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RantSeldation/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 04:27 AM
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She works. I left
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 11:31 PM
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We’re filing a joint petition, but I did a consult with an attorney and she urged me to do it ASAP before it gets even more expensive. One of my employees encouraged the same.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 03:38 PM
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I’d be so happy to give her lump sum but I’d need a loan and repay would be 7k a month over 20yrs All things accounted for I’m “only” bringing home 9k a month…500 insurance for the kids, 1400 daycare, 2800 rent, $1800 to her for her share of profits… Fortunately my state is fair with child support. I’d owe $1800 but we have 50/50 so she also owes 800…nets me 1k and covering her half of daycare + her half of insurance just negates her getting more cash. She doesn’t even fucking pay rent. She’s li…
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 02:57 PM
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I put in the decree that she gets $1800/mo + 10k additional per year w/ 10 years to hit the 500k Right now is a pivotal point. I’m expecting to be making over 500k in profit in 2025. I get half of that because partner, but I’d owe her much more. My business partner, and I had a contingency plan ready to devalue and tank the company. Value is earnings based, very asset light so we could just kill it all 😂 but she accepted the buyout.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 02:45 PM
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It’s actually 1.6mil but our stake is 60%. We’ll be OK.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 02:19 PM
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It’s not worth it dude. Come on. I never wanted to be married to my ex. I never even wanted to get engaged. Telling her that would do nothing but hurt her. I don’t need to cause hurt. There’s enough of that in the world.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/24 05:02 PM
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I would get married again. I’m going to be a lot more picky this time, and they are signing a prenup in which they get. Absolutely fucking nothing from me other than child support if applicable.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/24 12:23 AM
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I was single for about a month. I also checked out of the relationship 4 years ago and decided to start working on myself and grieving the end of my relationship 6 months before our divorce. I couldn’t get her to bring it back. I did all the end of relationship moving on before it had ended. I was ready to start sharing all the love I have pretty fast.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 06:47 PM
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I see more great dudes with terrible women. But I also have more men friends than I do women. I want them all to have this freedom so fucking bad but it’s soooo hard. OP’s take is absolutely wild though lmao
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 04:18 PM
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To be fair, we do it every every day, and we’ve had to look it up in the book a dozen times to the point where it gets committed to memory and a lot of dudes out here just do the same type of work every day so they end up memorizing the entire code as it’s related to them. I have inspectors on my job sites doing mechanical, electrical and plumbing inspections, and they became inspectors after they retired out of being tradesmen, because their bodies hurt, and their trade was like cabinet finishi…
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 01:41 PM
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We don’t know shit about building codes most of the time until the inspector calls us out or we need to know and go look it up in the book hahaha
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 01:36 PM
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I’ve always been handy since I was a kid taking apart the remote control and fixing the drywall that I busted up when I was angry. Started as an apprentice for a remodeling company when I just needed some kind of job and it spiraled from there. The business started as handyman, and I just kept seeing opportunities to do more and capitalizing them.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 01:33 PM
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Remodeling, so ultimately I work in all of the trades you’d see in residential kitchen & bath installs.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 01:29 PM
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My industry is construction, but I’m a tradesman. Startup cost was $500 & I worked solo for 6 months, as a pair for 12 months, and then we started hiring on and growing faster. We’re a kitchen & bath builder and our tangent was cabinet sales.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 01:28 PM
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Start a biz and then build it to the point where you don’t have to work more than 20 hours a week And then spin it off into a tangentially related company that uses the same infrastructure, but serves an entirely different market That requires absolutely zero more hours from you, because you can just hire it out immediately.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 03:52 AM
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🤣🤣 I have more nudes of my current (new relationship) partner than I EVER got of my ex in 9 years.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 11:21 PM
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Nope. She’s the mother of my kids. She happened. She isn’t going anywhere.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 09:33 PM
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you Need a Budget It’s a spreadsheet on drugs.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 09:36 PM
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You need YNAB.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 09:34 PM
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I used to spend the entire day at work, hiding from my wife / my house. Even if I done by 1, it was like…I’d nap, scroll tiktok, play games on my PC..just not hiding out
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 04:42 AM
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Whatever the fuck I waaaant Go fuck around at work for a couple of hours, sometimes most of the day. I keep the RC cars in my truck on work days so if I fuck off early I can go to the track or the park. Lots of naps. Surprisingly, much less video games than when I was married. Keep the house clean.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 04:16 AM
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I mean it doesn’t even need to be a new country… The problem is with your partner paying you under the table is that someone has to pay the taxes on that profit. So the income would be on his filings.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 04:06 AM
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You can fold and reopen the company to get rid of her being entitled to half of it but if spousal support is based on your income and the profit from the business shows as income for you, you will owe the spousal support regardless.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 04:00 AM
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We are doing legal separation for a while before divorce to line everything out to make sure she could stay on my health insurance. In my state it is a full financial, property and custody separation agreement. It works for us.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 02:30 AM
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Having someone to hang out with, suck faces with, talk bullshit with…is nice.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/24 06:27 PM
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