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SedditJM/r/seduction31/12/14 10:28 PM
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I think the spirit of your advice is in the right place but I will warn against being too taken by the urge to lurk and wait for the perfect moment. Not only can it harm your approach if girls feel that you are watching them but it can harm your mindset - it is difficult to have a normal fun conversation when your mind is in guerilla warfare mode. I think the best advice for day game is to work on never missing an opportunity rather than watching and waiting for extended periods.
/r/seduction16/04/15 08:50 PM
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Sure why not?
/r/seduction09/01/15 09:39 PM
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This is massively irrelevant. Just make eye contact. There's no way which eye to look at is your primary sticking point.
/r/seduction09/01/15 09:33 PM
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I usually work on actively reacting to what she does/says/emotes -indicating that how she feels matters to me and influences my actions. Because it does. I think that's the core of trust, the feeling that "my comfort is important to this person." Here's a Jeffy video on the subject matter which may be useful.
/r/seduction02/01/15 08:10 AM
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Haha you know I don't really have any rote dirty talk, and I bet lots of guys are WAY better at spinning some sexy words in the moment, but I mostly just voice what I feel. "You're sexy as hell" "I'm going to tear this dress off of you" Telling her that I noticed her lack of panties Asking if she likes this/teasing her about how much she does
/r/seduction02/01/15 08:05 AM
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I'm 23 What do you mean by resources?
/r/seduction01/01/15 01:01 AM
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This is gold, can you give me a quick example of how you might "initiate the pull" better? Well I noted that as a sticking point because I was hoping for some external input but I do have a few ideas. It's a club, so I think a bathroom lay might have been entirely possible. I've never done one of those so it would be fun too, I wish it had occurred to me and I had gone for it. More technically, I think oftentimes logistical problems are a manifestation of feelings like "we just met it would be s…
/r/seduction01/01/15 01:00 AM
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So many answers, so many methods... I'll contribute mine. But rather than just tell you what I do, I'll tell you what I want you to do, just for one night, to see if it works for you as well as it does for me. Step 1: Do whatever small thing makes you feel accomplished. Go for a run. Clean your room. Write for 15 minutes. Whatever works for you, don't necessarily over-commit, just pull something off and feel good. Step 2: Meditate. 10-15 minutes of basic, mindful meditation. If you are unfamilia…
/r/seduction27/12/14 12:28 PM
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This is a really incredible achievement, in no small part because it requires a level of commitment which, frankly, is lacking from many current members of the community. That said- I think the 20 f-closes figure is the most interesting. With volume comes success, sure, but I wonder how he approached the matter of sleeping with women. First of all, it takes well over 20 minutes (usually) to get a lay, so if you're intent on getting all your approaches, you may prematurely eject from a set that c…
/r/seduction24/12/14 04:06 AM
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Demander des conseils en Français... sur un forum (surtout) pour les persons qui parlent Anglais... c'est un peu présomptueux. Toutes les personnes ici ont le meme objectif. Mais seuls ceux réussissent qui font l'effort d'apprendre cette compétence. Je suis désolé mais je ne pense pas que cela ressemble les motes d'une personne qui est bein décidé à poursuivre. Si tu veux vraiment apprendre cette compétence... c'est ton devoir de faire l'effort. Personne ne le fera pour tu. (Je ai tapé ce avec b…
/r/seduction23/12/14 07:35 AM
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My recommendation: "Cool." Nothing complicated, nothing aggressive, this is obviously not a point open for debate, it's her body, her rules. After this, escalate as normal, let her stop you if things start heading that direction. She's just as capable of deciding TO have sex as she is of deciding not to, and sometimes it's a socially conditioned response i.e. "I'm inviting this person over but I'm not a slut so I'll be clear that we aren't fucking."
/r/seduction21/12/14 10:12 AM
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Thanks dude! I'm excited to try these out
/r/seduction03/12/14 05:48 PM
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Dancing is something I have wanted to incorporate into my life (not just my game) for awhile, but to be completely honest there are very few things that I am more clueless about. In general I am not the most musically connected person, I enjoy the songs but I have trouble REALLY getting into it or feeling the beat- so the core component to dancing doesn't come all that naturally to me either. I've wanted to do it because I want to better enjoy that sort of art and I think it seems like a great w…
/r/seduction03/12/14 09:06 AM
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Oh my god the WhatsApp essay... Very, very needy. I'm impressed by her for handling it so smoothly.
/r/seduction01/12/14 06:12 PM
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I agree with not doing pickup in a SMALL closed environment but I think school is a very reasonable place to meet women. I'd advise using less overt tactics though- focus on rapport building and escalate sexually only after substantial indication of interest and preferably outside the environment. As long as you aren't making waves and it's not a very low population environment you'll be unnoticed in the mayhem of school life. P.S. if OP accurately recounted the story his friend is a total cock.
/r/seduction01/12/14 06:01 PM
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I think that this is an instance of temporary sticking, not a systematic failure. You're 2 weeks clean from opiates- it's going to take some time to get back to a baseline brain chemistry and start really feeling normal. Part of that is learning to function within this different state of consciousness. It's actually not that different from someone weaning themselves of f using alcohol regularly when approaching except... Y'know... You're dealing with narcotics rehabilitation. Which brings me to …
/r/seduction01/12/14 05:55 PM
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Oh yeah didn't even look at the usernames. All the same I feel like a little clarification is needed.
/r/seduction27/11/14 01:11 AM
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I can't help you there although I imagine someone else could- but for something more life integrative than affirmations look into David Burns' book Feeling Good and explore the idea of challenging your own limiting beliefs to take on a more genuinely positive mindset.
/r/seduction27/11/14 12:39 AM
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Like an opener cheat-sheet or something?
/r/seduction26/11/14 11:30 PM
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Read through all the comments here, seems like you're getting a lot of unsolicited relationship advice- I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt and say you can handle this, because the question was simply how to go about it. I've gone out to pick up girls with other girls on several occasions, and it is 100% the most fun thing in the world, but it does also change the dynamic, here's what I've picked up on. Take advantage of environmental pre-selection. If I want someone for a threesome she …
/r/seduction23/11/14 06:18 PM
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My 5 cents: I think although candles are badass they may be a bit overwrought for a first date. Also for the movies, my rule is usually to go for something just interesting enough to keep us watching but not so interesting that it'd be a let down if we missed parts because we started talking/making out. Cash Back is my go to, pretty sexual movie but it's still a decent comedy with a straightforward plot.
/r/seduction21/11/14 01:04 AM
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That's why they're super simple, man. People spend their entire lives learning to appreciate and know how to pair wines but it's not knowledge the majority of people have access to.
/r/seduction21/11/14 01:02 AM
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Addison area.
/r/seduction18/11/14 01:25 AM
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I mean look at the results and think about them critically. First off, this is essentially the apocalypse opener with major demonstration of high value readily available (i.e. this dude is rich, probably a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.) One would expect the exact same results that this opener normally gets- numerous rejections with an eventual win but with improved percentages because, basically, it's harder to turn down when the opportunity seems so rare. That's exactly what we see here. Desp…
/r/seduction18/11/14 01:06 AM
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Lol don't stress. The main point is don't try to use it as a hook to "punish" her for not texting you. Some guys get anxious when they don't hear from a girl for awhile and feel compelled to take it out on her, I wanted to address that mindset because it's a dangerous one.
/r/seduction29/09/14 05:43 PM
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This was not tasteful.
/r/seduction29/09/14 05:22 PM
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Don't remark on it, she felt badly about cutting off communication and communicated that to you, that's it, there's no seductive spin to be placed on it (in general, specific cases notwithstanding.) If you want to look at it more social-analytically, she is demonstrating your own value in her mind by making sure you don't think less of her for cutting contact early. If you try to stick on that subject you come off as having over-invested and risk driving down your value.
/r/seduction29/09/14 05:13 PM
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I think those kinds of dates can be the best, free, and you can initiate them by just saying something like "I'd like to get to know you better, let's go for walk" I guess some people might mind but I've never met them.
/r/seduction14/08/14 07:01 PM
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This is both ridiculous and poorly written. I'm not sure where the persecutionist mindset that many men have taken on is coming from, but the world isn't out to crush you. Thinking this way is poison.
/r/seduction10/08/14 07:29 PM
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Seems like a lot of people here have some reservations about stopping girls who are walking- I agree that it's poor form to disturb someone who is clearly stressed, in a hurry to be somewhere, etc. But, for example in a mall, you will encounter tons of people walking who don't have any deadlines and are just moving to the next location- use your judgement, you can tell when someone needs to be somewhere vs when it's just you being nervous about the approach. As for the actual approach I gave two…
/r/seduction26/06/14 06:50 PM
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