Secretagenta92 Archive

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2	how to help my bf quit smoking without nagging him ? As a vape/shisha smoker, you can’t. Nicotine is incredibly addicting i stopped twice and came back to it the withdrawals are horrible unless he wants to stop and it won’t be easy he never will, Either make peace with it or break up. If you mention it and he loved you or you’re in the early stages he will say yeah i know i will try but he won’t my friend’s fiancé used to get so angry when she smoked cigarettes knowing she’s been a smoker throughout he entire 20s she used to lie to him and he woul…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/24 10:33 AM
1	Is this guy a red flag? Sounds like Arab men to me didn’t know it was a western thing too.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/24 09:35 AM
2	Is this guy a red flag? My autism would make me ask him “were you comfortable being inside another’s man woman? Didn’t you feel like you’re just community dick?” Or “wow that’s disgusting” which is why dating hasn’t been simple for me even though i got approached a lot, i always asked the uncomfortable questions, i didn’t know it wasn’t socially common.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/24 09:34 AM
3	single mother by choice? No kids is a deal breaker, don’t waste your time. He made up his mind and knows that he might lose you but he’s okay with that. It’s up to you to not waste time and break up with no hard feelings. It’s tougher then older we get but your needs should be first especially for something as crucial as motherhood.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/08/24 11:51 PM
1	single mother by choice? I would only drop an income of 200K if my husband was making +600K and generous.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/08/24 09:39 PM
4	I’m so tired of being stuck You don’t have love, you have a trauma bond and familiarity. When was the last time you were single?	/r/RedPillWives	27/01/24 08:46 PM
18	Feminine but not girly 6 years, late 20s no ring and wants you to change, i’m not sure if you’re making the right decision by staying with him.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/23 09:33 AM
5	Seeking Advice On Multiple Wives “My concern is in the Middle East and Islamic countries the two wives system works legally but how would that work in a country like Australia?” I meant it works fine in Islamic countries but it doesn’t work in western ones legally wise. I didn’t mean i’m concerned that it works fine i am concerned how it would work in a western country.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/23 03:29 PM
1	Seeking Advice On Multiple Wives Where did I say that?	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/23 03:17 PM
6	Husband is (almost) perfect: How to balance his sexual fantasies and my faith Yes thanks to open marriages, porn and only fans this is the world we are in today.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/23 12:16 PM
3	Please help - I don’t love when my husband is silly leading up to sex Don’t be direct it will discourage him, say that would love it if he called you sex, use positive language not negative one. Men use humour when they get nervous and it turns them on to make a woman laugh don’t take it as a bad thing just learn how to communicate without embarrassing him.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/09/23 12:09 AM
2	I’m tired of modern day relationships. There’s good men, you just need to learn how to practice your feminine energy, vetting and boundaries and you’ll attract the right guy.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/23 08:39 PM
–	Casual sex is easy for men not because of standards, but because men are sexually stimulated purely by looks, and for women its a complex mix of things Dude that’s basic science, women and men are not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 08:33 PM
1	Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.) That’s only a western thing. It’s still not acceptable in most countries of the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/23 01:20 PM
0	A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sex I don’t understand both of your questions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 07:06 PM
1	The Confidence Effect: Why Women Are Attracted to Men Who Believe in Themselves Confident men are so sexy. Disclaimer: there’s a difference between arrogance and confidence	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 06:04 PM
5	Do you guys even like women? Why? Okay then let’s call it how do you truly feel about yourself or confidence levels or inner monologue. Like when you make a mistake do you hear yourself saying I am an idiot I will never be able to get things right, or oh why did i do this mistake and how can I learn from it to not do it again?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 02:58 PM
7	Do you guys even like women? Why? I understand your perspective and I have lived in both side of how the other gender treats you. Teenage years - mid 20s I was always work focused, insecure, didn’t take care of myself. I was invisible to men it didn’t bother me as I wasn’t focused on it. At 26 I started to workout, eat better, dress better and wear make up the drastic change was insane I received and still do a lot of male attention, younger, older and same age (i’m 31). I had many male friends in the past and I was in on how mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 02:55 PM
27	Do you guys even like women? Why? Very well said, i love how logical and factual your comment is. Usually people with severe low self esteem will self sabotage just to convince themselves of the mindset that they already have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 11:49 AM
5	I'm afraid of my potential "husband" If I were you I would tell him, I really like him and enjoy our time together however aggression and lashing out without communication is a deal breaker for me as it would make me feel unsafe and I rely on him for safety I want to keep seeing him and being with him but I can’t if this will continue to happen so it’s up to him to decide if he wants to respect my wishes. Expected result is him understanding and saying “yes, of course i do” in case it happens again then you stick to the boundary th…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/23 09:21 AM
2	A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sex My sister’s friends used to do that to get free meals out of random men. They were underage and thought it was fun. I am a traditional woman and I expect to the man to pay however I would never go out with a guy just to get a free meal, that is absolutely disgusting and he would easily tell that I am not interested as I don’t know how to fake it and i don’t have a poker face. If i wanted to eat out I can afford it as I have a stable career. It is shitty to get that done to you however men do it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 09:00 AM
4	Men are attracted to narcissistic and BPD women because they are also hypersexual, not because of their personality. Because a lot of them need to feel like heroes. Like they matter, what they’re doing is important and it’s helping someone. So being gravitated towards women who are always a mess or need help gives them that feeling. Personally I don’t think that it’s a bad thing although I am a woman I feel fulfillment from helping others but I learned my boundaries the hard way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 08:29 AM
1	What to do when a man is saying sexual things in initial talking stages (Online dating)? Because that is what the post was about, why men feel like they have to turn a conversation sexual when dating online.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/07/23 06:48 PM
0	What to do when a man is saying sexual things in initial talking stages (Online dating)? Speaking to someone that you have just started talking to in a sexual way isn’t making a move. I know that many men do that because they were horny as I have got similar messages before and the guy apologizes after 1-2 hours or the next day, saying he doesn’t know what he was thinking but it’s still annoying and off putting to deal with.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/07/23 02:59 PM
15	What to do when a man is saying sexual things in initial talking stages (Online dating)? Making a move could be by telling her that she’s beautiful (if you believe she is) or you would like to see her for a date, it doesn’t have to be sexual, right?	/r/RedPillWomen	05/07/23 08:51 AM
3	Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers? Yes, provider men exist maybe not many in the west but in a lot of cultures it’s the norm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 09:56 PM
1	Breakups are harder long term for men because of the nature of most breakups It wasn’t my first thought if you reread my comment. I mentioned it because my close male friends and ex boyfriend always felt comfortable being honest with me since I am an empathetic understanding person so they all admitted that as a man it is very easy be insecure that there’s a lot of expectations to live up to and you don’t feel like a man if you fail because you’re not allowed to and it’s not just in relationships it’s in work, friendships, family etc. Most people (men and women) have ins…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 11:46 AM
3	Breakups are harder long term for men because of the nature of most breakups Because women don’t like taking a masculine role and doing things that a man should do. It’s about gender roles which I know is a controversial thing in the west but it’s not in my traditional community. Yes most women will say i’m a feminist and all but they all deep down want a man to make the effort and be in his masculine role by taking control and leadership. I want to ask you why does it feel difficult for a man to keep initiating thing during the relationship? Is it laziness, insecurities…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 09:52 AM
3	Breakups are harder long term for men because of the nature of most breakups Men might not initiate breakups as much as women but their behaviors change tremendously. Which makes the women checkout mentally 6 months by the end of the relationship and finally call it quits. He stops listening or caring, initiating dates, plans, putting in any effort, the woman will start to complain he will listen promise to change and nothing happens. Men act completely different in the beginning than the do once they’re comfortable, I know it’s normal to try and show your best behavior …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 07:44 AM
3	Breakups are harder long term for men because of the nature of most breakups As a woman who likes confrontation (I know it’s rare) we’re called aggressive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 07:37 AM
9	Seeking Advice On Multiple Wives Do you have any children with him? It’s not on you to keep the marriage going you’re not the problem, he is. He isn’t receptive because he doesn’t care about you I know it’s harsh but it’s the truth, everything he is doing clearly shows that. Make the decision and Allah will give you strength, if you stay with him he’s going to give lifelong STDs sleeping with random women.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/23 08:59 AM
17	Seeking Advice On Multiple Wives I am so sorry you went through this. I can’t understand how your husband can consider himself a Muslim and ask for zina while being married that’s one the biggest sins! Hope your healing journey went well. ❤️‍🩹	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/23 08:46 AM
37	Seeking Advice On Multiple Wives I’m a Muslim woman, personally second wife is a deal breaker for me as it is not something that is practiced in my family. My brother is doing very well financially and was never interested in having many kids or multiple wives but he’s always been the smart guy who is all about work and not obsessed about women. He married he wife after a 5 years relationship and they’ve been married for 12 years. My concern is in the Middle East and Islamic countries the two wives system works legally but how …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/23 08:44 AM
4	What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s? I wish men understood how crucial their role is in a relationship, in most cases the women’s behaviour is due to actions done by man. What I want to understand about men is why is loyalty difficult to maintain and why do they fall into depression and refuse to be diligent in seeking help but prefer to turn to sedation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 08:27 PM
-6	Shift in husband’s behavior Having doubts is completely normal, cheating happens so often, when a partner starts to pull away and that includes a man or a woman considering they have communicated any issues usually there’s someone else. I didn’t say she should accuse him of cheating or assume that he is just pay more attention and listen to het instincts and gut feelings. Logic says there’s a reason for everything things don’t happen for no reason and behaviour changes for a reason.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/23 11:55 AM
-13	Shift in husband’s behavior Honestly if I was in your situation I would do some reflection and think if anything has changed about myself and if not I would assume there’s another woman in the picture. Attraction is about energy as a feminine woman when he is less interested you take the focus and shift it on yourself. By doing whatever makes you happy and feel good. Skin care, gym, walks, art each woman is different and has her own interests once you’re focused on yourself he will feel suffocated and have the space to foc…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/23 10:28 AM
3	It's not possible for a man to have authority in the household if the woman is able to divorce him. As someone who is from a traditional society that has a much lower divorce rate than the west the major issue I have noticed is people leave when they fall out of love and go into second and third marriages and the cycle counties. Instead of having both partners invested in a long term marriage which is not hard not easy but a divorce is hard too, we just choose our hard. First year is a honeymoon phase then they both give up usually the man starts ignoring and dismissing the woman’s needs which…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 04:50 PM
1	Why do you think there is so much anger towards promiscuous women? We can’t control other people behaviors only our own and what we allow into our lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 07:43 PM
-1	Why do you think there is so much anger towards promiscuous women? Thank you, exactly! Truth and logic triggers people and I don’t know why. I got a reply saying casual sex is fun well so is drugs, they make you feel incredibly good but there’s consequences, what type of life a person wants to have, are the risks worth it? What’s the gained benefits long term wise? How does a person feel after? Happy and fulfilled or ashamed and guilty? Sex for women is a completely different experience than it is for men and that’s not an opinion it’s science. Countless women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 08:09 AM
0	Why do you think there is so much anger towards promiscuous women? How many women orgasm in one night stands? Men admit when it’s a pump and dump they don’t put in the effort there’s a difference between sex with someone you’re dating who learns your body and puts in the effort to please a woman and sex with a guy you just met and never talk to again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 08:01 AM
3	Why do you think there is so much anger towards promiscuous women? For most women sex is about safety emotional and physical wise. Women risk the chances of getting assaulted, STDs and pregnancy by engaging in hookup culture. There’s no gain for a woman in sleeping around unless she’s doing it for money or to gain power. Not all women who choose celibacy are “snobby” it’s called having beliefs and standards obviously culture, religion and how the person grew up plays a huge role in that. Men who hate promiscuous women might hate them for multiple reasons could …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/23 11:56 PM
0	Why hate on women who do OF? I wasn’t defending just explaining it’s a very common belief in straight men especially the traditional ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/23 07:12 PM
0	Why hate on women who do OF? “A man with a madonna-whore complex is a man who will sleep with and lust for a sexual and beautiful woman but he will never respect her as "wife" material and he will never marry her. In his eyes, she is tainted, impure, unworthy of the status of wife yet he may possess passionate and contradictory feelings for her. He may even be in love with her but will never allow himself to be with her in any real sense. He will look for a "good girl" to marry usually a woman who is cold sexually but, for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/23 07:03 PM
2	Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men. Honestly it’s confidence, most men lack that so they come off as desperate, creepy or scared. Men who know how to dress nice, are in good shape not necessarily six pack just have an overall good shape and direct will get a much better experience with women this video is proof https://youtu.be/0uGQibWjoqI	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/23 11:44 AM
3	Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men. What is your problem and why are accusing me for lying? Of course it will just like being a beautiful woman will get you pretty privilege duh, I always get offered help and free things just for my looks, it’s not fair but it’s human nature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 11:26 PM
4	Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men. Well first I punched an asshole who wouldn’t understand that I am not interested, second i’m Muslim we don’t date for sex. I never said we are the better gender chill bro. I don’t know who hurt you but you seem to be convinced that being an asshole will get you a better experience with women so what’s stopping you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 11:17 PM
3	Women...ALL WOMEN...hate men who act like pussies Yes we do it’s the biggest ick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 11:13 PM
4	Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men. Some women are attracted to assholes due to having an asshole father there’s a whole psychological science behind who and why we are attracted to. Personally I don’t like assholes nor do I like nice guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 11:11 PM
8	Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men. Oh we definitely care about looks it’s just we wouldn’t date only based on that. There’s no added value in dating a man who’s just handsome, it would get him tons of attention by other women which no woman would enjoy. Men love to brag, nice cars, expensive watches etc so a beautiful woman by his side means more status which makes other men jealous, obviously men are more competitive by nature so there’s much more into it that women thinking they’re more “evolved”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 11:01 PM
2	Do you share location w ur bf For safety reasons yes I think it’s a great idea but if someone is doing it due to lack of trust then it’s an issue.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/06/23 10:19 PM
3	Disabled ex husband You are very welcome, I know exactly how you feel 🥺 you deserve to be happy. You’re a good woman caring for your family and ex husband it’s something honorable but women like us do the mistake of not asking for too much or for anything in return. If we stay like this we won’t get anything sadly, I learned that the hard way. So I learned to love myself first, ask for my needs to be met and to not feel guilty or bad for it. I feel like you need to find a solution for your ex that doesn’t involve y…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/23 02:43 PM
8	Disabled ex husband You feel this way because it’s against your biology to want to be a strong independent woman it’s so lonely and exhausting, you’re not alone in this many of us myself included were pushed to believe that becoming hyper independent will make us happy and once we did it made us miserable, exhausted and alone. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be provided for and wanting a family it’s actually the normal and right way to feel but you need to adjust your life and your choices to have that.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/23 11:14 AM
11	Disabled ex husband What happened to him was awful but you’re not obligated to take care of him, what about his family? Years will pass by if you don’t change anything and you will be lonely and resentful.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/23 09:51 AM
5	American women have the worst reputation for relationships / marriage in the entire world. This is not (so much) the case for American men. Many are raised on the delusion of believing that they deserve the best out of everything for no good reason. There’s no type of discipline and they look down on traditional women and are PROUDLY selfish, their needs, wants and desires are what is the most important thing and love to victimize themselves to escape accountability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 09:03 PM
2	Is there a feminine „Andrew Tate Counterpart talking about similar values but only for Women online? She doesn’t offer much accountability or advice for sustainability or what to look for in dating.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/06/23 08:26 PM
6	Is there a feminine „Andrew Tate Counterpart talking about similar values but only for Women online? Sadia Khan, Margarita Nazarenko, Karla Elia, Maha Maven, Esther Perel, Anna Kai. These women have taught me so much, i love their content and how much accountability, honesty and information it has.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/06/23 04:39 PM
2	Do men like plus size women? Such people will screw almost anything, relationship and commitment that’s a different scenario.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 12:16 PM
1	Are attractive woman generally extroverted? Maybe in the west but not worldwide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 07:57 PM
1	Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating market This needs to be corrected to men who lack boundaries instead of men and emotionally unavailable women instead of women then all of the content will be accurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 06:16 PM
2	I found out the guy I liked had a girlfriend recently and so I just went about work . Yet he constantly comes to my work and seeks me out . He knows I know that he has a girlfriend . Is this just him being friendly or is this just weird It’s impossible for a straight man to be just friends with a woman he finds attractive even if he’s not doing anything sexual with you his feelings will lead him to pursue you. I had a male friend a few of years ago when I was naive, he was my coworker and he was Christian, i’m Muslim, he’s 5 years younger than me. In my country people from other religions rarely date, it’s always a deal breaker due to social norms and it’s not even a thing legally unless one of them converts. I have wonderful w…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/23 10:05 AM
17	Help-ny anxiety ruining relationship When it comes to emotional or physical abuse there’s no need to stay. A man or woman getting constantly disrespected in their relationship makes it a doomed relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/06/23 04:47 PM
18	Another relationship that didn’t work out … Learn emotional detachment. He love bombed you and you fell for it. Feminine boundaries are crucial to not fall into this.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/06/23 12:33 PM
1	Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women? I understand that’s it’s challenging to be a man, the expectations are higher and there’s no room for weakness. There’s also the personal struggles that each person have. I have empathy for men but the world doesn’t and that’s the reality we live in. I’m happy for you that you did that, it’s a great thing to do and very beneficial. Honestly I don’t hate that it happened because live in traditional society and I love that I do (I’m Arab) so the way I view it is these men were just being men. Whic…	/r/TheRedPill	02/06/23 12:29 PM
5	Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women? You’re right there is but for me the issue starts is when these men start to develop an emotional connection which is why i’m a firm believer of men and attractive women can’t be just friends. The guys i’ve helped were younger I am 31 but everyone tells me I look like in my early 20s even strangers. Most of these guys were flirting first and I say you’re young and I don’t date younger but we can be friends. So after spending sometime together they starts to get clingy demanding more attention an…	/r/TheRedPill	02/06/23 07:57 AM
3	Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women? Very few, I am a great listener, empathetic, good at giving advice, excellent with children and people see me as an authority figure. My own mother says I have more wisdom than she does which I find surprising. I can also be strict and I am very logical so I always understand where a person is coming from but understanding doesn’t mean accepting or enabling. That is very possible.	/r/TheRedPill	01/06/23 11:54 AM
1	Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women? No but they usually chase me I had friends like that and they couldn’t accept me ending the friendship.	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/23 03:12 PM
5	Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women? It doesn’t work on the long run, these type of women won’t respect him and will end up treating him like shit, I’ve been that type of woman in the past.	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/23 03:53 AM
4	Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women? That’s a great book! I recommended it to my ex boyfriend. I wish you the best of luck, from my personal experience with changing certain behaviours in relationship dynamics I felt like the most challenging part was unlearning certain habits as they were the reason why I ended up where I didn’t want to be, they felt natural because of childhood issues too, the new habits and beliefs felt odd and not my normal self but that was the whole point of them and thankfully they lead to better results.	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/23 03:49 AM
13	Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women? To answer your main question. What should you do? Figure out what type of man you want to be and become that man. You’re not missing any information but there’s a lot of issues in your childhood that you need to address and talk about preferably with a male therapist/coach. You need to know what you need to what is it that you need to combat so you will be able to do it, identifying what went wrong and what is the right/normal thing is.	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/23 08:11 PM
22	Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women? Everything you typed makes perfect sense to your relationship dynamic with women. As a motherly woman myself who attracts men like you they all had extremely similar backgrounds.	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/23 07:46 PM
25	Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women? How was your relationship with your mother and women as a child? Did you have male role models that you looked up to?	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/23 07:13 PM
1	Dating etiquette question One thing you need to learn to become is to stop being a people pleaser it will help you maintain healthy relationships.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/05/23 08:20 AM
1	How to deal with husband's addiction with wasting time and playing games. You’re not his mother, don’t turn this relationship into a mother son one you will both resent each other if you do. Men need these types of activities to relax and decompress, maybe try to find something for yourself to do and to relax during it.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/05/23 08:16 AM
1	loyalty until marriage? I agree with her another married coach spoke about it in this video https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsytpRIN_Ox/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==	/r/RedPillWomen	29/05/23 08:12 AM
1	Im in a leftist family Thank you for apologizing you didn’t have to but it’s so nice of you 💞 I assumed it was due to her being conservative most of her life and then becoming liberal after her divorce so it was probably something she’s used to and she thought she was doing me a favor, older Arab ladies will always try to find us a husband and would get offended if we declined.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/05/23 07:54 AM
1	Modern dating is ruined for men I agree with you, do you believe that love is enough for a lasting healthy marriage?	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/23 08:21 PM
1	Modern dating is ruined for men Arranged marriages are still a thing where I am, it works great for some and definitely not for everyone. I personally prefer a sexually disciplined society than a one that encourages open marriages, I think the first one works best for logical, scientific and religious reasons. The problem with the western society it marries for love, love goes through ups and downs and it’s not enough for long term companionship, shared goals, beliefs and backgrounds last longer and easier to keep.	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/23 07:28 PM
19	Genuine question: what's so bad about "modern women"? Because why would a straight masculine man be attracted to a woman who acts like men? They should act however they want to you can’t control how people act you can only control yourself. Depending on what they want, if a woman wants to be independent and do it all on her own and that truly makes her happy no one is stopping her but if she wants a man to marry her, start a family with her, protect, provide emotionally and financially for her these type of men are attracted to certain attributes.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/05/23 07:26 PM
25	Genuine question: what's so bad about "modern women"? Lack of femininity, competition with men, not giving a man the space to be masculine man in a relationship. It’s like having a boyfriend/husband who acts like a woman it’s a turn off.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/05/23 07:19 PM
1	Im in a leftist family I get that and it’s not easy to find. Most people like to have certain opinions and would get extremely offended if someone just asked questions.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/05/23 02:10 PM
6	Im in a leftist family Apart from online racist trolls. All the westerners I knew were respectful to me regardless of their political beliefs but I remember meeting a very liberal American lady in her late 40s, she interviewed me about something for her masters after we were done we chatted and she ended up telling me that she has an Arab man who she slept with and he asked to marry her (typical) she told him she’s not interested in starting a family then she assumed I would be interested in that and said I could intr…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/05/23 11:46 AM
9	Im in a leftist family It was Arab teachers in my school. A lot of Arabs still have that mindset I hear it from customers I deal with at work all the time, that the problem they had would have never have had happened if they were having the same service in the west. Place I work at is international and the same problem does happen internationally.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/05/23 11:39 AM
23	Im in a leftist family People are people. I’m Arab we were told that westerns are good people and Arabs are backwards and should be ashamed that we lost our glorious history. I grew up, made American friends in my country, dated an American and discovered they’re people just like us, yes we have completely different backgrounds, each culture have it’s own set of problems that others can’t comprehend. One thing you understand the older you get is that people aren’t black and white even the person who you think is perfe…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/05/23 11:32 AM
2	Intelligence and attractiveness Absolutely correct, as a smart and attractive woman whenever I show interest in a smart man I see the disbelief in his eyes.	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/23 10:01 AM
1	Intelligence and attractiveness Speaking from personal experience intelligence is sexy because I can actually learn something from a smart man, I can have a conversation with him instead of just being called beautiful. Yes I want to be loved and adored and called beautiful but that’s not just it. A coworker kept talking about how gorgeous I am for 10 minutes and I ended up saying is that all you have to talk about? I need a smart man so I would know I can count on him in difficult situations where he knows what should be done …	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/23 08:51 AM
1	Had two great dates, then she ghosts me It was your turn because she’s obviously emotionally unavailable, haven’t any of you read anything about psychology and how people act in relationships and intimacy? She could get the best sex of her life and still leave the guy because that’s what she does she runs away so she can have control and be the one who leaves first definitely due to father figure issues in her childhood. She lovebombed you and moved to the next one, men are very simple creatures.	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/23 08:23 AM
2	Modern dating is ruined for men Exactly women aren’t the only problem. Using his example back then men used to actually approach a beautiful woman to ask her out without being crippled by anxiety and scared to talk to a woman because it was natural to approach women. Men had better testosterone, better looks, better bodies and better social skills. The issues with today’s dating scene isn’t just on women or men the whole dynamic is fucked up and not what it’s supposed to be.	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/23 07:59 AM
4	Do HVM care about where you attend college? Well said	/r/RedPillWomen	28/05/23 07:22 AM
9	Less affection from boyfriend Completely agree, the man has definitely lost interest and it’s obvious.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/05/23 04:32 AM
4	Help from the men here for becoming the ideal rpw Alright now you would never find a man asking a woman how to be a man or not a smart one at least. If you’re interested in smart women talking about femininity and how to apply it in your life check out these ladies on Instagram: @margarita.nazarenko @mahamaven @herr.coaching @magnetic_feminine Now if you’ve been operating from your masculine energy your entire life, like most of us have been due to feminism impact and hyper-independence. You will notice and feel like a lot of the concepts seems…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/05/23 05:32 AM
7	What do you do when the one you love calls you “useless?” I would leave him, why would I stay with someone who fails to appreciate me? Since he’s becoming RP how about acting like a man and figure it out on his own instead of asking his woman for help? He’s supposed to be the smarter one not you. I don’t care if you’ve been with him for 5 years or a decade once he starts disrespecting you it only gets worse.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/05/23 03:54 AM
10	Help from the men here for becoming the ideal rpw Not a man, out of curiosity What information have you consumed about femininity? I only ask this as feminine energy by definition is less about action and more about flow. So this post seems to be contradicting.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/05/23 08:01 PM
5	Guy unfollowed me after the first date did I mess up? That’s insecure behavior it wasn’t projecting. Some guys edit their photos so he might’ve done it. You need to learn to be okay with this behavior especially when using dating apps. I know it can be difficult but there’s amazing women on Instagram giving the best dating advice follow these accounts to understand what mindset you need to have: @margarita.nazarenko @mahamaven @herr.coaching	/r/RedPillWomen	20/05/23 08:11 PM
3	Guy unfollowed me after the first date did I mess up? Don’t overthink it. I assume you’re young since it was your first date. As for the catfishing, what makes you think that, do you overly edit your photos? From what you described the dude was too nervous but let’s change the scenario and say he didn’t like how you looked? So what? everyone has a type. Also being platonic friends with men isn’t a real thing. Don’t settle for that ever. Either a guy that you admire and look up to pursues you and you decide if he wants to be in your life or he holds…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/05/23 08:00 PM
22	Guy unfollowed me after the first date did I mess up? You’re obsessing, stop it immediately. You can’t get emotionally attached from one date. Reality is not every guy is for you and you’re not for every guy. Stay in your feminine energy instead of thinking if you’re good enough for him think if you actually liked him and if you did it was just one date he should be the one chasing you no the other way around. In order to be able to have a successful dating life that leads to marriage you need to have an abundance mindset and be comfortable and lov…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/05/23 07:41 PM
2	Is it reasonable to ask partner to stop lecturing me. He doesn’t respect you, love and respect are different things and each person has their own version of displaying love. Tell him that you don’t feel respected and loved when he talks to you like that, tough love might work for his male friends but it doesn’t feel loving to be treated and spoken to as his woman. If he does it again then he hears and understands your point but doesn’t care enough to respect your wishes or your feelings.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/05/23 08:48 PM
14	Why are some men like this? Because platonic friendship between men and women is something that is extremely rare. He wanted to test the waters with you and he either has a girlfriend, wants to sleep with you but doesn’t want to date you or dating multiple women at this time. So in conclusion when a woman is exchanging numbers with a straight male he’s not going to think she wants to be my friend. It’s how men operate they’re very simple beings and us women tend to complicate things.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/05/23 08:44 PM
2	Are incels and black pillers just mad about science? I am middle eastern so I more than happy to give you an idea on that here. I live in a fairly progressive country compared to the region. Mental illness is something that is often missed people aren’t even aware of the symptoms. Psychiatry is extremely expensive and no insurance will cover it. Most families are secretive so in most cases people will be able to mask well and will even hide the truth if they’re diagnosed. Women will discover after marriage and if she’s from a good/supportive famil…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/05/23 04:28 PM
0	Are incels and black pillers just mad about science? I agree to some extent however diagnosis treatment and culture plays a huge role, so if we’re talking about wealthy/successful people in the west it’s going to be different in a place like the middle east where a man no matter what type of diagnosed or undiagnosed mental health illness might have will be expected, encouraged and successful to have a family and offspring.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/05/23 04:09 PM
1	Are incels and black pillers just mad about science? Do you mean with people with mental illnesses by mentally defective? Sorry, English is not my first language and I am unfamiliar with the term.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/05/23 03:46 PM
3	Are incels and black pillers just mad about science? For men to thrive they need to struggle and I don’t mean ti go through horrible things through their entire lives but take the military as an example they break young men in bootcamp so they will become strong soldiers. They also need a good male role model in their life wether it’s a father or a father figure or to be around successful men. Humans are adaptive intelligent beings. If a man grew up around broke unsuccessful men or didn’t have a father to provide for them as children there are stu…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/05/23 03:32 PM
2	Finally Figured it Out Thank you so much for sharing, he is very kind, never got angry at me, not once. Everything in that article he went through wow. I wish him well and wish he gets the help he needs although he hurt me but I could never be with him. I know I deserve better.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/23 07:01 PM
9	Finally Figured it Out I had a very caring boyfriend who suffered with insecurities although I learned and voiced my concerns in a feminine way it didn’t help I ended up not sharing how I felt and it caused for walls to build between us. I addressed his insecurities from the start and said although I love him it will make me worry because insecure men tend to self sabotage. He reassured me and told me he will get help and therapy. Fast forward 7 months I found out he was cheating and when confronted he said he was wea…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/05/23 12:41 PM
10	Was it me? That’s emotional abuse that’s not being submissive 🥺 You don’t deserve that ❤️ Follow these wonderful ladies on Instagram they have great videos on how to be feminine with making boundaries: margarita.nazarenko herr.coaching realhannahchan magnetic_feminine mahamaven Positive masculine men who tells us what to expect and should get from men: xaviertainment acemetaphor dannymorel Block that men everywhere and focus on feeling enough while being single it will be difficult but definitely worth it …	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/23 03:47 PM
34	Was it me? He’s not serious about you he wants a loyal woman while he can sleep around. There is a difference between a traditional man and a provider. Everything you said about him is a red flag. He hates women you should never be with a man like that. Love yourself and learn to have boundaries and emotional discipline or you will keep finding yourself in similar situations.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/23 02:39 PM
4	Boyfriend has low testosterone This is a very common issue for men, everything about modern lifestyle causes hormonal imbalances. There’s an Australian scientist on Instagram who talks in detail about biohacking our bodies and focuses on testosterone the account name is ergogenic_health. There’s countless tips on how to boost it naturally id taken care of it’s not an issue. If you’re boyfriend is on any kind of prescription pills it could be causing that.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/05/23 05:42 PM
11	I think I’ve been alpha widowed at 32 Then that’s okay, then you’re not meant to be. Maybe he was placed in your path to show you that motherhood is something beautiful, that with the right partner it’s amazing to have a family. His growth and stability is his his responsibility. We get caught up on the idea of one perfect person for us and life shows us that’s not the case. I completely relate to you on growing up in a messed up home. It’s difficult and it makes us self critical but personally i’m done criticizing myself and being …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/23 06:47 PM
30	I think I’ve been alpha widowed at 32 I’m so sorry you went through this. When a man tells you deserve better believe him because if you don’t he will show you. As women we have something beautiful which is our nurturing and empathetic energy however we should put it towards ourselves first. You need to take a person for who he is not for what he could be. Let him go and move on. It’s going to be extremely difficult but it will make you stronger I am a firm believer of fate. For now both of you aren’t meant to be but in the future f…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/23 06:12 PM
1	My dilemma with wanting to embrace and show off my youthful body but also not sexualise myself. You are most welcome 💗	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/23 09:55 PM
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2	My dilemma with wanting to embrace and show off my youthful body but also not sexualise myself. Sundresses!!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/23 09:39 PM
2	He(M32) didn’t tell me(F22) he was previously married 32 and 22 that’s enough to know. No offence but men choose super young women for a reason. Less experience and easier to manipulate. If he’s using his depression as an excuse for his behaviour expect that to happen a lot in the future. Honestly I wouldn’t even trust he’s divorced in the first place since he’s texting a woman from another place.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/23 04:12 AM
1	Women from broken homes - how did you find the joy and motivation to keep going? Wow I have male coping mechanisms I have always isolated myself and dealt with the pain on my own because growing up I was never emotionally reassured and as a woman people always open up to me for some reason. I find trusting others difficult and I usually feel like a burden when I have emotional needs.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/04/23 04:18 PM
1	How do I get over his wandering eye? Completely agree there is no respect for her.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/04/23 01:20 PM