SelfHelpManiac Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	How NOT To Kiss Girls: Tips From A Serial Female Kisser This is adorable and it has my approval!	/r/seduction	04/11/17 10:36 PM
1	Request: Condom Etiquette Most of the time I'll put it on while I'm going down on the girl so there isn't that little awkward hiccup in the interaction.	/r/seduction	25/03/15 12:28 PM
1	I spend 30 minutes a day reading this pdf on DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy). It's made me more confident, less of an asshole, and given me the ability to relate to women and see myself as an equal, and not as some chump. I liked how I read this comment after reading the pdf and it's basically straight out of it :)	/r/seduction	17/03/15 01:01 PM
1	Get through OKCupid's Quickmatch faster and easier Aaaand, this is genius. The only problem is that this will surely attract a lot of unwanted people, which is kind of whack.	/r/seduction	15/03/15 06:29 PM
34	Who of you goes out clubbing solo? I would only go out solo because I run my own business and don't have to report to work at a specific time unlike my friends. My strategy was to get dinner at a place that has a bar (insert name of trendy sushi restaurant here) - go to the same restaurant a few times and befriend your bartenders (if its a good place they're have cute, american bartenders). Have a few drinks. You'll meet the manager, some of the wait staff. Don't sleep with the bartenders. Trust me on this one. You can bring home…	/r/seduction	13/12/14 09:44 PM
12	I have no problem meeting girls and talking to them, but I have no idea how to cross the "just friends" state and escalate things further romantically. This will usually clear itself up with some strong eye contact and physical touch. This should be done while first meeting her. Calibrate it - if multiple women are getting creeped out you're over doing it.	/r/seduction	13/12/14 09:27 PM
1	Everything was great until the end? This.	/r/seduction	27/06/14 01:55 PM
0	Everything was great until the end? Sh sh sh sh sh sh shiiiiit teeeeest! I think you reacted fine. You probably could have pushed harder to get into her place. "I need to use your bathroom," blah blah blah.	/r/seduction	26/06/14 05:46 PM
1	What do I still fear? I'm curious how you "agreed to hook up." That sounds so robotic and boring. It's cool to imply there is interest, but to outright say it just straight breaks the sexual tension. So, was there a contract or something?	/r/seduction	23/02/13 11:55 PM
3	What is a good first date location / activity and what advantages does it have over other places? Hey - I'd just like to add this because I've been going on a lot of dates lately and it's been cold / snowy / rainy here. I've gone on some fun dates like indoor rock climbing and sledding, but I've also been on more unconventional dates like going pillow shopping at Target. Just the other day I did the traditional dinner / drinks thing, which some guys will say isn't the best way to go (and, for the most part, I agree), but the important thing to remember is that whatever you end up doing, as e…	/r/seduction	11/02/13 02:28 PM
2	[FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update) Great story! If you're up for it, share your Word doc... I'm sure a bunch of us would appreciate it.	/r/seduction	30/01/13 09:12 PM