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9

He's not a coach, but there's a guy I follow called Sachin Spell (think he's Indian) on YT and he always seems to have really good interactions with people. I don't know you obviously or know what you look like, but from my guess I'd say your vibe is off. Women pickup on the vibe you're projecting.
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:34 PM
1

You're overthinking it. If you feel desire towards a Woman, show it, don't say it. It's all about your vibes and how you make her feel.
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:21 PM
1

We can seduce each other
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:20 PM
2

If you’ve never been rejected why do you have anxiety about approaching? If I knew Women liked me my confidence would be sky high
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:20 PM
1

14). She rides your face like a rodeo
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:00 AM
4

It's all about your vibe and your mindset. If you approach thinking it's going to be weird and creepy, it will be cause that's the energy you're giving off. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/seduction09/07/25 10:23 AM
1

Maybe you're showing too much interest and it's unconsciously coming off as needy. As someone said in the comments, Women are like Cats. If you give them too much attention they'll get bored and move on. You can show desire towards them without saying words, it's all about your energy.
/r/seduction09/07/25 09:04 AM
9

Women don't want casual sex? Lol Bro Women are just as horny (if not more so) than Men. They're just REALLY good at hiding it because of society. If they know you want to fuck them and you aren't going to judge them for it, you'd be surprised, you just have to own your masculinity.
/r/seduction08/07/25 08:27 PM
1

You can feel handsome and not be arrogant
/r/seduction03/07/25 10:58 AM
2

Bro is suffering from success
/r/seduction29/06/25 07:51 PM
1

His response is the best
/r/seduction29/06/25 10:56 AM
1

I hate these questions. Life doesn't stop when you turn a certain age
/r/seduction09/06/25 10:15 AM
1

Genuine confidence, you really need to love yourself (don't mean that in a vain way). Don't try to compete for attention, it'll just make you look needy.
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:49 PM
1

Totally agree. Innergame is everything
/r/seduction03/06/25 09:15 AM
6

Social proof is important for attracting Women. They don't know who you are. They're only going off how you carry/view yourself and how Women react to you. Say for example you walked into a bar and you're visibly nervous and have jittery body language. Women are very aware of their sorroundings (they'll notice you before you notice them). Immediately they'll be on guard around you (even though you're a nice guy who wouldn't hurt a fly). You try talking to one and they immediately turn their back…
/r/seduction05/05/25 04:26 PM
56

I feel like most guys under-value themselves rather than over-value. But that's just my opinion.
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:32 PM
1

Take her out to church
/r/seduction01/05/25 12:55 AM
2

Yes definitely. You'll often here Women complaining that a guy they liked didn't approach.
/r/seduction25/02/25 08:55 PM
1

What am I doing wrong? You’re not talking to them lol
/r/seduction23/02/25 03:36 PM
1

Yeah my friend who is a Woman fcking sucks at texting (been friends for 14 years). She texts me every single day. She makes statements or just gives bits of information so I have to keep texting (rather than her just telling me what's up etc). I love her to bits, but it's painful sometimes.
/r/seduction20/02/25 08:38 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with wanting to imporve your physique, but you're asking for the ideal physique to attract Women. Don't take this the wrong way, I'm not trying to insult you.
/r/seduction15/02/25 03:21 PM
2

I'll get downvoted for this, but some of y'all are doing too much
/r/seduction15/02/25 03:00 PM
3

Yeah they are so naughty lol when they walk past you they just grind their breasts on you as you walk past
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:45 PM
3

There's a guy I know who's tall (6'5). Women only seem to be interested in his height. I always wonder if it makes him a bit insecure (as weird as that sounds). I've noticed he does get a bit jealous if I start getting attention though. He likes to throw his weight around. All that glitters ain't gold buddy. That's all I'm going to say.
/r/seduction30/01/25 04:37 PM
2

OLD is boring though, I'd much rather meet people IRL and enjoy the connection.
/r/seduction22/01/25 09:26 PM
7

You've just got to be more confident/cocky with British Women otherwise they'll eat you alive
/r/seduction22/01/25 09:24 PM
1

Yeah agreed
/r/seduction22/01/25 09:19 PM
22

I think guys who overcomplicate approaching Women are autistic because they need structure to help them try to understand Women. That's why a lot of autistic guys struggle with Women the most because they don't think and act like Men.
/r/seduction22/01/25 09:09 PM
10

They don't matter AS MUCH as they do for Men.
/r/seduction22/01/25 08:47 PM
1

Exactly. It's not what you say, but HOW you say it. It's all about the emotions and how you make her feel
/r/seduction12/01/25 02:56 PM
2

Maybe it's just me but holding hands on the first date seems a bit too intimate?
/r/seduction07/01/25 10:45 PM
5

This is the best response
/r/seduction07/01/25 10:43 PM
5

Yeah I used to know this girl who was deeply religious, but at the same time she was a freak lol
/r/seduction03/01/25 11:49 PM
0

Yeah exactly, your whole demeanour changes depending on the thoughts you listen too.
/r/seduction02/01/25 01:41 AM
4

As a Man YOU have to lead the conversation, you set the energy, the tone etc. Imagine you got approached by a random Woman who even though she liked you, looked bored, who didn't want to be there. You'd match her energy too and the whole interaction would be weird af. I'm not saying be high energy, but just SHOW interest and desire towards her. You'll be surprised at how 180 your conversations will change with Women in general.
/r/seduction15/12/24 06:14 PM
24

That's too direct. It's called game for a reason
/r/seduction15/12/24 01:48 PM
-8

Looks don't matter as much to Women as it does to Men.
/r/seduction02/12/24 07:54 PM
1

Stop waisting energy on toxic Women
/r/seduction02/12/24 07:21 PM
10

It was quite seductive tbh
/r/seduction02/12/24 07:07 PM
6

No, but overthinking it is
/r/seduction29/11/24 08:42 PM
1

Exactly. It doesn't matter what you look like, as long as you look like you take pride in your appearance.
/r/seduction29/11/24 03:56 PM
0

It's all about confidence. A guy can have a 6 pack and be really insecure and use it to try and get attention from Women. Their actions will repell Women.
/r/seduction29/11/24 10:19 AM
2

For the time being, forget about Women. Put it at the back of your mind. It's not important right now. What's important is focusing on your mental health. It can either be your best friend, or your worst enemy. Get into a routine of meditating daily. I know you can do this because you want too.
/r/seduction28/11/24 11:23 PM
1

That doesn't really matter. What matters is here and now and right now you make an impact on people big or small. It's like a ripple effect. It doesn't seem like it now, but there's always light at the end of the tunnel. You CAN get help.
/r/seduction28/11/24 11:13 PM
7

Really sorry to hear you’re going through something rough at the moment. The world is a better place with you in it
/r/seduction28/11/24 09:52 PM
1

That's awesome to hear! You'll find when you're not stuck in your head Women connect with you so much easier. It's all about the vibes Man
/r/seduction28/11/24 10:51 AM
19

They have confidence in themselves and they are creating sexual tension. It doesn't really matter what you say, it's HOW you say it that matters. The guys that get it, get it. The guys who don’t are too stuck in their heads.
/r/seduction27/11/24 07:45 PM
6

OLD bores me. You don't get the same connection as when you approach someone IRL. Plus they could be totally different online compared to meeting face-to-face.
/r/seduction27/11/24 07:18 PM
2

I love your energy, I saw you over there and had to come over to meet you
/r/seduction25/11/24 07:02 PM
1

Guys really don't understand the power of harnessing their sexual energy. They waste it all away to porn.
/r/seduction24/11/24 04:47 PM
1

100% The mind can either make you or brake you
/r/seduction20/11/24 11:50 AM
32

Not you, you silly goose
/r/seduction18/11/24 10:41 PM
20

Are you free for a coffee on Saturday?
/r/seduction18/11/24 09:43 PM
5

It's a bad idea buddy. If shes not into you it'll just create an awkward atmosphere.
/r/seduction17/11/24 10:38 AM
0

Why don't you just ask her?
/r/seduction16/11/24 08:21 PM
3

Dude you're over-thinking it. You want sex, she wants sex. She wants to know what you want to do to her. Build up sexual tension by writing small sentences rather than whole paragraphs. It'll keep her guessing and excited. It's like writing a story, you need to build up the atmosphere rather than just writing the plot.
/r/seduction14/11/24 11:10 PM
-1

Dirty talk
/r/seduction14/11/24 08:08 PM
0

Without seeing you approach it’s hard to pinpoint a reason Maybe you’re unconsciously giving off needy energy (enthusiasm) to the younger Women because you find them to be more attractive.
/r/seduction13/11/24 11:02 PM
17

Think of it as an overall attitude. You feel handsome, so you act handsomely. You speak more slowly, there’s more confidence and energy behind your words. You’ll notice when you talk to a Woman they listen more to HOW you say something, rather than what you’re actually saying.
/r/seduction12/11/24 07:02 PM
3

Yes that's a given
/r/seduction12/11/24 05:30 PM
486

Create sexual tension. It's all about the tonality of your voice, eye contact, projecting good energy and having confidence in yourself. This will make her feel disered. Remeber, you are a Man and she is a Woman. Be in your body in the present, not stuck in your head thinking of what to say next. Women really aren't as complicated as some guys make them out to be.
/r/seduction12/11/24 12:08 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction10/11/24 07:55 PM
8

I can't remeber where I saw it but a guy went round asking Women which do they prefer more, dating apps or meeting guys IRL. Every one of them chose meeting IRL because of the connection and they can feel the guy out. You can't get that on a dating app. I'm handsome and I've never used dating apps before. I wish I used it when it first came out, but now it seems so pointless. You're competing against hundreds (if not thousands) of Men. Even if you have your photography on point and have a good s…
/r/seduction10/11/24 07:19 PM
15

It's wild how desperate and lonely some Men are. It's like you see some handsome Men with some Women that look questionable and the dudes never look happy.
/r/seduction10/11/24 06:18 PM
50

A lot of fake bots or scamming
/r/seduction07/11/24 12:58 PM
1

🚩 Seems sus
/r/seduction07/11/24 12:13 AM
1

I think it's natural for Women to do that, as they talk with their bodies
/r/seduction06/11/24 10:08 PM
1

Showing genuine interest
/r/seduction04/11/24 01:26 PM
8

I feel like Men improve with age I'm 32 but I feel like I understand Women better than I did in my 20s.
/r/seduction28/10/24 05:27 PM
5

Strut over to her like Vince McMahon
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:29 PM
2

Well judging by your paragraph it sounds like you've got low self-esteem. Women can pick up on that a mile away. Remember she doesn't know who you are. You have to make her feel at ease. Next time, give her a warm smile and talk slowly and deeply from your chest. Believe that you're worthy of her. And get rid of that beta mindset.
/r/seduction25/10/24 04:22 PM
11

It means you're handsome but you don't act like it. You need to do some inner work to get your confidence up. I'm in the same place tbh. I'm not a 10, I'm handsome but I have low confidence in myself. Currently focusing on innergame atm. When you get your confidence up you'll notice you become more polarising. Some people will love you and other people (including friends) will hate the new you. Don't let their jealousy try to diminish your confidence.
/r/seduction25/10/24 03:36 PM
4

3.95 billion Women?
/r/seduction19/10/24 12:30 PM
1

3). She sits on your face. That’s a big IOI
/r/seduction18/10/24 10:17 PM
2

Ellow ellow ellow homeslice
/r/seduction16/10/24 04:01 PM
1

Teasing
/r/seduction15/10/24 07:46 PM
10

Possibly cause when you're trying to be funny, you're in your head and you're trying too hard. When you're not trying to be funny, you're actually connecting with her.
/r/seduction15/10/24 07:43 PM
2

When porn became more readily available and we all started having mobiles. Porn turns Men into weak simps.
/r/seduction14/10/24 09:49 AM
1

Unfortunately as cliche as it is, but you must be confident in yourself. Women will be able to sense you're insecure about your height.
/r/seduction11/10/24 04:31 PM
1

No. I've seen some questionable people in relationships. At the end of the day, it all comes down to confidence
/r/seduction09/10/24 01:53 PM
20

I take my hat off to anyone that goes out to nightclubs solo. I couldn’t do it.
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:32 PM
12

It's taken me a long-ass time to realise I'm attractive. Too long. When you're attractive and have low self-esteem/confidence, SOME people will use that against you by bullying you to make them feel better about themselves. It's like when I used to go out for meals and drinks at night with my friends, they'd be fine with me until I started getting attention from Women, then they'd turn on me and the atmosphere would become toxic. It was always me. If any of my friends got attention they'd be fin…
/r/seduction23/09/24 09:41 AM
47

Talk about Quantum physics. Women love that 💦
/r/seduction18/09/24 06:42 PM
3

You don’t have to agree with, it’s just my own observations
/r/seduction10/09/24 12:05 PM
38

. Women aren’t as complicated or mean as Men make them out to be . Women pay more attention to your vibe and tonality than what you’re actually saying. . Women are a lot hornier than Men . Being authentic and direct with your intentions will get you far with Women . It’s okay to feel nervous, she feels nervous too. Own it.
/r/seduction10/09/24 11:37 AM
11

I'd say I'm average and I've had success with Women. It's all about your vibe.
/r/seduction06/09/24 11:05 PM
1

I've improved my mental health and it's massively improved my interactions with Women.
/r/seduction03/09/24 06:14 PM
7

She's basically saying she wants you to Man up and take control of the situation
/r/seduction01/09/24 09:07 PM
19

When you get older you’ll realise nothing is worth that headache
/r/seduction24/08/24 07:36 PM
17

As long as you’re not staring, there’s nothing to be ashamed of. It’s natural
/r/seduction21/08/24 01:27 PM
1

Women aren’t that bothered about that type of stuff like Men are. Improve your mental health and you’ll naturally become more charismatic
/r/seduction16/08/24 04:48 PM
6

Sorry if this is forward, but do you have low self-esteem?
/r/seduction04/08/24 07:26 PM
40

Your mindset is screwing you over. Nothing will change until you change your mindset. Believe you’re handsome and Women who you’re attracted too are equals.
/r/seduction04/08/24 04:08 PM
18

I'm born British but I did live in the US for a few years
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:58 AM
30

American Women are down to earth compared to British Women.
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:08 AM
9

Touch them back, just don't make it feel weird when you do. So do it with confidence like you always touch Women
/r/seduction27/07/24 06:55 AM
2

You’re getting downvoted but you’re right
/r/seduction26/07/24 09:31 AM
0

So then what he’s saying is right. You need personality too cause looks aren’t AS important to Women as they are too Men. At the end of the day, confidence is king.
/r/seduction26/07/24 08:33 AM
1

You need to have an approachable vibe about you for it to work. If you go out with nervous energy, constantly looking around the room and get overstimulated being around people you need to work on yourself.
/r/seduction24/07/24 01:01 PM
3

Bring a voltage battery with you next time
/r/seduction22/07/24 04:02 PM
4

It's probably because you're coming off as too friendly and agreeable. I had the same problem until I started flirting with them
/r/seduction22/07/24 10:17 AM
10

Own your masculinity. Don't apologise for being attracted to a Woman. Realise that Women want sex just as much (if not more) than Men. There's nothing wrong with feeling attraction.
/r/seduction19/07/24 10:38 PM
9

You don't understand Womanese
/r/seduction19/07/24 08:07 PM
3

Never really thought about that before. I don’t get why some people are like this. Narcissists always show themselves up
/r/seduction19/07/24 07:58 PM
3

If you react and try to prove yourself, they've won. That's what they want. Best thing to do is literally just ignore it and continue being confident in your masculinity. Don't give him ANY attention when he's like that (just like you would with a bratty Woman). The less you react to negative things, the quicker they will move on because they aren't getting the reaction they want.
/r/seduction19/07/24 02:50 PM
45

There's a guy I know that gets a lot of attention from Women. He's tall (6'3), looks fairly average but he just oozes confidence (you can't fake that, especially around Women) and he really doesn't care what people think about him. Weirdly though, the second I get attention from Women he becomes petty and tries to emasculate me. Doesn't seem to do this with anyone else as far as I'm aware. But it made me realise that he's just as insecure as anyone else. The fact that he does that makes me think…
/r/seduction18/07/24 09:35 PM
6

Cause sex is the most intimate form of intamacy and Women love that shit.
/r/seduction17/07/24 05:10 PM
6

Don’t recommend this at all. You don’t want STDs.
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:46 PM
3

She straddles your face
/r/seduction13/07/24 03:22 PM
2

It's a vicious cycle tbh. Men feel like they're ugly, they try talking to a Woman (but she senses he has low self-esteem and/or is giving off desperate energy), she's rude to him or just totally ignores him and in his mind, this just confirms he's ugly. It's taken me years to realise I'm attractive. Women act different when you start believing it.
/r/seduction12/07/24 09:20 PM
19

And yet you always hear Women complaining that guys aren't approaching them anymore
/r/seduction12/07/24 08:33 AM
1

Don't say I didn't warn you buddy 🤷
/r/seduction09/07/24 03:24 PM
6

Cry infront of your girl and watch how quickly her feelings change
/r/seduction09/07/24 11:40 AM
6

Okay next time I go out I'm dressing up as Dracula. I'll get all the bitches.
/r/seduction09/07/24 11:39 AM
0

Yeah but it's rude to ask for some gorilla grip 3000
/r/seduction05/07/24 12:47 PM
149

So I stood up to my toxic supervisor because she was being a bully and no one was putting her in her place, so in spite she went around spreading rumours that I was crying over a girl. It was pure jealousy. Anyway because she's so manipulative, the Women at work turned against me and the atmosphere became toxic. So in answer to your question, yes.
/r/seduction19/06/24 10:28 PM
1

Can you not tell he's a troll?
/r/seduction15/06/24 07:20 PM
17

Public transport Festivals/gigs Protests (reminds me of the Always Sunny episode) Museums/art galleries Airports/train stations Weddings Beaches Local tourist attractions Libraries
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:14 PM
7

Who Owen Cook? I always wondered if he had some form of autism
/r/seduction14/06/24 08:15 PM
4

Wow wow wow easy there tiger, hand holding is a bit too intimate, especially over the phone.
/r/seduction13/06/24 04:52 PM
2

The part about the Aura is so damn true. How you talk to yourself is so important
/r/seduction12/06/24 02:31 PM
2

It's most likely the vibe you're giving off. When I'm at work I lose confidence in myself because it's a toxic work envrinment. I probably come ass needy and insecure. When I'm not at work Women check me out and it's probably cause I FEEL handsome and confident.
/r/seduction11/06/24 08:18 AM
2

If Men stopped putting up with their entitled behaviour, Women would quickly change their attitude.
/r/seduction10/06/24 05:26 PM
6

He's being sarcastic lol I'd be like a kid in a candy store
/r/seduction10/06/24 03:16 AM
19

She’s trying to seduce you with her horniness
/r/seduction09/06/24 10:55 PM
4

If you REALLY want to get with Women you need to change your defeatist attitude. Unfortunately no one can do this for you, but you. Start doing affirmations daily. It’ll take time to change your mentality, but with determination you can do it.
/r/seduction07/06/24 03:20 PM
4

If you look intimidating, smile. Don't be robotic and emotionless.
/r/seduction07/06/24 09:31 AM
1

Language barrier, but other than that Women are pretty much the same as anywhere else.
/r/seduction07/06/24 09:02 AM
1

Stop ranking them. You ranking them as 9 or 10 is putting them on a pedestal. View her as your equal. Flirt.
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:07 AM
0

Maybe he's autistic 🤷
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:04 AM
3

If you're getting online results that means you're attractive. You just need to work on your approach and vibe. It sounds woo-woo but Women really do check out a guys vibe.
/r/seduction06/06/24 11:51 PM
4

Honestly the best thing you can do is come off as a fuck boy.
/r/seduction06/06/24 11:50 PM
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