it’s hard to explain why women gravitate towards stronger looking men than men who are out of shape and inactive. It’s hard to explain because it’s simply hard wired into biology and subtly but continuously shaped by society and who your friends were growing up. Simply accept that there is conventional attractiveness that…is attractive for 80% of the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalYou have to remember the two rules | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 11:13 PM |
| 2 | If you were Jasleen, Would you act differently? Why or why not?It’s actually shocking how unaware women are lmao. For most women, things just happen to them. Men must do, women just exist (and yap). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 04:09 PM |
| 6 | I think all women would be happier singleMost men are unattractive, makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:57 PM |
| – | Why would single and childless women be happier and live longer than married women and those in relationships and those with children?Yeah and they also didn’t live in the middle of the city. Choices, consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 03:27 PM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themYup there isn’t a single man into astrology or tarot cards or otherwise “finding out their fate”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 03:26 PM |
| 18 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themWomen are not held accountable for so many things, this is an insane privilege that women don’t realize they have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Why would single and childless women be happier and live longer than married women and those in relationships and those with children?I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 05:30 AM |
| 0 | Why would single and childless women be happier and live longer than married women and those in relationships and those with children?Haven’t most men (and people) been historically quite poor anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 05:29 AM |
| -5 | Why would single and childless women be happier and live longer than married women and those in relationships and those with children?Isn’t the answer to not work then? Women rushing into the 9-5 permanent workforce has really been a “be careful what you wish for” moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control?Women care very much if there is physical attraction lol. If you aren’t attractive, you have not put your foot in the door. Things like eye colour, face, hair, etc. come after getting through the door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control?It’s better to look lean and athletic than overweight. Come on man. It’s not about how much you can actually lift. Being in very good shape is attractive to women full stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 10:58 AM |
| 8 | Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control?They don’t wanna put in the work due to the culture of instant gratification. It’s hard to lose weight, hit the gym religiously to look good. It’s easy to claim jawline can’t be fixed when actually it’s probably just hidden underneath 20%+ body fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 01:58 PM |
| 4 | The dating frustration that gives men the most hopelessness in the modern dating era is that the lack of "levers" he can pull to attract this "equivalent" in the modern dating eraI don’t think being not fat is sufficient anymore. You have to have some muscles and have an athletic look (lower body fat %) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do women give bad advice to men?Would a good definition be athletic build with 12-15% body fat? Defined shoulders and chest that fills out the t shirt a bit such that it doesn’t simply go down vertically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 11:22 AM |
| – | Why does the phrase "Nah, she's too hot for me" annoy women?I immediately skip hot women on dating apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Men's social role is limited by society's preference for "masculine" traitsWomen are going in the opposite direction towards roles that are valued and respected. Did you read the post. It works because there’s no drawbacks. Whereas there is no shortage of shaming, disgust or lack of attraction to weak effeminate men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 09:33 PM |
| 2 | I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions.Either you become a desirable man or you don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 03:43 PM |
| 7 | Love and sex is not a rightOf course. But that’s such a bad “disregard the problem” viewpoint that just encourages and makes worse a dysfunctional society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 04:42 PM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedI agree tbh. Either get good and eat good, or accept the results (or lack thereof). Is this good for society? No. But with women’s empowerment let’s just say be careful what you wish for. With good comes bad, yin and yang. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Do women fall love with anyone they find attractive?Because it’s implied by women that it’s not generally attractive as if it’s a 50/50 or a niche, when in reality probably 80%+ are very attracted to this type of guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 04:26 PM |
| 0 | Do women fall love with anyone they find attractive?They meet people and get DMs later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 12:58 PM |
| 0 | Do women fall love with anyone they find attractive?True but that dude is probably picking girls out of his DMs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 12:36 PM |
| 1 | The 25 and younger male generation will be overwhelmingly single and we are lucky because it won’t affect society one bitI say good tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 05:00 PM |
| 9 | Which of these men is likely to find women more interested in him: A man who flirts first, and figures out whether he likes you later, or a man who figures out whether he likes you first, and flirts later?Fine line between flirting and creepy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 06:48 PM |
| – | Realistically, what qualities would make you overlook a conventionally attractive man for an unattractive one?And a hot guy doesn’t need to do any of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 05:05 AM |
| – | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youThe problem is women and society never say this. It’s the lying that’s the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 06:57 PM |
| – | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.If you’re trying to catch fish, don’t look to fish for advice on that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:39 PM |
| – | Men are too desperate for relationshipsThat was the trend, no longer. Young men are giving up and dropping out at increasing levels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 05:31 AM |
| 8 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.The OP literally proves how little women know about men’s issues and/or cannot even fathom it so they have to twist it like a pretzel to make it “work” in their mind. Easiest one is how they think guys are getting hundreds of matches or likes on dating apps too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 05:19 AM |
| -9 | Are Women Fueling Their Own Loss of Rights by Promoting Outdated Ideologies?And now where is the US? Ended up electing trump twice because clearly a lot of people are fed up with liberal policies which I do tie directly to minority and women-driven policies in recent history. A blustering idiot gets voted in simply because he’s the only one calling for a return to tradition. That says a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:37 AM |
| -9 | Are Women Fueling Their Own Loss of Rights by Promoting Outdated Ideologies?The old system worked for thousands of years. The new system is disintegrating society and culture via depopulation without the need for an invader to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:24 AM |
| 4 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsA huge section of men in the younger generations are gonna be chronically single forever, we’ve already seen these stats like in the pew study. Time to accept it and move on with your life if you are part of that group of men. Life is not fair, it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 05:09 AM |
| 6 | There’s Nothing We Can Do to Raise Fertility Rates, Because Low TFRs are Just a Result of ModernityUntrue. As there are less and less schools and employers due to a shrinking economy and population, the decline in “openings” will be faster than the decline in population. Aka you’re gonna be fucked royally in the next few decades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 12:59 AM |
| 0 | The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to failwhat you're describing is black pill red pill is recognizing that you have a lot you need to work on - and here's what you need to work on and how | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 01:22 AM |
| 4 | Is a lot of this stuff an American cultural problem?It’s way worse in Toronto than the US. Standards are sky high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 07:45 PM |
| – | There is a Socially and Economically Oppressive Zeitgeist Against Young Gen Z Men.Yeah the person you responded to is exactly the sort of person the OP is describing in and they couldn’t have typed their comment fast enough to prove his point lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 02:31 PM |
| 2 | The Dating Curve With All Things Equal is Just Harder for MenDude who cares. It’s beginning to be more clear and clear that mgtow is the solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 06:08 AM |
| 1 | My life’s experiences prove the worst parts of red pill are the most effective.The thing is guys run into so many of these anecdotes that it just becomes a general rule that these notions about women are gonna be true. And women just say “not all women” and that your repeated life experiences are just anecdotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:43 PM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidi have a lesbian friend and lemme tell you...the dating scene is absolutely horrendous because both sides always wait for the other side to make a move, to take the initiative, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 06:05 PM |
| 33 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.Yeah and TRP is shunned while everyone celebrates 2XC | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 09:25 PM |
| 0 | If feminist pages and women in general talked more about different issues that men face, that would help get men out of the red pill / alt right / anti SJW rabbit holeThey won’t, there’s no accountability stop expecting any | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 04:17 AM |
| -2 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGEnjoy the decline, stop trying to fix the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 04:15 AM |
| 19 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGYou’re right, it’s outdated because it’s gotten even worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 04:14 AM |
| 1 | There’s too much casual misandry on the internetI remember reading a decade ago, a MGTOW saying. Sit back and enjoy the show. I think we’ve reached those times. Just focus on yourself and stay on the sidelines, enjoying schadenfreude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?No one will step up. It’s gonna be a new normal and everyone will have to deal with its pros and cons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:26 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]The government isn’t gonna do anything to help men, we’re on our own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Women ask men to improve emotionally, yet their dating preferences often incentivize men to focus on material success and physical appearancealways remember - personality = looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 02:50 PM |
| 4 | Women ask men to improve emotionally, yet their dating preferences often incentivize men to focus on material success and physical appearanceGood looks is the bare minimum and is an unspoken rule. What women say they want is built on top of that minimum foundation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Buy the numbers; Women have far less options than it's perceived.Most men are not attractive tbh, it was a mixture of societal conformity and women not having the means to financially support themselves that led to less inceldom historically. Now that those forces are gone, the only preference left is looks and now we’re here where we are today. It’s the new norm and everyone needs to process it and get used to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Buy the numbers; Women have far less options than it's perceived.The problem is young women think they have a lot more options than they do. It’s a game of musical chairs around the top dudes and there’s only a few chairs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 11:03 PM |
| – | Why do women often prefer dad bods over six-packs?But you still want muscle, correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 06:49 PM |
| 7 | Is having an income greater than minimum wage a prerequisite to dating past age 22? Or even past age 23?This reads as “we don’t care about money”. Oh the gaslighting these days can fill a blimp pronto 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 12:45 PM |
| – | "Women like all types of men" apparently the majority of women tend to be attracted to the same type of manNot for millennials and gen z | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 12:40 PM |
| 8 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?It’s actually crazy that women here saying “oh she may have meant this particular scenario which is not what she said” as if she didn’t exactly mean exactly what she said 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 12:41 PM |
| 1 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women.This is some insane cope. Ladies you don’t look anywhere near how you did when you were 21. Of course there are 35 year old bombshells. But most people in general, not just women, tend to fall off a cliff when they pass 30 (gain weight, wrinkles, bad posture has set in permanently, etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 11:02 PM |
| 6 | What will happen once enough men get jaded from dating?where's the slow decrease? it's gonna be literally halving of countries like S. Korea in just 50 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man?This can’t be a serious question. Marrying a single mom unless bringing your own kids (now or eventually) means you’re being cucked to hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 02:08 PM |
| 6 | Passport Bro's Use the reasoning "There are no good women in the West" to cover up the fact they are losersAre women here worthy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 01:41 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenMen aren’t trying to marry a title or salary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:43 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.If no one corrects them then we have the nazis sitting at a table dilemma 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 12:36 AM |
| 4 | The best move a single man can make is work on being happy alone.Tldr sigma | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:26 PM |
| 4 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"There’s honestly no point waxing on this sorta stuff. Most young to middle aged people will be single and childless in the next few decades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Men need to stop simping.Men sleep down, it does not mean they are willing to enter a relationship with that woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experienceChubby average men aren’t landing anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 02:57 PM |
| – | CMV: Males should not look at women in gymsHonestly I agree conceptually just make gender specific gyms tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 11:21 PM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futilelol interesting take I do see it having a feedback loop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 04:06 PM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileWhere they live is also full of a lot of women who work in tech or otherwise do well for themselves (such as San Fran). So making more money relative to the national median isn’t a big deal if you live in a place where you’re…the median. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 04:04 PM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileThere’s no fixing this without magically changing the economy. Young men are broke and jobless or underemployed. If a man has no stability or steady income then all the other factors come in such as height, attractiveness, etc. These are things men lacked in the past but didn’t really have to have those factors to find partners. Times have changed and we’re never going back. Look to south korea or japan and add 20-25 years because thats where the US will be in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 05:03 AM |
| 28 | Women don’t wear revealing outfits for male attentionWomen gaslight the most obvious things it’s honestly sorta scary, bordering on malicious and intentional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Men are entirely lacking in knowing how to sexually satisfy womenDoes a fuckboi really need to care about a woman’s orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Men are entirely lacking in knowing how to sexually satisfy womenI don’t think the average or ugly man these days is in any position to give or not give an orgasm. He’s 10 steps away from that position (read: he’s single and not dating). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:01 PM |
| 5 | You wouldn't have more luck in the dating markets of the pastYes all the trends and statistics totally show it’s easier for young men today than decades ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 12:54 PM |
| – | Sexual liberation is incompatible with civilizationBirth control and sexual liberation are related but not the same thing. Being promiscuous and sleeping around is possible due to birth control but birth control can exist without the aforementioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 02:53 PM |
| – | Sexual liberation is incompatible with civilizationThat’s not OPs proposed solution, it’s a comparison to another society. People just can’t read about men’s problems without seeing red and making up things to attack that aren’t being argued. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 02:50 PM |
| – | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.Join me lol I ain’t doing jack. But societal change takes time and I foresee violent change in the future. The “good men” who will put a stop to it will all be dead or elderly by then. The majority of the fit and able men at that point will have nothing to die for and have zero purpose. They’re gonna make a purpose for themselves that y’all ain’t gonna like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:42 AM |
| – | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.Think handmaidens tale or some other dystopian shit society that sexless and disenfranchised men will try to set up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:35 AM |
| – | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.GL with the reckoning when you find out men are stronger than women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:31 AM |
| 3 | What is creepy?Just say they’re hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Do some red pill podcaster bro’s have legitimate points? (context below)Forgot to add the different % for the second stat. It’s still very high and likely climbing so I don’t know if you’re simply dismissing it because it’s one third and not one half. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Do some red pill podcaster bro’s have legitimate points? (context below)Sorry I didn’t mean to mix the stats of the first survey finding with the second. But it’s still high at one third-ish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Do some red pill podcaster bro’s have legitimate points? (context below)Not Pew but here’s one: https://news.iu.edu/live/news/26924-nearly-1-in-3-young-men-in-the-us-report-having-no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Do some red pill podcaster bro’s have legitimate points? (context below)For sure no doubt. But surveys like that Pew one show that more than half of young men are single or not even have had sex in a year or more. Of course that means 40% are, which is a lot of people, but I’m thinking about how this is setting a new precedent and the ramifications and knock on effects from those | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Do some red pill podcaster bro’s have legitimate points? (context below)Which age group are you looking at? Because most young people are not even married yet (or ever). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 11:48 AM |
| – | Does modern dating and the cut throat social heirarchy breed emotional distance and encourage anti social personalities in men?Black pill = truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 05:02 AM |
| – | Yes Virginia, appearing ‘creepy’ in public can get you jail timeBelieve all women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 01:48 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.But then they take the black pill, accept their faults and give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 01:23 AM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallBeta bucks hardly exists anymore it’s just alpha fucks and incels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Are muscles over rated?Trust me you’re gonna find your dude playing video games VERY annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Are muscles over rated?It’s 5-6 hours a week. Guaranteed dudes play more video games a week than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 03:01 PM |
| 12 | Are muscles over rated?Women actually think going 3 days a week will make you look like a body builder with veins popping out. It’s crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 02:57 PM |
| 7 | Guys have you tried approaching women? Is it frowned upon now more than before?I talk to coworkers, eat out with them, and have friends that are girls. But I don’t approach or talk to strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 02:54 PM |
| 8 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRit actually is breaking news considering all the messaging from mainstream media and hollywood these past 10-15 years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Why is the role that makeup plays in women’s privilege downplayed so much?Any amount of makeup is full makeup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 11:01 PM |
| -2 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersTrade one problem for another pick your poison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 12:28 AM |
| 3 | The root of the gender war is birth controlEveryone jumps to condemn this post and personal attacks, but offers no solutions. We’re barreling into western civilization decay with the afterburners turned on. In a few decades it’ll look nothing like today and life will be a lot less comfortable for the non billionaires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 03:31 PM |
| 9 | It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated.They’re usually hot. I don’t know why we either fail or purposely fail to identify that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Why is interpersonal chemistry never accounted for in conversations about attraction- only looks?Good looks get you through the door. Good chemistry can’t be confirmed by the woman until they let you through that door. Hence, why it’s very important to get in shape, stand up straight, be confident, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 01:17 PM |
| 4 | How can a "nice guy" truly become a cocky, playful asshole ("bad boy")?Incels are a definition, not a movement or something you identify with. If you're a kissless virgin well over the age of 20 then you're an incel regardless if you believe you are one or not, what party you vote for, if you're an asshole or nice guy, it doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 09:12 PM |
| 0 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?ask your girl if she's open to it and find out ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 09:01 PM |
| -7 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?I think most gen z women are open to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Should paternity tests be mandatory?It’ll never happen because the man is off the hook financially and then the government has to pay welfare to the soon to be single mother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 05:35 AM |
| 3 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurityI think the premise is that they used to like it/do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 01:25 PM |
| 2 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurityI think the premise is that they found it fun before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 01:25 PM |
| 10 | The loneliness epidemic is a mythStatistics suggest otherwise. Of course an individual is responsible for themselves but let’s not ignore systemic trends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:13 PM |
| 5 | It's honestly extremely based that society is just tearing apart at the seams and neolibs/bluepills are like "Hell yea man, products to consume"GTA IV is IN | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 05:21 AM |
| 7 | What are realistic options / solutions for men who can not compete in today's dating market?Forget about women. Forever. Work on other things in your life. Education/career/business. Eating right and working out. Meditation. Learning new things/sports and join local communities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 05:18 AM |
| -1 | Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concernEnjoy the consequences then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 04:24 PM |
| 4 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themThe reason why the man has zero options is because he’s one of the 100 dudes who have zero options because all 100 of them are not good enough for the woman with 100 options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:27 PM |
| 1 | A major issue with the modern dating market is that immoral sexual behavior is heavily discouraged in men but either ignored or even outright ENCOURAGED in women in the modern era.It’s not a guy’s job to fix society anymore sorry, try the next castle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 05:25 AM |
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