SebbM12 Archive

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16	To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life? some people´s brains just work differently, if you have family and friends then you do have deep and meaningful connections, you don't need that from a woman. Don't let society shame you for enjoying variety, most men do, they justs don't have the capacity to do it or the honesty to admit it. As someone who has both a deep emotional realtionship and also have casual sex with new partners from time to time (my main chick knows this and accepts it btw) I could do without the former, the latter I´m…	/r/seduction	10/06/23 09:23 PM
5	To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life? 60-70 bodies here. Whoever says it was a bad thing is either lying or was brainwashed by society, your life will be incomparably better as long as you do it responsably (use protection so you that you don't get any woman pregnant or get an STD, no matter how pure you think your girl is, you don't want to take that risk if you are an ambitious person who thinks long-term), I think is obvious to say but never pay for sex, it´s pointless if you are not learning anything in the process. So here are …	/r/seduction	10/06/23 09:10 PM
5	4 months, 700 approaches later... Fair enough, although from my experience doing game I can tell you that there’s no better way to fix your inner game problems than by sleeping with some 9s and 10s, once you’ve done it a few times you start feeling entitled to it, at the beginning you just need to do it no matter what even if you don’t feel like it. So this mentality of outcome independence is good to appoint, but at the same time if you’re doing hundreds of approaches and not getting results that’s gonna hurt your inner self es…	/r/seduction	02/11/21 06:13 PM
1	4 months, 700 approaches later... That doesn’t make sense. The point of game is to get girls that aren’t into you at the beginning, you don’t need game to get the girls that are already giving you eye contact or other “choosing signals”, you just need to have a conversation with them. That might be a good strategy if you’re going for 6s and below, but for the actually attractive girls that doesn’t work, 9s and 10s will never give you “choosing signals” you have to approach and have tight game to even get in their radar since the…	/r/seduction	02/11/21 05:57 PM
2	4 months, 700 approaches later... If you are having fun with it that’s great. Just remember that the amount of approaches you’re doing doesn’t necessarily equal how much you’re improving. It’s like playing random notes on a guitar for thousands of hours, Will you get better? Probably a little bit. But if you had followed a structure and started practicing specific things, and even had a bit of couching, after the same amount of time you’d already be pretty decent at it. So all I’m saying is you probably need some coaching becaus…	/r/seduction	02/11/21 05:45 PM
3	4 months, 700 approaches later... I’m going to have to agree with you on this one except for the part that Game and cold approach doesn’t work. The problem is that many people think that quantity of approaches=improvement when it’s not like that at all, you might be doing a lot of approaches but if you are not constantly improving your technique and just doing approaches for the sake of doing approaches then you’re just wasting your time. I started doing game this year and my lay count is like 25 at this point this year, and I h…	/r/seduction	02/11/21 05:35 PM
2	Good Luck to Everyone this Halloween weekend Thanks but I got Coronavirus so I can’t go out this weekend, fuck.	/r/seduction	30/10/21 06:08 PM
2	My Text Game Is Terrible To be fair most advise on the internet is terrible lol. I’d not take this advise.	/r/seduction	21/10/21 06:27 AM
3	My Text Game Is Terrible Don’t make the mistake of thinking texting works the same as an in person interaction. Keep your texts short and simple, low investment, but at the same time keep them flirty so it doesn’t get boring. If you’re going for the date try to make it a sequence of texts rather than just throwing it out of nowhere, it’s way easier for her to agree to a “you’re not so bad, we should do something one of these days” than a “let’s go for drinks tomorrow at 8!!” It’s has to be a gradual build up. Once she a…	/r/seduction	21/10/21 06:25 AM
3	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? The thing is, Todd V integrates all the previous models of game there has been and takes them to the next level of sophistication. So yeah you don’t really need anything else. Other books and material might give you different perspectives or see things in a different way, so I’d say you should try to read as much as you can about everything, not just game but things like evolutionary biology. But when it comes to following a model to actually learn game go with Todd v and all his advise 100%.	/r/seduction	21/10/21 04:54 AM
1	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? check the whole thread, I explained in a lot of detail what my whole journey was.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 05:30 AM
6	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? Cold approach, mostly night game. Also some online game. I got some really good professional pics while I was travelling, did some Photoshop editing, and started getting some pretty decent amount of matches with really good looking girls, took some investment but it was definitely worth it, it's not my preferred method since I kinda hate the process of texting even though I've got pretty good at it, for me is still super fucking boring (I find myself really often being the flaky one in the inter…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 05:10 AM
2	Had sex on the 3rd date, she's gone cold and flakey Absolutely, the right frame to have is "I want you, I might even love you, but I definitely don't need you" if the girl knows in the back of her head you can replace her, if she knows you can walk away, then the dynamic really changes., If she starts being flaky, you just go fuck another girl lol, you don't have to threaten her or get mad, there's no need to, at that point you don't need to prove anything to yourself which is the main reason you would do that, like you don't need to prove to you…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 04:51 AM
9	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? I probably have an above average face since girls compliment it kinda often, but it's not really that good looking, and my height is definitely below average so I think that averages out my looks. To be honest girls didn't use to compliment my face nearly as much before, so I think it might just be my game being good than anything else, if they are emotionally into you they will look for things to rationalize why they like you, actually now that I think about it, I get a lot of compliments in ge…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 04:27 AM
1	Above all, it’s a numbers game. You can say it's a numbers game but that doesn't mean you can't dramatically increase your percentage of successes, it should not be a case where you're running hundreds of sets until you find that one girl that's just down once in a blue moon, if you are not increasing your percentages over time and eventually getting some consistent results you are not gaming in the first place. Also, as for the hot girl thing, they might be sweethearts... that doesn't mean they will fuck you lol, I don't care…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 03:56 AM
8	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? Absolutely! Going through that really helps with the abundance mindset, avoiding oneitis, etc. Once you not only understand, but actually experience the fact that there's really a lot of women out there, more than what you'll ever need, and even better or at least of equal caliber than the one you have now, you truly stop being needy and all the bad behaviors that come with that (not just pretending by playing mind games like at the beginning) AT that point girls start perceiving you in a differ…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 03:27 AM
6	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? I honestly could not recommend him more, he is one of the male figures I admire the most because he literally changed my life as cheesy and cliche as that sounds, I not only like the technical stuff he teaches (which is by far the most nuanced out there) but there's a lot of life philosophies he has that just resonate with me in a deep level that go beyond just game. But yeah when it comes to pick up his program the system for me is by far the best one out there. There are things in there no one…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 02:35 AM
3	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? The first book I read about game was at 18, so even though I didn’t start taking real action until this year I had been studying it for years already (following what I’ve learned was how I got the chick I lost my virginity with, even though that was in a social circle environment) so I knew game worked and I was always really interested. That being said, game didnt really click for me until (I’m aware this is going to sound like shilling but whatever, I’m going to say it) until I started watchin…	/r/seduction	19/10/21 07:35 PM
2	Had sex on the 3rd date, she's gone cold and flakey This would be a good advise for someone who isn't as needy as OP, but if you think he can deattach his emotions and do this after reading him you are crazy. I do this as well when girls go cold, persistence is attractive if it's not needy, sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't, the difference is I don't even think about it, most of the times I don't even notice weather a single girl is answering or not, I just get my schedule full with dates and that's it, I don't give a fuck. But the problem …	/r/seduction	18/10/21 08:39 PM
1	Had sex on the 3rd date, she's gone cold and flakey I mean if you are good at sex it helps but it's not the most important thing, OP is clearly needy so he probably got way too attached after the sex and started doing needy shit that that turned her off. That's way more likely.	/r/seduction	18/10/21 08:09 PM
1	Had sex on the 3rd date, she's gone cold and flakey LMAO you are falling for her games, that's literally the ultimate shit test, it is confusing because that's the point, she is trying to see how you react, probably not consciously but subconsciously, women do this shit all the time, it's clear that you don't have that much experience with women. Just know that what you are doing right now is exactly what you should not d, you getting needy, emotional, etc. You should just don't care and be talking to other women, if you do that 8 out of 10 times…	/r/seduction	18/10/21 08:02 PM
1	Had sex on the 3rd date, she's gone cold and flakey At this point you are being super weird and you are way too attached for a girl you've only had sex with once. Let her breathe, giver her space, stop trying to figure her out, to be honest most likely you've already fucked up texting her so often, don't you have a life? you should not be texting a girl more than twice a day if you are busy doing things, like wtf, and to be honest she is probably thinking the same. Something to always keep in mind is the momentum, in a relationship either it incr…	/r/seduction	18/10/21 07:55 PM
71	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? Man I went through exactly the same. I´m 23 now. And I started learning about game a few years ago, I got a gf at 21 and lost virginity with her but then she dumped me and then went through a period of reading everything about game and female nature. This year I started doing game and I've slept with 20 girls this year so far. AT the beginning it was great, you go on adventures, you aren't that sexually experienced so it's a lot of novelty, occasionally crazy shit happens so it was fun. Eventual…	/r/seduction	18/10/21 05:16 PM
1	What are the best negs have you used and worked for you? that only happens if you have poor delivery and a misunderstanding of what a neg is, a neg is NOT an insult. It's a statement meant to make the girl self-conciouss and emotionally reactive to you.	/r/seduction	23/06/21 06:05 PM
1	What are the best negs have you used and worked for you? Lmao that's more of a push pull. People here don't understand what a neg even means.	/r/seduction	23/06/21 06:00 PM
1	100 numbers and 2 dates. My mistakes. Your gain I'm thinking you probably see the number as the gold as opposed to actually building attraction and connection with the girl. Hell you should be thinking on taking her to an instant date right there. So don't make the number your goal just something to contact the girl in case logistics make the instant date not viable.	/r/seduction	10/10/20 02:59 PM
1	Above all, it’s a numbers game. I'll be completely honest. This is absolutely false, the point of game is to not make it a numbers game. If you're not persisting or overcoming all the shit tests and objections you're simply not getting the actually hot girls and are settling with 6/7s. This is simply how it works from a biology standpoint, the hottest girls have way more filters you have to pass before getting into their radar. It's not like you can't have an abundance mentality while also understanding that it should not be a…	/r/seduction	26/09/20 04:23 PM
1	Improvement 2.0: a date every 12 approaches, but quality sucks now Your writing skills suck. TLDR.	/r/seduction	18/04/19 05:50 PM
2	After 2400 approaches, 160+ numbers and 10 000+ pages of GC I understand this: I'm happy you are making progress but all of this is kinda obvious. The key is to make everything seem spontaneous/natural and make your intentions clear without being/look needy. And getting numbers of girls you are not really attracted to is a double-edged sword. If you are a beginner that freezes in front of attractive girls it can give you some nice practice and teach you how you should be behaving with every single girl, but at the same time it could specially devastating for your self stee…	/r/seduction	18/04/19 04:07 PM
0	I cannot handle rejection anymore Please tell me this some sort of joke lmao. If you are actually serious get therapy, this would be understandable if it was a girl you felt in love with, we all went through something similar with a girl we really liked, but if it's with every girl no matter if you just met her, I mean if you literally cry you must have childhood traumas that make your self-esteem low as fuck, if that-s the case it won't be fixed by any advise we can give, seriously get help.	/r/seduction	03/09/18 04:26 AM
1	Reading seduction leads to Depression That's not what being a nice guy is, we call nice guys to people that thinks they will be liked/get girls if they do favors and give gifts, they are also weak and avoid conflict at all cost because again, they just want to fit in, be liked and think this is the way to achieve it. what you describe is not that at all is just kindness and everyone does that. the other things you say are kinda obvious, I think that one of the main advices we give to people here is to take everything with a grain of…	/r/seduction	04/08/18 05:49 AM
1	Remember to take care of your temple and get plenty of sleep! Interesting, any recommended app?	/r/seduction	28/07/18 05:26 AM
2	What do you think of asking someone out online, over social media, facebook, instagram, etc.? Has anyone been successful doing it? What was your approach? It works really well if you have social proof in your social media accounts (aka likes in your Facebook/instagram pics, lots of followers, etc) That was my case and getting dates was stupid easy even with 8/10+. So there, be decent looking, have lots of pictures mostly with other good looking friends and girls, traveling, doing your hobbies (this shows you have an interesting life), have lots of followers and likes and you'll be a fucking dream for girls, social proof is one of the most attracti…	/r/seduction	27/07/18 05:57 AM
1	So I know we are supposed to be mysterious, but it's three dates in and this chick knows nothing about me. Just try something already and don't waste anymore of your time dude, I honestly just don-t understand how these situations even happen, like do you even have eye contact while talking and there's sexual tension in the air? because if that is the case what the fuck are you waiting for, and if not then just move on already.	/r/seduction	27/07/18 05:27 AM
2	What should my first text be? Don't do this, sounds try hard as fuck.	/r/seduction	24/07/18 12:50 AM