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Why would I want the same shit again??? #sexworkers
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 09:09 PM
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I'm not even dating...i ain't play whit fire twice.Learnt my lesson....No thanks,I'm good.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/24 06:59 AM
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Its 50/50 because OP has 100 and Ex had 0 assest so take half of everything OP owned and now its 50/50
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 01:05 PM
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I'm 36 divorced 3 years.....not even had an approach or talk to any women....Mainly because I'm too busy working two fulltime job to be able to pay for housing,bills,Childsupport etc etc. One big advantage being a single dad is you can avoid/scare every women once you mention you have a kid. So I guess I'm just gonna push what's left alone...but hey least no nagging
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 06:21 AM
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Most likely I will.I did not wanted but I have no game,no quality what would attract anyone rather I have qualities which rather deterrent anyone.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 11:14 PM
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Not reading the whole post just answering the question. Easy.You are a man therefore you are disposable in the eye of the government/Society. You don't have the capacity to bring more taxpayers and Minimum wage worker into this world so they don't care... You just a tool in their eyes just like in your STBX eyes I know I have been there.Learn my really expensive lesson costing the rest of my future and current life but hey there is a bright side of this....I know it's sounds bad but least I only…
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/24 09:36 PM
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I do not date.I do not engage whit women at all.Why would I want trouble for myself again?
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 11:10 AM
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Hahahahaha.....no...I just converted for our friends over the pond....either way it is not the amount of money it's hurt. The fact I can't recover from it even tho I have two jobs never mind buying a house again.i was born poor and worked really hard for what??To someone enjoy my hard work meanwhile I got discarded....fck the system.Least 1 less problem because cut my hands off if I ever approach any women ever again....I'm sure there are nice one still out there but it's not worth the risks (on…
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/24 07:19 AM
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£72000 $91000
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/24 12:45 AM
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Beat me whit fists while holding our kid....took my house and everything else inside and made me homeless and broke(mental abuse is the worst). Actually made myself this way Because I trusted someone once again and she shown me why I shouldn't do the same thing ever again.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/24 06:46 AM
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Well my marriage lasted 8 yrs.As far as I'm aware Marriages now 90% end in Divorce anyway so fuck it.She likes what she likes....that does not define you as a man by any means. People change over time and that's just life...You did what you can now 5 years past. Don't live in the past.Jusz have to accept it this is now and I'm living here and there will be a tomorrow...You don't know what will happens...noone knows and that is itself exciting and that's how I'm going on.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 02:24 PM
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Feel sorry for the guy.Thats all
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 11:53 PM
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No....never.The truth is I was always bad in that area of life and once I find it...well you know why I'm here. So I just leave it as it is.Thank you but don't think it's for me or I should say I not made for it. End of story.Life full of challenges whitout it already.No need no more drama.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 11:51 PM
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No.He pretty much saying your happiness should not come from an another person.You shouldn't depend on it.A women should add to your happiness and life and not the sole source of your happiness. I'm not a happy person.Never was but that's on me.Even know to these facts I just can't tho.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 08:28 AM
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Oh well I've never said it is great.its frustrating but...read the last sentence.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 08:44 PM
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Honestly dating and relationships are my last in my priority lists.i rather spend the money on my Son or on my bike.They both bring me such a joy I'm not sure women can ever bring this to my life. Also I'm broke so that's help stay absent.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 08:13 PM
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No...No dating apps work for me bro.Nor real life so I just ride my bike all day and switch my head of watching the road.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 01:32 AM
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The System Will figure it out how to deetroy you and you children either Way....we know this already.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/24 10:36 PM
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Im working out because I wanna feel good about myself....Never ever again I wanna attract women and lucky im not even attractive enough so it won't happen anyway but I Just enjoy working out and enjoy looking on myself ín the mirror. Its Just about what I can do and break my limits....its not about attract women or look good for them....its about look good for me.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/24 09:32 PM
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She definietly Will do that you better be ready for that.Good lawyer goes a long Way.You are the Man so She is got the upperhand from start.Depends on your state.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 02:41 PM
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Experience a loads of it.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 11:33 AM
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My kido actually appricate me só damn I work my ass off.j pay what im legaly bind tó pay to my ex but I pay minimum wage for myself As I work As a selfemployed contractor for my own PLC so ex CMS can't touch my company assest.....the extra money goes torwards my son só I Will still work 6 out of 7 and otherwise I have nothing else tó do
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 08:49 PM
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Or Just not Strong enough to break the cycle.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 01:53 AM
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Its intresting because I do not hate women but please don't ask me to trust any of em.Just Can't. Lucky enough my ex fck me up financially I can't even think of dating because I live pay chk to pay chk so no chance to going out and meet someone.Not Till childsupport stop which is 11 years more az least but could be up tó 16 years
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 09:55 AM
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In the UK family court?I would open a PLC and put the savings into that...there they cannot touch it since its the PLC money not yours. BTW you Will get punish át the family court Just being a Man so don't be suprised if the barrister,judge and everyone Will be hostile againts you.Good luck tho.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/23 09:48 AM
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Awesome.Never ever stop seeing ur kid.No matter what.BTW you paid nothing......your kids end up at your ex 99.6% of the Time anyway. You avoided the family court torture.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 11:05 PM
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Do you see your kid at all? Don't know you or the whole situtaion but im noone to judge is it worth the price or not. I defo not giving up seeing my kid not matter how much ex makes my life harder őr make meclose potential job opportunities....and that is the price im happy to pay to seeing him. Each of their own brother.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 02:29 PM
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Relatív Peace
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 07:33 AM
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But thats what they do....Maybe you are the "Lucky one" who did not get robbed....but mind not everyone has Support circle and some of us lost everything....mean it...maybe you not but who we been homeless,can't afford to eat etc etc because "Your life" decided I don't love you anymore= I get every assest I wanted from you now you can live on the Street So respectfully keep your this sub depressing for yourself Go to R/Divorcedad if you want happy go lucky chat. You have nőt even a slight clue h…
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 07:53 PM
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When She was beating my head whit fist from the back while im holding our 1.5 years old son.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 12:38 AM
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You get me wrong here bro.Before her I had no GF....none.She'd seen how unexperienced I was and used it out whitout an eyeblink.So apperently there were a reason I had never had one before nor I have now...Anyway im fucked money wise and women loves money right? Either Way life goes on.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 04:45 PM
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A bit of life experience my Friend.I love myself as im.My kids loves me and thats enough.There is no help nor I want help.if I can't make it on my own maybe its for the Best ....
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 09:03 AM
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0 match and 0 dates in 3 years across multiple platform...guess my ex was right "No women will put up whit you ever"...
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 08:28 AM
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Oh the luck of being so ugly noone gave me attention so I don't have to Deal whit these funny trust issues.Dating nowdays???Of you wanna be a fee meal ticket,get ghosted etc etc...nag Just off tó work come home and chill...no women needed here nor really any see any value of mine.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 08:05 AM
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Karma is a thing OP Just be patient.Focus on your kid.Thats your legacy m8. Ofc you care...you attached the Way women can never do..Thats why they can monkey Branch.We Can't... It Will be hard to let her go...but you must because if She cheated thats sends me one msg. -i got what I wanted from you and now I used you áll up im throwing you out and get tó the next one... Btw My ex cheated too..Just recently find it out after 3 years of our Divorce....least did not húrt the Way it does you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 09:12 AM
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I don't see cheering there miss.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/23 11:32 PM
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Where is a rape on your posts bro?Just read it again but no rape mentioned.Guys get raped too Just saying m8.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/23 11:27 PM
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She got what She wanted bro.The house kid and money.You know what we should all do different to avoid that??? Fcking never marry...Maybe you self hate and blame yourself but all I was doing is work my ass off to give her whatever She wanted As I wanted to take care of her....the return was being abused physically and mentally,homelessness and broke for the rest of my life....owning a home ever again....hahahahaha Ya know you might fucked it up but Personally I think I did everything in my power …
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/23 11:21 PM
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Don't marry at all.That is my Best advice....prenup can be dissmissed easily ....so the only way and 100% bulletproof... DON'T GET MARRIED.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 10:07 AM
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"Friends"......i would call them pals but not friends.... Friends there for ya in the shit not turning their back to you but overall...you don't need any...All you need is hard work and you kid/kids....everything else is a plus but not mandatory.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 10:07 PM
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Yes but OP...one burn wasn't enough?
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 11:37 PM
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No you not...you Will be thankful for YOURSELF.....Just read all of us experiences....hardly any ambicle or positive one.... Marriage is like playing Russian roulette whit only one empty in the magzine.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 10:29 PM
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Some people never learn and some only needs one experience
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 03:19 PM
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Someone Just write down what I can't form in words.Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 12:23 PM
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Nah man.You aren't the only one... 3 yrs out Try to date for 2 years...managed to get 3 dates in 2 years...I don't know if its me....nothing in the last year but I don't mind As its makes it easier to avoid getting burned/hurt again. Nah I can never trust any women ever again or they have to be super close to me(more like Friend zone)which look at my social situtaion in the past 15 yrs close to 0.01% chance Man's love you is romantic love Women's love you is the benefits you provide and As previ…
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 12:21 PM
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No I don't because two things came out from it.I have a beautiful Son and even tho I lost my house and everything I worked in my life its made me much stronger and grown a lot compare before my marriage. Could happens different Way? Possible.Do I regret.. Definietly not because I would not be the person im right now
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/23 02:47 PM
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Most people toxic... Choosing being alone its so much better and its not hiding under the bridge. Just conpare the pros and cons. For me all the struggle of dating its just simply not worth it. Before Online dating and generally internet people was in communities....now you have to compete 10000s other guys for a bit of attention... Nah Man...fuck that.Rather buy pussy Than this
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/23 02:40 PM
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The adjust phase is sucks....you can fight againts it but end of the day it Will win. Than one day you Just noticing you don't need/want anymore relationship because its Way too much effort and who needs drama or other people shitshow/Gossip etc etc. Now 3 yrs out and prob this year is the one I would say Just accept it and try to live a life I enjoy alone
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 09:52 PM
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No the Sounds of it but each story has two sides. Either Way im happy for you to realize there isn't love like used tó be back in our parents Time. Most women look az relationship As business transactions. What can I gain whitout putting much into. In the past 3 years I had 3 women intrested in me (I dated 2 of em for 3-4 months) but once they realize you either broke or have no valueable assest...ya know Hasta Buenos and the worst part they not saying it and confuse you but if you carefully put…
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 08:22 AM
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Seems its a thing
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/23 11:23 PM
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My ex wife already married??mGet out while you can....I mean ran.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/23 11:01 PM
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Wrong sub
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/23 12:31 PM
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Avoid women at all costs.Thats the only way.For me its easy now as a single immigrant dad.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/23 06:50 PM
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No it's not m8.Im divorced 3 years now....Women not even slightly intrested in me....not blame them.No wonder tho.Just like my ex sad noone will put up whit me which is fine...I'm enough for myself just wondered why is that always me have to be "that" person....ya know why not someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 10:45 PM
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I tried all....all useless so gave up.Stay single for the rest of my life....half already gone so only 35 to go.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 09:59 PM
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Its mission impossible.3 years 6 dates nothing in the last 1 year and only a few times get lucky on those dates. Its just rough so i have to be ok to be alone if its comes that way. Might its for the best.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 11:00 PM
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The absolutely fcking noone.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/23 08:19 PM
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I can't vote. There is no option of I left because of her physical and emotional abuse so she filed to keep everything meanwhile im still fucked up.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 08:01 PM
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When my son ask me..."When I see you again dad"? And I don't know the anwser.....thats shit hurt Loneliness ofc and the fact no women ever gain my trust so more likely im gonna stay like a Monk...even tho half of my life ahead.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 03:06 AM
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Feel that. But in my case it was an alcoholic 40+ yrs old women. I'm cycling 200+ miles a week and I do workout etc etc. But ya know "Where are all the good man?" Hahaha LMAO. Cat adoptation center will be empty in the next 10-20 yrs.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 02:51 AM
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No....noone intrested in Single Dads as far as im aware. Or really little percentage who would willing to date you but...nah man.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 02:47 AM
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Well still longing for a relationship...Its just well, like drug addiction.Hard to get off from it. And as I said noone wants to be serious
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 05:48 PM
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3 years divorced....noone even date me due im being a single dad(No it is not insecurities...thats reality) Had 3 hookups and all felt amazing at the time but everytime I think back I get grossed out about it.. Since than its dry spell ike a year nearly. Noone wants serious relationship anymore and don't think I can handle anymore person use me,broke me or leave me so possibly I stay as it is but least thats make stay away from the fire again.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 10:59 AM
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Can you be direct instead of speaking in Verse? I have mild ADHD n this is confusing me AF. Well thats my experience whit Women. Show me one good one who don't leave you,Rob you or just simply destroy you?... Its like telling an African what is Snow....some never seen it.So I've never seen a good women.Never....
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/23 09:47 PM
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Felt the same....even now and than.Sad fact im not dating as noone literally intrested a little bit especially not when you have kid/s... Life is hard but god give the hardest fight for his best warriors.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/23 09:01 PM
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I don't get it what you saying....however my ex completely know the effect and she is enjoying it... She works only 16 hrs a week...living in my 3 bedroom house whit massive garden...which I bulit by my own 2 hands...so she did it as she planned.Women are evil.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/23 07:13 PM
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There is no option for avoid women completely...i choose that. Either way Women avoid me so its easy for me.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/23 03:30 PM
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I have no life thats the NOW m8....i have to work 7 outta 7 12hrs a day....the only off I've got is when I have the wee one..2 afternoon at every week.. And even than I just get by but there is day when I can't eat cuz no £££ because I have pay so much CM Cant get a mortgage therefore can't buy my own home...I'm halfway thru my life(35). Can't even get shit to my kid man... What life is it?Would you live it? I really hope Karma pay her back.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 10:44 AM
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She try to hug me and ask me if im angry? I stepped back from her and told her to burn in hell bitch.. Ever since its only about my son... She took my house,everything in íz and caused me massive mental issues I bare till nowdays.. I had to sleep in a Bush for over a month rough(lucky it was summer and pretty dry) Honestly not sure what she expected...hope She will burn in hell one day.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 07:20 AM
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Thanks for your input.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 06:59 AM
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Don't know....my ex tried to pulled the let's be friends after me being made homeless,took my house I paid and draining my acc. Every month for the next 16 yrs. My answer was to her. "Burn in hell B@#%h" We divorced 3 years ago....still hoping she die painfully as possible
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 07:26 AM
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Agree but still try to collect if any...
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/23 06:39 AM
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I'm here for years ;( However like positive if you married here(UK) Easier to get mortgage (not anymore tho....) Tax Allowance transfer Etc etc... But thats it as far as I can think
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/23 06:37 AM
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Its long term financial contract whit no gain or share but high risks and life destroying results for man.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 10:21 PM
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One question tho as a single dad who grew up a household like that cuz not my "mother" not my "dad" was able to move out so you can imagen. How much of this that little soul see from it? Hope you guys got enough to not to fight in front kof the kido. Just a fast thought. I'm really sorry this happened to you.Seems you young guys and well lesson learned again. Marriage is a scam.Even tho she cheated she will have upperhand at court etc etc....just cuz the kido and she is a women. So be prepaid.It…
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 10:11 PM
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I'm 35...I'm already working 6 days a week usually 12-14 hrs/day the redt spent whit my son(not for that i have money to take him out or away anywhere but)....nope I don't wanna build a nest....for who the hell for? I'm simple..give me 4 wall n a bed....I'm good whit that one.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 08:40 AM
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Its entierly my fault as I put too much trust in someone due my family fell apart when I was about 8 so I grew up pretty much alone....self sufficent by 15....just missed the teenager years to learn these redflags n social skill...Even tho that is not my fault family fall apart but had all those years to learn it but I've simply just did not so. She noticed that and used it out.I was the stupid one.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 12:28 AM
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Yes you do my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 12:19 AM
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Welcome to my word.. Kido born...5 months later she filed.Usual lies....lost my house...She moved her whole family in....some which I helped establish life abroad.... Only 12 yrs left....by the time im done I will be happy buy a Van and Drive just ahead not thinking(as at that age im not getting a mortgage so cant buy house ever in my life again)..fell betrayed by the system and everyone. Honestly if you divorced you can flush your life down the drain as a man.If you got no massive support syste…
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 12:18 AM
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No marriage.Or real equality at Family court...not just what its called 50/50 which is smoke n mirror.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 12:14 AM
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Don't know man....avoiding them like fire. Sexworkers it is but no feeling involved so. Like to be numb on that part of my heart bcuz I do have one just fucked up.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 12:30 PM
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Being alone bring peace. Peace let you focus on yourself No women ever will give you peace...ever. Women are distraction from yourself. I'm actually looking forward to the future regardless The financial burden I have to carry the next 12-15 yrs. I won't be able to purchase a house ever therefore no fundation can be achived to establish a family. I can be free as a bird meanwhile you will listen the naggin. Good lookout for your future.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 09:37 PM
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I know what caused it and im make sure won't happen again.Trust someone and got into a relationship.No women,no cry I guess.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 06:50 PM
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Seems you not lost your kid(have not seen him 4 months and even than she tried to pull the string but lucky me n my son has an awesome connection)or your home or everything you worked for...have you been homeless due your ex took your home you fully paid by yourself?No?Than Shut up about growing up.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 05:44 PM
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Well this guy I think has no selfworth torwards himself and his ex made him belive he is the problem too....fuck thats mental.Hope im never get to this point.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 05:25 PM
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We actually love the women.They only love our money and assest
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 02:03 PM
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Yep...This is Man for them.Just a tool and nothing else but the sad thruth even the constitution look at us expandable,disposable,replaceable.... Love never exist in the first place...just stupid chemicals in your brain makes you think it is real.Once that worn off you come to the harsh truth which is this what you write down.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 02:02 PM
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3 years divorced and yes it still feels this way....5 away from her.And more year pass more my belive get stronger
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 09:01 AM
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This....it is always nice to come home to my quiet flat ...everything as I left...its just peaceful.No nagging,pointless conversation or stupid program.Just the things I like n like to do.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 09:25 PM
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I miss bro....all the time instead of hit....so sex worker it is.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 03:07 PM
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No but the amount of women purely divorce you or get togheter whit you mostly financial reason should make you very very aware.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 01:57 PM
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I think any smart man should do that but.....marriage and divorce industry needs to be fed
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 01:54 PM
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All of em shit.Get a sex worker if thats what you after... You only find Hoes on dating apps or crazies.. Also on long term sex worker cheaper.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 06:31 AM
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The aboltion of marriage as whole...
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 10:14 PM
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What makes it successful?If you don't do it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 10:09 PM
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Thats why im saying stay single.. much happier life.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 05:53 PM
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Good.you Learned not to be a Captain save a hoe
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/23 10:51 AM
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Work
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 12:05 PM
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Hookers,Drugs and Cycling.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 05:29 PM
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8 yrs marriage and still bot healed after 3 yrs..most likely never recover.Kinda write off.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 03:48 PM
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My whole life and the next 20 yrs
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 07:58 PM
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Yeah I get you but this is good bcuz can't fall for the same trap.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 09:35 PM
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Its the opposite on my side....noone find me attractive. Single Dad not wanted in the dating market and most women avoid them anyway so...
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 08:14 PM
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I did not find anyone.im alone still...infact had no relationship prior my marriage seems not gonna happen after either.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/23 07:01 PM
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Will be if you won't
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 08:48 PM
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Faster than Forset...
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 08:17 PM
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Bro....its a trap...ran before its too late like for a lot of us ...my ex wife was the same....stayed 6 extra year and so the result is a broken man whit a lot of financial burden.(apperently abuse never really heal...you will just handle it better but if you stay in you never gonna be the same again....ever) Don't do the same mistake like loads of us. I would leave now till I can.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 08:16 PM
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+9 mnth
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 06:55 AM
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If I could go back time prob I would go gay...never get ripped off forever again.only 14 yrs left n might I can take a holiday...yay
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 10:16 PM
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Dunno man....I'm 36 n even on my marriage I was alone....just like the rest of my life so far....not a bigger.TBH im just acting like an asshole nowdays so make sure its stay this way. No friends/ppl in your life = No problemo.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 08:43 PM
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Dating nowdays???No...whit your mental state??No... Sure there are some nice ones but they are long gone bro(married kid etc etc) Not all women like that btw.Some just walk away instead of yelling n shit. Btw im an abuse survivor however we can't be healed properly...the scars will be there forever...its up to you how you presents it. Personally I don't give 2 cent if im alone for the rest of my life.. You know what is called my man? Freedom n thats worth than any pussy or GF ever will be.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 08:45 AM
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You can be whit someone whitout marriage...but yeah me too...not even approach women at all nor speak to em....not for that they speak to me.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 07:42 PM
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Im so comfortable in my peace noone really can move me out of here n im only 35 but had my fair share of heart break(rejection,laughed or used as emotional bin) obviusly divorce n robbed all my 12 yrs 55hrs+ week worth of value and my family...however im pushing my 3rd year alone and tbh its great to have the freedom.Not sure I really ever gonna give it up again.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/23 12:18 AM
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This is the way go forward guys...let these crazy womens eat what they cook...Those services are great n cheaper in overall meanwhile more fun.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 09:36 PM
3

No really.....dating sucks...try to get a partner(that person can easily leave you after 10-20 yrs as well....fck that I rather be alone..) Just go to sex workers(clean ones whit their own place n shower facility etc etc...) Its cheaper as well on the long ran.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 09:33 PM
1

What worked for me?Stay away from these apps n woman overall. Did give a try but as most guy I experienced the following Ghosted,Stood up,Pushed away after 2-3 mnths whit no explanation or closer. So 99% of these women want your money,attention n time.. Maybe sex n once they have it move to the next guy... Just stay away from OLD Thats works the best n 100% bulletproof
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 09:30 PM
2

Myself...now I divorced so never give it up again.Ever.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 07:29 AM
0

Bro....the double Standards everywhere....literally its pointless to get into relationship whit any woman nowdays....I'm sorry to hear that.its must be hurt but you need to think about yourself.Be selfish fuck because this word not reward you if you. Honest,caring or loyal or play by the book.. Just go MGTOW..see how the feminism gonna turn around....sadly it won't be our lifetime but maybe the next generation have it better than us.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 10:15 AM
5

Nah...I'm gonna teach him what most women does...bang much guy as possible before they settle(if they do but they only do it for a reason...a,House n kid n once they have it they dispose you b,don't wanna die alone but gave up chasing Disney+) So for me most women evil and always have something behind the smile or nice word. Can't be trusted ever...Thats what happend to my dad,his brothers,me or pretty much every guy I know...fcked up by a women one way or an other for a life....I don't want him…
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 02:25 AM
1

I should show this to my dad why I decided to go MGTOW(Divorced 3 yrs ago n still alone since) I'm 35 btw
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 12:14 AM
4

Personally think Don't marry at all....I did now got burnt too bad. I'll teach my son exact the same...get much women as possible but don't marry any of em... I think they won't like what they cooked but thats what most women do in my area and age range(Hence Single moms everywhere from age 22-45)
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 12:02 AM
6

Happened to me as well but we only managed about 1.5 yrs....scks.im not having children or women in my life anyway anymore but it was a good lesson...now just switch back on autopilot till total crash financial and mental as well. Yeeaaaahhhh ha....
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 08:08 AM
1

Sit alone whit my thoughts pretty much every year. Do a wee campfire..cook some good stew n crack some cold ones...nothing better than this.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/23 07:44 PM
2

When that happens I feel sorry for the guy....its kinda watching a national geography movie a spider slowly eating it next victim.n slowly sucking out it soul.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 09:42 PM
2

All good here till the wee man arrived....2nd day she and her whole family againts me. I'm isolated...lost my family before I even born dso had a bad upbringing.No friends either. She beat me and handeled me like im a 12 yrs old...possibly chat on me too while she went on Holiday alone while I worked 50+ hrs to pay bills n house. Ran into a narcissitic family...me ended up homeless for months lost my house and my stabilitás. Struggling whit mental health issues (abadonment issues,Social Aexity a…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 08:33 PM
1

And he was damn right.You know its a joke n fun on the telly till you experience it than its not so funny anymore
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 10:07 PM
1

Bro you did not learnt your lesson yet?? Go to a legit sex worker ...less hustle less risks and in long term cheaper as well. Tinder or any datingapp is the worst idea.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 09:47 PM
2

Its just shows what kind of person she is. Also...its not equal regarding dating relationship etc etc. I'm 35 n had one ex ever....most women by that age least had 5 dude at least
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 06:49 PM
2

By age 50 you should value peace more than women so if dieing alone is your biggest fear I share a secret we all do die alone
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 10:20 AM
2

Sex drive...hahaha.if I let that shit control me again....I rather watch porn and stay away from women.One burn is enough...I'm not gonna set my life on fire again bcuz of hormons....if that I watch porn or there are plenty of sex workers...tho not that I really have money for that after all the financial pressure put on me by ex.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 10:49 PM
1

3 yrs out....my life not better by any means but not worst apart from being socially and emotionally isolated. At least its peaceful but honestly...it won't get better just back to the same old drill... Eat,work,shit,sleep and pay 12% of my income to EX.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/23 11:33 AM
3

Its not...these are women nowdays...if you split or broke up she will instant have least 3 dudes wanna get her..thats how they work. You focus on yourself and only yourself.Show her what she lost and thats it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/23 08:49 AM
16

Have you heard about double Standards?No not yet....?Hmmm now you did.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 05:07 PM
4

Just don't....its a fucking cesspool out there.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 10:16 PM
3

Ok so nothing unusual.Please let me know if anything change so I can actually start dating again....otherwise Fck this crazy shit.Honestly might I should just give up on women completely like all my experience is either that or worst...honestly guys you are all crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/23 10:17 PM
5

Make me numb...like literally a snap to wake the fuck up...noone cares about you and noone gonna hold your back if shit hits the fan.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 09:01 PM
2

Wear condom and don't use street ones....Use the ones has shower facility,Go screening etc etc... I mean they costs about £70-90 for 30 min but I'm having action every 2-3 years so overall its cheaper even if im counting all the dating and everything else. Plus after 4 heartbreak in a Row don't think im a relationship material but still got needs.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/23 11:00 PM
2

Hooker...try dating sites...All trash tbh so went whit the first option... Its cheaper in long term too.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/23 10:07 PM
1

As per norm.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/23 05:42 AM
2

No worries about this time.Once you realized we are leftovers in lot of women eyes that drive will go away soon.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 09:28 AM
5

Bro...read your first 3 line of your OP and its triggered me.Bring back all the abuse memories....ran and never look back.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 09:01 AM
5

Maybe it's terminal/inoperable?Either way that women...(I mean whore) is defo insane.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/23 08:43 PM
2

Not all man sadly want to see their kids just like women.Its more like just biased againts man just as Abuse....experienced first hand when Police laugh at me....no mental health group,sheltets,communities for men....least not here. The double standards...honestly im just sick of this.Sometimes I whis why I not born in the 60s...might I would have a much heathier life.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 10:11 PM
2

Does anyone actually could trust any of em again?Not saying all bad but after experience divorce and multiple short terms....not sure its actually possible.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 09:57 PM
3

Its not depends on the Nationality.Women are women.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/23 11:16 PM
11

Antarctica prob..
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/23 11:12 PM
1

Yep.This was the case whit me so I ended up not even defend it. Its just went thru whitout me n only been served what I lost and what I have to pay.Thats it...not even point to get there if you not loaded.Most of us isn't.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/23 09:02 PM
1

Child maintance service.They basicly skin your account and charge u extra 15% for transfering the money to your ex account.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 07:20 PM
1

Sharing my thoughts and feelings why does it count as complain? Maybe it's me...fck knows.As I said it is what it is. I have no control over so if its what meant to be than be it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 07:18 PM
1

It is what it is.like it or not.Thats my experience and yours could be different so we learn different things/pattern etc etc.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/23 10:29 PM
1

Never said all...but 90% of them just use u and the rest more likely settled in that age so..
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/23 06:55 AM
1

Sounds like my mom and feel sorry for you and your teenager. My dad went thru this and he eventually broke mentally. No advice from me just a bunch of pray for your and your kid healing.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/23 10:17 PM
1

I've divorced so I have to work my ass off to float. My house gone(paid £17000 into) nothing got back and stuck in the mortgage whit my ex till she pays it out while I'm unable to get my own ever(when im out of that I'll be 49) Getting skimmed by CMS so not much(2-5 hrs a week) Before that maybe 10-20
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/23 10:14 PM
1

Lucky one.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/23 10:07 PM
1

Not gonna lie. Nope.Never.Wasn't even close to it....I'm out of my marriage 3 or 4 yrs now. Nothing in the horizont either but im sure you will find it eventually bro. Chin up.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/23 09:44 PM
3

You don't. I tried it and all my 3 relationship(post divorce) ended the same almost the same way. So I just don't anymore and just keep my peace. Noone worth to sacrifice that.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/23 01:17 PM
1

Bruhahahaha....u are a Legend Sir. Hat off 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/23 06:40 AM
1

Bro....had one person in my life in the entire 35 yrs.Since than had a 1 mnth "relationship" and a year after (aka now) but that slipping away as well slowly just like the last one.... I'm not gonna marry again tbh...just annoyed about how things works...life is just shit only the wee man keep me going.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 02:44 AM
4

Wish someone tell me that earlier....mid 30s one kid....divorced...= Game Over.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 06:13 PM
5

It is bad as you can imagen. And double it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/22 07:57 AM
0

Lonely...I spent my last 3 Xmass dead alone...I don't drive and they only live 3 miles away but ex not let him take on Xmass as she say "Its a family holiday" and im not family...I'm like ok but my Son is my Family... Her response...Sucks. Thats how its feels...prob just get some smk n alcohol n stack myself out so it ls just goes by.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/22 07:56 AM
5

Most of us just want peace.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/22 11:29 PM
2

Whi said man have to leave....personally I left mine but only cuz my 1 yr old needs a place and my dumb ex would not be able to provide a permanent home(buy one) for him.... And I great up whit alcoholic parents who were fighting so I did not wanted my kid damaged or get disadvantage in early life like I had to endure. Oh also on the other side im a man so im not valued or cared so why the hell I would worry whats next.In the end it doesn't matter anyway. Kido have home where is peace....that is…
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/22 11:25 PM
1

Bro.When you realize man worth nothing in this society...We hold each other back and thats all... Get a lawyer and get a custody arragment written by court.She has to stick to it...other than that not much you can do.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/22 02:58 PM
2

I'm divorced in 2 yrs now after something similar.i have one children from ex who is nearly 4... Mentally? Prob took me a year but not healed 100%...prob never will Physically,?Immediately (Started some material arts training to get the steam out ) Financially ?Never...
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/22 03:41 PM
6

None...all waste of time....use that time and effrot for building something than waste it
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/22 12:56 AM
2

Why not?I mean female companionship....I was always alone before my ex and since than....you don't need that to be complete n happy...ofc its sucks but well at least everything is in my own term.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 06:41 PM
2

Been there just like you guys....recently got the letter about divorce.... Since my separation after 2.5 yrs I have not been in dates or even talk to women at all....tbh my life is not good....indeed its get really lonely time to time but always remember why im like this and why I don't want that ever again....
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 06:40 PM
6

Love is blind my young friend...
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 06:42 AM
1

Never again.....had 1 relationship which is ended up 8 yrs togheter...I think im done for life either way. Why would I gave up my freedom and ofc Financially absolutely fucked for 14 yrs more..so no thanks..I'm good on my own. Plus nowdays if you are a single dad its almost impossible anyway...
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 06:40 AM
3

How....head down and carry on.....this world look at us man as disposable garbage.We have each other back time to time but thats all..Stay strong nothingelse you can do...Stay strong for your kid.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/22 02:56 PM
23

Never get married again....if a person loves you...like really loves you the don't need a fucking ring,paper,ceremony and all the financial burden comes whit it. Whis there would be true love in this world but all I see is fake ppl try to get advantage of you...So just don't marry again.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 07:57 PM
4

Rip off...you gonna pay her till forever and everything gonna be taken away from you just because you got a pair of balls instead of boobs...thats what you expect so sell up n hide the $$$.That way you won't end up broke fck like loads of us.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/22 08:39 AM
3

Its depends on you....for me it was hard before divorce because I was never wanted by anyone in my life...than I met my ex and foolishly think finally someone wants me....felt like a breath of air a magic...my heart was flying everyday...to be fooled and used out for a house n a kid...once she achived her goal I was no longer needed/wanted just like before..so for me its a no brainier...it is and always was.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 09:18 AM
1

Buddy chin up...Happend whit me. Worked really hard(6 out of 7 thru 4 yrs).Arrived to the UK whit £20 in my pocket and my worn clothes...10 yrs down the drains..everything was good till the kids arrived. On that day she ended whit me.Thrown me out of the house I took mortgage and paid all by myself till she kicked me out...tell me it wasn't planned... So I paid everything...I was the main person in debt.i have job,place,not doing drugs,drinks etc etc.. And its start 50-50 straight away then beca…
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 07:36 AM
2

Had a bit...than after a while when just nothing happened a was like fuck it..least I won't fall twice into the same trap and since than no desire either.My life much simple and naggin' free,no drama either.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/22 09:58 AM
1

Nope and nope...these are fairytales.Im living in a hard rock reality where tbh everyone just looking for their intrest and how can they take advantage of each other...its disgusting but it is what it is.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/22 08:04 PM
9

A cheater always be a cheater no matter what.You did the right thing bro. She doesn't respect you otherwise would not jump on other dick. She will do it again at one point or she did it already while you at work. Just go on whit your life and cut her out. If you stay you not respect yourself either.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/22 09:07 PM
6

Well its not something endangering me to get any woman pregnant...I had no sex about 8 yrs now....lol. But if that would be the case yeah.i would give a test but so the other half.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/22 04:34 AM
3

Ah...okay.Well than that's my 33rd...I'm 33 yrs old 😉
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 03:03 PM
7

Is that actually a celebration in the US?Sorry for my stupid questions...I'm from the UK but came from Eastern Europe and we don't even have Fathers day there
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 03:00 PM
2

Don't do it EVER
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/22 08:10 AM
3

She will im sure and things always works out.Its hard to see at the beginning but you gonna get there.We'll all do my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/22 08:14 AM
6

My ex altitude after a nice threatening letter from my lawyer she could lose residential parent status if she not restore contacts between me and my son.A day later wee man was sleeping here.Since than im getting him 2-3 times a week and this year I can finally took him to my dad n sisters(He is nearly 4 and never meet any of my family only my ex wifes)
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/22 07:42 AM
3

1 month...well it was shit.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/22 07:32 AM
1

Its just pure abuse...I not even read it till the mid.Not want know how the story ends.im kinda living it..
/r/MensRights22/01/22 03:34 PM
4

Yes.He is only 2.5 but when we togheter literally spending the 24 hrs togheter.He skipping afternoon naps just to be able to play whit me longer.He worked up one of the night and looking for me(According to ex) and did that one of the afternoon as well. He clearly miss me however he is only 2.5 yrs old but far as I know our relation is really really tight. Its never the amount of time it is the quality of that time matters.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/21 12:44 AM
8

Bro I ran away after 8 year of abuse just like urs.Abusers are master of manipulations so they easily turn anyone againts you(incl. Parents)First of all its ok whatever happened its not your fault and whatever been told to you.You were a good húsban and you are awesome and strong to realize and step out from it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/21 07:10 AM
3

Lol.You actually get something out of Tinder.You must be a god.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/21 02:22 PM
2

Hit me up on Chat.im from Scotland...sadly tick all the boxes...
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/21 09:47 PM
2

Yeah Air gun not kicking back....I would ask him when you are alone...no other influence.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/21 08:59 PM
4

Its not just the US man.Its generally Western societies but some mid and Eastern EU country the same as well. Feminist movement did its jobs right.There is no equality when its comes to the court room.I understand the court looking for the best intrest of the children but i don't think so the best intrest would be put dad under so much financial pressure he will need to work 60+ hrs a week to be able to sustain himself which leads to degradation of the relationship between dad and Children(s). O…
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/21 04:30 AM
2

Nice one bro.Im on legal aid.Hope they quiet good too.Obviusly isn't good as paid ones i think.Any advice or experience whit that one?
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/21 09:27 PM
1

Im on legal aid as when we separated i was on UC...long story.i only have to cover court costs partly but ofc im just trying to avoid that at all costs.I know she paint me down as an alcoholic drug addict scumbag and how family courts works prob no matter what I do I will lose...question how much.Thanks man.i'll phone my lawyer up and chat for further actions.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/21 07:38 PM
1

When he is whit me I ain't smoke at all.Sure have toys for him clothes books etc etc...its a wee bedroom flat im renting so cameras not an option.We not physically meet to pass the little ones.i pick him up from nursery and so does my ex.Obviusly we straight anwsered back to em.Stating these accusations has no base other then her words "kids clothes stinks smoke n weed and she telling my personal hygiene effect kid too" I really worried man.i do my best.paying her voluntary child support.More th…
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/21 07:27 PM
1

Thx.We married so I know my rights.We have a house in joint mortgage too which i fully covered during I stay there rnd 16000£ her part 0£..I know family courts so im trying to avoid it but not see any solution tbh.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/21 07:17 PM
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Yeah thats how it is work man.Ive been abused by my ex (end up in hospital) still she got my house and only have my son once a week.Paying her 20% of my income etc etc etc....
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/21 10:25 PM
4

Just one advice.You can take it or not.its up to you. You can only settle amicably if she wants. Been there waited year and then she did...
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/21 09:35 PM
9

Abusive behaviour....bro ran as far as you can.i waited 8 yrs but that is how start and that just get worst and worst.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/21 07:19 AM
1

Yes sorry.Im 188cm and 84-5 kg.Not too good at convering :)
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/21 01:21 AM
2

Yeah.Also more experienced to realize red flags.I mean there was a girl somehow one of the dating app bugged in and she msg me.Chat a bit and facetimed like 2x4 hrs following day but today is was just blend and i did not felt it.So i guess she won't be the one.Plus distance is a great deal for me.I'm obviusly not allowed to move by certain distance to keep the contact and I would not do it by any means for my kids loss.Not ever.i know its nice to put yourself first but nit in that case.Btw my so…
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/21 01:09 AM
1

Yeah I'm on it too...I mostly read it.Indeed i found a redditor there and turned out her origin was same as my natonality so it was nice and generally find a lot of good topic there.The thing is im not shallow or anything like that but seems im attracting womens im not attracted to but i think its normal to have some sort of standards right? I mean I would not want to be whit someone i know i would not be happy just for the sake of being whit someone
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/21 12:59 AM
3

Yeah I know.Its crazy isn't it?I know.My favourite is 2-3 holiday a year and stuff.Im sry.im a full time working dad.How the hell i could climb hills every weekends?I love some people just faking themself on it to achive even a match so. The amount of no response is the other side of the hell,but that is came down to attentions seekers.Ghosting and all that kind of stuff really really makes guys turn into sour.Well not me tbh.I do my daily limit and hope one day hit the jackpot.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/21 12:50 AM
1

Thanks.Well the harder the better it is.isn't it?If you can get it easy you would not value it if its gonna happen.I noticed about lots of guys in my age still about just getting the ONS life off.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/21 12:10 AM
3

Oh now.i don't at all.Just wondering.i know these apps and how swiping tendecies works on these apps.(top 10% guys got a lot about 80% of the ladies,the rest of the guys 90% just compete for the little amount of women left 20%)i'm aming +/- 5 years as my ex was +8 and seems it was not something we managed to get thru so obviusly not going to do the same mistake again and im being realistic whit that age range. Btw in the UK there are plenty of young even younger than that,single moms too but i t…
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/21 11:21 PM
1

Wow.2-3 weeks? 0_0.... I dunno.I went on it but tbh I never had success on it. I'm on these apps since Late August. I thought I manage something but been used out for ONS.Well not complaining about tho but that is just not for me and think its just unrespectful towards for myself... If you pulled that out 2-3 weeks,starting to make me think either I'm living on a wrong spot or something wrong whit me I don't know about. Thanks for sharing your success
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/21 10:33 PM
1

Thanks for your input.Yeah,obviusly during covid my money dropped so right not Eharmony is crazy expensive for me. What I wrote down is the experience of those free sites and I think its just got even worst during covid.Im in Europe BTW so might our experience vary way higher as the dating culture is way different here then there i guess. Anyway I was not scared at all,just wondered if that's even possible...I'm on the tall side tho 6'11" about 186 lbs.So I think these just show how these apps w…
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/21 10:06 PM
1

Yeah.Thats good.So they understand the situation and handled really well.My little one only 2 so he just on the phase of adopting the situation and did not get hurt in the whole process thank fuck. I'm really happy you managing good.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/21 08:27 PM
1

Good.Same here however still 2 years to go before we hand in but already separated by a year now.Do you have kids?
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/21 08:09 PM
2

Its alright man.it could end up way worst.You are a good person.Hope you OK.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/21 11:54 AM
1

32M here.i was 2gheter whit my soon to be ex wife for 8 years.You gotta be really careful as a kid will definitely tie you down and if things not work out basicly you screwed just like me. I'm not saying don't but if she depressed right now. Pregnancy will affect her even more,her body will go thru a lot of changes,hormons,she will gain weight etc etc etc. Post Natal Depression is a real thing as well so get that fixed first if you really want to have a children whit her because if the depressio…
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/21 08:04 PM
1

Im not in Canada so you defo need to look into family law whatever rescourse is avaiable. Im separated a year by now.Waiting to dealt whit the house first as we arraged the Child contact etc etc etc. In the UK if the father has parental responsibility the other party cant leave the country whitout consist to the other parents otherwise is Kidnapping and you can report it.After its goes interpol and all sorts of crap,hell the other party could lose even custody? How you can have parental responsi…
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/21 01:41 PM
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