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| 1 | Marriage is a substitute for love.I'm happy to be married. My wife is great. Never regretted it a day in my life. Treats me like a king, is totally devoted. We very obviously love each other like crazy. We're "that" couple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 05:39 PM |
| 0 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averagePeople care about promiscuity because it's a reflection of the kind of partner they will be (on average). I would prefer to be with a woman who has abused all of her previous partners but treats me like a king, rather than a saint who beats me. I still don't seek out abusers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 02:55 AM |
| 4 | In your experience, are women on Reddit representative of women in real life? If so, what motivates you to still participate in dating?No, people on Reddit are usually way more fucked in the head | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 09:21 PM |
| 10 | Husband confessed to meFrom what I've seen, I know there are therapists that will give advice designed to indirectly undermine a relationship their client is in if they think it's unhealthy. They shouldn't, and probably on paper are not allowed to, but I've seen this happen with friends. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/24 06:01 AM |
| 0 | Insane disrespect from wife (but only on “bitch week”I don't really recommend this, as it's just kicking the can down the road, but you can get her on the type of birth control where she will no longer have periods. I think you should leave her. If you aren't willing to, you can do this instead. | /r/askMRP | 01/08/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Insane disrespect from wife (but only on “bitch week”This is insane. Normal women do not act like this. Never, ever have a kid with this woman. There's nothing to salvage, make your peace with that now. You need to leave. Record the abuse and leave. Your wife is an abuser without any real remorse. And by your own admission it's getting worse. She would abuse your children too, and with kids she'd only have more leverage over you. She apologizes for her own sake, she has no genuine remorse, and your repeated forgiveness has proven to her that even … | /r/askMRP | 01/08/24 01:42 PM |
| – | Do you consider it a red flag when a woman is a feminist?You can talk the normie ones out of it, I have many times. But if they're True Believers I wouldn't bother. Would be like a black chick dating a klansman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 03:45 AM |
| 2 | On the dating book for women "Why men love bitches"My wife did the opposite of everything the book mentioned and it's a core part of why I married her. She was genuine, willing to be vulnerable, wore her heart on her sleeve, and didn't play games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Us women always have orbiters, yes us older ones tooBy her own admission she's fat and 41. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Us women always have orbiters, yes us older ones tooThis whole thing is an incredible self own and you don't have the self awareness to see it. Good luck, I'm sure your story has a happy ending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Signs your date is probably bad news: If they come with a victim complex higher than Mt Everest. Everybody is out to get them, and it seems they are a magnet for the dregs of society or something.I dunno. You can find victim mentality guys in the RP world, but I think it's at least as likely to lead men out of that mindset. I don't feel like a victim, and think that RP concepts have added to my past relationships and especially to my marriage. My wife and I are very happy, neither of us are victims. We've found something great despite living in a culture with a lot of toxic messaging. I don't feel the need to spend a ton of time on RP forums, but that's not the same as not being RP. I've… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Self improvement is quite limited for menThe difference in the level of attention I got from attractive women when I went from an average build to muscular and very lean was wild. Can confirm. Upper body strength correlates with dating success for men. No, you don't need to look like a prime Jay Cutler, but let's be honest, that's not in the cards for 99 percent of men anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:51 AM |
| 2 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"OG Red Pill is absolutely better but I don't think it's accurate to say most women would be fine with it (or even understand it). But a lot of people who call themselves red pill are black pilled as fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:39 AM |
| -1 | Are there more red pillers or blue pillers?Most have some of both, but there's a spectrum. Women lean a bit more blue because they tend to take dominant cultural narratives at face value, and it's less crucial to their dating success to understand how things actually work. Most men who actually date successfully have some red in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:31 AM |
| 2 | The standards of "not fat" and "no kids" are the BARE MINIMUM, not "extremely high". Bluepillers are disingenuously abusing semantics and population statistics to try to shame men out of having any standards at all.It's pretty easy dating younger if you're even moderately attractive and charming. I sure as fuck did not have much money, but did better with women in their early twenties in my thirties than when I was around their age. Don't take women's stated preferences too seriously, they don't actually know what they want. You have to show them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:15 AM |
| 5 | If a guy's GF/wife gets raped, how long do you think he should be willing to stick around with no sexual intimacy?It sucks, but you don't need a dick to use your mouth or toys. If he's not willing to make up for it in other ways she should leave, 100 percent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:52 PM |
| 2 | I always wondered... those of yall who dont want to date ppl who have been in situationships, polyamorous arrangements, ONSs etc... how will you know someone had a "hoe" phase??You actually can ask about somebody's history fyi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Question for Women: Is it true that you lose respect for men who perform oral sex on you?Nobody really believes this. RP isn't Junior Soprano's friend group lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 05:38 AM |
| 3 | Question for Women: Is it true that you lose respect for men who perform oral sex on you?Who cares. It's a preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 04:17 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Women make for much better dating coaches than malesIn this context I don't think it would matter much tbh. It's genuinely not a complicated problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 01:56 AM |
| 9 | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.It just is. If you wanna be a complacent failure as a man, you can fixate on it being unfair. But life isn't fair, and if the "price" I have to pay to be a successful man in a happy marriage is to push myself harder than most, then good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 07:56 PM |
| 21 | CMV: Women make for much better dating coaches than malesThis is like saying men make better sex therapists because they watch more porn and are hornier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | When looking for dating advice, the best people to give it would be those who are not that different from you when it comes to attractiveness, but has been more successful than you to get a decent partnerIf they tell you not to jump off a cliff, then yes, listen to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 09:30 PM |
| 3 | When looking for dating advice, the best people to give it would be those who are not that different from you when it comes to attractiveness, but has been more successful than you to get a decent partnerSomeone needs to be the Freddie Roach of dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | "Dont date when you're young, first get rich and fix your life" redpill advice, is the dumbest bs that i have ever heard.I've definitely seen this. It's depressing going to a wedding and seeing that the bride and groom have zero chemistry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | "Dont date when you're young, first get rich and fix your life" redpill advice, is the dumbest bs that i have ever heard.I'm not saying it's bad to be discerning. I'm saying it's best to get your shit together asap if you're looking for a good marriage/kids. It took me longer than some to do that. If I didn't marry a younger woman, I would've had to let go of having kids. And it really does get tougher to find a good LTR as you age, dating younger women is kind of a hack for that but it's a risky thing to bank on. This is especially true for women, who are generally less interested in younger men. But men have a c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | "Dont date when you're young, first get rich and fix your life" redpill advice, is the dumbest bs that i have ever heard.The longer you wait to look for something serious, the more people who are genuinely capable of healthy LTRs will be off the market. And I think with people who avoid LTRs, you're just looking at a different type of attachment issue - anxious dismissive/anxious avoidant is a pain in the ass to date. I got married older than average because I had to feel absolutely positive she was the right choice. Had other options earlier on, but I could see problems on the horizon, even if they couldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 12:48 PM |
| 2 | "Dont date when you're young, first get rich and fix your life" redpill advice, is the dumbest bs that i have ever heard.It's up to you how you want to use it. The average red pill guy is probably more short term oriented, and I've gotten a bit of flak here and there for getting married. But there's really nothing that says you can't successfully apply it to LTRs. Married red pill is a slightly different beast but the core still applies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 12:41 PM |
| 3 | "Dont date when you're young, first get rich and fix your life" redpill advice, is the dumbest bs that i have ever heard.It's where they have you start because if you don't at the very least do that there's 0 chance you're seriously going to push yourself through all of the discomfort required. It's solid (if banal) advice, but also a filtering mechanism. New red pill could use more filtering tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Korean men are turning to AI to get dates for themIt's funny, I've interacted with a few Koreans (men and women) while drinking, in the US. The men told me how terrible the women were, the women told me how terrible the men were. I kept thinking "it sounds like you're both right". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 09:43 PM |
| 5 | "Dont date when you're young, first get rich and fix your life" redpill advice, is the dumbest bs that i have ever heard.I think it's a wild misinterpretation of monk mode. But not dating when you're young would be crazy. When I met my wife my life was not in a great place. I still had her chasing me and voluntarily living in my frame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:12 PM |
| – | Are there any legitimately redpilled women on this sub? Are there redpilled women anywhere?My wife is deep red in terms of beliefs and how she behaves in a marriage, but knows very little about RP. Most women like her know very little about RP and aren't attracted to communities like this one. Her internet usage is mostly food/pet related stuff. Edit: it depends what you mean by red. I don't see Pearl as a serious RPW but as a grifter with substantial mental health issues. What I mean is that my wife is not promiscuous, prefers complementarian, male led relationships where the man is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?Just wanna thank you again for not reproducing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?Spare me. If they believe their genes aren't worth passing on, who am I to disagree? People that say they shouldn't have kids are usually right. Often not for the reasons they think, but that doesn't matter much edit: You've already made it clear you don't give a shit about anything that doesn't affect you personally, so why do you even care that I'm grateful you're an evolutionary dead end? You'll never interact with me, and you won't have to see how you're immediately forgotten after you die, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 05:49 AM |
| 3 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?I'm not a nihilist, and I don't exclusively care about the world wrt how it affects me in the present. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 05:30 AM |
| 5 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?Yes, very much so. I don't want to be the last of my line, I feel an obligation to have a large family and raise them well. Luckily my wife could not be more on board. I'm sure she'll be exemplary as a mother when we get to that point; she's already an amazing wife, and has the traits that she needs in spades. Our marriage is strong enough to handle any challenges that come our way. Edit: Makes me happy to read the replies. The kinds of people that shouldn't be having kids already don't want em. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:45 AM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.So I think there are three types of women when it comes to this. The first is a type that both hardcore feminists and anti-feminists pretend is much rarer than she actually is. She might define herself as feminist in a wishy washy way. Defines it as "something something equality". Might be somewhat misandrist, but you can tell it doesn't run deep. This kind of woman, if she respects you, is actually pretty easy to deconvert. She's probably never heard of Baumeister, doesn't know about sentencing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:21 AM |
| 5 | My boyfriend doesn't want me at his girl best friend's birthday partyOvernight? And he didn't ask if you could attend? Not saying he's cheating, from your description probably not, but at the very least it demonstrates very odd boundaries. I'd be shocked if he'd be okay if you wanted to do something like this. Very weird. Not saying you have to throw a tantrum but maybe it's time to be clear about boundaries. There's no good reason for him not to take you if this is such an important event to him. If he can't be reasoned with about something as straightforwardly … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/24 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Spouse First or Parent FirstYes. I am the poster child for parents putting their kid well before each other. It did me no favors, I grew up explicitly thinking that if I ended up marrying and having kids, I wouldn't do things like they did. Prioritizing your marriage/partner does not mean that you don't feed your kid, or make some sacrifices of your own comfort, especially when the kid is a baby. It means that you model a strong relationship in which your partner is your priority, and you should do that not only to maintai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Do you expect women to cook for you during the “talking stage”?Right. I didn't expect it. But there's a pretty strong correlation between a woman offering that unprompted and being a damn solid partner. It's a rare, very green flag. It's a wonderful way of displaying a nurturing, feminine nature. My wife made a point of it, I didn't marry her for her cooking, but it was a good indicator of the kind of partner she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men should ever show emotion in front of a woman?I'm pretty red but I don't get this. Yes, being stoic is good. Yes, there is such a thing as over sharing and showing too much weakness. But the idea that a woman who loves you is gonna burn everything down because you have a moment of weakness has not been my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 08:54 PM |
| – | "Be a guy with things going on in your life"Well, that's fair. It might be an issue with where you're fishing, then. Have you been able to keep women excited about you long term in the past, or is this a recurring thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:08 PM |
| – | "Be a guy with things going on in your life"I think that they might say you could incorporate some more mixed gender activities/social groups.. but that having been said, your activities aren't the problem. You have interesting hobbies that keep you fit and hopefully attractive. You make money, are successful. Of course you can always build on that, but it doesn't sound like this is the main aspect holding you back. This is a big part of it but not everything. If I were you, I would practice chatting up everyone, until it's second nature.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:02 PM |
| – | 4th date and grabbed her butt deeply while we were kissing goodbye. I hope I didn't creep her out?If she likes you and there is even a shred of chemistry, you're fine, stop worrying. If you apologize and are weird about this you will make it weird for her too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 09:03 PM |
| – | 4th date and grabbed her butt deeply while we were kissing goodbye. I hope I didn't creep her out?I can't think back to any woman who actually liked me who would've been put off by a butt squeeze after four dates and making out on a couch. If she didn't like it, she's probably not into you and you misjudged the chemistry. If that's the case, move on, get better at creating chemistry and reading people. If she hasn't given you a reason to think she's offended, then don't make one up in your head - you'd just be making your own insecurity her problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 08:32 PM |
| 7 | Should I withhold sex till marriage?Are you sure you want to marry him? Everything except your words screams "NO!". You're either in denial about wanting to marry him, or you're stuck in a cycle of playing relationship sabotaging games. I'm skeptical that you're going to marry this guy. You aren't clueless, you know that suddenly stopping sex is going to be a massive negative for your relationship, and your stipulation that you'd give blowjobs instead makes zero sense from a religious perspective. The fact that blowjobs don't feel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated things when it comes to relationshipsAgree. Similar goals and values, complementary personalities. If you have that, there is no way you won't find fun things to do together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Unsatisfied with fiancé, should I break up?Have you ever checked whether your symptoms might be related to borderline personality disorder? You sound a lot like an ex I had that struggled with it. Your comments demonstrate a pattern of irrational and harmful behavior, and you seem to struggle with self awareness or understanding what is appropriate in a given situation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/24 08:08 PM |
| 2 | You struggle with dating because you live in a large cityI think whenever you're set up to do so. I didn't try going out of my area til my early 30s, after a bad breakup and getting fed up with the local scene | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 10:47 PM |
| 3 | You struggle with dating because you live in a large cityThe correct thing is to do both. Get jacked, financially successful, make sure your style and social skills are as on point as they can be. Then date in your city, but also be aware of options in different parts of the country/world. I met my wife by accident during a lonely phase where I just talked a lot to people all over the world. While not explicitly searching, I found the quality of conversation (and of human beings) much higher than when I just looked at dating apps for my city. I talked… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 05:28 PM |
| – | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.Women (like the OP, not the sane ones) think men and women are hiveminds. She sounds pretty young, not bright, and neurotic. There's security in the herd for women like this, even though it fucks up their development. Women who act like the OP are solipsists, so they assume all are hive mind creatures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 12:23 AM |
| 8 | Do you feel like the sexual revolution benefits men more than women?I think the way to phrase it would be: if you look at the group of people who benefit the absolute most from it, they're mostly men. But it isn't the majority of men or women who benefit from it. This doesn't mean they don't have more sex, it means they lose more than they gain wrt relationship progression/stability. To make a strange analogy, it's like physics. The "average" eminent physicist has an IQ of about 150. Because of greater variability, there are far more men at an IQ of 150 (and the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 05:41 PM |
| – | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?Nobody thinks this refers to widows lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 04:48 AM |
| – | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?I wouldn't not date a woman I made sense with because of age, but as a trend it's hard not to notice. I ended up with someone younger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 04:46 AM |
| 4 | I'm now with a gamer, and I want to find feminine video games I can play solo, or cooperative ones we can play together (non-competitive!)Seconding this, one of the few games my wife will play with me. Also, Don't Starve Together is fun, if a bit frustrating initially. Both are very cute games | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/23 02:39 AM |
| 20 | It’s in western men’s best interests to just go overseas versus trying to convince American women to change CMVI've seen guys have success with this, and while I wasn't actively seeking it, I ended up marrying a Filipina immigrant. Our relationship is great, and I'm having much better time than I've had in any previous relationship. That having been said, if you're a loser, it isn't a shortcut. They may be submissive in some respects, but probably not in the way you'd generally define it. More like there are clearly delineated roles, and you have to hold down your end. These women are not weak. They've o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 11:00 PM |
| 0 | Porn sick men are spiritually damaged just like high n count women. Porn sick men may claim to be physically a virgin at sex, but their mental headspace is tainted with lust of an egocentric slut.Porn is really bad, to an extent that many don't realize. I don't think it's quite as bad as fucking up your pair bonding mechanism, but ymmv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?This is why I only dip in here once in a while. I think I'd go insane otherwise. If you read stuff here from the regulars, it can be a trip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Romantic/Spousal relationship is redundant if you've found peace/contentment in being single.We've become increasingly less happy over (at least) the last sixty years as we've become more atomized. But you know what they say: "if you find yourself in a hole, keep digging" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.I agree with this. Edit: I'm not sure the data is actually contradictory. I don't think that what I posted actually opposes what you posted. Just different angles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenA lot of women, particularly a certain kind of woman, who has been enculturated in a particular way, think they want less masculine men. Especially women who feel threatened by masculinity. But revealed preferences show that they prefer masculine men, and the things we ask of men as a society require masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.Happiness lower, and lower relative to men: https://www.nytimes.com/2007/09/26/business/26leonhardt.html Traditionalist/Complementarian marriages happier than progressive, egalitarian marriages today: https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2006/03/why-feminist-wives-are-unhappy.html Splitting chores not great: https://web.archive.org/web/20121101063753/http://www.twirlit.com/2012/10/02/study-says-sharing-housework-leads-to-divorce-feminists-wield-brooms-in-rage/ (this was the one I could find, thou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.The first study is referring to part time work, but it's still an interesting result. I would bet dollars to donuts that they don't control for SES. Edit: They do! Interesting stuff In the second study, they didn't actually show that marriages with a split of housework are happier or have more sex. It was a survey of what married people thought would happen. And it is a very common belief, which is why the reality is a bit counterintuitive. Damnit, I'll post sources after I shower. I probably sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenPeople keep saying this. It is important for a man to be able to process emotions, but trying to raise men to be more like women emotionally doesn't help them at all. When men were more stereotypically masculine, their suicide rate was lower. And women want to marry masculine men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenWhere is that coming from? The girls I went to HS weren't fearful. I have no idea if men were warning them too much. Do you think men started warning them more, because of some cultural osmosis? I don't know the answer but it seems likely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenEveryone should be raised to be a good partner. I think this is such a common mistake. We try to raise men to be good husbands, but we do a terrible job, women don't want weak, "safe" men. With women, we fearmonger constantly and assume it will be fine. Seriously, the girls I went to HS with (I'm older than reddit avg) we're so much less afraid than today that it's shocking. Stop. Selling. Fear. Look at the damn anxiety rate in young women, you aren't doing them any favors. A lot of this also co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.Current day SAHMs are happier than current day married women who work, in part because of what you mentioned. It could also be a form of selection bias - women who would be happy as SAHMs choose to be SAHMs and that's why they're happy. Though I doubt it. Marriages where the domestic chores are split down the middle have substantially higher rate of divorce, and some other bad stuff like less fulfilling sex lives. I understand that this is really counterintuitive so I can provide sources if want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.They were substantially happier than now, and happier than men were 50 years ago. The fact that some women weren't happy doesn't change this. These stats are self reported (and we have a lot of info on this from decade to decade - the trend is clear) The latter half of your post is true, though. Which goes a long way to explain why women in complementarian marriages are happier than single women, who are slightly happier than women in egalitarian marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 12:41 AM |
| 4 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.You would have a point if women were actually happy. Women are less happy than they were fifty years ago, and they are less happy relative to men, when they used to be happier relative to men. Don't let the men here fool you. Women self harm at triple the rate that they did fifteen years ago. The choices men and women make are heavily influenced by modern day technology and culture, both of which are not at all optimized for happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 12:18 AM |
| 8 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Add it to the list of fundamental concepts everyone should have in their toolkit (that won't be taught in school) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 04:06 PM |
| 10 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.And this is true for just about any trait you can think of, not just count. Which is interesting if nothing else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleBecause our society is pushing people into increasingly anti-human shapes. You can shower trinkets onto women, but if they're living hyper-atomised lives of empty consumption, they will not be happy. They will be distracted. We confuse the two a lot. People like to think of our history as bravely fighting against the patriarchy to get rights for women. But that only worked because it was the direction our society was already moving in. Don't believe me? Look at love and sex in Japan and Korea. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleAnd Tech. Uncle Ted was right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 04:21 AM |
| 5 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleI've lost track of what we're even talking about tbh. Young women are the most attractive, but also the most vulnerable to shifts in culture. Older folks live in their own generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 02:22 AM |
| 8 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleBecause the article isn't about young women cutting themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 02:14 AM |
| 28 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleJust about every culture you'd want to be a part of had pro-monogamy, anti-sex work, anti-casual sex norms. At least until very recently. If you think that's by random chance, I have a bridge to sell you. Tell you what. How about we dissolve the social norms around consent, and more broadly, prioritizing women's safety. I mean, it would just select out women who can't handle it. No? I guess some pro-social norms are okay after all. You are free to live in Brave New World and to tell yourself it'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 01:17 AM |
| 19 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleLate stage capitalism, hyper stimulation, disintegration of pro-social norms, disintegration of communal bonds (to start with a few) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 12:36 AM |
| 65 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleWe're somewhere between a monogamous and polygynous species. As modernity dissolves our social structures, we're returning to more of a historical norm (8000 years ago 17 women reproduced for each man). And this will be a disaster for young men. But it isn't and won't be great for women either. It's like the choice between hyper stimulation and meaning. Many women will choose soft harems even if it makes them less happy, for the same reason young men choose games and porn. Don't believe me? Pop … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterIn my thirties I was surprised by how much easier it was to date younger women. I didn't have any money and was a mess. I was in good shape and well put together appearance wise, but that's it. If a guy actually works out, takes care of his appearance, and has basic competence (I didn't even have this), from what I've seen they do a lot better. When reasonably put together guys 30+ divorce, they often find a better deal quickly. This is not a suggestion to just hope things get better as you get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.My hunch is that asian women be less inclined to contact the gentleman in question, but imo it would have more to do with culture than IQ. First gens would run the fuck away, but the super americanized/asian baby girl subculture less so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.There are actually more stupid men, thank you very much (greater male variability; more smart and stupid men, even though the avg is about the same) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.It gets pretty fucking wide. I'm thinking of those old experiments where a hot guy pic was edited to include a swastika, and nevertheless gets tons of sexually aggressive comments from attractive women. The comment that stands out to me the most was a black chick saying "I love bad boys" in reference to a dude with an american history x style tattoo lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:I think this is a great attitude for people, provided they're actually going to end up with someone. If not, it's a lot of waiting for nothing. That's what concerns me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:The men crying on reddit about not getting compliments are great examples. They are the biggest losers among men, and they think about validation in a distinctly feminine way. They are less healthy and useful than normal men, and we don't need to encourage it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:My wife's parents aren't emotionally intelligent either. But she wasn't babied because she was a girl. She was held to a high standard, selflessness was expected, had to take care of younger siblings, and saw both her parents working very hard and contributing equally (but in traditional, different ways). Grew up with very little but didn't expect special treatment. So the stereotype. I've seen very little reason to take the average coastal city type woman seriously on this topic. Having some of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:22 PM |
| 13 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:In my experience men are as unstable as women, so it is not a surprise. In practice, the reaction from most women will be some variation of "no, not like that". Women have a fantasy of men opening up the right way. They just tend not to be interested in the real thing. I can actually be open with my wife. But that's because she's an immigrant with a very different value system. I've learned that American women that believe they want emotional openness are the last people you should actually be o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:We can absolutely be vulnerable with each other. But the weird codependent cliques that women do? Less so. But I don't want my friend Dave to tell me shit like "you're, like, so amazing. She doesn't understand how amazing you are. She's, like, just scared of strong independent men". Women will make excuses for women, and that works out in the world, because a lot of men will make excuses for women too. But if you have to hold up a standard, you want a friend group that will not absolve you of re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:16 PM |
| 10 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Relationships like that aren't a safe space for men. They're a safe space for you. When men follow this line of thinking it bites them in the ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here AREI don't think either are representative tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guyNot all. Probably not most. Enough to fuck up ratios of the sexless, though. Going to be interesting to see how things progress with young men having less skin in the game. I don't think it'll be great for society, men, or even women tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 10:27 PM |
| 4 | Women of PPD. How many of you are single?It's possible to be a romantic in your private life and a realist when looking at society. If you feel yourself losing that, then take a step back. Being obsessed with how the sausage is made isn't healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 10:17 PM |
| 6 | Why women being more college educated than men is troubling for societyMale/female education disparity. I don't have the source but I'm 75 percent sure that I saw it here. He was agreeing with a female prof who said the disparity didn't matter because there was no bias against males in education (lol). It might've been the thread about him somehow just now realizing that dems don't give a fuck about the working class Edit: Whoops, thought I was on stupidpol. Thread was probably there | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 02:48 AM |
| 12 | Why women being more college educated than men is troubling for societyThey basically agree with the red pill if you frame it in a way that favors them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Why women being more college educated than men is troubling for societyHe doesn't think the disparity is a problem whatsoever | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 12:35 AM |
| 0 | Dating as a male advocateNothing important, a joke from Dr Strangelove | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/01/22 01:12 AM |
| 0 | Dating as a male advocate"I don't avoid women, Mandrake, but I do deny them my essence" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/01/22 12:13 AM |
| 0 | Dating as a male advocateAre we really at the point where we're unironically advocating celibacy? I care about this stuff too but this is a touch grass moment. If you're having a really rough time, date a first gen immigrant or something. Or pick a part of the US with different norms. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/01/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | The ultimate freedom for a man is to free himself of the notions of being a "loser" or "winner"It's because to an extent, both are partly true. Not necessarily to the same extent. But I don't think the average mra or radfem really has a clue about what the big picture looks like in regard to gender. From my perspective both of you are kind of insane, but not totally wrong at a fundamental level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 05:57 AM |
| 5 | Do you think men’s tendency to hide their negative emotions and struggles in life(to not bother other people) adds to the perception that men have no problems in life?No, the feminist approach only works if you're a protected class. Even men see other men as less sympathetic. Not sure what they way forward would be, though. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/12/21 07:46 PM |
| 2 | I was informed today by a woman accusing me of 'mansplaining' (I don't even identify as male, but I do look typically male) that both sexism towards men and racism towards white people can't exist. Not don't. CAN'T.I think you're right, but I think the damage is terminal. What comes next will be much worse. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/05/21 10:49 PM |
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