SecretLeading Archive

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1	Any tips for the shy introvert who wants to hit the clubs sober? Check out Dynamic Meditation on youtube. Find a toilet cubicle. Go nuts.	/r/seduction	18/11/18 10:53 AM
2	* 5 Tips For Flirting With Women* Fascinating that your actual experience is getting downvoted. Now I remember why I don't use Reddit. I'll show myself out. But thanks to the OP, I'll be using some of these, regardless of the salty tears of naysayers.	/r/seduction	18/11/18 10:25 AM
1	I don't think I've ever actually been in love with my relationships ^This. I was that guy for 20 years with the same woman. We split up several months ago and I can tell you I was nothing but a husk. She wasn't evil or anything but she simply drained me of everything I had. Some people talk about empaths and emotional vampires, others about attachment issues. I find both approaches have some validity if you sift the wheat and I recommend googling these terms and doing some reading. Perhaps join some groups on these topics to better understand why you are so insi…	/r/seduction	08/07/18 04:08 PM
1	How to get confidence back after a breakup Especially salient for me as I just got out of a 20 year relationship and realised I was held back the whole time. I almost don't have a self. I have been on this path for a few months now: building myself, my life up from scratch. It's the only way.	/r/seduction	08/07/18 03:53 PM
1	TOO EASY BLACK GUY SHOWS HOW TO MEET GIRLS DURING THE DAY \| DAYGAME INFIELD COMPILATION I'm Black. Brian Black.	/r/seduction	08/07/18 03:45 PM
1	Ultimate Secret Women Know But Men Don't It's literally 5 minutes of saying: "be attractive". ie: girls obsess over their looks and care about being attractive. You have to use the same techniques (but also approach girls) otherwise they will be repulsed.	/r/seduction	08/07/18 03:42 PM
4	''Sorry, you're not my type'' = the new ''I've got a boyfriend'' True. My ex calls them Scene Queens. I was meaning to trip a few over this time but I was too busy dancing. It's also Melbourne, it's always been like that, there's even a section about it in The Lucky Country. I'm not sure I'll bother. the scene chicks are all retarded - facebook attests to this. Hierarchies are dumb but upside-down ones are the worst.	/r/seduction	08/07/18 03:36 PM
-1	How do you approach girls that don't have interesting personalities? Accurate and actionable pseudo-science. Good enough for me. Or there's CBT which doesn't work for real problems, that's also scientifically proven. Doesn't stop it getting government subsidised though. Strange. Almost like a battle of ideas or something.	/r/seduction	08/07/18 03:33 PM
7	''Sorry, you're not my type'' = the new ''I've got a boyfriend'' I wonder if they're testing you. Last night I was out at an underground club and there were two types of chick: scene-chick and relative normies. The normies were all smiles and ready to engage, while the scene-chicks acted like I had the plague. I actually laughed at one of them because it was so ridiculous. So I wonder if they have some elitist shield up/they over-value themselves and/or they are expecting you to persist. Also, I've been told I'm intimidating, so the more insecure types are go…	/r/seduction	08/07/18 01:18 PM
0	How do you approach girls that don't have interesting personalities? Pro-tip: whenever you express self-awareness on the internet someone, not terribly self-aware, will use it to troll you. Just saying, as I've noticed this myself a lot and it's really tiresome. That said, I can't help because I have a similar issue. MBTI-wise I'm an INTP, so I connect with women intellectually and actually feel sexual attraction through intelligent conversation. I've been seduced that way twice in recent months. I'm not sure what you mean by trashy in your cultural context but I…	/r/seduction	08/07/18 01:06 PM