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| 1 | Sitting Close To A Woman On A DateI agree. However, how do you sit next to them or close without it seeming odd or awkward? Some people get so thrown off when you sit on the same side of the table as them | /r/seduction | 29/07/26 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Sitting Close To A Woman On A DateWdym go for the pull early? Like try to invite her back early? | /r/seduction | 29/07/26 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Sitting Close To A Woman On A DateWell what are some ways you’d suggest to steer it in a more flirty way instead of too polite or job interviewish ? | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Sitting Close To A Woman On A DateRight? I’ve done both judging by our previous conversations and vibe. Sometimes you can just tell they’d be fine with it if they’re already pretty flirty but for first dates it’s such a gamble that I never really do it in fear that they’ll be weirded out or even worse, uncomfortable. When I have successfully sat on the same side as them there has almost always been alot more physical contact that ended well or at the very least in a kiss or makeout session later. | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 07:01 AM |
| 1 | I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof)So what are some more of your go to ways to get a woman to come over other than just “Hey want to come over”? Seems like alot of the ones mentioned in this post are related to vehicles or getting rides lol I always struggle to think of better ways to get a woman to come over without just sounding like every other dude saying “Come over”. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 12:31 PM |
| 1 | How Soon Is It Appropriate To Ask A Woman To Hangout After Matching On App?Well clearly you got better game or something because I never feel a woman is interested enough in fucking that quick. | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 06:02 AM |
| 1 | How Soon Is It Appropriate To Ask A Woman To Hangout After Matching On App?Yeah I def don’t ask that soon unless they hint at it or straight up ask themselves. I actually have more of an issue meeting up sooner than later myself. I tend to always be busy or enjoy my own time just chilling so going out on dates sometimes is something I gotta plan for myself in advance so I’m mentally prepared lol. | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 06:34 PM |
| 1 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?So it would almost make sense and be fine to even just start making out with no lead up or anything once we get in my place? Or go in for a kiss/be touchy and super flirty right away ? | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 07:17 AM |
| 1 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?Lmao yes I meant live. I always hit the o by accident lmao thanks m8 | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 04:23 AM |
| 1 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?How do I make the mood without being too obvious or do I just be obvious? | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 04:19 AM |
| 1 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?So what advice would you give regarding going in for a kiss ? Just do it at some point ? | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?Ok. I’m gunna try this stuff. I have a 2nd date with a girl this Thursday. First date went very well but the only physical aspects were the subtle touches and hugs. This second date she’s meeting me at my place then we’re walking to a nearby pub for a drink. Was thinking of inviting her over after if all goes well | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 12:32 AM |
| 3 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?Very good response bro. Thank you so much. I’ve always loved with family and/or roommates my entire life and since October, it’s been my first time having my very own apartment that I can have the freedom to invite whoever to so this whole bringing someone home and how to do it thing is new to me. I appreciate you bro. | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 12:31 AM |
| 12 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?Buddy I don’t have a dog | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?Ok so for the hand holding/kissing. Do I just go for it if it seems like a good moment? I always feel like it would be weird to randomly grab her hand and hold it out of nowhere. As for the kiss, of course if it was super random it may not work but I could try at the end of the date | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 12:26 AM |
| 2 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?I do, alot of the time they don’t really react if you know what I mean? Like they don’t seem uncomfortable by me touching them however they also don’t give any visual cues that they enjoy it. They just don’t really acknowledge it. I feel I’m pretty good at the subtle touches and all that but escalation from there i’m bad at. If she reacts good to the touches should I try to hold hands and move from there? | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 12:23 AM |
| 1 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?Well 9/10 times I don’t get the vibe that it would be a good idea to go in for a kiss. I always assume that initiating a kiss, hand holding, ect wouldn’t work unless we’ve already hung out multiple times. I very rarely feel I should go in for a kiss or anything on the first date other than subtle touch IE touching her arm, putting my hand on the small of her back, ect | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 11:20 PM |
| 1 | How not to lose hope?Thanks bro. This really helped. Been feeling the same as OP lately. It’s tough out there and 90% of women don’t even give some of us the time of day. I know what I’m worth and what I do/can bring to the table though and that alone even keeps me going. Sure I get envious of men who seems to hook up every other day if not every day with different women but I just tell myself A) It’s quality over quantity. It’s ok to have higher standards and not bang anything that moves just because I wanna get la… | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 08:05 AM |
| 1 | How To Deal With Women That Make No Conversation Effort?So if I do get her number or something should I just make a date asap and barely bother texting her until then? | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 07:07 AM |
| 2 | How To Deal With Women That Make No Conversation Effort?So if I do get her number or something should I just make a date asap and barely bother texting her until then? | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 07:06 AM |
| 6 | How To Deal With Women That Make No Conversation Effort?Yes please explain | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 07:06 AM |
| 2 | How To Deal With Women That Make No Conversation Effort?So basically text back the same way? | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Should You Wait Until Actually Meeting/After The First Date To Invite A Woman Over?Yeah. I did. I said “Idk”. As in idk what hea doing or not. Just asking for tips that could help me achieve the same | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Should You Wait Until Actually Meeting/After The First Date To Invite A Woman Over?Idk but I don’t want to ask him how he does it. Kind of an awkward thing to ask my best friend idk. Maybe he just has way better game or is more attractive. What way should I approach asking in a way that’s not way too straight up | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Should You Wait Until Actually Meeting/After The First Date To Invite A Woman Over?Ghostface would be funny if it was the one from Scary Movie | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 12:38 AM |
| 1 | How To Text A Woman In A Flirty/Sexual Way?Lol a shirtless pic is the most important? | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 05:49 AM |
| 1 | How To Text A Woman In A Flirty/Sexual Way?What’s a good example? Like a shirtless pic? I always feel like the women I’m talking to would be thrown off. | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 04:57 AM |
| 2 | How To Get A Hook Up After Meeting A WomanMost of the time yes. I just never invite them back for some reason. I always feel like if I do and they say no then that ruins my chances of seeing them again because they think I’m creepy or only wanting one thing. I’m too careful I guess | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:47 PM |
| 2 | How To Get A Hook Up After Meeting A WomanTotally agree. Only thing that sucks is I live in a very cold city so sometimes doing alot of walking, such as bouncing around to different settings, can be rough. Especially if she’s not dressed for it or i’m not. I’d have to give her a heads up we’re gunna be walking to different places so she could dress appropriately. I’m pretty lucky though because my place is very close and near me parking is bad so sometimes i’ll invite the girl to just come park at my building and we can walk from here t… | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:46 PM |
| 2 | How To Get A Hook Up After Meeting A WomanHonestly I think my pics made the difference. A while back I was on dating apps and most of my lics were mirror selfies and what not. Started seeing someone so I deleted dating apps. In that time I did some traveling and got better pics of myself traveling, at work, at the gym, ect that weren’t mirror selfies and when I remade dating apps (obviously I stopped seeing that person) I used those pics with some prompts that sparked debate and it seems to be working. Could be anything though, maybe i’… | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:42 PM |
| 0 | How To Get A Hook Up After Meeting A WomanI do. I’m usually pretty good for that. I’m decent at flirting and being touchy without being weird | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:39 PM |
| 5 | How To Get A Hook Up After Meeting A WomanMay I feast upon your pussy madam? | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:39 PM |
| 1 | How To Get A Hook Up After Meeting A WomanWell I just don’t wanna seem like a creep is all. I feel like if I ask and she says no then that may kill the chance for a next date if she’s not the type of girl to hook up. She may think that’s all I’m wanting or something | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How To Get A Hook Up After Meeting A WomanThanks for the advice sir! That’s awesome | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | How To Get A Hook Up After Meeting A WomanSo basically only ask first date if it’s implied? Or just ask and see? If not then invite her second date? | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Wow. This is actually inspiring bro | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)Whacking your dick 700+ times doesn’t count | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How To Approach A Woman At Club/Music Concert?Checked it out | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Foundations Of Outer GameWhat would be the easiest and most straightforward approach for day game? Say I was out and about shopping and saw an attractive woman. Just a simple “Hey, I thought you were pretty attractive and wanted to come talk to you” then start conversation? or is that a no ? | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 03:36 AM |
| 1 | How To Approach A Woman At Club/Music Concert?Is it about at these settings though? | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 03:15 AM |
| 1 | How To Approach A Woman At Club/Music Concert?That is actually a good way to start. Thanks for the tip. Then just normal conversation from there? What if it’s too loud of an environment to really make conversation? Such as a rave or music concert? | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 02:05 AM |
| 2 | How I text girls when I want to get laid (+IRL examples)Can you post some examples of how to effectively flirt over text? For some reason I always feel like I forget to flirt. In person and text 😂 | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 06:35 AM |
| 1 | 3 flirting principles that consistently get me laid on datesGood advice. Any deeper dive into texting game? I think I’m alright at it but still struggle to think of flirty things to say at times | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Well I’m hoping I end up being a success story and my dating life picks up significantly in my 30s. My 20s haven’t been very eventful dating/sex wise | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?That did and I have been on a meal plan for a bit now. Slimmed down a little but it hasn’t been a linear process by any means | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 05:52 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?That’s true. I don’t even need the number | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?That’s a good way to put it. Focus on WHERE the emotion is felt. That would definitely help me pin point it and feel it deeper | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 09:05 PM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Exactly. I fall off the gym and my diet sometimes. More frequently than I like to admit but I always jump back on it | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Thanks for the tips! Wdym by “leaning out” though? | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 09:02 PM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Well that’s something I didn’t know as I am very new to this all. Only got suggested that coach Kyle dude by someone else. Tbh I didn’t even know there were YouTube channels for improving your game before that so it just happened to be the first I checked out. The dude is pretty cocky and annoying sometimes so I would like an alternative channel | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Must be nice | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Most likely honestly. Maybe not needy but giving off a vibe of some sort for sure | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 08:15 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Very true. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 08:14 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Thanks for the tips man | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 05:18 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I find I get dry spells all winter | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 05:15 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I will. Thank you | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Unfortunately for me, I feel like if I drop my standards too low, I won’t even be able to keep my dick up because i’m very picky and get turned off by the smallest things it seems. I know it sounds shallow but it’s happened a few times before when I tried to lower my standards and made for terrible sex | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 02:27 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?That’s very very true. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 02:26 AM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?This is pretty spot on to how I’m feeling now bro. You’re not alone. I’m very sexually frustrated and feel like I need to get laid already. I am extra irritated lately and feel like every chance or opportunity I get presented is just a tease or a game and I hate the idea of having to play these dumb games to hook up. Hook up culture is definitely still a thing but you gotta work for it it seems | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 02:26 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Yea definitely. I think I have alot of work to do on my own self | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Thank you man. I appreciate that. So I should just focus on raising my vibrations? | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 01:22 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?See that’s my goal. I definitely do have inner child trauma. Growing up I was never good with women and would always be judged/rejected by them. I feel like i’m not worthy of 90% of women I see and that’s a huge problem. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?That’s true. Problem now is getting more dates ! I haven’t been getting shit lately on dating appa | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 01:19 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I feel like my looks are slightly above average, I know i’m a handsome guy and get that compliment alot, but I put in effort and get literally nothing. Haven’t even gotten close to a hook up opportunity in the last 3.5 months. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 01:18 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Well I mean he uses protection all the time as I would as well so not too worried about that. Plus, I wouldn’t hook up with anyone that seems super slutty or dirty | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 01:17 AM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I actually typed in my phone notes and outline of the man I want to become and things I can do to achieve that version of myself. It’s applying the steps and staying consistent that’s tough | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Yeah I see tons of these dating coaches. One big thing though is tons of them are super attractive to begin with so they tell you these tips that most likely work for them because they’re very attractive on top of it. I watch a guy on YouTube named “Coach Kyle” and he gives good tips and info but, above all, all this content, these tips, tricks, advice, aren’t going to do shit for me if I don’t approach women because i’ll never apply what I learn. That’s the struggle | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 01:15 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?You’re right man thank you. As for the good fuck, that was kind of the case with my ex. Met her, fucked her well and that seemed to be what she prioritized over everything else in the relationship lol | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?That’s true . If was such a short relationship though. Idk why it’s still weighing on me | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:27 PM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Yeah well since my break up I feel like i’ve been actively trying and haven’t been able to land anything for almost 4 months which is slowly killing my confidence in turn making it harder | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Yeah? How so? More matches come winter ? | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:04 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Very true! I need to get over the rejection vibe. Honestly, i’m more anxious of other people seeing me get rejected than the rejection from the woman herself. If I’m in a situation where it’s just me and a woman I’m interested in in a low traffic area then I feel more confident. However, the thought of approaching a woman at a mall or club where tons of people are around and I just fumble terribly is what I cringe thinking about. Hinge is really good but I find alot more women are looking for so… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Nice man! That’s great. See I never expect to smash 10/10 stunners but ai know I can get very attractive women. My last two girlfriends were stunning so i’ve proved to myself that I can get pretty top tier women (in terms of looks at least). I just fuck up my self esteem alot when I get out of a relationship and have my standards too high | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I did thank you. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:57 PM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?That was a really nice response man. Thank you. So I should maybe just focus on myself for now and that will in turn help in the long run? Honestly, every aspect of my life right now is great other than my dating/social life. I have a great job, work with great people , make decent money, I have a nice place and amazing family/a ride or die friend. I just struggle with women atm | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:56 PM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?That’s true. Any book suggestions ? | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?That’s true. There is this really cool looking club in my city that I want to check out but never have because of the fesr of going alone although idk if it’s very socially friendly or not. Never been and it looks like a really classy place | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:52 PM |
| 3 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I actually do kiss them quite often yes. My last few dates I didn’t but i’d say like 70%-80% of the time I am. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:50 PM |
| -3 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?True. Very good advice, thank you | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:49 PM |
| 10 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?True. Very good advice, thank you | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Any suggestions on videos to watch or books to read that will help with that mindset? | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Wow this is a very well written outline. Thank you | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Wow this is a very well written outline. Thank you | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:40 PM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Well you’re definitely not alone man, seems pretty common | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?You’re right . I’m definitely not over her. Idek why I’m trying to go on dates and waste other women’s time. I just keep telling myself that I SHOULD be over it by now so I’m forcing myself to be basically but I don’t think I am. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Very well put. I’ll definitely check that book out. Thank you ! | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:36 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Thank you so much. I’ll definitely try this. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:35 PM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Yes, let’s do it. So I just gotta meditate on hard feelings basically? Really think and feel my emotions good/bad consistently? | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:33 PM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I have before and he seems to just get lucky or have skill idk. He says alot of the time he chats with women from dating apps then either invites them over or he goes to their place and hooks up. He never really tells me how he escalates to sex when they do come over though nor do I ask too much because that seems a bit weird to ask. When I chat with women they either A) Barely even reciprocate the conversation or show interest or B) If I invite them over they 90% of the time say they don’t go o… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Very true | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?So to sum it up, just don’t think so much about it? | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:26 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Yea true. Except my buddy seems to bag 3 chicks a week and it makes me look at myself and judge myself | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?See i’m so picky that I don’t even want to or care to get laid unless I personally think the woman is at least a 7-8 but that’s unrealistic | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:31 AM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?That’s a great way to put it | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:29 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I don’t even go to clubs and bars much. I would be going alone as I have no one to go with. Kind of hard trying to go to a club alone. Especially when I barely went to clubs in my life period | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:27 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?For real. The cooking date is an exact thing I tried asking a couple times and it was quickly shot down. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:25 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?What is a good way to just “feel” these emotions fully? | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:25 AM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Good tip! Thanks ! | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:23 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?One of my fears is the fear that if I creep my ex gf’s social media that I’ll already see she moved on. Obviously that’s not what you mean right? Like don’t embrace that kind of fear? Been trying hard to forget about her and I feel like it has a hand in this | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:20 AM |
| 3 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?How do I fully feel it though? Just focus on it? | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:18 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I definitely will. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:17 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Trust me. I’ve been trying them all | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:15 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?You’re right man. Thank you. I really need to let myself relax | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:15 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Mostly frustration. With myself as well as the fact that I’m lonely. With myself because I always procrastinate doing things that I tell myself I should try doing alone | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:13 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Very good advice. That’s true. That’s what exes of mine all had in common. They all said they found me genuine and funny so I try to stick to being who I am. Just lately been kind of down on myself because of this dry spell | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 08:02 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?You’re absolutely right. Thank you | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 08:01 AM |
| 3 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I definitely always make sure to be myself. I’m told by women that my greatest quality is my smile and humour/ability to make them laugh effortlessly. I never change who I am but I am trying to implement new things that may help like more impactful flirting, teasing, ect because I don’t want to be friendzoned either. I just need to stop taking it so hard when I’m not having success or in a dry spell | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 08:00 AM |
| 3 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Obviously. I don’t just sot at home and whine. I go on dates as often as I can get them and try to learn how to close with a hook up, what’s your suggestion? Give me some tips | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:57 AM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Thank you man. I think this is what I needed to see. I’m not going to give up, I just think I have some work to do on myself. Clearly my own self worth and self confidence is a big reason for my demise here. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:56 AM |
| 3 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I’m pretty picky I noticed so it probably is my standards. I have considered just taking a step back and building a life/version of myself that people would want to be apart of, not just women. I think part of it all is i’m just really lonely. Shortly after my break up I moved into my very own one bedroom apartment for the first time and only have one really close and real friend. When he’s busy (which is often because he plays in a few bands and is out alot) i feel very lonely. I just work, go … | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:55 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Well idk I think I don’t ask them to come back to my place or invite them 90% of the time because I don’t feel like they’d accept because they didn’t give the vibe they were that into me or they don’t seem like that kind of woman to come home with me on the first date. Honestly the only situation where I got invited back to a woman’s place after the first meet up was with my most recent ex. Other than that, never really got the vibe that the date went well enough to pop that question ? Idk maybe… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:51 AM |
| 31 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Bro. Really well said. Thank you for this. You’re right. I find I didn’t really give a fuck about hooking up and all that until I noticed my buddy doing a ton if it. With some dimes as well, so I felt why couldn’t I? Had no luck so now I’m down on myself and feeling like less of a man than him. I never really fucked anyone that I didn’t see as relationship material either | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:48 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?True. I’m trying to keep my head up and keep going. Got ghosted after my last first date and now haven’t had a single date in weeks. Been brutal | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:44 AM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?See growing up l never had much experience when ot came to women at all. I talked to many women and kissed a bunch but never slept with much at all. I eventually got a girlfriend who I was with for 5 years from just after graduation until I was like 24/25. After that I kind of sort of slept around with like 2-3 women using dating apps then dated another girl for about a year. After her had a dry spell for almost a year, got laid, another dry spell for almost a year then dated my most recent ex f… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:43 AM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I want to try this but am terrible at cold approaches. I feel like i’d be the most awkward person if I did | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:37 AM |
| 3 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I definitely will try that if I ever start landing dates again | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:36 AM |
| 5 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I do need the extra cash lol | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:35 AM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Even with dating apps I can’t get near that. Even back when I was having alot of luck on dating apps talking to women i’d talk to maybe 3-5 a week wnd only ever meet up with 1-2 for a date. 90% of the time not even get close to a lay out of those 1-2 dates. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:35 AM |
| 3 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?You’re totally right. I just keep letting the thought of “the longer I don’t get laid the lower my self esteem will go” thought fill my head and it kills the vibe. I never used to try so hard to get laid and I definitely got more opportunities when I wasn’t trying so hard/thinking about it so much. I just have been trying so hard lately because I keep comparing myself to my buddy and trying to sleep around as well because I don’t really want anything serious atm due to not being emotionally avai… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:34 AM |
| 2 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?You’re right. I shouldn’t compare myself to my friend. He is also a drummer in a pretty well known band in my city so he meets a ton of people quite easily. I have also been very picky, I thought my ex was way out of my league on attractiveness and was surprised I got a woman like her so since her i’ve been way too picky and only wanting to hook up with 8-10s which is proving to backfire on me. I don’t want to lower my standards though, I only want to sleep with a woman if I find her hot as fuck | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:30 AM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I definitely have learned not to let these dumb apps affect my confidence because you’re right, they are really just pay to play. Just sucks because I have really bad approach anxiety in real life. I tell myself all the time that I want to get better game in person and meet women organically but when presented an opportunity with a beautiful woman I see in person I completely blank of what to say after I open so I don’t even bother approaching. Way easier said than done for me to approach women … | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:27 AM |
| 4 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?It kind of is my reality tbh. You’re right. I get very down on myself when I fumble opportunities with women or get rejected in some form. Been thinking recently to just take a step back from it all and focus on getting my self esteem and confidence up. I was very confident in my last relationship because my ex was absolutely gorgeous but then after our break up my confidence plummeted for some reason. Now I keep thinking it was just a fluke | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:22 AM |
| 11 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I know i’m a pretty attractive dude. I workout and am in decent shape, muscly, I take care of myself and I know I can be funny and charming. I just get in my head alot, especially on dates. Then as time passes I become hyper focused on trying to get laid or create opportunities to get laid that if feels like I make it more difficult by stressing so much about it | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:19 AM |
| 0 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Thank you. One thing my past couple exes told me is that i’m very funny and I guess that’s how I landed them? I know that I know how to talk to women but feels like I forget how to be when I haven’t went on w date in a while. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:15 AM |
| 38 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I honestly don’t know man, it’s gotta be how I flirt and/or act on dates because i’m sure if I was super charming on dates it wouldn’t be hard. Then again I don’t really ask or invite them to my place. Also never had them imply coming to my place either. Idk what I’m doing wrong. Could also be huge how I chat with them over text because I feel like I forgot how to be flirty and charming even over text. I find we talk about alot of small talk type topics over text but 90% of the women ai talk to … | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 02:36 AM |
| 1 | First proper cold approach with a 10True. You’re demonstrating that you’re below average | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 09:09 PM |
| 95 | First proper cold approach with a 10At least he said something. It’s a step in the right direction at the very least. What would you have done? Please do share since you seem to be a professional. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 03:56 AM |
| 1 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?How do you get ONS off dating apps? Do you just go on a date and if it goes well invite them back to your place? I got really hurt in a recent relationship so I feel i’m not very emotionally available but I just want to sleep around and hook up because i’ve never experienced doing that before but I can’t seem to get a hook up for the life of me. I get dates somewhat easily off these apps but idk how to close it with a ONS. It’s always just a first date then kind of fizzles out or else I feel I h… | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 11:20 AM |
| 3 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?Yeah I barely ever go to clubs mainly because I have no one to go with. Other than that they seem fun and I live very close to a busy nightlife area in my city | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 06:34 PM |
| 0 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?Was this at a club? Do you find clubs are alot easier to pick up woman or at least a good place where women will openly show they’re interested? | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | The “game” has been good to me! I’ve had my share of gf’s, fwb’s and one night stands. Here’s my take on it!Really ? Because I swear to god I literally never ever see an attractive woman look in my direction and give me any aligns that they’re attracted to me. I don’t think I can think of a single time in my life that a woman made eye contact multiple times and smiled enough for me to get a strong vibe to approach her. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 05:14 PM |
| 10 | Do 21-22 old guys have chances to pickup older women (milfs)I seem to attract 35+ and i’m 29 | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 01:55 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Approach Bringing A Woman Home From A Bar or Club?This is a great tip. Thak you! | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 05:35 AM |
| 4 | How Do I Approach Bringing A Woman Home From A Bar or Club?Do you eventually discover how you flirt specifically? I don’t even find opening the hardest but then I blank after and don’t know what to carry on conversation about | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 05:35 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Approach Bringing A Woman Home From A Bar or Club?Tbh idek because I barely ever go to bars or clubs but you have a good point. The biggest thing is you don’t know if they’re even single or not. That’s why I like dating apps. It’s obvious why you’re both on it. Dating apps lately though have been killing my confidence though because I barely ever get matches and when I do they stop replying after like one or two messages. Makes me feel like shit. Plus I just wanna fool around right now not take a woman on multiple dates just to sleep with her e… | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 12:48 AM |
| 3 | How Do I Approach Bringing A Woman Home From A Bar or Club?What if I don’t smoke or do drugs? Lol and in the men’s bathroom? I rather fuck somewhere more comfortable | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 12:45 AM |
| 3 | How Do I Approach Bringing A Woman Home From A Bar or Club?Thanks for the tip. I’m so new to this all that I don’t even know how to run game but I suppose I just gotta try already because I never have before | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | How true actually is this?Right? I have a buddy that goes on dates and tends to always end up sleeping with them either the first date or the second at most. I have literally had that happen once and it was on the second date. I know i’m an attractive dude as well so Idk how he does it but I STRUGGLE to get hook ups in general let alone on the first hangout. Any advice anyone? | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 12:23 AM |
| 2 | I Want To Improve My Social ConfidenceVery good advice. Thank you for the in depth answer. I have wanted to implement meditation into my life but never knew where to start and often times I find I forget to do it at a point during the day where I can. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Former insecure people when /how did you accept you are attractive?Same exact boat here | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 03:18 AM |
| 1 | I Want To Improve My Social ConfidenceOk well I’m definitely gunna try that setting. Thank you for the tip. So basically like any club or specific dance nights? Idk what my city has for that tbh | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 02:03 AM |
| 1 | I Want To Improve My Social ConfidenceGreat answer. Thank you man. This actually really encouraged me | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | I Want To Improve My Social ConfidenceWell I’m assuming a dance night wouldn’t involve much actual conversation. Just approach and dance with her or chat with her a bit first then ask to dance ? | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 08:51 PM |
| 3 | 8 mistakes guys make on a date that make you look like a foolYou guys are getting dates? Is it just me or do 90% of your dates that are planned flake or just ghost? Only luck i’ve been having is partial conversations then they never reply or else plan a date and they flake or also don’t ever message again. Dating apps are seriously such a scam these days | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | I think I have peaked but I feel empty…I wish dude this would make my life alot better atm | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Has your views changed since learning gameYeah anything but dating apps honestly. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Has your views changed since learning gameI’d rather meet a woman, for casual sex or a relationship, through cold approach any day but i’m still trying to build confidence to even cold approach a woman for the first time. Way better than dating apps imo. Dating apps are sad. You’re just another number amongst a catalog of men they can choose from so you usually get ghosted or barely any conversation unless you’re the most interesting guy ever. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Anyone here a loser who turned it around?That’s my thing bro. Not that I don’t know how to socialize or how to start/carry a conversation but more so that some days i’m just not in the mood at all for some reason. As if I have no energy or desire to | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 12:33 AM |
| 2 | I approached a beautiful woman on the train today, here’s how it went.Legend. Good for you bro! Such a win. Hope to get a win like that soon here myself. | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here a loser who turned it around?So basically , try to also just start chatting with anyone to become more fluid at social interactions? | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 09:09 AM |
| 21 | Anyone here a loser who turned it around?How/where did you learn pick up skills? You just googled shit of what? I feel like i’m instantly super nervous and idk what to say when approaching a beautiful woman in person to the point that I just don’t say anything to them at all. I feel like a loser and I just want to slut around and get it out of my system as well. Get my confidence up. | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Best Ways To Get A Kiss After A Date?Already tried that dude. My dog liked it but no girls yet | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Best Ways To Get A Kiss After A Date?Some of their breath is terrible broski | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Best Ways To Get A Kiss After A Date?I always feel like it’s forced or awkward when I try to break the touch barrier because I always feel like I’m trying to touch them just to touch them. What are some moments where it would make sense to touch them without it seeming super random? | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Best Ways To Get A Kiss After A Date?Nice one! | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 09:20 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Dance With/Potentially Pick Up A Woman At A Concert Without Seeming Creepy?Did I say anywhere that I think talking to them is seeming creepy? Maybe give it another read | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 08:36 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Dance With/Potentially Pick Up A Woman At A Concert Without Seeming Creepy?Solid advice man thank you. | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 03:06 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Dance With/Potentially Pick Up A Woman At A Concert Without Seeming Creepy?How so? Like just tell them how sexy they look? Lol | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 03:05 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Dance With/Potentially Pick Up A Woman At A Concert Without Seeming Creepy?It was actually my first time pushing myself to go to a rave alone. I was supposed to see Nicky Romero but I found out at the door that he cancelled so it was just the openers playing so I decided to check them out. At first it was a bit awkward because I got there just after doors opening so the dance floor was a bit empty and I was alone so I felt funny on the big open dance floor so I just grabbed a drink and chilled for a bit then just danced. Wasn’t planning to be there long but ended up st… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 07:10 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Dance With/Potentially Pick Up A Woman At A Concert Without Seeming Creepy?Nice man ! Good play haha | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Dance With/Potentially Pick Up A Woman At A Concert Without Seeming Creepy?Right? It’s like Russian Roulette these days trying to talk to someone in person not over the internet. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 06:09 AM |
| 3 | How Do I Dance With/Potentially Pick Up A Woman At A Concert Without Seeming Creepy?Lol true | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 02:01 AM |
| 39 | How Do I Dance With/Potentially Pick Up A Woman At A Concert Without Seeming Creepy?Just for this comment i’m gunna do it and succeed, thanks though | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 02:01 AM |
| 6 | How Do I Dance With/Potentially Pick Up A Woman At A Concert Without Seeming Creepy?That’s a really good way to out it. Thanks for the answer! | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 01:59 AM |
| 9 | How Do I Dance With/Potentially Pick Up A Woman At A Concert Without Seeming Creepy?Really ? It’s been a different experience for me. I see dudes approaching women all the time at these shows then later see them dancing together and feeling each other’s vibe. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 01:06 AM |
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