SecretOther289 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	He isn't masculine and it's getting me down Why are you going up the ladder?	/r/RedPillWomen	11/12/23 02:45 PM
14	Getting eaten out for the first time I second that. You don't need to think further. There is no need for any other comment. Wow.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/12/23 07:31 AM
14	Is there such thing as too much sex? There is no problem here. Except slightly mismatched libidos. The real problem is when one partner always wants it and the other doesn't. It's absolutely normal in a relationship for one partner to want it more than the other. You will go through time where you want more. This comes down to two things; communication and learning to sync your sex with your clock. Have you guys talked about this? This is the first step. Identify why you're horny all the time, and he's not. There's a lot you can do…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/11/23 02:42 AM
15	Staying feminine during adversity Becoming hysterical and losing your cool isn't masculine. You're reverting to toxic behavior that is not healthy for a relationship. I'm married to a masculine man. Ive seen him in tough situations. He's even more calm than normal. He does become cold and ruthless, but in a very calm and scary way.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/23 01:11 PM
1	Where do we go from here What's your reasons for both coming from a non traditional background to choosing redpill?	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/23 03:39 AM
8	I am obsessed with my husband but he no longer is with me. No advice I can give, would beat this. You put the time and broke it down beautifully. I'll just add I get the impression you have an anxious attachment style. You're getting triggered by his lack of action, and then you're isolating. Don't expect him to read your mind and don't listen to your negative thoughts. He cares about you as much as he did before. Relationships come in phases, and communication is vital to understanding one another. Don't expect things to be exactly like it was when you…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/11/23 05:17 PM
8	Feeling vulnerable might delete later A man who notices when you're vulnerable and needy, and gives you what you need is a pearl. Usually, we have to train them how to recognize the signs and how to address them and make us feel better. Don't expect him to read your mind. It is not of their nature.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/23 08:39 PM
16	What are your relationship rules? My set of rules: No relationships with other men beyond being polite. Never argue, disagree, or do anything that may be seen as disrespectful in front of our friends and colleagues. Sex is always yes unless there's a good reason for no. Dress appropriately and not too revealing. If we fight and he gets angry, I drop it until he cools down. No girls' nights out unless it's girls only event. I can add more, but this is off the top of my head.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/23 07:18 PM
1	Cheating You're assuming correct. I'm just dealing with a man that's not normal. He's very cunning and manipulative. I love him but i also hate him. I cant contend with him. Life is like a game to him. He spends his days planning and calculating, and always gets what he wants from everyone. My marriage looks enviously perfect from the outside. We live a very privileged life, but I miss the simple life.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/23 05:13 AM
1	Cheating He hasn't done it. To my knowledge he hasn't been unfaithful. He's simply informed me there will be a new arrangement. It would be a mistress I have to share him with.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/23 05:01 AM
1	Cheating It's not that bad even though sometimes that is how I feel. Most of the times things are really good. I've learnt to deal with his crazy personality and I'm usually on the receiving end of his good side. The infidelity issue is the thing I really want to go away. It's causing a lot of rift and I'm becoming a mess.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/23 04:56 AM
1	Cheating I can't leave. Financially, he's doing really well, but I signed a prenup. He treats me like his property. He considers the kids his. I'm not a fighter. He's an expert fighter and manipulator. I can physically leave and he'll replace me quick. The kids on the other hand, I can't take. I mean, technically, I can, but I know how he is.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/23 04:32 AM
1	Cheating He took me out of college when I was in my early 20s and he's 10 years my senior. I've never had a job. I have 4 children from 10-2yrs. Divorce isn't an option for me. It's really complicated. I teeter tatter between accepting infidelity and fighting it. The fighting has been extremely exhausting and my feeling of self worth has gone totally down the drain. I do look at the bright side, but the last few days It's hard to see the light.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/23 04:16 AM
1	Cheating Yes. I agree. It's the children that are the deciding factor. I'd love to go back to my hometown and work at a grocery store.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/23 04:02 AM
1	Cheating Do you think a woman who won't leave if her husband was unfaithful doesn't have respect for herself?	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/23 03:45 AM
1	Cheating I mean part of your definition of a high value man is someone who is faithful. That would mean anyone who is unfaithful is not high value based on that criteria alone. I wasn't agreeing or disagreeing with you. I was stating there are a lot of men who can because of their wealth and looks and they do so. This is a reality I'm currently reluctantly dealing with.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/23 03:28 AM
1	Cheating Are you involved in such an arrangement?	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/23 03:09 AM
1	Cheating Because you don't consider them high value if they did. The reality is men who are attractive and/or wealthy do this a lot. It's devastating to be on the receiving side of it, but it's an issue a lot of us have to come to terms with.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/23 03:08 AM
1	Cheating Would you be protected if he did cheat?	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/23 03:04 AM