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I just learned to accept and express my inner nerd rather than trying to impersonate the "cool PUA" persona. It's polarizing, but that means I sense much more quickly whether I genuinely click with someone or not.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:34 AM
1

"Still waters run deep" means that a person who doesn't need to show off themselves might very well have a fascinating live, personality, or wealth of knowledge or experience. But then, if you buy a bottle of water, you can choose between still or sparkling water. Sparkling water is made by adding carbon dioxide, hence, it's carbonated.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:50 AM
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"You know what they say about still waters?" "They run deep?" "They're uncarbonated. Anyway..." [switch topics]
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:33 PM
2

Demonstration of high value. Everything that makes you look like a cool dude. Having hobbies, knowing the DJ, stuff like that.
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:25 PM
3

Yeah, but why do you make up random bullshit for absolutely no reason whatsoever? Being exposed as a liar isn't exactly a DHV (especially so for something this benign and this easy to find out). How do you expect women to ever trust you with important stuff? If you don't like texting, just tell them "I don't like texting, let's call or meet up in person." No need to justify. I mean, do whatever you want, I don't care. That's just how I do it, maybe it helps.
/r/seduction10/07/22 07:42 PM
2

I say I run 2 businesses (even if I don't) Nothing to add to this lol
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:49 PM
17

I agree with what you said, but I feel the way you worded it may be easily misunderstood. Imo, you don't need consent to TRY to kiss someone, while trying to kiss IS how you get consent to actually kiss. I.e. don't force your kiss onto someone, but lean in and thereby make your plans known while also ensuring enough space for them to pull back if they want to. I'm sure that's how you meant it anyway, but someone just starting out may take your first sentence a bit too literally.
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:25 PM
2

sew our wild oats Now I'm sitting here, confused, with a needle, a thread, and a pack of cereals.
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:44 AM
7

This! Comparing girls to your mom always leads to a great outcome. She'll be with someone else, but you'll finally have some free time to do all the chores you've been procrastinating on.
/r/seduction17/12/21 08:03 AM
20

"Yeah, I know. Wanna smash?"
/r/seduction16/12/21 10:13 PM
1

It's not a failure if you call it a learning experience instead. Failure is not trying at all.
/r/seduction31/10/21 06:51 AM
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https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/9/9f/Complete_diagram_of_a_human_spermatozoa_en.svg/1280px-Complete_diagram_of_a_human_spermatozoa_en.svg.png
/r/seduction16/05/21 02:57 PM
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A ship remaining in the harbor is also safe, but that's not what ships were built to be. Edit: obviously, don't just walk around harassing people. Use common sense, and a little bravery may go a long way.
/r/seduction22/07/20 08:59 PM
5

Doing the Wim Hof breathing beforehand definitely helps. Then step in the shower, count to three, and turn on the water. It's going to suck, but it'll suck less from day to day. After a while, you'll enjoy it.
/r/seduction18/04/20 04:45 PM
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Great idea. Getting your blood moving right after waking up helps a lot in getting up and ready for the day. Actually, morning routines are a great way to get all those good things done that you know you should do but can't find the time to: My mornings look like this: Drink 0.5l (16oz) of water (I put a bottle next to my bed when I go to sleep) Stretch a bit, whatever feels good Get out of bed / Make my bed Open the windows Do pushups and L-sits (Nothing too crazy, just to get my blood moving) …
/r/seduction18/04/20 01:33 PM
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Friendly reminder that planning on working out doesn't do shit. You gotta actually do it. If you do plan on it, don't be like "I wanna work out more." Instead, say "I'm gonna do 3 sets of as many pushups, pullups, and squats as I can manage to do tonight at 7pm." And then, again, actually do it. The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is right fucking now. Because what is life, if not an indefinite sequence of nows?
/r/seduction18/04/20 10:03 AM
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From my experience, if you have to wonder whether she's into you or not, she likely isn't. She may just like the attention and affection she receives but I wouldn't assume she has feelings for you.
/r/seduction19/12/19 11:07 AM
2

Mixed signals are clear signals.
/r/seduction19/12/19 10:25 AM
7

Buying her a drink is neither good not bad in itself. When in doubt, check your intentions. Would you buy your bro a drink in this situation? Go ahead. You should avoid doing so as an "entry pass" to be allowed to talk to her. If you're having a great time and you feel like giving back, feel free to do so.
/r/seduction28/08/18 01:20 PM
2

I checked whether I was on seduction or TIFU after that part.
/r/seduction17/08/15 08:33 AM
1

In case you need one: grab a pair of rings for 20 bucks and check out /r/bodyweightfitness
/r/seduction03/08/15 07:53 PM
25

Start talking to everyone as soon as possible. Sing in the shower, then go out and talk to people on the streets on your way to club, in the line, to the door guard, and take it from there.
/r/seduction21/12/14 04:37 AM
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Care to elaborate? It works for me. Even if she says no, you've been true to yourself and expressed your true self. If she says no, that's fine. Not everybody is suited for everybody. Now you can still work on yourself, get ripped and rich etc. and meet her again after a year when you are actually another person than you've been the first time.
/r/seduction08/12/14 07:28 AM
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You are at 2, chances are she won't be interested in you in a 3 or 4 context unless you completely change yourself and attain higher status in some way (Personality: improve your game, Wealth: Get rich, Looks: get a ripped body, abs, plastic surgery, new hair etc....) You don't have to completely change yourself. Spend a cool day together, and at the right moment, kiss her. You might want to be at your or her place, because that's usually followed by you explaining it along the lines of "It's be…
/r/seduction07/12/14 10:23 AM
5

Just a shit-test. Stay inside, maintain your frame, proceed.
/r/seduction28/10/14 05:03 AM
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If she's just talking and talking, I like to get closer to her slowly while maintaining deep eye contact, touch her neck and go in. It's on if she either talks slower and slower or just says senseless words because she can't even concentrate on what she wants to say anymore.
/r/seduction27/10/14 12:02 PM
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Not specifically about barriers, but they will fade if you apply their knowledge. Vulnerability is THE key point in Mark Manson's Models. Radical Honesty is the book that helped me most in "just saying what's on my mind". I didn't get this piece of advice for a long time because my mind is usually either in focused use or blank. I think it's more about saying what you feel, because feelings are always honest.
/r/seduction14/09/14 06:41 AM
1

I'd recommend Models by Mark Manson and Radical Honesty by Brad Blanton.
/r/seduction13/09/14 11:16 AM
1

And then eat?
/r/seduction24/08/14 07:59 AM
1

Has anyone here done the AA program by Good Looking Loser? I'm just reading into it right now, and it looks solid.
/r/seduction18/08/14 05:47 PM
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LITERALLY!
/r/seduction13/08/14 11:14 PM
10

Tyrion Lannister puts it best.
/r/seduction16/03/14 07:18 PM
3

Nothing beats coming back from your workout and feeling like it's noon, then looking at your watch and realize it's 7AM.
/r/seduction09/03/14 08:14 AM
1

When I’m with a girl I sometimes compliment third parties just to show that I don’t use compliments to get things Had to laugh here. Good post though.
/r/seduction18/01/14 10:04 PM
6

Okay. He was messing with you. Actually it's 14.
/r/seduction12/01/14 05:04 PM
4

Some women will find you creepy, while others think you're cute. That's part of the game. If you think about women, you will maybe find some with (what seems to you like a) character flaw that other men find cute.
/r/seduction10/10/13 11:56 AM
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with a chair...
/r/seduction14/08/13 07:33 AM
3

Only candles sounds damn nice actually. I'll give it a try.
/r/seduction09/06/13 09:46 AM
4

"Fear is your new IOI." - Dan Cro aka BadBoy
/r/seduction04/06/13 08:10 PM
1

Well one elementary part of climbing is trust in your partner, and it's common knowledge that people tend to trust people who trust them. Think of Mysterys 'Hold this for a second' routine where he asks the girl to hold his jacket while he's on the toilet.
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:43 AM
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Nuremberg, Germany.
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:15 PM
22

There's one great climbing hall in my city that the people who really want to climb don't go to anymore because it's used so heavily for picking up girls.
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:46 AM
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Don't forget to scream HEADSHOT or FIRST BLOOD in a very deep and slow alpha voice when you hit them with your frisbee.
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:44 AM
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Yea you're right. I'm definitely too young. Too young for what actually?
/r/seduction12/05/13 09:41 PM
2

She then goes on and says im actually looking around for cameras right now. I just brush it off and said no there isnt a camera. Perfect chance for some kino. Stand side to side, put your hand on her back and say "There's a camera, there's also one, and there's another." while pointing somewhere.
/r/seduction26/04/13 06:24 AM
3

"It's better to ask for forgiveness than for permission." - C. Sheen
/r/seduction16/04/13 11:00 AM
2

Agree (well, disagree) and amplify. Make some jokes about it and you should be fine. Also, you'll subcommunicate that you know what you want and don't let anyone stand in the way of it. Alpha as fuck.
/r/seduction12/04/13 11:48 PM
1

I had that problem for some time, too. There were two, maybe three things that helped me: Make a pro/con list in your head. Tell yourself that spending time on your hobby will a) improve your skills at said hobby and b) your time will be used instead of wasted in front of the tv. Kick yourself in the ass. Get up and do it, because you know that you decided that YOU WANT to do it, and you decided it at a point where you weren't influenced by your emotions (... but this couch is soo comfy, stuff l…
/r/seduction19/10/12 07:47 PM
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