Select_Self_6377 Archive

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1	"Ok now swap the genders" Who would have guessed you can't handle a moderate statement that doesn't try to place one gender over another? Imagine thinking an egalitarian view is "trash." You literally prove all of my points to be true. Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 10:09 PM
1	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? Like I said, I get it, I can gather what you're about. You put so much toxicity into the world and so many nonsensical arguments that no matter how much time you spend on one, it's just a drop in the bucket. Not something you can be expected to remember, now matter how much time you spend on it. I bet you have multiple, toxic, arguments going on in your notifications right along with this one lmao. All against men, I assume. While I debate plenty of guys and gals on any number of topics, I bet y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 10:59 PM
1	Would men actually be happy if dating were easy? Has your opinion changed or been altered at all since posting this question? Also btw, clearly these anecdotal examples of women explaining why their relationships fizzled are not going to be the most reliable examples. How could they possibly know exactly what these men are thinking and what their thought processes are? They are just assuming this was THE problem instead of considering a million other things that could have contributed to the relationship ending. When asking about the internal …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 05:36 PM
1	"Ok now swap the genders" You seem to be pretty toxic and prejudiced against men to be talking like that. It's pretty ironic to hear you say something like that but be completely flabbergasted by a man who has similar complaints about women. Blaming the male gender for all problems instead of taking any accountability whatsoever is exactly what you are accusing "men" of doing to women. Listen sister, these Red Pill guys are out of their minds on most things, don't get me wrong, but the women around here are also painfull…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 05:27 PM
1	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? You are the one who responded to me and sought me out lol, even after you claimed you were done. Your logical abilities are clearly still rather lackluster. Reddit takes up very little of my time, and I have barely used this site. Your argumentation was so ridiculous and exhausting last time that shortly after, I stopped using the site entirely. I thought I'd give the Reddit cesspool one more chance a few days ago, only to IMMEDIATDLY have you, the exact same person lol, show up responding to me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 05:19 PM
5	Would men actually be happy if dating were easy? It would still not matter to most men. The only "downside" might be that it might be harder to find "the one" because you would enter into relationships so rapidly. At the same time, if you could just start over again and have the opportunity to date all kinds of people until you found the person you re most compatible with, the "downside" I just mentioned would be largely irrelevant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 02:52 AM
3	Would men actually be happy if dating were easy? Why do you want this to be the case so bad? What is the benefit for you if men want a chase? I guess I am more so asking, why are you so intent on contending there are "so many" guys who want life to be more difficult than it has to be? Even though essentially every guy here is telling you otherwise, you continue to hold onto your initial premise just as strongly. Why ask the question if you are not open to the answer?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 02:49 AM
3	Would men actually be happy if dating were easy? Yes, nearly all would be happier if dating were "easier." Just because a handful of men might dislike that change in dynamic, that does not change the reality that the vast majority of men would obvious welcome it. Why would anyone want to suffer or struggle more in life for no purpose?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 02:44 AM
1	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? I think you might be ranting and arguing online a little too often if you are really this inundated with toxic arguments that you really have no memory of any of them. That would make you the common denominator btw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 01:47 AM
1	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? I'm not upset, I'm annoyed you keep appearing in my notifications. I did neither: you did both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 10:01 PM
2	"Ok now swap the genders" Why? Most of the posts and comments I see from everyone here seem to imply users have little to no logical abilities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 09:49 PM
2	CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibility You can already do this, its just a very complicated and difficult process. I know someone who did this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 09:41 PM
1	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? Right, you wouldn't know anything about getting pissy would you? Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 09:31 PM
1	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? Do you engage in so many toxic discussions that you don't actually remember any of them? We literally just had a seemingly endless "debate" which amounted to you throwing a week's long tantrum over nothing and refusing to engage in good faith at all, but instead clinging to your faux outrage as a shield to hide behind. I highly doubt you have matured in just a month to the point where you can genuinely have a substantive discussion. I'm not interested in being your therapist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 09:20 PM
1	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? To be fair, you did not say "give up entirely," given your statements and the context of the conversation, that was the inference/summation I made. That's essentially what it sounded like you were saying. You said a whole bunch of things like "A romantic relationship is not a need" and "find hobbies" and "Broaden your horizons, live a joyful life. If you have a terribly unhappy life alone, what about a partner will fix that? And who wants to stay with someone who is always so unjoyful?" Given th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 09:14 PM
5	"redpilled" and NOT misogynistic? No, but it lowers mine a degree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 09:00 PM
2	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? You responded to me lol, jumping in on an entirely different discussion. You picked it up. I didn't send you anything. I don't mind conversations going any length, I just don't care to engage in any more conversations with you. They are utterly pointless as you have previously shown. Your behavior destroys discourse and has caused this reaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 08:57 PM
5	"redpilled" and NOT misogynistic? I mean, I'm glad to hear the compliments, but they seem rather circumstantial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 07:18 PM
2	Q4Men: Would you accept a woman with a “promiscuous past” if all the men she hooked up with were very unattractive? I would not really care that much either way. I am a pretty insecure person, so the only difference to me would be that I guess I would prefer she have been with guys who are conventionally unattractive before. That would imply that she genuinely does not care that much about looks, which is a good thing for many reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 07:01 PM
5	"redpilled" and NOT misogynistic? Now you	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 06:39 PM
1	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? This is the question that was asked, ok, I'm sorry if you took a more "nuanced" approach that I did not pick up on from your comments. ".Men are just as women are, capable of using intelligence and communication to express their loneliness in productive ways and explore mediums that bring them joy. You live in the year 2024 where you have access to more entertainment than ever before. Play video games, watch something sexy or romantic, write original stories, literally just live your life. If yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 06:25 PM
7	"redpilled" and NOT misogynistic? Say something nice about men then. It's weird to be asked to generalize about something like gender or race. "What is good about white people" "what is good about black people" "what is good about women," it's just weird. What, do you expect people to pull the ol "Asians are good at math" compliment? To offer a statement that compliments a generalized gender group is going to feel like stereotyping. A lot of women tend to be very kind, intelligent, gentle, and not fall into traits of aggression …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 06:19 PM
1	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? Who said it was? You are the one who is suggesting these guys should stop trying to find relationships and just focus on other hobbies instead. At least, that's what it feels like you're saying. If all you are advocating is people not rage posting online, then ok lol, not a particularly bold take but a take I have no issues with lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 06:06 PM
2	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? You have just decided that, universally, for an entire slew of people. Lmao. I am not interested in dealing with your obfuscating straw men that only serve to distract from what is actually being discussed. We both know you are just going to get pissed off and refuse to engage in good faith in about 2 seconds anyway, regardless of what is said. It has been multiple weeks at this point, I thought you would have let this go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 06:01 PM
1	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? That's really what it comes down to. You also believe, perhaps rightly, that a lot of these guys have very little chance to ever find what they want so you think they should just give up. Expect some to follow that, but don't be surprised when they don't. The question was raised, the obvious answer was given. If you don't like the obvious answer that should be painfully self-explanatory, then Idk what more to tell you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 05:55 PM
1	The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flake You are clearly confused. I made no "passive aggressive" comments to you and I never accused you of anything "insinuated" anything about you. You are looking for a boogeyman that does not exist. This was my comment to you, "Great points. I do however, wonder if you would continue to be consistent with this (imo correct) logic when it comes to the implications of your points. A ton of people on the "blue" side or whatever tend to immediately blame the allegedly lazy, terrible, or supposedly arbit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 01:58 AM
1	The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flake You can also just put "no pill" as I have done. I also never stated "blue pill" have a specific belief system, I pointed out the trends I have noticed in the argumentation of people labeled as "blue pill." The explanation of the pill on this very community also describes certain trends such as highlighting feminism as a common component. As Blue Pill is anti RP, and as you explained exists within a spectrum of other colors, that would also suggest there may be certain trends among the arguments …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 01:49 AM
1	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? "Going your own way" is a pretty stupid rule to impose upon yourself in the first place. It is also unreasonable to expect people who don't want to do that to simply forget their natural inclinations and desires. Obviously developing toxic self-defeating views is not the answer, but for most people, neither is simply giving up. It might work for certain individuals, and all the power to them. But for you people to suggest that to beat loneliness you embrace being lonely and give up on what you a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 01:35 AM
2	Deconstructing Dating: The Advantage of Men The only problem with this is the reality that women don't really want men that much. Being pushed into relationships with men by a desire for children, heteronormative cultural expectations, a desire for economic or social status increases, or to satisfy the occasional lust for masculinity from only the most desirable of men, does not bode well for most guys. Women have little reason to want a relationship with any man who is not among the top level of desirability. They are better off single (…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 09:11 PM
1	Deconstructing Dating: The Advantage of Men Nvm, this is also a pretty good response lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 09:04 PM
1	Deconstructing Dating: The Advantage of Men Lmao this is the only correct response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 09:04 PM
1	The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flake That analogy doesn't really make sense, it's more like asking a Christian about Christian beliefs only to find out they aren't practicing so they don't actually know. A perfectly understandable reason why they don't know the answers to the questions but it was also not an unreasonable question to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 08:51 PM
1	The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flake Idk, labeling yourself as blue pill might have something to do with it. Do you share the beliefs I laid out or not? Or is there some combination of agree and disagree? I was not intending for this to be really complicated nor was expecting you to "represent" anyone but yourself. Idk why you are being so combative about this. Again, have I insulted you in some way? This is a very low-stakes conversation lol. I thought you might have some comment about anything I have said, apparently that is not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 08:24 PM
1	The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flake Ok lol. I never claimed I did know what you think based on your flair. That was kind of the whole point of my question to you. Normally I would just drop this because you do not seem interested in any type of conversation and are displaying inexplicable levels of hostility and combativeness with seemingly no catalyst (have I unwittingly insulted you or your beliefs in some way?) but I am genuinely curious about your positions. It is so frustrating to hear people completely ignore and belittle th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 08:12 PM
0	Q4W: How would you react if your boyfriend told you he stalked you for a while before you got together? Whatever you say Dr. Pavlov.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 08:06 PM
0	The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flake What? "I wonder if you would be consistent with the implications of your logic unlike other people marked blue pill." That was my immediate question. You didn't answer the first time so I explained to you what I think those "blue pill" beliefs are. You can either agree with the blue pill position, disagree with it, or refute my interpretation of that narrative as unrepresentative of blue bill. But I don't understand the dodge you are attempting rn. I chose your comment to make my remarks because…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 08:02 PM
0	The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flake I didn't accuse you of anything lol. I'm not really very familiar with what these labels are, but it seems to me the people marked "blue pill" are usually quick to attribute every relationship/dating woe to misogyny, male laziness, etc. etc. You however bring up differences in libido and the "risk-reward" dynamic that differs between men and women. I agree with all of that. There are so many posts that talk about how men don't put in enough effort, they are only unattractive because they can't u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 07:43 PM
0	Q4W: How would you react if your boyfriend told you he stalked you for a while before you got together? Its not really the interest in psychology that I am referring to lol. It's more the "anything you say you are interested in I have to test you to make sure you acre actually good at it" or the note taking of your "test subject" during ostensible leisure activities that seems weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 07:21 PM
0	Q4W: How would you react if your boyfriend told you he stalked you for a while before you got together? Your own comments here seem to be pretty off-putting as well, just saying. You seem very interested in psychoanalyzing and testing people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 07:10 PM
2	Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating? I would happily trade and reverse the "traditional blueprint" if possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 07:02 PM
2	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? Indeed. And yet more obvious reasons why the OP's question does not make much sense. It is all rather obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 06:59 PM
–	A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that. Women have a lot of problems in modern society. They face a lot of sexism but directly and institutionally. There are a lot of unfair aspects of society that negatively impact women; but the relationship sphere is not among those. The vast majority of women have incredible levels of choice and freedom when it comes to relationships. They have essentially free reign in the dating market and usually hold all of the cards. They can, and do, choose to live their dating/relationship life however they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 06:57 PM
0	The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flake Great points. I do however, wonder if you would continue to be consistent with this (imo correct) logic when it comes to the implications of your points. A ton of people on the "blue" side or whatever tend to immediately blame the allegedly lazy, terrible, or supposedly arbitrary actions by men for all the problems brought up in reddit spaces such as this one. They blame the "actions" of men for every single problem instead of having a more nuanced discussion that includes actions of men (and wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 06:49 PM
0	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? While this is an exaggeration, I am still going to say it to illustrate my point. "You don't need to eat food, you can just try other hobbies instead! If you have picky tastes, why do you continue to waste your time with that whole eating thing? Just play videogames instead!" Obviously eating and having a relationship are not equally important, but the principle is the same. You can't honestly expect someone to just "forget" a natural inclination or deep desire simply because they haven't had su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 06:39 PM
–	Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort. I bet there are a few things going on here. #1, at the beginning of a relationship men enter with an incredible (and unsustainable) level of enthusiasm. They are incredibly attracted to their female partner in a way that women are not attracted to men. Men have higher sex drives and are generally speaking the initiators, they spend a lot of time trying to "win over" a woman. This requires a a high level of constant effort and dedication that is based largely on lust/desire, a lust /desire that f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 06:35 PM
1	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? I don't disagree with the phenomenon you are describing, but I find it hilarious and ridiculous that you are trying to attribute it to what a relatively small group of people say on weird corners of the internet instead of other, much more obvious explanations lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 06:16 PM
4	RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why? Why did you even ask this question? The answer is painfully obvious. They don't "go their own way" because they clearly want a relationship with a woman. Humans, well at least men, are biologically hardwired to crave intimacy with the opposite sex. Plus. studies show that most men are far better off in their lives if they are in a long-term relationship with a woman (women don't really desire/need/become better off with men in the same way which is partly the reason why there are so many "red pi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 06:10 PM
1	If men go away women would not look back Your opinion is not really relevant tbh. You have proven that to be the case over and over again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 06:02 PM
1	What’s your opinion on the 4B movement coming to America? I'm sorry, but I don't really understand your point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 06:01 PM
1	I would rather be single than settle for a man. Just make sure your "7-mile long list" is made up of things that are ACTUALLY important standards vs shallow preferences that would not matter or preclude you from having a meaningful relationship. Everyone's standards are different, but you should be honest with yourself about what your standards actually are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 07:19 AM
1	If men go away women would not look back The fact that you can't fathom this incredibly obvious reality for many males shows you are out of touch and have no frame of reference to understand. Essentially all women are deemed attractive in one way or another. Even if a woman doesn't want male attention, she will usually get it, even from awful guys. From your frame of reference, one must "always be an option" because almost all women have plenty of options in a partner, it's not hard to technically find one (even if the choices are poor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 07:14 AM
2	“women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’ You are saying this that are totally true, but don't you find it a little ironic that you are accusing him of deflecting the issue to women when you are doing the same thing in reverse? It's almost like a sense of moderation and perspective is important. It's almost like the world is not black and white and you can't have someone to scapegoat for every problem. Almost like there can be multiple factors to "blame" for an issue like this...	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 04:21 AM
1	Toxic women have little incentive to change because some men are just suckers for them. Pretty much. As you say though, there is very little reason for this to ever change.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 04:16 AM
1	If men go away women would not look back No, it clearly does lol. Being unwanted inherently makes them not only "less of an option" but not an option at all. It's not about these guys being unwilling, it is that they are unable. They are not an option if nobody wants them. What are you not understanding about this? I have summarized your position and asked you to clarify, now you try to summarize my position. Before you respond or argue against my position, I want to see if you even understand what I am saying. Summarize what I have be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 04:15 AM
1	If men go away women would not look back No, they aren't an option to their sister's friend, that's the argument. A lot of guys are not options to anyone because they are fundamentally deemed undesirable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 02:30 AM
1	If men go away women would not look back You are all over the place. You said, "Men keep telling me that they find pretty much all women attractive. Men aren't forced to stay alone." There you go, you have been informed that men find women more attractive than vis-versa. Unless you are about to tell me that women claim "pretty much all men are attractive." I would love that to be true, but it is clearly not true. I'm not sure why you are arguing this point, you claim to disagree but then everything you say is not actually in opposition…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/24 12:07 AM
1	If men go away women would not look back But all men are options for some woman somewhere, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/24 12:03 AM
2	If men go away women would not look back Oh, I misunderstood. I thought you were ripping on the OP for "wanting a girlfriend." The amount of ridicule directed at cis-men for literally anything around these parts has me on defense mode.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/24 12:02 AM
1	If men go away women would not look back I am sure it happens, absolutely, but it is exceedingly rare (especially in comparison to the other way around). Men do find most women attractive, so you are just not correct. Even objectively less attractive women are not "invisible" to the vast majority of men. The fact of the matter is a lot or even most men are not only "invisible" to women, but are seen as actively revulsive. You cannot conflate the two situations, they are clearly not the same. By the way, has your friend ever bothered to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/24 03:05 AM
2	If men go away women would not look back You are ridiculing the guy simply for simply saying he wants to date a woman, "wants a girlfriend" on a dating reddit page no less lol. Men just can't win, no matter what people here will rip them a new one. Apparently you can label a guy toxic and justify complete lack of empathy because he has the audacity to say (on a dating post) he wants to date a woman. There isn't exactly a lot of fairness or intellectual honesty going around as far as I can tell. A lot of these types of Reddit communitie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/24 03:00 AM
1	If men go away women would not look back Nobody is forced into a relationship, rightfully so (well, throughout history and in some cases that is not true but we are talking bout free societies, at least I am). "Yep. So basically, men aren't forced into relationships. What you mean is that men want relationships more than women do, for very obvious reasons." Yes, correct. I might have been misunderstanding your other comments because it seems you agree with me. I'm just confused as to why you said this, "Men keep telling me that they fi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/24 02:56 AM
1	If men go away women would not look back I'm not really sure what you mean by that. If I understand the comment I was responding to correctly, you seem to think all men "have options" or that all men represent likely options for women. Not sure if you meant that or not, but I disagree with that. A lot of men are totally undesirable by essentially all women. This is not an insignificant number of men, if you remove cultural bias and heteronormative influences, it might even be a majority of men (I tend to believe it is).	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/24 02:50 AM
4	If men go away women would not look back Lol, men just can't win around here. Apparently you can label a guy toxic and justify complete lack of empathy because he has the audacity to say (on a dating post) he wants to date a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 04:28 PM
2	If men go away women would not look back You are disproving your own point. "Men keep telling (you) that they find pretty much all women attractive" yet they are still unable to find a relationship. These men are alone, not because they chose it, but because they are simply unwanted and undesired by essentially all women. Men can "chose" women all the love long kday, it's meaningless if they aren't chosen back. Nearly all women would be "chosen back" if they wanted it, a massive percentage of men would never be chosen back. Women chose…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 04:21 PM
2	If men go away women would not look back No, they aren't, that's literally one of the main points of this post lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 04:16 PM
1	If men go away women would not look back It doesn't feel like that most of the time. Going through the motions and giving lip service once in a great while doesn't exactly scream believability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 04:14 PM
1	Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction. I'm not saying you or anyone has to wait on women hand and foot lol. Nobody owes anybody anything that way. I was just pointing out the (imo) obvious reality if imbalance and why it is the case. You are bringing in sociological arguments and things you want to be true based on how you want society to function. I'm not talking about what I want, I'm talking about what is. You are crossing between what you want and what is and don't seem to be acknowledging the difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 06:42 PM
1	Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction. Fair enough, but data is usually better than anecdotes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 05:28 PM
1	Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction. Oh, I totally agree that men are important for society at large. I'm not saying women don't need men from a general societal perspective. That's not what I was talking about though. We don't live in a communist or socialist state where everything has to be done for the benefit of the whole. We, rightfully, live in an individualist society. We have the freedom to do what is best for us individually. I was talking about individual men and women doing what they want/is best for them individually, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 05:27 PM
1	I noticed something interesting. At least to me. I've noticed many subreddits pertaining to cheating consist of women mostly. That is a non-representative anecdote. It's not even representative of men on this sub. Argue real points and focus on real disagreements, don't make them up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 02:39 PM
1	Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction. That does not seem like a very solid or intellectual position to base your conclusions on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 02:34 PM
1	Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction. In what way? I have given actual data points (well I spoke of the data points not directly stated the numbers because I don't think links are allowed) that suggest men benefit far more from relationships with women than vis versa. Plus it just makes logical sense. Emotionally, sexually, socially, men want women a lot more than women want men. That seems like common sense imo. We also see the result of this with women's "standards" as we are discussing. If women truly were that desperate, they wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 02:32 PM
1	Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction. That really doesn't pass the sniff test my guy. If it was based on "gaining" then these women would simply stay with the husband and have even more. It's not about gain, its about the fact that women want to get divorced more. They don't value relationships as much in a lot of situations and are often better off single. Men meanwhile, are more willing to "settle" and are content and happy even if a relationship is not "perfect." Most relationships for men a re still a net-positive for their live…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 05:04 PM
1	Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction. You are going off of anecdotal evidence that is simply not representative of reality. I'm not sure if we are allowed to post links here, but just look at the studies on this very question literally all over the place. They support what I am saying. It's not "a load of bs," as far as I can tell, thems just the facts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 05:00 PM
3	I would rather be single than settle for a man. I mostly agree and I highly value individualism and individual freedom, but everyone should know the difference between standards and preferences. For example, you may prefer someone with a particular shade of brown hair, but if you meet someone with a slightly different shade, are you going to immediately turn them down? If one cannot physically be attracted to someone with a certain hair color/style, then ok, that's how it has to be. However, for most people, a lot of preferences would not act…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 03:09 AM
3	Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction. The facts just are not there to support you. Men gain far more from relationships than women. Beyond the studies that directly say this, just look to the divorce statistics which you are probably very much aware of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 02:54 AM
1	Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction. It's not necessarily "different" than most of what you said, its a different way of looking at it. The difference is that she won't be "mad" about not getting her top 20-30% man. She may be disappointed, but it won't cause her nearly enough disappointment to warrant lowering her standards. The difference between men and women in this regard is that most men are perfectly content with an "equivalent value" (again, I don't like this phraseology but its the best I got right now) woman while women m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 02:51 AM
5	Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction. I don't think that way of looking at it is helpful. I think of it this way: a "50th percentile man" (as if it is that easy to judge value, but just for the sake of discussion) is perfectly content if he can get into a relationship with a 50th percentile woman. That man will likely find her attractive and is statistically likely to have a significantly improved life by being in a relationship with her. A "50th percentile" woman, meanwhile, does not feel the same way towards a 50th percentile man.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 11:41 PM
4	Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction. Again, it's not about "balance." Nobody is telling women they need to improve in that way because they don't. In general, women are already desirable, attractive, and make men's lives better if they get into a relationship with one. The same is not true the other way around. There is no reason for improvement when they can already get what they want and are perfectly content, happy, and successful by simply refusing to lower their standards or settle. Were I in their shoes, I can't imagine doing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 11:05 PM
5	Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction. It's not about caring, this is just how it works. This is essentially just supply and demand capitalism as applied to dating. The only reason it used to be different was as a result of patriarchal repression of women in general. That's not good for anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 11:01 PM
-2	What’s your opinion on the 4B movement coming to America? All true, but the number of "ugly women" is far smaller than the amount of unattractive men. " Ugly women are not getting love; ugly women are not getting respect; the only thing ugly women are getting is grown ass men that behave worst than her children that treat her better!" Perhaps true, but there are relatively few of these women you speak of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 10:52 PM
4	Women justify their biases against men all the time, but men are condemned for doing the same This lol. This is such an obvious concept, I am flabbergasted by the fact that so many people fail to grasp it. The women on these pages seem to demonstrate this a lot. They want to ignore everything the other gender has to say simply because women also have topics they want addressed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 06:54 PM
7	Women justify their biases against men all the time, but men are condemned for doing the same They are not equally significant, at all. They should not be considered equally significant. But that doesn't mean you should simply ignore the less significant issue. Being shot by a gun is far worse than getting punched in the face, but that doesn't mean its acceptable to all go around punching each other lol. So many people are addicted to false dichotomy's and playing a zero sum game. Far too many women want to ignore any man's perspective or struggle just because women also have struggles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 06:52 PM
2	What’s your opinion on the 4B movement coming to America? I really think "I'm all for it" is a pretty awful way of looking at it, as if anyone should be "all for" men not being desirable partners (leading to disappoint for women and deep sadness for men). But the rest of what you said, yeah, unfortunately for everyone that makes a lot of sense. Its hard to deny tbh. Even your caveats are not massive as women can get arguably better sex not in a long-term relationship with a man, most women are bisexual anyway. They can also adopt children or use donors…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 06:33 PM
0	What’s your opinion on the 4B movement coming to America? Indeed. However I would not say that the men left behind are "overwhelmingly" believing that to be the solution, in fact I think it is far from that, but it is certainly a very vocal group. It just makes logical, sociological, and biological sense why a large percentage of men are simply not desirable (for a relationship, ). it is totally reasonable to be frustrated and saddened by this it but to lash out against women and reality itself is bizarre.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 06:28 PM
0	What’s your opinion on the 4B movement coming to America? I'm honestly surprised it hasn't caught on as much here already. In a way it has, just not in an organized way. It's a sad, depressing reality but the fact of the matter is, a lot of women are generally better off not in relationships with men. The majority of men are not attractive and women can find fulfilling lives outside of relationships as studies have shown. Studies also show that men are far better of in a relationship, which is part of what makes this all so unfortunate. Furthermore, ot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 06:25 PM
2	Why do you think (some) men, particularly on the internet, care about women ending up alone? It sounds like you answered your own question. A lot of guys know they are deeply unattractive (for a variety of reasons, including plenty of legitimate reasons and also some shallow ones) to women and have an incredibly low likelihood of ever having a meaningful romantic relationship. This is a very sad, depressing, and frustrating realization. This frustration and sadness is totally warranted actually. However, a lot of people react to realizations like this by lashing out. For some people who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 10:38 PM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? I don't think anybody would describe me as the angry one in this dynamic lol. I didn't call you any of those things, you are ascribing those derogatory statements to yourself. No, its quite clear that I know how to debate. I believe our conversation, both before and after your tantrum, indicates I know a thing or two about persuasive argumentation and navigating contentious discourse. I get the sense that the idea of a "debate" is a rather new concept for you. Instead of ranting about how awful …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 03:06 AM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? Are you intentionally misinterpreting and mischaracterizing essentially everything about this conversation or are you actually this befuddled by what is going on here? (Confusion may explain the seemingly random anger on your part) Literally every single statement you made in your previous comment was astoundingly oblivious to the realities of what has been said in this thread. My statements, "you clearly lost" and similar statements calling out your lack of a substantial argument were due to th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 12:08 AM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? Again, you are proving my point. Your hypocrisy and projection is unmatched. Everything you just wrote is so clearly attributable to you and not me lol. You don't have an argument, you have been countered at every turn, I don't blame you for not feeling capable of taking debate any further. Sometimes your best just isn't enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 03:29 PM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? Incorrect again. You chose to ignore my arguments as soon as you felt the slightest bit insulted. It didn't matter that you clearly misunderstood what I was saying; a misunderstanding which I then clarified, including with an attached apology (granted not a particularly grand apology considering I don't think I owe it) for using a style of argumentation that hurt your feelings. This did not matter, you still used that injury to your sense of pride as an opportunity to avoid responding to the act…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 04:13 AM
2	To the men who complain about loneliness First of all, that analysis represented a marked improvement from anything else I have seen from you here thus far. I will give you that. It's actually coherent and not outright contradictory or outwardly vile! See what happens when you take a little time to engage in actual critical thinking instead of spewing the first hateful thought that comes to mind in a fit of angst? Anyway, while you make some important and legitimate points, you are once again falling into the problem of viewing everyth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/24 03:26 AM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? Lol, talk about being thin skinned. You don't have to accept any apology, that's up to you. I was indeed trying to make a joke at your expense, because you very much deserve it. If that is the extent of your tolerance for criticism then so be it. The fact of the matter is however, that I was not trying to insult you the way you describe. I would hardly consider you the peak of maturity, what with the crying and retreat at the slightest hint of criticism or lack of complete cordiality according t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/24 02:50 AM
1	To the men who complain about loneliness And I believe you think that. Of course you would never actively say that. The problem is, you didn't think any of your positions through at all. You see, I was pointing out the flaws inherent in your (flawed) logic. Given the logic and argument structure you laid out, it implies you are blaming women for SA. Obv you don't actually think that, correctly so, hence the fundamental problem with your line of reasoning as you apply it to other things. Your selective use of attack lines, hypocrisy, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 04:59 AM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? First of all, I'm sorry you felt so insulted by some of the things I said there, clearly my point did not come across as intended. I was not actually trying to treat you "like a dumbfuck" nor was I trying to suggest you are racist or unaware of what cheating is. Obv you are not on a crusade against a certain ethnicity and obv you know what cheating is. Those were jokes ad absurdum to illustrate my point. I was trying to be snarky, poke a little fun at you and highlight what I perceive to be the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 04:45 AM
1	To the men who complain about loneliness Its pretty rich that you are talking about contorting ideas to fit a narrative; considering that is all you have been doing on this rant of a post you created. Of course I did not "see it that way" in refence to your logic suggesting women are to blame for SA. Reading comprehension is a skill you should probably work on, considering I responded to you logic with "that is pretty despicable," a far cry from "I'd rather see it that way." You claimed that people should not complain about being victi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 03:52 AM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? There is so much wrong with what you said its kind of hard to begin responding lol. The Dobbs case was just that, a court case. It was a vote 6-3 among a panel of Supreme Court Justices, this is hardly indicative of a mass evangelical revival in the minds of millions of Americans. There is only one "movement" on the political right in the US, and that is Trumpism. MAGATs do not care at all about religion and don't know crap about theology or religious values. They are degenerates with no real ph…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 09:43 PM
1	To the men who complain about loneliness Those were your words. Your own take that clearly had 0 thought put into it led to the response. Don't get mad at me for your own inability to formulate a coherent and consistent argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 06:56 PM
1	To the men who complain about loneliness "saying you have it harder in a specific area of life is okay. What isn't okay is blaming the world for it and doing nothing about it yourself." So now you're blaming women for being raped and sexually assaulted??? That is pretty despicable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 06:25 AM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? That is just clearly ridiculous. Sure you have religious types who want all women to be holy virgins, but such sentiment are rapidly dwindling in America and the West. I'm not shedding any tears over the decline in this type of religiosity either. No, most men do not care if the women the date have sexual or romantic history. Sure, very few people of either gender would want their partners to have been sex workers or the most undiscerning dirtbag who has screwed a million people over the years, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 06:20 AM
3	To the men who complain about loneliness First of all, your name is "Defundisraelnow." Pretty safe to assume you are on the side of Palestine, I think it was a more than fair reason to suggest what I did. We don't have to play this game. Secondly, you said that "nobody is going to be empathetic to your personal issues" because "everyone has their own shit to worry about." You also said that this represents"adequate empathy." So don't sit there, lying, and pretending you are clueless as to "where I got this from." Stand by your words or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 11:41 PM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? I was simply commenting about something in your post. I've moved on lol, it's all good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 10:30 PM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? No, I didn't say that imbalance was itself a good thing. In fact, I desperately wish it wasn't that way, I whish women wanted men as much as vis versa. I said relationships are still good for men DESPITE that common imbalance. This is just factually true given multiple studies that you can easily find. You claim many women do not what the situation you described in your third comment. Fair enough, that is very plausible. However, plenty do as well and your comment does change the stats I mention…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 10:17 PM
6	To the men who complain about loneliness The OP is never going to read or respond to this. Her stated goal is to only attack terrible incel arguments because "she's bored." She has not tackled a single solid argument in this thread. She is just doing this to troll and mock vulnerable people because she thinks it's fun. Putting other people down is empowering ig, classic bully logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 09:26 PM
1	To the men who complain about loneliness Of course. If you were capable of reading anything longer than a two sentence reddit post you would already know this. In my comments, literally all I am asking people to do is extend some empathy and common decency for a subsection of men experiencing profound loneliness and who are prone to depression and suicide. Turns out, the prospect of simply being kind or expressing any empathy or attempt at understanding is far too much to ask of you. Empathy for those less fortunate who happen to be ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 09:15 PM
1	To the men who complain about loneliness Right, so your take is nobody should show empathy for anyone they don't directly know, ever. Funny how you seem to support the Palestinian cause given your username despite, ostensibly not knowing Gazans directly. How about we extend human decency to people we encounter, golden rule and all that. Not being responsible for other people's problems doesn't give you the right to be an uncaring jerk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 09:07 PM
2	To the men who complain about loneliness Well said. Well said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 05:32 PM
2	To the men who complain about loneliness I really appreciate this comment. You acknowledge the nuance that exists for this issue, and inherently for many other issues. You acknowledge that of course there are other things at play, and men are far from the only ones struggling. Still, that does not mean we shouldn't' address things like male loneliness as well. Life is not a zero sum game. The OP want's everyone to actively reject discussing any issue that does not directly pertain to her; that level of self-absorption is sad in my opin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 05:27 PM
1	To the men who complain about loneliness It's almost like society and political or cultural issues are complex and nuanced. It's almost like there can be many causes and areas that should be addressed. Its almost like red pill misogyny AND a lack of societal support could both be factors at play at the same time. Crazy how few people understand this concept.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 05:15 PM
1	To the men who complain about loneliness Idk why it was so long, critical thinking sometimes takes a little time ig. Can't expect everyone to understand. Not in the age of social media when a few sentences and an emoji will do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 04:42 PM
6	To the men who complain about loneliness "You don't need empathy from others (you're not going to get it)" You and the other people you speak of are incapable of showing empathy? Or is it just nobody is capable/willing to show empathy specifically for men? I would believe either one at this point tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 04:34 PM
2	To the men who complain about loneliness I don't know what else you want me to say here. You look at the things she's saying and don't see an issue. You don't see disdainful statements as insulting. Clearly our views of empathy etiquette, etc are not the same. We are not going to agree if we fundamentally don't value the same things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 04:27 PM
2	To the men who complain about loneliness Lol, it's kind of crazy to think how far apart two people can be. Because if you actually did look at her post history, and saw all the comments attacking men for being lonely, and you STILL say that, then jeez we really do come from different perspectives. Safe to say, I believe you are so obviously incredibly wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 04:25 PM
3	To the men who complain about loneliness It's almost like these people have no interest in actually addressing what you are saying. It's easier to create a straw man caricature so they can belittle and mock people less well off than themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 04:21 PM
1	To the men who complain about loneliness Your hypocrisy is unreal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 04:20 PM
2	To the men who complain about loneliness Not at all tbh. You clearly didn't read what I wrote otherwise you wouldn't be saying that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 04:19 PM
1	To the men who complain about loneliness You have to actually look at her post history I think. A ton of her posts are just trying to dunk on and attack men for daring to express loneliness or vocalize any issue they are facing. Suddenly her progressivism shifts to pure conservative "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" when talking about lonely or suffering men. If you don't see that, idk what to tell you. It is quite obvious imo that she is on a crusade rn. At the very least, her constant engagement with this topic and already formed…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 04:12 PM
0	To the men who complain about loneliness This is the problem with your demonstrably bad faith argumentation, it leads you completely astray. You can't respond to me in a good faith way because you are not interested in having a good faith discussion about this, your "question" is not genuine. I clearly did not shift all the blame to anyone else. I never said all the responsibility lies on A or B. You are making this up completely. Also, I specifically acknowledged that these men are far from the only ones who have problems to deal with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 04:09 PM
6	To the men who complain about loneliness Glancing at your comment history, it appears as though you are the one projecting. Like, completely. You don't have to pretend your post represents a good faith question that is totally neutral, you aren't fooling anybody. You seem to be obsessed with attacking men for being lonely, wow, how empowered you are. Anyway, no, I never said there is no aspect of personal responsibility. I am the first to admit I am the farthest thing from perfect. OBVIOUSLY society and all the external factors are not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 06:00 AM
24	To the men who complain about loneliness Really? "Why aren't you better" is your question? I find it amazing how little empathy or care is extended to so called "lonely men." More than that, you are clearly expressing a degree of disgust, this is a completely loaded question with intent to insult. You don't take into account the obvious answers of social anxiety, depression, fear, lack of knowledge, lack of parental or peer guidance from teenage years on, sense of hopelessness, lack of opportunity, lack of wealth, etc. etc. The amount …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 05:34 AM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? I didn't say any of that lol. I didn't say an ostensibly healthy relationship is bad for a man, in fact I said the exact opposite; it's BETTER for men. Relationships have been proven to be more beneficial for the lives of men than the lives of women. I never said toxic relationships are more balanced, in fact I said the exact opposite of that. Toxic relationships like we are talking about are inherently UNBALANCED. I never said anything about women taking money in a divorce, in fact I specifical…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 03:23 AM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? Lol. You wrote two sentences and I was referring to the second one instead of the first. So sorry I missed the depth of your philosophical treatise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 12:30 AM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? You were very clearly belittling the notion that men could be upset by the alleged pickiness of women. That was the position I was responding to. I pulled the exact quote I was responding to. If you don't want to stand by your own statements and don't want to engage in good-faith, that's on you. I am not going to force you to acknowledge what you said. You are the one I was responding to. I showed the exact quote from you that I was referencing and you don't want to talk about it. That's fine. B…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 09:46 PM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? I am not saying women don't like their male partners, they probably often don't but not always. Its just at the end of the day, the "leverage" (if you want to call it that perhaps there is a better, less pejorative word) I described is till logically present. The fact that women have historically tended to to "take a back seat" in the ways you mentioned only furthers my point. Women often have no reason to be in a relationship with a guy, it often only detracts from their lives as you describe. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 09:05 PM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? I literally copy and pasted a quote from you, the quote I was responding to. If you don't want to respond back you are under no obligation to do so, but whatever weird dodge you are trying to do right now instead of formulating a counter point is a waste of both of our times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 06:47 PM
1	There's no such thing as having standards set too high I totally understand all of that. Just out of curiosity though, and I understand if it is the case for you, is there really that narrow limitations on what you find attractive? Like from my perspective, I honestly think the vast majority of women are physically attractive and very beautiful. Some are no doubt more attractive than others but for the most part, I think most women are good looking. I kind of thought most guys were the same way tbh. I really cannot relate to narrowness in attraction…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:15 AM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? You were the one who stated "and when they don't they complain that women are picky, but the fact is that you can only be attractive to some women with a specific taste because tastes are so different" are you not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 12:48 AM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? It's not misandrist to state reality. Women, in most cases, hold far more of the leverage in relationships. This is simply basic common sense. Men get more out of relationships than women do (statistically proven time and again), women file for divorce far more as compared to men, men are more attracted to women than vis-versa, etc. etc. If women don't find the "right" male partner (generally the top 20-30% of men) they can simply walk away. Women are better off single than being with an average…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 12:12 AM
2	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? And women's tastes happen to be FAR more picky compared to men. There is nothing inherently wrong about that and it makes perfect sense biologically, societally, and practically. It's not women's "fault" in any way that they have legitimate standards than many men fail to reach. But at least be honest about it and stop trying to conflate situations that are demonstrably different. Women and men, generally speaking, are not the same level of picky when it comes to relationships. You are lying to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 12:03 AM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? Honestly lol. The way you put this I find pretty funny, but true. The biggest thing here is lack of honesty, people are constantly harping on advice, specifically for men, that while useful, is often phrased in the most patronizing BS ways possible. People can just say its overall a good thing to be healthy and have goals rather than "oh live your best life" honestly they can can it with that garbage. Just be honest with people you are giving advice to, jeez.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 12:00 AM
2	Not settling until mid 40s? Ending up cheating statistically? I bet you just exude empathy	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 11:53 PM
2	There's no such thing as having standards set too high I mostly agree, but everyone should know the difference between standards and preferences. For example, you may prefer someone with a particular shade of brown hair, but if you meet someone with a slightly different shade, are you going to immediately turn them down? If one cannot physically be attracted to someone with a certain hair color/style, then ok, that's how it has to be. However, for most people, a lot of preferences would not actually preclude them from having a meaningful relationshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 09:53 PM
1	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script First of all, all the people rating themselves as 10/10 as well as the girl who would so easily rate herself as higher than another person is all really tacky and self-absorbed behavior. More importantly, and what I think your post is really trying to get at, is this idea that the "sisterhood" of women is turning everything into a genderized conflict. The idea and feeling that all women are united in all circumstances against men, and making everything a battle against men in some capacity is ve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 05:02 PM
1	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion Lol, this double standard and a-hole behavior is exactly the kind of thing I was trying to implicitly cover.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:42 PM
1	How do I address my boyfriend's weight without being disrespectful? This will probably be removed because I am a guy, but I feel like the answer is really obvious. If you are actually in a good relationship with someone, you can be honest. Tell him you are attracted to him but really want to be even more attracted to him. You think that will happen if he works out a little bit. I find it hard to imagine this wouldn't at least be a little motivating.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/03/24 10:40 PM
5	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion Alright, if you say so. Nothing about that really makes much sense to me on any level, but whatever I guess. I personally cannot fathom the thought of rating myself a 10/10 on anything, even if I was a 10/10 (decidedly not he case). It sounds absurd, tacky, and super self-absorbed to me. Then again, all I know is that I know nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 10:12 PM
2	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion Interesting thoughts, there is probably some truth here. I think a lot of men hate their appearance or don't really care about it at all. Most definitely don't think of their looks as a positive, at least in the same way that many women do about their own looks. Thing is, for better or worse, women are complimented about their looks all the time; whether they want it or not. Women are generally very supportive of each other and will constantly give off affirmation and heap praise on each other, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 10:08 PM
2	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion How would you respond if a man said he was easily a 10/10 when you think he clearly isn't? Would you think it's equally as empowering and wholesome?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 09:59 PM
11	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion Fair enough, but if a guy did the same thing, and called himself a 10/10 when he clearly was not, would you have the same reaction? Somehow I don't think most people would support a below average guy saying he is a 10/10, it would be chauvinist trash and a red flag. What's more, those people would probably be right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 09:56 PM
2	In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they please I can respect that. I'm sure its hard for everyone to find true compatibility. Thing is though, there would be countless guys who I am sure would not lose interest, but you would not be interested in them; nobody is. That is where the dynamic is different. For you it is an issue of compatibility, totally understandable, but for guys its essentially an issue of impossibility. I have no idea what percentage of men this applies to, but I do know it continues to rise. I now see that you weren't tryi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 06:54 PM
1	In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they please Ok, that I do believe now. It's not that you don't have interactions, it's that they're not successful ones. You don't like the guys you match with. Not that you are wrong to, I bet they are mostly unattractive, weirdos, or jerks. At the same time, you should realize that most guys don't even get that. They can't even get a match or an interaction from a woman at all, much less a successful one. It sucks for all unattractive people, but it's clearly harder for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 12:42 AM
0	In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they please Unless you are actively pushing people away or not really trying, I find it highly doubtful you would actually have that much trouble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 05:23 AM
1	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations You don't seem to be using the word "average" correctly for this context. Women don't want an "average" (median/50th percentile of men) man. If a 50th percentile woman does not land a 20th or above percentile man, she is better off remaining single or dating another woman than "settling" for an "average" guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 11:44 PM