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Blue Pill Brigading-Voting skewedSee_Monkey_Doo/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 03:45 AM
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Great FR man. Im about a year in too, its helpful to see a brothers perspective. You seem to be taking the good with the bad and not getting to excited about either one. Enjoying the ride though. Have you read meditations? Its really helping me get perspective on whats important and what doesn't fucking matter, which is most of it. My goal for this year is to stay disciplined, keep up the effort, but also to just really let myself enjoy it and have fun. That's the pirate booty right?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 03:51 AM
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Makes sense to start your "resolutions" on the solstice, which is an actual thing, the days start getting longer, rather than New Years Eve, which is arbitrary. In terms of behavior modification.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 03:45 AM
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Fuckarounditis. Yes, this. Ill find stronglifts today.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 02:51 PM
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2/11/16 My mission is to improve every day until I am physically and mentally stronger than ever. Background: 41, married fifteen years. Swallowed the pill 15 months ago and have had a rollercoaster of improvement. I feel good to be back in my own frame, captaining my ship, and having (more, but still not enough) great sex. Physical: C-. I am making gains in the gym, and it has become my refuge. I average about 3 sets of 8 reps for 10 variations, 3 times a week. I am lifting as heavy as I can to…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 09:44 AM
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You are getting truth bombed. The only way you (might) get her back is to LET HER GO. Seriously. Plan your escape. A year from now you will be on your own. If you believe that, you might not be.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 07:54 AM
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So true. Anger comes from ego, and also from fear. I get angry when I am scared that things are out of my control. They relate, because both ego and fear arise from not truly accepting things exactly as they are...wishing they were somehow different. My anger almost went away entirely as I internalized the reality of the moment. And in this moment, almost always, you are in control, and you are just fine. No reason to get mad.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 09:08 AM
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40 years old. I've been back in the gym for the first time since high school, just this year. Started, of course, to fix my marriage. That's working. But it's not just working because I look better. That inner strength Rollins describes is really attractive. I can literally feel my backbone is more supported, my spine. There is a reason people say, "he has no backbone." I also relate it to Frame. As my physical frame strengthens through resistance, so does my mental frame in resilience. I am sta…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 08:35 AM
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"Lots of people talkin, few of them know..." Those podcasts launched me into this. Much gratitude.
/r/askMRP25/05/16 11:29 AM
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At /r/fitness they call this "cutting and bulking."
/r/askMRP25/05/16 03:58 AM
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True. We don't want broken people. With my wife, it's more of an opening, a surrender. She relaxes, unclenches. This makes her more vulnerable to orgasm. Which is really the kind of breaking I meant. It's a tipping point, yes.
/r/askMRP25/05/16 03:56 AM
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I get what everyone is saying here. Acta, Non Verba, and I agree. I am seeing the power in that more and more each day. In this case, it was less of a proclamation than a realization. I saw it. I saw what was wrong, I felt it, and I said it. More to myself than anyone else. Maybe too soon, but maybe not. I've been rabbit-holing for the better part of a year. I have read that the captain/first officer relation ship is one of the few things that it's beneficial to explain out loud. It makes sense …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/16 08:40 PM
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What does that mean? Blue pill brigading, voting skewed?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 10:14 PM
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Even while I was the Drunk Captain, i was STILL the Captain. I just forgot to do it for a while. That's why I apologized, and thanked her for taking the helm in my absence. I got lost in Captains Quarters with a barrel of Rum. My bad. I'm back now. I'll take it from here. That's what I am trying to tell others here. If you are married, you are the captain. You are either performing that duty well or you are not. You do not have to re-gain the power because you never lost it. You don't need to ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 08:52 PM
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Incredible. Thanks. I just read that post. He said it better, but that's exactly what I was thinking: "When we are not leading our life, we can’t lead our family. And when we aren’t leading our family, we are just a drunk captain. Many of us that find MRP found ourselves realizing this, and want to captain right away. Some here argue with their wives telling them they have to follow their lead. This doesn’t inspire leadership or trust, in fact, it erodes it. Think of any boss you have had that i…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 08:30 PM
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Absolutely Professor! I did listen to your course on YouTube (while lifting) and this reverberated with me so much. Made it so easy to give up drinking and get my head back on straight, so Thank You. You may have saved not only my marriage, but my life. The Captain/FO model for relationships is spot on, and so beautiful given the contradictory expectations of modern marriage. The realization I had above was taking it further, with my house as the ship and my kids as the crew. I realized how we a…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 08:10 PM
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Argh! Bring on the Storm Mate! It invigorates the blood in me veins!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 04:14 PM
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I started out here wanting more sex from my unresponsive wife. So, yeah, I want the dopamine rush that comes with amazing sex, just like you. Now, I realize that what I actually want is larger than that. I want the peace of mind that comes with being a confident, visionary man who leads an awesome life without regret. The sex is a symptom of being self-actualized, not the goal itself. Do you agree?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 04:10 PM
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However, Its her arousal that you are after. Good to keep the goal in mind. Right now I am still all about the process than the outcome. Working hard on outcome independence and IDGAF. Letting go of a dependence on her approval (or anyone's) for my self-worth. I am beginning to see more physical response from her -- tiny tingles-- but also, trying not to really care. Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's the mindset I'm working with.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 02:20 PM
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I'd take that bet. Except I'm off beer for a while. As you can tell, it wasn't helping me much. My functioning alcoholism was probably my biggest Beta-crutch. Drunk Captain I have been. It's funny. I never went to AA or rehab, but I tried a lot of different advice and programs and resolutions. Nothing really worked until RP truth: Less Beer = More Sex. Nothing like appealing to your Primal Motivations as motivation to change your life. I don't see where in this post I am showering anyone with lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 02:00 PM
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Set the standard from which all others will be measured. Yes. This. This post was more about MY realization than my declaration to the family. Maybe it's Newbie, but it finally sank in, that I am in charge, 24/7. Whatever the mess, I made it. Whatever the success, I own it. Also, it's written out of context. This is my first real post here, so you guys have no way of knowing. I swallowed the pill late last summer, and it has been a wild ride. Started lifting right away, and I'm still discovering…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 01:41 PM
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