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15

The spark is the emotional impact you had on her. It comes from so many things. She must feel excited to see you again, that’s it. If she doesn’t feel that, it’s because of everything. It can be your looks, your speech, your vibe, anything.
/r/seduction20/08/25 07:27 PM
1

It depends on the delivery, that’s why by text is much riskier
/r/seduction06/08/25 08:04 AM
1

Copying what « works » is the straightforward road to attracting bland women that have no personality.
/r/seduction01/08/25 04:14 PM
2

Yes because telling her « let’s meet » on a dating app makes them all wet
/r/seduction29/07/25 08:17 AM
1

Then how do you get feedback on what you’re doing?
/r/seduction28/07/25 06:09 PM
1

So… he is not right?
/r/seduction28/07/25 03:53 PM
3

They are still customers bro. I would separate work from dating if I were you. Why can’t you meet women outside of that context? Genuine question
/r/seduction28/07/25 03:29 PM
18

It’s not the age gap the problem. It’s the fact that you try to rizz your own students lol
/r/seduction28/07/25 11:56 AM
1

Ok but did you get continuous feedback or was that a one time deal?
/r/seduction28/07/25 10:36 AM
3

Why would they make the paid version purposely less effective than the free version? People can stop paying after one month. See how nonsense that is? The reality is that the paid version is always more effective than the free version if you have at least some decent profile that can get you some likes with the free version.
/r/seduction27/07/25 06:40 PM
1

Capitalism 101: making bad financial decisions makes you lose market shares. They don’t do what you claim they do.
/r/seduction27/07/25 04:21 PM
2

It’s definitely not that, but it’s kind of that ;)
/r/seduction27/07/25 01:50 PM
15

Then your problem is not the location but the skills to strike conversations and keep interest
/r/seduction27/07/25 06:20 AM
1

Keeping them on your app by making the paid experience worse than the free one? You don’t make any sense
/r/seduction27/07/25 06:02 AM
0

That would be a very bad business model and so the opposite is what happens
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:16 PM
16

Only pay if your profile is already optimised (you’re getting some matches)
/r/seduction26/07/25 06:58 PM
3

How do you know your pictures are good?
/r/seduction26/07/25 05:28 PM
2

You have been badly mentored then. What did you learn or do during the mentoring?
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:17 AM
15

Don’t be condescending. He’s not making it that hard to read.
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:15 AM
6

Your problem is starting conversations with « hey » first
/r/seduction25/07/25 10:09 AM
8

Start with a comment on something from their profiles.
/r/seduction25/07/25 09:42 AM
1

You’re asking the right questions. I can hardly demonstrate here since it’s written format. But the idea is that she subtly understands you are somehow interested in her sexually, but it’s not obvious. The tension is the mild anxiety coming from that question left unanswered: Does he want me? It fades away if the question either becomes a full no or a full yes.
/r/seduction25/07/25 07:23 AM
1

Yes in this case. He can also do a video call first if they cannot meet soon.
/r/seduction24/07/25 03:26 PM
3

Irrelevant comment
/r/seduction24/07/25 03:25 PM
0

We honestly cannot read her mind. If you say everything went well, and she was not happy enough, I would guess there was somebody else she was hesitating with and she picked him eventually. But it could be anything.
/r/seduction24/07/25 12:29 PM
54

This is the beginners guide to overthinking physicality and give the worst vibes. Touch has to follow intimacy, not precede it. Create sexual tension with your words, with your eye contact, with your behaviour, and then release the tension with some physical touch. Repeat in a cyclic but progressive manner, all the way through the sexual act.
/r/seduction24/07/25 11:40 AM
4

Daddy chill
/r/seduction24/07/25 05:43 AM
1

Do you have any pictures of you smiling?
/r/seduction24/07/25 04:08 AM
1

Exactly that. If you try hard, they feel under pressure or judged with you. Or they feel you’re needy.
/r/seduction24/07/25 04:06 AM
4

Maybe, and one thing for sure is that it’s not cheap anymore lol
/r/seduction24/07/25 04:00 AM
8

That’s one way of doing it, but it’s very intellect oriented and can seem serious. The best is when your goal is to make yourself entertained during the conversations. You joke around, talk about what you like, and ask questions for things you really care about.
/r/seduction23/07/25 06:18 PM
8

Not in 3 years dude. Maybe your targeting is off. You need congruence between the archetypes of women you aim and what you are projecting. Or maybe it’s a subtle vibe.
/r/seduction23/07/25 04:41 PM
1

If the girl never texts first, it’s the best way to see if she truly cares.
/r/seduction23/07/25 03:41 PM
1

Yes, what I said only applies if she already values him.
/r/seduction23/07/25 03:00 PM
7

Rule of thumb: if you’re the one having initiated the conversation last time, wait until she doesn’t next time. Even if it takes days. That’s how you’re always never more needy than her by text.
/r/seduction23/07/25 01:57 PM
89

Maybe you look insanely douchey right now because of how you show off on the apps
/r/seduction23/07/25 01:44 PM
1

A seducing idea
/r/seduction23/07/25 10:59 AM
1

Nevermind dude is a troll. I agree with you and don’t understand the downvotes.
/r/seduction23/07/25 10:06 AM
1

That’s not the same. An instrument means you’re actively practicing at least, which could be a lie. A dog means you like dogs. The picture doesn’t imply you own it. Same as when people take pics with their nephew or something. It shows you care, and that’s what matters more than owning.
/r/seduction23/07/25 10:04 AM
0

Yes I even did his charisma mentoring and it was value packed. I believe he is the best OG out there if you want to access advanced game.
/r/seduction23/07/25 09:54 AM
10

Reminds me of the good ol’ days 😁 great read. Especially as an expat living one hour away from Prague, I know those places. Great picks.
/r/seduction23/07/25 09:53 AM
5

Check out RSD Jeffy and Todd valentine if you want updated versions of what the Game is really about
/r/seduction23/07/25 08:08 AM
1

Seems like you’re on the right track then!
/r/seduction22/07/25 05:57 PM
1

So you are capable of settling in a relationship but not for long?
/r/seduction22/07/25 04:59 PM
1

At that point it became an addiction. You’re a crack addict but for women. Not judging, just explaining. So how do people deal with addictions? They first have to admit this addiction is a problem. If you don’t believe it is, then don’t change it. So the first step is: Is that a problem and why?
/r/seduction22/07/25 05:15 AM
1

Make sure you have a good profile first. Then two steps: 1) Unpredictable messages to contrast with the boring texts she is usually getting. 2) Tone it down to show your real self and create trust. Then you qualify and close
/r/seduction21/07/25 12:45 PM
2

You attached happiness and thrill to only one thing in your life and that’s why it feels boring now. I used to be exactly like you. This void needs to be filled by something else. In my case, I’m building a business. It’s hard, it’s challenging, there are crazy ups and downs. And my gf is the absolute best partner to help me in this adventure. If I had a 9-5, I would try to develop a passion for music or martial arts. You’re a man, you’re build for conquest. You used to conquer girls, now you ne…
/r/seduction21/07/25 10:20 AM
1

Then it’s statistically relevant. The problem is likely somewhere else. In my experience, and from what you said. it’s one of those: 1- Boy vibes instead of adult vibes. You project nice boy energy without the masculine adult vibes of a competent man. 2- No intimacy escalation. You don’t show or try to show interest in them. Which one is it?
/r/seduction21/07/25 07:37 AM
1

How many times did that happen this year?
/r/seduction19/07/25 09:16 PM
1

Texting yes, in the light context of reacting to each other’s posts
/r/seduction19/07/25 09:15 PM
1

That’s a first huge step. If they want to see you again and make you a part of their life, you are literally 80% there. Are you?
/r/seduction19/07/25 08:52 PM
1

Who the hell is Mark Sing
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:42 PM
1

I think that it’s not going anywhere like this. Consider following the TikTok or something. Honestly that’s the best way to go.
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:34 PM
2

Thanks for the clarifications. In that case I would use the power of Instagram to keep someone close. Posting stories and reacting to her stories is a low investment light way to keep yourselves in each other’s minds. Have you thought about it?
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:04 PM
2

Nowadays with the technology you don’t need him to speak Spanish fluently. Unless you want him to go out with you IRL
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:55 PM
3

The general rule is: if you got her contact by approaching her in real life, you have build enough trust to skip all the small talk online and only text to organise plans.
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:54 PM
1

Keep being hopeful. There is a limited amount of mistakes you can do. The hard part is identifying them. Most of the reasons why men fail their first date is because they make the girl feel either bored or uncomfortable. Either because you are playing it too safe or the opposite. And most of the reasons why this happens, is because they have an agenda on the first date. First dates should be to have fun. Not aiming for sex or anything like that. Sure, if she seems super down then yeah go for it.…
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:04 PM
1

Stop working hard. Start working smart. You need clarity not effort. You seem to be winging it too much. You need a plan of action and accurate feedback on what you are doing wrong each time. And progressive expectations.
/r/seduction19/07/25 03:55 PM
2

You’re either suffering from lack of attention, or suffering from committing to someone, or suffering from committing to no one because of meaningless hookups. I would say pick your poison!
/r/seduction19/07/25 03:54 PM
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That was the opposite for me. I would guess it’s a skill issue in your case. Maybe you’re still in the intellectual phase of game and haven’t internalised the transformation into a natural behaviour. It should be pleasant to chat people up, not a chore.
/r/seduction19/07/25 03:50 PM
5

So what’s your question? I don’t get this post
/r/seduction19/07/25 03:48 PM
-1

Took the words out of my mouth
/r/seduction19/07/25 03:48 PM
0

Trying to be political in the beginning of getting to know each other is exactly the problem
/r/seduction19/07/25 03:21 PM
0

Yeah that’s exactly the problem. You give a weird vibe. People make friends because they feel great in their company, if they feel something off, like you vetting them (even subtly), you will lose them.
/r/seduction19/07/25 01:41 PM
2

It can be extremely subtle. But you basically have an agenda when you interact with people beyond just having a good time. And that can be perceived through micro expressions and behaviours that you might not even be aware of. So first question to ask yourself: when you spend time with people, do you have an extra agenda? What are you secretly hoping for? Or are you just enjoying the moment, being present?
/r/seduction19/07/25 12:08 PM
1

If you are needy in your behaviour, people will feel it. It puts pressure on them. They don’t like it.
/r/seduction19/07/25 11:49 AM
16

One piece of advice: make sure you meet new people on a regular basis (at least couple times a week) so that you lighten the outcome dependency for each encounter. You cannot practice if you put pressure on the situation.
/r/seduction19/07/25 10:04 AM
0

You sounds incredibly needy. That’s the issue.
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:10 AM
2

You took the words out of my mouth. Dating is only tiring when you don’t have clarity on what you’re doing wrong.
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:41 AM
1

It’s exciting when you have regular opportunities to meet people and then in each of them your goal is to make yourself entertained through social skills and improv.
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:39 AM
1

One step further should be to first ask her about logistics: what is she doing now, is she in a hurry etc. The goal being to get her on a instant date if possible, if not yes get the number.
/r/seduction18/07/25 12:54 PM
3

I would add that you might think you’re doing things right, but without proper feedback/systems you can never know for sure.
/r/seduction18/07/25 10:41 AM
2

Yes that’s a common issue especially if you’re using gimmicky openers. The transition you want to aim for depends on how much time and depends on logistics, that’s why you want to enquire about those early on: « So what are you doing here, you have a date? » « Are you visiting? » « You have a train to catch? » Once you know a bit more about that, if you see it’s not the best time to chat you can ask for her contact and continue this another time; and if it’s actually a good time you can then tra…
/r/seduction18/07/25 07:41 AM
2

Have you got some feedback about what you might be doing wrong besides your looks?
/r/seduction17/07/25 03:30 PM
0

It all comes down to how you frame it. If you frame this as using her, it’s bad. If you frame this as just having fun without expectations, you’re not promising anything to her. That way she gets to kiss/have sex with a guy she finds attractive and you get to decide if you want to move on or not. You could also simply keep it platonic, above the belt, at every stage before you’re truly attracted. That could be enough for the purpose explained in this chat.
/r/seduction16/07/25 07:57 PM
4

If you only aim at beautiful women in the beginning, you get a lot more rejections. If you aim lower, you get more positive reference experiences faster. Your brain feels better if he has women expressing interest, even if those women are not particularly attractive, compared to getting systematically rejected by the hot ones. It’s just about increasing the speed of gathering positive experiences early on when you lack skills and confidence.
/r/seduction16/07/25 02:30 PM
7

As a nice guy myself, it started by aiming low first. Then increasingly aiming at more and more beautiful women. By the time you get there you have a sense of abundance. It removes the nice guy pattern.
/r/seduction16/07/25 12:11 PM
6

Great post 👍 I can only think of the train scene in Before Sunrise (1995)
/r/seduction15/07/25 02:37 PM
1

There is a misunderstanding about what I said: I want certifications for dating coaches the same way there are certifications for psychologists. Not because someone has a 3 day immersion weekend at another dating coach, but because we actually build a thorough and scientifically backed education program the same way we do it for shrinks. I spend so much time trying to just even normalise the practice of asking help from a dating coach, because of that lack of trust in the practice … because of t…
/r/seduction14/07/25 04:59 PM
-1

Proof of a dating coach value is in the lives he has helped, same as a therapist would. But the advantage of the therapist is that he has an official diploma. See how is that different? You go see a good therapist because he helped a friend of yours for example. But also because it’s a recognised profession. The scammers exist precisely because there is no certification process. There are professionals for public speaking. They also don’t have qualifications I believe. And yet they help tons of …
/r/seduction14/07/25 11:55 AM
-1

Why is this sub called seduction then if 99% of it is therapy then? You’re a moderator, you are saying that all the questions and advice here should basically be solved by therapy? Yes there is no certification that’s precisely my point. I wish this would happen, that coaches would go through a rigorous process that then validates their competence. If you check my first comment again it explains my point.
/r/seduction14/07/25 10:39 AM
-4

Humanity evolved without psychotherapy until late 1800. What coach certifications are you referring to? There is no official certifications for dating coaching out there.
/r/seduction14/07/25 08:28 AM
1

I get that, which is why I talked about normalising the idea of having experienced men set up a trustworthy school for dating coaches with certificates etc. The interesting part of your message is when you say there is no way of making this happen. Mind you, this is exactly what people used to say about psychotherapy one century ago. It’s all about making the general public aware that this is necessary. And look at the state of dating and relationships these days? We need this today more than ev…
/r/seduction14/07/25 08:27 AM
-12

« Don’t listen to pros that have been teaching that for years bro, just listen to me random guy from Reddit. » I am a dating coach. Before you imply it, I don’t even get clients from this account, i just come here to collect ideas for my posts on my socials. It’s not because a service is free that it’s better. Quite the opposite generally speaking. Since I made this my job, I have dramatically improved the level of skill and knowledge I already had on how to game and help others game. There is j…
/r/seduction14/07/25 06:42 AM
1

Stop listening to the Tate brothers
/r/seduction12/07/25 07:15 AM
1

« Pics, which means race height and looks » Mate, a picture is so much more than that. Attitude, background, environment, emotions, action, to cite a few.
/r/seduction11/07/25 08:01 PM
2

Think about what he said with more nuance, he didn’t say what you wrote
/r/seduction11/07/25 02:01 PM
0

Cool, so what’s the difference between those friends and the dates? If you can keep those friendships entertaining, why not the girls you’re dating?
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:35 AM
6

No, it’s a common saying in the Game circles. Great game looks like two people having a friendly normal conversation where they smile and have a good time. As opposed to techniques and tricks that are flashy or uncommon. Too many guys try crazy/odd stuff to get the attention of girls because their personality and vibe is not enough (they think, rightly or not)
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:34 AM
0

Do you genuinely love women? Do you enjoy their company even without sex?
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:16 AM
1

That’s because you are not an interesting person to talk to. You are doing instead of being. I would assume you have a hard time making new friends?
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:10 AM
14

Great game doesn’t look like game
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:08 AM
6

Jeffy from RSD told me there is no difference and was actually pissed by the question because he gets that all the time. With experience I can tell y’all that there are gold diggers everywhere as well as great women that value personality more. The West is the same everywhere in the West. Same movies and songs, same culture, same biology.
/r/seduction11/07/25 04:46 AM
7

Your brain needs proof not promises.
/r/seduction10/07/25 05:01 AM
1

I would have to see how you do it visually to make sure but the way it was written didn’t feel natural to me. There are a lot of parameters to account for that might explain why it worked for you. But in my experience (11 years of game, 1000+ approaches and 100+ bodies; now in 3y LTR) it’s more like 80% normal conversation with 20% emotional spikes. If she is interested, you don’t need to overdo it. It can backfire.
/r/seduction09/07/25 04:33 PM
1

Sure let me explain. Japanese massage lessons from the internet, making her spin, trying to guess in a too hard, those things made me cringe. Normal attractive personalities don’t do that. It feels gamey: Looks like you’re trying to compensate. It’s a levelling behaviour. It’s fine for beginners, but if you want good game it’s lacking masculine and grounded energy. Examples would vary depending on the situation, but if it’s a cold approach: - Hey I really love your style girl, had to tell you! 😁…
/r/seduction09/07/25 01:27 PM
7

Exactly. Lets stop switching genders to try to compare. Men and women live in different realities.
/r/seduction09/07/25 07:45 AM
1

Way too gamey dude. Maybe you used wrong examples but good game doesn’t look like that.
/r/seduction08/07/25 08:44 PM
2

Exact, especially the last part.
/r/seduction08/07/25 08:39 PM
34

Confidence doesn’t come from within, that’s a bunch of bullshit. Confidence only comes from real life experience where you have seen pretty much everything and have the memories for proof that you can handle whatever life throws at you. Approach a ton of women and that will be the best thing you we’ll ever do. Make sure you have some feedback loop also to not repeat the same mistakes too much.
/r/seduction08/07/25 04:52 PM
6

Agreed
/r/seduction05/07/25 09:45 PM
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