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Hey it’s nice seeing other queer people here
/r/ExRedPill25/12/24 10:52 AM
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People have already talked about this subject many times but the gist of it is you will attract what you are, and people will do what you allow them to do, as in, if ur not firm w ur boundaries the wrong people will obviously exploit that, that doesn’t mean you can’t be kind, loyal and committed tho. (I just sped run this part cuz like I mentioned it’s been talked about to death here) As for the high divorce rates my personal theory is that feminism has allowed women to be more open and firm abo…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 11:04 PM
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Fair points being made
/r/ExRedPill02/12/24 10:11 PM
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IMO let destiny do its thing, if he’s gonna pull himself back he’s gonna want to actually want it
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 02:57 PM
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Meet other neurodivergent ppl
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 01:59 PM
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Maybe, and just maybe, everyone can be a bastard and everyone can be good, no matter what picture we paint them as.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/24 02:04 PM
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Idk she didn’t seem redpill to me? I only saw the video on the male loneliness epidemic and the one where she explained why guys “leave” the left for more right leaning ideologies. She seemed pretty “normal” to me ngl
/r/ExRedPill31/10/24 09:44 AM
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Couldn’t have said it better legitimately, u kept it real w the guy but u also didn’t devalue his “unique features”
/r/ExRedPill23/10/24 07:41 PM
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That’s how I want to be too, heck that’s how I used to be when I was younger, except I more or so did it to make ppl like me and not because I wanted to And btw, how authentic does one have to be to increase confidence? because seriously there’s a lot of fucked up shit about me that I literally cannot be open about unless it’s w my very close friends (just read my post history and you’ll see what I’m talking about), it’s the type of shit that would get me ostracized literally anywhere and that’s…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/24 10:36 PM
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It’s not that I think there is no one for me, logically speaking ik there is, I’m more or so jealous of the fact that they have so easy compared to me Yk?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/24 04:29 PM
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I don’t do that w friends but I‘ll do sumn like that in my head so yeah, that’s another thing I wanted to go deeper is the fact that I still objectify women somewhat, that’s something I could work on.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/24 03:22 PM
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I have been, but good therapy in this country is so rare to find, literally told my last therapist that I tried killing myself because I found out some fucked up truths about myself, and he basically told me I shouldn’t worry about it. And plus I’m still dependent on my parents so every time I try to get therapy they always tell me “but all the last psychologists u were with told us u had nothing so u don’t need it again” Ironically enough the last time they sent me to a psychotherapist was beca…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/24 03:12 PM
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What’s ironic about the shit line is that I wasn’t properly potty trained until I was like 12 and so unironically I grew up with shit in my pants hehehe, unironically that could be a reason why I lack so much confidence and self esteem cuz I literally grew up shitting myself. Enough about me shitting myself… how do I actually start liking myself? Like could u give me a step by step of what I’m supposed to do to start actually loving myself, I always hear ppl telling me this but I just can’t seem…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/24 12:48 PM
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Maybe don’t get a promiscuous partner if you can’t trust them? I mean I can get some ppl have trust issues, in that case one should be enough and that’s it, even then that’s sumn u gotta work yourself
/r/ExRedPill12/10/24 11:38 PM
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Hm. But do you have to experience sex with them to know you can on a frequent or semi-frequent basis get girls? Weirdly in a way yeah? Cuz I know that will at least shut my brain up about that, and so that I can stop having this needy and desperate aura around me, and NOT having this aura around will definitely help a ton with my “future prospects” in getting girls, cuz I know the less I care about it, the more I’m gonna get it, and even if I don’t, it won’t bother me as much cuz I can be like “…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 10:52 PM
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Trevor project is in the US I believe, I unfortunately live in the great homophobic country known as Morocco where things like that just don’t exist (even if they do they are kinda hard to find and u have to know someone that knows someone that knows someone, even then the ones I do know are out of my city and I’m still dependent on my parents), I do have queer friends thank God, but the ones I know don’t relate to this specifically, and the one friend I know that does relate to this situation I…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 10:39 PM
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I seee what u mean, so is there any tips on how I can max out the amount of potential “matches” (irl and in apps) without risking things like that happening, ofc u gotta take risks in life from time to time but I shouldn’t have to feel like I’m taking a RISK with things like these hhh
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 09:01 PM
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THIIIIS, I knew this for a while thanks for bringing it up again, how do I fix this?
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 08:25 PM
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I see, it sounds stupid simple what u said but it’s sumn I keep forgetting all of the time, thanks man
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 07:52 PM
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That’s some good advice honestly, makes me feel a lil better
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 07:27 PM
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If I’m married I think I would rather not be entertaining that idea with the person that’s supposed to be my soulmate (unless we both agree on a polyamorous thing but I know that my jealousy would not allow me to do that hhh)
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 07:07 PM
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Wdym by “risky behaviour”? I don’t think sex (as long as it’s protected) wouldn’t be risky?
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 07:06 PM
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What you said really resonated w me, especially the first line cuz it sounds like sumn my dad would say lol. How do I do that? How do I shift my mind to think about more useful things? I’m sick of going through a “self improvement” phase every 6 months and I kinda just want it be sumn I just do unconsciously, I know we’re humans and at the end of the day we fall back from time to time, but just for this example in of itself of focusing on my passions and “doing cool shit”, how do I do that? And …
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 07:05 PM
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I think that’s a fair point honestly, I should internalize that more: growing up semi-spoiled I kinda expected everything to just fall on my lap, and when it didn’t, I would get mad but no visibly show it, and so I would pretend to move on but internally I would just be like “well I can’t get that so lemme just move on”, even tho I wouldn’t completely move on and just “settle for less”, but in the back of my mind I would always want more… do you get what I mean?
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 07:01 PM
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“Don’t be sad bro, just be happy”
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 06:49 PM
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I think I misspoke when I was talking about “sexual abundance”, I think I meant just “sexual normalcy” (like someone else mentioned) like I wanna know that I can on a frequent or semi-frequent basis get girls and not once in a blue moon. Do u get my point? I wasn’t even talking about Casanova levels, just be sure that I am enough to get girls in a semi frequent basis if I want t, do u get my point?
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 06:33 PM
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And I’m overthinking about stupid things, kinda obvious no? Isn’t that what all people my age do?
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 07:37 AM
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I think I’ve misinterpreted myself when I said “sexual abundance”, I think this is what I meant more
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 07:00 AM
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>(e.g. before you had sex at all, did you have similar thoughts about how if you could only have sex you'd feel more relaxed/happy/satisfied/realise it wasn't that big of a deal)? I think beforehand I used to see sex as like this very cool thing thats gonna change my life when I have it (kinda like any other dumb teenager) until I tried it and I realized it’s nothing special, I didn’t realize it wasn’t anything special UNTIL I experienced it, that’s why my brain is so bent on this idea that if i…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 12:50 AM
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That’s what I realize yeah, but it’s like subconsciously my brain still thinks that, I’m trying to de-program my brain into thinking that…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 12:45 AM
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Usually when the smiley is upside down it’s usually to indicate that the person is speaking in a sarcastic tone or a passive aggressive tone, I think here they’re using it as a way to say “do you understand?” In a more passive-aggressive manner I guess, like imagine someone with a “customer service” smile saying it
/r/ExRedPill26/09/24 11:34 PM
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