Sebast_Food Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Someone was definitely denied That can be the case, yes. But it's a bigger issue and filled with relative causes. It could be that one has different values/prejudices than the other in regards to sex, for example. You can cockblock yourself.	/r/PussyPassDenied	14/04/20 10:39 AM
1	Someone was definitely denied Super good to hear, man! :D I hope it all works out, and if not... you did your best, and that's all we can really demand from ourselves. Just one more little thing, i didn't say pro/con list. Just pro's. The idea is to change your mindset in that moment from destructive to constructive. The list in itself is worthless beyond that.	/r/PussyPassDenied	06/04/20 09:22 AM
2	Someone was definitely denied u/Yolandiiii's warning about taking with a grain of salt things strangers say online is great advice. Especially with serious issues like these. u/IvanSolana reccomends seeking professional help as this could be something that stems from a myriad of possibilities. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is usually the reccomended approach. It helps you build healthier thinking patterns, which are the opposite of things like jealousy that make you have intrusive thougts and whatnot. That said... Tips…	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/04/20 11:03 AM
1	Someone was definitely denied Hey man, don't sweat it. It's a big lump of shit, for sure, but it can be overcome. Those 'intrusive thoughts' that haunt you and fuck up your day are the first thing you should confront, because that's when the healing begins. I used to ruminate all day when that nasty shit popped-up in my head without so much as a previous related thought. Distract yourself as soon as you're aware. Journaling helped me. Making lists of pro's, and describing what you're greatful for, and so on. It counterbalanc…	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/04/20 10:46 AM
1	Someone was definitely denied Sounds clinically correct. However, focusing on the 'toxic man' part of it helped me struggle through that part of me i didn't want to be. So maybe it was kind of like burning a part of a forest to stop the spread of wildfire. Maybe not the best option, but it worked. Trauma seems like a big word, but well worth digging in to. So does the O.C. thinking. CBT might be a great thing to explore.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/04/20 10:27 AM
-1	Someone was definitely denied Bunch of Niceguys skipping the false pretense part.	/r/PussyPassDenied	01/04/20 10:42 AM
-1	Someone was definitely denied Thank you. It seems like refugees of r/incels and r/theredpill are applying for asylum here.	/r/PussyPassDenied	01/04/20 10:39 AM
5	Someone was definitely denied Here, here. That shit is no joke. I fell for a single mom that had a significantly higher fuck-count than me (including mfm threesomes) and learning all of this just made my head go in very weird directions. It took me waaay to long (and waaay to much terrible terrible porn therapy) to learn that it was a macho ego thing, hurting my fragile and toxic masculinity, leaving my pride in full hemorrhage and that, ultimately, it wasn't worth it. I was slut-shaming the woman i love and was faithful to …	/r/PussyPassDenied	01/04/20 10:34 AM