SecretFootball1746 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
39	Dating would be better if people just accepted all they are entitled to is apathy.	CMV	SecretFootball1746	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/23 03:38 PM
3	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value?	Discussion	SecretFootball1746	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:02 PM
3	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men.	CMV	SecretFootball1746	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 08:52 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship. Ran through whore? What's wrong with accurate descriptors. I'm not stopping ran through whores from being ran through whores, they just disgust me. Why is that a problem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:08 PM
1	It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship. Good give away that you know nothing about feminism 👍 It's called sex positive feminism. Unless the woman has told you explicitly, or you are aware of her past, any assumption you make that she just must have given it up for Chad around the back of a nightclub is driven by insecurity. Or less generously, a massive misogynist. And how does that prove I'm wrong. Don't act like a ran through whore if you don't want to be thought of one or treated as one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:06 PM
7	It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship. Women usually take advantage of their opportunities. Y'all popularized the phrase "ho phase". Don't talk about having one then get mad when you're considered a whore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:05 PM
5	It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship. Okay, if I was engaged in the past, you better be cool if your ring costs half that ring. Y'all get fucking mad if your crushes treat other women more nicely and you're gonna get mad that we don't want to be treated differently. We're not entitled to sex, but if I find out you made me wait while you were slinging it out for free, you fucking disgust me and I don't care if you walk into traffic. Nobody likes finding out they had to pay for what other people got for free. I'm not gonna pressure a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:04 PM
17	It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship. Right, women never talk about it at all. It's not like half of feminism is just telling women to go get piped and fuck up their pair bonding abilities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:01 PM
3	It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship. Why would I want some ran through whore though. If you had casual flings, I don't want to deal with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:00 PM
–	It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship. We need to learn to just walk away from broads like that. I don't want a ran through whore. Casual flings will always be interpreted as ran through whore to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:00 PM
2	It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship. She's a woman who had the opportunity to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:59 PM
–	CMV Casual sex as a attractive man gets old fast Humblebrag much? Yeah dude, everybody takes for granted what comes easy to them. This isn't just sex. I was a kickboxer and was able to pull from that. Most women are fucking annoying and not worth the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:56 PM
4	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have Is it really that great? Personally I find it starts great and then gets worse the longer a relationship goes because most women are emotional trash fires when you get to know them and you lose attraction. You wanna be led around by the dick go right ahead, but to me it looks miserable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:54 PM
2	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have Men over here keep talking about betabux and keep saying women manipulate men into these arrangements. They're wrong. I've only been here a couple days and haven't seen that so you could be lying. So I am pretty sure all genders are being manipulated, you individually don't get manipulated but people do. Then learn to spot it. You're not entitled to help or understanding from anybody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:52 PM
2	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have This isn’t about me or you specifically so please quit trying to personalize it. No. Don't get mad that you're being held to the standard you set. "Anything you can do I can do better" has been women's attitude towards men my entire life, so that's the expectation I hold you to. Shouldn't have hammered those standards into my head if you didn't want to be held to them. Quit getting upset that I'm holding you to the standard you set. Anyone can be manipulated and it happens every day to many peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:50 PM
1	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have How is viewing your partner as attractive the opposite of strong and independent? How is allowing other women to change your view of who is attractive strong and independent? That's what she described.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:47 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. How should having more female characters and less women treat as sex objects affect any of that? Well if it wasn't taking away from those things before, why was it necessary. How can you care about gaming but your actual experience playing the game doesn't matter? Sex object mini games in God of War were the best, you had a little QTE to make a girl cum and get XP, it was fun. Why should I care if you're seen as a sex object is my question, it wasn't negatively affecting my gaming experiences Be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 04:06 AM
7	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have Nah sometimes you need to recognize a trap when you see one. Especially if you've stepped in traps before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 03:56 AM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. So which feminist thinkers should I read exactly? Who are this bridge building broads? Feminism has drawed men and women closer to equal footing than religion and TRP wants to. Evidence? women's being one where there cooped up at home and can't even have a voice on all these matters. Never appearing in art unless it's for sex appeal for the men. I'm new to this red pill thing, who exactly said this? Who is out here acting like they chain their girlfriend to an engine block in the kitchen? EDIT: …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 03:54 AM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. Reboots are thanks to late stage capatilism, not feminism. And replacing all the legacy characters with new female characters (with little actual characterization ironically), shoving in a bunch of pro-domineering female boss messaging, getting involved in culture war politics in Florida, and shoving messaging in their kids content had nothing to do with that. Okay, lol. Okay. Since feminist critique, female representation in important roles has skyrocketed and creators are more thoughtful about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 03:51 AM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. Serious question, who hurt you? While feminists want to bridge the gap between our differences Julie Bindel wants me in a concentration camp, and Andrea Dworkin wants me forcefully re-educated, and Gail Dines wants to take all my porn, how are you bridging a gap?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 03:37 AM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. Men complain all the time about female action stars. Where? I see people complaining about shitty movies. I don't see anybody saying female leads can't exist. "Decades ago"? 😆 Harry Potter is modern era. Sorcerer's stone came out 25 years ago. Yeah. Decades. complained to hell about (gamergate)... Y'all keep bringing it up, it's been almost a fucking decade and you're still bringing it up. Feminist critique is worthless when it comes to narrative. What films did it make better? All I see it doin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 03:32 AM
5	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have Again, pretty easy to spot. For example, I'm pretty sure even at 16 if R Kelly told me to call him Daddy I'd leave his house, never return his calls, never be alone with him etc. I think this because... we had neighborhood creeps who'd try Seems he was more successful than not with girls around that same age. You're my equal and getting manipulated more easily? How does that work? To reiterate, y'all hammered that "strong and independent" shit into my head for thirty years. Don't get mad when th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 03:14 AM
7	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have Maybe you can be taken advantage of, last time I was manipulated was 6. Manipulators are easy to spot. Do they butter you up before asking something of you? Do they do it habitually? etc. These are simple questions you can ask to ascertain someone's motivation. And if I can do that, you strong and independent women surely can. And y'all are more emotionally intelligent than us, at least that's what you've told me for 30 years, so if you're more qualified, why are you getting got more than me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 02:58 AM
2	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have Two have a choice to have sex. One doesn't have a choice to get an abortion in many states and countries. But I'm all for paper abortions where abortion is legal. I think if he offers the money for the abortion and the plane ticket to a state where baby-killing is legal, then he also can paper abort. That would be a fair compromise. If she turns it down, sucks to suck sweetie. Go find a long flight of stairs (jk).	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 02:46 AM
3	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have RIP GOAT	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 02:29 AM
11	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have Do other women flirt with him when you are around. If so, err towards him being good at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 02:23 AM
0	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have Weird that it takes two people and only one has a choice to snuff it out or not though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 02:23 AM
21	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have Fatherless behavior. Women act like all of them have healthy boundaries and good instincts at all times, then come crying when some dude takes advantage. Y'all can't have both ways, you are either strong and independent (meaning you don't need any help you can't pay for, in short) or you ain't. Getting taken advantage of is not strong nor independent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 02:21 AM
1	Many men who have nothing going for them and are low value try to get high value or attractive women, and then complain and moan that they’re “alone forever” but don’t ever lower their standards. Yikes, kitty has claws. First off, I'm not complaining that she's a coach, we're telling men she's not intelligent or experienced enough to take seriously on this matter. Second, y'all shamed men into the first world war, you are responsible for wars too. Stop acting like you aren't a part of society and it's ills. Third, why exactly do you have a problem with adult women making adult decisions?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 02:17 AM
1	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. Isn't it great that half our species are just blatant fucking liars? I'd appreciate if sluts, hos, and whores would just be honest about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 02:05 AM
5	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have Most mothers do that, yes. Still, can't really say you are strong and independent if other people's emotions rile you up THAT much. If my friends said my girl was ugly and I thought she was hot (kind of happened, I like petite girls all my friends like instathots, everyone has flaws), well they ain't fucking her, I am, so only my opinion matters. I'll never understand that about women. Especially after having "strong and independent" beat into my head for 30 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 02:04 AM
0	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have When a woman is super into a guy it's hard to understand that he is not objectively attractive. Cognitive dissonance like that won't allow women to stay subjectively attracted. Not gonna lie, that's like the opposite of strong and independent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:52 AM
12	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have If you say so. Many of you behave differently to that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:50 AM
1	Many men who have nothing going for them and are low value try to get high value or attractive women, and then complain and moan that they’re “alone forever” but don’t ever lower their standards. And you called me a narcissist. I posted exactly what they said. They are implying 18 year old girls are good at giving dating advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:35 AM
10	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have Yeah I can't tell what the obvious solution is because men here are not allowed to post anything without the mods clinging to be civil or no incel content in order to remove or blanket ban anyone while women can spread misinformation and discuss in bad faith like there's tomorrow. Oh so it's like a nightclub, lol. Maybe the mods are getting under the table favors? (only joking mods). As a man, I'm just done with them. My mother was abusive, every hook up or LTR was just a fucking headache. They …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:33 AM
7	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have I meant her looking for a better option. Always being compared to other men. Honestly, the love from my two pit bulls (platonic, for any gross creeps who were gonna make a joke) is more pure than any from any woman, including my mother. If there's anything I could teach men, it's these two things. Pussy gets old when you considered the creature attached to it, and not one of them on this planet feels as good as a peaceful household does. If you can find a woman who can do both, cherish, but ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:24 AM
13	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have Sounds like we should stop marrying and having kids until women learn to act right then. Think solutions, not problems. Women can't fix a fucking doorknob, they aren't fixing society. And the first thing to do is stop placating them. If they're acting like brats, don't engage with them. Either they turn around or the species dies off (I'm not upset at either outcome if I'm honest).	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:14 AM
21	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have Basically knowing that you can't get a better option make the women even more complacent. Which is why men need to be willing to walk away regardless. No pussy and a peaceful home is far superior to what OP is describing. Could you imagine living with some chick like that? Just constantly looking for a better option? Ugh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:08 AM
8	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have That's if you HAVE to always have a woman in your life and are controlled by sex. You have to be willing to walk away from an unhealthy relationship if you have nobody. No sex and a peaceful home is a billion times better than sex and a caustic environment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 01:06 AM
1	Many men who have nothing going for them and are low value try to get high value or attractive women, and then complain and moan that they’re “alone forever” but don’t ever lower their standards. Goddamn, you really like me don't you. You're like a little puppy dog following me everywhere. They said getting piped by a 50 year old makes you a qualified dating coach. According to the guys here, an 18 year old girl with a 50 year old man is perfectly acceptable. Now suddenly she’s too young to give dating advice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:57 AM
1	Many men who have nothing going for them and are low value try to get high value or attractive women, and then complain and moan that they’re “alone forever” but don’t ever lower their standards. Are you trying to say that a gynecological exam is sexual, that men wouldn't be able to not look at this situation through a sexual lens? No. He has ten more years of school to get through. My point was that an 18 year old knows as much about relationships as an 18 year old with a porn addictions knows about gashes. Do you have a crush on me? You keep following me around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:55 AM
1	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. What are you trying to accomplish by personally attacking me saying that you're disgusted by me when I never even brought anything personal up. I didn't say I was disgusted by you, I said I was disgusted by sluts and whores. I don't know you. We're talking about women in general here. I have never said that I wanted to be with you so I'm not sure why you bring this up either. Again, its a fucking general "you". It's very fucking common in the English language. ''You want me to not be allowed to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:33 AM
1	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. Because it's entertaining. So weird how people get so bent out of shape over common female descriptors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:30 AM
1	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. Explain the logic behind this if you say that you don't feel like every man shares the same feelings that you do. First, that should have said rose 12% since the seventies. Secondly why is me bringing up numbers saying every man thinks like me? Other men see those numbers and interpret differently. Why should we be concerned about what ''men we find attractive'' think? How do you know who we find attractive and what those people think? Because usually when we find someone attractive we want them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:09 AM
1	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. Because every man feels the same way as you do? Because your opinion is the correct one? Never said that. We care about the people that we're interested in and we all have different reasons for being interested in someone, different values. Okay. We shouldn't be having more partners than the magic number of 10 because otherwise no man would find us attractive any longer? Some men won't. I can't give an exact number but if the men you want wouldn't want that, why would you put yourself above that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 11:43 PM
–	CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe him What? What does that have to do with my comment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 11:38 PM
1	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. Do you want to date them? Why do you care? No, but they show up to the date sometimes. How are you supposed to know this before talking to them. They're allowed to exist. I never said they weren't. So the women of the female dating strategy upset you. Why? It's more that most women have adopted at least some of the rhetoric and beliefs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 11:38 PM
1	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. Why are you upset? Don't try to gaslight me, I'm not upset. What is ''acting like a slut''? Scantily clad, higher than average number of sexual partners, always talking about sex or their body etc. ''changing their behaviour to attract people they find attractive''? Why would this upset you? Covering up if the guy you are interested in likes more demure women. This doesn't upset me, it's just proof that you change your behavior for the men you want. So obviously, a lot of women want men who want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 11:36 PM
–	CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe him can’t imagine that a place called hustler’s university might have been a hustle? Maybe, it passed as an MLM legally though. I just think the dude is funny personally. He never trafficked me so I've got no problems with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 11:32 PM
1	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. Because all the people who were a part of that community are still alive out there dating. They still have weight in dating and the direction of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 11:24 PM
–	CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe him If he took in money and then didn’t pay it out that’s not a MLM. That’s a pyramid scheme. That depends how he got the money. If he got it through a subscription and provided coaching, legally he was selling materials, not collecting investments. Yeah, don't get involved with MLMs they are shady. Shady doesn't mean illegal though. That case is still up in the air. I'll wait until all the evidence is out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 11:23 PM
1	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. Everyone are allowed to feel the way that they do about certain things, you don't control other people's bodies though. How exactly do words control people's bodies? If a guy is grabbing a woman acting slutty without her consent, that's called assault, call the cop's that's their problem. Expressing an opinion doesn't control anybody. Women can do whatever they want as long as they aren't breaking laws, they don't have a right to censor other's opinions about it. I'm not ''shutting anyone's opin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 11:20 PM
–	CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe him IDK. They can sue him if they weren't paid what they were owed, but I haven't heard anything on that front.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 11:14 PM
1	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. Yes misogyny is terrible. Women should be able to express their sexuality without being shamed for it No. You don't get to shut everyone else's opinion down because of your fee-fees. We have a first amendment in the US for a reason. If a man finds sluts disgusting, he has a right to that opinion. You don't get to sew men's mouths shut just because you don't like what they say, and at least in my lifetime, women are the only one's trying to silence speech. Or why you think that women would be ver…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 11:04 PM
1	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. You tell me because they're doing it now. "It's so horrible that men slut-shame us" but those are the men you aren't interested so why do you care? Let them talk shit and don't let it bother you like men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 10:52 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. First, I never said I was red pill. You can have problems with women without being ideological. I don't give a fuck about what most people think of me or what I'm thinking. Just because I posed a question here doesn't mean I pose it in my real life. When most people left you for dead, you stop caring what they think. Okay, but promiscuity is an acute signifier of BPD, not autism. My Mother was a ran through whore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 10:38 PM
–	Many men who have nothing going for them and are low value try to get high value or attractive women, and then complain and moan that they’re “alone forever” but don’t ever lower their standards. but I am afraid you have some really bad condition of misandry. She's from a western country, they all do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 10:23 PM
–	Many men who have nothing going for them and are low value try to get high value or attractive women, and then complain and moan that they’re “alone forever” but don’t ever lower their standards. Except as a man when you get to the point of being attractive to women, it's just a fuck ton of obligation. What's the point of sex is if you annoy the shit out of me? They're still crazy 3/4 weeks of every month. You allegedly took personal responsibility, most women think personal responsibility is a curse. That seems to be the difference	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 10:23 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. Depends on the circumstances. Is there a significant amount of money involved?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 10:17 PM
–	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. *Conscience. Get that strong independent dictionary out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 10:02 PM
2	CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe him It’s using men that are struggling and whilst a few may achieve success, not everyone can and the majority will suffer for it. Hustler's University is just an MLM scheme. Nothing illegal, not a rip off, but most people won't succeed in that environment. I just find the dude funny. He never trafficked me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 10:01 PM
1	CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe him Why would you want a Lambo to be honest? I like Andrew Tate, but I fucking hate luxury cars. Outside of a racetrack they are pointless. I just see unnecessarily expensive maintenance, insurance, and taxes in some cases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 10:00 PM
1	CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe him I just find Tate entertaining. Just like I found Andrew Dice Clay entertaining. There used to be a time I would have cared about the trafficking charges, but again, women's lack of empathy inspired me to not have any for them. Tate never trafficked me so why would I care?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:58 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. Yeah, but you don't. Which is why my exes couldn't just say "That's shitty, I'm sorry that happened to you". No, they were told men who don't have good relationships with their mothers are bad boyfriends, so their priorities lay with trying to fix my relationship with my mother because of some stupid beliefs they hold with no evidence whatsoever. We do this a lot more than women do. You know how many things I wanted to fix that I just let go of with women. Y'all never extend me the same courtesy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:54 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. What evidence are you expecting? Proof of women accurately evaluating men's emotional state without being explicitly told so, and them getting it correct more often than not. That is what empathy is. That should then lead you to slightly alter your behavior as to not distress or bother others, but baby steps. It’s best you remain single for awhile *Rest of my life There fixed it for ya. I just "ranted" (per the mods) about how much women lack empathy and my negative experiences and you think I w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:51 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. Yeah I'm not sure what "most men don't see women as human" means. Even if you are being sexually objectified, the vast majority of us only do that with human women. I don't think women don't view us as not human, you just don't care about how your behaviors negatively effect us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:48 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. I don’t think you can separate yourself from your biases. You absolutely can in your behavior. Maybe not attitudes but you can absolutely be unbiased in your behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:46 PM
–	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. Yeah, you seem like a catch. Bye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:44 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. There’s no way to prove there are women out there who care about their partners feelings, but they are out there. So no evidence though? Got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:42 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. Women aren't morally superior so they can inflict damage just like Men. Then they should stop acting like it. Most guys in my experience understand that women are more likely than men to emotionally console you if you open up to them. I'd use the term "performative comforting" but that's just me. How can you be consoled when it's obvious the other person doesn't actually understand what bothers you? Most women act in similar ways. For example, that disgusted sigh women like to use.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:40 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. They don’t need BPD. They’re abusive in similar unempathetic ways is what I mean. I disagree, I wouldn't say they were abusive. Obtuse, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:38 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. Not on the most part, no. Significantly fewer, statistically aberrant, men tend to do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:37 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. JK Rowling wrote Harry Potter decades ago, what percentage of female authors today still do that? Also, female protagonists have been prominent for centuries. That "men hate female fictional characters" is such a blatant lie. If that was true, female action stars wouldn't exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:36 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. No one should be throwing your trauma back at your face. Doesn't stop women from doing it. Not just in my case, ask any dude if he's had his insecurities preyed upon during a fight and it doesn't matter how immoral it is, doesn't stop y'all from doing it. you do also as an adult need to learn to reign in your own emotions. In the real world I do, I don't show my emotions to women at all. Sorry that while typing about my abuse I got a little emotional. But again, I don't talk about it with women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:34 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. Your traumatized, but your trauma and experiences are not an accurate reflection on women as a whole. I'd say most women are emotional and take it out on the men in their life in some way or another. It's just degree of severity that changes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:30 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. I wonder, in your opinion do you think Men can empathise with Women? Better than they can empathize with us. It's pretty easy to understand women's emotions in most situations. Just think of how you'd react, get tunnel vision, and crank up the intensity about 40% and you get enough of an idea of what they are feeling to moderate your behavior. For example, if a woman is flinching any time I move, am I going to start wildly genuflecting in front of her? You're unlucky, you are not the standard. M…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:29 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. As for the dating, it seems like you expect women to be like your mom so that’s what you attract. None of my exes had BPD. so maybe you shouldn’t project what has happened to you on other people I thought I said I don't talk about it with people anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:27 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. Do you know how many men I've heard that refuse to read or watch stories with female leads as they "wouldn't be able to relate to them", yet women always watch and read stories with male protagonists Considering Aliens is one of my favorite films, I'd hazard to guess that isn't many men. Men are default. Everyone accepts them as human. Most men only see men as human, and women as a completely different species. This is not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:22 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. What are those two BPD indicators and how are they impacting your life? Splitting. I developed strategies to stop doing that. My emotions naturally want to do that and I logically have to talk them down. Heightened emotional reaction to emotions, though that is ALSO an indicator in complex PTSD. I still feel these, I just have strategies to contain them so they're only my problem and nobody else's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:20 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. I can go on and on about how I know every little thing about my husbands very abusive childhood and have supported him through all the ups and downs that trauma has caused. He'd probably feel more supported if you didn't bring up his trauma to argue with strangers. Also that's not empathy, that's being a shoulder to cry on. Empathy is understanding my emotions and how I was feeling in that moment so you don't do similar actions that'll. My mother would threaten to kill herself, say she's ugly, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:18 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. If your parent has BPD and you are not treated, and blaming others, you also have BPD Yeah, nice try. I have depression, but I'm cleared of BPD with a therapist. I had 2 of the indicators in the DSM4 (at the time). Also, the bitch shoved me in a dryer because I wouldn't eat disgusting boiled broccoli, autistic people do that much? No, she had BPD. I also don't know any autistic women who are promiscuous, there is that too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:07 PM
–	Most women simply don't have the ability to empathize with men. To see if anyone can change my view. That's the tag. Nothing I say will convince you that there are women out there who will love you for you and do actually care about your feelings. Well not that specific statement no. I'd say using evidence you can convince someone a group has empathy more often than not. Prove that you can understand our emotional reactions to particular stimuli. That is how you'd change my view. I’m sorry you haven’t experienced that. So you're not gonna try to change my vi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:04 PM
1	Does the prize does get a prize for waiting to be given? It’s not playing. Have you ever heard the saying ‘it’s not tricking if you got it’ ? This is defensive on her part. This pedantic argument over "playing hard to get". It's more emotion than I invited her to express to me therefore it's disgusting. I'll be honest, I find most women's emotions repulsive, I don't want any whiff of it. Defensiveness over the definition of a word is a whiff of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 10:19 PM
2	The drug problem broken down: the reason people use drugs is that life is miserable. Life is miserable because men are supposed to have meaningful work, a wife, and children to take care of. They are supposed to be surrounded by beauty. Governments have always tried to cut the legs out from it's populace	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 10:14 PM
1	The drug problem broken down: the reason people use drugs is that life is miserable. Life is miserable because men are supposed to have meaningful work, a wife, and children to take care of. They are supposed to be surrounded by beauty. You have to find that yourself dude. You do understand that actual billionaires prefer us weak and aimless right? World won't give you what you want, you gotta take it. Only thing that annoys me is women can get welfare much more easily than men, if it was up to me the government would neglect us both equally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 10:08 PM
2	Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid? I think there are women like you describe, but there are also women who, while being more emotional perhaps, aren't manipulative about it. They're equally repulsive and malignant regardless. Emotional insecurity and emotional outbursts make your emotions ugly, plain and simple. Regardless of why they do it. That is, they are aware that they are being emotional and that doens't automatically make them right, like it's a trump card that magically allows them to get their own way, whatever that is.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 09:50 PM
1	Does the prize does get a prize for waiting to be given? Genghis Khan up in this ho. lol. For number 2, I just don't have the motivation to deal with that bullshit anymore. Women have just gotten needlessly more emotional and internally ugly over the years that that situation just screams more headache than necessary. I'm not dealing with emotional manipulation and games from women, and that hard to get attitude is exactly that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 09:08 PM
1	Does the prize does get a prize for waiting to be given? The fastest to no longer play into stupid games like playing hard to get? Yes I was the fastest to stop doing that. See how you need to resort to insults about my life choices, that makes you a 1 and emotionally ugly in my book. Considering most women engage in this, most of you are emotionally ugly. It is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 09:00 PM
1	Does the prize does get a prize for waiting to be given? You emotions are ugly is misogyny? But they are ugly. They drive you to insult people and play games with others, y'all are an emotionally ugly creature. Dogs are emotionally beautiful. Rats are emotionally beautiful. Even burmese pythons are emotionally beautiful. You don't want me to think you are internally ugly creatures, stop acting like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 08:57 PM
–	Does the prize does get a prize for waiting to be given? I'm not even ashamed to say it, I'm jaded on women, because of women. Grow up with a mother with BPD, date in high school and college, and you realize that they're all emotion junkies. They love chaos and game playing. I love peace and contentment and direct communication. If women want to live a lifestyle in complete contradiction to the lifestyle I want, then I have no logical reason to maintain emotional attachments to them. Hell, only reason I'm in this subreddit is to kill time before a par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 08:26 PM
2	Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid? Women are people, I just happen to like them for company, sometimes, more than I like hanging out with guys. Balanced diet, right? Find strategies to be in their company more. I'd say the running club I'm in is 50/50 men and women. Might have some luck if you join something similar near you. Maybe a yoga class too? personally it's because I desperately want connection and intimacy, something I've wanted since I was a young teenager but have never been able to get. My concern here is you are buil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 08:20 PM
1	Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid? They can't eat their vegetables if they're experiencing a disastrous vegetable harvest, there aren't any to eat . They don't care my friend. Women do not care about that, you are wasting your breath bringing it up to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 08:13 PM
-2	Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid? But that's no use if you actually want to be involved in society, to socialise with people, and to satisfy psychological needs for inclusion. Why do you need women to have a romantic interest in you to do that. I have many relationships and social ties without a wife or girlfriend. Absolutely I do: here. That's a collage of posters you can find in various parts of the UK, in public, put there by various official authorities (and one, the "She's not sending death threats", from a mobile carrier).…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 08:07 PM
2	Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid? Have you always been this way? I grew up with a mother with BPD, so I was primed to not think of women as perfect, because I grew up with one far from it. She was a gigantic whore who acted like a lot of modern women and living in the same house, 99% of her problems were self-inflicted. "He left me" you said some fucked up BPD shit to make him leave, that's your fault, for example. So I've just always had a little extra insight into women's emotions, confirmed by relationships. All the themes we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 07:58 PM
–	Does the prize does get a prize for waiting to be given? I'll die happy if I can get more men to adopt that mindset. We don't have to play these games with women, we have a choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 07:49 PM
1	Does the prize does get a prize for waiting to be given? Oh god you're in your feelings immediately, excuse me while I go vomit. Yes, women play hard to get. And if you do it your dead to me, go be with the other guy. I don't have enough days left on this planet to deal with that kind of behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 07:45 PM
1	Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid? Because, ultimately, we still have to live in it. The only things you are forced to do is obey the laws and pay your taxes if you earned an income, you aren't compelled to do anything else against your will in most of western society. it just drives us to be ever more isolated because we feel increasingly distant from the millions of people we see leading fuller lives. Comparison is the thief of joy my friend. I don't watch the news, but it doesn't prevent me from seeing posters on the walls, wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 07:42 PM
1	Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid? Why would they? That's our cultural role. Our culture is garbage though. Aren't women constantly saying "there are no good men"? "What are you bringing to the table"? So? Women complain about everything. The news, the laws, the culture, they're all geared (increasingly) to what women want, what women struggle with. The laws are avoidable, don't get married. Women spend 80 cents out of every dollar in the economy, of course marketing is going to target people with the lowest amount of impulse con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 07:29 PM
1	Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging. Problem here due, is the willing acts you seem so certain to have occurred are purely speculative, Based on the million and a half verified casting couch stories in Hollywood that were consensual. but the assaults, the coercion, and the rapes have had their day in court, the fucktard was guilty as hell. I didn't say otherwise. He's a fucktard a lot of hot women willingly slept with to boost their career though. He got caught on the ones where they didn't agree to do it. It's a scumbag thing to d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 07:18 PM
2	Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid? No judgement at all. Everyone is free to walk their own path and make a life that is happiest for them. Glad we agree. That was more a general response to the topic in general and my experiences, not necessarily saying you think all that in regards to women. Personally, I just can't help that I find women's histrionic behavior ugly. Maybe I picked up switching from my Mother, but a 10 acts like an asshole, she's a 1 to me now. If a woman brings more value than she takes away, she sticks around. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 07:16 PM
2	Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid? You can have the sweetest woman in the world and they’re going to be emotional and say/do dumb shit. Which is why I don't date. My rats and pit bulls don't do that and they provide at least 65% of the emotional support a spouse could. Nah, women want to act like that, count me out. My mother had BPD, I've had enough female histrionics for a lifetime. It’s less forgiveness to me and moreso that it’s going to happen sometimes. Then I'm going to coldly leave and stop loving them, sometimes. That is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 06:57 PM
1	Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging. No, I'm not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 06:49 PM
7	Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid? There have been numerous posts and comments to the effect that if it weren't for women, they wouldn't work as hard or spend all the effort maintaining themselves. That's the saddest shit ever man. Why let women have that much control over you? You're giving them the power to control you if you do everything for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 06:48 PM
-1	Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid? Agreed. Sex is the easy part to get. The hard part is not saying equally evil shit back to them as they say to us. I'll be honest, the first time a woman in a relationship starts saying insulting things, I don't find her sexually attractive anymore. Doesn't matter how much she apologizes and cries over it, forgiving women is weakness. The hard part is finding a woman who understands that just because she's emotional doesn't give her the right to say whatever she wants without consequences. Not p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 06:39 PM
5	Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid? I just feel sorry for guys like that, honestly. Try doing a jigsaw puzzle sometime. I'm not redpill, but I agree with this. I got in an argument with someone today who literally argued men have no motivation to move beyond minimum wage without a woman. That broke my damn heart. It breaks my heart that so many men don't think life is worth living for themselves. I advocate for men to find joy outside of women too. I don't really date but it's not a hatred of women thing, it's just an incompatibil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 06:35 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? Why on earth do you think you could do anything to influence it in any way? If I can't, why does it matter that I'm taking enjoyment from it? If I literally have no effect on the planet, why would I let the negative things that happen bother me? If misfortune is going to befall people regardless of what I do, why does my response to it matter at all. For example, if I see a woman heave crying because she got turned down at the club, my belly laugh at seeing such a pathetic display should have no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 06:15 PM
1	Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging. It's a lazy saturday for me. No plans until UFC starts. I got time to kill. But yeah, that username is definitely something. Why are women so obsessed with incels? It makes no sense to be so obsessed with men you have no interest in. Could you imagine men talking about fat, ugly, bad attitude having women as much as women talk about incels? I kind of want to put a post up asking why a lot of women let incels preoccupy their thoughts so much, but it'd probably get taken down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 06:12 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? Then what is the point in bringing up things I didn't say?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 06:09 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? Thanks for the advice Bagger Vance. You're literally going through this subreddit hunting incels and you're judging me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 06:06 PM
1	Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging. Not all women. How many times must this be hammered home? I didn't say all women. I'm a man, I'm going off of what will happen more often than not. If a desired outcome happens more often than not with a particular action, that's the action I'm going to take. It doesn't have to be all women, it only has to be 50.0000000001% for it to be a logical course of action. If that percent of women will forgive a lot of stuff over money, than they majority of women will forgive a lot of stuff for money. Y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 06:04 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? Not really. I'm not actively doing anything to make the world burn more, I'm just not doing anything to stop it because it's funny. If I did anything to help it not burn, I'd just be wasting my time delaying the inevitable marginally. Also, why is a self proclaimed evil succubus lecturing me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:57 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? You're judging me based on other's actions? That doesn't seem a little hypocritical to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:55 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? Add in this random (and weird) ass obsession with incels, where you literally have some clown on this sub with the username incelfinder who is obsessed with them is icing on the cake. Yeah, what is with that obsession. I understand men getting a little preoccupied with that culture, why do women care about men they would never sleep with or build a life with in a million years though? On the other hand it’s just going to drive men and women further apart which is prob not a good thing for our we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:54 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? I really do not think I was ranting, that shit in the parentheses was a joke rant. What the hell?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:51 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? What does that have to do with what I said?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:47 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? So? Aren't you laughing at Curly's misfortune every time he gets poked in the eye? Wasn't Sharon Osbourne laughing at another's misfortune when she jokes about a man getting castrated on live TV? Since when is it wrong to laugh at other's misfortune?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:46 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? Sometimes AKA, less often than not. Why are you putting me in the less often than not camp of someone being humorous meaning they are miserable? Why is that your first thought?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:38 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? Let people do what they want. Where am I stopping people from doing what they want. If you don't want women then don't mock them either. But it's fun to mock them. You don't want to be mocked don't engage in easily mockable behavior. Your attitude seems off, which is nothing new when it comes to guys here. Attitude is so damn important. I just have a much stronger aversion to being controlled than most men. Why is that a bad attitude? It's served me well in literally every other facet of my life…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:37 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? Thanks for the info, will ignore your other comments in that case, have a nice life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:35 PM
1	Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging. So you want to be a sociopath and have psychopathy traits? All I'm pointing out is that with money and age, women tolerate a lot more from a guy and are more sexually available to that guy. My point is women will sleep with anybody with money, he's proof of that, so you can't say age doesn't make you more sexy when money comes with age. All I'm doing is commenting on women's behaviors, not what I aspire to. I don't even actively date anymore dude, why would I want to be like Weinstein when I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:34 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? I don't necessarily think that's a male female thing, I just think I don't like to be controlled and am more aggressive about that than most men. That's in my OP, where am I blaming women. Incompatibility is not blame my friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:31 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? Yeah. Sure. You definitely are not at all bitter and totally chill. Yes, I am not bitter and am chill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:30 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? I do wonder if Mother Nature isn’t just sick of us all. Go out on a long enough timescale and you realize our species probably won't be here 10K years from now, so why stress about bullshit going on right now that you can't control. If there is a god, I'm sure he's sick of us too. Glad to see others see humor in it though. To me, it's like a Nicholas Sparks novel taking place in the Idiocracy universe. That's the most apt way to describe it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:29 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? That's happening regardless of my views. Those guys finding something to laugh at about the situation is better than them getting resentful over it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:19 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? People laughing means they are unhappy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:19 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? With all due respect, you can only speak for yourself. My act is together, I make plenty of money. I've got plenty of hobbies. I just don't like dealing with women anymore and they are better enjoyed for their comedy value from a distance. For example, when one woman in the friend group cries and they all comfort her, I just start imagining David Attenborough narration. Shit if I have friends with me I might start doing it out loud. Just because someone doesn't date doesn't mean they have anythi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:18 PM
1	Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging. I'm not. His money got him willing pussy is all I'm saying, it disproves the point of this OP that you'll only get laid in your thirties if you got laid in your twenties. If a woman fucks you, you're getting what you want regardless of if you she finds you attractive for your money or your looks, so why worry about it as a man? He's not a hero, doesn't mean most women didn't willingly fuck him though. So to say that men don't get more sexual attention as they get older when we have him as an exa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:16 PM
1	Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging. Harvey Weinstein was pulling girls with his money. I bet for every one he forced, 50 did it willingly. Our sexual attraction may not increase with age, but our income does and get that high enough and you can get the woman you want. Dude literally had a leprous dick and had a bombshell wife. How y'all gonna lie and say money (which men get more of as they age) can't get you women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:09 PM
–	Anybody else hope dating in the west gets worse for the comedy value? BTW, there are more specific stories I can provide to outline what I mean, I just didn't want a giant wall of text on my initial post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 05:05 PM