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| 1 | So I'm a hardcore people pleaser, which seems like a bad thing for attracting people. My issues mainly come with attempting to make people laugh and not make them mad. How do I break this bad habit?I get what you say but IMO is better to be a people pleaser than a dick. If you are a people pleaser you can get more confident and gain more charisma later. If you are a dick, if you be toxic, if you create tension in a group, you can hardly go back and clean your reputation | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 10:05 PM |
| 57 | So I'm a hardcore people pleaser, which seems like a bad thing for attracting people. My issues mainly come with attempting to make people laugh and not make them mad. How do I break this bad habit?Being a people pleaser, if done without exagerating, is GREAT for the game. Sociable people get laid more and that's a fact despite what PUA and other alpha male wants make you believe. You just have to learn how to "close". Don't be afraid to ask a girl out, don't be afraid to make a move, don't be afraid to tell your feelings. Just do it | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling.I really understand your point. And you are overall right. Women are definetely "victim" of too many random approaches (sexual or not). Just a consideration about the other side: basically about seduction (for men and women) there are 2 ways to meet new people: 1) social circles 2) cold approaches. Now, since we stated that we hate cold approaches, that leaves to social circle dating. I wanna say that I hate it. It's some kind of closed mentality. That also means that if someone has the same fri… | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 05:53 PM |
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