| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | College campus...School would need to be very very large to get away with that. | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Feeling Empty after threesomeit was 2 girls | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How do you apply social circle game in a coed fraternity?keep them warm and be fun around them. Occasionally joke with them, and be the best version of yourself at all times. | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Want easy sex? Do this...this is called cuckolding. It's usually about a fetish for the couple. | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Tinder strategyIts going to be 90% about your pictures. Then open with something witty on your matches, and move to meeting in person or getting numbers or snachats ASAP. | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 02:22 AM |
| 0 | Beards?You beard rides lower on your jaw and is almost a chin strap. That being said its really subjective with the women. I think the best play for facial hair personally is stubble (unless someone has no jaw like james harden, in which case you should use a beard to shape your face). | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 02:20 AM |
| 0 | Can't tell if this girl wants to be more than friends or not; keep getting psudeo IOIsideally. | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Can't tell if this girl wants to be more than friends or not; keep getting psudeo IOIsI feel like I could easily ask her out but I have 2 things making me not want to I don't want a relationship, I just want sex. I also have other ongoing casual relationships I wouldn't want to end to start something with her. She is a friend and a bunch of my friends are her friends and vice-versa. I don't want to mix things up there. | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 02:14 AM |
| 1 | How to arrange 3somenah she is just one fuckbuddy/FwB | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 12:14 AM |
| 5 | Why do tinder dates cancel on me all the time?Im a guy and I have flaked on more tinder dates than not. I only will go if the girl snaps me ahead of time so I can see how she actually looks, and not just her self-selected photos. Its sort of intimidating to meet someone from online (even as a guy, I can't imagine what girls feel). Its so little effort to set up a tinder date, way more than actually going, so its common for them to be arranged and flaked on. | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Getting called "hun"; what does it mean?that feels like super obvious now... facepalm | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls in college barsNot in the long run so it wouldn't do anything in terms of muscle building. | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 12:08 AM |
| 5 | Approaching girls in college barsIf you are ok with fucking up your heart, chopping some serious time of your lifespan, potentially going infertile, and having some shitty skin: then some heavy steroid cycles will have you jacked in no time. (This is NOT my recommendation). Otherwise start doing some things to boost your natural test: Get good sleep, eat good food, take a multivitamin that has zinc in it, get to a more ideal bf%. Some other thing I recommend for adding muscle are creatine. Creatine monohydrate is super cheap, i… | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Have you tried lifting bro? It helps?Jeff Seid is incredibly cocky and confident on top of already having an insane physique. He is naturally gifted genetically, has been training his whole life, makes his body his full time job, and despite his claims he is not "natty", not even close. If you put someone in Jeff's body though with no confidence, and the guy on the right was confident and able to approach then he would absolutely have a chance, and probably win out. Obviously looks matter, but they aren't everything. | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 10:03 PM |
| 1 | [X-Post] College guys of Reddit, would you rather be the "side or the main in a relationship?Don't be the side if you have any feelings and/or aren't also hooking up with other girls. Otherwise I'd say its the place to be cause its sex without any of the time commitment of a relationship. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 07:36 PM |
| 8 | I'm a 25 y/o virgin and now I'm too afraid to hook up with a womanYou could try to find that cool girl; or alternatively you could just play a bit of a numbers game and go after a lot of girls you don't really care about (like random chicks at bars, or tinder girls ect) and then you won't care what they think and you can just get the first time over with. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 07:15 PM |
| 51 | After sex etiquette, what to do after sex and how to avoid awkward situationsI love the like 30 seconds after when I lay back and she rests her head on my chest, I put my arm around her side, and without saying anything she lets her head ride up and down as my chest contracts and expands with those deep relaxed post-sex breaths. For those 30 seconds I forget all my problems and I feel like Im floating on a cloud where none of my problems or responsibilities exist. I've never done them, but this feeling is like a small sample of what I'd imagine opiates to be like. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Screwed thing up with "the one" a year ago and still struggling!Everyone on this subreddit is going to tell you to not let yourself get hung up on one girl. To prevent yourself from getting your heart broken you almost need to be talking to a few girls at any given time. This also boosts your confidence and makes you appear more attractive to all of them. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Friends vs Cold approachesBut the big plus is when you put your real self out there, the people you do attract into your life like the real you. thats good, thanks for the advice. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Is fucking friends "shitting where you eat"Thanks but I'm only interested in the sex; I don't want a relationship. I want to know how to gauge if she is on that same page. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Is fucking friends "shitting where you eat"really good advice thanks for this breakdown. Can you explain the discretion part if you get a chance? By that do you mean like her being ok with hooking up and not dating? What are signs that she would be down for a relationship that is discret and open on my end (thats kinda my ideal). Similarly what are flags that she would not let me keep other FwBs or keep our hookups on the DL. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Is fucking friends "shitting where you eat"Im trying to evaluate the risk:reward here. Just causing I can have sex with other people doesn't mean that fucking her wouldn't be fun. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 03:49 PM |
| 1 | This absolutely fugly guy at my university completely slays. He reminds me that anyone can do it.Im not jealous, Im trying to point this out as an example to motivate people who use their looks as an excuses. And there is some objective physical attraction that isn't just trendy: like being fit, having defined and symmetrical facial features, secondary sex characteristics of testosterone exposure, healthy and clean skin, ect. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 01:21 AM |
| 1 | This absolutely fugly guy at my university completely slays. He reminds me that anyone can do it.I don't think you need to be gay to have an understanding of what makes men physically attractive. | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 03:31 PM |
| 1 | This absolutely fugly guy at my university completely slays. He reminds me that anyone can do it.I totally hear that sentiment; I'm in the gym 2 hours/day. I'm just sharing this to help encourage others who aren't as comfortable with their looks. Obviously looks help. | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 03:29 PM |
| 2 | where are all the "good girls" at?Hot girls aren't going to settle down in their early/mid 20s. During that time they want hot confident guys to have a fun time with. They are hoping to eventually find one that is also going to set himself up for a comfortable life, and if not they will maybe sacrifice physical attraction a bit for that down the road. Focus on being both for now. I wouldn't recommend being the guy who goes out every night and doesn't care about grades because while you will bang some great chicks you are throwin… | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 02:17 AM |
| 5 | This absolutely fugly guy at my university completely slays. He reminds me that anyone can do it.u got the wrong idea from this. I do fine for myself but I also admittedly rely on my looks and body from time to time for attraction and to boost my confidence. Im pointing that I admire this guy for being able to do it anyways, and I wanted to share this to encourage people who let looks discourage them from sedduction | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 10:43 PM |
| 32 | What do college girls WANT?!In my experience most girls who speak poorly of "fuckboys" are the same girls who only fuck with fuckboys. Honestly at our age I think most girls just want sex with confident and good looking guys, but want to pretend they are looking for a sweet-sensitive guy. Imo DO NOT try to be a "nice guy", or listen to what girls tell you they want from a guy. To me those sound like 2 guaranteed ways to end up friend-zoned (and if ur lucky you haven't been there, if you have the you know to avoid it). If y… | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Is lay count really a valuable metric for success in pickup?lol the engineering student in me wants to plot that rate change and model it versus different variables in your "game" | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 04:09 PM |
| 3 | What are your favorite cold approaches at a bar?I read "HEY YOU'RE PRETTY" in a patrick star voice (from spongebob) and it fucking killed me | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadindirectly and in word-play mentions sex, but is also a joke. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 11:40 AM |
| 7 | where's the love?You could do it for love. But plenty do it as a game/for sport and/or to just feed narcissism or egos. Others just like the sex, and this is a much much better option than a prostitute. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 11:33 AM |
| 4 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadI think its because online is oversaturated with guys so girls get to raise their standards. Irl way more guys are afraid to approach so the market is in our favor. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadI start with the euphemism and build do being direct. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadIf they don't say they are down for sex I usually won't even meet up; I'm really busy and not trying to waste my time meeting someone for coffee if it isn't getting me anything. And a lot are just reluctant to admit it (Im also college aged which prob helps the demogrpahic) | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadYa I was honestly surprised too with the serious pic thing but it made sense when I thought about how it might make them feel less comfortable with you. Also gym is just something I like, and it helps give me confidence, but plenty of guys who aren't as fit as me do a lot better with women, it's about what works for you | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 11:23 AM |
| 3 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadYa sorta deescalate a bit briefly because I want to focus on them feeling comfortable with me and see me as a clever guy once they have suggested they are open to sex from the initial response. Then try to get them to another platform to talk which for me is usually snapchat. I escalate their, its pretty easy to when you can just send pics lol. I almost always have them send me pics from snapchat to get a better idea of what they look like (tinder can obvi be unreliable with many people). If the… | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 11:21 AM |
| 0 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadI have one mirror pic but its cause its really the best psudeo appropriate photo of me that shows of my abs, but like a beach photo would be better. Also my old method was mentioning something unique in the photos or bio, but then sometimes I found it hard to get into mentioning I was just looking for sex, so now I icebreak with a opener that also breaks that ice. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadI bring up that i'm looking for sex before the meet up, but thats just me. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 01:43 AM |
| 14 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadAs I typed that I'm really questioning my drinking holy shit... | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 01:39 AM |
| 6 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadya sry but im not cool with that. I like keeping this reddit account fairly anon. As a general rule of thumb I've found the first pic should obvi be the best, not a selfie, and you should be having fun in all the pics. My first pic is me at the bar with my shirt mostly unbuttoned with some girl but you can see she is cropped out but enough to see its an attractive girl; my arm is up in this pic and its clear im fit. My second pic is at another bar posing with a bunch of my chick friends, shirt i… | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 01:34 AM |
| 1 | When should you hug a girl?If I am in a social environment (party/bar) then I always hug girls on the greeting. In a professional one though (work, class, or even the gym) I don't, even the same girl who I would hug at the bar. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Um, is it weird that I kinda miss having crushes/oneitis?I never thought about this until you said just said it. Looking back I guess there was something nice to it, but I feel like it is still way more emotional pain than it was enjoyable. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 09:30 PM |
| 21 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadI had my buddies gf pick my pictures and when she did that my match % skyrocketed. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 09:27 PM |
| 4 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadI have never sent an unsolicited dick pick | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadOpener would mention sex or reference it in some way for the reason GreenSleepyPanda listed above. If they respond to me from there it feels like I'm in the clear and basically in their pants already. Just be witty/clever/funny for a few lines. Mention Im looking for something "casual", then offer to send a shirtless picture of myself (I'm into bodybuilding so the abs and oblique lines seal the deal here). | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 09:24 PM |
| 7 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadLegit pretty similar open plan I developed, would always mention sex in my open to see if its worth pursuing based on their response. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 09:21 PM |
| 25 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadI hear that. Also above average looks and strong tinder game but my real life approach needs sharpening. Using tinder at this point feels like just following a formula that Im always tweaking based on the results to the point that if I have a match and get a response I can pretty much always get a date, but in real life I still get some approach anxiety and struggle to assume attraction even when I've caught IOIs. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 09:13 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I have made so much progress with myself, it feels so good.I've never sent an unsolicited dick pic. I have been asked for one a few times after sending shirtless pics. On all occasions it was a fairly attractive girl prob 7-8/10. Im also in incredible shape, I have very defined oblique lines (the V muscles that point toward your dick) and I would guess that seeing those and my abs usually spark the request. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 05:32 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I have made so much progress with myself, it feels so good.assuming this is sarcastic, but either way im not nearly at that level. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 05:31 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I have made so much progress with myself, it feels so good.21 | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Are you short? Wear soles in your shoes.It will accelerate your natural shrinkage but this can also be prolonged with good back and spine stretching. | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 11:45 PM |
| 4 | Are you short? Wear soles in your shoes.Im 5'6. Used to be very fat ~200lbs. Got super into working out and over the course of a few years I lost over 60lbs of bodyfat and then put back on 20lbs in muscle. Now about 155lbs, 12%body fat (this is pretty fit and muscular; had a classmate who I've never talked to about the gym before ask me for advice on his first steroid cycle the other day and tons of juicers at my gym are open to me about their steroid use and bloodwork cause i oftenn get assumed I use but I just workout 2+hours/day, t… | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 11:43 PM |
| 76 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?you're both into air guitars and she wants to come over and check out yours. lol gonna remember this one | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 02:57 AM |
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