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No, I judge them based on my experiences with them. Go live on the Arizona border to go to South Dakota where there are a ton of Ethiopian immigrants and tell me I'm being unreasonable. Of course not ALL of them act in a stereotypical manner, but stereotypes exist for a reason, don't they?
/r/MensRights18/02/20 07:33 PM
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Not anti-Latino, I just know a lot about the culture in Middle/South America, particularly Honduras and Guatemala. I lived just about right on the border in Arizona for 12 years and I can say a lot about the Mexican immigrants as well, but I'm not going into that. Think what you want!
/r/MensRights17/02/20 02:30 AM
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Yeah, this is true. Unfortunately. When I worked in CPS during an internship, I got acquainted with them quite well. Incest and rape quite common with parents to children, lots of domestic violence, property damage, theft, etc. Not looking forward to the next twenty years.
/r/MensRights17/02/20 12:14 AM
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There aren't really any good men OR women anymore. I stay away from people of both genders as much as I possibly can.
/r/MensRights17/02/20 12:11 AM
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They're right that "femicides" should just be "homicides", it's ridiculous for it to be in its own category. But can we at least acknowledge that a lot of times when a woman is murdered, usually it has a sexual nature to it? Especially in Mexico and South America. I would NOT want to live there.
/r/MensRights17/02/20 12:06 AM
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Okay, no problem!
/r/MensRights02/01/20 11:54 PM
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I'm glad you don't empathize or sympathize with me, to be honest. If I was looking for pity you'd see all kinds of crap on my comments and posts, which you won't find it. I'm sorry you're triggered by me having hang ups about trauma in my life. I'm done talking to you. Have a nice life!
/r/MensRights02/01/20 11:54 PM
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Thank you for putting this up.
/r/MensRights02/01/20 11:38 PM
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Oh come on now. I didnt say anything about not appreciating the men who work on power lines, collect garbage, do police work, etc. I just said I don't trust men, I don't like them. You don't need pretend to empathize either. I understand that no matter how I explain things, I'll always be the one who's in the wrong. Please don't patronize me, it really irritates me. I'm saying I'm an MRA because I see the disadvantages and inequality towards men. I see the MRA movement as one of seeking for men …
/r/MensRights02/01/20 11:35 PM
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The video actually points out the birth control issue. Can't people just look things up without being rude?
/r/MensRights02/01/20 11:08 PM
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I've heard recently that men who are eating a lot of the Impossible Whopper from Burger King are actually growing real breasts from the high levels of estrogen in the "burger". Birth control hormones are put into our drinking water because women can't live without their precious artificial hormones. Our food is full of artificial estrogen and progesterone. It's almost irreversible at this point.
/r/MensRights02/01/20 05:25 PM
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Well I definitely can't justify being a feminist, even as a woman. Feminism in the 21st century has nothing to do with equality or equity. It's about oppression. I should mention (and I'll probably get crapped on big time) that, even though I'm an MRA, I don't really like men. At all. I've been abused and treated poorly by men for my entire life. I don't trust them. But I still believe they should be treated equally, whether in our court systems, socially, economically. I know most women don't h…
/r/MensRights02/01/20 04:06 PM
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I think Blasey Ford probably convinced more women than men, because of the prevalence of feminism.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 11:41 PM
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I think this tactic only works for attractive women.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 10:50 PM
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I'm a bit confused about how Salome can be included in this. She got what she wanted because she was attractive, she didn't even have to do anything.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 08:36 PM
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I'm a little confused because 99% of men don't want kids. Where exactly does my worth come in in that case?
/r/MensRights01/01/20 08:07 PM
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You're welcome to ignore it. Maybe actually leave a comment relevant to the discussion? 🤷 Or does it make you feel like a better person to insult others?
/r/MensRights01/01/20 08:02 PM
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But what about unattractive girls like me? Where do I fit in?
/r/MensRights01/01/20 05:45 AM
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I'm serious, I've never had a guy give me the time of day let alone be interested in sending a dick pic. Even in high school. Somehow I feel a lot worse about myself now.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 04:42 AM
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No one has ever been interested in me enough to send a dick pic so I've got no experience.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 04:36 AM
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I see. I personally don't think a man's attractiveness should matter in how I treat him. But I'm sure many women do.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 04:21 AM
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Oh don't do that! Please!
/r/MensRights01/01/20 02:57 AM
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Hmm this is interesting, I'd like to see someone unpack this.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 02:16 AM
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This is a very well thought out response, probably the best one. Thank you very much!
/r/MensRights01/01/20 01:06 AM
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Yep, that explains it pretty good, thank you!
/r/MensRights01/01/20 12:42 AM
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Don't most of those subs have women posting their own photos? I don't see how it can be a man's fault if it's the woman consenting to put those pics online. But let's say most of the subs don't function that way; let's say the men are posting female pictures without the consent of the women. How is it different than women doing the same? I don't see any consequences for women doing the same. So why is is unusual for men to also not have consequences? I just want to understand better, because I t…
/r/MensRights01/01/20 12:41 AM
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Well I'm definitely what you'd call ugly and I don't do things like that. I think a lot of girls that look like me find feminism appealing because of it, though.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 12:37 AM
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It's too bad this is the prevailing idea among feminists. It's not even logically consistent.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 12:06 AM
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I've always wondered this. Physically yes, we're "inferior", but otherwise I don't see any woman, feminist or not, in a helpless state. Especially not in a first world country like the United States.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 12:05 AM
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I'm really sorry you've been treated that way. That's heartbreaking! I agree. There's this weird logic going on where men are expected to make the first move, but if they do they're being creepy and pervy.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 12:04 AM
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Maybe they grew up in feminist households. Or they grew up watching many of the anti-male tv shows that always portray the men as dumb as rocks.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 12:02 AM
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Yes, it's interesting. The argument could be the same for men. A lot of men want children too, but I suppose a feminist would say that because they don't carry the baby, it's different.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 12:01 AM
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Circumcision was an Jewish requirement (overwhelmingly). Circumcision is not required for Christians of any stripe, but you can't believe how many times I've heard it used as an excuse by Christians. Only Jews should be continuing this practice, and they make up such a small percentage of people in the US. I don't even know the justification used by non-religious couples. There's no medical benefits to circumcision. Not that I've heard of.
/r/MensRights01/01/20 12:00 AM
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Yep, you'll never win that one. Whatever position you choose will always be the wrong one to someone.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 11:56 PM
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Thanks!
/r/MensRights31/12/19 11:52 PM
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Well put!
/r/MensRights31/12/19 11:42 PM
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I'm proud to be a MRA as a woman, I think more women need to see that it's not an indefensible position.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 11:37 PM
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I wonder why female sexual thoughts and libido are considered less pervy or unacceptable than male.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 11:34 PM
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But why is it inappropriate when a male does it but not when a female does it? Ignoring frequency.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 11:06 PM
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I think you've got part of it. I think there's another aspect to it though. It's just a weird dichotomy; men are like animals and no matter their social status are all predators at heart, but somehow they're also of higher status than women in the social structure. I just struggle to understand which is true in feminist logic because I can't keep track of all the nonsense.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 11:03 PM
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I think a lot of it has to do with fear. We are taught that male sexual desire is too violent for us and that men can't control themselves. I think that idea was put into my head in middle school. I don't believe it now, but it took a long time for me to figure out what the truth was.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 09:28 PM
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That's okay I think I'll pass. Someone else can post it again.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 12:27 AM
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Sorry, I already removed it!
/r/MensRights31/12/19 12:21 AM
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Didn't do it to ruin anything for anyone, wasn't on purpose. I can delete if that's what you want.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 12:14 AM
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I didn't spoil anything for him, he even said himself he wasn't going to look 🤷. I didn't put a spoiler warning, sorry! I don't need two warnings about it.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 12:10 AM
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Go see the movie damn you! It's better than the first two for sure.
/r/MensRights30/12/19 11:51 PM
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Toxic masculinity just seems so rare. Unless you're having physical or sexual violence against you as a woman, there's not much men can be toxic about. I believe the issues with male virility are a different category altogether. Men need their own spaces, and in a feminist world they just don't have that. Toxic femininity/feminism is pretty rampant, however. I can't even be around members of my own gender anymore, to be quite honest.
/r/MensRights30/12/19 08:55 PM
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Oh. My. God. No. Okay?
/r/MensRights30/12/19 02:09 PM
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I wasn't suggesting they only be relaxed for women, I think things should be equal. Which is the reason I reject feminism, even as a woman myself.
/r/MensRights30/12/19 12:45 AM
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As I said before, whatever works for your family is fine. I'm talking, as I said before, about the traditional roles men and women played throughout history, up until the time feminism came in and changed things for the worse.
/r/MensRights29/12/19 11:54 PM
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Wow there's a lot of assumption here. A husband cares for his wife and the wife cares for her husband. Men and women in marriage have different roles but both put in 100%. It has nothing to do with men doing everything and women doing nothing. Woah boy.
/r/MensRights29/12/19 11:17 PM
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Nope, I don't think that's what I meant at all.
/r/MensRights29/12/19 10:51 PM
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I dont think traditional gender roles prohibit men from cooking or cleaning up after themselves. They just help men and women realize themselves fully as man and woman, but there are exceptions. It's not about imposing, it's just about what works. For most families it works. But if it doesn't for you, that's fine.
/r/MensRights29/12/19 08:45 PM
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I hate the overwhelming majority of both genders equally, for different reasons.
/r/MensRights29/12/19 08:20 PM
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I'm not a Betty Crocker, I'm not a cooking/baking champion, but I am a homemaker and I do take good care of my family. I don't think there's an inherent negative to having pre-prescribed ideals for family life and the roles of male and female. There should always be wiggle room, but that's existed throughout all generations.
/r/MensRights29/12/19 07:10 PM
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Okay, I don't think I can argue here so I'm just going to leave it be. I think it's good to look into, but I don't know if the science here promotes this idea that females have this innate evil biological tool they can use against males. I know feminism is bad and it sucks that is permeates everything in Western society. But I don't know that I as a female can use my brain waves to influence anyone for my own benefit. I'm just a human being trying to live the best life I can.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 10:14 PM
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Yes, I know a few too. It's sort of sad.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 09:31 PM
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That's the plan, Stan! 😉
/r/MensRights28/12/19 09:11 PM
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Just because we have a 99.999% connection genetically doesn't mean that .001% isn't significant enough to make a difference. We're also 99.9% genetically identical to apes (or something like that) but we aren't apes. I think it's safe to say that I dont have the same ability to connect to a random person from China than I do with my own daughter. I think you're conflating this too much. Science is science. If it's backed up by evidence and repeatable in the lab, then I don't know what else to sa…
/r/MensRights28/12/19 09:11 PM
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I think this is probably only directed towards mothers and babies. I think it's probably the same with fathers and babies too, just on a different level. I'm not sure if it works with those who don't have a biological/genetic connection.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 08:41 PM
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I'm confused, how does this have anything to do with witchcraft or how women receive special treatment? Am I missing something?
/r/MensRights28/12/19 08:13 PM
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I assume most people have what I have, too.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 07:45 PM
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I agree with a couple other people, there's a difference between letting someone know you'll be gone all day and expecting them to give you minute by minute updates. My husband doesn't always tell me when he's going to the gym but he'll tell me when he's spending a day down south for a lodge meeting. It's two different animals.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 07:25 PM
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That'll be a hard no, friend.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 04:23 PM
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Before I became a stay-at-home mother, the only places I worked had women bosses. They were absolutely horrible. If I wasn't their friend and brown-noser, I was the enemy. I was forced to quit a job I loved because I was "friends" with a woman the nurse hated because she called her out on a lie in front of my boss—that was all it took for me to become enemy number one. I will never work with a woman boss again, will never work WITH women again if I can help it. I would love an overnight job wher…
/r/MensRights28/12/19 03:17 PM
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I'm a female. Roman Catholic, homemaker, wife and mother. I tend to have a healthier view on men, including male virility. I find most feminism to be absolute nonsense, and the rest of it well-meaning but misguided.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 03:12 PM
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The only time I've told my husband he couldn't do something was 1) don't cheat on me, I'm your wife dammit and 2) don't down that 6th shot of vodka because the last time you did it, you threw up all over the bedroom floor. My husband has free reign to go wherever he wants and he doesn't even have to tell me where he's going. And he never tells me what I can and can't do either, except for cheat. Sometimes he will put his foot down and force me to go to the doctor or emergency room when I'm sick …
/r/MensRights28/12/19 03:11 PM
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Yep you're right
/r/MensRights28/12/19 02:35 PM
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It's a very long article, but I'm going through it. It's interesting that he mentions pastors and church leaders, I liked the assessment.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 01:56 AM
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I definitely don't think it's the most difficult job, but it does require my attention 24/7. Even at night I have to "keep an eye" so to speak on my child. In my particular situation I think things are much more difficult, but you probably don't want to know about that stuff. I don't think it was that particular quote that I had a problem with. Maybe I'll try to find it later.
/r/MensRights27/12/19 10:48 PM
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Eve was deceived but Adam wasn't. That doesn't mean both weren't culpable for what they did. Both were told not to eat the fruit of the tree.
/r/MensRights27/12/19 09:30 PM
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I've always enjoyed all the Disney films, from Snow White in the 1920s to today. I never thought of the old fairy tales as sexist. If Snow White or Cinderella or Sleeping Beauty were "rescued" by princes, it was only by chance/circumstance. I never saw it as the woman's only purpose in the movie being for her to be rescued. The stories are WAY more complex than that.
/r/MensRights27/12/19 09:27 PM
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This is all true, I think. But everyone experiences things differently. Sometimes having a bad father in the home is worse than having no father. But I believe these are defined statistically as being true, if I remember correctly.
/r/MensRights27/12/19 09:24 PM
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I think I'm intelligent enough to read and understand what he meant. If he thought otherwise he could've told me, but my question was never answered. So I'm letting it go. Being a stay-at-home mom isn't easy. Not only do I not know a single woman who is one besides myself, but everyone assumes all I do is have fun all day, sit at home and watch TV, and leech off my husband who works. I'd like to think I contribute something to my family, but no one around me seems to think so (in person, as in f…
/r/MensRights27/12/19 09:20 PM
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Woah boy. I guess asking you a question is sexist. I think I'm done engaging you. You can think whatever you want about me, I don't think I can say or do anything to make you like me or my responses. Have a nice day.
/r/MensRights27/12/19 07:38 PM
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If I wasn't on my phone I'd find something, but I don't think it would change your opinion anyway. if you do believe women have value I'm waiting to hear from you. You don't need me o provide a source to answer that question.
/r/MensRights27/12/19 07:34 PM
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I'm just making an assumption because that seems to be the prevailing attitude. You're free to prove me wrong.
/r/MensRights27/12/19 07:31 PM
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Okay, so what I'm getting here is that women are always awful and useless and can be replaced, they have no positives whatsoever. Is that a reasonable assessment?
/r/MensRights27/12/19 07:27 PM
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There are studies about brain changes in women, especially when they hear babies cry. I don't have them at my fingertips but you can look them up. My question is, do you believe women are good for anything? Or are we simply leeches that can be done away with? Because as a stay at home mom and homemaker it stings a little bit for someone to suggest I have little to no unique aspects to my role as mother and wife that can't be replaced simply because some women are capable of evil.
/r/MensRights27/12/19 07:22 PM
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Overall women are the better caretakers and nurturers by virtue of their female sex. I don't think it's fair or productive to say women aren't better nurturers because of a very small minority of women who kill their children. You're trying to take away any goodness of the female human person and that's not a profitable endeavor. Women and men can be equally bad and equally good.
/r/MensRights27/12/19 07:14 PM
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Haha surprise anal! And South Dakota, shaking my head. Cartoon? I expected better from my state! But seriously. There's nothing wrong with liking rough sex. I think it's exciting, and I'm female. But it's not dirty or gross or inappropriate that men might like it too.
/r/MensRights27/12/19 03:25 AM
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I understand dear. I'm so very sorry.
/r/MensRights27/12/19 03:13 AM
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I'm glad you're having better sensation. I understand the feelings of betrayal. I wonder if your parents knew or understood the consequences of their choice?
/r/MensRights27/12/19 03:00 AM
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Do you have a lack of sensation or pleasure? I'm so sorry that you were injured that way. Every day I hear of more and more stories like this. If you need someone to talk to, I'm always open!
/r/MensRights27/12/19 02:48 AM
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I'm really sorry you're suffering with this. I'm a female so I don't fully understand your pain, but please don't indulge your anxiety and depression. Keep using that energy towards bettering the lives of baby boys. I'm not sure if your anxiety and depression are expressly caused by your circumcision, but if it is please keep reaching out to others. I am 100% against circumcision and will never circumcise my sons, if that makes you feel any better. I know a lot of women flippantly dismiss the pr…
/r/MensRights27/12/19 02:38 AM
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If you want to be politically correct, yes. I don't trust the NHS.
/r/MensRights25/12/19 01:44 AM
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I think the real problem is the prevailing narrative that there's a creep factor to men who want to be women. It's the expectation that a man would only want to pretend to be a woman to get into a woman-only space in order to receive some sort of sexual satisfaction. There have been cases of this, but I don't think it's the norm. There's a difference between gender dysphoria, which is a mental illness, and drag queens. But a lot of people put them into the same category. And yes, I say gender dy…
/r/MensRights24/12/19 09:24 PM
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It's an interesting piece, but you can just as easily say women are humanized at men's expense in dozens of shows and movies. So it's really a non-issue.
/r/MensRights24/12/19 09:17 PM
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I sincerely doubt 99% of men want rape to be legalized. What mentally sane or normal male would be able to enjoy sex with a screaming, crying woman? Who wants a sexual experience like that? The show sounds like a left-leaning propaganda machine. I don't watch TV like that, maybe you shouldn't either. Most television in modern times makes the man look stupid, brutish, selfish, unable to control their desires, etc. Very few good male role models on television. There are very few good female role m…
/r/MensRights24/12/19 07:46 PM
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It makes sense, but is it statistically significant? Is it a bad thing? What does this prove?
/r/MensRights24/12/19 04:29 PM
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When you feel like every action is an act of oppression against you, you tend to become paranoid and depressed.
/r/MensRights24/12/19 04:17 PM
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Thanks! I'm a girl by the way 😊.
/r/MensRights24/12/19 05:33 AM
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If you're a young guy, stay away from girls your age. If you're an older man, chances are the girls who are interested in you will be better than the girls who would be interested if you were younger. It might be marginally different, but perhaps significant. Avoid interactions with young women in public you don't know, unless you're introduced to them. Keep politics out of every conversation. It sucks, but most of my gender are crazy, especially the young ones. They're very risky.
/r/MensRights24/12/19 05:31 AM
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I would never circumcise my sons should I ever have them. Absolutely will not.
/r/MensRights24/12/19 01:57 AM
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I agree with you to an extent, and thank you for responding. I think part of the problem is a lot of men who are MGTOW aren't really sacrificing much. They're preemptively deciding to swear off women without trying to make sacrifices first. I'm not saying all, or even most, men are like this, but I think the most vocal minority are and maybe that's why I think of them the most when I hear about MGTOW.
/r/MensRights24/12/19 01:54 AM
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I don't think it's quite fair to say that living for others has to mean that you yourself have to stop working towards your happiness. You can balance both. But you also have to understand that having any sort of relationship, whether romantic or otherwise, requires some level of self-sacrifice. Sometimes we have to make decisions that directly go against what we want for the betterment of others or for the benefit of all the parties involved. It's part of life and living. Life is a continuous g…
/r/MensRights23/12/19 04:09 PM
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Not me, but I'm sure there are plenty of feminists who think it's a good idea!
/r/MensRights23/12/19 04:03 PM
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I didn't say anyone was blaming anyone for anything. Just that the title's phrase "effort gap" made an inference that it's a difference in action rather than simply a choice.
/r/MensRights23/12/19 02:52 AM
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Yikes! Wonder how she handles gynecological exams :P. All joking aside though, for goodness sake!
/r/MensRights23/12/19 01:35 AM
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Yikes! If I worked outside the home I'd wear long dresses or skirts. Why do other people need to see my legs in full volume?? You can be comfortable in dresses and skirts, it's not rocket science.
/r/MensRights23/12/19 01:01 AM
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Most women who are rich are either born into it or marry into it, yes. Some don't, like famous doctors, authors, etc. But I think calling it an "effort gap" is a bit disingenuous. Did the man consent to marry the woman regardless of her financial or social standing? If so, the woman cannot be blamed for being wealthy simply by marriage. It's not really a matter of earning anything.
/r/MensRights23/12/19 12:49 AM
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I'm not overly sympathetic to the MGTOW movement. Most of the people in this community believe in women as inherently evil, manipulative and selfish, so they feel like they're not really losing out on anything, yet at the same time lamenting that "women aren't women anymore". I think most of it is just complaining for the sake of complaining. I'm anti-feminist to the extreme, but the MGTOW movement is not attractive.
/r/MensRights22/12/19 11:23 PM
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I would LOVE for my husband to be more dominant, but he's just too quiet and never tells me anything. I have to make a lot of decisions on my own.
/r/MensRights22/12/19 09:50 PM
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It's only gross and juvenile for a man to be horny if he's falling all over a girl and isn't taking no for an answer. But it's the exact same thing for women. Nothing wrong with natural, healthy sexual attraction. Feminists are crazy!
/r/MensRights22/12/19 09:45 PM
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The man's duty is to protect his wife and provide for his family. The woman's duty is to take care of her children and submit to her husband's leadership. Abuse against both sexes is unacceptable. In a perfect world, this family unit would stand as the cornerstone of civilized human society. Women had no need to be involved in politics when they were in the home, building a family legacy and caring for their children, spouse, and extended family. And when children grew up in stable, two-parent h…
/r/MensRights21/12/19 03:08 AM
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