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SeekingSolutionz/r/askTRP31/08/20 07:49 PM
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Much thanks
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:30 PM
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I don’t, I’m very good at moving on and viewing these experiences as learning. Except my perceptions of these situations, they never seem to end..
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:29 PM
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What does abundance mentality have to do with this situation ?
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:28 PM
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I don’t know what counts as taking shit. With my logic I don’t want to end up like my sensitive mother who lashes out at every minor perception of disrespect. How do I disagree with people. Especially friends?
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:24 PM
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What are obvious means of increasing self esteem?
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:21 PM
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Im not trying to argue but I feel like people are misinterpreting what I said. Only one person understood. Where’s the contradiction
/r/askTRP31/08/20 11:08 PM
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Why is everyone saying that. I thought I was clear that I had no interest over these tiny scratches, I would have no problem confronting a dude for less, much less his car hitting my car.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 10:55 PM
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I’ve read about lifting and I understand but I don’t see how this has to do with anything. I know buff dudes that are way less confident than me.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 10:54 PM
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I give no shits about the scratches. Then in that case you’re right. Any recommendations for self esteem ?
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:58 PM
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Thats the crucial part. I thought I’d have to go full asshole practicing boundaries but I’d become my mother, who freaked out over nothing in public since I was a kid and I learned I didn’t want to be like that and instead became like my father who had no boundaries which isn’t better at all. Do you know how I can learn boundaries?
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:55 PM
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I don’t agree that is the question. I will always want to do the nice guy thing whether it’s being a doormat or now. I observed the scratch he left and looked at the other dents around my car and made the executive decision that this situation means nothing to me. I was not scared to discuss something with the man if there had been real damage. I suppose the issue is what I consider is being a doormat. How can I work my way around that.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:48 PM
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What are some things people are afraid to express their feelings of? Keep in mind I wasn’t afraid of asking the guys insurance today. But I feel I am fearful of certain situations where the answer can be no.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:29 PM
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There was essentially no damage. No dent. Like I said a tiny layer of paint scraped off that was minimal compared to the other parts of my car. And I have no problem with confrontation like that. Of course if there was damage I’d instantly take a pic and go straight up to the car and argue with him if need be. Knowing this, how would you look at the situation.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:28 PM
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That’s not the issue though I wasn’t afraid of confronting him. I did what I did and came here to get input based on what I was thinking during the situation. To my mindset, I was some doormat and got my car bumped and I simply shrugged it off and reinforced my bad behavior. But my reasoning didn’t seem weak minded? What do you think
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:26 PM
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I don’t care about you being a dick. You’re saying what I’ve been hearing for 25 years that does nothing for me. And I didn’t say I was scared of asking for insurance, I didn’t think it was needed.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:20 PM
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And I already got people telling me I got no balls. Did you really think I came on here for more of that? You got some advice or was that the best input you have?
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:14 PM
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There’s scrapes, dents, and holes all over my old car. This scrape was the most invisible.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:07 PM
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What damage
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:05 PM
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Why do I need his insurance
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:04 PM
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Reread it twice. I’ll reread. You mind sharing the biggest lessons you learned?
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:04 PM
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So my justification is trash?
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:02 PM
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