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So why it doesn't work when ugly men lie? How come you can tell an ugly man is a mysoginist but can't tell when a hot man isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:04 PM
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Not necessarily. Kids can get easily influenced by other kids or adults. I've known so many great parents that no matter how hard they tried, they still failed at parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:02 PM
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I am 35 and I have quite a bit of wisdom that some kids should actually listen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:01 PM
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Most women are daring up and are dating bad men in an unintentional way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:09 PM
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But they still give the gym rat sex though. They might not want a relationship, but women still give them sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:04 AM
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Lol, they do though, they scream about being single al lthe time and blame it all on men.,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:42 AM
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My only standard is for he to not be deformed and to be likeable. Oh wow, so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:41 AM
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Most women are superficial. Asking me to find a non-superficial woman is like asking me to find a rose in the desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:41 AM
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Yes, they do, media are creating a false sense of beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:39 AM
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False.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:38 AM
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No, they're not, karens are middle aged ugly single women that nobody wants them, and thus they lash out to the entire world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:38 AM
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They were left alone, nobody was attracted to them. Hence why they try to convince people that fat women are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:36 AM
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Then why did you married if you don't need a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:35 AM
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Nowhere does your article specifies that married men use of more than single men. How would they know that anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:35 AM
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Nope, I actually seen grown women in their 30s and even 40s having far more standards than younger women. You udnerestimate women's delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:32 AM
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Women settle for average men because of their high standards though,.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:31 AM
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The definition of short is skewed because like you said, most women think anyone under 6 foot is short. So short in dating is whatever women think nowadays is short
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:23 AM
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Exactly, finally someone with common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:22 AM
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I don't have the right to do that, no, but I still have the right to laugh at their shitty decisions when they end up alone with cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:35 AM
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People assume shit about me all the time. Why can't I do the same to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:27 AM
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Empathy, emotional maturity, critical thinking? Really, you really think those are values women look for in men? Why the hell they end up with douchebags then? With thugs, abusers and manipulators? And don't tell me that's it's just the guys fault be abuse women should be able to tell which guy is awful and which isn't. If women really chased after that, then there wouldn't be any domestic violence. Yes, looks get you through the door, you hit the nail on the head there. So if a guy is not attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:17 PM
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Kids this generation are more rebellious than ever, so sometimes it's safe to assume the kid has something fucked up in their brain
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:56 PM
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Let's be honest here, most women can't do what a man can do. Women need a man in the hosue still for duties women cannot perform at all or as good as a man. Women need men and men need women for different purposes in life and women need men a lot more than men need women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:55 PM
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Yup, that is exactly what I am saying. You are young so may not not comprehend a man loving a woman who just lvoes me and is kind to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:53 PM
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That could be true as well, but media it still is to blame here for creating propaganda on what a man should be and what a relationship looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:52 PM
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Not true, men in the 60s didn't like big women, hence why we see so many porn movies with fit and non fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:48 PM
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This is the only logical conclusion I came to because there is no other explanation from my experiences. Examples: I talk to a woman online without them knowing how I looked like, we exchanged photos and she blocks me after seeing me/ I got the phone number of a woman from a friend, we talked and got along well, we set up a date, met and then she started to totally ignore me. If women "sensed" men that much, they wouldn't ever be in abusive and violent relationships. Looks are not everything, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:47 PM
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Oh, you know men who dated ex women convicts but not women? Really? I know plenty my guy, all my female friends dated ex convicts and so did my mom and sister. So cute the bullcrap, women don't give a shit if you are a criminal or not as long as you are hot. I guess you never hear sof Ted Bundy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:37 PM
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Not lower standards, but normal standards. Women going for looks match is not having low standards, is having normal ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:34 PM
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Mate, women in general go for looks, alright? If she ain't attracted by the man physically one bit, she won't talk to him. That is why I am very sure it's because of my looks. Women just looks t me once and boom, they are not interested at all. Whether you like it or not, that's the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:33 PM
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I doubt it, they don't want me because of my looks. You assume women give me a chance to talk, which is false, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:04 PM
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Not sure how common it is or not, but I hear many many stories of crazy bitter women ruining the lives of men. And many such cases goes unreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:04 PM
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Women can become bitter and have the same attitude as incels do. They can become very bitter and hateful and thus, they become misandrists. How do you think karens are born?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:03 PM
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Most women don't care about smart or character, they care only about looks, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:45 PM
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Men won't get unreasonable standards from those unless they get addicted. Besides, men with options barely consume porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:16 PM
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I think it's reasonable for me to want my looks match, but my looks match feels entitled to 10/10 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:16 PM
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What studies? The ones in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:14 PM
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I go to the gym, so no, dating fat women is not for me because I am fit myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:53 PM
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I didn't say low standards, I said realistic. If you ugly and fat, don't expect something beyond yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:52 PM
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Really? What, you think women cannot hurt men with physical violence, false accusations and other things?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:52 PM
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Not difficult to be hot? Mate, haircut, hygiene and gym can only do so much, it's mostly about genetics. You cannot grow taller, you cannot control your jawline, you cannot control genetics. And becoming rich? The average man is not rich, you are beyond delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:50 PM
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Their resentfulness for men will affect other men around them though just because they couldn't accept to date men at their level. I think you underestimate women's bitterness. I have seen many many bitter women in my life who are 50, single, no kids and all they have is hatred in their heart
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:38 PM
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I think that people should reprogram to what they're attracted to or not. Reprogramming is possible, I never used to like chubby women but after much reflection upon myself, I realised I am not deserving of a fit gym girl, thus I reprogrammed my brain to be attracted to something else. It's either date your own league or stay single, simple as that. Thinking that you deserve more than what you are is entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:34 PM
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No, it's a huge ask to be all of that PLUS rich and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:38 PM
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I want someone who loves me for me. I don't have to be super attracted to a woman to love them and she doesn't either. Love goes way beyond just looks and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:17 PM
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I am at an age in which sex has no value to me. I want sex,.it just doesn't have to be the best or with someone I am super attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:57 PM
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If you value physicality more than love and peace, then that's a you problem. No, I wouldn't want my woman to cheat on me cause it means she doesn't love me. If you value physicality more than anything in a relationship, you won't end up well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:52 PM
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So you think you know better than your mom who went through life? All kids think they are better than their parents till they are proven wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:49 PM
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It doesn't work though. Yes, they can have sex, but they want commitment, and hot men aren't giving that. Hot men will keep fucking and dumping women till their dick don't work anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:27 PM
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So where's your man now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:26 PM
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I thought women can easily detect bad men with their instinct. What haappened to that? Or is it malfunctioning whenever a hot man is involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:25 PM
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That is false, I never seen an ugly man thinking he is brad pitt, but seen many average women thinking they are megan fox. False, women complain all the time that there are no good men left.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:25 PM
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Well, you can brainwash attracation, like it was done before. The whole body positivity movement brainwashed many men to think that fat women aare attarctove.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:24 PM
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Men aare definetly valuable though: their strenght, testosterone, ability to leada aare all valuable traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:23 PM
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Don't care, this ain't about me, this is about both men and women, cause guess what? Women wil lalso suiffer in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:22 PM
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You just talking about incel's fantasies. You will notice average men don't really have impossible stanaadards for women. Just don't be fat and unpleasent, that's literalaly it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:21 PM
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Well who are we kidding? Looks are the most important aspect in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:20 PM
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Sounds like you aaare level headed, congrats. Nobody daraes to approach because they are afaraid to be called a creep. Which is why, it's up to women to give signs at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:19 PM
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The issue is mainly looks though. No, even average women are complimented by everybody, thus those women overevaluate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:18 PM
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Everybody has ana ideal of course, but in the end we know we won't end up with who we want physically, so we still aare gonna lower our standaards whether we like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:14 PM
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In the end, women will still complain that it's the men's fault. What's wrong with the choice si that in the long term they will end up single, heart broken by all the hot men and they develop a hatred for ALL MEN and blame all the men for her singleness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:13 PM
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And I wish women to understand that being used by chads all the time is not an incentive to them either in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:06 PM
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6 foot, 6 figures, 6 pack, commiting to average women only, being charismatic, funny, nice, gentle and other 100 things is realistic to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:05 PM
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You sound young and probably you have a bit of misandry in you as well. You say that now, but in your 50s you wish you would've think differently when you end up 50, alone, no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:04 PM
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Sure, women will always say the have "realistic" standards and say they want this and that in a guy which could sound normal, but what women respond to however will always be different. They can say they want a good, nice and respectful man and then end up with a ex convict and act suprrised that tehy are treating them like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:03 PM
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Nope, I get my information from the real world too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:01 PM
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If a woman is falling for the same type of shitty man over and over again, it's not a mistake anymore, it's a pattern. I am looking in the real world and I can still justify my position. You know what I don't do? Judge all the so called couples I see outside, cause I don't know their circumstances, but when I do, it's almost always something in the middle, an advantage that the woman has which is most of the time financial.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:55 PM
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If a man has no options in women, what the hell is he supposed to do then? Not watch porn for the rest of his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:51 PM
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It is entitlement though, personal preference should be something more realistic, not unrealistic. And those people who choose to stay single, especially women, complain that there are no good men left.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:51 PM
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No, they don't. The end game is for women to stop complaining on why they can't find a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:46 PM
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The standards are unrealistic in the meaning that they want commitment with these guys. Sure, they can sleep with them, no doubt about it, but most women also want commitment from these hot men, and thus this is where the unrealistic standards comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:44 PM
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Men cannot afford to have high standards though because of the women. They can easily analyse the market and notice that women are extremely picky, and that's because of the high value men that choose to sleep with them and boost their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:39 PM
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Nice over generalisation there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:44 PM
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Getting sex is easy for women, getting a man to commit, now that's the real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:43 PM
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They are not content, that's the thing. They start becoming rela Karen's and blaming everything on men, saying men ain't shit or that they are intimidated by real women or God knows what other stupid excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:43 PM
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Our problem is not women having standards, it's having unrealistic ones. Like a fat woman going only for muscular men or 4'11 women going only for 6 foot men. That is entitlement, they think they are above mena t their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:41 PM
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Real life is pretty much the same mate. Of course women won't be too verbal about it just to seem virtuous, but their acrions speak louder than words. They say they don't care about looks, yet always going for looks. They say they care about having a good men and yet they always end up with bad boys who use them. What women say they want is not the same with what they respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:40 PM
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I think it's entitlement of you eliminate every single person who is in the same league as you just because you think you deserve someone better. And yes, women are delusional, seen plenty of fat women wanting muscular men or 4'11 women going only after 6 foot men. That is delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:37 PM
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Yeah, but eliminating all your daring pool that match your looks and waiting just to find someone out of your league is entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:34 PM
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Wow, couldn't said it better myself sir, this is such a abused statement, well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:29 AM
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Women do complain that there are no good men left though, there are tons of women on tiktok that complain a out men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:29 AM
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You mean old women who are unhappily settling for men they are not attracted to? Have you seen the divorce rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:28 AM
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Is it because you don't want to admit the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:20 AM
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Okay, well I disagree, that's called entitlement, not realistic or reasonable even. If you are unattractive, you are not entitled to an attractive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:15 AM
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So would it be realistic for a fat ugly short incel to want only super models and then complain why those women don't want him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:13 AM
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If media could brainwash men to be attracted to fat women, then they can also promote average men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:55 AM
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Well, let's talk how back in the day men weren't attracted to fat or chubby women at all. If you watch vintage porn, you gonna see almost no chubby woman there at all, or BBW as they call them. But overtime media has been promoting fat women as attractive for years, so what did that resulted in? Men being attracted to bbws. So, in conclusion, the media can brainwash a population to be attracted to a certain group of women if they promote it enough. Does it seem like they promote all types of men…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:55 AM
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Old women got kids, trauma after dating and sleeping with many men, men don't have the same problems when getting older.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:19 PM
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Wouldn't, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:37 PM
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Don't know what men you met, but I never personally met predatory men. Most men I know wouldn't date women younger than 20. Maybe stop hanging around the wrong type of men. Sounds like to me you generalise men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:31 PM
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If you're talking about minors, then I am happy to say only a very small minority of men are predatory. If you talking about men who are interested in young women as a preference, then that is not predatory. Women have preferences for older men, taller men, rich men, so why can't men have a preference for younger women? They're hotter, have less baggage too and have less baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:27 PM
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Well yeah, online dating didn't have this matching system before, tinder invented in 2012. And then others followed suit and not online dating is the biggest waste of money and time for the average man. If the average man has one date a year from online dating, is a miracle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:23 PM
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No they haven't, since women chase only top 10% of men, it made the rest desperate and less picky. So less picky they would fuck anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:18 PM
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The possibility is there ,but extremely slim mate. Nobody said it's impossible for men to get a woman, just highly importable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:10 PM
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70 likes from possibly women out of 9855. That is a 0.7% of match rate. You gotta think how many of those women were genuinely, how many liked back by mistake, how many are scammers, bots, passport mode users, etc. You really are not helping your case here buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:03 PM
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Whatever you say dude, you are too much of a white knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:14 PM
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Post that evidence from bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:09 PM
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Cause women generally get likes from real men with real intentions. The problem for women is , they are every picky when it comes to physical atttaction and thus, women complain that there are not enough good men, including men of their value
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:04 PM
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We don't have dozens or hundred of women it rested mate, if women match with only 5% of men, it means the rest are left to rot. Please post this evidence from bumble like how I posted this from tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:58 PM
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And those options are: bots, scammers, catfish, passport users.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:52 PM
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Someomen never ever desire men sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:49 PM
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So personal anecdotes is now refutable evidence? How about the actual stat of tinder, which is far more popular than bumble, that shows women swipe right on just 5% of men? You show your stats sir just like how I showed you mine. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:47 PM
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I am talking about present day men, and trust me, with how rarely men ever get pussy, if they do get one who is not an escort, who seeks no interest, who just wants the man cause they want him is the biggest turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:42 PM
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Most men never felt wanted by a woman for their body. Most men fucked women, but have never been fucked by women who just wanted to fuck them cause they saw them hot. Being seen as attractive or hot is the biggest turn on for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:34 PM
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They do interact with you, you just put them in the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:51 PM
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Not everybody is lucky enough to find a wife so early I have been looking for one since I was 20, I am 35 now and still no wife. The daring pool gotten worse and worse as we aged. Not the guy's fault women's standards are sky high.
/r/MensRights19/06/26 09:41 AM
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Most women complain that dating is actually a lot worse for them, and by worse I mean the fact that they cannot lock down chad. Their standards have gotten so ridiculous that even the most average women think they deserve a 10 guy, and while the 10 guy will sleep with them, they won't commit. And that's where the problems start: the guy won't stay, he will lie, he will cheat, he won't commit because he has that many options. Most people are average looking, women included, and instead of women g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:23 PM
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100%. Sorry, but hanging skin is just not attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:28 AM
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We as men already have our own issues and own problems. Plus, don't women usually say to when we have problems to sort it out ourselves? They should do the same.
/r/MensRights22/05/26 08:50 AM
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She doesn't need information, just a phone to film you and publicly humiliate you and someone will recognise you eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:01 PM
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Small chance mate? Sure, it is a small chance if you are attractive, but a big chance if you are unattractive. Just because you don't see it, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. And yes, being cautious is a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:27 PM
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Who dares also gets falsely accused based on how he looks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:43 AM
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Also, easily discouraged? Sorry if I am easily discouraged if a woman threatens me with false allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:42 AM
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Because the "best men" actually care about women's feelings. The shitty ones don't, which is why they treat women like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:41 AM
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Honestly, hard to tell cause I met spiteful women of all ages, whether they were 20 or 50. But found out the hard way that the most spiteful ones are the lonely women with no husband, no kids, in their 40s or 50s.
/r/MensRights18/05/26 11:01 PM
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Well I seen the opposite. I never seen an attractive incel, not have I seen an attractive dude who cannot get women. Looks are supreme in the daring market.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:01 PM
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Yup, depends on the state of mind of men and how weak or strong minded they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:09 PM
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You can reprogram your brain, yes to be attracted to a different type. How do you think there are so many dudes attracted to fat chicks now? It's because they reprogrammed their brain to be attracted to fat ones. Fat girls are unnatractive but thanks to media and body positivity movement, the men's brain had been brainwashed to be attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:25 PM
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Then stop complaining that it's hard, you women make the dating scene hard by yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:44 PM
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Please tell us how many men you actually rejected just because of their looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:25 PM
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Most men do want a partner, the problem is most women only see the top 10%, the men they want while the rest are invisible to women. Try and give an average man a chance and see the magic that happens: that he can treat you right and that he does want a serious relationship and that he indeed respects you. Funny how fast you can find an actual good man IF you let go of your looks obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:24 PM
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No, their real issues are that they cannot get a man that THEY WANT EXACTLY. If he is kind but unattractive, it's a no, if he is rude but attractive, it's a yes with the sex only. So spare me the bs, we all know women go for the bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:20 PM
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So why do you women reject the ones that don't see you that why? Why reject the men that look unattractive but are kind and always give a chance to the hot ones that will treat you like a piece of meat?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:16 PM
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In reality, a man child is a really immature man who still thinks he is a kid even though he is in his 40s. But for women, a man child is a man who has boundaries and who is saying facts about men's issues.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 05:06 PM
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Some men just get desperate unfortunately and haven't fully learned their lesson.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 12:33 PM
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I work in a warehouse as a warehouse operative for 2 years. Been working my ass off to be promoted to supervisor and even applied for it and had an interview. But got rejected with no solid feedback and instead a female coworker with less experience than me and who did less work than me got promoted. Oh yeah, and this is my 4th attempt to be promoted here.
/r/MensRights10/05/26 12:20 PM
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This is such a straw man argument, absolutely no red pill podcaster ever promoted rape or sexual assault. Women just hate redpiller just because they expose true nature of women and feminists and they hate that. Redpill is amtifeminism and all they do is taking away power from feminists and women, that's it. Redpiller want ACTUAL EQUALITY, meaning no more special treatment to women.
/r/MensRights10/05/26 12:15 PM
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Feminism is basically like communism: sounds good on paper but in practice it's shit. Women want revenge for things men who no longer live did to women who also no longer live. We have to literally pay for the mistakes of our ancestors just because.
/r/MensRights10/05/26 12:11 PM
1

Many things bother me, but then again, what can I do about it? I am just gonna enjoy life the best I can
/r/MensRights09/05/26 07:11 PM
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Cause they like being the victim and they noticed the more of a victim they are, the more attention they attract
/r/MensRights04/05/26 08:19 AM
7

Right wing here, and and not much misandry or misoginy in my political sphere. Right wings are some of the most logical people I have seen personally.
/r/MensRights02/05/26 06:30 PM
9

Those are not your friends, sounds like they keep you around as a pet to play with whenever they are bored. I would ditch them immediately.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 06:20 PM
0

No, pay close attention to why I made those comparisons. Use your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:11 PM
0

Okey, so was it abstract in the 1940s when Nazis were killing Jews as well? Is it abstract when stalking killed his own people? Or when Genghis Khan pillaged, raped and murdered? There is a right and wrong you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:09 PM
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There definetly is "should be". If there ain't, then I can definitely make fun of any woman or man who have ridiculous standards and you "shouldn't" tell me I can't do that. And I bet you think men are irrational too for wanting young, attractive and fit women. Well, the top 10% offer things that are either unobtainable or extremely hard to get like looks, money or a big dick. Women on the other hand don't have to offer any of that, if women can get a man easy then that means men don't have high…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:07 PM
1

Explain the logic here!!! If women's demands are way above what they should be, how are mento blame for that? How are men suppose to compete with top 10% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:41 PM
1

Always the man at fault, never the woman, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:40 PM
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You said you want someone with higher career than yours, why is career so important unless you want money? Would you date a McDonald's worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:41 PM
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Never said it's bad to have standards, even high standards, but gaslighting men saying "they have unrealistic standards, thus that's why they don't have women" is so bloody stupid. And never said all 4 billion women have unrealistic standards, but most definitely do, especially western women. And what irks me is the gaslighting of men who can't find a woman: "he must be evil if he doesn't have a woman", like bro, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:40 PM
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You don't struggle not because of you having realistic standards, but because men have low standards of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:28 PM
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So basically you saying money value more than love?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:27 PM
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How the hell is not being able to get = unrealistic??? Have you ever thought that women are the unrealistic ones who always seem to want a man way above themselves and refusing to date men their level?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:25 PM
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Women unrealistic expectations: being tall, rich, handsome, funny, charismatic, confident and 100 other qualities. Men's unrealistic expectations: not being fat and being kind
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:03 PM
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It's AI bro.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 12:10 PM
1

And yet, a video as disgusting as this one does not make in the news because people do not give two shits about men being abused.
/r/MensRights10/04/26 12:31 PM
2

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:45 AM
1

Okay, didn't really heard of that before so I doubt it's that common.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:56 PM
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Nope, not my problem. I don't see women fighting for men's draft, I don't see women fighting for men's high suicide rate, I don't see women fighting for men losing custody of their child, I don't see women fighting for men losing half their stuff after a divorce. So the answer is no, I wouldn't fight for it, just because feminists and women don't fight for mens rights either in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:55 PM
1

Raping your spouse? So what, you mean she is your spouse but doesn't want to have sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:51 PM
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Not free to choose her? So I can be given a landwhale as well? No thanks. I am entitled, but cannot choose her? So I can reject them as well I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:50 PM
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If she's not attracted to me, then the sex would be pointless and awful. I don't want to force a woman to have sex with me, I want it to be mutual attractiveness. But in that kind of world, womens standards will shift drastically anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:48 PM
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No, I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:47 PM
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I don't understand the marital rape bit, but whatever. I personally wouldn't want a wife that is not attracted to me, so no, I wouldn't force any woman to be with me if she is not attracted to me but I wouldn't fight against this system either cause it's not my problem. Same way how feminists don't fight for mens rights and men's problems cause it is not their problem. Feminists laugh at male loneliness epidemic like it's some kind of joke so why would I fight against this system if women aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:21 PM
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Marital rape? What? You guys are using some gen z non sense, explain to an older guy what you mean by marital rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:15 PM
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Is this supposed to be a gatcha question? Depends what you mean by not being sexually free.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:05 PM
1

Again with the take that "most men want top women" like, where you getting that from? Most men know their self value and thus don't expect too much expect for a woman who is at their level. Most men want good women, and by good women I mean morally good, who don't give a shit about looks and money, who want true and genuine love, who have high values and virtues in life. Anybody else who puts so much value in looks and career is just a shallow a-hole, and most men don't want that. Most men are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:27 PM
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It does though, cause many young inexperienced men often listen to what women say, which is their first mistake into the dating world. Another mistake is taking dating advice from women. Women often times lie what they want, like I said, just to seem good moral people, but reality is, women are very shallow when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:19 PM
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Men do not misinterpret it, women just lie about what they want. In order to look morally good, women often lie what they want in men and generally speaking, they always describe this good man who respects women and treats people nice. Truth is, women do not respond well to this kind of men. They want a man who is a question mark, who is a challenge, who keeps them guessing all the time. They want adventure and thrills, not kindness and peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:08 PM
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The men's main issue is that women would tolerate absolute anything for a rude hot tall asshole just because while women would make a good guy's life a nightmare if he dares forgetting her birthday or whatever. Not just that, but women would often settle for the good guy just because he is the safe option, not because she loves him or cares about him. Unattractive men have the end short of the stick no matter how good they are, cause personality is absolute zero for both hookups and relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:38 PM
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I never seen a woman being romantic ever. They are the once always expecting romance but seeing one acting romantic? Never. They very often confuse romance with lust and thus they act lustful while men are doing the following: opening doors, buying flowers or chocolates, pulling the chair, opening the car door, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:18 PM
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It's biological, a woman listening to a man's leadership is pretty hot. To me at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:35 PM
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Not sure what red pillers you listened to but most I listened to called themselves a loser in the past. Most of them admitted their failures and learned and adapted from them. Doing nothing and expecting change just for your personality doesn't cut it. Real change is what they promote like getting money and getting in shape, which is something women respond to real well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:30 PM
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Statistic show on tinder that men swipe left on 50% of women while women swipe left on 95% of men. Dating for looks certainly benefits women because who wouldn't want to have sex with someone they are actually attracted to? Most men do not even have sex with women they are attracted to, but sex is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:52 AM
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But fat and ugly men don't grab anything, that's the point. Fat and ugly women still can get men who are above them in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:16 AM
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Exceptions exist, true, but to most men this kind of women are physically unattractive and yet most men would ignore that if it means having a loyal wife and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:04 AM
2

And yet many women still sleep with such men if they are attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:02 AM
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This makes literally no sense. If even fat and ugly women get men, doesn't that mean that some men do care about personality and not looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:01 AM
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Neah, I am sure one would say "but giving birth is more painful".
/r/MensRights03/03/26 01:39 PM
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Because women hate having the attention taken away from them. They love playing the victim, they think only they have problems and only they matter and should matter. No offense to women, but too many of them are such narcissists and I blame feminism for that.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 01:38 PM
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I don't think he refer to asexual or lesbian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:33 PM
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I would say it's a society problem. Attractiveness is what media decides. Look how much they promoted over the years fat women. You wouldn't see that in the 80s and 90s, but now men are attracted to "thick women" because of the exposure of fat women. However, when it comes to men, media exposes women only the hottest men and women's perception goes so bad, they think even Superman himself is mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:33 PM
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Educated people understand that childhood traumas can come into play. Educated people can also tell who is a red flag easily. Narcissists, abusers, aggressive men are not able to hide their true self forever. If you don't have heart signs covering your eyes, you can eaisly see. Is he bullying people? Red flag. Is he awful with his parents for no reason? Red flag. Is he awful with his friends? Red flag. Many women tend to ignore red flags when the guy is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:29 PM
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if you see how the average men of nowadays is behaving and dressing.. The behaviour doesn't matter because if a man is acting like shit but is a 10/10 looks, he will still get laid. Just look around on how many women complain about bad men and those men happen to be attractive. Congrats, you won the lottery. Would you advise every single person to also cash in lottery tickets just because it so happened you won the lottery?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:19 AM
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Tolerating nonsense = not dating an average man as an average woman. Gotta be 3 points higher at least, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:12 AM
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Women are far more fierce competitors because they are competing for a small portion of top men. Men however? They compete for most women, and if they feel it's not worth it, they back out. We have far more men backing out and that is proven through how many men come to dating events.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:09 AM
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Nice way of disregarding every single point I made. Guess this is the part where you make me the villain cause you are all out of logical, or in your case, illogical arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:04 AM
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I'm not insulting you. I'm pointing out the absurdity of framing this as some sort of oppressive system. It is, you just choose to not see it because it doesn't affect you. But when you exaggerate the severity of this in order to create false equivalencies, you risk alienating the very people (like me) who are naturally inclined to defend you. You were not inclined to defend anyone plus like I said, you don't care cause it doesn't affect you, such is human nature. Calling someone short is rude. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:34 PM
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A regular person would tell you to stop going in a lions cage if the lion keeps hurting you. Women choosing an abusive man is like literally walking willingly in a lions cage, thinking they can "change him".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:23 PM
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You literally have comments suggesting anyone who is into fat women is brainwashed and those comments have upvotes. Because it's true, you literally have media that promotes fat women all around, calling famous fat women gorgeous and beautiful. When was the last time media promoted short men as beautiful? And in the body positivity movement is literally just fat women promoting fatness, I never saw them promoting short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:12 PM
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They're not married because they don't want to. Why sleep with one woman when they can sleep with a different one every week?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:08 PM
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Who chose those men and who slept with those men? Didn't you say women care for personality? How can you not tell that someone is aggressive before letting them have sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:07 PM
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When you literally consider a person less than you because of a certain factor, that IS DISCRIMINATION. Whether you think you are better than someone because you are taller or whiter, is the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:06 PM
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You think we are not denied certain things because of our height like job opportunities or romance opportunities?You think we are not discriminated against and being bullied for it and when we do fight back you insult us?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:05 PM
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How is it an insult? If men don't care about a woman's looks, then doesn't that imply that they care about more than looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:58 PM
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How would you know its most women? Because I see statistics of women complaining all the time that there are no good men, that they've been abused, beaten and manipulated by men. If women would really go for personality, then these domestic violence statistics would've been so much lower. If a woman is knowingly with a shitty guy, then why would anyone want a woman like that? She’s either shitty or unstable. Most modern women don't give a shit about personality if you are attractive. If theyre c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:24 PM
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It's not that many men, it's just the top men that you pay attention too while you ignore the bottom 80% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:20 PM
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was told I was the ugliest race of women….and I still dont care. It hasnt stopped me from getting guys. You really think that is a flex? Men will sleep with ANY WOMAN, and I really mean ANY WOMAN, of any race and size.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:19 PM
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Women get called ugly and fragile/sensitive all of the time. And whoever does that gets socially ostracized. It had became socially acceptable to insult men while it is unacceptable to insult women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:17 PM
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Stop being so sensitive. You're just the same as everyone else on the planet. Someone telling you a hard truth isn't bigotry dude You gonna say the same thing to black people who faced racism? How about LGBT people who faced transphobia or homophobia? It's so easy and acceptable to say that kind of shit to ugly and short men but never okay to say this to other groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:16 PM
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And I've been insulted for my race, a race historically dehumanized. And? Being insulted for race is not socially acceptable. Insulting short men still is socially acceptable, that's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:15 PM
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Then why most women still sleep with shitty men that treat men like crap? Oh right, cause those women are actually physically attracted to those men and don't give two shits about their personalities until is too late. Also, did you just found an excuse to use "Napoleon syndrome" and "small dick energy" as insults for men? Cause that's how it feels like it. Aren't women way more obsessed with attention than men though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:13 PM
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Asking women to pay for dates is a sure way to get slapped by them, insulted or even accused of God knows what.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:10 PM
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Because I have talked to many of them. And the ones I have talked to are genuinely jealous of the men who pump and dump women Ok, and I have talked to many women and they were all shallow and bitchy. Is it fair for me to assume all women are like that? Not all men think they way you think they are and yes, some men think it's unfair when they get treated bad for something they cannot control and they think it's also unfair that despite their best efforts and morals, the bad guy wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:59 PM
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but the question is why then women are blamed to be attracted to attractive guys? Because women don't say what they really want. If they wouldn't lie and then complain about those men, then no one would've had an issue about it. They say "I want a guy who treats me right and I don't care about looks" and lol and behold she is with an ex attractive convict, 6'5 with who treats her bad and then complains that all men are shit because of her shitty choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:53 PM
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Why make assumptions about those men if you don't know them? How do you know what they will do or what they're thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:48 PM
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The issue is that i actually expect good treatment from attractive guy because he has choices and he can choose someone that he likes, That's false, since he has options that means he doesn't have to put any effort in because he can always get another woman. And that is a huge assumption about ugly men, holly shit. Sounds to me you are just inventing an excuse for why you don't like ugly men. Just say it that you are not physically attracted to them, it's not that deep. And sure, women don't rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:47 PM
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There is a difference between always having options all your life and just starting to have options. Men who know how it is to not have options are thinking way differently compared to men who never knew how it is to have 0 options. Finally obtaining a woman after years of struggle makes you wanna keep that woman and treat her right, making sure she never leaves. But if you are a Chad with options you know you just can always get another woman any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:43 PM
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For how long must a man try till he gets fed up with it? I had been on constant improving for 15 years: got better clothes, better cologne, go to he gym for years, make more money (till 2 years ago when my mother got sick and now I am caring for her), got more social, for more hobbies and so on. Still 0 relationships. Why? Because I don't get a chance. Looks is a threshold which if you don't pass it, women won't speak to you or even acknowledge your existence. Just improving is not enough for wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:26 AM
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Of course you will refuse to answer. You wanna know how many women I rejected? 0 and I still had 0 relationships. Why is it always the man's fault? Are women always perfect and NEVER EVER make mistakes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:11 AM
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Most men in the dating world are good but most men are very lonely and ignored by women just because they don't stand up to your ridiculous standards. Here's a question: how many men you rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:30 PM
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I got a better solution: men should go to escorts. At least we pay something AND get something in return too, not just feed your fat bellies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:13 PM
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Or be better women? Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:12 PM
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Easy for you to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:08 PM
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I don't judge all women either, read above. I said MOST.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:07 PM
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We don't fantasize, it's what most modern women do. And yes, you can be likeable and a woman will still choose multiple men. Modern women gets bored very quickly so she needs variety: a man for good sex, a man for emotional support, a man for luxury and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:06 PM
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No, we won't if we feel used.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:02 PM
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You can thank your fellow women for refusing to date men who don't pay for the dates. Remember the viral cheesecake factory video? Yeah, most women are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:01 PM
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The average man may not be rich enough, but if a woman use man number #1, then man #2, man #3 and so on, it adds up. Women can have a roster of men paying for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:24 PM
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The only reason men pay for dates is to have a second one. In general, women want the man to pay, and no, a walk in the park won't cut it for most women. I never seen a woman being fine with a walk in a park as a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:23 PM
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Act of sex can be act of love depending who you are doing it with. Sex can be be two different things, you know that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:32 AM
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Classic lillith take :)). You really don't understand that men can have sex with women they don't care about and not feel love for them but they can also have sex with women they do care about and feel love for them. What is the difference between loving a spouse and loving a friend or a family member? Sexual intimacy!!! Sorry, but if me and my spouse don't have any sexual in intimacy because she has no sexual desire, then she is no better than a friend or family member and will be treated as su…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:29 AM
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I am working on myself my whole life. I will always have mental illness no matter what, it's just a matter of controlling it, which I am doing it when I am around people. When am I gonna be enough? Constantly improving myself doesn't necessarily means I will get a woman, because there are some things I cannot change.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 10:27 PM
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Well, I have been improving continuously since I was 18, and I am 35 now. When is the time that I can tell myself "I am good enough?" When is the time where I don't have to put so much pressure on myself to be better and better? And how can I learn to communicate with women if women don't want to communicate with me? I need practice in order to learn, right? And I cannot learn it of women refuse to talk to me.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 01:36 PM
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I know I am not perfect and women have flaws too. We should accept ourselves with our imperfections because perfection doesn't exist. I will never dress perfect or look perfect or always know what to say. I am human and I make mistakes, but my intentions are pure and genuine. If people wanna misunderstand my intentions, then that's on them.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 12:49 PM
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I know plenty, plus the internet is full of them. I been gaslighted to believe that my failures come from my bad personality and not my looks (even though I get rejected instantly before getting the chance to talk).
/r/MensRights20/02/26 12:33 PM
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Well women keep on saying that they care about looks and sometimes I do wanna believe that. But experience shows me otherwise.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 10:45 AM
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Why is this news? Lol, we've been living under matriarchy for the longest of time. Men are dying by their own hands and society just doesn't give a shit.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 10:28 AM
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Nothing. The only benefits we have are due to nature like strength. But any other benefits from society? Nope, none. Main cause of death for men is SUICIDE, so you know society is fucked up.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 10:09 AM
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In UK is pretty common to smile though when talking to other people though, especially in dates. The women were smiling too, even if it was fake. Well my mother did tried finding another man, but she is old and crippled and what man wants that kind of woman? I went to therapy 4 times and it made my situation worse. I will never go to therapy again. Therapists are some of the worst people I met.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 06:20 PM
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When I read the title I was like "what is lillith on about now"? Was not disappointed. Anyway, a man can gladly wait for sex for a woman he is emotionally attached to. But also, if that man finds out you with old sex with him but not with ever men, then he can be rightfully upset with the woman. Why should he, a man who pays for the dates, who gives the woman flowers, who treats her like a princess should wait 5 months for sex while another guy who treated her like crap got sex in 2 days? How is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:17 PM
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Wife and kids are not stress for me. They are an additional happiness for me.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 06:09 PM
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I was in my best behaviour. I was smiling, cheerful and was giving off good vibes. I doubt they can read minds. It was just 5 mins, you cannot tell how a person is in 5 minutes. Nope, never been in a relationship despite my best efforts My dad is dead since 2008 and ever since then we were drowning in debt cause of him. My mom worked herself so much that she became disabled, so now I take care of her.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 06:08 PM
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If the woman isn’t worthy, why he still consider Sleeping with her? He won't if he wants a wife. Really, is this „if a woman is worthy” a woman problem? Eeem, yes? A man cannot make a woman worthy, only a woman can make herself worthy just like how a man is making himself worthy. We men have to be masculine, providers and protectors to be worthy of a woman and a woman has to be feminine, caring and gentle to be worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:15 PM
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It’s just how it is. Literally, man behave the best in the first stage of relationship cause he wants to prove his value. Every human being wants to give a good first impression whether it's at a date or job interview. Again, that's not how it works of the man is a good man. If the woman is worthy, the man will keep showing interest. If that happened to you, I am sorry to say but it just means you are a boring woman and not valuable enough to be kept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:55 AM
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Good, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:31 AM
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Don't need a video, I lived my own experiences and my experiences are my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:13 AM
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Well, of you are told your whole life that you are useless, evil and all of that, you start believing it yourself.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 10:18 AM
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why aren't some men desired physically and what could they do change that with relatively little effort?" They cannot change anything if it's in their genes. If they are short, they can't change that, if they have a weak jaw, that cannot be changed either. Some physical aspects of men cannot be changed and women have already set their physical preferences because media glorifies it. Media glorified fat women, and what impact that had? Men got brainwashed to be attracted to fat women. So you see,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:10 AM
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Don't understand what relevance your comment has with the one above but I will answer your questions Do you do all the stuff that women (and many men as well) do to be desired though? To my abilities, yes. I go to the gym, I groom, I dress nice, I eat healthy, I work hard. Despite all of my efforts I am still single and struggle to find a woman. Why? Cause I am still 5'3 and my face is still average. In my experience, women don't give you a chance to find out about your personality unless you ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:04 AM
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when a man get sex he starts becoming lazy. It literally is not „benefit” woman at all. Not every man is your ex and not every woman is asexual or lesbian. Most women are heterosexual and they do desire and crave for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:55 AM
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Oh boy, here we go again with a hot take of lillith. The thing is that yes, we men desire sex a lot when we don't regularly have it. But if we do have it regularly, then we want something more intimate, we want romance and love with the woman. We want to be desired physically a lot more than we want sex. We can pay for sex as me , but it definetly doesn't feel the same as being desired. Having sex with a prostitute feels empty, shallow, and the prostitutes bad attitude can even cause us to lose …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:09 AM
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Why aren’t you as excited about stuff nowadays? Depression does that to you. Every morning when I wake up I just feel hopeless, like trapped in a loop in which I just work, go to the gym, go home, eat, sleep, repeat, every single day. Nothing different, nothing that makes me happy or smile. I am a gamer since I was young, gaming helped me a lot when I struggling a lot in life. It helped my mental health a bit and it still helps from time to time when good games actually come out. I get it and I …
/r/MensRights19/02/26 12:01 AM
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I don't really have friends around me unfortunately. Not sure what change I should apply, I tried speed dating to cause that change, but it left me more disappointed.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 11:57 PM
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I tried therapy 4 times but it made things worse the therapists I had were some of the worse people I ever talked too. Nothing but full of criticism and hate.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 10:01 PM
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Nice. This is my second one and I got 0 matches every time.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 10:00 PM
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Thank you and I use a straight bar. Guess I could try calisthenics. They look fun and cool and would love to try some of those tricks. I rarely get excited for anything nowadays. I guess I am slightly excited for the new resident evil game.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 09:59 PM
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I had been dealing with mental health struggles ever since I was a child. When I am with people I am alright and when I lead a happy life I am even better. Sometimes I get sad but when things go well, I am happy and a fun person to be around. Very rarely I was sad around other people. I am pretty sure I will be alright with a woman by my side.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 09:57 PM
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Couldn't agree more, I mean, I thought therapists supposed to be empathetic but they are some of the less empathetic people I ever see .
/r/MensRights18/02/26 09:54 PM
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I am not forcing any woman into anything. I will make her fully aware of how I am, with all the good and the bad. If you truly love someone and care for someone you take the good with the bad. Like for example, if she is a single mother of 3 kids, I will take that baggage upon me if I truly love her.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 09:53 PM
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I am fully aware of all the risks and factors and I am prepared for what a relationship entails. I will offer the woman I love all I got, as I hope she will do the same.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 09:52 PM
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I did therapy with 4 different therapists and they made me feel worse. Nothing but victim blaming and criticising me. It's the biggest scam in my opinion and I won't ever return to therapy ever again.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:23 PM
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I don't have the necessary time for more hobbies. I care for a mom and work 50 plus hours a week. I cannot fit other hobbies in there.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:22 PM
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how can you fit a relationship in there? If a woman likes me, it gives me hope and happiness. I can fit a relationship in there if I feel some joy or positive feeling for once.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:21 PM
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I tried hobbies like gaming, gym, cycling and hiking. All of these hobbies give me nothing now. I feel empty when I do these and they give me no joy at all. I just feel extremely lonely and hopeless.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:19 PM
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I tried almost every main stream dating app, including match and still got nothing from it. I do think of my mom, but every time when I see a train passing, I feel the urge to jump in front of it, it's scary.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:17 PM
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Trust me, I tried everything: gym, cycling, gaming, outdoor activities. And all of these just didn't help that much. It helped at first, but every hobby of mine just became stale now and gives me no joy anymore.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:16 PM
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I went to 4 different therapists and it made me feel worse. They almost mocked me and blamed me for my problems, plus one of my therapists even said to "man the fuck up". So no thanks, therapy for me is a big scam.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:14 PM
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I been gyming for many years and while it was great at first, overtime I started to get tired of it. It just feels the same thing over and over, plus my job also requires lots of physical effort, so my body just screams that is exhausted. I am 35 so I am not young anymore. I am not a religious man so I don't go to church. Plus, I met many Christians and they are some of the most judgemental people I ever met.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:13 PM
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Honestly I done all of these things except going for the church. Been going to the gym for many years but lost interest in it lately cause I still feel lonely, depressed and overall unhappy. Gym just doesn't make me happy anymore. If it works for you, great, happy for you, but it doesn't work for me anymore cause my soul craves for more.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:11 PM
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I do kg, and I deadlifted 120 kg in January ( I am 58 kg). But I lost interest even in the gym. I feel just very lonely and sad. Feels like I am in a never ending loop of the same thing over and over.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:09 PM
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Why go so many times if you matched with none every time?
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:06 PM
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i think you should take it one step at a time and fix what you can fix. And how can I fix caring for a sick mom? Why can't I try and find love even in my situation? Should I wait till she dies so I can be qualified to find love?
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:05 PM
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To me personally it is, cause getting friendships with men is pretty easy when you're younger. Admittedly it's harder when you're older cause everybody is getting married and all that.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 04:03 PM
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Exceptions will always exist in every aspect of life. You can get rich too from playing the lottery, but that's not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:29 AM
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Assuming that women should never change for a man is a double standard, don't you think? How come it's always a man's job to change but never a woman's job to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:42 AM
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Well, the redpill still exists because many men see in real life and online that it works. We are sick and tired of these anecdotes of women like "I know these ugly poor men having women" or "My girlfriends date these ugly men" and so on. These stories are just that: stories. Men observe that these stories are lies because they see what women actually respond to. And they respond well to looks and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:40 AM
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Just another proof that most modern women (not all) lack empathy towards all types of men, including disabled one. Not just that, but they think that ANY NAME in the Epstein files means pedo. No, it doesn't Epstein had many friends and connections, some fo the most powerful and richest people, doesn't mean they were all pedo, some were strict business and that's it. But yeah,I am in no way shocked that yhe most "empathetic sex" has 0 empathy and all of the sudden they accuse disable men of haras…
/r/MensRights17/02/26 12:31 AM
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It is an attack when you are like "how dare you having standards".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:16 PM
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It's funny to me how mens standards are considered bad when in reality they seem super normal. Like how the fuck is it bad to not want sluts or gold diggers? Can't make this shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:51 AM
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The fact that she is aromantic is the main cause of her suffering. The fact that she isn't capable to emotionally connect with men is the reason she found only scummy men like her ex who was a predator. It's also implied that she tried to find any reason to justify her man hatred.
/r/MensRights14/02/26 05:20 AM
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Friends will not be always there for you because their priority are their family, not you. Friends change overtime once they grow up as a person, once they get a successful career, once they have their own family. You literally cannot be physically intimate with a friend, we are mammals, we crave physical intimacy and touch and you literally cannot do that with friends. Plus, there is a unique feeling once the opposite sex wants you and feels attracted to you. I feel like you will never understa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:46 PM
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Ah yes, there is nothing like me and my friends being emotionally intimate with each other as a guy. Just say you're aromantic and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:15 PM
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That's apex fallacy, you are talking about 0.0001% of the white male population while others suffer in silence. Describe oppression? Cause for the fact that most suicides are men, that most dangerous jobs are done by men, that most homeless people are men and most homicides are men I would say that is pretty much oppression. And let's not forget to mention how accepted it is to hate men while it cannot be said the same about hating women. And like I said, I am not saying that their experiences a…
/r/MensRights02/02/26 11:59 AM
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I am trying to make a point and you here are not getting it. I am trying to say that jus like how people back then didn't cared or even thought that black people had feelings, the same is with men, especially white straight men. I am not saying men and black people go through the same exact things, but considering how nobody not only cares about white men, but they also just inherently hate them with no consequences, I would say that the suffering is somewhat similar. Think about it: how mentall…
/r/MensRights02/02/26 10:01 AM
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Kinda hard to do that when women are taking control over men's spaces, when men are accused left and right of awful things they didn't do, when no one cares about men's problems when they open up and so on. Saying that men can take care of themselves in this era when man hating is so well accepted is like saying black people can take care of themselves in 1800s.
/r/MensRights02/02/26 09:55 AM
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Can you say though? Can't say wrong answer, downvote me and not saying why.
/r/MensRights02/02/26 09:50 AM
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I think a more straight answer is that no one cares for men. People are so focused on women's suffering that they forgot about men altogether even though women are more privileged than they ever been.
/r/MensRights02/02/26 09:30 AM
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Their boobs. Yeah, that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:19 AM
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The pattern happens a lot because good looking men are never hold accountable for their actions and they get away with it while ugly men, if they fuck up their only chance, they might not get another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:12 PM
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That's what happens when you go for looks only. Self inflicted if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:45 PM
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Would say so too, I mean when you meet that many bad and deranged people in a short time, that says a lot more about you as a person. Like, I met a handful of bad people in my life too, but in the span of 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:14 AM
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You made the first mistake to go to therapy. Therapy is the biggest scam in modern society, you literally pay for empathy when empathy should come from the heart, not by pouring money in.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 10:11 AM
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Or unless she intentionally dates the most obvious walking red flags out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:08 AM
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What kind of area do you live that you meet such men? That is definitely not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:55 AM
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Then don't engage in consensual activity that makes babies or use protection: problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:36 AM
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No man denies that misoginy doesn't exist, it just isn't as bad or accepted as you women think it is. You often confuse criticism with misoginy, thinking that any man that calls out a woman's bad behaviour is misoginy. When you are used with praise and compliments so much, you think valid criticism is oppression. Any demographic group would get offended when you call their whole group or most of them misoginists, rapists or aggressors. You women have the best and easiest lives you ever had in hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:25 AM
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You assume that most average men are single because they don't respect women, correct? That's just blaming men without having a shroud of evidence that all those average men or that even most are bad. But we have plenty of evidence of the amount of women complaining of their partners being abusive, cheaters, wife beaters, etc. If women really cared about personality, then there wouldn't be so many of them in abusive relationships, and I don't wanna hear "oh, those men pretended to be nice", well…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:40 AM
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Be happy you realized this sooner than later. I was 30 when I realized what you did but then again, I didn't have access to as much information as you do now and to be fair, after dating apps and social media received a huge boom, it got worse. So be glad young man that you realized how soulless most (not all) women are.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 10:22 AM
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But sex is the ultimate form of physical affection, basically you both appear the most vulnerable and you both are aroused to each other's body and character. And if the sex is consensual and non transactional, then it's the purest form of affection.
/r/MensRights20/01/26 01:21 AM
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We needed a study for this? Whether you wanna admit it or not, sex is one of the most joyful things a human being can experience and most men need to struggle so much to obtain sex
/r/MensRights20/01/26 01:16 AM
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Wow, you surely showed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:26 AM
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Is there such a thing? Probably only if she is deformed, even the fattest of women can get a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:51 PM
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School, the reason why masculinity is dying is because of too many female teachers.
/r/MensRights16/01/26 01:05 AM
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Best comment on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:29 PM
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To be fair, the no sex act already exists unintentionally.
/r/MensRights13/01/26 06:24 PM
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So 100k is not an impressive income anymore? What the hell is going on there in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:22 PM
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I specified "in their right mind".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:22 AM
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. No wasting money on dates Women don't waste money on dates anyway. And I would say it will get worse for all people in general, not just men. Most men would seek out AI GFS anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:07 PM
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There is still a small chance a single mother or fat fugly woman would settle for them. But AI will take away even that small chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:34 PM
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Things will only get worse for the unattractive men, that's it, and no one cares about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:52 PM
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Nobody in their right mind is calling any man a simp for treating their partner right. You are a simp if you treat a complete stranger right in spite of the fact that they ignore you. You are also a simp if you treat a toxic partner right. Treating someone deserving right is not being a simp. Learn what the term actually means and ignore the idiots who misuse the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:49 PM
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Lillith has always been this way and she is beyond delusional about how reality works, especially a man's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 06:55 PM
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Weeks? Try months or years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:46 AM
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I did, plenty of times, and you know who has the courage to do it? Men with options, who rarely got a no. And you know who don't have the courage to do that? Average or sub average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:40 AM
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The problem is you assume men who complain about it never approached ever or never tried. They did, which is why they feel lonely and refuse to approach women any more. Women wanna be approached only by men they are attracted to, while also rejecting the rest of the men with more than just a simple no. Men get either an "ew" or are slapped or spit on or are just humiliated when they try to approach women. I know that happened to me which is why I refuse to approach women anymore. Being an averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:35 AM
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The major problem is that misandry is accepted in society and is not condemned enough. You see posts everywhere across social media of women bashing men and the media is silent but one misoginist post makes the headlines.
/r/MensRights11/01/26 10:22 AM
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Yet another one who doesn't comprehend what the redpill is. You see the truth as "bashing women" when in reality we just share what women actually respond to. We don't care what they want or what they think they want, we care what they respond to, that's how we actually adapt to it and that's how we know what we need to do to attract women. Obviously your world is different because both you and your husband are autistic, but that's not how the majority of the world works. Not all men and women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:13 AM
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It's still about respecting boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:08 PM
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You make no sense. There are different behaviours you have when you are single and those behaviours should change, for example I liked going to the strip club and erotic massages when I was single. Should I still go to those places after I got a relationship? No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:40 PM
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It's about boundaries, that's all. If you were like that before that's okay cause you were alone. But now when you have a husband you should change your attitude. People have different behaviours when they're single compared to when they're in a relationship. So, if he has those boundaries then you should respect them cause your body is not for others to see except for his eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:39 PM
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Truth hurts, don't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:01 AM
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It is simple, but it's not about finding someone with the same goals, women just want hot or rich dudes, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:32 AM
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I am employed for 17 years and I seen the dumbest accusations ever of sexual harassment that had been proven wrong in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:53 PM
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Slave masters? What drugs you on mate? Women are the most privileged and protected group in modern day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:09 PM
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I thought it did?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:33 PM
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Women don't care about men's issue at all. Even amber heard still has supporters despite all the shit she has done.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:21 PM
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It is though, the reason why metoo movement stopped existing because even male coworkers refused to work with female coworkers cause a woman can simply falsely accused a man out of spite and be instantly believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:08 PM
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It is with women nowadays. They classify almost any minor interaction with them as SA if you are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:53 PM
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That's a quick way to be accused of SA.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:36 PM
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Not all redpill believers are high value, I am certainly not because I haven't reached that level yet. If you reach great wealth, status or even achieve great looks then you are high value. And many redpill believers get either many women or high value women and many of redpill believers have two choices: either fuck many women or get a great wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:25 PM
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If rps are becoming high value, then their options increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:15 PM
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Again, you are projecting bro, we are not saying we hate single moms, we are not even saying we won't date single moms if the circumstances are right, we are saying their dating pool is far lower than when she was younger and not a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:51 PM
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Nope, according to reality as well, have a sister who had shit tons of matches and dms and yet she acts like she cannot find a man at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:48 PM
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Providing is leading.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:53 PM
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As someone who goes to prostitutes a few times a year, I say make it legal so that sexless men can operate normally. Like it or not, but sexlessness really can fuck your mental health quite a bit. I personally would've been a 35 year old virgin if it wasn't for escorts and thanks to sex, my mental health ain't totally fucked up. So yeah. Make it legal, you will see a huge drop in men's suicide and mental health and not just that, but you'll see a huge drop in SA as well so it's a win win for eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:12 PM
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In Romania is the same thing, women there are let off easily but the men who want to buy her services can get in serious trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:09 PM
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When women say they want to be led, they basically mean they want a rich man to keep them home so that they can pretend to be a house wife. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:08 PM
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Watch the whole podcast, he didn't lose it because that woman mentioned that his wife had 3 kids with different men, he lost it because that woman called his wife a whore indirectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:05 PM
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No thanks dude, advertise your book somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:39 AM
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He never once said he wanted sex for charity my guy, you are just making shit up just ot shit on him. And you at least got women, he hasn't after constant rejections. There is a difference between getting rejected sometimes and getting rejected all the time. You can stay here and make guesses on why he gets rejected all the time but the truth is: you and I will never know the real reason cause we are not him and making baseless assumptions will not help him besides your own ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:31 AM
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Non religious men don't care about that, but they do care if you have a high body count. If you had 50 partners at 25 then that is an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:55 AM
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They're statements are the most obvious one in the world like saying the sky is blue or the grass is green.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:03 AM
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As a guy who had sex with just escorts, I get it man, and I get you. Ignore these fucking losers who make fun of you cause they are just privileged assholes that have no idea what they talk about. Sexless men are real, I am also sexless by definition because I had sex with JUST ESCORTS. If I hadn't I would've been a 35 year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:55 AM
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I love when people make assumptions like this. You don't know the guy dude or the circumstances of how he is rejected and why
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:52 AM
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Of course you can pay for sex but not all men are willing to pay for just hollow sex, for some men sex has more meaning and it's meant to have it with a partner you actually have feelings for. I am a 35 year old man who had sex only with escorts. Most escorts just looked bored and wanted to be over with, you think men enjoy having sex with escorts that are disgusted by them and doing it for money? No. Men want to feel attractive too and want to feel wanted by women sexually too. Having sex by ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:50 AM
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And woman who is that attractive also wants a guy the same level of attractiveness, and those men have options, LOOOOTS PF OPTIONS and you think they will choose an single mom or a young hottie with no kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:45 AM
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Only if they want the partner THEY WANT. Nobody is saying these women are struggling finding a man, but they are struggling finding the man THEY WANT.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:40 AM
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An average woman has the same dating pool options as a male celebrity. Doesn't mean these women are so desirable, it means men are more desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:39 AM
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Every woman's dating pool is larger than every mans. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:38 AM
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Nobody in the red pill community is saying it's impossible for single moms to date. But their pool of men is limited plus considering that these women still have high standards, it's very unlikely they will meet the man they actually want. Unlikely BUT not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:37 AM
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Listen, my intentions with all the women I befriended were very clear, but they chose to reject me either politely or just ignore me or ghost me. Again, nothing wrong with admitting that at first sight for attraction women need either looks or money from a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:16 PM
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That is a bad analogy bro. If I am good at befriending women, I would've been a good bf too, if I was physically attractive, which I am not. Why is it so hard to admit that women are attracted to superficial things at first sight?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:12 PM
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My social skills are good, but except for friendships with women, it didn't get me anything else because women aren't attractive to me. So I must give them something to be attracted to me like status or money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:34 PM
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Well I have to mention I have been caring for my mother for the past 3 years so I cant say I made major progression, but I am working on it: going to the gym, making as much money as I can, trying to get into more hobbies and activities, etc. My circumstances don't allow me to evolve quick and it's far more important to care for my mother than impressing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:29 PM
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The idea is working, seen it many times working plus I did a few social experiments that proved me that RP is working. Its just that I haven't been able to fully apply it yet because I take care financially of my sick mother for the last 3 years and can't really improve when another person is fully dependent of me financially and physically. Plus, I had been blue pilled far longer than I was redpilled and it was a disaster. Lost money, self esteem, time and mental health when I was blue pilled. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:09 PM
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Around 30 years old when, despite all my effort to dress good and be more sociable and treating women like queens, it got me nowhere. On the contrary, it got me more disrespect than ever and even got used by many women when I was blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:06 PM
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Why you think are mysoginists?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:04 PM
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Yup, it is anecdotal, guy must be attractive is he really gets many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:03 PM
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I haven't reached that level yet, still need money, status and better myself more in the gym. Also, I did some experiments that proved me the red pill works like lied about my looks and money and women were all over me. So, I need to reach that level in order for the red pill to really work on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:40 PM
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For about 5 years. I haven't fully achieved the level I need to in order to have success with women. I am not rich yet nor do I have status yet. And I still improve in the gym as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:38 PM
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My "low standards" seem normal to me because of how I grew up, your "low standards" seem low because of your lifestyle as well. I don't dictate anything, but I can still have an opinion about it. If you look only for looks and riches, my opinion is you are shallow. If you leave a man because he lost a job you are again shallow. If you don't value true love, that's fine, but again, I am allowed an opinion on that, just like you have about my standards. It's all about the bubble you choose to live…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:38 PM
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Never had a relationship or a hook up even ever and I am 35. Yes, I am fully redpilled, I mean, do you expect a 35 year old guy with 0 women to be blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:43 PM
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I think it's sadder to find reasons to not be happy with what you have. If your only goal in life is to keep chasing for more and more, then you'll never be happy. That is the problem with women having options: they'll find even the tiniest thing to disqualify a man for being a good partner. Perfection doesn't exist, you aren't perfect and neither are the men. If men can easily accept imperfection then why can't women? Have you seen the memes that men can be happy with little things? Well, that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:12 AM
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what do you make of those men who are extremely single do you or they think it’s unfair they are single? Depends: some of them are frustrated and blame women, some think it's only their fault and deserve no love and others are in between. I meet more men who are in between: sometimes they do feel it's unfair when they get rejected over a hot tall prison convict, other times they don't care and try to make the best of it with what they can. I don’t know any women who would consider being honest, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:07 PM
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Yes I do, and while I believe absolutely every single human being has evil thoughts like racist of sexist thoughts, as long as they don't act on those thoughts, then that's all good. I met many great men in my life and I know they would be absolutely great partners to women in terms of how they would treat them. Sure, not many are rich, not many have status or the looks, but their morals are exactly what a woman would want: honest, never, never cheats, non violent, overall a good man. And I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:20 PM
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Because we know these men personally and we hang out with any type of guy no matter how ugly, poor or even socially awkward he is. Women tend to totally ignore these men because of the traits I just said. Have seen guy friend groups? There are all sort of variations there: nerdy guy, lady's man guy, gamer guy, sports guy, workaholic guy, super religious guy, etc. Men don't need their friends to have the same interests as them, they need to just be chill and fun to be around. Why do you think men…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:14 PM
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How about we teach those women to stop picking the drug dealers and ex convicts as their bfs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:29 PM
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And anyone can survive in a tiny cage with food and water for the rest of their life. it doesn't mean it won't affect their mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:49 AM
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So what were the women "actually saying" then? Why the heck would they choose a wild dangerous animal over an animal of their own species?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:45 AM
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No, they're not. Take a wild wolf, put a piece of meat in front of it and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:45 AM
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Law and order exists for a reason, we humans are animals in the very end and act on instinct. It's not just rape, but murder, theft, slavery, all of these would happen if we lived in a post apocalyptic society like in walking dead. Some men would do it, others wouldn't, but law and order is what stops all humans commiting crime even though they would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:41 AM
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Ok then. What about the man vs bear thing? Doesn't that imply that most women think most men are rapists since so many women answered bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:28 AM
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That's such fallacy, so just because I don't condone man hating propaganda it means I condone rape? Mate, everybody is responsible for their own safety, I personally wouldn't go by myself at night in a dark alley full of drug addicts, so why would a woman do then? When men say certain things they mean such shit could EASILY be avoided with smart choices. Sure, some of them couldn't, but not walking by yourself at night in the worst neighborhood ever is a good choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:26 AM
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Literally this trend mate. Find a video with this trend and read the comments. You're welcome, not gonna do all the research for you, you have Internet too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:23 AM
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Because they would face consequences that's why. If you think and say shit on the internet, it means you actually mean them and you say them because you face no consequences on internet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:21 AM
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Social media is full of such women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:21 AM
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The comparison is stupid because the trend involves domesticated dogs and domesticated dogs is equivalent to mentally sane men who got raised in healthy family households. Now take a wild wolf from the forest and put a piece of meat on front of him, you think he will stop cause you'll say so? No, he won't, and that's how rapists are, like wild wolves while most men are like those dogs in the videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:18 AM
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I really hate this manipulation tactic. "If you're not with us, you're against us" is basically what you're saying. This "campaign" has no place in becoming world wide or even existing because of two reasons: 1. Normal men will never do such things ever to women and thankfully 99% of.men wouldn't rape (even though you might not believe it). 2. You really think of a rapist sees this he will be like "oooh, they're right, I better stop raping this instance"? No, rapists are rapists because they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:16 AM
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The main purpose of rape is self gratification. They care for their own pleasure and not the other persons. And yes, power and control over the other also plays a role here but I wouldn't call this hatred towards women in general, more like indifference. Hatred is more targeted and personal, if a man rapes a woman he knows, that's hatred. If a man rapes random women, that's for self gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:11 AM
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The body has self reactions and the subconscious does its bidding. We as humans will never ever confess our deepest darkest thoughts anyway cause if we do, people's perception of us might change cause they think "oh, that's how they really are and think". No, that's not the case, thoughts and actions can be miles away, if we see a hot woman and we haven't had sex in ages, we're not gonna think "gosh, wish I could force her to have sex with me", no, instead we think "would be awesome if I COULD h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:08 AM
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By making this a trend it literally implies that most men are like that while less than 1% of me would think or act this way. If you make a trend for less than 1% of men, then you think most men are like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:03 AM
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No insults mate or you get reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:53 PM
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Your logic is extremely flawed my dude. Yes, humans have self control because many things that we want we don't get because we have self control, that includes things we might even need to survive like food and shelter. And this trend is stupid because a domesticated dog is the same as a human with self control who grew up in a healthy family unit. Now what if they took a wild wolf? Would that wolf have the same control? I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:52 PM
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Jesus Christ, your logic belongs in a museum. Ok, the thing is we are talking about a dog, domesticated dog, ok? Domesticated dog equals good man. So this experiment makes no sense anyway cause the equivalent of domesticated dogs is good men. Now, let's take a wild wolf, you think they wouldnt take the treat? Now the wild wolf can be considered the equivalent of rapists. Do you understand now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:43 PM
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Mate, you don't know me or the women in my life, so maybe don't assume everything based on your personal experiences, ok? Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:40 PM
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By we I mean us as humans. Morals and laws are what stopping us overall and thus we gain self control
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:39 PM
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Doesn't that apply to freedom, house, electricity, etc? We as humans need just need food and water to survive, that's it, nothing more, we might as well live in a cage and have food and water all our life. Men do need sex for several health and mental benefits. They will survive without it, yes, but the downsides of celibacy are are pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:38 PM
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Bruh, how the fuck you got to that conclusion from that comment? I swear only women can pull this shit off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:33 PM
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There are many things in life we want but don't get it because of self control whether that's sex, money, luxurious items, etc. We don't steal because of self control, we don't rape because of self control, we don't murder cause of self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:32 PM
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Oh trust me, they would if it happened to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:30 PM
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Do you think reddit or tiktok is then? None of it is if you think about it. But a trend is a trend still.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:22 PM
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I haven't come across any women in my life who got raped or sexually assaulted. Guess it doesn't exist, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:20 PM
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No I haven't, and I am here a lot, must be just in your head. Well, sex is something that people need, whether you agree to it or not. So taking sex by force is a matter of lack of self control. One in 3 is a third of men and 1 in 4 is still a lot. So if you have 4 males in your family, one of them is guaranteed a rapist then? What if you have 4 sons? This whole over generalisation of men will do nothing except seperaring the genders more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:19 PM
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I am not even that much online but I see it a lot on Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:11 PM
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I agree with the simps part but not conservatives. Conservatism is the best lifestyle for both parties cause both parties benefit a lot and it's the foundation of creating a family. Feminist on the other hand just promote man hating campaigns under the guise of "women's rights" when women already have all of the rights plus more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:10 PM
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Just say you cheated without really saying you cheated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:08 PM
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If you cut off intimacy then you just cut off 99% of the reason of why men want women. Sure, you can do that, but don't expect positive results, men aren't going to do shit for you for free
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:06 PM
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Not necessarily, it just means you love sex too much and got too many options. Most of the people who want exclusivity are usually people who don't have many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:04 PM
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We do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:02 AM
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As redpill, I understand what kind of man I am and understand that I am not desired to women because of my physical flaws. Thus, I need to focus on money and status to attract women. We redpillers understand what women desire in me and there is no point to tell women what to be attracted to because attraction is not a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:01 AM
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Jesus Christ, it just highlights that toys bring fulfillment to someone when they are at a right age. When you are a kid, you desire toys, those bring fulfillment. Now toys are not a necessity, but they still bring enjoyment and that enjoyment can turn you into a functional mentally healthy adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:08 PM
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False, men are far lonelier than women. If women want companionship, just go on any social media or dating apps, make posts, and voila, your dms will be full and of you cannot find companionship out of the hundreds of dms, well, guess who is the common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:52 AM
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You know what's a biggest mistake? Pretending that women are 100% blameless on the male loneliness epidemic when their standards are unrealistic and are treating unattractive men like utter garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:51 AM
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And increase the chances for false accusations? Fuck that, if you are unattractive, you're better off just using dating events (cause they cannot falsely accused you there) or dating apps, and maybe you'll get lucky one day. If not, then off abroad we go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:46 AM
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Women don't pay anything anyway, and if they will, usually there are two case scenarios that can happen: 1. If the guy is attractive and makes her pay, she will still go out with him 2. If the guy is average and makes her pay, she won't give him a second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:05 AM
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Going through youth without love and intimacy it's like going through childhood without toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:31 AM
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Keep dreaming honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:12 PM
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You also gotta realize that this is not desperation, not everyone values looks and other shallow things. Valuing someone's soul and character instead of looks does not equal desperation, it means you value something beyond lust and sex. Once you get to your 50s and 60s what do looks help you with? Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:05 PM
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They don't manage at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:53 PM
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Most men are average and even though they would love an ideal woman like that, they would still be fine with an average woman while most women wouldn't be fine with an average man. What most people refuse to accept is that women will reject a man for the most ridiculous things and it can be just one thing like outfit, hairstyle, height, etc. Men on the other hand can have a woman with 10 flaws, if she is nice and loving to him, he will love her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:18 PM
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The men are too busy providing though. How do you want the child or children to have all they need if the father isn't working more than 40 hours a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:08 PM
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Are people here still shocked that reddit hates men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:19 AM
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Because redpillers at least give advice that actually work, while other groups just constantly shame men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:18 PM
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He doesn't even lash out at all. He calmly says he doesn't want to hit and her huge ego gets bruised, that's all. She is not used to be rejected cause she think she is hot shit. Assuming that this video is real of course
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:15 PM
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Not in this case, lillith is very well known for gaslighting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:12 PM
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So is every other group in existence. Have you forgotten the hashtags shared by women? Hashtag killallmen or hashtag menaretrash? Men are bullied by almost every single demographic group in existence, the difference is that red pill gives you advice on how to get out from loser mentality while other groups want to keep you there or drive you to suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 10:44 AM
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Right now, the research supports my claim that men are lazy, work delegating shitheads Shoe us this so called research. Who the hell you think maintains society and all this infrastructure? I'll give you a hint: it's not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 10:39 AM
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All you do here is shitting on men and not once had you ever said anything positive about men. So yeah, us calling you a misandrist is correct since your history of posts suggests that strongly. And there are a few times that the words like misogynists or incels are heavily misused just to insult someone or gaslight them. Like mysoginist is used often times when a man criticises a woman fairly. Or Andrew Tate is called an incel just for saying uncomfortable truths about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 10:36 AM
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You can be a shitty person without being a criminal you know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 10:22 AM
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What the hell does gayer even means? Feminine? Emotional? Have no idea what you mean OP but women are definitely attracted to masculine traits so if she sees a man acting like a little bitch, she will run away
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:34 PM
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If I see her affectionate towards me and complimenting me, I am sold and hers forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:32 PM
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I did a couple of times, one of them was my sister and got asked what did I do, cause I must've done something wrong. Suffice to say, I never told a woman about these experiences ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:50 PM
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Park, work, social circles. No one criticised them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:43 PM
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Some of them happened in public, not just the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:40 PM
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That is a dumb question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:35 PM
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Got told eww, got told to wear high heels next time, got slapped on the face, got spitted on the face, got falsely accused for touching a woman (I didn't), got told to go home bilbo baggins and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:30 PM
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Oh no, women get fuckzoned, that's so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:27 PM
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Because I got rejected in the past in very humiliating ways. The worst thing a woman can say is not just "no" anymore. And I also got falsely accused of harassment by a random woman I approached in the club. Do you have any idea how scary that is to be falsely accused? Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:20 PM
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Literally women don't need social skills if they are the ones getting approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:13 PM
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No, it isn't. No matter how good a guy's social skills is, if a woman won't give him a chance to talk, it doesn't matter. Women reject men on the spot if they are not physically attracted to them and thus will never allow them to talk and show off their social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:12 PM
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They should have high standards only if they are also high value women. If they are ugly and fat, then go for men at your level, otherwise you end up alone and even rejecting really good men. It's like saying "I work at McDonald's but I will drive only Lamborghinis".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:06 PM
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Oh no, we can't have that, because then they will realize that incels are not actually evil mysoginistic pigs as they thought, just lonely antisocial men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:01 PM
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False men on average swipe right on 60% of women, which is a majority, but not all. And even if your claim was true, dating apps sucks because of women wanting the very high value men, even though they themselves are not at their level. Women's standards skyrocketed because of social media and because of their almost unlimited options. Once you are presented with so many options, your thought process will always be "I can do better".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:20 PM
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Fatness can be fixed, height cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:16 PM
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Nobody asks them to lower their standards, we ask them to at least have realistic standards. If you are a single mother of 5 kids, obese, average looking, don't expect for a 6 feet, 6 figures, handsome looking man to step up. The problem with women that their standards are not normal ones, they don't ask for someone at their level, they are shooting above. It's like wanting to buy a Ferrari car while you work at McDonald's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:14 PM
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Yup, you get it. That person might be a dickhead because of the huge crush you have on them, you see qualities in them they don't even have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:27 AM
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So you think it's more fun to come back home to talk about more work with your wife? Wtf? And how the hell is she a slave if she stays at home, cooks, cleans and takes care of HER KIDS while the husband is out there providing? Is the husband a slave too for providing for a whole family? No, this kind of conservative relationship worked for thousands and thousands of year, and all of the sudden it's bad now? No. It's not bad at all to want a wife who loves you and raise your kids. You both have y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:45 AM
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Well, when a man has all these attractive values that women find attractive, they often overevaluate other men's qualities. Example: I had seen so many women calling hot men smart even though they were dumb as bricks. Same thing can happen during sex: they overevaluate their sex skills because of all the other qualities they love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:17 AM
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Yes, men are lied to that being a "good guy" gets women. Because when you see that your good gestures and intentions are thrown aside for someone who is genuinely bad, then how is that person suppose to react? Besides, don't you women always say you have "female intuition"? How come that female intuition breaks whenever you are approached by a hot guy? I never seen ugly men being able to manipulate women, but for some reason, you get easily manipulated by bad hot men. And yes, it's okay to blame…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:48 PM
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That's a huge overgeneralization of men as a whole, but you women hate it when men do the same to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:48 AM
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I would compare dating not to just any video game difficulty, but an RPG, where the player has complete freedom. Now, even on the lowest difficulty the game can be hard if you make the poorest choices ever. That's how dating is for women: they play on easy mode but makes the dumbest choices ever cause it's more visually appealing despite the fact they had dozens better choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:47 AM
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No mate. It is not a challenge to make a good choice from hundreds of options, and I really doubt most of the options are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:43 AM
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So you mean that most men are shit and most women are good?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:41 AM
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As a hardcore gamer myself , here's how it goes really: Women do date on easy mode, but they are poorly skilled. Even on RPGs on easy difficulty it can become "normal mode" if the player makes really poor choices out of the hundreds of options. Example: you have an enemy that deals fire damage, thus you need fire protection armour, and the player puts lighting protective armour cause it looks pretty. You gotta choose between 2 allies: an orc warlord level 99 or a level 1 orc with pink shiny armo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:32 AM
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I had so many friends that said they wanted a "woman with experience", aka a woman who have been ran through. Turns out it's not as fun as they thought it would be if they wanted to marry that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:18 AM
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The core issue is women thinking they deserve more than what they can offer. Even an average woman of 5 wants a 9 or a 10 guys because of media brainwashing that all women are beautiful and they all deserve the best
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:16 AM
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Most groups of women are attracted by 3 major things: money, looks and status, and that is not average. Most women do not want or are attracted to average men. If they want good sex, they will seek out a top 20%, and that is not average
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:13 AM
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"have your own place", you are saying it like it's easy to do in this economy. What's with this obsession of always blaming men for not having women? You are saying "it's impossible to not have 1 woman interested in you if you have hobbies, your own place, dress good, etc. Well what if one or two physical flaws that cannot be changed can cancel the rest? I am a man who pays rent, pays the bills, work a lot, workout, dress nice, groom, have hobbies like hiking, cycling, gaming and working out. Di…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:41 AM
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Nope. Never ever date a single mom. She is there for help, not love, she is there to use a man for every single resource he's got and will never ever be fully respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:24 AM
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So is it a sin to enjoy sex now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:18 AM
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Say what you want, but a real pussy will always be much better. Plus, if you don't want a gf, just pay an escort. They cost as much as a date and the sex is guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:30 AM
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European here and I will say definitely not, not in UK anyway. Women have just as many options here like in US, plus the British women here love getting drunk for whatever reason and that is not attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:27 AM
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Never mentioned hot men are always bad and ugly men are always good. It's just hot men's bad behaviour is often times tolerated because of their pretty privilege. Besides, hot men' don't really face consequences when they are shitty, they can still get women no matter how they behave. Average men and below however are aware of their options, thus they're not gonna be toxic and abusive cause, well, why waste the only chance they might have? If women want a quick shag, fair enough, but if they wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:12 PM
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It does
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:57 AM
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You women are princesses yourselves, most of you are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:49 AM
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Isn't that overgeneralizing though? Would you like if we men say most women are whores?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:48 AM
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Doesn't matter how many females are, even those 25% are swiping on just 5% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:44 AM
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No one said they cannot be, but if you focus on looks only, then chances to find the wrong guy are quite high. Plus, unattractive guys have no options, so why would they would avoid being bad bfs as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:05 PM
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Women more often than not end up in abusive relationships just because they didn't paid attention to the guys personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:40 PM
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Not necessarily, but honestly, you women have hundreds, and I mean HUNDREDS OF MEN to choose from, and if you still end up choosing an abuser it means one of two things: either most men are abusers or you just chose wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:29 PM
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No, choose better means: stops thinking with your vagina and think with your head. You go head over heels some tall Chad, get shocked that someone with options cheats and then put ALL MEN in the same group as the cheater. Choose a man who is actually kind, caring, honest, loyal, and actually pay attention to his actions. Is he good to other people, to his friends or family? Does he donate to charity, does he go to church, does he volunteer? These are moral you should follow through. Don't get sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:24 PM
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He admits of having webcam business, that's it, and last I checked, it's not illegal. Don't know much about the Diddy case so I can't speak about it. Internet interactions might develop some friendships, but won't do much to your social skills because in face to face interactions body language and the tone of your voice are far more important that anything else. Women are the ones getting pregnant, not men. Yes, they should suggest it too, but if they don't, then women should. Take some accounta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:20 PM
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Many of the manosphere don't like Tate, they even call him a hypocrite. Sane people believe in innocence before being proven guilty. Until they have solid proof, no reason to believe he did all of that just cause of "your feelings" Do you really think internat interactions are the same as face to face interactions? It's not even close, you can't learn social cues over the internet, the best practice is face to face I say again, stop having sex with random hot men or at the very least, make them …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:24 PM
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Oh really? And how do you think those 5% of men look like? You think they are bald, short and fat or tall and handsome? Let me remind you that hot men aren't that many.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:19 PM
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Well, when you overlook personality because of looks, that's what happens: you pick a bad man, and then the woman cries and acts like a victim without taking accountability for her own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:18 PM
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The problem is not women preferring hot men. The problem is women who gaslight the ugly short men who are single calling them incels or saying that they are single because of their personality and not looks. Also the problem is when women keep picking the wrong men because they overlook their shitty personality and then they put ALL MEN in the same group as the shitty men because of their bad choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:17 PM
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Rise of red pill, manosphere, passport bros, mgtow, Andrew Tate, the data shown on dating apps shows just how little to no attention average men get, and so on. Can you explain also this statistic on tinder then? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:21 PM
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Sigh, no wonder you are blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:06 PM
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Look at the dating scene and how disastrous it is and look how many single men are there. Is it that ridiculous to consider that women share the top 20% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:57 AM
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Your height and face helped you through your dating life and RP ideology does say that looks matter the most. Money and status come second because those are harder to show off while looks are just there for everyone to see. So yeah, your are full proof that RP is true, imagine if you would've been shorter and had a worse face and have the same status you have now, you really think you would've pulled off any ladies? I doubt it. I am short, my face is 5 or under and my social status is as good as…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:51 AM
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I think the only thing that would change it's just making the hot guys job a lot easier. Average men would still not be approached, just the hot dudes, and the hot dudes get approached a lot anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:10 AM
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Men call out other men too for shitty behaviour, even Andrew Tate. He has some good points but he has bad points too and if he did raped women, then guess what. Most of his sane fans will abandon his and condemn his actions. How the hell you want men to be better at social skills with no people to practice with? Practice makes perfect, but you need people to practice social skills with. Stop having babies with random hot men you just met. Who would've thought a random dude you met at a bar will …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:06 AM
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I blame the media for brainwashing women on what attractive men really are and for over evaluating average women. Nowadays average women think they are above average and thus thinking they deserve the best of the best men, and all thanks to the media and society who under evaluate men and over evaluate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:59 AM
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So how come the media focused on lowering the men's expectations to start being attracted to fat women? Or to be attracted by single moms or older women? How come it's okay to convince men to change their preferences but not the women's?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:59 PM
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What you wanna know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:47 PM
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You're a really bad troll lady
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:19 PM
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Worth it for the top 5% of men? What about the other 95%?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:17 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:11 PM
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Did you missed the part where I said that 5% of men are picked on tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:08 PM
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Dating apps don't work for the majority of men. On tinder itself women swipe right on just 5% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:05 PM
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I wanted to date them anyway cause that is all there is to be offered. I repeat the analogy: If you need a car and all the cars available are shitty ones, what you gonna do? Don't buy a car?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:04 PM
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Not really, because of social media women are over evaluating themselves. I keep seeing fat or ugly women on social media being called beautiful,.so because of all that attention, fat women think they deserve men like Henry Cavill. Seem so many women rartig themselves a 10 and they are a 5 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:02 PM
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Huh, and those traits still got me nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:50 PM
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Problem is, women at my physical level think are above me and still chase the top men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:49 PM
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Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:49 PM
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If that's all the marker has to offer, what choice do I have? When you need a care and you just have shitty ones at disposal, you just don't buy a car?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:56 PM
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I did wanted 3 of them. I ticked yes on 3 out of 4. The fourth one just seemed so uninterested and zoned out. And the women wanted just one guy, who was tall and attractive and kind of a dickhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:51 PM
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I mean, speed dating is best for any woman, let's not kid ourselves. You can look like gorlock the destroyer and you can still get a third of yesses at least. Men are just not picky at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:49 PM
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To be fair the women there were all attractive, not model attractive but pretty good. But like I said, they were not there to meet someone, they were there to just mess around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:47 PM
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What makes you think I don't have any desirable traits? I am funny, smart, kind, caring and supportive. And my standards are like ground level, my only thing is for the woman to not be obese cause I am a small lad, just 5'3 and weighing around 140 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:46 PM
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So what does it say about women going to such events?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:42 PM
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Because the men were pleasent to talk to and be around and the women weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:42 PM
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The good old "just be gay bro" advice, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:29 PM
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Lol, yes they do have a prime, having a sexual prime doesn't necessarily equals "attractive", it equals his maximum sexual potential at a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:07 PM
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Who said about rewarding with an entire human being? It's about actions and attitude. If I treat you right, I expect the same treatment or at least a reward coming with it. It's that old saying "I scratch your back, you scratch mine". I don't expect to own a human, lol, I just expect mutual respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:33 AM
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Men aren't angry at women who are innocent though. They dislike rhe self entitled princesses who think they are a 10 but they're not and think they are entitled to a hot millionaire. Dating apps and social media had pedestalised women so much that they actually believe they are perfect with zero faults. Plus, they also dislike women who don't just say no to me, but also humiliate them, cause whether you wanna admit it or not, the worse thing a woman can say is not no anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:45 AM
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I am sorry, but the world is built on "do good things and get rewards". Do a good job at work? You get rewarded. Study hard enough? You get rewarded. Whether you like it or not, that's how the world works. If I behave good and not get rewarded, then guess what? I will do something that will get me rewarded. Life is too short to do charitable things for zero rewards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:37 AM
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I am a man who never had a gf or even a hookup. I don't know the warmth of a woman, the touch of a woman's hand, a hug from her, a kiss from her, sitting my head on her lap, and all those lovely stuff. I am 35 and my family has a history with cancer, and I am scared one day I might develop cancer too in my 40s. I don't wanna die and not know all those feelings. I wanna feel loved and love back. And if it is from an AI robot gf, so what? What other choice do I have? Women are simply not attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:52 PM
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Rephrase that to "women give HOT men a bunch of chances". Fixed it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:49 PM
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So it's sick to have standards now? Men just don't want whores as wives and mothers for their children cause the whore behaviour is disgusting and degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:48 PM
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They refuse to elaborate because no one wants to admit the number 1 most important and obvious thing: looks. People wanna overcomplicate things and give hope to the genetically disadvantaged that "all you have to do is be more confident". No, you can be the most confident man on plane Earth, if you are unattractive, women won't speak to you and thus won't discover your charisma, personality, confidence, whatever. Women completely, and I mean COMPLETELY ignore ugly men, no matter the confidence a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:46 PM
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False.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:44 PM
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The men with no gratifying sex lives consume their content. The ones with no options for sex are consuming their content. You think top tier men consume their content or give them money? Nope. And the reason we look down on them it's because they further promote degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:37 PM
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Lol,.you are beyond delusional dm coping right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:54 PM
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If the characters are like werewolves that look like Jacob from Twilight, then I guess so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:34 PM
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Keyword: "celebrity".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:11 PM
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How come charismatic ugly dude don't have as many women or at all though?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:59 PM
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Sorry, but observational reality doesn't prove that women are attracted to personality at all with all the amount of bad boys having women and abusers having women. I don't think I know personally a single woman who hasn't dated a douchebag or abuser. And yes, before you say "oh they didn't know because he was pretending" I would say they did know but chose to tolerate it. I had seen the most obvious walking red flags ever getting women left and right because of their looks while having shitty a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:50 PM
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Actually ugly men are not approaching as much anymore because the risks for false accusations is a lot higher than people wanna admit. And the hot men approach only hot women , unless they are drunk and super horny. And hot men realized just how valuable and rare they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:15 AM
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You said in your post as well to go make friends if we are lonely which makes me think that you fail to realize that friendship will never replace a relationship and intimacy. Men are lonely because they lack intimacy with a woman they love and are loved back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:22 PM
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Ah yes, that is why we have a male loneliness epidemic .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:01 PM
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Wow, if you haven't done it, it means no woman ever done it.l, right? You are not the main character sweetheart, nor the representative of all women. And yes, I know PLENTY of women who had bfs who were jailed or at least arrested a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:00 PM
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Looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:31 PM
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Women's experiences are not only vastly different from men, but your experiences are with just ONE TYPE of guys, and those are the bad boys/playboys. You ignore the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:54 PM
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What women say they want doesn't fit with their actions. Like "I just want a good man" and then hook up with an ex convict or drug dealer. "I don't care about personality" but rejects every single good man that she doesn't deem attractive. "I am a traditional woman that wants marriage" but sleeps with lot of men when she is young and then settles in her 30s. You women don't know what you want yourselves and your advice never works and you know why? Because you are not genuine about what you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:53 PM
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I was thinking the same thing, like she really cannot imagine why people love sex. It's mind boggling. Wonder when was the last time she had an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:49 PM
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So the most important factors are restricted in being talked about
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:26 PM
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And where do all the men's money going to? Is it going just into the man's pocket or is it to provide for the family? And because of some circumstances, yes, some men are forced into these dangerous roles and these circumstances can be: there aren't other jobs around him, the wife cannot work so he needs a really good paying job, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:33 AM
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Still not as dangerous as loggers or roofers. Would much rather be a nurse than a logger, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:19 AM
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You can look around on tiktok or even subreddits like xychromosome or FDS and notice how all of the shit on men with 0 consequences. All the subreddits that allegedly were shitting on women got banned but no subreddits that shits on men ever get banned. And women who hate men still wanna be with men cause most of them do wanna use men as atms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:17 AM
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A HV man will provide for a HV woman. Sorry to say but a single mom for example is not a HV woman. And most men don't want to be taken advantaged of course but they still don't mind paying for the date as long as the woman also does her part. "Trying" is the keyword here, if a man sees that you try to do your part as a woman, then he will pay. Let's say you as a woman offer to pay your part, then the man will see and acknowledge that and refuse to let you pay. But he will keep that mind that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:42 AM
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Why the hell would they even say that on a date? That is a weird thing to say to a woman you don't even know yet. Plus, if they would say that, don't you think they would risk attracting a gold digger? Don't you think men want to be loved for who they are not for what they provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:35 AM
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They want to , but economy is so bad now, they don't have the opportunity to be providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:20 AM
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I work in a food warehouse operating machines and lifting a lot. Not super dangerous, but still laborous and strenuous on my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:20 AM
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The most dangerous jobs for men in the US are occupations like logging, fishing, and roofing, which have the highest fatal work injury rates and are overwhelmingly dominated by male workers. Men are disproportionately represented in many high-risk industries, leading to them accounting for the vast majority of fatal work injuries, with a fatality rate nearly 10 times greater than that of women in some years, according to Psychology Today. Women abandoned their gender roles almost completely even…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:49 PM
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Not addicted, just watching porn form time to time, just enough to satisfy his sexual urges. Nobody said addicted
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:45 AM
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Aaah, so you just "feel" like it. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:42 AM
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What about the other 2 I mentioned? What is wrong with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:01 AM
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Watching porn is worse than cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:01 AM
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They do for money though. Have you seen what fugly men women date of those men are rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:00 AM
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How the hell you took that conclusion from what I said? WTF is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:59 AM
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I am 35 dude, I know what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:28 AM
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But if that man somehow still satisfies his sexual urges through means like OF or porn, then that can save his marriage. Many men love their wives even though their sexual needs are not met. And it's not the man's fault his sex drive still works. It's just how biology works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:35 PM
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Most men, especially average men, settle for women they are not physically attracted to, because they have no choice. It is normal to lust after other women if your bedroom is dead and your sexual needs are not met. As long as he is not cheating physically and as long as he is still there for the family, I don't think lusting is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:28 PM
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Ah yes, cause women sure dream about having sex with Danny devito or Peter Dinklage, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:27 PM
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And who doesn't want attractive people? Men love hot women and women love hot men. Most women dream of fucking Henry Cavill or Jason Momoa, most men dream of fucking Sydney Sweeney or Scarlet Johanson. It's human nature and normal to fantasize fucking hot people, that's not so hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:33 PM
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Well yeah, when you are genetically disadvantaged, your only hope for intimacy is by paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:28 PM
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They don't, which is why most average men settle with women their level or lower and they are happy with that. Heck. I dare say most average men don't even dream with being in a relationship with a HM one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:27 PM
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If the price is right, they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:23 PM
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There is a difference between wanting to have sex with a high maintenance woman and wanting a relationship with one. Most men do want a woman at their level to be their wife and the mother for their children. When it comes to just sex, sure, they wouldn't mind a HM woman, just like you wouldn't mind a HM man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:22 PM
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What about female intuition? I thought your intuition is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:19 AM
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If women are complaining about it online and bringing it to social platforms, they are not accepting it though aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:11 AM
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Oh well I don't know, but it seems that whenever a man is defending himself against a vile woman he is called a mysoginist. Or when he calls out a vile woman he is called insecure. Or when he rejects a vile woman he is called intimidated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:08 AM
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Relationship opportunities and career opportunities. You really think calling men all sort of names won't affect their confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:55 PM
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In society around you and in media when women are describing their dating life and their rejections from men, all the media and people are siding with her and start insulting the men rejecting her calling them insecure and all of that. But reverse the roles and you will see that when men get rejected and complain about it like women did, all of the sudden they aren't owed a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:51 PM
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Both have skills for that. And if you think the first one is the right answer then you are either lying or are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:16 PM
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Who do you think is most likely to be able to manipulate a woman? A fat, short balding man with game or a tall muscular handsome looking man with game?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:06 PM
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Do you think women are turned on by virgin men at 30 or men who had like 20 women by the age of 30? And I am not talking about any stranger woman, I am talking about a woman who might have romantic interest in you. Do you think women ,who have romantic interest in a man don't care about a man's past relationships or affairs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:04 PM
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Women are rejected commitment from the men THEY WANT. They are not rejected all the time by all men and they are not rejected fully. They still get sex but they don't get the ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:01 PM
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I never said they shouldn't? The point of my comment is that it's excusable for women to not accept rejection but never for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:00 PM
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What society does rot men it's not jus opinions, it's defamation. There is one thing to say mean things about men, there is another to say abhorrent things about men that could ruin some opportunities. Wait, so a woman Who was sexually abused by men can hate men. Alright, can men also hate women who abused them emotionally and financially?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:58 PM
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Ah yes, well why didn't women DGAF when they didn't have rights? Were they just whining then? Or were those complaints legit? This isn't about image, this is about being discriminated for our gender and losing opportunities because of the defemaion that men go through. We can just DGAF, but people will, and it will affect us on a personal or even professional level. So let me understand this man: we as men are not allowed to be mad at society that defame us, but women are? Like, what if women ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:56 PM
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And he is right, most women don't care about how a guy is as a person as long as he is hot. His thinking is this way because women made it this way. The reason why so many women end up with abusers is because they ignore their red flags when they are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:57 PM
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Ah yes, it's okay to bash men and portray men as monsters but God forbid we do the same for women. What you think happens when society talks shit about young men? What do you think happens when women are eating it up and believe that all men are shit? We men are never allowed it seems to defend ourselves against shitty behaviour and false accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:56 PM
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And if a man leaves a woman who makes her problems his problems, isn't he a bad man as well? Shouldn't the couple solve their issues together and support each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:35 PM
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I always found it funny how the media and society portrays it this way: - if women are rejected by men, men must be insecure or intimidated by strong independent women - if men are rejected by women, men are not owed a relationship or sex so they should just accept rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:33 PM
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After the match of course we read the bios, but most women have either empty bios or the most basic ones ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:25 PM
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Have you read women's bio on tinder? They are literally ALL THE SAME. All love to travel or to laugh or to eat, have a good time, or a single mother of two who are their world and they look for mr right who needs to be this and that, etc. Let's admit it, women don't really read bios either, they just swipe right on the most good looking one and MAYBE they read their bio then. But us men barely get any options, no matter what bio or pictures we have, if we aren't this tall or this handsome or thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:21 PM
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Ah yes, overgeneralizing men and calling all of them unstable when they are vulnerable. Like women are Never unstable in relationships, they act sometimes far worse than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:15 PM
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Well if the older man is tricked by a gold digger or sugar baby, then yeah, he is still a loser. If the relationship is actually genuine, then he won in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:13 PM
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Yup, not once have I seen a woman glorifying a 30 year old virgin and be like "wow, you never had sex till the age of 30? That's hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:11 PM
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Oh boy, more man hating non sense. Listen, not every single man is your ex, ok? Most men are good and most men want to be vulnerable but cannot, cause it turns women off and abandons men who are vulnerable. You can't expect men to be all vulnerable in the same way as women, we are different and our emotions are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:09 PM
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The guy knew that was a guy, cause he was there. I wasn't. Why else would he just pop it instantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:24 AM
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This post again? Jesus Christ, yes men have more accountability then women and no, the man in the video didn't do nothing wrong because THAT IS A MA , NOT A WOMAN. No matter what you believe you are, you are still something you are born as. I am born as 5'3 and will never be 6 foot, that is reality and life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:20 AM
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Dude, you are so lying out of your ass. What, you saw one or two incel comments defending him and now you think "see?all men defend him". That is such a mental take.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:43 PM
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Cause movies aren't real my dude, they are fiction, and do you know who writes most of these romantic stories? Women! Twilight, 50 Shades, notebook, you name it, all of them written by women for women. But guys do get romantic, just WITH THEIR PARTNER. The reason you don't see it is cause they don't need or want to show their vulnerable side to anybody but their partner. A man who shows their emotional side all the time is called too vulnerable, too sensitive, etc. For a woman to be vulnerable i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:59 PM
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They are interested in romance, they just don't show it to everybody, just to the partner they actually love. You don't have to showcase your romantic interest to the whole world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:38 PM
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Breasts are still sexual parts and maybe some men can be traumatised by them like you women get traumatised by dick pics. Who are you to say what a man can or cannot be traumatised by? We do not dictate you what to be traumatised by, so why do you? I am not saying there is justification for it, I never condoned nor do I support it and NEVER SAID IT'S MORALLY RIGHT, but giving them JAIL TIME FOR THIS? Like don't you think we should use tax payer money to jail actual dangerous people? Imagine a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:11 PM
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These men are not in your dating pool anyway because they are ugly and you can always block them. Jail them for unsolicited dick pic? Should women be sent in jail for unsolicited boobs pic? They are harmless, how is a pic offending and hurting you? It's a pic sweetheart, it will not harm you and you can block them. They are unsociable and barely go out, I told you don't need to avoid them BECAUSE they don't go out anyway. Where did I justified their behaviour? I never said it's okay what they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:45 AM
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You know that your own head and imagination is not reality, right? Yes, they are shamed, no they don't get a pass and the people who actually mostly tolerate their behaviour is women, not other men. And of it's her first time having an abusive bf, fair enough. But if that woman keeps choosing the same type of abusive man over and over, don't you think there is a pattern of her choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:01 AM
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First of all, these kind of men who send unsolicited dick pics are desperate men and are harmless. What you think they gonna do irl? Whip out their dick? No, they are just desperate for attention and validation, if they had any success with women, they wouldn't had needed to send such pics, right? And no, it's not irl behaviour because irl it doesn't affect with absolutely anything, those men are mostly basement dwellers anyway who don't go out. No need to avoid him cause these men barely go out…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:57 AM
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Ah yes, let's never hold women accountable for their stupid decisions "how should I know this ex convicts drug abuser tattooed man that abused his mom is actually a bad person?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:45 AM
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Abusers don't get a fucking pass. You think of they are caught in the act they get a pass? No, they are also shamed for it, but if a woman is CONSTANTLY choosing abusers over and over, then how about we should shame her too? Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:44 AM
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Untrue, there are far more women complaining of an ex abuser then there are men. And it just so happens that ex abuser is also hot. You never see women complaining of an ugly abuser, funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:42 AM
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Then explain to me why almost every single woman complains of an abusive ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:37 AM
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It's actually tolerated by females most of the time. How many times you think a woman tried to "change" a bad guy or tried to "fix him"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:18 AM
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I don't understand your question. How is a woman gonna meet a random guy from a chat room? If he is a creep, she can block or ignore him. We are talking about irl interactions here. If you wanna weed out a bad guy, just watch him how he behaves towards others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:16 AM
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So risking your life for a stranger is just nothing to you? Really? Isn't that brave? Don't you think other people died saving other strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:14 AM
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We do, but those men will never change. Instead we could teach women how to pick men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:22 PM
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We are animals overall and the world will never ever be a perfect world with 0 evil. Bad people has been existing since the dawn of time and will forever exist. Which is why we as humans should learn to protect ourselves at all times. And yes, these abusive people need to be stopped, which is why we have laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:19 PM
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Yeah, she seems to have no idea how real men act
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:09 PM
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But you can dictate that straight men are transphobes just cause they don't want to date biological men? A bit hypocritical, what happened to dating preferences? Now we cannot not date trans women cause then we are bigots?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:51 PM
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The real asshole is the host putting a man in a lineup for a straight man. And the real assholes are the people who call straight men trans phones just cause we don't wanna date biological men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:46 PM
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Most men are good men and good people but most women choose the bad men. Why? Cause they are hot. People keep saying "being a good person is the bare minimum". Most men are good already but they still don't get dates. What you suggest is that every single lonley man is lonely because he is a bad person, is that what you suggest? And every single man who gets women is a good person, right? How many times had women picked the wrong men and abusers? And why is that? And don't give me the "he manipu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:36 PM
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Bro. Stop showing that clip because it makes you look stupid. The guy isn't gay, it's perfectly normal to pop the balloon on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:30 PM
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Yes, you think we don't make fun of a bro who chooses an obvious gold digger or an obvious whore? We trash both the man and woman,
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:22 PM
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So if it's easier, then why aren't men doing it more? Let me answer that: they do it actually. Cause come on, would I rather be a nice guy and cool person or would I rather grind at a job 60 hours a week to become rich? I would choose the first option, but does personality works? No, it doesn't and it has been proven time and time again that looks and money matters, which is why women go after hot abusers all the time and not ugly abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:21 PM
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We do shame them, and you think a wolf will change its nature or a lion will change its nature? They don't no man who was an abuser or a wife beater ever changed paths. But we can educate women to stay away from them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:17 PM
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Because those men were shit and will always be shit. You think an abuser will just change if we men tell them "yo bro, stop beating your wife"? It's like telling a lion "stop eating zebras". It's their true colors and who they are and they are and will always be condemned. But we can always educate women on who to choose as their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:14 PM
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Exactly. If this man was just average Joe in rela life, women wouldn't look at his direction at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:40 PM
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Eem, you are naming an actor who is portraying a lovable fictional character. Got is not real life sorry to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:30 PM
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It's simple, women's advice applies only to hot men, because they only see hot men, while ignoring the rest of 80% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:49 PM
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Technically confidence comes from repeteaded success. And if you repeatedly had success in women, you are confident. And yeah, you can't really have repeatedly success in women if you are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:43 PM
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Some men are short and weight less than a woman you know. That issue is called "genetics".
/r/MensRights05/11/25 08:49 AM
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Yeah. That's a fair point, me personally I don't ever wanna commit to such women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:41 PM
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Ah yes, cause not wanting to date a man as a straight man is so wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:30 PM
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But most men can pick up which man is a red flag or isn't. A man who went to prison or who is a drug addict or a gang member with great social skills most likely is not a good man. And if social skills is all that requires men to get a woman, trust me, no man would've been single cause getting social skills ain't rocket science. It's not an excuse if they do suffer with mental illness though. Is it selfish to care about your own mental wellbeing? But therapy and medicine don't work on everybody …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:52 PM
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Don't say they don't or can't have shitty personalities, but their personalities are picked up by women immediately while women completely ignore the obvious red flags on hot men. Also, most ugly guys do not have shitty personalities, they are most likely depressed or sad which is reasonable and their mental illness is classified as a bad personality trait
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:40 PM
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The only men who claim that are the hot men, the ones with options and the ones that are picked by the women all the fucking time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:34 PM
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No they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:00 PM
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They are a negative but most desperate men would choose a single mom rather than being alone and sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:59 AM
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I honestly wish I had no libido at all. Imagine not craving for sex, that would've been so amazing and save me so much money and pain and suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:58 AM
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You lived an era with no dating apps though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:53 AM
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Calming that society is perfect and never at fault is stupid. At what point do we even point that society is truly crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:03 AM
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Depends on the man and woman. If the woman is definitely above the bf on looks, then she definitely is his type. But if she is a low value woman getting with a desperate man, then yeah, that case applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:01 AM
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I think most men are already with this mentality, they have embraced women's nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:00 AM
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I could ask the same about you. You give me your data, I give you mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:03 PM
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The data disagrees with your data
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:01 PM
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You are keeping giving outliers all over the place. Bottom line is: sex is important for every normal heterosexual individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:54 PM
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We are talking about straight people only.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:48 PM
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That situation is different and temporary. But if the sex just doesn't exist anymore and will not exist ever, then that relationship will die.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:39 PM
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Most average men cannot have sex or relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:33 PM
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The problem is that men were lied to about what women are attracted to. They were always told to be nice and act like a gentlemen to women, and that's why so many men are frustrated: it doesn't work and bad boys who treat women like shit get women. The main point is not to be a nice, it's to be an interesting guy. Morals and values are nothing if you are not interesting as a guy and even those value nothing if you are physically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:50 AM
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The problem is not that the white knights protect women from actual misoginy, they protect even bad women from something there think it's misoginy, but it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:46 AM
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You cannot have relationship without sex. If the sex stops, the relationship stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:44 AM
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How the hell is getting laid with a man you are attracted to a rejection? To even suggest that is just crazy. Women ARE GETTING SOMETHING, they get orgasm!!! Men get nothing while women still fuck a hot guy. How many men you think would be disappointed if they get rejected after sex? None.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:43 AM
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Married people are older though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:01 PM
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It's chatgpt man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:01 PM
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For having children and creating a family of course. Plus, you get a man who loves you and protects you and provides for you. The only reason men take what they can get in dating is because women's standards skyrocketed so much and they cannot meet women's ridiculous standards especially when it comes to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:39 PM
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And married couples have more sex on average than single people. I don't think so Frequency of sex (in the past month): Ages 16–24: About 5–6 times per month for both men and women. Ages 25–44: Around 4 times per month. Ages 45–64: Drops to about 2–3 times per month. 65+: Less frequent, but still reported by around 20–30% of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:36 PM
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Well women do tend to underreport their sexual activity due to societal pressure, while men tend to overreport it for the same reason. Now a quick search of chstgpt showed me this: In the U.S. (aged 18-24 in 2016-18), about 30.9% of men and 19.1% of women reported no sexual activity in the past year. That suggests ~ 69.1% of men and 80.9% of women in that age bracket were sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:31 PM
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So basically you are saying that everybody would have it easier if everybody would sleep with men, correct? That is quite stupid since straight men are attracted to only straight women. I got an idea, how about we stop pedestalising women making them think they are 10s who deserve only 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:48 PM
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I also find it funny that whenever a man is abused by women, women always say "he must've done something wrong", but if a man abused a woman, he is a monster.
/r/MensRights02/11/25 01:16 PM
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So basically just be gay? Lol, you think being gay is an option or what? Why the fuck would you even suggest this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:09 PM
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We talking about straight young women, right? If so, then false, young straight women do have sex quite a bit, maybe not with a bunch of different men, but they still have friends with benefits and their options are always there. They can have sex with multiple men in the short period of 1 week let's say. Hell, if they wanna have 6 dudes in one day, they can, the option is always there and some of them, not a lot, are going with that. But yes, they do have sex quite a bit, even with friends with…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:05 PM
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The way women treat men.
/r/MensRights01/11/25 09:58 PM
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I bet feminists will look at this and be like "omg, women are the most affected".
/r/MensRights01/11/25 06:32 PM
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Ah yes, that is why this and other subreddits for lonely ugly men existsnsnd that is why the dumbest and immoral hot men have girls.
/r/MensRights31/10/25 04:16 PM
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Totally untrue. Handsome men just can have 0 rizz and 0 intelligence and still get women. They just have to exist
/r/MensRights31/10/25 04:10 PM
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You can have the biggest confidence in the world, if you lack looks, you lack everything.
/r/MensRights31/10/25 03:57 PM
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I think it also has to do with women unrealistic standards in dating. Men not dating makes them feel lonely, depressed and vene suicidal.
/r/MensRights31/10/25 01:56 PM
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When it comes to dating, brainpower has zero importance. Had seen the biggest dumbasses with gfs all the time
/r/MensRights31/10/25 01:48 PM
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That is not true, we keep seeing over and over a wide range of women going after the hot bad boys. It's the same topic over and over again: "you're single cause you are evil and your personality is bad". Is there no way in the universe that a man can be really good and really nice and also be single because of his looks? Looks like to me that every concept is acceptable for you guys except the concept that there are good single men out there that cannot control the qualities that women want in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:38 AM
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Thanks for your help man. Which one of those apps helped you the most would you say? And how did your main profile picture looked like?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:13 AM
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I don't get it though, what did you changed in your profile except for the lie? Changed pictures too? And what apps you used?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:16 AM
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Again, didn't ask you mate. I already developed Greta social and flirting skills and they don't work. Probably cause women barely give me a chance to talk to them anyway because they reject me once they see me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:56 PM
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Again, didn't ask you. I already developed flirting skills anyway and didn't work, besides, women barely give me the chance to speak to them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:55 PM
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Wasn't asking you man, was asking the man that actually went through the same shit as me and did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:30 PM
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Neah, most of women are shallow, not all. And nope, I am not attracted to shallow women, but you try find a rose in the desert, this is how it feels like finding a woman who values morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:29 PM
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You never seen the matrix, have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:28 PM
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The guy I replied to said manipulators are intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:27 PM
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Morals and values are bare minimum? Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:23 PM
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Most of them are very intelligent and have tons of friends, so that is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:13 PM
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False, trp is inspired from the matrix, and it basically means to see reality for what it is, not for what it pretends to be. We don't want to be superior than women, we want to understand for who they really are and adapt our behaviour to attract them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:54 PM
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Nice generalisation there, I guess only hot men can be intelligent enough to manipulate, huh? Funny how looks can affect your intelligence too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:52 PM
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RP just adapt to what women respond to. If you are a fisherman and and you see that the fish don't react to cheese (good personality) but react to worms (looks and money), then of course you will use worms. Some RP men want families, others just tto have fun, it depends on each individuals objective. Besides, we are not saying women are terrible, YOU SAY THAT. We are just saying how their true nature is. Liking men only for money and looks is not bad or evil, just not so morally good. Like I sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:48 PM
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So basically you just want the thrills, not someone with moral and treating you right, is that right? When you say good personality, you don't necessarily mean good moral or good values, just someone with a thrilling, interesting or even dangerous lifestyle, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:42 PM
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Couldn't said it better bro, it happened to me so many times when I told some of my girl mates that their bf is an asshole and they were like " nah, you are just jealous". Weeks later, they complained about them beating them, I wasn't shocked at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:40 PM
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And can't ugly men also be intelligent and manipulate women? How come it doesn't work for them if it's that easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:39 PM
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That is such a nasty thing to say. How do you know our lives or my life for that matter? You don't know me, my life, my past, my circumstances. You just draw conclusions to fit your narrative that "women always pick men with good personality" when we can clearly see them over and over picking the bad boys. And don't start with "wElL tHeY mAniPulAtE", bullshit. Ugly lonely man can manipulate them too but it doesn't work. And besides, don't women usually can "smell" or "detect" bad men? Can't they…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:38 PM
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Warehouse, working 60+ hours a week plus I do personal training on the side. Not revealing my salary, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:32 PM
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Having a wife at home means she takes care of the children and the house and educates them. You have a distorted vision of traditional men, they don't want to use women as pets at all. I like how you say "coming home only after working" like working 2 jobs in construction or oil rigs or on the rooftops or anything laborious and dangerous is nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:31 PM
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How the hell you did it man? I am 35 as well and and never had a relationship ever or a hookup even. You gotta teach me man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:26 PM
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And is that the man's fault or the governments fault that we have to grind our asses off just to keep a woman at home and feed the children? Of course he is gone, how else is he supposed to sustain the wife's and the children's lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:25 PM
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By working
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:06 PM
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And I know a guy with no limbs and a disfigured face that fucked Megan Fox..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:52 PM
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It was a figure of speech in case you thought I blamed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:51 PM
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You think I blame women, I just am conscious of their real behaviour. It looks like I blame women from your perspective, when in reality I just accept their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:50 PM
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Results are the same but at least I don't cut myself anymore and bruise my body anymore.lnand my suicidal tendencies had dropped. I accept how I am and how I look. And accepted that women are shallow creatures only after looks and monetary women. Not all women, but enough. And yeah, I would much rather blame women than kill myself, sue me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:48 PM
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Not getting women because I am not where I should be. I don't have money cause I care for my mom and because of my height I cannot get to where I need to physically. I go to the gym, I am ripped, but my clothes cover my gains. It is not that I blame women, it's just that I am conscious of what they want and that my personality has nothing to do with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:43 PM
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I stopped blaming myself for not being able to get women. I was told all my life by bluepillers that it's not my income or my looks at fault, but my personality. RP proved me that women are extremely shallow and superficial and do not care about personality. Which is what also made me to want to better myself in every possible physical and superficial way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:35 PM
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Any options. Any women have almost any options for men. For commitment it's a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:32 PM
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And how much percent of middle age women are ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:32 AM
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The same reason we look at fast sports cars: we might never ride them, but it's very nice to see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:59 PM
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You are suggesting that just because men who can't get women at all are a minority, we shouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:52 PM
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So we still shouldn't care? Blacks are a minority, we shouldn't care about them either?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:57 PM
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I didn't and never said it's super common not did I said they will get married, lol. Can you people even read? Hot old men ARE NOT RARE, but they exist and they are wanted by many young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:36 PM
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You suggesting very few women are average or under average? Talk about pedestalising women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:19 PM
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Imagine calling taking care of your child boring. That is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:18 PM
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Alright then can you explain the following things: why are dating podcasts so successful, why is Andrew Tate so successful, why is OF so profitable? A lot of these things are affected by the very fact that tens and tens of millions of men are affected by this. We can see the effect of men being unhappy in the dating scene: suicide rate, male loneliness epidemic, porn addiction, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:18 PM
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That is such a a stupid example
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:12 PM
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That's false, it means you do not see reality objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:08 PM
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It's reality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:08 PM
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I can, just too lazy to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:38 PM
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Again, I can find the opposite proof if I dig deep enough. Doesn't prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:27 PM
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Observable reality is different. An unknown study by an unknown source proves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:24 PM
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I am speaking because I see objective reality. And this is objective reality: women love hot men and rich men no matter the age. Face it or deny it, your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:21 PM
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False, but whatever floats your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:18 PM
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They do lust after HOT middle ages men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:18 PM
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Congrats on your progression.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:17 PM
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I am not saying most women want older men, all I am saying that it does happen depending on how the man looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:10 PM
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It's not though, plenty of women love older men depending on how they look. Hugh Jackman is in his fifties, so is Brad Pitt, and Jason Momoa is 46. Even if these guys weren't celebrities they still would've been wanted by women cause of their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:59 PM
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Sex can also mean paid sex. What makes you think those men do not go to escorts? If escorts wouldn't exist, that number would be so much lower. 1 in 3 men aged 18 and 30 are either virgin or didn't have sex for the past year. The average man isn't having sex once a week with a woman that is attracted to him. He is having paid sex, which is something even ugly men can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:51 PM
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Well, what can be more beautiful then being a mother? What can be more beautiful than a father, a mother, 2 kids living happy and enjoying life and growing on this world? You really think working your ass off for a company that doesn't care about you and travelling to expensive places is far more important than help your little human grow and enjoy life? I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:16 PM
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Exactly, all men have fantasies just like everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:12 PM
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I hate everything in dating: how shallow women are, how they use men for their money and how they always complain they cannot find a good man when they friendzone or reject or ghost actual good men just cause of looks. I also hate they think single men are single cause they are evil and how they always associate qualities to hot tall men that they don't even have./ The amount of women I had seen calling the dumbest hot men smart is baffling. What I love? Nothin, dating is a mess for most men, on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:11 PM
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The actual problem is women thinking those high value men will commit to them, when in reality those HV men will just fuck and dump, and then those women will end up bitter and complain how there are no good men while they keep rejecting good men for their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:07 PM
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Makes sense, those could be his only options. Are you ugly and fat too then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:50 AM
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Everybody giving a chance to everybody! No ghosting, no instant rejection with 0 chances, just give a chance to every single soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:48 AM
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Who the heck he cheated you with?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:47 AM
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The problem is even average men struggle a lot and have 0 options mainly cause average and subaverage women can obtain whatever men they want. I love how people say average men do not lack options but yet we see EVERYWHERE men complaining not having options. That is because women pursue the top 20% of men, and let me tell you, the top 20% are not average at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:46 AM
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Depends on how the man looks, I had seen some young women fantasizing about fit, muscular 50 year olds. It's not about the age more than the way he looks and the way he acts. And what is wrong with 50 year olds wanting 20 year olds? No diferent from women wanting taller men or rich men, everyone has their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:43 AM
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Majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:16 AM
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And by being single you increase chances of loneliness, depression and having no one when you are 60. You will get no one to come to your birthday, to Christmas, new years, and so on. And unattractive men barely get any chance of getting a woman, you really think they will risk to be abusive to women? They are ugly and desperate, not stupid. Sex won't be such a big part anymore after 40 or 50 anyway. It is recently because during the 1900s most attractive women were skinny. Now, thanks to societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:30 AM
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What good is it? Well, less chances of being abused, manipulated, beaten, even killed. You get treated right, you get protected and provided more, besides, attraction can change. Look how many men are attracted to fat women now because the media and society pushed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:57 PM
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If you want real love, you give chances to unattractive men, if you wanna be used as sex toys, keep going after chads. At least you women should stop complaining "where are the good men".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:40 PM
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Not true, many men do not see themselves as sigma The dream is far because most men barely get any dates with women, let alone make a family with them. You try getting constantly rejected over the course of many years and see how that makes you feel. What is wrong with touching a woman? Thta is an intimate feeling, men and women crave touch, it's normal. Because most men work blue collar jobs that are very physically demanding or they even have to work overtime to provide. If you feel like the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:14 PM
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And your experience does not reflect objective reality. Yeah, my experience has been awful with women, should I also hate women? No, I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:56 PM
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Because men also helped women, so don't you think that women should also help men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:51 PM
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When they are older and have their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:16 PM
2

Dating apps are rigged against men, not women, I am not sure why you as a woman are complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:02 AM
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Cause females can get sex whenever they want for free. Men can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:59 AM
1

Well people discriminate. If all people back in the day were assholes to black people just because they were black, were black people the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:56 AM
1

Wouldn't you say the same to women who keep saying they cannot find a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:55 AM
1

If people are assholes to you, why not throw that energy back?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:30 AM
1

Being ugly with good personality brings the exact same result.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:54 AM
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Imagine if a man said women were disgusting creatures. Crazy your comment didn't got deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:49 AM
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Money is the thing that drives them to such older men. And they are adults, they can choose whatever men they want, but if we say "oh, they are too young to do that" then shouldn't that apply to driving a car, smoking, drinking alcohol and voting?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:48 AM
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Glad you finally admit how much of leeches you women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:59 PM
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Oh I know it's the truth. You women all want form men is money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:48 PM
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Someone is full of hate and bad information it seems. Let me clarify some of the bs you spread. Most women care about money, even small amounts. men can be fertile even at 60 years old men you are attracted to are the prize. The fact that you callen parasites really shows your misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:33 PM
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How can you even fucking tell? If it's your gf and she let's you kiss her and she kisses back then of course the normal response is to go for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:29 PM
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I would become like a muscular mommy, not too muscular, and my dating would be just about personality, if oring looks almost completely. And career wise, probably a personal fitness trainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:27 PM
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False, most mens prime start in their 30s, and it's not just looks but more about their financial status.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:25 PM
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Men do have a prime though, maybe not young men but older men for sure, and I am talking about the guys with car, house, good job and income. Those their prime, having their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:25 PM
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Women definitely see sex differently than men. A man can fuck and forget about the girls because men fuck anything but for a woman to fuck a man she has to feel something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:24 PM
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Well, in the future it is bad for women who want kids. Because feminism teaches women they don't need a man and that all men are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:29 AM
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Imagine having to pay for sex all your life while other men get it for free because they are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 12:20 AM
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Kidney stones pain are similar to that. But imagine comparing child birth to a life of eternal and utter loneliness. I take childbirth anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:23 PM
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God damn you are vile. So what if he has an opinion on that? It's his opinion and I HIGHLY doubt he ever said that to any woman he had been rejected by.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:06 PM
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Bullshit, I go to the gym and workout and cycle and I am gaming and I am hiking, trust me, those have NOTHING on a good fuck with a hot woman, absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:59 PM
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And half of men are not going to know that ever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:58 PM
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What standards bruh? Wanting a woman that doesn't look like sneagol is even a standard? That is a bare minimum dude, you bluepillers sure love to go to the extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:57 PM
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I said no man IN THEIR RIGHT MIND.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:08 PM
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That is just stupid generalisations to justify why you don't wanna date unattractive men. Look, it's fine just, just say you are after looks, most women do that anyway, no need to use your mental gymnastics to be like "uGlY dUdEs ArE eViL", makes you look stupid and ignorant. Unattractive men once they get a chance usually try not to mess it up. Yeah, they get nervous, yeah they get awkward, but that is because of lack of experience, nothing else. Because I really doubt you are different than mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:33 PM
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Oh yeah, those dudes surely exist, but is that really a good thing though? Being the very very last choice for a single mother of 5 who is morbidly obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:27 PM
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Now I know e where you try to get and this is just a bad faith argument. As long as I am not morbidly obese or have a disfigured face like someone poured it with acid, I have no reason or pleasure to have sexual engagements with women like that. I am just a short dude with an average or slightly under average face and a ripped body, that's all. I am healthy, I am athletic, I have all my limbs together and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:26 PM
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Ah yes, we are all just imaginary, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:46 PM
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Well yeah, biologically we are driven differently, and sex is a lot more desired by us rather then by woman because of testosterone and other biological traits. And no one is forcing you to have sex with strange men, and women can be just as trustworthy, in many marriages women baby trap men or they cheat on their man and having them think the baby is theirs. Men never baby trapped women, that is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:44 PM
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If that is true, that is not a common thing that happens though, most unattractive dudes would treat you the best way possible because they know if they mess this up, the next chance will probably never come. And probably you also have a weird view on what attractive and unattractive actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:36 PM
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Well you can say that, but reality says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:34 PM
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read what i said, i said every sane MAN, not woman, and why would you feel forced to have std tested and pregnancy tested? No one is forcing you to hook up with randome stranger men. Yes, the substitution we can offer is money, and that is how fortunately most men won't die virgins, cause trust me, with o prostitution in this day and age, more than 50% of men in the world would have no idea how sex feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:12 PM
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You are comparing two seperate things. Sex is a biological need, having shit ton of money isn;t
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:09 PM
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Because sex is the main thing that lacks in our lives. How long shall we keep focusing on others before we actually get to the best feeling this life has to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:07 PM
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Men of the same looks as thsoe women get nothing. It is better to be wanted for something than nothing. This is a female pattern, women would ignore every single bad personality trait if the dude is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:02 PM
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Bro, that means I am just fucked genetically. It is like saying black people are discrimanted because they are not capable, lol. Should black people just bleach their skin then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:53 PM
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Most ugly men would feel grateful and very lucky to just get a chance with a woman. And I seriously doubt you gave ugly men chances since you seem to also have experience with tall attractive men. You either have a type or you don't I doubt you would go for ugly men if you can get a tall hot one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:53 PM
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Again, don't know where you live dude, but that is the type of dude you see EVERYWHERE. If that is ugly, then what the fuck is average? Brad Pitt? Jason Momoa? Like you are either trolling or rage baiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:50 PM
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Again, I am talking about chemical reactions created within our body, not by some other chemical. And I think every sane man would choose sex over chocolate. And Also, every sane man would hcoose a pussy rather than a hand. All of these other activities you suggest are just coping mechanisms, distractions for our body and mind to keep away the thoughts that we will never, as men, get fulfilled sexually because we just don't have what women want and never will. And honestly, that is what these so…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:48 PM
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It is not about being capable, it's about me not having what women really want in a man in this day and age. Capoability has nothing to do with that. I seen the most brain dead men with women just because they are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:46 PM
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I am talking about natural reactions created within our body, not by drugs or medicines. Masturbation ain't the same as sex and every single man can tell you that feeling a hand vs feeling a pussy is waaaaay different. No man in their right mind would choose a hand rather than a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:44 PM
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Most people that have a problem with prostitution is because they think all women are abused and forced to do it which is not the case in most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:42 PM
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What the hell? Very ugly? That guy? Now that is saying A LOT about your standards, cause sorry to say that honey but that is a very average dude, not sure where you live but most dudes in a normal society, that guy would just be considered average, like wtf? Ah right, cause in prison they allow dudes to groom and shave and have a haircut, what a stupid example. Observational reality is my evidence, also pictures of abusive men is my evidence and pictures of incels is my evidence. It is not a coi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:41 PM
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I am tlalking about natural chemical reaction from within our body, not from outside chemicals. Chemical reactions that our body was programmed to have through sex. If you are just gonna have a bad faith debate, then you better stop debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:37 PM
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That is not easy mate, it costs money, a lot, and most of the time the sex is dull and unfulfilling because of the escort's behaviour. Having pity sex and feeling unwanted is one of the worst feelings ever. It's not only about sex, it's about the feeling of being wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:35 PM
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Ah yes, the good old *your thoughts of this thing you never spoke to any woman ever is the reason you don't get sex* always gets me. Sex gives the best chemical reaction to the body for a reason and literally in the animal kingdom, it's all about sex and procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:34 PM
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Like i said, avergae men don't even get partners, so you assuming they are abusive is stupid. They are more grateful rather than abusive. Are there outliers? Sure, like in everything, but generally speaking, that does not happen often. Women are the ones who keep saying to ugly men * we can tell you are insecure, we can tell you hate women, we can tell you are this and that by just looking at you*. So they can detect an ugly insecure hateful man from a distance and never giving them a chance but…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:32 PM
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Not sure why you say that cause in observational reality that doesn't happen because mainly ugly men don't even get partners. And may I remind you that one of the most disgusting and abhorrent killers were attractive men? Look at Ted Bundy what he did, he literally kept women's heads in his freezer! Jeffrey Dahmer was a bloody cannibal and he was wanted by women as well!!! So yeah, your statement is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:27 PM
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one way or another, those men go to escorts and if they wouldn't have, they would've stai a virgin. I would've staid a virgin at 35 if i would've have gone to escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:23 PM
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Which one of these things give you the same chemical reaction as sex? Does a book give you that chemical reaction, or camping, or bubble baths? Sex is literally the best natural chemical reaction a body can get and the reason why it's like that is because biologically speaking, that is what we are meant to do as animals. In the animal kingdom it's ALL about sex and survival, same as in our society. Animals have sex and survive, while men all they do is survive and that's it. How do you think a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:21 PM
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Men literally have the lower standards ever, You have ugly women and fat women, even obese women still getting men. Probably a facially deformed woman won't get men, but that's about it. And that is fine, look, no one is telling you DATE UGLY MEN, we are telling you stop complaining about abusive men if all you see is looks and not personality, ok? Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:17 PM
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It is an outlier because most unattractive men do not even get partners, let alone abuse them. and 7 partners for a guy like him? He must've live in a small village or something. That is so false, unattractive men are more likely to let the woman step on him because they would rather serve the woman then being alone. It's funny how you can't ever tell when a hot asshole is deceitful but you can all of the sudden tell when an ugly asshole is deceitful? Like is your asshole radar not working on ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:14 PM
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Oh look, an outlier, then what i say must be false, right? I expect people to deal with the consequences of their actions. You cannot lower your physical standards? Fine, date the top 10% but stop complaining about getting only abusers. Back in the 60s, 70s and 80 fat women were unattractive, unwanted and now, we have BBW and fat women being fetishised. Why? Cause society and media pushed these women to be considered attractive but absolutely no one is pushing short or fat men being attractive. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:54 AM
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It is what it is, but how about then we stop judging men for being frustrated for not getting the best pleasures this life has to offer, huh? Imagine coming to earth, living like70 or 80 years and the most fundamental and best things in life and unaccesible to you because of the way you were born.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:49 AM
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1 - They should choose their partners based on things more than physical attractiveness. And if they do choose an abuser cause they ignored eveyrthing else, then stop complaining and support the consequences for your stupid actions. Most hot men abuse women because they get away with it. 2 - Unattractive men barely get chances with women, so why abusing them and turn them away? Makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:44 AM
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The problem is that women are still the ones complaining about dating assholes and abusers while at the same time THEY CHOOSE THEM. And what they always fail to see is that: how come all those abusers are hot? Like, how often you see a bald, short fat man getting women and abusing them? It doesn't happen!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:28 AM
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Well yeah, think about it, most men in their younger years probably never even had women in their 20, and now they can have women in their 20s as 30 something or 40 something either, and whether you like it or not, young women are objectively attractive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:26 AM
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That's who I am and how I grew up. Nothing wrong with these hobbies and it says nothing about me as a man. If they judge me for it, so be it, those are not women for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:50 AM
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Not really, red pill push the idea that women want specific things in men that attract to them, and those are usually materialistic. Men want high value men, and value comes within age. Women are thole ones keep calling older men predatory for wanting younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:48 AM
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This is beyond ridiculus, humans are humans and yes, even at 30 you can still have things in common with a 20 year old. I personally watch anime, play video games and watch horror movies and I find more of these things in common with women in their 20 rather than with women in 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:01 AM
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I believe in women's right, but not female superiority, which is what it is today. I want men and women to be treated the same in society, not different like for example: women getting better office opportunities, getting less prison sentences for the same crime, women getting to college easier, women getting away with abusing and beating men, women being believed on everything, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:57 AM
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People make generalisations in general, whether this is about gender, race or any other demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:09 PM
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Literally almost every time when we see an abusers profile pic he is attractive. I got jus observational evidence, not an actual study, but look around and see how many hot abusers you see and how many ugly abusers you see. Ugly criminals who get letters, you serious? Luigi, Ted Bundy, Jeffrey Dahmer, Richard Ramirez, wade wilson, all attractive criminals, not a single one fat, bald or ugly. And yeah, sure you get the ugly rich criminals with great influence which are a rare exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:30 AM
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Care to explain the female strike in Iceland? Almost all women workers went on strike and everything went smoothly, even better some claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:18 AM
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What about every single woman that complain they had at least one ex who was an abuser or narcissist? And how come all those abusers are attractive? And the thing with Luigi is not new, women sent love letters to Ted Bundy as well, he even married a woman during his prison times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:14 AM
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And no mentally stable man will ever say "every single woman on the planet is this and that". We are talking numbers and statistics and the probability for an average man to actually have a healthy relationship with a woman his level.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:10 AM
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Not one mentally stable man thinks ALL WOMEN wants super model men, just a majority, which can be over 50% of women and more, which, let's be honest, that is hyper realistic. And being better is objective, women want objectively men who are better than them socially, economically and physically. False, I very rarely see women and men in a relationship who are equal in all terms. I often see men much much more valuable than the woman they are with It's important to feel attracted, sure, but it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:07 AM
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The word incel is thrown around so easily nowadays, you cannot even say women do wrong like ever, you will be called an incel instantly.
/r/MensRights25/10/25 08:52 AM
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Half false. Yeah, sure, feeling attracted and wanted is very nice, but we want it to be genuine, and most men never ever felt wanted by a woman. When I expose my naked body on some of the video chats, the ones that are not meant to be sexual, the free ones, and some women, even some beautiful ones like my body and my dick, it feels great, even addicting to feel so attractive to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:01 AM
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The only thing that high status men don't wanna help lower status men with is with women, that's it, cause that means more women for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:09 AM
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I believe women cannot give all their attention to one man, and that is what should be important. Women can get so many men in a roaster, it's ridiculous, even the fat ugly ones can get a roaster but the looksmatch couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:27 AM
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I mean, I don't know what makes you think I don't know any single mothers, cause I do and plenty of them. Funny story: my ex brother in law has gotten really unattractive: fat, bald, bad teeth, you name it and guess who gave him a chance? A single mother with 5 kids. Yeah, single mothers get desperate and it's amazing how they lower their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:23 AM
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Depends on the woman, but eventually all women will lose sexual value, so if they want a high value man, better get him while they are still young, cause high value men will always want younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:16 PM
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Because most of the time it's true. It's in human nature to act like a spoiled best if you are spoiled, and attractive people in general are spoiled. Pretty privilege exists for both men and women and attractive men get away with many shitty things just cause they are attractive. Unattractive men are nice to compensate with the fact that they are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:01 AM
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Oh really? Look at Ukraine, look at Russia, look at Israel and so on. If we 3 breaks loose, do you still think men won't see war? And mandatory military service, in the US anyway is mainly for men, not women. A quick search on chatgpt says this. Selective Service registration: Male U.S. citizens and male immigrants residing in the U.S. are required to register with the Selective Service System between the ages of 18 and 25. Purpose of registration: Registering is mandatory for men and is a conti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:09 AM
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So doesn't that mean that males actually do wanna die while females more likely just make a cry for help? And why does it matter that they attempt more since more males are actually dying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:05 AM
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Since when? You know men fight in wars because they have to, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:35 AM
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You avoided my link but you want me to read yours? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:16 PM
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Ancient Rome, what about other times in history for the rest of the world. Read this. https://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman/for-95-percent-of-human-history-people-worked-15-hours-a-week-could-we-do-it-again.html
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:33 PM
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I have, in construction, warehouses and factories. Yes, there is safety equipment for legal reasons, but not all of them are good quality, laborous jobs still require manual handling which can lead to severe injuries like back pain, joint pain and so on, some injuries are lifelong injuries as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:31 PM
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You think all 25 year old college men are enjoying life that much? Wanna explain the high male suicide rate then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:29 PM
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Nothing bad about it, it's just the single moms who gaslight them and accuse them of being predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:26 PM
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The answer is no, I never had a relationship and I can't see how this is relevant to our conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:23 PM
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Dude, you serious? If a woman finds a hot Chad, trust me, they would do anything for that man. Ever seen tinder swindler, the documentary? The stuff women do for hot men is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:18 PM
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I haven't given up, but many other guys have. And I think it's understandable that many dudes gave up, to keep on trying over and over and keep being rejected really impacts your mental health and self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:12 PM
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This wasnt such a big issue before because women's options were limited. Now with the Internet is pretty much limitless. Now why should women settle for an average guy from their social circle when they can find Chad thunder stroke from 200 miles away?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:11 PM
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I would say for the last 10 years most young couples are formed through internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:07 PM
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Through dating apps, not such long distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:41 PM
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That is false
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:34 PM
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Whatever floats your boat mate, keep living in delusion if you want to. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:31 PM
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Injuries are still there mate and they are just as bad. Is it better to have life long injuries and pain or to be dead?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:16 PM
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Oh yeah, I don't die but instead I have lifetime back injury, much better than death I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:15 PM
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Fatalities are lower, but when talking about long term injuries, they are still there. Jobs nowadays are less fatal, but still cause long or lifetime injuries to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:59 PM
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I worked in construction, factories and warehouses and while they are less fatal, they still destroy your body overtime. Safer means less fatal, but work injuries, especially long term, are still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:58 PM
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Between 1998 and 2022 in the US, there were 134,424 occupational fatalities. Of those, 122,233 were men (≈ 92.3 %) and 10,191 were women (≈ 7.7 %). The fatality rate (per full-time equivalent workers) over that period: for males it ranged from ~7.59 per 100 000 in 1998 down to ~5.5 per 100 000 in 2013; for females it ranged from ~0.93 to ~0.54 per 100 000. In 2022, total occupational fatalities were reported as 5,486. Women made up only 8.1 % of all workplace fatalities that year. For 2023, one …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:56 PM
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How many of these health and safety rules are met? Sure, they are implemented there for legal reasons, doesn't mean they are met, fatalities still happen, some working environments are still toxic and dangerous for men and all dangerous jobs are still done by men and men still have pretty high fatalities in working places.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:52 PM
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Doesn't matter if it fits, it must be factual true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:19 PM
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Instead of insulting, can you elaborate how I am wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:12 PM
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Have you worked a real job before?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:11 PM
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Everything is much better? Where? If we are talking hundreds of years ago, men worked only around 180 days per year. If we talk 100 years ago, laborous jobs are just as brutal and dangerous as they are now. And men still have to work 60+ hours a week and it still might not be enough to provide to a wife and child. And men still die in wars today like in Ukraine, where women went to other countries to find a man and their men stayed in their own country to die in a war not chosen by them. It's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:57 PM
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If you are good looking, not just ok or average. The chances are very slim, but still possible as an average or ok looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:52 PM
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Yes, physical attraction stops us for doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:10 PM
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Oh yeah, when they become single mothers and lose all their value, THAT is the moment they decide to settle down, when it's either too late or they find a man who is not attractive but they still take them cause they have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:43 PM
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It has become worse, just think about it: back in the day who could you hook up with? Your friend's friend, your coworker, classmate, and so on. Nowadays women can hook up with chad thunderstroke from 200 miles away, dating apps and internet just opened a limitless opportunity for women of all types to have sex with hot men and closed all other opportunities for average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:21 PM
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Women are willing to figve a cheater though if he is hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:18 PM
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You are so right on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:14 PM
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They are, until they cannot afford to be shallow anymore. Chads can afford to be shallow cause they are attractive, average men cannot. Ever heard of the phrase: women have sex with who they want, men have sex with who they can? Well, this applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:13 PM
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I don't agree, their core values are to find a wife, have kids, buy a house, make money to provide for the family, but unortunately they have no idea how hard it is to make a family nowadays or even provide for one.
/r/MensRights17/10/25 08:53 PM
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The left is extremely anti men, and they are so open about it. At least the right are pretending pretty well that they care for me .
/r/MensRights17/10/25 07:08 PM
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I agree that we shouldn't shame women for being attracted to the top tier men, but at the same time, let's stop blaming average men for not being able to get women and let's stop telling them that they are not good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:56 PM
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Eeem okay? So why make a post about this on this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:52 PM
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Eeem, no men just want sex, nothing to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:51 PM
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They do, they just pretend they do not know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:50 PM
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I am telling you now as a short 35 year old man: nothing gets better even if you change everything. I personally: got ripped at the gym, got better socialising, got better clothes, got groomed, followed almost every single dating advice and the only positive result I got is that I can make female friends easy, but none of them would date me because of my height. I never had a relationship and never ever hooked up with a woman either. My advice? Get money and got to hookers, I am not saying this …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/25 04:51 PM
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How the heck are people still doubting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 02:43 PM
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Because that is how most women are delusional. Its like saying why do you know so many dangerous animals in Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:45 PM
4

Well, feminists wanna exterminate men, they literally had hashtags called killallmen, not different at all from the nazis wanting to kill all Jews.
/r/MensRights10/08/25 09:59 AM
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I don't think they are bad at vetting guys, they just intentionally ignore it cause they are attracted to them. They create exception for men they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:25 PM
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Reality is women just imagine personality traits in men they are attracted to and are assholes. I seen so many women calling these bad but attractive men things they were not: kind, intelligent, caring and so on. It's ridiculous how much privilige looks give you and yet no woman wants to admit it because they don't want to be seen as shallow, which is why they invent these inexisten quality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:23 PM
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I don't bring these up because humans in general do not want to hear uncomfortable truths, especially those that threaten their cosy lifestyle. Redpill has so many uncomfortable truths about female priviliges and they call you misogynist or incel IMMEDIATELY once you threaten their priviliges.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:49 AM
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What people don't seem to understand is that if humans can get away with something, they will do it, and if people allow them to do something, they will do it. Attractive fuckboys receive a huge amount of priviliges, literally they can be wife beaters and still get women, we can't say the same about unattractive needs. Unattractive nerds need to compensate sooooo much just to get the attention of women at a fraction of how attractive men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:47 AM
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Men usually are, women are not. Most women settle with ugly men cause of their resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:06 AM
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How would you determine if she was falsely accused from a conversation where you're only hearing from her? Body language. If you are good at reading people, you can read her as well. Pay attention to her voice, expressions, ask questions, gestures, etc. Could you explain what the gotcha would be here? You are trying to prove that men are after only looks and not personality, just like how some women ignore a guys personality if he is hot, like with Wade Wilson, a guy who killed two women but sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:27 PM
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Trying to get a gotcha moment I see. Well I personally would like to hear her out first, see what she has to say first. Many men got falsely accused for no reason and women can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:58 AM
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If the man is hot, women will overcome his lack of finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:22 PM
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Mate, literally EVERY SINGLE WOMAN complains about a toxic ex bf and don't tell me they "didn't know", they did know, they just chose to ignore it because they are hot and of you look into it, almost every toxic ex happens to be hot. Women will always pretend they don't like hot assholes when in reality they do. Never believe to a woman words, believe her actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:11 PM
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Depends on what kind of assholes, do they roll their eyes at ugly assholes pr hot assholes? Most of the world is literally looks obsessed, denying this reality will do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:19 PM
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Ans what do you see in real life? Cause i personally see only shallow women, nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:06 PM
4

And how many women here are reasonable qhen it comes to physicality?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:49 PM
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Sorry, but the whole height thing is stupid. If a man is perfect in any other way, if his personality is top notch, you will reject him cause he has short legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:31 PM
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The only men that are seen creepy to women are the unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:25 PM
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You do know they can completely tolerate their shitty behaviour if they are hot, right? Not every asshole can get a girl, if the asshole if a 5'3 balding fat dude, he ain't stand a chance. If the asshole is a tall, blonde blue eyed muscular dude, you can bet your ass he will get laid every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:19 PM
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She is shifting the blame on the fans, making them look like sex crazed men that are there to just use her and abuse her, thus getting rid of any accountability for her choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:54 AM
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Where the hell are you coming up with these crazy assumptions? Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:45 AM
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Yes, she portrays as a victim just to get sympathy from people, she does everything for MONEY AND FAME, not because she cares for fans or anything, she is just a money hungry whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:44 AM
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She was ACTING! How about not believe all women and go by what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:24 AM
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Sounds like you met a few bad seeds and now you assume all of them are bad. OK, using your logic, I met a few bad black people, should I also assume all are scum? I met a few bad gay people, should I assume all are bad? Putting all of them in one basket because of the bad ones you met makes you ignorant and not as good as you see yourself. Well, Luigi Magioni just killed a CEO, don't you find that snapping? And its just so ignorant to believe that they snap because of not getting laid when the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:25 PM
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SHE LITERALLY CRIED DURING THE DOCUMENTARY. Jesus christ, stop understanding whatever you want and actual listen to what is said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:06 PM
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You sure about that? Watch it again. Of course she enjoyed it, that is why I said she ACTED like the victim just to win sympathy points. https://youtu.be/HX6WDER1n44?si=G5tFOqi3lPxqgtZv
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:05 PM
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She is playing the victim, if you believe her manipulation tactics, then yoy are part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:27 PM
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I struggle with dating and I never had a gf or a date for the last 8 years, I would never want anything to do with Lily Philips, she is beyond repair and damaged and she has only herself to blame. No marriage, no hookup, anything, like she didn't even had any idea that you can get aids if you get cum in your mouth and she also acted like she was the victim of her whole 100 men in one day escapade.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:25 PM
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Yes, they can have whatever preferences they want, and I am allowed to make fun of their absurdity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:12 PM
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And that's the problem, if no one cares about them and if all we do is call them losers instead of, you know, showing sympathy and help them out as fellow human beings, all they'll do is lash out and kill themselves and/or take others with them. The boy who is outcasted from the village will burn it down to feel its warmth. Not all incels are evil, but keep treating them like nothing and they will snap and become evil eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:08 PM
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Those options don't want men anyway, and besides, what is worst? Not wanting a woman for being narcissistic, loud and confrontational all the time or not wanting a man just because his legs are not long enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:38 PM
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Men come to them, women literally have to put 0 efforts to get a man while men have to grind in order to get a woman. A man will gladly date an average bodied woman who works at McDonald's but it's not the same in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:52 PM
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"It’s that women do not become violent or develop a deep-rooted hatred for men if that desire is not met. They do not say men are irrational beings with unrealistic standards that only 5% of women meet. I am a wonderful woman that men should be fighting for. I will not change anything about myself because it is men who must change what they’re looking for.” What world you live in? How many times have we seen women sharing hashtag killallmen or hashtag allmenaretrash? The media is literally tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:50 PM
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No, they do not, but most men do not have options, so if they stay with a stressful woman it's not because they love stress, but because they are sick and tired to be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:42 PM
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No, most women who hate men because of the top 10% not wanting them, most men who hate women is because none of them want them. Both parties are frustrated at the other gender but for different reasons, one of them not being so absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:27 PM
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What makes you think they didn't have a choice? Most did and besides, what is so bad in being taken care of and raising children?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:05 PM
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You do know being gay is not a choice, right? You are either born gay or you're not, there is no such thing as shifting sexualities when you feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:03 PM
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You do know feeling lonely and actually being lonely are two different things right? Most women are not satisfied in life even if they have a good man and many friends and still claim they are lonely while most women are actually objectively alone. BTW, here is a statistic. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:54 AM
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They do actually, incels are considered terrorists sby most bluepillers, even by Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:46 AM
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No, the feminists actually hate those men because most women nowadays expect the very best men to settle down with them and once that doesn't happen, those women will hate all men putting all men in the same category.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:39 AM
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Again, depends on your age, if you are in your early 20s, then yeah, you are not going to feel alone, but in your 30s or even 40s you will fell alone if you are still single, because by 30 everybody will have their shit together and will have less time for friends. You don't know what true loneliness is because you always have the options. Other people do not. My sister has a bf and career, my mom has her bf as well, and I am by myself in a foreign country trying to earn money and survive and bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:29 AM
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Most of your life? And how old are you anyway, and were you single by choice or force?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:25 AM
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Wrong, I don't despise anyone, they are free to do what they want, but in the end everyone wants a partner, even those boss babes that claim they need no man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:24 AM
4

Wow, you really can't read a comment, can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:23 AM
4

Where did I said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:23 AM
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They don't like modern western women, your typical narcissistic feminist bad bitch that needs no man, but bring them a traditional woman from Asia and they will be over the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:28 PM
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How do you know that though if you are not going through it now? If you are married or have a relationship or always had a relationship, how do you know what true loneliness is? My sister who always had a relationship was thinking the same as you and guess what: after her divorce she now experiences true loneliness. No one to come home to, no one to sleep with, no one to say good morning to, no one to have dinner with, and imagine this routine day after day for 5 years, 10 years, even 20 years. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:25 PM
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Cause its a gamble, and why signing a contract where the woman is rewarded for breaking it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:50 PM
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It is not the same though the older you get. Friends will have their own families and career, and family like mother, father, sister brother will also have their own partner and their own life to live. Having a mate is a definite way to not feel alone, saying that you don't need a partner to stop feeling lonely is beyond ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:47 PM
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Because they crave something they barely have. Most men are extremely lonely, we live in a male loneliness epidemic and it is not taken seriously. Besides, who the hell likes to be lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:58 PM
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Keeping and maintaining friends after a certain age is very hard, especially when everybody else is having relationships or kids. I am not saying becoming addicted to porn is OK, but sometimes it can't be helped because it numbs the pain of loneliness. Instead of telling men over and over "don't become addicted to porn", how about we take measures for it? If it doesn't work telling people over and over "don't be depressed" what makes you think it will for for men addicted to porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:33 PM
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Everybody needs some form of intimacy, biologically speaking our body craves for it, and if women refuse to give it to us despite our best efforts ( yes, we are not entitled to it, yada yada ) then we have to obtain it some other way, healthy or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:01 PM
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You are not loser if you refuse to play a game that is rigged against you. If you are born unattractive, there is pretty much nothing you can do besides getting rich, which is hard in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:31 AM
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I don't personally, I gave it up for now cause I realised I don't have what women most desire in men: looks, money or status. I do my own thing now to become happy by myself, I still keep myself informed about the dating market hoping that maybe things will change and women's ridiculous standards will hopefully go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:27 AM
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I do, and I barely see average or sub average men in relationships, especially short men. Most men that I see in relationships are over 6 foot, and I am talking about younger men, tmnot men in their 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:08 PM
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I don't really see that, but when I do, they are usually rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:19 PM
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Never had a relationship or even a hook up, and I am 34. Why I never had a relationship? Cause I am short.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:47 AM
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There is a reason for that, and that reason is to actually keep a man of they want to marry and have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:05 PM
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I dare you to name all of them, and I mean actual incel killers, mysoginists that specifically targeted only women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:06 AM
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you never heard of the hashtag killallmen or hashtag allmenaretrash? Never heard of the curfew for men a politician suggested in UK?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:03 AM
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Pretty much, I mean FDS is incredibly toxic and sexist towards men but still exists. They are basically female incels but male incels are coompletely wiped out from reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:02 AM
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A real man has to realise in life qhen something ain't for him, and if he isn't able to get women because he lack physicality, then his only choice is money, getting rich and status. Modern Women, whether you like it or not, are attracted by looks, money and status, personality falls 4th place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:39 AM
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Better sex partners? Yes. Better wives and mothers for your children? Heck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:55 AM
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She can decide her own standards, in the end she will end up single if her standards are ridiculously high and way out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:55 AM
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the problem is not that they didn't want a woman as a president, the problem is they didn't want THAT woman to be president.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:49 AM
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We don't though, most of us don't want to be single but got no choice because if we are unattractive and poor, no woman will like us, like ever. Also, maybe we want children, but again, we need a woman for that. Maybe we want to be man whores, but again, if we are unattractive, no chance. Leaving marriages with no commtiment? Mate, who do you think has the most to lose in divorce court cases? Why do you think most women initiate divorces?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:48 AM
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I only use them when I go visit my home country because its cheaper, so twice a year. But with each visit I go to probably 8 hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:20 PM
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I am not proud of these actions, but hey, I already accepted that no woman wants me, so I wanted to know how sex feels like before I die or before my dick stops working. And fair enough, I am 34 and still no lady in my sight, so I keep going to hookers till the day I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:02 AM
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Talking about me? I am 5'3, 34 years old and my situation is exactly like his, only that I am not a virgin cause I went to hookers when I was 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:52 AM
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I am 34 and I would've been a virgin if I wouldn't have gone to hookers. My last date was 9 years ago and it wasn't even successful, she just wanted free food. I know it seems impossible to you but this is more common than you believe, women do care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:47 AM
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Yes, it is a need, and while you are not gonna die because of lack of sex, it could cause you severe mental illness or even physical illness like testicular cancer. We don't wanna recognise these things as problems because us as men are shamed for lack of sex, but these problems are real, and don't get me started on blue balls, which is a real thing and it can hurt like hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:44 AM
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Don't misunderstand, they actually complain about not getting the dates THEY WANT, aka dates with the top 10% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:35 AM
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False, even fat women can date way easier than average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:34 AM
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Most of the average men I know don't even have those basic standards, they just want someone with a pulse and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:31 AM
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One provides good sex while the other provides resources. It is not rocket science, they are not looking for love anymore, they are just looking for something shallow whether that is looks or money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:26 AM
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Talking to any woman mate and you will see almost each and every one of them has a toxic ex. It can't be just a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:10 PM
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Porn often features attractive men having sex with multiple women in the most demeaning and disrespectful ways, leading him to believe that this is what attracts women. Where is the lie in that? Here is an image of a handsome hot man who admitted being in a jail for beating women. You also have Wade Wilson, a murderer convicted for killing 2 women who receives thousands of love letters from women, they even opened up a gofundme page for him which raised 75k dollars. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:07 PM
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I don't know, still need to wait and find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:29 AM
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They can, just not the one THEY WANT.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:19 PM
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If you are observing around you objectively, you can see the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:41 PM
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No, unrealistic standards are created once you have men to compare. Once you experience the best, you cannot really go back. You want that one man to have the best qualities from all the other men you been with: the dick size from John, the jawline from Tom, the car from Chris, the height from Matt and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:39 AM
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Depends on the scenario, I highly doubt you can just molest a woman in the bus and then she will have sex with you in the bus or have sex with the sexy steward in the plane. There are unrealistic scenarios but not unrealistic body types, I mean have you seen some of the porn stars? Riley Reid is one of the most popular ones and she is just a very skinny girl with a pretty face. But I would say that porn doesnt cause body image issues, women do most definetly with their unrealistic standards. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:09 AM
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Elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:03 AM
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I would say they are more valued for sex, but not more valued for relationships. I mean sure, even an obese woman can easily get laid, but I very much doubt they can get a relationship easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:11 AM
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Well I will keep trying new things until I am dead. I won't go by "what if". I prefer to keep trying new things until I get what I want, and if I don't get what I want, at least I am happy I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:17 AM
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Nothing, but who says I won't get luckier in the east? If option A didn't work my entire life, why not trying other options? Gotta try other things, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:12 AM
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I gave my answer based on my shitty luck in the west, which is why i haven't chosen the west and instead chosen the east.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:59 AM
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Middle east: far more traditional, empathetic, humble, lower body count and as a man you are most of the time guaranteed to find a wife. In the west, most men end up dying alone, so yeah, I choose middle east. I never had a gf by this age of 34, so as a man who faiuled miserably in the west, I choose the middle East.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:37 AM
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I didn't say they owe us sex, but don't blame us for lying about our lack of sexual past if you gonna judge us for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:02 PM
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Shitty analogy. Try this one: you need a job to get experience but you need experience to get a job. Same here, if thr ladies don't give you a chance because of the lack of experience with women, then how the hell are you suppose to gain that experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:14 PM
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After years of being honest with women about my lack of sexual history, I learned that yes, I have to lie because many women see it as a red flag a man in his early 30s who never had a gf, they always wonder "what is wrong with him" or "why should I want him if no other girl wanted him". So I just say that my last relationship was last year or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:08 PM
0

What the hell is enthusiastic consent? You cannot just say a normal yes anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:05 PM
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It's just jealous women trying to gaslight men for having preferences. They are just hotter, have less baggage, less trauma and more than likely less bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:04 PM
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Unfortunately you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:53 PM
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Eeem, if she is a stay at home wife, then that means the man provides for her enough to keep her home to take care of the house and kids., so no, it is not "free work". Besides, seeing your kids growing up and spending time with them is the best reward no money can buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:50 PM
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The woman is serving her family like the husband is serving his, I don't see any problem with that all. They are both contributing in their own way, but the way it has always worked was the traditional way: man provides, woman nurtures.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:43 PM
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Mainly because feminists have been brainwashed that being a girl boss and serving some rich dude is much better than serving your husband and kids who will return their love for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:29 PM
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Easier said than done. How do you build a social network in your 30s in a foreign country?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:12 AM
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I mean, if the possibility is there, sure, men wouldn't mind that. Ideal wife in this scenario would be a submissive wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:20 PM
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Thing is, if a man is not given a chance to show off their demeanor or behaviour, then it wouldn't matter. Looks is what get you through the door, once you are through the door, then you can certainly show your demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:16 PM
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I think single mothers are really strong and need to be commended for their amazing effort of raising the future generation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:11 PM
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If they really wanted to control women, they would've done it by now and every part of the world would've been like Afganistan or Saudi Arabia. But women nowadays are the most powerful and privileged group pf people ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:28 AM
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That we live in a patriarchy, a world created by men for men, that men have male privilige and that we want to control women and women are oppressed in this modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:51 AM
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Let me rephrase your title: "UGLY MEN need to learn to be happy single".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:15 AM
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When it comes to masculinity, men should do what is best for them, if they receive the rewards and respect for their effort, then good on them, but if they don't, then opting out of society is not a bad idea. Society itself should suffer the consequences for not respecting out hard working men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:14 AM
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Lost a few friends after moving countries but still keep in touch with a few through discord. All males, still have one female friend with whom i talk once im a full moon. They have wives, one of them has a kid and still has time to chat and play video games. I also have like only 3 friends in UK ( the country i moved to) with whom I hang out and all 3 are single. One with whom I talk once in a full moon. My mom and my aunt. Tried to get along with my sister but she is was too difficult and judg…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:12 AM
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Reject more what? Unless you are an 8 and above as a guy, you ain't getting approached my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:07 AM
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But feminists use the Internet to spread their hateful message, so I would say it's a combination of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:06 AM
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I gave up just because I developed anxiety and depression from all the rejections. I gave up because it was literally destroying my mental health piece by piece. I am 34, never had a gf or a one night stand even, only had sex with escorts. If opportunity rises, I will take it, but until then, I prefer to not try anymore and be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:12 AM
3

And they say women are better communicators.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:09 AM
8

I already can go without sex for many years dude, but love is what actually satisfies me a lot more than sex. People are different and will prioritise different things, but for me, love is the winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:13 AM
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Love every single day!!! What is sex without love anyway? Its empty and shallow while love triumphs everything and is what the soul hungers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:11 AM
1

Ah yes, cause America or United Kingdom is not shallow at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:24 AM
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Wouldn't say they are the worst, they are still bad for unattractive young men but still way more possible than in adulthood where you gotta be in perfect shape in your 30s, have a car, a house and 6 digits in your bank account/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:46 PM
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Thank you. I always found it stupid to just be confident out of thin air despite being rejected your whole life by women. Why do women think these hot men are confident? Because they have been acknowledged by women their whole life. If you are acknowledged and perceived attractive by it her people, you will see yourself attractive as well and thus your self esteem grows. But self esteem cannot grow just out of thin air without some validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:34 PM
2

That's stupid, so that means no masturbation at all and no longer watching a bit of porn here and there? Nothing wrong with having a high libido and a bit of sexual fantasy and just release yourself sexually. A partner can only do so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:31 PM
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Yeah, it is damaging IF you are in relationships, but why would it be damaging if you are undesired by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:52 PM
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If we were to think about what's going on behind everything we consume and buy, we wouldn't buy or consume anything. You ever think about the oil you use in your car and how it is produced? What about the wiring in your house? What about the clothes you wear? Bet you don't know the amount of child labour behind some of the shoes or clothes you wear. What about the cheap electronics from China? Chinese people work hard to death there, do you care about them and not buy their products? "If you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:29 PM
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And you got that number from where exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:45 PM
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What women you interact with if none desire you? Mental health can already be fucked by the huge number of rejections from women anyway, so what does it matter? Addiction appears for a reason, and if the man has no reason to get rid of his addiction, then he never will. You do know the reason of him getting rid of his addiction is actual women liking him, right? But if he gets rejected dozens and dozens of times, then what can he do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:45 PM
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Exactly, porn addicts don't come out of nowhere. Usually addicts become addicted because they lack something. In case of porn, they lack actual sex and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:32 PM
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Never said its a good replacer, but what else is there if a man tried all his life and yet no woman desires him cause of his looks? That happens more often than you think. Cumming releases the happiness hormone which will give you a bit of relief and having a good imagination while watching porn can help at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:30 PM
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You are laid back once you know you are desired by women. If women don't desire you, obviously you cannot be as laid back as you could, you will be a tryharder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:24 PM
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Porn is not damaging if you are single and undesirable as a man. Usually most men become addicted once they realised most women don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:22 PM
3

Have you been to every gay club in the world? Have you been approached by all 4 billion men to draw a conclusion that 2 billion men are like that? And gay men are a minority anyway, why bringing up gay people in this convo? We are talking about straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:52 AM
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Why even bring race in this conversation? So now you think all white men are harassers but Asian people are never harrasers? You know you can involve the police in these situations, I honestly have no idea how you women find these kind of men when they are very very few that would do this kind of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:35 AM
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Doubt this happened often, most men would just walk away form one single no. If it did happened often, I would question the neighborhood you hang around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:19 AM
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I hope you're trolling. So you are shocked that they get angry for you attacking their looks? Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:02 AM
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There are extremists in every group. Seen feminist that even want to kill newborns if they are males.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:06 AM
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I bet you heard some extremist RP and now you label every RP like that. The answer is yes, she can go to college and if I did a good job as a dad, she won't be a slut or a druggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:05 AM
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Is the result of: - men not getting respect - the double standards men face - getting rejected by women in awful ways, we are past beyond "the worst she can do is say no" - being called creeps for being unattractive and shooting our shot. - being cheated on or dragged through court cases List goes on. Getting laid is one of the least reasons, men can get their dick wet if they're willing to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:03 AM
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Hitting your kids was such a normal way of punishment for naughty kids in most countries. Just look at kids nowadays: hooligans, stealing, doing property damages, smoking weed or doing other drugs, disrespecting adults and so on. Hoe many kids do dumb shit on tik too because they never got punished? Too many times. I had so seen so many parents smaking their kids and none of them hit their partner ever. Women back then actually were a lot more traditional and knew what men to appreciate and go f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:47 PM
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Here's an idea: let's stop women being cheating whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:33 AM
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Yes, definetly yes. Women were a lot more feminine and traditional, less confrontational and less masculine. They wouldn't care as much about looks because there was not dating apps and social media that would allow you to fuck a Chad 200 miles away, so they would settle for who they could find, and most of the time they were happier, less toxic relationships and less narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:32 AM
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Recoil exists and have you ever hold a rifle? They are not light, you still require good arm strenght and grip if you wanna be efficient with guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:47 PM
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Thank you, but it still happens and these women are not called out for it enough though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:06 AM
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I gave an example, but if you wanna do comparisons, then how about what if women hated men for being cheated and abused in comparison to men who hated women for being cheated and abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:38 AM
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You still need strenght and stamina and agility for tools you know. And yes, females are less violent cause they have less testosterone and less strenght too, but doesn't mean they never kill. They also get a lot less sentence for the same crime as a man and also are being forgiven a lot more often. And yes, men went to wars to protect who? To protect women , so you're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:29 AM
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So when you keep rejecting men for their looks and insult them for their looks, it is not their fault for having a bit of hatred for women? What about a woman who got abused and raped by men, is it her fault as well for hating men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:26 AM
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How about you tell me why I am wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:15 AM
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You do know that if women have the physical capacity to kill as much as men, they would, right? You never seen women getting violent? Never seen women beating men and abusing them? You know why they aren't as many killers women as killer men? Cause women usually kill through other means like poison, and tracking down killers who use poison as a murder weapon is hard as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:14 AM
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Most men who are frustrated and have so called mysoginistic views started from somewhere. Almost no healthy minded man in modern days is born a mysoginist, he becomes one because of constant rejections and insults from women. If someone is being treated like a monster he eventually becomes one. That is what happens to most men. There is not coincidence that most horrible mysoginists are also ugly men, that happens for a reason. Not saying they have a right to be mysoginists, just explaining why …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:10 AM
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I want kids but I don't trust women. I never had a relationship or even a hook up and I am 33. I got rejected by hundreds of women mainly cause of my looks. I am building my money and riches so that I can grow my status and get myself a gold digger. Apparently that is the only solution for ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:05 AM
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Well that and because he is supporting masculinity. He is not a good role model to follow his actions, but his words most definetly make sense and resonate with many many men. And also he says controversial things intentionally to get him clicks. He is a serial rage baiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:59 AM
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Well I did, then how do you explain me befriending women easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:39 PM
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By good pictures you mean using filters? Cause some pictures can really mislead other people and even be considered catfishing. Like for example when bigger girls take only selfies and never take pictures of the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:56 PM
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I do know that pretty much all Indian citizens are treated badly, but the statistics also shows how hight the rape statistic is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:36 PM
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Exactly, I mean how many women do you know that got attracted by confident charismatic men and how many of those men turned out to be toxic and abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:21 PM
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Got gaslighted myself by many bluepillers saying that I must have a shitty personality if I never had a woman. And that I assuming the women that rejected me even gave me a chance to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:19 PM
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So basically looks get you through the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:22 AM
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That's in India, you know, the Rape capital of the world where they touch women everywhere with no consequences? India is not the same as US or Europe and if you think that women are being treated the same in first world countries like in India, man, you must have something wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:28 AM
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You can still get dates at a social circle, nobody says it's impossible, but trying getting dates on dating apps which is only looks based.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:26 AM
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Women that keep saying that "it's not your looks that can't get you women" it's nothing more but gaslighting and a manipulative tactic to avoid showing their own shallow needs. Seen so many ugly men with confidence and social skills that still can't get women and seen the dumbest men with 0 social skills that get pussy everyday. Looks are your personality, nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:25 AM
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Thanks to dating apps, we now know exactly how women operate and that their standards can become ridiculous once their options open up. I would say they do wanna be at the driver's seat but keep doing the same mistakes over and over again and those mistakes are: keep chasing the Chads that don't want them, keep rejecting the good men that do want them but are not just as hot, regretting not having kids once they reach their 30s and 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:20 AM
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We all gotta acknowledge our strengths and weaknesses. We need to be more accountable for our actions and more empathetic towards others. None sex is better or lesser, we all need each other and together we can truly find happiness and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:13 AM
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I took gym classes and basically no ladies were interested in becoming friends with men like me but most definetly wanted to become friends and more with tall muscular handsome men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:24 PM
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Each with their own preference. I personally don't like it, my dick is too thick for it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:07 PM
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Actually I was right almost everytime, it feels like douchebags have a certain look to them. The same goes for smart people, stupid people, bad people and good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:07 AM
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hvm want their own children, not someone else's Nothing wrong with having preferences. Women avoid short men all the time. May be so, or they don't want to provide for a kid that is not theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:06 AM
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Cold approach as long as you are attracted. If you are unattractive and short, get ready to get falsely accuse of shit. I know I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:42 AM
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Usually guys who do not ask questions don't want anything serious or they didn't need to ask questions cause they are attractive. When you are attractive, you don't need to put effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:09 PM
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Not revenge, they wanna make up for their lost time. Women are in their prime when they are younger and men are in their prime when they are older. So it just makes sense that men just wanna have fun just like women did. If women can have a hoe phase, why can't men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:07 PM
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Trying to become rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:42 PM
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I don't look as hot as them, so I am being ignored a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:36 PM
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I am talking about physicality. If a man is looking like Jadon Momoa or Henry Cavill, women WILL ignore red flags for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:40 AM
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And you think women won't ignore red flags for a man who is hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:38 AM
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You do know women lie almost all the time about their preferences just to save face right? And their actions speak otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:37 AM
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Don't men usually date damaged women all the time? If men can date mentally ill damaged women, why can't women do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:27 AM
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Wouldn't say its sexkst, it's just hypocritical that women want to be equal to men only when it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:26 AM
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Frustration is a natural emotion to have when you put in the effort and no good result comes out of it after many years. Imagine going to college 10 years and still being a janitor, that's how it feels like being a man in the daring scene. Some men can control their anger, but it is not easy to control your anger, I mean, look at women are expressing their anger easily on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:25 AM
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Actually these have more importance than ever. I think you missed the many interviews where women are asked how much money a man has to make and most answer over 100k, others even say 500k. Nowadays women are a lot more superficial and dependent on luxury than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:22 AM
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Right, I can definetly tell you that at work for example we men cannot treat women coworkers as we would treat our male coworkers or even talk to them the same way we talk to our male coworkers. I had a private chat one day with one of my mates at work telling him I would never shag a fat woman. A woman heard that and reported me to hr for having a private conversation on my break with one of my mates. So probably you can u derstand why some men are scared of women, not because you are like alie…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:15 PM
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Men are far more logical and self aware than women, so no, most women wouldn't be bothered at all by most of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:14 AM
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It is deceptive because in reality they want to be treated as angels, perfect beings, Hollywood stars so in essence, no, they don't wanna be treated as just normal human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:10 AM
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Because women don't actually want men with their own free will. Strong men cannot be manipulated and women want to manipulate men to do their bidding and pay for OF. Think about it, if every man in America would follow the redpill, OF models would be bankrupt and so is the porn industry. They need weak men so that the sex industry can still thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:51 PM
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I am a 33 year old man who never had unpaid sex or a relationship. My standards are pretty low, only exception being obese women mainly because I am a small guy myself (5'3, 60 kg). Physically she can be whatever, but personality wise I would love a loyal, understanding and honest woman with hobbies and intelligent enough to hold conversations. I don't expect my partner to be something that I am not myself already.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:28 AM
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When you are abusing something over and over, it will have negative consequences no matter what you are doing, that includes continuous sex. If women would choose their partners more carefully, there won't be any consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:20 AM
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You won't say the same thing once you're old. People really don't think about the future, do they? What happens once you are not attractive enough for situationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:18 AM
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You gotta be some gollum looking woman to be called a creep. Never in my life have I ever heard a guy calling a woman a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:59 PM
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They have to become ok with no sex. And by men I mean average men and under, not the chads. I personally never had unpaid sex and I am 33. My first escort I paid was when I was 26. If I haven't had paid for sex, I would've been a virgin even now, not knowing how sex feels and how being with a woman feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:29 PM
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https://youtu.be/MO1ZewjkdU0?si=N2Md6r3nTZeKyA5D here is an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:57 AM
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Another delusional out of touch post from Lillith. Virgin shaming is very real, incels get shamed a lot, and I don't mean the hateful ones, I mean the actual good men who happen to be unattractive and who happen to never had a relationship and who also happen to not hate women. Yes Lillith, good incels do exist. And not only are men shamed for being virgins, but also: if they date younger women, they are called predators if they refuse to date fat women, they are called fatphobic. if they refuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:55 AM
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Someone who gives women way more attention than they deserve and who defend women no matter how shitty their attitude is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:22 AM
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You got wrong idea on conservative men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:21 AM
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Dating world wouldn't change much because most men are average and they can barely get a relationship or sex anyway. But I can tell you that the world would change for the better: less porn addiction, less prostitution, less suicides for definite and most probably men would have better careers overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:41 AM
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Cause women are perfect and always good and they are never ever ever evil, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:38 AM
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They are not I timated by them, but those so called successful women are very masculine and dominant and overall a huge pain to deal with. Why would we men want to date a other man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:36 AM
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If I could have that option, I would do it in a heartbeat. Every mental health issue of mine wouldn't have existed if I wouldn't have desired a partner. Chasing women fucked my mental health a lot, and especially being rejected by each and every one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:44 AM
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Trust me, the feeling is mutual. Your position is that as long as a guy is nice, he can get a good/hot woman no matter how ugly or average he is, right? You are trying to prove that the 80/20 rule is a myth. And we are trying to say that it is not IMPOSSIBLE for average men to get relationships, but highly improbable and in most cases he is the last choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:03 AM
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Sounds like a pretty average guy to me and I assume that is your bf. Average height for male Americans is 5'8, average penis size is 5.6', average weight is around 200 pounds, average annual salary is 60k. I am not saying it is IMPOSSIBLE for average men to have relationships, but they will definetly not kill it in the dating scene and will not have a very active sex life with many different women either. Most of these men are the last choice for most women anyway. And the probability for these …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:57 AM
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The problem with you women is that you see even an average or slightly above average man as very low. You and I have different views on men's value. You gotta understand one thing about autistic men: they are hyperfocused. Does it seem like Mark Zuckerberg is completely normal? No, he is also autistic but look at him now. Thing is women can see potential in men. So an autistic guy who works a lot, is pretty tall, has a monster dick has a huge potential to be a Chad. He can make a ton of money in…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:46 AM
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Then he needs support from the wife to be back on his feet. If he does have intention, then he needs help.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:35 AM
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The only downfall for the guy is that he is autistic. He is tall, he is not fat and is intelligent which means she can have a good future with him financially. And the monster penis size is a guarantee win. We want to see an example from you with a complete loser from all aspects, not just one. Yeah, he is autistic but everything else is fine? Can't you see how hypocritical you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:30 AM
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You literally just said he has a monster dick and is studying hard to have a good job. That literally puts him in top 20%. You just proved our point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:01 AM
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Pretty much all the time. On dating apps is even far worse, like 95/5 even. Now this is not to say that average men will never ever get a relationship, but more than likely they will be the last option for a single mother who got passed around like the towns bike. I personally never got a gf or even got considered for a one night stand at all because I am very short for a man (5'3) while other friends of mine who are far taller and better looking had no issues getting girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:56 AM
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And I will say it again, if it is the guy's fault and has no intention to be the provider again, then that is different and the woman has every right to leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:33 AM
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Sure honey, whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:00 PM
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Yes, it is not impossible, but highly improbable since good looking old men are extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:54 PM
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Of course there will be certain men that are more attractive than others at a certain age, but that all comes down to genetics, and a really good skincare routine and daily healthy routine, which costs money and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:42 PM
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Yes, money and fame can make even an older man attractive, go figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:59 PM
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It's so easy for other people who are not complete failures in dating to say that. Not everyone can just completely give up in their desire for a partner and hoping for something to happen in years to come. There is only so much you can improve yourself as a man and when you see that even THAT is not enough, then what else is there to do? I tell you what: making lots of money and getting a wife from Asia. I am telling you, Asia is the BEST OPTION for unattractive men. Cause after all, that is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:45 PM
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I don't think a person should be used for sex at all if the other person wants more than just sex. Whether you throw her away now or later is still bad but worse if later because you wasted her time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:47 PM
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Depends on what morals you got really. If you are selfless and care more about other people, then you would just be very honest with her about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:20 PM
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It has a limit. It needs some form of physical attraction as well, so a 20 year old will never fall in love with a 60 year old, most likely she will use him for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:22 AM
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They are as horny as men, but they are picky because they know chsds would fuck anything, including women way uglier than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:51 AM
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I personally would use her for sex cause I barely get any options anyway. Their choice, nothing illegal there. Women are selfish in the dating market all the time so why not men? If John can have other options, he should seek other options and not hurt her, but if he doesn't have any options and doesn't want a long term relationship, then just use her for sex and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:48 AM
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No man with enough brain cells will ever think that a hot 20 year old will actually love an 60 year old man, it's just ridiculous. If I were 60 and if I were indeed attracted to 20 year olds, I would just do it for sex and wouldn't expect anything more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:47 AM
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