SeductiveWombat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Girls start out into me, but once I start to like them back, they lose interest in me after about a week. Just from reading the title of your post my best guess is you may be acting needy when hanging out with these girls.	/r/seduction	09/08/15 08:32 AM
0	Is there an appropriate time to admit to a girl you really like her? I'm talking about the subconcious. I thought it was obvious, my mistake.	/r/seduction	04/04/15 04:22 PM
-1	Is there an appropriate time to admit to a girl you really like her? The way you tell a girl you like her ia not an issue of semantics. How you go about this drastically changes the way she percieves you. If you tell a girl "I like you", you immediately pedestalize her. As long as she remains the object of desire, she will never be inclined to chase you. If challenge is not present in a relationship, attraction will never follow. To a girl, "I like you", comes off as a predisposition of desperation, a sign that a guy chose her because he is desperate for her. It …	/r/seduction	04/04/15 03:39 PM
-1	Should I cut contact after rejection? To reiterate, yes, you should cut off all contact. The "lets be friends" talk is the most ingenious social convention. The girl gets all the benefits of having a male friend and his resources, while the male gets nothing. It's basically Parallel to a guy having a fuck buddy, in this instance, thrle male gets most of benefits from this type of relationship, while the girl gets the least from it.	/r/seduction	04/04/15 04:00 AM
1	Is there an appropriate time to admit to a girl you really like her? Although I agree that he seems to be jumping into this rather quickly. You shouldn't have to have sex with a woman before you consider her LTR material. LTR material should consist mostly of personality. If all you have in common is the fact that the two of you are having sex, your relationship is going to fizzle out rather quickly.	/r/seduction	04/04/15 03:45 AM
-6	Is there an appropriate time to admit to a girl you really like her? It's a simple matter of pedestalization. If you overtly tell a girl that you like her, it puts her on a pedestal, which puts her in the dominant posistion. Saying "I like you." first displays beta behavior, which is definately something you do not want to display. When you let the girl say it first, it subconciously increases her investment in you, because she has risked potential rejection.	/r/seduction	04/04/15 03:40 AM
0	When did she lose interest? You didn't mention how long it's been since your initial text. At any rate, I think you're reading into this too much.	/r/seduction	04/04/15 12:37 AM
2	Is there an appropriate time to admit to a girl you really like her? To answer your initial question, after she says she likes you is always preferable. In your personal situation, there really isn't much you can do until after she gets back. When she does get back I'd suggest texting her and asking if you could hang out to catch up on things, ask her about her trip, etc.	/r/seduction	04/04/15 12:23 AM
2	Be your fucking self. Had to make an account for this. But I believe this Quote comes from the great Shark's book, The Black Flag. "If you tell someone who is addicted to Call of Duty, to be himself, he's going to stay home and continue to play Call of Duty. If you tell a huge Harry Potter fan to be himself, he's going to go out on a date acting like a house elf. If you tell a Nazi addicted to Angeldust to just be himself, well, you get the point." It's not enough to be yourself, unless you've found your true self. F…	/r/seduction	02/04/15 04:56 PM