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Bless me fathers for I have sinned. It has been 19 months since my last confession. I stopped posting on MRP when I realized I was seeking attention as much as I was seeking wisdom. I am finally getting divorced. I feel grateful. If this happened two years ago I would have been devastated. Today I am relieved. This is the right thing and I am optimistic about the future. Thank you guys all for all that you do and all that you've done. I'm happier in my life then ever before and I credit my time …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 04:55 AM
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OYS#15 37, 6’0”, 195lbs. BF 19%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. Open marriage for 1.5 years. No kids. Lifts: Bench 210 Dead 255 Squat 250 Mission: Cultivate discipline. Seek wisdom. Be at peace. Read: Prereqs. Finishing 101. Power of Now, TWOSM, 48LOP, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Models. Reading: MAP Body On track. The wife asked (told) me to stop making my traps bigger. I took the compliment for what it is. I’m not lifting for her. Mind How to express my emotions like a man: h…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 03:10 PM
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Thank you! This is what I was looking for.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 11:21 PM
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My life sucks because I suck. Fair take. I may indeed be an asshole. Does the villain of the story know he's the villain? What does the path to redemption look like? I will stop using my wife being sick as an excuse.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 03:12 PM
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So I would be "allowed" to date, but have to explain to women they can't have any of my time or resources, and that I'm committed to someone else? I'm not sure there would be many takers... Have you tested this theory? Hey guys, I am in a pretty rough spot. I had already pretty much written off our marriage and was just working on myself, so this wasn't very upsetting to me. Which one is it? realizes that she doesn't really love me... She loves you, but not like you think she should love you.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 01:43 PM
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OYS#14 37, 6’0”, 194lbs. BF 19%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. Open marriage for 1.5 years. No kids. Lifts: Bench 210 Dead 255 Squat 250 Mission: Cultivate discipline. Seek wisdom. Be at peace. Read: Finishing Prereqs. The Power of Now, TWOSM, The Rational Male, 48LOP, WISNIFG, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Models. Reading: Pook, MAP I’ve been thinking about vanity. Vanity broadcasts the ego for all to see. I’ve always had a massive ego. What I need to defend myself from is anyo…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 01:29 PM
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Anger phase. Ive been using it to lift. Give tinder a shot and see what works for you and we can compare notes. I'm looking forward to gaming irl but my city is in pretty hard lockdown at the moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/21 07:59 PM
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Good and bad reasons. Sunk cost fallacy. Fear of being alone. Compatible humour and personality. Financial stability. Hope. Love. When I write out the list like that it seems like mostly bad reasons.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/21 04:35 PM
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Yes. I think of Tinder as a video game. It's addictive in the same way but more satisfying when you win. Like anything else there's a learning curve but once I figured it out I was blown away at how easy it is to fuck girls. This is coming from a guy who was historically quite bad with women. The key ish I see many guys have with it is they take the 100's of no replys and the 100's of ghosts after 1 or 2 messages as some way reflective of themselves and it's not at all. It's a fuckin video game.…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/21 04:30 PM
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Yes. It's counterproductive to not put myself first. That's some deep conditioning to break. Nobody's gonna care about me but me. And if I'm fucked and sick and sad too then we're both even worse.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/21 04:16 PM
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40 YO Tinder thots does not fill me with a lot of excitement. From what I’ve read online, it sounds like a big time waster. Do any of you guys have a good experience with it? Just because you're 47 doesn't mean they need to be 47. I don't 'date' women over 33
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 03:55 PM
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OYS#13 37, 6’0”, 193lbs. BF 16%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. Open marriage for 1.5 years. No kids. Lifts: Bench 210 Dead 255 Squat 250 Mission: Cultivate discipline. Seek wisdom. Be at peace. Read: Finishing Prereqs. The Power of Now, TWOSM, The Rational Male, 48LOP, WISNIFG, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Models. Reading: Pook (what a weird book, I may need to go through this twice given how often I see it recommended) Q1 OYS summary: Financial: On track. Re-entered the market…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 02:34 PM
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One of my good buddies was a pretty smart dude. Lots of potential. But couldn't stick with anything professionally so went nowhere. Moved back in with his parents. So the question is; did he have lots of potential? Stuck with his Indian 'girlfriend' who still lives in India. They've been 'together' coming up on a decade. This is why I describe our friendship in past tense. Pick your battles. It's up to you to decide what you do with your time. But IMO it's mandatory to be progressing in some dim…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/21 04:03 PM
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I'm not so sure that I am yet. I still care way too much about this.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 01:40 AM
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No you never know, it's sad to realize that most people are lying to themselves all the time. Is the goal in life to be happy?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 01:39 AM
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On it. These videos are a great resource Ty
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 06:12 PM
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I've never managed to muster any interest in anything that feels substantial for longer than a few months. Meaning anything with real application in the real world. "Play iterated games. All the returns in life, whether in wealth, relationships, or knowledge, come from compound interest" - Naval Ravikant
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 02:06 PM
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OYS#12 37, 6’0”, 191lbs. BF 19%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. Open marriage for 1.5 years. No kids. Lifts: Bench 210 Dead 255 Squat 250 Mission: Cultivate discipline. Seek wisdom. Be at peace. Read: Finishing Prereqs. The Power of Now, TWOSM, The Rational Male, 48LOP, WISNIFG, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Models. Reading: Pook Book Report: MMSLP made me realize how shitty I allowed my sex life to get. Complacency is an insidious enemy. I’m boring. Working on being less boring.…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 01:51 PM
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Fuck
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/20 08:35 PM
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Here, I'll try again. I just wrote "I’m afraid to fully admit to myself that it’s possible my marriage is over." Which means "It's possible that my marriage is over" Fuck Best $300 I've ever spent.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/20 08:34 PM
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I waited until this year to try talk therapy and I found it to be about what I expected. Got six sessions free from my wife's benefits. Sessions six and seven got roped into couples therapy. Fuck that. Not worth paying for. It was nice to have someone to talk to, but I have friends for that. Never been on meds. I would have to be way worse off to consider that. I've done a lot of psychs in my life. I am a strong advocate for psychedelic use so long as you're not at risk of psychosis, and your me…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/20 02:16 PM
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I feel like if I've made it this far without meds I can go the whole way. I believe that my darkest day is in the past. Were they useful to you as a pattern break, or did you find you had to stay on one long term?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/20 02:10 PM
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What is your experience with talk therapy, antidepressants and psychedelics?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 06:19 PM
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My current fitness regimen is 35 mins of meditation, 45-60 mins of weights and stretching, 60 mins of cardio on the elliptical and 20 mins of sauna. 18:6 IF. I eat from 3:00pm until about 9:00. I try to make every day as close to groundhog day as possible. Rest days are about once a week. I have free weights, plates and a bar, an adjustable bench and a squat rack. My home gym is not comprehensive but it's adequate. I miss the gym and I'm waiting patiently until I'm allowed to go again. I finally…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 05:45 PM
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I have a lifelong cycle of depression. My physical activity level is pretty much maximized, and it certainly helps with mood regulation. I'll try your mood log - Why not? I bet that the social isolation and boredom from this Covid lockdown won't help with that so the best I can do is get in/be in excellent shape.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 04:15 PM
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I bet a bit of all 3. Don't mind me gentlemen. Downloading this update.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 04:08 PM
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I'll STFU Best $300 I ever spent.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 04:05 PM
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So Apostrophe, how would you account for these feelings of inadequacy if there was no proximate cause to point to? My childhood was ideal. I can't find any traumatic event that I can look at and say, "that's why I'm not good enough!" I know it's retarded. It's like living inside of a paradox. Every action is an expression of cognitive dissonance at a base level. I'm down to face this, but I have yet to reach bedrock. The good enough section contained a lot about me and my personal accomplishment…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 07:20 PM
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I literally wrote out the covert contract before your post lol. This is power of now stuff. In the moment we can bear any weight, withstand any suffering because we already are. I've been in so much pain before, that it literally took me 15 minutes to stand up off the toilet after taking a dump. I would like to avoid this so sure. I'll pay more mind to form. I took almost a decade off of lifting. I consider myself a novice again. I've been working on rehabing this issue for about 2 years. Before…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 07:09 PM
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I'm down. I've historically been skeptical of trainers but you're right. If a little monetary investment can mitigate multiple injuries then it's for sure worth it. Hoping gyms open up soon but I won't start holding my breath until the spring. I guess Youtube is my friend.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 06:59 PM
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OYS#11 37, 6’0”, 192lbs. BF 20%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. Open marriage for 1.5 years. No kids. Lifts: Bench 210 Dead 255 Squat 250 Mission: Cultivate discipline. Seek wisdom. Be at peace. Read: Finishing Prereqs. The Power of Now, TWOSM, The Rational Male, 48LOP, WISNIFG, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Models. Reading: MMSLP I have been dreading this OYS. This must mean that I have to work through something I don’t understand. Body: This week has been more challenging. I re…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 03:52 PM
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You have a self-worth problem. 100% How do you do gratitude? I don't want to lean too far into entitlement. How to thread that needle?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/20 06:09 PM
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Lol. Are you fuckin kidding me? I feel like you may have missed the moral of my story.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 02:37 PM
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The level of self awareness required to dig into this with me is impressive. maybe it's nice to have a friend be around to listen too.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/20 08:20 AM
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If you found MBTI valuable I am effectively certain you will get even more value out of big 5. So let's look at your analogy Depression is when that load forces me down to the safeties, and I cannot do it. It literally passes the point of physically possible. It's not that I didnt try hard enough. It's not within the realm of my reality. and This was one thing from the study that actually worried me. They said psychedelics actually increased the power of the cortex receptors, causing one to re-t…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/20 08:23 PM
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I love digging into this too. You seem to be conflating Myers-Briggs (MBTI, 16 personalities etc.) with Big 5. The big 5 test Jordan Peterson is hawking is at understandmyself.com The difference is that MBTI is pseudoscience maybe a notch better than astrology but Big 5 is generally considered to be scientifically valid, at least as far as anything else goes in psychology. You seem to have a strong scientific mind. My education is in philosophy. I got a ton out of doing my big 5 test. "This is a…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/20 05:59 PM
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Do you distinguish between dissatisfaction and depression? My father is the happiest guy I know. When I got my family to do their big 5 personality tests we learned that he is 2nd percentile for neuroticism. This means that he almost never gets upset about anything. When I was younger I thought of it as superhuman. Now I have learned to frame it more as colour blindness. He lacks access to a range of human emotion. When I go to him for comfort, I get strategy. I view his life as unaccomplished. …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/20 03:47 PM
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I got my vasectomy at 34. I'm 37 now. Zero side effects. Love raw dogging girls and busting inside them. Love never thinking about having kids more. You do you. I got a chick pregnant once and she aborted. I would have an 11 year old today if she didn't.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:40 AM
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Where are you directing the anger? When I'm depressed I'm angry at myself. Instead of letting it out (lift, fuck, yell in traffic, etc.) I seethe. Because we have been conditioned mostly in the absence of healthy outlets for anger we internalize. The optimal path seems to be noticing and then relieving myself of the anger when it arises before the mind gets a chance to rationalize why I'm a piece of shit and direct it inward.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/20 03:53 PM
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OYS#10 37, 6’0”, 191lbs. BF 19%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. Open marriage for 1.5 years. No kids. Lifts: Bench 210 Dead 255 Squat 250 Mission: Cultivate discipline. Seek wisdom. Be at peace. Read: Finishing Prereqs. The Power of Now, TWOSM, The Rational Male, 48LOP, WISNIFG, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Models. Reading: MMSLP Tis the season for gratitude. Thank you to everyone reading and commenting I know your time is not free and I am grateful for it. Body: On track. Perso…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/20 03:19 PM
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I don't know. I'm not claiming competence in understanding female psychology. If it doesn't work then she is immune to dread?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 11:34 PM
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Right, toxoplasmosis... hope you traded fair value for that task. Scooping shit is not my job ever. And I like my cats more for it. Wife has been feeding irregularly, when they complain. So she's been inadvertently training them to complain more. Up to you whether to keep or get rid of them but I love my little friends and they really don't need a lot of time, especially once you have their behaviour controlled within the boundaries you set.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 09:57 PM
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Re: Validation, I've been such a weak needy bitch for so long that I've just become very sensitive to that behaviour in order to root it out. I need to know in my bones that I deserve all the good things in my life, not just think I do intellectually. Re Sex Frequency: I lead with sex with women. My issue with frequency is of course my own fault. I let my sex life with my wife get bad and now I'm fixing it. I don't believe it's possible for me to be satisfied by one woman. I can't speak to other…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 08:52 PM
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Hey Euro, I know a thing or two about cats. First if the cats are for your wife why the fuck are you dealing with their piss and shit? Sounds like her job. Being woken up every day for the rest of your life is unacceptable here's how you fix it. Feed the cats on a timer. My cats eat breakfast at 7:45 when I get up and dinner at 11:00. The tone I use at those times is the only time they hear that tone. They quickly get used to being fed at those times and break the association of you deciding whe…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 03:33 PM
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OYS#9 37, 6’0”, 191lbs. BF 16%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. Open marriage for 1.5 years. No kids. Lifts: Bench 205 Dead 245 Squat 225 Mission: Cultivate discipline. Seek wisdom. Be at peace. Read: Finishing Prereqs. The Power of Now, TWOSM, The Rational Male, 48LOP, WISNIFG, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Models. Reading: MMSLP Body: The incompetents we have governing us have decided to extend lockdown measures in my area, because that totally worked at containing COVID right? …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 03:20 PM
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I'm fixed. Definitely not having kids with my wife. Very likely not having kids ever. I've made my peace with this path as much as one can.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/20 03:39 PM
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It's gotta be both I think. I do have a ton of ego wrapped up in my wife still. The story I always used to tell myself as a coping strategy for sticking with her through chronic illness is 'at least she's not a fat broad.' I've been able to transition away from that mindset and not view her being sick as 'my fault' but rather viewing the fact that her being sick bothers me as 'my fault.' Yes I would definitely be more attracted to her if she was in better shape. I don't think it's an indication …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/20 06:20 PM
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Mighty big presumption that I've changed from being a fucking retard at all. I'll take the reminder as a good thing then to keep from slipping.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 03:27 PM
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OYS#8 37, 6’0”, 190lbs. BF 16%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. Open marriage for 1.5 years. No kids. Lifts: Bench 185x6 Dead 245X6 Squat 205X6 Mission: Cultivate discipline. Seek wisdom. Be at peace. (Placeholder) Read: Finishing Prereqs. The Power of Now, TWOSM, The Rational Male, 48LOP, WISNIFG, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Models. Reading: MMSLP This week my wife and I celebrated ten years together. Body: I fucked up in the gym this week. I rounded my back on a deadlift and t…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 02:06 PM
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Hypothetically; why would you not be good enough for x?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 10:50 PM
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Thank you. I’m trying to keep my good ole buddy Mr. Ego out of this one as much as possible, but tell me if you agree or disagree with this: I’m saying it’s a bad question in the sense that it’s bad to ask yourself who you are. I don’t think that we get to decide our own identity. It is what it is and it’s up to others to discover. You already know the answer by virtue of the fact that you’re you. This is why the purple hair having, LGTBQ+adinfinitum, I’m so special, I identify as royalty, my pr…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 10:46 PM
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OYS#7 37, 6’0”, 190lbs. BF 16%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. Open marriage for 1.5 years. No kids. Lifts: Bench 205x6 Dead 245X6 Squat 205X6 Mission: Cultivate discipline. Seek wisdom. Be at peace. (Placeholder) Read: The Power of Now, TWOSM, The Rational Male, NMMNG, 48LOP, WISNIFG, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Models. Reading: The Tactical Guide to Women Book Report: I 100% identify with Shawn Smith’s characterization of the ‘playing house’ story. I never asked my wife out, …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 01:39 PM
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They'll tell you that not being married is also key to having success with chicks. That said you should be getting laid more. I can take a look at your tinder profile if you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/20 07:22 AM
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It isn't is it? This is a choice.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 04:17 PM
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It sounds like you're in shape so why aren't you fucking a bunch of girls from Tinder?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 02:02 AM
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"Borderline Rapey" Ha Dude she's your wife. Have you considered that she may just want to be taken? Have you considered that she may be designed for that? Keyword borderline. Obviously respect a hard no. Also get the fuck out of the house. Go lift. There's your excuse. That is not negotiable. Your new plausible excuse is because I want to.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 01:49 AM
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OYS#6 37, 6’0”, 190lbs. BF 18%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. Open marriage for 1.5 yr. No kids. I read books. I lift weights. I fuck bitches. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vAvQbEeTafk If I told you I had a mission, I’d be lying. YOUR BOY’S NOT GONNA MAKE IT! I was used as an example in this week’s OYS recap. I am grateful for the perspective. If I embody the archetype of a failure case then I will hope to glean what wisdom I can from you who have done the work. ‘Tism Time: Maybe I w…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 01:49 PM
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Is monogamy mandatory to do the work here?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 10:13 PM
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OYS#5 37, 6’0”, 191lbs. BF 18%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. Open marriage for 1.5 years. No kids. Added ‘open marriage’ in the top line to not give monogamists the wrong idea. Read: The Power of Now, TWOSM, The Rational Male, NMMNG, 48LOP, WISNIFG, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck Reading: The Almanac of Naval Ravikant Lifts: Bench 205x6 Dead 245X6 Squat 205X6 Mission: Cultivate discipline. Seek wisdom. Be at peace. Health and Fitness: Spent the last week in the gym every day I co…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 02:08 PM
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There's a lot of good. I love her. I respect her. We are very well matched in terms of personality, humour and values. Not in a my wife's a unicorn bs sense, nothing's perfect, but I've dated a bunch of crazy broads so I like to hope I know the difference. Also marriage is traditionally an economic arrangement as well and our financial situation is very comfortable. She does make my life better. If the only reason to leave her would be so I can fuck other women, well I can do that already. And s…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 07:41 PM
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Ok I'll make that change in my post. My main issues are low desire, low sex frequency and chronic illness(her). I had sex 6 times in 2018. Brought that up to twice a month in 2019. My sex life could still be much better.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 02:50 PM
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Fuck my feelings eh. I like that bit about paying attention to strong emotions. I'll use that as more of a guide.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 02:48 PM
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Thanks a lot for this. Yes I opened up my marriage over a year ago. I agree completely that I didn't want to be a liar. You can call me other things all you want but she does know I see girls on the side. Otherwise it would be incongruent and unacceptable. As far as whether it's addictive I will meditate on this. I'm starting to tackle my porn addiction now. If it's sex addiction... I don't know. I'll do some research into that. I do find sex to be the most pleasurable thing in my life. Always h…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 11:03 PM
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Yes, it's a mess. If I knew how to fix it I wouldn't be here asking for help. What am I missing?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 08:58 PM
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OYS#4 37, 6’0”, 194lbs. BF 18%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. Open marriage for 1.5 years. No kids. Read: The Power of Now, TWOSM, The Rational Male, NMMNG, 48LOP, WISNIFG Reading: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck Lifts: Bench 235x6 Dead 245X6 Squat 205X6 Mission: Cultivate discipline. Seek wisdom. Be at peace. And the reason we’re all here; improve my sex life. Health and Fitness: I have now been religious about lifting for two months. I feel amazing. I almost have abs that I would…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 03:23 PM
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I am. I have been lying to myself for a long time.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 08:06 PM
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OYS#3 37, 6’0”, 197lbs. BF 18%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. No kids. Read: The Power of Now, TWOSM, The Rational Male, NMMNG, 48LOP, WISNIFG Reading: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck Lifts: Bench 235x6 Dead 245X6 Squat 235X6 Mission: Cultivate discipline. Seek wisdom. Be at peace. And the reason we’re all here; improve my sex life. Health and Fitness: Not as on track as I would have liked. I set a cutting goal of reaching a weight of 185 by the end of November. This weekend was a …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 03:34 PM
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I've never done it before. I moved from living with my folks to living with my wife. Which is some man-child shit but it's the truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/20 05:01 PM
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OYS#2 37, 6’0”, 196lbs. BF 18%. Wife is 44. Married 5yr. Together 10yr. No kids. Read: The Power of Now, TWOSM, The Rational Male, NMMNG, 48LOP Reading: WISNIFG Lifts: Bench 235x6 Dead 245X6 Squat 235X6 Mission: Cultivate discipline. Seek wisdom. Be at peace. And the reason we’re all here; improve my sex life. I received confirmation that yes, my life is in fact a dumpster fire. Fair enough. The heat radiated makes it all worthwhile, just try not to inhale. I will make my OYS process more focuse…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/20 02:19 PM
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Companionship and security.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 06:49 PM
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Friendships: I have been a serial monogamist with friends. I tend to make life long deep friendships with people that I ‘collect’ and watch as they mature into ever more complicated and interesting people. Most of my core group has started to marry off and have kids now. This is leaving me more and more socially isolated. I don’t have anyone I can really talk to anymore since I’ve gone through my red pill awakening. My wife has let her friendships dwindle to almost nothing so most of ‘our’ frien…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 05:24 PM
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OYS#1 37, 6’0”. 202lbs. BF around 20-25%. Wife is 44. Married 5 years. Together nearly 10 years. No kids, ever. Read: The Power of Now, TWOSM, The Rational Male, NMMNG, Reading: 48 Laws of Power. Lifts: Bench 195x5 DL 205X5 Squat 205X5 Mission: I’m lost. I’m not a man. I’m barely LARPing as one. I need help and I am humbly here to ask for it. I discovered the red pill through r/deadbedrooms which led me to r/mgtow which led me here. Began to swallow the pill maybe 3 years ago. Have had both prog…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 05:13 PM
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