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Too true man. From what I've been through, even if you do it properly from the start, if you start breaking frame (intentionally or not) and she "gets a whiff that you need her approval" she will hit you with that strategy, and you're fucked. I find that it's pretty hard to piece it back together once you've broken your frame
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 08:51 AM
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This is the only reason why I drink at parties
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 08:47 AM
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Damn it bro. AWALT really is a hard pill to swallow and it bloody sucks. I love the cuddly feelings you get in a BP relationship but women just keep proving that AWALT. Time and time again. At this point, I can understand why some MGTOW. Despite loving pussies, all the bullshit is depressing to deal with. I've learnt from my personal experiences that women loves you when you treat them like trash. When you show them love and care, they'll always take you for granted and treat you like trash. I k…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 08:12 AM
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I just want a nice relationship with a girl I could beta-out with and not get fucked over. One of those puke-inducing lovey dovey kind of couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 04:21 AM
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words go around Either the girl likes to be branded as a slut or the guy is a real shit cunt. You don't kiss and tell, either let the girl sing your praises or sneak your way into another :D At least in NZ I find that slut-shaming is not discouraged... just not there. People fuck. It's what people do. Their eyes meet and they fuck. Shit's beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 04:02 AM
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sigh true. Leaning back doesn't work quite as well if they don't lean in after you
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:57 AM
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Haha just "praises" for sure ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 03:56 AM
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That's very good to hear. It tells me there's hope, however faint, for me to find something similar to what you have as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 03:54 AM
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I had my own theories before taking the red pill and while I thought it was shitty, I didn't accept it as the truth. Probably just luck, it's probably just some people. To learn that it is such a common thing that hundreds of thousands, no, millions of other guys are experiencing it too is sad. 'cause it means that it's that much harder to find a different experience. I just want a loyal girl I could beta-out with and be good to each other. Like in those movies the kids watch, those chic-flicks …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 03:52 AM
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if a girl goes below the neck, already pretty bad. are we talking in private or public? Even white kids generally only go to 2nd base around 14-15. Once they turn 16 and law gives the green light though. Oh children, they bang like rabbits.. responsibly though. Kids knew what they should be doing (responsible-sex wise not actual moves and all that kinky stuff). Which imo is fair enough and better than sneak-fucks between clueless kids that we have going on around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 09:20 AM
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Wow. I'm totally like so blown away omg. We didn't already know this at all
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 06:36 AM
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It's a very religious country, it's the people themselves that aren't very religious. Which makes the contradiction even worse. We're rotten inside but we keep up the peaceful religious facade. Kissing in public is wrong but girls are riding cocks at 14. It's a little backwards imo. Sounds like an advanced society there. Seems the expectations for women there is about the same you'd expect from a man, except the cooking part. Housewives here aren't a condone behavior neither. Unless your husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 06:30 AM
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I was interpreting it as Time's up for life, only death remains. but that works too :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 05:22 AM
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Interesting. I'm in thailand, so SE too. western culture has gotten us pretty bad already. It can get a lot worse though. Equality is kind of a thing here. People accept that women should get the BENEFITS men do, while also getting benefits that women used to do. Expectations of chivalry for example. Men must pay, take care of the girl, sacrifice for the girl, must be staunch and unshakable. They must tough anything out and any man who needs help is a worthless weakling. Which begs the question …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 05:19 AM
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Love is a timeless death? and yea it doesn't seem to work on PC super
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 05:11 AM
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thought the flair is kind of obvious I see an Ouija board, an Hourglass, and a pair of white male undies. so... ghostly timed purity?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:48 AM
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I'm a man secretly living in Asia. A secret asian man. such behavior Which one do you mean? The good ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:46 AM
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True. Which as a guy looking for sex, I love the west. When I want a relationship, though, white girls are kind of hard to swallow for me. Eastern women are usually very loyal, but that's because of fear rather than loyalty out of love or responsibility. Fear of what? too many factors to list out. Societal norm and physical harm are only part of it. Even then they'll spread their legs for a Good player/strong alpha. Especially now that western culture has penetrated ours more, women are becoming…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:41 AM
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We are the disposable one I can't figure out if you're a man or a woman. If you're a woman, that's a fairly critical view of your gender which is rare. Most seems to want to praise their own gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:28 AM
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Yes. That is pretty much the ideal case imo. When both are BP and are satisfied with their partner. How you're keeping the sex great after 7 years is something I'm very curious to know how.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:25 AM
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Then I am happy for you :) That part of my post wonders how happy He is. I believe you'd be happy, and he should be happy as long you're both loyal treat each other well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:17 AM
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it's shittier for women than men. They are pretty much free to do anything they want Not sure I follow that logic. Women are going to be obsolete in the future. What do you mean? 'cause technology can satisfy us men so we wouldn't need women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:17 AM
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Mhmm well said. That's a good point. Still, if your partner is cheating on you and not giving much shit about you in general, that's pretty shitty. Going by that advice, the best course of life is the single life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:14 AM
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You're right, it didn't. I sort of (& want to) believe that loyal people exist. Life experiences have confirm otherwise though. Have I been acting worthy enough, was a bad judge of character, or just pure unlucky, I don't know for sure. I certainly don't have rose-tinted glasses on, but I don't want to hate the world and my beautiful women like RP is teaching me to. I can't just be ignorant of what I've seen happening like BP wants me to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:09 AM
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mysterious hurt Too true man :(
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:00 AM
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Damn. This is some next level dark shit. We'll get "physical contact" in the virtual world within 5 years. Whatever that'd mean to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 09:36 PM
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I take it you should be leaning back and let them lean in 'cause you're what's interesting, not them.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 09:15 PM
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Very heartening to hear. Congrats to Both you and your man. That sounds like the kind of guy I want to be and you sound like the kind of girl I want to have. Oh you're /u/littleknownfacts herself. I've only been on reddit for a couple of days and I've heard about you. Either on here or asktrp
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 09:13 PM
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Some deep stuff there, care to elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 09:12 PM
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I have a feeling people aren't actually reading the content of the post before commenting. Generally speaking, me too man. Life is pretty great. The post address the relationship world view though, that's what I'm conflicted about right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 09:09 PM
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I want to be happy I know life is about pumping out kids but I want to be happy while doing it (I realise there's a pun here. not intentional but we'll leave it in)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 09:07 PM
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Kek I'm down for that XD We'd be going under charity work. Giving japanese girls what they've been lacking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 09:05 PM
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Gay does mean happy. The guy who coined this term knew what he was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 09:04 PM
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I thought we were out of the matrix when we took the redpill. Guess this in-between thing is a side-effect of opting for the purple pill instead
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:44 PM
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I agree and the Work On It part is the purpose of this post. If you could help me "work on it", that'd be great
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:42 PM
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Very good point. Did not think of that one I once had a japanese crew hang out with my group while I was on exchange. The girls were happily taking in my advances and others basically jumping on me once they see me with their girl-friends. This, while the jap men were gossiping and biting their lips from the sidelines. I gave out hugs to every girl who was resembles cute. Later, one of my good friend who happened to be from the jap guy side came up to me all surprised and said he'd known the gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:39 PM
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Complaining about pressures related to my job seems to help building rapport Yes. Women seems to like complaining and joining the complain-train. Better yet if its about your job 'cause it adds the serious-about-your-career trait to it. Smell like easy prey hehe sounds like a good quick fun Avoid the chick that is left alone I find it harder to approach a group. their girl-friends usually act as a mental block while the males will try to guard their goods, despite not actually dating/having a ch…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 08:27 PM
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This rabbit hole goes DeeP!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:24 PM
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As fun as that conversation would be, it's probably not for ppd sub. and yes, I do want to believe my view is wrong. 'cause it makes the world a very bad place. I want to live in a good place. and be happy. so please, enlighten me on your happy ways and happy views.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:22 PM
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Thanks bot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:12 PM
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esfj does sounds perfect. her j can keep my p in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:52 PM
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I think /u/pilldebate 's problem is that he's far from your "now" atm. and he still needs to get his needs met
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:49 PM
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Ugh. I feel like Cypher, wishing he had never taken the red pill. Reality is shitty man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:43 PM
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Climate change is very real and mass extinction is nigh. Sex is still an important part of life. Global warming is a real and serious issue. but so is getting my rocks off. Since the redpill community was made to help men put their cocks inside moist pussies. It's understandable why the forum's attention would be about sex and gender roles instead of any other (non-sex related) scientific topics. Just because TRP philosophies are based on science doesn't mean that every redpiller is a fan of sci…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:15 PM
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I used to love "nourishing" women, but unfortunately I learn the hard way what happens if you enjoy that and let yourself be betafied. I find this to be true too. but beta-ing out is just so damn comfortable. It's easy to let it slip and just whine down, especially when you're in an LTR What's the male game and what are you using to pre-select?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 06:11 PM
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expect to be tame Fair enough, though I find that women, especially fierce ones, become very tame once you've fucked her once. not just the innocent personality ones. Maybe that only applies to young ones though. My experience might be different once I get older. Good old "just fuck them" advice usually solves most of the disputes between men and women. At least during college. Banging a virgin isn't in my bucket list tbh. I've had a couple of 2nd and 3rd timers and it wasn't... extremely fun. b…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 04:55 PM
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Keep your woman running smoothly I like this Car analogy, you love her, do daily "maintenance" on her, "ride" her around town and "pump in some fuel" every so often. virgin - would fix most of the issues. because you're the first person to introduce the world of sex to her, she doesn't know what else is there and is therefore satisfied here? I've never had a virgin before, so dating one is about as much of a prize for me as having a threesome.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 06:15 AM
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I'd rather go with the tell her I need to finish my work and reach out to her again in a few days but I'm afraid she's gonna lose the attraction she had. You know, when you let the momentum go stale. Is this just the needy-beta in me talking or is it a legit concern? She once told me that she doesn't want to get addicted to me 'cause that'd be bad for her (implying that she's getting used to talking with me late into the night and it messes with her wake up at dawn good girl schedule). To which …
/r/askTRP06/05/17 06:07 AM
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What is a relationship if not just sex on tap? Jokes. The monogamy angst is a new concept to me but it does makes a lot of sense thinking back. There'd been ones that lowered that way down. and ones that didn't make up for it. Most though, are ones that "became lazy fucks" and lost what made up for the angst earlier
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 05:55 AM
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Select a decent woman One of the hardest task of all. Don't become a fucker once you're in a relationship. becoming a lazy ass fucker is tempting There haven't been truer words
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 05:33 AM
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Have I told you that this is one of the best advice I've ever gotten
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 05:19 AM
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So She asked me this morning if I was finished being stressed out. A little context: After I went beta on her, I tried to salvage it by giving a bullshit excuse that "I went retarded because I'm stressed with work. I'll be back to my usual self after" Seems like she wanted to mend things since we haven't talked all yesterday. I still AM busy and stressed as fuck with finishing up my master thesis. Would the right play here be to 1. continue "us" as we were before 2. tell her that NO! I am STILL …
/r/askTRP06/05/17 05:17 AM
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She asked me this morning if I was finished being stressed out. A little context: After I went beta on her, I tried to salvage it by giving a bullshit excuse that "I went retarded because I'm stressed with work. I'll be back to my usual self after" Seems like she wanted to mend things since we haven't talked all yesterday. I still AM busy and stressed as fuck with finishing up my master thesis. Would the right play here be to continue "us" as we were before tell her that NO! I am STILL busy. ign…
/r/askTRP06/05/17 05:12 AM
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Lol Tonsil Hockey. We learn new terms everyday, don't we? And Thanks man. I've forgotten how easy sex life was in the white world. Fuck I miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 05:07 AM
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Explains why I should be close to the Bar or the entry so they'd see me first :D
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:11 PM
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some fatal charm you got there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:08 PM
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Sigh. I want to be banging fun hot chicks till I'm 30 then get married. You have to enjoy youth a bit man. Men who marry early mostly cheats later in life because they never had proper exposure so any little thing excites them and they haven't learned how to control it. Then again, if I marry a girl who'd been single(marital status wise) for that long, she'd probably had plenty of "experiences". Seems the only way forward is to marry a girl way younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:59 PM
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A Bi girl! fuck you're a box of rarity, aren't you? I fail to understand how 2 sexually active people can live together, be connected on that level. and not be boning each after more than 1-2 weeks of dating. I am almost a decade younger than you so maybe it works differently up there. But from what I can see, I highly doubt it. But hey, he got da blewbs, that ought to take edge out of things a lot. Withholding them is a nightmare for any boobsman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:50 PM
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I agree with this. I want to be good and treat my woman like a human but being good gets me owned most of the time. Treating them like a plaything then tossing them out gives me the most success. So while I disagree with TRP's logic, their methods work. Too well. and Almost everytime that I try to deviate from that path (Beta-ing out as one might call it) I get "cucked". It's like I'm getting punished everytime I try to go the other way. Because most women (from what I've experienced and even mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:44 PM
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What do you mean by give up my plates? As in backing down and letting it cooldown like I'm doing right now? I got the gist of what you're saying though and I agree. Beta-ing out and putting her on a pedestal was my mistake.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 07:39 PM
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So you see yourself as a male inside a female body but totally cool with sexually being with a man. Is that like being a gay man mentally but a straight girl physically? Whew, even my gender class didn't go that deep. Some complex stuff there bro/sis. But hey if it works, awesome XD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:36 PM
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My boyfriend and I are both male-gender The wording here suggested otherwise but ok. Then relaxed, open, have excellent communication, and are best friends as well as lovers your kind relationship is Exactly what I want to have. Congrats on having one ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 02:56 PM
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Talking to you now I realised that when I gave her the "are you bored of me now?" and she replied with the "Believe what you want" "talk to me if you want. Or don't if you don't want to." instead of the "sorry for neglecting you I luv u bby" that the beta me wanted, I should've just stopped talking. My attempts to recover from that had just been reinforcing my beta / fake-alpha frame. you might come out thirsty and unauthentic when you reach out. Good point man. She actually is going on exchange…
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:49 PM
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Ok fair deal bro. I'm actually too busy to deal with anything this week (she knows this) yet I've been texting her. I tried to reframe back as alpha earlier this morning but that hasn't worked out well. I probably just looked unauthentic and reinforce the needy beta even more. I was framed as Very alpha and I was initially then as I grew more fond of her I reframed myself as a beta to her. (unintentionally. Fuck my beta-self.) In hindsight I Worked pretty hard to do that to myself. Then when she…
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:08 PM
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If she ticks a couple of the boxes, does that still counts? We pay for shit on an equal amount, she also drives over to meet me and drive me places. The only boxes she ticks are 1. She doesn't cut off her exes, they don't talk on a regular basis but I've seen a random call when one of her international DJ ex visit my country. The talks are quite nonchalant and rather briefs. Mainly asking why they're calling have a brief catchup-with-friend talk then wish them a good day. She also doesn't flirt …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 01:28 PM
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Does Redpilling includes hating gays as well? 'Cause gay men and tomboys are bros who understand girls and can get me in as they usually have Very hot friends and are quite willing to help a bro out. Lesbians girls are cute and bi girls are awesome for threesomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 10:45 AM
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Hmm you gays are rather lucky in that I find men understands each other more and we communicate a lot more easily and clearly. While I have no interest in dating a man, I would love to both be betas with my girl. Provided she knows how to fend off other alphas looking to have a piece of us. 'cause from my experience, beta girlfriends are too ready to submit to an outside alpha if I'm in my beta mode at home. Of course in the relationships that I go full-on alpha, it becomes a race of who's more …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 10:40 AM
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<3 I know exactly what you mean. It's rare to find a person that doesn't just take it for granted and assume they deserve it and more and that it's your duty to fulfill their needs. Most of the time you're either the "abuser" or the "loser" I don't understand why we can't both be winners
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 10:38 AM
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2 things. I have relatively poor social skills comparing to all the social butterflies in all of my groups. I find it hard to stay "friends" with attractive people of the opposite sex because there's a deep urge to fuck them flowing underneath. I know it and I try to keep a little distant and stay away from dangerous situations. As for girls that I don't find attractive, I usually have 0 problems being friends with them. Though, they do sometimes find me attractive so that's kinda hard to juggle…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:20 AM
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From my college experiences, everybody was fucking everybody. Men were banging girls they fancy and girls were "secretly" banging guys who come their way. It feels like men were doing it more but I think that's only because men tend to brag more. while women play the "I'm new and innocent" or "I've only had 1-2" cards. As for LTR it seems women and beta males wants an LTR just about as much. with the beta-males leaning in slightly more than the girls. As for my redpill-ish friends, it's only dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:57 AM
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They respond well to unpredictable neglects. When I treat them like their wants and needs mean nothing or that they have to "Earn it" for me to satisfy them. While mines are their priority and their duty to satisfy. Whatever I say, go. They have to comply to my every commands. They responded good INITIALLY to me being good to them. Then when I get too good they respond poorly to it. Example is when I start giving them more attentions, be more responsive. Pay more attention to details. Give them …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:18 AM
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Shot in the dark but maybe you naturally put them on a pedastal For ones I really like, I do when I start feeling comfortable. and by trying to treat them as inferiors you actually treat them as equals. I was going to reply with a completely different comment but whilst writing it I'm starting to think that you might be right there. At least when I'm dating up while I'm in my beta-mode, especially to a high 9 I automatically put them on a pedestal. I care about what they think a lot and I want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:03 AM
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I want a partner who is an equal but sometimes you feel like giving them a treat and treat them like your little princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:43 AM
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Eternal Watchfulness Sigh. Even though I agree that that's, at least partially, the reality, That's no way to live bro. I live in a society where the game and gender roles is not as heavily reinforced as it is in US but western influence had been changing up the playing field a lot lately. and erm.. not sure what divorce rape is, not sure if I wanna find out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:38 AM
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drop all the game, and everything, and basically beta out This. Damn it man. To be fair though if they were to really act like the beta-me I SOMETIMES (in some relationships) "get too comfortable owning" and my eyes start to wander a bit. Not a whole lot though. I find I'm most attractive when I already have someone, it really take out all the beta anxiety and I exude confidence One of those situation where you know you already have a girlfriend so you feel no pressure to be successful with wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:30 AM
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Where else would be appropriate? I saw a purplepill sub but that's an empty place where people talk politics
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:24 AM
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Thank you. This really resonates with me. As I grow more fond of them I tend to put them first and become reliant on them for my daily doses of happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:23 AM
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