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SelectDivide/r/askMRP15/07/18 08:28 PM
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OYS #19 I haven't done my OYS in two weeks, because I was on a trip and last week I was just a lazy cunt. I've spent this time thinking about potential improvements and come up with a few insights. Fitness After a break, I have come back to my fitness routine, with a slight tweak. For now, it looks like this: swimming (Mon, Fri), running (Tue, Sat), volleyball (Wed) and gym (Mon, Wed, Fri). Muscles are working better, I can feel them when doing the exercises. But for now, I train only biceps, ab…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/18 07:10 AM
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OYS #18 That's the first OYS in a long time I'm anxious to write. I've finally started noticing some improvement in a few areas and I feel good because of that. Fitness After a cold and a break from the gym, my muscles "magically" began working. I can feel them when doing curls, pulls and during ab work. They are finally getting sore. I don't know if it was the break, or I somehow improved the technique, but the effect is satisfactory. Social I feel more confident with my new look and this gets …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 08:23 PM
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Ha, thanks bro
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/18 05:40 AM
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OYS #17 Fitness I was ill last week, but this week I slowly re-entered my workout routines. Didn't go to gym (I've got called in to work early morning), but went to a pool right after work. Today I've run for the first time for 10 days and felt really good. God, I missed exercise. The more tired I get, the clearer my head is. Social Was resting during the weekend, so didn't go out. I met my brother to watch the game. I went to the hairdressers' (before that I used a hair clipper myself) and got …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 08:01 PM
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I believe that getting better physically is as important as getting better socially. But thanks for your input.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/18 08:18 PM
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OYS #16 This OYS will be short, because I was sick for a few days, so I didn't focus on my mission, stayed at home and took medicine. Actually, temporarily letting go helped a lot and I felt relaxed, despite the shitty cold. Fitness I've measured my bodyfat after a month and a half of watching my calorie intake. Holy shit, I've lost 7 kgs (I'm 74 kgs now) and my bodyfat level is 16%. I'm no more skinny fat, but still skinny. I think I'm gonna keep a -100/-200 calorie balance to let my body gain …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/18 08:50 PM
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It really just sounds like you've never learned how to be passionate. Spot on. I think it's one of the main things I'm lacking now in life.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/18 08:26 PM
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Go to Costa Rica man. Too poor, but going out for a bagel will do. But seriously, I have to learn enjoying the smallest things in life. Even some petty shit can be a lot of fun and make your day (and approach) better.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/18 10:14 PM
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Luckily, I don't play computer games at all. PS4 maybe once a month (because I don't have one). Don't wanna buy it either, because I know I would waste all my free time playing.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/18 10:06 PM
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OYS #15 That's my worst week so far and I have to confess of something. I still have a very strong oneitis. I still think of my ex. I had a tough weekend (internally) and this post is my attempt to clarify my own thoughts. My MAP summary last week looked good, but recently I thought, something was... missing? From the outside all looked OK: I met my friends on Thursday, went for a beer, went to a pool on Friday, on Saturday went out for a trip, on Sunday met with my brother and his fiancee. But …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/18 08:06 PM
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OYS #14 Fitness Went to the charity run, finished in the first third of runners, which is a surprise, but a pleasant one. Today I've run my first 10k. Feeling proud. Started doing the "Sore in 6 minutes" workouts by AthleanX. Can feel my abs and finally I'm struggling with those exercises. I've tried the bodyweight "Sore in 6" for back, but I was so weak, that lasted for maybe 20 seconds. I need to find something easier to focus on form and avoid compensating. Swimming seems a good alternative. …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 07:59 PM
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OYS #13 A week of doubt I've noticed I've started focusing mainly on fitness as my goal. I didn't keep a diary of any approaches this week, didn't think of that. I'm also beginning to think that I shouldn't strive for an LTR in the future. I realized all those commitments and drama (which of course were an effect of a lack of my frame before) are not for me. I don't want to sacrifice my freedom and comfort for such things again. Now, am I stepping to a next level of awareness, or am I just becom…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/18 07:13 PM
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OYS #12 Successes Sticking to the nutrition goals Broke my personal best in running Had a revelation after approaching a girl Failures Still can't make my muscles work properly Fitness I've started reading the Galloway's Book on Running. Before that I had thought that taking a break when running was for pussies, so I ran as fast as I could, barely making it alive after 5 kilometres. I've decided to try Galloway's run-walk-run method and could make 8 kilometres without much effort. Of course the …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 07:44 PM
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Thanks for that, I'll give that book a try. And sometimes less weight is what you need to use to get proper isolation of certain muscles. This is what I noticed this morning when doing face pulls. I can lift a heavier weight, but I'm bending, twisting etc. Not using the proper muscles. When I go light, I only feel the right muscles a bit, but it's something.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 06:15 PM
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OYS #11 Successes Sticking to the nutrition goals, being active as never before in my life. Failures Let my inner critic get to me a few times. Relationship I decided to stop posting updates of my LTR here, because it doesn't look like a relationship at all. I've decided to focus on myself and become the man I want to be. Then I will think of relationships. One interesting thing: the other girl who was into me, completely withdrew her interest after we met at my place and nothing happened. I did…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 07:47 PM
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Actually, I read a few books on that back in the day and tried different approaches (even went vegan for some time, but concluded it’s not for me). For now, I’m into Jeff Cavaliere’s videos and get my tips from there. Regarding nutrition plan: I try to keep it simple. I eat enough calories to fuel me and my muscles (with protein surplus), and then burn excessive calories to lose fat. I’ll see how it turns out in a few weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/18 05:07 AM
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Hey, thanks for a lot of thought-provoking questions. What is "higher" to you? Nail this down with some actual numbers. I refined them a bit. My goal now is to eat 2200 calories / day - 500 calories from food or exercise = 1700 in total. At the same time, my protein goal is to eat 1.6 g of protein / kg of body weight, which is ~ 130 g / day. I'm doing this because I don't like seeing my fat ass in the mirror. At the same time, the increased protein intake is for not losing muscle mass, or maybe …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/18 08:30 PM
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What is healthy food? How would you define this? For me, healthy food is something which is NOT: calorie dense, but nutrient-deficient (mostly protein), e.g. soda, alcohol, deep-fried stuff (e.g. I can bake chicken nuggets instead and then they become healthier) ...and IS: low-calorie, but rich in protein (lean meat, dairy, fish, legumes) rich in other nutrients (vitamins, fiber), so this I usually mix with the meat not processed or slightly processed. I prefer cooking meals myself to buying som…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/18 07:56 PM
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OYS #10 Successes Keeping the calorie and protein intake tighter Failures Realized I can't have too much free time, because my own hamster is spinning too much Relationship No update Fitness I've re-installed MyFitnessPal on my phone, so now I keep a tight track on my calorie expediture. I was using it some time ago, so I remember the calorie ratio of most foods, but I lacked a steady history of what I've eaten. I would make a cheat day "once in a while", and and would do the same 2 days later, …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/18 08:33 PM
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My point is: if a man is able to cheat in a relationship, so is a woman
/r/askMRP13/08/18 03:38 PM
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Maybe I'm a newbie here, but this has caught my attention: I flipped and ended up getting pissed for a few days and banged 2 other women 2 months later she caught me cheating with a co-worker She can't cheat, but you can?
/r/askMRP13/08/18 10:45 AM
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PUA will be my next level, but for now I’m just focusing on being more lively and outgoing. At the very beginning of my challenge I noticed I was giving myself excuses not to talk to some people (“this is a guy”, “that girl is not hot enough”, etc.) and ended up being the same autistic idiot as before, only being a robot towards a small number of <gasp> hot ladies. Now I treat them all as normal people (who would imagine) and this helped a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 04:30 AM
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OYS #9 I’m currently on a bus (vacation), so will make this shorter I’m traveling alone, visiting 3 countries in three days, never done anything like that before. It’s tiring, but a lot of fun at the same time. Junk eaten: pizza, 3 beers, 2 hamburgers, small fries. Still too much shit in my diet. This morning, instead of looking for a burger place on my trip, I went for panini with fresh ingredients. Small talk initiated: 11 (incl. 5 hot girls). 1 rejection. I’m a bit surprised, because my early…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 06:02 PM
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No wonder why I’m fat. At least now I see where to improve
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 11:26 AM
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OYS #8 Successes Started tracking my nutrition Started going to the gym first thing in the morning Failures Losing my focus when I'm in a rush Discovered the amount of junk I eat Relationship No update Fitness Started hitting the gym in the morning, to be able to be free after work or do some additional cardio. I've discovered that I need to calculate my time more accurately, because if I'm getting to the gym too late, I have to rush to work. No time for slacking off at the gym: I've got my stuf…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/18 05:15 PM
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I like that. It sounds better when you direct your energy towards doing positive stuff instead of NOT doing shitty stuff. Thanks guys
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/18 07:28 AM
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Actually it was me who broke up with her, twice, because I didn’t know how to handle my shit. I was a pussy and thought I was perfect and it’s all her fault. I crumbled every time she pushed my frame and failed every shit test. So all of this is on me
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/18 06:26 AM
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OYS #7 Background: LTR of 6 years, moved apart, working at the same office. Successes Defined my MAP for upcoming weeks Getting out and being more social Failures Lost my frame a couple of times Relationship We see each other from time to time. I can observe both of us are more relaxed when we meet. When I'm more energetic, she's more energetic as well. Nice to see that and it confirms a woman is a reflection of a man. However I keep in mind that I'm doing this mainly for myself. There are times…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/18 05:46 PM
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I’m curious about one thing, and it’s rather a question to other Redditors here. OP’s wife got physical. What should be a proper reaction to that?
/r/askMRP22/07/18 06:50 AM
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OYS #6 Background: LTR of 6 years, moved apart, working at the same office. Successes Having more fun myself Failures Still giving a shit and being needy Fucked up my back (in the long run) Relationship Not much to say. I fucked up by giving her too much attention when she didn't deserve it, but it's a valuable lesson - prepare your plans for yourself, if she jumps in, that's fine, if not, that's fine as well. There is a HB7 girl at work who's into me (texting frequently and finding out ways to …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 08:52 PM
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Spot on. At first I need to get some self-respect and then think about respect from others
/r/askMRP16/07/18 10:05 AM
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Indeed. It’s because I’m a pussy. But I have to learn somehow and my fear is that I will fuck up the next relationship if I don’t learn on this one.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 12:59 AM
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Yep, that’s the same one. I thought if I stay and don’t give a shit, I will have at least some free training ground. But apparently I still do give a shit. I keep asking myself: if I can’t handle this one, how can I handle the next?
/r/askMRP16/07/18 12:12 AM
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I definitely shouldn't have wasted my time getting mad at her.
/r/askMRP15/07/18 09:15 PM
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That's what I feared post-factum. I've read about withdrawing attention for her bad behaviour, but ended up sulking like a kid. And (as someone pointed out in one of the other posts), I've got no SMV as a leverage, at least in her eyes. Regarding frame, I am still trying to understand this concept. I sense that also because of being angry at her behaviour, I ended up in her frame. One more question: going by myself and leaving her behind is fine for action dates, but what with dates at home, lik…
/r/askMRP15/07/18 09:09 PM
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On whose end? Thanks in advance for elaborating
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/18 11:21 AM
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OYS #5 A late OYS, because I was abroad from Tuesday and just came back. Background: LTR of 6 years, moved apart, working at the same office. Successes: A trip abroad alone Giving myself challenges everyday Focusing on myself Failures: Still giving some shit about ex Relationship I'm still trying not to be a whiny bitch anymore. Me and my ex see each other from time to time, but I don't pay much attention to how all this turns out eventually. Of course sometimes I have my "old-me", overanalyzing…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/18 08:08 PM
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OYS #4 Background: LTR of 6 years, moved apart, working at the same office. Successes Keeping myself busy, trying to have fun Failures Letting my hamster spin from time to time Relationship After the last week's puke, I decided to stop whining about her and focus on myself. I try to fill my daily agenda to the brim. Fitness I finally got my membership and hit the gym. As I am a complete beginner, my plan is to groove the basic compound movement patterns with lighter weights for a month and then …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 08:09 PM
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You are making the presence or absence of a woman as being necessary for your happiness. I'm clearly giving too much shit about her. My suggestions.. git into latin dancing a lot... you''ll find that there a lot of hot women who want a man...they will prowl for them... you become the prize I like that idea. My company gives us multi-purpose cards, which we can use to get to gym or dancing classes for free, so it's not gonna be hard to do that. At first I'm hitting the gym, but dancing sounds fin…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/18 06:40 AM
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Yep, I guess it all boils down to STFU, lift and learn.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 06:10 AM
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That's a newbie question, but: how?
/r/askMRP27/06/18 10:16 PM
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Hey, I didn't expect people here actually care for particular users' stories. Good to see that. You can't punish somebody by taking away your attention if she doesn't want your attention to begin with. Solid advice, thanks for feedback.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 10:00 PM
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Yes, it looks cringey. I still have some hope that things will turn out well. Or maybe it's my wishful thinking that I'm gonna learn all of this Red Pill stuff and soon be able to seduce a woman on a whim. My goal now is to be more busy. I think the more I have to do, the less I think about all the relationship and stop overanalyzing things. I think some of those stupid mistakes I've made due to the simple fear of being alone.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/18 08:57 PM
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OYS #3 - 26/06/2018 Background: LTR of 6 years, moved apart, working at the same office. Successes I'm trying to organize my free time better. I've tried some new clothes and color combinations and love it. Failures I think I've fallen back from Beta to extreme Beta again. Relationship (ex)girlfriend still chatting me up at work, but at work only. No interactions outside the office. Last weekend I went to her flat (I still have got keys) to collect the last part of my stuff; she wasn't at home b…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/18 08:51 PM
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I'm gonna have the gym membership ready from the beginning of July. I've already visited it using the "first entry for free" offer and I loved the place. I didn't lift much, I was rather testing the waters, but already felt good afterwards. I guess I'm gonna start some serious lifting after a month or two after joining the gym - my body needs to accommodate for a new challenge. (Biceps are ready, because I've been doing curls at home, but the rest isn't). A few years ago I thought lifting is bor…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/18 05:59 PM
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Either you do things with her because you enjoy it for what it is, or stop doing it. Good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/18 08:06 PM
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OYS #2 A bit late OYS, because yesterday I got a valuable message from another Redditor, which gave me some insight on my situation, so I had to think it through. Thanks bro. Background: LTR of 6 years, moved apart, working at the same office. Successes I have been recently struggling internally and let my hamster go round in circles. I was spending too much time thinking negatively. After reading MMSLP, I have decided to just have fun - be more cocky, smiling, teasing people a bit. I feel bette…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 07:25 PM
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Thanks for the comment. Mrp doesn't promote monogamy. Maybe. But still I'm for monogamy. Your the fat kid who loves cake but could really diet if he wanted to. No one believes you because you are Fu of it. Yep, sometimes I don't have enough willpower to choose healthy food over junk. I'm slowly changing that.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 06:53 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. You aren't in an LTR. You don't live together. You aren't dating. This girl is an unhealthy occupation for you. Yep, that's what I was feeling deep inside, but was too scared to admit. I usually am not the first to go to this because information in these comments is so limited, but I'm going to suggest you next her and act like you don't know her well at all when you run into her, and certainly aren't interested in her. What I am thinking today is to keep seeing this gir…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 06:47 PM
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First post, first OYS - questions / opinions most welcome. Main issue Relationship is shit, but I want to keep trying. Background Not married, but the MRP philosophy appeals to me more than the "traditional" TRP. Don't want to fuck multiple women (for now), just need to be satisfied with one in an LTR. Before unplugging: LTR of 6 years, extreme Beta + Oneitis, which I think killed the relationship. First partner. Sex was decent for the first 2 years (4-5 times per week), then poor (1-2 times), t…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 06:57 PM
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