SedBob Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Why Sex Drive is a Key to Self-Improvement and Seduction Well, there's jacking off to porn on a daily basis (which is bad for a number of reasons), then there's NoFap (which is arguably excessive and a bit cult-ish). There is a middle ground: Jacking off to sexual fantasies once or twice a week.	/r/seduction	17/09/16 10:45 PM
1	The fulfilled life: Problems with a lot of guys getting into game late, why doing well with women isn't enough, dangers of ending up the lonely PUA, and fixing it all. /r/GetDisciplined	/r/seduction	17/09/16 10:33 PM
1	The fulfilled life: Problems with a lot of guys getting into game late, why doing well with women isn't enough, dangers of ending up the lonely PUA, and fixing it all. Can't wait for someone else to force you to get your shit together. That responsibility is yours and yours alone.	/r/seduction	17/09/16 10:20 PM
1	The fulfilled life: Problems with a lot of guys getting into game late, why doing well with women isn't enough, dangers of ending up the lonely PUA, and fixing it all. Well, it's the truth though. If you're an insecure loner with poor social skills and not much going for you, you will not have much luck with the ladies. You may be able to briefly fool some of them into thinking you've got your shit together (which is what a lot of old-school PUA advice is about), but that veneer will come apart fairly quickly. The only way to make lasting change is to actually make lasting change. That takes work.	/r/seduction	17/09/16 09:18 PM
2	The fulfilled life: Problems with a lot of guys getting into game late, why doing well with women isn't enough, dangers of ending up the lonely PUA, and fixing it all. I can relate a lot, and I also think it stands in line with a lot of the points in Models. If you want meaningful relationships with women, you need a healthy and fulfilling life (which includes a decent social circle). Finding a social circle when you're 30 is arduous work, especially if your social skills are a bit neglected, but at least for me, I'm slowly making progress, but some of the PUA stuff actually helps me with that (especially inner game-related topics). A lot of the things that ma…	/r/seduction	16/09/16 11:56 AM
2	Long term strugglers? Well, picking up women is a bit like playing poker in that regard. Even the best player in the world is going to be defeated by random chance every now and again, because there is no such thing as a perfect play that works every single time. Yet it's more than possible to practice and improve. I think it's more about being able to read the situation and select a good approach (and know when to bail) than finding some magical routine that works every time. Don't be like these guys and try to copy…	/r/seduction	15/09/16 03:45 PM
1	why your COCK will get you laid more than any of this pickup material can Oddly legit advice.	/r/seduction	15/09/16 03:15 PM
1	Long term strugglers? Just out of curiosity, are you trying the same thing over and over again for 5 months and expecting different results, or using your failures and rejections to refine your approach? Knowing how to interpret failure and adapt your method is key to mastering just about anything.	/r/seduction	15/09/16 02:45 PM
2	Is it possible to get a girlfriend without being social or interesting? Because nobody is entitled to have a woman that loves them for all they are fall into their lives and love them unconditionally. That happens to a few lucky people, and that's great for them, but ultimately women aren't there for men. They are people too. Individuals. If you lead an unattractive lifestyle where you barely meet women, you will almost certainly die alone. Tough break. The point I'm trying to hammer in here is that these are the consequences of your choices. Whether you accept the …	/r/seduction	15/09/16 12:01 PM
2	Is it possible to get a girlfriend without being social or interesting? It honestly seems like you're asking if your life can be changed without making any changes to your life. The answer to that is "no." Your chances of finding a partner is in direct proportion to the amount of women you regularly interact with. If you lead a life with few women, your odds of finding a partner are going to remain very low. If you want women in your life, you're gonna have to be prepared to make a few sacrifices. Time consuming sausage-fest hobbies is one such area that you may wis…	/r/seduction	15/09/16 11:45 AM
1	Is it possible to get a girlfriend without being social or interesting? I don't know where I would find different women, in fact right now I hove either been rejected by all the women I know, or I am not attracted to them, or they are just out of my league. Well, where have you looked for them? Also, the only place "out of your league" exists is in your head. Go talk to them. I also don't want to do something I don't enjoy just to make a woman like me. So you've actually tried every conceivable hobby and found you didn't like any of them, or have you decided you won…	/r/seduction	15/09/16 11:19 AM
1	Is it possible to get a girlfriend without being social or interesting? I think you either need to find different women to interact with, or expand your interests to cover something women are also interested in, or talk about something that isn't your hobbies.	/r/seduction	15/09/16 11:09 AM
2	Is it possible to get a girlfriend without being social or interesting? You don't need to abandon your hobbies, just expand them. I'm also sensing self-censorship in what you're saying. Don't under any circumstance try to hide who you are when talking to women. If you have interests, own up to it, whatever they are. A woman will find a guy with interests she does not share more interesting than a guy who conceals his interests to hide the fact that they are not shared -- because that guy will not appear to have any interests at all and be completely boring. I'm not …	/r/seduction	15/09/16 10:34 AM
1	Why attractiveness is nowhere near as influential as social skill. Be that as it may, it's still an incredibly toxic mindset that will cripple your success rate. Maybe you are the underdog, but you still gotta play to win. The only person you should compare yourself to is your past self. Are you more successful now than you were one year ago? What can you do to become more successful the next year? And I also KNOW that if you are very very handsome, you can almost say nothing at all and SOME girls will still throw themselves at you (particularly in a club envir…	/r/seduction	15/09/16 10:00 AM
5	Need some help in Europe Europe is big and culturally diverse. You should probably be more specific...	/r/seduction	14/09/16 07:52 PM
0	What do you talk about? Stop having boring conversations. Talk about whatever the fuck you feel like. Usually that makes the conversation, and by extension you, more interesting. If you ask her where she's from or what she does for a living, you're probably up for a one-word answer that isn't very interesting, and even if you manage to coax a follow-up question out of her answers, you really won't care and it will show. So ask her which items she'd bring to a deserted island instead. Or which building she'd hypothetica…	/r/seduction	14/09/16 07:04 PM
2	how do 'normal' guys get laid? Those are all external physical attributes though. Manliness goes far deeper than whether you have a beard. It's about assertiveness, boldness, confidence, and so forth.	/r/seduction	14/09/16 09:45 AM
1	how to avoid making people bored OP's questions aren't wrong per se, the lack of situational awareness is another issue. Their reaction practically screams "we're not interested, please go away" from the get-go. I honesty think that is relatively common when girls go out in groups like that.	/r/seduction	13/09/16 09:03 PM
2	Introverted Sedditors - do you feel drained after going out? I don't. However I'm beginning to re-evaluate the notion that I am introverted. I think I've been a socially awkward extrovert, and as the dust has settled after I've worked on my social skills, I'm an extrovert.	/r/seduction	13/09/16 03:50 PM
3	Talked to too many girls at the bar There's also such a thing as a pecking order with girls. Subverting that and giving the "wrong" girl too much attention is apparently very confusing. When I first started out with this, I felt I needed more practice just getting comfortable chatting with girls, so I would frequently invite myself over to a table and start a chat with a group of them. Since I was very uncomfortable with pretty girls, I gave the least attractive one all the attention, which confused the living hell out of the othe…	/r/seduction	13/09/16 03:43 PM
2	3 BIG Lessons that will make you better Video Games, in general, are a horrendous time sink that gives little in return. There are a few exceptions that will help you grow as a person, competitive gaming and souls-likes for example will forge you into a stronger man Reddit and reading books is sort of similar territory. There are parts that will let you grow, and then there's inane bullshit that just eats time.	/r/seduction	13/09/16 03:32 PM
2	Do I need a social media presence to pull girls? I think in general social media (like facebook) reinforces an unhealthy mindset focused on external validation. Exactly the same sort of mind-set that makes a guy insecure and needy.	/r/seduction	13/09/16 03:26 PM
1	Practical Ways to Not Care What Other People Think With me it helped a lot to investigate why my confidence was faltering. Pushing my comfort zone only took me so far, there was always that base level of anxiety that never quite went away until I started digging through a lot of emotional baggage.	/r/seduction	12/09/16 09:46 PM
1	My ego took a massive hit & why it is the enemy.. I think you're going about it wrong. Rather than inflating your ego and assuming success is inevitable to Bolt VanderHuge, play it like you know you're gonna die tomorrow and literally nothing you do matters: Today is just a game to you. Do whatever the fuck you feel like, as it's not like you'll have much time to regret it.	/r/seduction	11/09/16 11:24 AM
2	UPDATE: I just approached a girl for the very first time! I'm living in Sweden. Haven't done a massive amount of day-gaming, but I had an epiphany a while back when I was hanging out with a guy from California who was travelling in Sweden and he just talked to fucking everyone he saw in a way no Swedish guy would even dream of trying, and had a remarkable success just striking up conversations with random strangers left right and center (that's in fact how we met). I asked myself what he had that I didn't. Was it speaking English with a Cali accent? No…	/r/seduction	08/09/16 07:25 PM
10	How much is pornography like real sex? Pornography doesn't have much in common with real sex. Pornography focuses on positions and acts that are visually appeasing, rather than acts that feel good. This includes the jizz-on-face finisher. Some girls like it because they've seen it in pornography. Ask. Pornography omits all form of foreplay / warm-up, and edits out pauses, premature ejaculation, the guy losing his erection, and so forth. Pulling out is not a good tactic. Use a condom.	/r/seduction	08/09/16 03:40 PM
9	Those Who Have Not Approached...Let's Make A Deal Masturbating less is a good thing. Once or twice a week is a decent balance that saves you from the blue-balls and nightly emissions, yet carries a lot of improvements (you also stop needing to rely on visual stimulation to get off, which is positive if you're a porn junkie). NoFap is just excessive self-flagellation.	/r/seduction	07/09/16 02:01 PM
2	What's the best advice you've ever received? I, too, listen to Kenny Loggins when I cook breakfast.	/r/seduction	07/09/16 01:48 PM
2	UPDATE: I just approached a girl for the very first time! Maybe it's unusual, It's not actually that hard in Sweden. It usually goes over rather well, as long as you don't lay on her too hard or get awkward. Because it's so relatively rare, you're gonna come off as even more brave doing it.	/r/seduction	07/09/16 11:16 AM
2	So... I'm in process of reading "models.. Well, there's accommodating someone (which is fine and something all people should do), and changing significant portions of yourself. If you like cats and the lady likes dogs, trying to hide this difference by pretending you kinda like dogs after all isn't helping your case. This type of flip-flopping just makes you look servile and sycophantic, which aren't qualities that are gonna win over a lot of ladies.	/r/seduction	07/09/16 09:08 AM