Sedthrowaway14141 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
136	[FR] Girl from class	Field Report	Sedthrowaway14141	/r/seduction	14/12/12 06:10 PM

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2	[FR] Girl from class Have you talked with her at all in class/had eye contact with her? I just started eye contact today before class, she picked up on it. If I hadn't approached her today and tried to on Monday I'm sure she'd have known I pussied out today. And this is the end of the 3rd week of class. I was intentionally going in really strong, but I really felt confident/comfortable while I did it and I'm sure it showed, which is why she totally went for it. You are on the right path though, the more you stand up…	/r/seduction	15/12/12 04:00 AM
5	[FR] Girl from class However, you probably know the dynamic of the lunch better than I do, but it was a little concerning that you were giving her so much attention. You did say her friends weren't being too inclusive though, so I guess there's not too much else you could've done. I think I could have done better, but I don't think I did too badly. The hug thing has been addressed. No need to talk about that Also, next time you write a FR, please just make up names. Unless her >name really was Z, which would be awes…	/r/seduction	15/12/12 03:05 AM
3	[FR] Girl from class I laughed, but I hate you	/r/seduction	15/12/12 02:52 AM
1	[FR] Girl from class Yeah, I had thought about jumping in and making a joke of it. Not really sure why I didn't, I guess I just felt confident and comfortable doing what I did.	/r/seduction	15/12/12 02:52 AM
3	[FR] Girl from class Kino was meh, eye contact was good, confidence/good energy/congruence was great. I didn't yell it though, it was more just because I felt awkward. That said, she didn't express any awkwardness or anything to me, so I don't think she took any notice of it. I think generally seddit is awesome, but sometimes it can cause people (read: me) to over-think certain things. Like, I don't know, saying a weird thing before I hug a girl who is giving me tons of IOIs and who doesn't seem to care about what I…	/r/seduction	15/12/12 02:48 AM
4	[FR] Girl from class Haha, I bet it hurts to read... Every time... But I don't feel too bad about it, it didn't seem awkward (at the time!) and she knew I wasn't looking for a platonic relationship.	/r/seduction	15/12/12 02:44 AM
7	[FR] Girl from class Lol, dunno why either. It just made sense at the time. Also, it was delicious	/r/seduction	15/12/12 02:37 AM
1	[FR] Girl from class Also, women are creatures of subtlety, if you directly say stuff you just >take all the fun out of it for her. I agree, though I'm not yet at the point to guide a relationship in the ways you're suggesting. I still don't approach girls all the time due to my AA, so I'm trying to use direct approach to help relieve some of that anxiety. Also, while I can definitely see the merit in what you're saying (not just here, but in other comments too) and while it may prove to be more effective than anyth…	/r/seduction	14/12/12 10:48 PM
9	[FR] Girl from class I just re-read what I wrote and can completely see how it looks like that, but as far as how I expressed everything I was perfectly calm and extremely confident, the whole time. It's totally possible that it came across as trying hard to her too, but if it did she hid it pretty well.	/r/seduction	14/12/12 10:36 PM
9	[FR] Girl from class First of all, thanks for the advice. You actually don't want her to know you are that into her, that early on. >You want the conversation to be sexual, and you want to make it pretty >clear that you are into her, but in general it is bad to compliment her on >stuff. That's a really good point, and I think that the only thing I complemented her on was her eyes (which I genuinely do think are gorgeous). Furthermore, when you compliment a girl, you should do it because you >want to express to her t…	/r/seduction	14/12/12 10:33 PM
24	[FR] Girl from class Yeah, felt bad then, feels bad now. Oh well, we live and we learn. Thanks for the warning	/r/seduction	14/12/12 08:04 PM
2	[FR] Girl from class Kino is touching - touching someone on the arm while you tease, leading a girl by touching her lower back, a hug, sitting with your arm around a girl - and the main purpose of kino is to make the girl feel more comfortable with your touch, so if you go for a kclose they don't feel like it's too sudden. Rapport (which I'm assuming you don't know) is closeness. The purpose of building rapport with a girl is to make you less of a stranger, which has a huge amount of benefits in the seduction depart…	/r/seduction	14/12/12 08:03 PM
4	[FR] Girl from class Thanks for the advice. I think I did really well for the most part, so even though the hug part was pretty bad she didn't seem put off by it.	/r/seduction	14/12/12 07:58 PM
7	[FR] Girl from class I did try to win them over, but they weren't for it at all. I asked them their names, talked to them briefly about their majors, tried to talk about what everybody did over the summer and what they are into, but her friends only seemed interested in talking about things I'm not a part of (their friends, inside jokes/other inside stuff, etc). I decided I'd let them talk and have a good time, but I made sure I was bringing a lot of positive energy to the group, and with body language made sure HB …	/r/seduction	14/12/12 07:56 PM
6	[FR] Girl from class It felt cringe-worthy at the time, but I knew I needed to end on a note of higher escalation - #close or kclose ideally (but I felt too awkward about it) - and I didn't know how else to initiate it. Fortunately, she did seem to like it. Lots of smiles and blushing and heavy eye contact and such.	/r/seduction	14/12/12 07:51 PM