SecretsAndSin Archive

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2	[deleted by user] Aahhh well that is a different question altogether, then. But my question is that I was thinking of maybe asking her if she is attracted to me and tell her that I don't want to waste my time before we go out for coffee You asked if you should find out if she's attracted to you before she's even had the chance to meet you in person (before you would deign to spend a cent). My answer to that question still stands. Your new question... if she is looking for a relationship, is a much more reasonable…	/r/seduction	22/08/21 03:17 PM
5	[deleted by user] Absolutely you should tell her your expectations before wasting her time. Lol she gave you her number, has texted and video chatted with you, and has agreed to spending time alone together with you in public. The purpose of which is to get to know someone to find out if you like them or not, btw. If you want someone who will just have sex with you whether they want to or not, go pay a professional sex worker for their services. Maybe don't treat women looking to date men of substance like they a…	/r/seduction	21/08/21 11:32 PM
1	Getting tired of fucking Try making love!	/r/seduction	21/08/21 08:58 PM
4	Is it okay for a straight guy to not like licking pussy? Maybe if you went down on em more you wouldn't have to keep finding new ones to sleep with!	/r/seduction	21/08/21 08:48 PM
3	Is it okay for a straight guy to not like licking pussy? Ok Imma need a source for this claim, please!	/r/seduction	21/08/21 08:46 PM
15	Is it corny to ask a girl why her eyes are so dilated (when you are conversing) It's not corny. It is creepy, but definitely not corny!	/r/seduction	21/08/21 08:30 PM
4	FWB is mad at me, anything i can do or it's over? A man who discounts me because of my experiences does not have the confidence in himself that I would find attractive. Real men want real women. Why men want sexually repressed women I will never understand. So many married men complain about their wives' lack of sex drive and wonder WHY?? Well, you tell women all their lives that their sexuality is not for them but for bringing pleasure to someone else, and then say if they enjoy it too much they're bad women. You raise girls believing their se…	/r/seduction	21/08/21 08:25 PM
4	Should I try harder, or is she just not interested? As a woman, I say ask her directly before you give in. She may be a little old-fashioned, or think she's wishful-thinking your interest in her. If you are interested, be clear and see what she says. Worst case scenario she says no but you no longer have to wonder if you've missed out on something.	/r/seduction	21/08/21 05:05 PM
2	What are your fastest hook up stories? Very true!	/r/seduction	21/08/21 03:52 PM
1	I Never Thought I'd Get Laid After Going Bald. Lol Just seeing this gem of a comment, Mr. Baldandsad2 (the sequel is never as good as the original, btw). I have been busy getting laid and enjoying real life human connections. I apologize for not responding sooner! I am truly horrendous, Sir! I am short, round and wobbly, to be sure. What's your point?	/r/seduction	21/08/21 02:40 PM
3	What are your fastest hook up stories? Unless of course it's a ONS because the sex wasn't worth another round.	/r/seduction	21/08/21 02:20 PM
6	What are your fastest hook up stories? Women come in many different varieties with many different likes and turn-ons! Some women think tats are trashy. Some think they're sexy. As Forrest Gump's mama was fond of saying, "Women are like a box of chocolates, you'll never know what you're gonna get!" 😂	/r/seduction	21/08/21 02:17 PM
2	I Never Thought I'd Get Laid After Going Bald. Woman here to say I dated my 1st bald man last year and - I can promise - he will not be my last! I never had any strong feelings for or against bald men, so dating him had zero to do with his hair and everything to do with his everything else (no, he was not jacked). We didn't work out and that's a bummer, but I came away with a definite liking for bald men. Y'all are sexy to me!	/r/seduction	03/06/21 01:16 AM
1	Been feeling depressed all day about not getting a girl that was into me last night I did not assume, Arnold. I read your words. I even quoted them back to you so you would know exactly what I meant. I am not trying to hurt your feelings. All I'm saying is that you language that you used set off some alarm bells in my female brain. Take that as you choose.	/r/seduction	01/03/21 05:10 AM
0	Been feeling depressed all day about not getting a girl that was into me last night not picking up a girl can basically crush everything I've been working on. And idrk how to change that I know how you change it!! Stop making "picking up a girl" your goal, and start making "getting to know a woman" your goal. Frankly, Arnold, you wording and thinking gives off at best an entitled-man vibe, and at worst a future predator-registry vibe. I see you talking about decisions regarding "'pursuing girls", "getting her', how simple a thing it should be to pick up a girl and how your day …	/r/seduction	01/03/21 04:16 AM
1	Been feeling depressed all day about not getting a girl that was into me last night I love the support and positive reinforcement - look on the bright side comments here guys! Truly not what I expected to see, so thank you for that! OP, I have to be honest and say that from my female perspective, I have concerns. You put an awful lot of importance on one brief encounter with a young woman who was pleasantly attentive to you but unpleasantly attentive to too many other men at the party, someone who finally made you feel happy but was in town for just one weekend and just looking…	/r/seduction	01/03/21 03:50 AM
2	Be the PLAYER that WOMEN LOVE! Awww Thank you! (I bought her the vibrator, btw). How she uses it is up to her!	/r/seduction	02/02/21 12:03 AM
5	Be the PLAYER that WOMEN LOVE! Basically what you are saying here is: Be interested in the woman, not just the woman's sexuality. As a woman, I can assure you that is is a very sexy skill. I've met plenty of 'hunters', and while they are fun, not one has really curled my toes. My FWB who is actually a friend, though... that man rocks my world every time! We enjoy spending non-sexual time together and since we both know we're not right for one another for the long haul, I would (grudgingly) hook him up with any of my girlfrien…	/r/seduction	01/02/21 10:53 PM