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3

He’s a shithead. Let him leave. It’ll be the best thing that ever happened to you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/26 09:07 PM
11

Porn is probably the least sexy thing possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:21 AM
29

If old men were that undesirable the age gap thing wouldn’t be an issue because they wouldn’t be able to get young girlfriends. Since they manage to get young girlfriends some must find them desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:05 PM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:23 AM
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For one, they shouldn’t because it’s killing a human being. But from a selfish perspective, men are probably going to be facing a draft in the near future. There’s a reason why Germany requires men to get permission to leave the country. Not to mention all the countries that have conscription already. Men don’t have bodily autonomy but women want men to fight for theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:38 AM
6

Many of them are slobs when they live alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:40 PM
1

I personally enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:46 AM
23

Because women don’t like the idea that they have serious problems as a group. That’s misogyny. But we all accept men as a group have serious problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:10 PM
6

Women could talk before feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:05 PM
6

Maybe, but considering women have become unhappier with the rise of second wave feminism, probably fewer of them than you would believe. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/may/18/womens-rights-happiness-wellbeing-gender-gap
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:28 PM
3

I think most women should consider trying it. But it shouldn’t be forced or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:06 PM
4

I met a man who was also critical of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:59 PM
7

I have one, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:47 PM
28

You completely misunderstand the whole traditional marriage relationship. What you’re describing is an abusive relationship with a man who doesn’t hold his end of the bargain. The husband owes care and protection to his wife. A man is responsible for his wife’s wellbeing as well. If his wife is sick, hurt, whatever and he’s not concerned for her and only about how she’s failing to serve him, he’s failing to protect and shelter her properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:42 PM
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Probably not actually true. Both sex organs have the same embryological origin, which means they probably contain roughly similar numbers of total nerve endings. https://www.sciencealert.com/we-may-finally-know-how-many-nerve-endings-are-in-the-human-clitoris#:~:text=Humans05%20November%202022,understanding%20of%20human%20sex%20organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:04 PM
1

Hell no. Wouldn’t want to be a man ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:01 PM
1

They can label me as whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:12 PM
7

Silent treatment for days? In my husband acted like that I would become so turned off sex wouldn’t happen for like…weeks. If he had something to say about that I would reply he’s acting like a child and I am not attracted to children.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 06:24 PM
1

If he’s doing it because he’s pissed and just doesn’t want to engage with you right now, that’s one thing. If he’s punishing you, I would personally become so turned off sex would stop happening.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 06:22 PM
1

Of course there are shitty men in the passport bros group. There are shitty people in any group.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:06 PM
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Western women call these men predatory, as if non western women can’t choose their partners for themselves and need western women to look after them. In reality the western women are just angry the men gave up on them and went looking elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:02 PM
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Jack from Titanic is textbook Manic Pixie Dream Boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:08 PM
1

Trans people still don’t change from being egg producing to sperm producing, or the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:29 PM
3

For your information, I wasn’t too enthusiastic about having an OF and was being pressured and coerced into doing it by my partner at the time. It could legally be considered a trafficking situation, probably. But even if that hadn’t been the case people decide their current way of living is harmful and change all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 06:39 PM
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I haven’t been trad all my life. I had the account for a few years. I posted often and marketed myself. It was a part time job. It disproves your argument that you can just post a photo of your feet and get money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:46 AM
14

I used to have an OF. You aren’t making money without the parasocial aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:39 AM
1

I don’t care at all what gender you want to live as. Call yourself a man or a woman, I don’t care. I am not at all concerned with how you want to live your life. But “biological male/female” has a certain meaning. We have a word that denotes egg producing and a word for sperm producing, and we shouldn’t have to pretend that’s not a biological fact because some people have hang ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:24 AM
1

Female organisms are specifically egg producing. Look, I really don’t care if trans people want to live as whatever gender they wish. Have at it. But biological terms mean things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:20 AM
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What’s this gaslighting nonsense? For years we have been told sex and gender are separate from trans activists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:20 AM
3

Accountability for being an abuse victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:18 AM
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No, you can’t. Men will only pay for pics from women they feel they have a parasocial relationship with. To get to a place where a man will pay for a woman’s feet pics, she has to build a rapport with him. That’s flirting every day over a period of time. Men aren’t paying $25 for feet pics of random women they feel they have no connection to. They can Google random feet photos for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:09 AM
3

I would say even first wave went off course in places, although they had some very valid complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:51 PM
1

Most of my liberal friends would drop me in a hot second if they knew I was for restricting abortion or even hinted that I thought JK Rowling wasn’t actually all that transphobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:42 PM
4

Conservatives don’t do this to nearly the same extent. I got banned from a liberal subreddit for saying I wanted to be called a woman, not a womb haver. I am banned from subs I have never been to for being pro life. To compare, no conservative space has banned me for disliking Trump or supporting gay marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:39 PM
12

I’m all for protecting a vulnerable woman but not at the price of throwing out individual thinking and accepting the bandwagon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:34 AM
37

This is an example of what we’re talking about. Why should she agree just because she’s a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:53 AM
56

This describes every female dominated forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:52 AM
4

I am a full on tradwife and I have my own opinions, wants, and desires. I don’t know why people think submission means becoming a copy of the dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:38 PM
0

Women in my experience have a lot of problems with accepting generalities. In general women do not do car maintenance and will avoid it if possible. Of course there are a few individual women who do maintenance but they’re outliers. The generality can never be stated because the outliers take offense. This is usually what happens when a generality is attempted to be discussed and women are involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:33 PM
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You should have to register for the draft. Whether or not they keep your registration is their decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:37 AM
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Voting should be tied to the draft. Women should have to register if they want to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:37 PM
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Since I am autistic I am already used to people treating me like shit. Guess no surprises will come when I’m old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:14 AM
2

These same women probably go on about how dangerous men are but have no problem antagonizing complete strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:06 AM
2

She had to cultivate a relationship with the men who paid her for her feet pics. That’s hours of work every single day. Women don’t just go online, put up feet pics, and immediately get paid a small fortune for them. Men will only pay for that if they feel they have some sort of relationship with the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:49 PM
3

The problem is that the market is over saturated. Most women cannot sell pics of their butthole or bath water and make a living. The only way they can do that is to cultivate a parasocial relationship to make the men feel like they know her. This is hours of attention every day to several men. Women basically have to become a low level celebrity to make any significant money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:44 PM
3

Why is she only taking one client per day? She could charge $60 for an hour and do it for a few hours, or even several hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:42 PM
3

No. I wouldn’t have a child with someone who couldn’t provide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:19 PM
9

Last 5? Damn, how lucky do you think I get? I’m 36.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:35 AM
3

I can agree with that. I have two kids, one of them autistic so he definitely needs a lot of attention. I still shower every day, shave, and dress well. Some women just stop feeling like looking nice is important once they’ve got a man with kids. Edit: People are fat because they eat more in calories than they spend. Period. I am not fit. I actually have chronic fatigue syndrome and intense exercise makes me feel ill. I’m still thin though because I don’t stuff myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:39 PM
3

I am a tradwife and we absolutely aren’t rich. Most of my trad friends aren’t wealthy either. We sacrifice a lot to have this dynamic in our relationships with how expensive everything is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:36 PM
5

Yes, but I submit to his authority in return for this expectation. If we were equals I wouldn’t expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:51 PM
3

How do you debate who someone else should date? That’s not really a debate topic. This is more of a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:19 AM
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Okay. You do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:44 AM
2

They were likely being raped if that was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:27 AM
10

Men absolutely do kill women they’re in a relationship with, WTF are you talking about. The most likely person to kill a woman is her husband or boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:26 AM
1

That could be because women haven’t been able to put as much evolutionary pressure on men to be attractive as men have on women. I am bisexual and I find an attractive man as sexy as an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:01 AM
2

That’s completely untrue. Testosterone makes your urges a lot stronger. Males are always hornier. Except maybe for hyenas. But they have more testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:27 AM
3

You think men are ugly because you aren’t sexually attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:25 AM
4

I admit I’m attracted to the threat. It’s just that trust is a necessary base to enjoy the threat on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:24 AM
0

Personally I find the idea that a man could do anything to be really attractive. The threat itself is a turn on. But of course the trust has to be there for it to be enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:23 AM
-1

This is pretty based. Not very red.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:21 AM
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Just not interested. Most women barely make anything on it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:37 PM
1

I’m lazy. I have no interest in carrying on a pseudo-relationship with people I don’t know to earn a small amount. If I could be guaranteed to make millions, I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:36 PM
1

You’re dating emotional toddlers. They may be adults, but emotionally, they are toddlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:06 AM
-3

This is why I think men who fight for women’s right to abortion are hilarious and not in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:51 AM
3

Okay, thanks for that contribution. Now those of us who don’t plan to kill ourselves in the event shit hits the fan would like to keep planning what we might have to do in the very real possibility WWIII breaks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:03 PM
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Arranged isn’t the same as forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:08 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:58 AM
5

No, no one can force you to marry if you don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:30 AM
4

No, arranged marriages would still require the consent of those being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:27 AM
1

It would probably be for the better. Of course, arranged isn’t forced and those being married would still need to give their consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:27 AM
0

Yes, you can judge whoever you want for any reason you want. But no one else has to care what your personal standards are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:56 AM
0

Is cuck just a catch all insult now like incel? Also, self respecting men do whatever they want without worrying what you think of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:14 AM
5

Step fathers have had to pay child support before, so…not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:12 AM
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The biggest advantage to sexual reproduction is genetic variation. Sure, 5 men could get 100 women pregnant but genetically it wouldn’t be very healthy. We tend to be about 50/50 gender wise because that’s the ideal split.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:12 AM
5

That’s not what “believe women” literally means though. If that’s what they meant they needed a better phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:26 AM
118

“Believe all women” is a terrible idea. A better idea is, “Take all women seriously.” If a woman says she was assaulted or harassed, take it seriously. But don’t assume everything she says is gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:53 PM
3

We’re back to women just being passive vessels in sex and pregnancy? For this to be true every act of sex has to be rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:58 PM
3

So many men are so sure dead bedrooms come about because the woman was never sexually attracted to the man. If you talk to the partners on the low libido sub you’ll see that isn’t true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:56 AM
3

lol no. I would have turned down my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:13 AM
5

I don’t see anything wrong with marriage itself being a goal. That used to be how people approached life in general. That doesn’t mean you don’t care about the man you’re marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:47 PM
1

Exactly. It shows what happens to equality and feminism when shit hits the man. Men are left holding the bag. Women just want to play equality when things are good. I saw this and went full on traditional. If men will always be held to those standards, so should women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:51 PM
-1

Feminists will never do that though. They will only work for women to be free of traditional expectations. They’re fine with gender expectations still being on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:50 PM
2

Um, I’m a full on tradwife and our relationship isn’t like that. I’m a human being and my husband and I discuss our interests all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:47 PM
1

That’s a great point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:13 AM
1

I’m autistic and socially awkward as fuck. If I didn’t use an app I was never going to find anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:07 AM
1

What would be the point of posing as a male?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:06 AM
0

I’d rather my husband not watch porn but I’m not going to make a thing out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:05 AM
2

Do you have a source? That would be very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:03 AM
1

It was funny but it’s scary how many people think it needs brought up when discussing real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:02 AM
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