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Meh, I think white guys are pretty unattractive. I prefer brown or black dudes tbh. They age better 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:36 AM
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I think I responded to the wrong comment lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:30 PM
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seriously...why would you even want to settle for anything less than that. girl, a man is meant to ENHANCE the life you have already built. pick your partners carefully. the wrong man will destroy you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:29 AM
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ah, I see. my first time hearing about this. makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:57 AM
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it’s true that mommy’s boys have narcissistic mothers self-hating narcissistic mothers, usually. a non selt-hating narcissistic mom wouldn't worship her son. she would only worship herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:27 AM
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so sad :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:24 AM
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a cold mom, basically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:24 AM
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even though I come from a severely misogynist culture, my mom treated my brothers and sisters the same way and that's why my bros are actually decent human beings (except my younger bro, who unfortunately was influenced by the LVM I dated before FDS)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:23 AM
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Single moms always get blamed for their sons' poor behavior, but everyone conveniently forgets that 50% of these kids DNA comes from a man who abandoned his own family without any guilt or shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:21 AM
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Once you become an adult, your behavior is your own responsibility. precisely this. my parents only raised me to care about male approval and getting married. if I can teach myself how to excel in a cutthroat male-dominated industry with no mentorship or resources, men can teach themselves how to respect other people and take accountability for their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:20 AM
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knocked her around yikes, physical abuse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:17 AM
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Dating mommy’s boys is a bad idea 100% of the time Can you elaborate on your definition of "mommy's boy"? A man having a healthy relationship with his mother is actually very important and a vital trait in HVM...but I can see why having a controlling and narcissistic mom would make being a mommy's boy a bad idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:15 AM
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I agree with you. Would not want a rapist or child molester near my kids. I don't give af if he's their bio dad. He can go fuck himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:11 AM
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Quite honestly, misogyny exists in different flavors in every culture. I think in countries where women have more economic freedom (like the Nordic countries), they will also face less misogyny. When women have options, they are less likely to put up with men's shit. That's why reproductive rights, etc are so important. So tl;dr while I think culture have different flavors of misogyny embedded in them, through wealth, education, and reproductive rights women start to get treated as equals by men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 08:40 PM
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it's because men are raised to only think about themselves meanwhile women are raised to think about everyone else before they think about themselves. a lot of people will argue that's due to nature, not nurture, but I've lived in 4 countries and I've noticed men and women behave very differently based on their cultural upbringing. for example, an American woman would be considered "rude" and "cold" in most parts of Asia but that's only because both cultures socialize women to behave differently…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 08:04 AM
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exactly, traveling is what eventually made me leave my ex. I will never forget the way he treated me on our first (and thankfully, last) trip together where I was left bleeding on a bus. I didn't have time to grab pads because our bus was about to leave and he was being a drama queen and arguing with me over something minuscule. good riddance! my current guy would never treat me like that, I've already been on 3 trips with him and enjoyed myself in a way I've never even enjoyed solo travel, whic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:27 AM
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EXACTLY. Pay attention to the little things and DROP HIM if his behavior is even a little off. Stop making excuses for the poor behavior of LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:23 AM
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those kinds of guys drop huge red flags in the beginning of the relationship. basically, it all boils down to entitlement, misogyny, and lack of empathy. if he displays symptoms of having either one of those traits, RUN for the hills!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:22 AM
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top tip for shy girls: just stop talking to fuckboys. seriously, ghosting drives them nuts and works 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 12:08 AM
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its not just that, some guys are just fuckboys by nature. they like to have a "harem" of women around them for validation. usually its the guys who didn't receive enough attention in childhood and turn to women for validation and approval in their adulthood. you cannot turn a fuckboy into a husband. even if you're the "lucky" woman he chooses to settle down with, once the shine is gone he will discard you or cheat on you just like he has done with every other woman before you. avoid at all costs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 12:06 AM
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Probably has ED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:59 AM
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May her soul rest in peace. Thank you for sharing her wisdom with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:58 AM
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FOUND IT!!! https://mobile.twitter.com/samdylanfinch/status/1112075410697674752
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:23 AM
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It's going to be hard to find, I'll get back to you if I find it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:13 AM
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yikes, that itself is a huge red flag. glad you dumped the incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:22 PM
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lmaooo like a boss!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:17 PM
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I'm 31 and my bf is 25. goals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:03 PM
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lmao I did the same thing and all my male coworkers began hating me/ this is the #1 reason why I always share photos of hot men on social media
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:01 PM
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But like my momma has said, it’s the men you choose! I was reading this amazing piece earlier on Twitter. I'll paraphrase: when you've experience trauma (abuse, neglect, etc), you think love has to be earned. you choose toxic partners because you're used to them and healthy love makes you feel uncomfortable because its given too easily. you're used to begging for love, so you chase after people who make you do that. in order to pick better partners, you need to break out of the toxic cycle and m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:56 PM
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its not your fault. society brainwashes women to be like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:41 PM
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ew what a tool! glad you left him when you're only 32. go out and live your best life freely!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:38 PM
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I have a feeling he's gonna get dumped soon lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:58 AM
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wait why do you not date bi guys? just curious since in my experience they have been 1000x better than straight men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:01 AM
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girl SAME. I am so ashamed of my pick me days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:32 AM
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Both of exes were around my age (about a year older) and they were just as awful to deal with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 10:13 PM
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I was there for other women but my abuser still picked me because i was young and naive and he knew he could easily manipulate me into isolation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:23 AM
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in fact, that behavior is encouraged in little boys. when men see little boys being aggressive, they are proud & reward that behavior by saying they're being "manly". boys also get socialized to like aggression through the media they consume. also, boys who are not aggressive by nature are bullied by other men. its the opposite social treatment that girls receive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 10:06 PM
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that's creepy as fuck. I wish my family protected me like that when I was young. sorry that happened to you, glad your mom stood up for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:25 PM
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not according to this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:24 PM
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As a teenager, I worked for this creepy middle aged dude. 2 years later he ended up marrying my other coworker, who had just turned 18. disturbing af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:20 PM
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I second this and that's because I genuinely believe saying "all guys are bad" can be harmful to young women, who will be willing to settle for LVM because they will think its better than having an abusive boyfriend. Instead you need to spend more time talking about HVM so women learn to have standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:18 PM
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this is kind of hard to do when you work in a male dominated field, esp since alcohol is basically present at any networking event >.<
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:14 PM
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yes, that's what I was thinking about too! acid attacks that happen because men can't handle being rejected...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:13 PM
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My ex only got off on rape. I was too young to understand this back then, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:36 PM
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I think it's a little more complicated than that. As a child, I was pretty violent and egotistical, but I was punished for that behavior early on through social exclusion by my female peers, bullying, and also getting reprimanded by the adults in my life (teachers, parents, etc). The same rules did not apply to my male peers. Their violent behavior was shrugged off as "boys being boys". Guess who grew up to learn to control her anger and become more calm as a person overall? The kid who was soci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:34 PM
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whoa, I posted my comment before reading yours, I also mentioned r/nofap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:32 PM
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actually, there are entire communities like Reddit's r/nofap that are dedicated to helping men recover from a porn addiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:31 PM
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I saw that post too!! so sad :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:24 AM
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holy shit that's frightening. this dude looks like the type who punches holes in walls and will someday send his wife to the ER...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:53 PM
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Hi, I am a software engineer and I would LOVE to develop this app. Please message me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:43 AM
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uh except mainstream liberal feminism doesn't believe in "kink shaming" and preaches "sex positivity". violent pornography is ok with them because it's a "valid kink".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:22 AM
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I think she knows that by now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:21 AM
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I fear for young girls today. easy access to porn, "revenge porn" (i.e. leaking girls nudes without permission), cyberbullying etc has made it a terrible time to be a woman. I am grateful to have strong women in my life who have kept me safe from the pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:20 AM
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wow you're only 21. light years ahead of me. I was a hardcore pickmeisha until age 23. I am proud of you for taking the first steps. I recommend therapy to help you deal with the sexual trauma. I hope things work out for you. advice from an older 20 something: take time out for yourself. invest in your family, friends, hobbies, and career. your life will only get better. you're young. the world is full of opportunities for you. you've survived. it's time to move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:18 AM
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thing is, sometimes you really have no one else to talk to IRL and so you post on the internet. I believe they know the answer all along, they just need someone else to confirm it for them because they are victims of gaslighting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:04 PM
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GWEN STEFANI and Katy Perry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:43 AM
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All of this 100% is my life Tested positive for ADHD but lately I have been wondering if I was misdiagnosed and actually have autism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:34 AM
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Funny. I tell my IRL friends about this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:28 AM
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Yes they do! But right after she wrote "Without Me" she gave interview still empathizing with G Eazy. Thankfully she seems to have since learned and even called him abusive in her latest post about their relationship. Her earlier songs like "Eyes Closed" are like the anthem of Pickmeishas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:25 AM
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It kills me to mention this name cuz I'm genuinely obsessed with her but...Halsey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:38 PM
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Ugh, all the famous dudes from that music scene were trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:33 PM
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Yea, Lorde makes me sad with the dudes she picks. She is one of my favorite musicians so I'm just really disappointed with her choosing dusty dudes time and time again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:31 PM
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How is Miranda Kerr a Pickmeisha? snapchat dude made her sign a prenup she clearly didnt want to sign
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:02 AM
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Didnt know that about Anwar. I was rooting for them since she's older than him and I like that 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:31 AM
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Huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:24 AM
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I'd also add Chrissy Teigen to the non-Pickmeisha list. Her and John Legend are probably the healthiest famous couple
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:23 AM
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Can I ask why Dua's on this list? Post "Blow Your Mind", her songs are so empowering, I find it hard to believe shes a Pick Me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:22 AM
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Zayn is also not a good dude. He cheated on his FIANCE to get with Gigi. Her and Zayn have has an on off relationship which is characteristic of fuckboys. Didnt know Gigi was such an enabler but cant say I'm surprised. Shes also friends with Beiber who abused Selena Gomez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:20 AM
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ah yes. Jay Z is trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:50 PM
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that's so sad!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:50 PM
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I think culture plays a huge role in this. I've noticed this mentality is more common among American men (esp white Americans). However, Asian men do not act like this at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:01 AM
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you can always judge a man by the company he keeps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:59 AM
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ooff you dodged a bullet. when I was 19 I ignored that kind of shit but its a huge redflag. "woke" guys are often the worst kind of misogynists because they are emotionally manipulative. my ex never hesitated to play the "son of a single mom" card never mentioning the fact that 1) he was estranged from her 2) he was only aroused by sexually abusing women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:58 AM
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Don't give anything unless you want to hear "I didn't ask for it" This actually works 100% Give everything with the expectation that it will not be returned or appreciated. You will naturally start giving less and feeling more appreciate for what you do put in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:54 AM
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I am so glad you dumped his ass. Level up, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:49 AM
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he said that, not me. perhaps I should put it in quotations to make that more obvious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:00 AM
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Not all, my grandma is a hardcore pickme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:04 AM
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than to age quicker in a miserable relationship fuck. I saw photos of my exes (now ex) before and after they got together and the drastic change in her physical appearance makes me so tremendously sad. she was such a beautiful girl when they got together and now she looks so damaged and broken. :'(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:18 PM
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I don’t understand why certain behaviors from men we are just supposed to accept because they all do it? Fudge that. you find HVM when you stop tolerating those behaviors. only pickmeishas put up with that crap because they have low self esteem and need male validation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:16 PM
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My ex once said women "go for the softer sciences" like "biology and chemistry" because they aren't smart enough to study the "hard" sciences like "computer science and physics". That dude flunked out of his low-tier CS program while I will be starting my PhD in computer science next fall at a highly ranked university. Funny, that. bonus: he looks ugly as fuck now while I am blossoming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:14 PM
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It's the worst! At least when you're single, you're free to hookup, go on dates, flirt, etc but when you're stuck in an unhappy relationship you're just resentful and trapped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:13 PM
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Seth Rogan has the dad bod girls always say they love on Facebook. Unless theyre all lying 🤔 they're lying to not hurt the feelings of their boyfriends. either that, or they have low self esteem and know they can't get dudes with a hot body so they're settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:39 PM
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Seth Rogen or Jonah Hill ew. I do not watch any movies with those two clowns in them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:37 PM
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I have literally no idea why she’s with my stepdad. It could be either one of two reasons: 1) Women are pressured by society to be partnered up. Single women are stigmatized. Example: crazy cat lady, all the men who insult women by telling us we can't find a man, etc. Single women are also viewed as more vulnerable prey by creeps. That's why so many women wear fake engagement rings... 2) She has low self-esteem often caused by bullying and turns to romantic relationships for validation. Women wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:52 PM
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Most women are honestly better off alone. for real. you wont believe the insane amount of personal growth and accomplishments I had only a year after dumping my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:48 PM
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Grimes is almost 20 years younger than Musk. I wouldn't call her "stupid". Just naive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:17 AM
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alcohol also makes you gain weight like crazy. I gained 10 lbs one summer just from drinking a glass of wine every night after work and lost it just as quickly by reducing my consumption of alcohol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 11:47 PM
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After my last relationship left me with no money to buy food, I vowed never to date a man who earns less than me and I found a keeper. Better to be single than raise a manchild I can't even claim on my taxes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 11:32 PM
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the sad thing is, maybe a young woman with low self-esteem will be naive enough to fall for it. source: was that young woman until I started to love myself. I was way, way, waaayyyy too attractive and accomplished to date the kind of men I was dating back then. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:22 PM
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depends where you live. I live in a red state and women are pretty much still pressured to focus on relationships moreso than their career, to the detriment of their own mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:10 PM
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I don't think OP realizes mean guys are really good at hiding their meanness until its too late for a woman to leave easily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:54 PM
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I really want to try it with my boyfriend but I dont like taking birth control of any form. We use condoms so it's out of the question for us for the time being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:39 AM
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I feel sorry for her most of the time My exes now ex reached out to me with horrifying details of the abuse he put her through. Same shit he did to me. So glad I dumped his ass and guided another woman into doing the same. I hope she finds peace and happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:29 PM
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Why does your flag say "at risk pick me youth"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:27 PM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:32 PM
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lmaooo!! I am still a dog person but your comment is the best thing I've ever read on this topic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:44 PM
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I am more of a dog/bearded dragon person, but this is hilarious lol! also, can you folks who prefer cats please explain their appeal to me? I like dogs because they are so wholesome and bearded dragons because they look fierce and are fiercely protective of their female owners to the point where they WILL fcuk someone up for you lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:59 PM
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honestly, if you want babies that bad be a foster mom or adopt! there are kids out there who really need a home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:06 PM
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the problem with the "absent father" stereotype is that it fails to take into consideration that: 1) 50% of the child's DNA comes from a man who felt no remorse in deserting his newborn infant 2) often times, the moms of such kids are survivors of trauma, which makes them co-dependent. boys will take advantage of this, even if they are harming their own mother. take my ex as an example. that dude treated his mom the same way he treated all the other women in his life (i.e. emotionally abusive to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:05 PM
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so glad to have dumped the LVM I was with 2 years ago, who was literally bumming off me. ladies, bums are NOT worth it! do not entertain hobosexuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:51 PM
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hey, 30s is still young :) focus on your career, you'll find a High Value Man in no time. I promise!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:37 PM
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man, you're already MILES ahead of me. I was recovering from the aftermath of an abusive relationship at 24. good for you to be protecting yourself from that nonsense!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:33 PM
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I was breadcrumbed by a dude and I cut him off immediately. To this day he slides in my DMs apologizing, begging for my attention. Nah. I moved on and found me a high value man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:32 PM
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trick to finding a secure partner: go for the dude who seems "boring". he is "boring" because he is not toxic, and your traumatized brain is not familiar with that kind of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:30 PM
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PREACH!!! I was single for 1.5 years (although I mentally checked out of my previous relationship much earlier than that) before dating my now bf. I wasn't even seriously looking/interested in dating when I found him. That's how I ended up with a high quality man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:44 PM
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You did the right thing. I've also walked out on men who behave like this. Keep your standards high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:20 PM
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My ex was one of those holier-than-thou dudes. Not sure if he cheated on me, but he did text a lot of women constantly, frequently accused ME of cheating (with no evidence), and would read my texts but wouldn't let me read his. Dumping him was so satisfying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:07 PM
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It appears people fall into different camps depending on their own lifestyle choices. Including my boyfriend I've literally only slept with 3 guys (2 if you don't include my rapist) my whole life and I'm 25, so I'm obviously not gonna be compatible with a dude who has already banged 10+ women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:38 AM
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I have had that happen to me too, but it's a different feeling. When that happens, my partner starts becoming repulsive to me. I've been in healthy relationships where I've also had to suppress my urges because it's in my nature. I'm hypersexual. I've always been. However, I've never cheated and never will because I respect my partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:31 AM
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10-20 women is reasonable above 10 is waaayyy too high for me, but I am under 30 and prefer dating guys my age or younger so that may have something to do with it. at my age (mid 20s) I think less than 10 is optimal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 07:42 PM
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Does it happen from a sense of boredom/monotony from sleeping with the same person, I think its this for me. I am clinically diagnosed with ADHD and I believe that contributes to my hypersexuality. Fortunately I found a partner who really satisfies me in bed so if I get bored we just try role playing. It has worked so far for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 07:37 PM
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I don't have to actively suppress urges to be unfaithful, I'll be honest, I am a woman but I struggle with this. I definitely DO have to suppress urges. Respecting your partner is key to not acting on them. I would never cheat because I love my partner and it's disrespectful to them. In the past, I have just ended relationships if I ever felt like they'd reach the point where I may end up cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:16 PM
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that's why I said you should avoid guys who only have female friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:13 PM
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If they don't have any experience, they'll complain about not living it up a little before getting married. does this lead to infidelity as well? curious to know more since I am not familiar with unfaithful men who weren't fuckboys in their prime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:08 PM
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You can also tell from the way they carry themselves usually. Overly macho men usually tend to be misogynists with high N counts. I avoid two kinds of men: those who only have male friends and those who only have female friends. The former are the stereotypical kind of macho misogynists with high N counts who treat women like conquests. The latter are "alternative" misogynists (think the "sensitive" fuckboy) who are naturally skilled at emotionally manipulating women into sleeping with them. Nei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:45 PM
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Of course!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:49 PM
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absolutely true!! reading "Why Does He Do That" was a game changer for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:32 AM
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My mom still looks pretty good for 45 & is in good shape. I have no idea why she hasn't utilised this and has committed to trash low value me UGH. this reminds me of Halle Berry. she is absolutely stunning and wastes her time with the most trash ass men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:24 AM
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it was just an internship so it was pretty low risk! I figured if things dont work out, I'll never see him again. also, I was leaving my options open and was seeing at least 3 men while talking to a lot more so I didn't have much to lose
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:16 AM
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well, some of those 7.4% of men are predators, though. the amount of men in their 40s who hit on me is honestly disgusting. I am in my 20s. I don't want to date someone old enough to be my dad. some of these guys hit on young girls who they know are vulnerable (women with ADHD and autism who are socially behind, survivors of abuse who are often traumatized, women with absent fathers who don't know good men do exist, destitute women from poor families, etc). such men don't need to be wealthy, han…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:02 AM
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but looks DO matter to us, guys. facts. after I dumped my ex, he became even uglier. receding hairline, bony face, etc. he also had a really tiny penis for a man his height (6'4). when he sent me an email informing me that we will never get back together, I laughed out loud. just goes to show that even if a man has nothing, he will always have the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:00 AM
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my ex to a t. only in his mid 20s and already has a receding hairline. tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:58 AM
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you've had 3 kids. give yourself a break. also, just changing your hair, clothes, and makeup can work wonders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:56 AM
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This is human nature in general and is the reason why women chase after emotionally unavailable men too. If you want power in a relationship, you have to be the partner who is less emotionally invested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:32 AM
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Also another perk of dating a less sexually experienced man: he is more willing to listen to you and please you in bed. Men with more experience assume they know what they are doing when they don't. My current boyfriend has given me multiple orgasms numerous times. He's given me the kind of pleasure I didn't even know I was capable of receiving!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:27 AM
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At work. He was in a slightly senior position to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:24 AM
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